There is never an excuse to cheat NEVER ☹️

Thank you for sharing! I come from long line of adulterers, so I purpose myself to NOT repeat my family's mistakes and sins.

The Bible is very clear on this. know one can serve two masters one person will always lose out.

I have experienced all the stages with my partner and i have adjusted to talk about it with her and put our wants,frustrations and needs on the table for discussion and we are working through it hopefully we'll build something awesome we believe we hope we took the right path and thank you Shazmeen you are truly a blessing in courtship,relationships and marriage be blessed.

Glad to be part of this amazing community where Learning and growth is the norm. Keep giving us more Shazmeen.

It’s scary to think, in my two marriages (I am still in the second) that, unbeknown to me, there was a third party who was remotely directing, controlling and influencing my marriage. These men were “advising” my wife while I was busting my butt for our home, our family, and our future. Such was their advice that my first wife ultimately ended up indigent and on the street, finally passing away from alcoholism and untreated diabetes, and my current wife was left with an unwanted pregnancy and an STI.

@annabanzon313

11 ай бұрын

Dang consequences, but hopefully those consequences brought them closer to God. I have yet to see any consequences for the adulterers in my family and in my dating life.

@brandenburg2388

7 ай бұрын

Are you now looking after your current wife's baby?

@johnkamau4265

6 ай бұрын

Good question Are you looking after your wife's baby ⁉️

@alive4627

6 ай бұрын

@@johnkamau4265 - She terminated the pregnancy.

@acw079

4 ай бұрын

This is crazy... Karma came for them. Its not good playing with peoples reality. People tend to talk of men cheating but ive heard so many men tell me how their women were cheating when they were doing everything correctly.

8:47 in I pray that the current partner leave .. don’t let them get on their feet while dogging you out.. they want uncertainties (find out where they will sleep at night) , excitement( I’ll remove myself and resources ,they will see how much that other person really care ) ,passion (I will come and go as I please and treat them how they are suppose to be treated )

Good information, boy you find out who your friends are. That is for sure

Indeed reality . Thanks for sharing.

@shazmeenbank1630

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you for watching.

I am so confused my husbands affair lasted heavy for 6 months. I found the texts. Very nasty and sexual. He had pet names for her etc. but he says they was no flirting etc before she just sent these nasty texts. He says there was no sex but texts say yes He says he had no feelings for her but it has to be something for it to last that long etc. still hurting and he will not give me any answers. Btw. I suspected he was cheating. He was so vicious and vile to me for no reason and he was manscaping. I just don’t get it.

@awomansstory.2019

5 күн бұрын

They push you away, don’t they? I saw the same with my cheating husband.

Hmmm... So true and so well summerized to the point... Now what after stage 4... Circle begins!!!!

@shazmeenbank1630

2 жыл бұрын

Now after stage four... two choices and how to handle them. That will come out next week Friday

Very helpful :)

Very true ...

@shazmeenbank1630

2 жыл бұрын

Yes.

There is only one action for me, you cheat your gone I don't care what the excuse is I don't even want to know and your not coming back anywhere near me. Those are my standards and what ever someone else tries to tell me I will not listen. Anything you hide from your partner is cheating in this situation and a marriage ending as far as I am concerned. Also once a woman has taken another mans DNA I wouldn't ever allow her back in my life ever.

I’m going through it we haven’t had sex in months went to Texas to see new grandbaby for a week came home still nothing the whole time I was in Texas he barely wanted to stay on the phone now I have a new towel in my house don’t know where it came from he said I had it

am in the honeymoon phase and i feel like its over and about to enter a new phase...advise me how to manouver the next stage

Wow... Well I'm prob in stage 3ish...lol 2 years post d day the child they now have is almost 2. I'm struggling on a level I can't describe. We had 10 years together..before this

@awomansstory.2019

5 күн бұрын

I’m so sorry. I had my D Day 5 years ago. I know your pain.

Wow but at times do we fully trust them after reaching stage 4 and how do we gain back that trust fully koz to be honest am unable completely

So there's a difference between cheating and affair, and there are stages of an affair that are different from the stages of a relationship. Mmmh, thanks ma.

@shazmeenbank1630

2 жыл бұрын

You are so welcome. But cheating is cheating is cheating.

I think was an affair, she later monkey branch me and move on,am on a no contact since April 4 th 2022, and now she is on the same datingsite as me still no contact.

She bought a nice smelling hair lotion and brushes her hair extra hard to pull the eyes back to look younger because the co worker was a younger man she eventually lost that job now her new job their is no hair lotion no extra time on the hair and not so ready to go to work she also got defensive one night when I caught her about to text someone and I just happened to turn around and caught her but she didn’t get a chance to write anything

I went through all 4 stages. 52 years of marriage my husband had an affair. He broke it off and said he was sorry but I couldn't forgive him. Now we are divorce I can't go through that again. Am I wrong?

@awomansstory.2019

5 күн бұрын

You are not wrong. My husband cheated on our 27 year marriage.

All stages.

So she cheated with him on me to give him the better version of her once we were over with?

My husband skipped stage 1 and he never fought in stage 3. I found out 1 1/2yrs later.

@awomansstory.2019

5 күн бұрын

I feel your pain too.

Limerence

This video is great because it let me kwow every woman will cheat eventually so I wont get any deep than my waist.

Am in a relation with a married man I love him but I want to end it

@snowwhite2524

4 ай бұрын

Also, Google limerence during an affair.

@Regirl75

3 ай бұрын

You should

@jenniferschauf4970

Ай бұрын

You should.

@Regirl75

Ай бұрын

Did you leave the guy? Nothing good comes from an affair on all sides. The heartbreak a spouse feels when it’s exposed. Sleepless nights, weight loss, self esteem is shattered and the list goes on and on. My husband is having an affair and I have no clue who she’s is or if she knows about me. He is very tight lipped but I started to value myself and am seeking legal counsel. He is very much at fault so I don’t blame the other woman, unless she knows then that would be just as hurtful. I’m selling off everything and starting fresh once this is over. I prayed for him and this other woman and I wish him the best. Nothing is more important to me now than my walk with God and working on myself and making sure my son is ok.

Rule 1: Never marry. There is no reason for any man to marry today, rare is the long term happily married man. Common is the divorced guy sleeping in his car after getting financially raped in the anti-male divorce court system. Rule 2: If you made the mistake of getting married then: Never let your wife feel comfortable use "DREAD" on her as needed. Date them & enjoy them women are awesome as long as they know they have competition.

@stanleykachuik2589

4 ай бұрын

Words to live by! I successfully raised 2 boys with this creed.

This Woman is so self righteous, I'd say she feels that she has been cheated on at some point