3 ways to resolve a conflict | Dorothy Walker | TED Institute

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Anybody can help resolve a conflict, says project manager Dorothy Walker. With three simple steps, she shares how you can use positive energy to solve conflicts between friends, coworkers, strangers, kids and beyond.
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  • @iceice8327
    @iceice83273 жыл бұрын

    Step one = 3:50 Step two = 5:27 Step three = 7:23

  • @apollo1651

    @apollo1651

    3 жыл бұрын

    Thhxxxx

  • @julianacorral3773

    @julianacorral3773

    3 жыл бұрын

    Ifucking love u

  • @aylen9639

    @aylen9639

    3 жыл бұрын

    tanhks

  • @tiamthembu

    @tiamthembu

    2 жыл бұрын

    School brought me here, thanks for saving my time.

  • @fabiolamm5477

    @fabiolamm5477

    Жыл бұрын

    💟

  • @pankajhello
    @pankajhello3 жыл бұрын

    Folks she is my colleague and we worked together for same assignment last year very closely. She is very positive, dude! She mean every bit of what she is speaking here

  • @annsparta2222

    @annsparta2222

    Жыл бұрын

    ❤❤❤

  • @celinapolos2203
    @celinapolos22033 жыл бұрын

    Wow she has such a beautiful calming energy, her message is so powerful, in just 8 minutes! Really gave great value to my day! Beautiful woman and personality

  • @teodosiygeorgiev2966

    @teodosiygeorgiev2966

    2 жыл бұрын

    stop the cap bruh no wonder why her marriage didnt work out....

  • @mikecamacho1934
    @mikecamacho19342 жыл бұрын

    Most conflicts come from implied expectations. And not having definitive agreements. Seneca(4BC-65AD) Talks about how unmet expectations, is the cause of anger.

  • @iRideuWatch

    @iRideuWatch

    2 жыл бұрын

    So true. Why do people so often assume both or all parties have understood and agreed to the expectations?

  • @keimaari

    @keimaari

    Жыл бұрын

    oh... this is a word.

  • @colinellesmere

    @colinellesmere

    Жыл бұрын

    I agree. Agreements are so important. I am in a situation where agreements have been broken. I am displaying negative energy. Bht its hard to shift that based on things that have happened. But it would be great to shift it with positive energy. My mind state definitely does not help at all.

  • @jp9707

    @jp9707

    Жыл бұрын

    @@colinellesmere I hope things have gotten better for you since you wrote your comment

  • @colinellesmere

    @colinellesmere

    Жыл бұрын

    They got better then worse and I was leaving the situation and got pushed before resigning. But my mental states are better now I am out of that situation. The comment by Seneca about understanding expectations and pinning them down is so important. It is where so much conflict comes from.

  • @khaiahmann9192
    @khaiahmann91922 ай бұрын

    This was good. ✨ And asking if all parties want to actually work the issue out, is key for sure.

  • @pacha_157
    @pacha_1578 ай бұрын

    Resolve is the fuel to discipline. I just wanted to say this video is granting me the power within myself to start working out, making a name for myself, and strive to be a better person. When I have internal conflicts like if I don't want to do something for example, I observe listen and dissolve the emotion while at an appropriate state of mind in order to come to a resolve. Through this resolving method I thank you.

  • @Etmanuel88
    @Etmanuel882 жыл бұрын

    I 100% agree with you. I've created my own process that is similar to yours. The "Energy transference" has helped both myself and whoever I'm speaking with to remain calm and focus on the facts AND a realistic solution. When dealing with a company - always ask for formal documentation of XYZ (this makes them soooo much more agreeable)!

  • @spencerleek
    @spencerleek Жыл бұрын

    This advise truly helped in a mediation that I just facilitated. Thank you!

  • @karenbenjamin7165
    @karenbenjamin71652 жыл бұрын

    Delivery was on point. The steps are realistic and actionable. Thank you

  • @austinthaijam7009
    @austinthaijam70093 жыл бұрын

    helpful. thank you Dorothy

  • @pharmclare
    @pharmclare2 жыл бұрын

    Great insights. Thank you 😊

  • @LilacLioness98
    @LilacLioness982 жыл бұрын

    This was great and helpful 👍🏻❤️

  • @faithjerielmacauley3356
    @faithjerielmacauley3356 Жыл бұрын

    Thanks veryfor that good presentation.

  • @shasha6982
    @shasha69827 ай бұрын

    This was great information. Thank you

  • @sights3103
    @sights31033 жыл бұрын

    who else got this as a English class assignment

  • @YVNG_SHAQUAN

    @YVNG_SHAQUAN

    2 жыл бұрын

    I got in for a Life Orientation Project

  • @TamTam-bd5qw

    @TamTam-bd5qw

    2 жыл бұрын

    Management class.

  • @the25thfan58

    @the25thfan58

    2 жыл бұрын

    Health class

  • @NomsLoots

    @NomsLoots

    3 ай бұрын

    @@YVNG_SHAQUANyou South African?

  • @YVNG_SHAQUAN

    @YVNG_SHAQUAN

    3 ай бұрын

    @@NomsLoots yes I am

  • @chrisshackelford4385
    @chrisshackelford43853 ай бұрын

    That was awesome. I took notes the whole time!!!😂

  • @nathaliem9597
    @nathaliem95973 жыл бұрын

    Brilliant!

  • @pepesapo3277
    @pepesapo32773 жыл бұрын

    How do i kick all 3 of my roomates butts at once? THEY do not get along ☹

  • @ccwalker050
    @ccwalker0504 жыл бұрын

    Nice! Very Nice!!

  • @mohamedismailmohamedazath6944
    @mohamedismailmohamedazath69442 жыл бұрын

    Nice points

  • @habbosim100
    @habbosim1003 жыл бұрын

    I love her outfit and make-up btw

  • @josh-sv1hq

    @josh-sv1hq

    3 жыл бұрын

    Cool story bro

  • @josh-sv1hq

    @josh-sv1hq

    3 жыл бұрын

    What if something fake is being forced in front of you and you describe why it's not true and people get mad? I am not sure what else to do...

  • @lucian1607
    @lucian1607 Жыл бұрын

    Solid walkthrough. Thank you for sharing your thoughts with us!

  • @marshall886
    @marshall886 Жыл бұрын

    I don't think how you can talk about conflict without talking about justice. I don't think you can reduce it to energy exchange. Yes, having people in emotional state where they can listen actively to the other party but it is just defines desirable terms to which to hear each other.

  • @shawnaT456
    @shawnaT4562 жыл бұрын

    I wanted to do this with my partner but he thought it was stupid and basically the same as just hashing it out in the moment...

  • @varunbarma2067
    @varunbarma20672 жыл бұрын

    Nice

  • @Birdman117
    @Birdman117 Жыл бұрын

    I agree with 95 percent of this

  • @sukumarbarman6905
    @sukumarbarman69054 жыл бұрын

    সত্য সুন্দর প্রকৃতির শক্তি সৃষ্টির সেরা বীজ মন্ত্র জীবন তৈরির মহামূল্যবান সূত্র চিন্তা চেতনার বিকাশ সাধন।সব সত্য প্রকাশে স্বাধীনতা ইতিহাস সৃষ্টি সত্য প্রকাশে দশন শান্তি আলোচনা মূল্যবান সম্পদ অনুসন্ধানে কর্মকর্তা।

  • @foxy19681904
    @foxy19681904 Жыл бұрын

    All this is well and good, but when your government puts guns in the hands of the population it is clearly not supporting conflict resolution by negotiation. It is clearly supporting violence as the next step after conflict occurs. The government as the acting parent of the country should be doing all it can to help its population to make good decisions by not giving its population guns and making it clear that violence is never the answer to conflict. Then knowledge like this TED Talk might mean something.

  • @sachinks229

    @sachinks229

    Жыл бұрын

    Not everyone lives in America So it's still helpful And honestly I don't think guns is the reason It's just that people who can be easily provoked shouldn't have a gun in the first place Just like any other countries u can get a knife in pretty much everywhere it's deadly too But sure not as convenient but the root cause isn't the gun it's the mentality to not listen and run on the rail directly It happens in everywhere so no need to say that 5jis isn't useful this is highly useful where u can actually stop people

  • @foxy19681904

    @foxy19681904

    Жыл бұрын

    @@sachinks229 That is what I am saying. The second amendments advice that guns and violence are the solution to a problem leads the population to use that same reasoning for any conflict or problem they have. Basically though "Guns don't kill people. People kill people. So don't give people guns.".

  • @patchesohoulihan2009
    @patchesohoulihan2009Ай бұрын

    Is KZread just filtering out all the negative comments?

  • @mikecamacho1934
    @mikecamacho19342 жыл бұрын

    Step one is actually, do you want to work it out lol

  • @heikika6078
    @heikika60782 жыл бұрын

    ♥️

  • @ianlondon2888
    @ianlondon2888 Жыл бұрын

    There is no where to go except court when a side has contempt for the other side.

  • @mirandarandolph8240
    @mirandarandolph8240 Жыл бұрын

    5:08 ain’t nobody about to do that

  • @k.8521
    @k.8521 Жыл бұрын

    Lmao my teacher mad at me now the whole class hates me :')

  • @willmen08
    @willmen0810 ай бұрын

    What happened to the bungee jumping girl? How was that resolved? Wish she would have walked us through one situation instead of 3 different half stories.

  • @vatsaj
    @vatsaj Жыл бұрын

    someone: its fine, but what you said is wrong speaker: i think you did not understand what I said someone: no you did not understand other than talking smooth ........conflict starts..............PhD gone to streets

  • @JustinBurns-xw7cd
    @JustinBurns-xw7cd5 ай бұрын

    This was uploaded on april 1st, therefore it must not be true

  • @user-ej6fd1oj8z
    @user-ej6fd1oj8z2 жыл бұрын

    Слава Україні! 🇺🇦)

  • @theviewschor919
    @theviewschor919 Жыл бұрын

    Aur lalit.. Comment mat pdh

  • @br2266
    @br22663 жыл бұрын

    Speaking of energy, where is hers? lol nice speech though

  • @LiljanaWood

    @LiljanaWood

    3 жыл бұрын

    Lol the speech was perfect

  • @OGAngie

    @OGAngie

    2 жыл бұрын

    Calm and thoughtful energy is still energy.

  • @jameelahkelly995

    @jameelahkelly995

    2 жыл бұрын

    The energy she means doesn’t actually mean fully charged and bouncing off walls. She just means what she says positive and negative energy.

  • @teodosiygeorgiev2966
    @teodosiygeorgiev29662 жыл бұрын

    Use me as dislike button

  • @Birdman117
    @Birdman117 Жыл бұрын

    U lost me at give some time to allow emotions to settle, such a female comment

  • @zapatalasvegas

    @zapatalasvegas

    Жыл бұрын

    such a male response

  • @lalaheart76

    @lalaheart76

    Жыл бұрын

    @@zapatalasvegas I concur

  • @thesandman8669

    @thesandman8669

    Жыл бұрын

    @@zapatalasvegas @birdman5684 now that y’all have had some time for emotions to settle, let’s grab a glass of cold water and meditate before we move onto the next step

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