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@jannahseeker5008

2 жыл бұрын

Dear Al Madrasatu Al Umariyyah Can you do lecture about how to gain baraka??Baraka in our wealth, family and in our house etc??

@falsesectslikeshiaarejudeo6543

Жыл бұрын

From al-Mugheerah ibn Shu’bah: “I proposed marriage to a woman, and the Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: ‘Have you seen her?’ I said, ‘No.’ He said, ‘Look at her, because it is more fitting that love and compatibility be established between you.’” According to another report: “So he did that, and he married her and mentioned that they got along.” (Reported by al-Daaraqutni, 3/252 (31, 32); Ibn Maajah, 1/574)

@falsesectslikeshiaarejudeo6543

Жыл бұрын

@@jannahseeker5008 Anas ibn Malik reported: The Messenger of Allah, peace and blessings be upon him, said, “Whoever is pleased to have his provision expanded and his life span extended, let him keep good relations with his family.” Source: Ṣaḥīḥ al-Bukhārī 2067, Ṣaḥīḥ Muslim 2557

@falsesectslikeshiaarejudeo6543

Жыл бұрын

@@jannahseeker5008 AbdurRahman Hasan has a 7 part series on Islamic economy, it was very beneficial

it always amazes me when people say "women don't have any rights in islam" no other religion honours a women like this I'm just now hearing so many things that I was unaware of subhanallah, alhamdulilah for islam

@GokuBlack-sn5dr

2 жыл бұрын

people that say women dont have rights are zaaniyas

@user-bq3cw3bw8t

2 жыл бұрын

@@GokuBlack-sn5dr ???

@alhomsiyyah

2 жыл бұрын

@@GokuBlack-sn5dr let's not use such assumptions and stick to accurate labels

@falsesectslikeshiaarejudeo6543

2 жыл бұрын

@@alhomsiyyah to be fair the liberals say women don't have rights and want to remove Hijab and push Zaaniya!

Jazakillah khayr, i am going to ask my dowry asap lol, after 15 years of marriage. I was too ashamed to ask and i am from somalia 😁😁😁

سبحان الله I didn’t even know some of these were actual rights of women in Islam! I learnt so much from this. Especially regarding accommodation for women- It’s deeply ingrained in the south Asian community, a lot of men are unwilling to move out from their parents household. It’s a huge struggle. May ﷲ make it easy for us all. May ﷲ reward the team at AMAU! Topics to cover next إن شاء الله - The Beard - Polygyny - Riba in the west (mortgage, student loans, credit card, halal “mortgages” etc.) - Major & Minor signs of the day of judgment - Major and Minor sins {I’ll add more when I remember!}

Got my pen and got my paper it's time to take notes.

@htmoh8115

2 жыл бұрын

Don't forget to underline, your pillow will be filled with tears.

@Kardu3

2 жыл бұрын

@@htmoh8115 what do you mean?

@ummtamaatim

2 жыл бұрын

@@htmoh8115 🤣🤣🤣🤣

@MysticYusha

3 ай бұрын

Why do you have a photo of salam? You take him as a person who is a example?

Rights of Wife: Financial: 1. Mahr - Dowry 2. Nafaqa - financial provision (food and clothes) 3. Residency Non-financial: 1. Justice/fairness between wives 2. mu'ashara: living with spouse in good (speak good, take care of appearance, merciful, kind, forgiving, appreciative)

I love how the expresion on the thumbnail changed compared to the righteous wife video lool

@ghurabaa114xx

2 жыл бұрын

Hahahahah I realised too

The UK is missing Ustadh!

@ValPachino

2 жыл бұрын

subhan allah where are they ?

@MohammedAlSharif2002

2 жыл бұрын

@@ValPachino UAE

@Kardu3

2 жыл бұрын

Definitely

@ValPachino

2 жыл бұрын

@@MohammedAlSharif2002 marsh Allah

@ibnhassanq657

2 жыл бұрын

Abu Musa MashaAllah love bro keep doing what your doing your helping Muslims brothers and sisters Allahumma baarik

Beautiful recitation ماشاءاللہ Sheikh

JazakumAllahu khairan, the discussion over living with in-laws is GOLD!!!

@AMAUofficial

2 жыл бұрын

Wa Jazakallahu Khayran-

I love the informalness of these videos but also the immense amount of benefit these videos offer. I was finally able to finish watching the entirety of this video and once again I was not disappointed. I love how thorough you spoke about the righteous wife and righteous husband in a way that was not "biased" and covered all the "what ifs" so that its beneficial for general marriages as well as those marriages that have specific issues, so that everyone can benefit from these videos regardless of their situation. Allhumabarik. May Allah continue to increase you brothers in beneficial knowedlege and reward you for striving to give a thorough understanding of islam to everyone in a world where knowledge is becoming scarce. Salaam alaikum! May Allah bless you all!

Sooo glad u covered the housing topic, moving the wife into the in-laws house. I have a lot to say on this topic but I won't lol may Allah reward u!

@shahee6579

2 жыл бұрын

what minute ?

@ghurabaa114xx

2 жыл бұрын

Start listening from 15mins

@MuhammadBinZafar1

10 ай бұрын

In the indo-pak-bangladesh region, you will NOT believe the amount of IMMENSE distress the in-laws cause to the girl - when the girl is made to live with her in-laws. Often, not always intentionally from the mother-in-law, but just different upbringing. Wallahi, I have seen VERY different upbringing even in the small country of Bangladesh - just across small districts. And some mother-in-laws just are bossy and have ego issues. Ibnul Kayyum closed this issue when he said (and I am paraphrasing and adding context): give your wife her new home, and maintain distance between in-law relatives. Distance creates love! Sisters in the indo-pak region should always consider a righteous *intelligent* and *knowledgeable* brother upon the manhaj of the Salaf - who can ensure your well-deserved honor - just as Shaykh Assim Al Hakim says: "Brothers, don't think about marrying if you're a mommy's boy."

@ghurabaa114xx

10 ай бұрын

@@MuhammadBinZafar1 SubhanAllah, such a wonderfully thought out msg, referencing our amazing sheyukh rahimahumullah 💕 ...may Allah make it easy for our brothers especially, & our sisters.

Me and my husband have benefitted so much from this series - we cannot thank you enough. The way this is structured as an informal chat between two friends is another element that makes this so easy to watch and take in. May Allah reward you both and open doors for you which you had never imagined, may Allah continue to place barakah in your work and grant you the highest of Jannah, ameen.

MAY Allah reward you brothers for this video. You are speaking of things that are NECESSARY. This is such a good video for brothers and sisters. Especially revert sisters who dont have Muslim men in her family who ensure her rights are being fulfilled.

yess I was waiting for this video I watched the last video Mashallah May Allah bless you guys!

Nothing better than this may Allah bless you sheikhs

May Allaah bless u ustaadh. Looking forward to the podcast about everything regarding a man having multiple wives that information is much needed

بارك الله فيكما و نفع بكما حلقة جميلة جداً ❤️🍃

Pillow filled with tears what a great advice to your daughter.

Baarakallaahu feekum, ahsanallaahu eelaykum, Ustadh, the brother and the entire team. Subhanallah.. was wondering about the topic discussed at 40:36 shukran for bringing this up jazaakumullaahu khayraan

Very beneficial discussion, love this casual series, jazakallahu khayran.

This is a fantastic video or podcast. The Muslim ummah needs to watch it for reminder including the married couples. May Allah (swt) grant you Jannah and bless you all.

Baraak Allah oe fik um. I would love to hear more qoran from ustadh 3bderhman hassen. Mha sha Allah tabarak Allah.

I was waiting this episode

21:02 WaAllahi, there's nothing which you have said to be offensive because I being from Indo-Pak community especially in India, have witnessed many divorce cases caused by this issue of residence; Allahul Mustaan!!!

@zaidahmed9527

2 жыл бұрын

So true brother... Unfortunately it is a very sensitive topic and it doesn't need to be... We just need more love and understanding around us. Insha'Allah this will happen with more education and communication

Extremely beneficial! May ﷲ reward the team at AMAU!

SubhanAllah, just as amazing as the first one! I love this discussion style format I feel like it's more engaging than the typical sitting Infront of a camera style. So many amazing points to reflect on. May Allah aid Ur dawah & reward u both with the highest jannah Aameen

I beseech on Allaah with the best and most beautiful of His names and attributes which He made known to none to bless and have mercy on Ustaadh AbdurRahman Hassan and Akhee Al-Fadheel Shahīd. May He make them from those whom He'll be pleased with in Qiyāmah. WaLlaahi, it's only onto Allaah their reward for what they're doing to this Ummah and may He reward them in manifolds in both dunyā and Ākhiroh.🤲🏽🤲🏽

Masha’Allah, as a revert, this has been really beneficial and enlightening. There’s a huge lacunae with regards to the the rights of a wife over their husband in the Christian theology and Christendom which leads to an excessively lenient and subjective approach to how Christian men conduct themselves in a marriage and with their wives outside the demands of their community. I could write paragraphs on this but indeed, ours is a straight and sure path Alhamdullilah.

Subhanallah this was so good. Made me laugh as well as learn. May Allah reward you both

Jazaku Allāhu khair brothers. So much mentioned ma Shā Allāh in this topic. So perhaps you can do a conclusion to wrap up both videos in to one video. And after(these 2 videos)having the idea of what to accept as a prospect you can do is ways in to finding one and the introduction and meetings etc Baraku Allāhu fikum

brothers what a great discussion barakAllahu feek. may i say, i really like your head wear :)

MashaAhllah mashaAhllah amazing and important talk. Its like address good behaviour and avoid addressing nagative behavior

MashaAllah keep going brother's may Allah bless you all

subhan allah many points in this discussion are very true. especially the point regarding moving the the wife into your mothers home. i myself have suffered from similar issues, so many of this talk resonated with me

@shahee6579

2 жыл бұрын

timestamp

@ghurabaa114xx

2 жыл бұрын

@@shahee6579 it starts around 15mins

جزاك الله خير اخي الكريم اللهم بارك

May Allah bless the team for this beneficial content, there were SO many important points covered, many of which folks shy away from talking about or just don't want to hear. I'm excited for the polygyny discussion as well, whether it's in this series or another (like the Hot Seat Podcast). I also HAVE to compliment both brothers again-the Ustadh is always knowledgeable and brings the proofs and evidences for his position. His easy going yet firm manner is a breath of fresh air. The host is consistently amazing as well, allahumma barik. Always giving succinct summaries at the appropriate times and allowing his guests the time to fully flesh out their thoughts and ideas. Just so wonderful, what a benefit this channel is for the Ummah today. May Allah continue to increase you in knowledge, wisdom, and piety, and may He raise your ranks in Jannah. Ameen.

1:02:33 May Allaah make me more grateful Ameen. To have a husband who doesn't kiss you subhaan'Allaah. To have children with him, and he doesn't kiss you? Ya Allaah that must be so tough. For the women and the children to have a man like that in the home. That really shocked and saddened me. A wonderful and well needed lesson brothers. May Allaah bless you and your families and make your efforts weigh heavy on your scales. Ameen

@floodworldwide5260

2 жыл бұрын

But if he invites her to bed she cant deny him, she should deny him and no angel would curse her.

@UmmAbdullahUmar

2 жыл бұрын

@@floodworldwide5260 Not sure why you're referring to that. I'm aware. Just saying it can't be nice.

@PoesieIslamique

Жыл бұрын

@@floodworldwide5260 WHERE do you get that from ?

25:40 ...jakakumallah khair for illuminating this point

جزاك الله خير اخي الكريم

Please address the issue of practicing brothers who live on social welfare but then marry women but continue this lifestyle of not seeking or having any desire to work and sustain them with a Halal income . Too much of this in UK society.

@UmmAbdullahUmar

2 жыл бұрын

Sisters need to stop marrying them and protect their wombs. This has been going on for years and years, it's upon us as women to protect and educate ourselves and not fall into the traps of some of these wolves.

@fhm3762

2 жыл бұрын

@@UmmAbdullahUmar Totally agree. Unfortunately sisters are manipulated by men in Islamic robes who prey on the vulnerable and those who are disconnected from family and don't have access to good counsel.

@mahmodmahmood1579

2 жыл бұрын

هل أستطيع الزواج من إحدي الأخوات وتعيش معي في بلدي صعيد مصر

@user-uj6dc7kg3o

2 жыл бұрын

They address this in the follow up episode

MashAllah my brothers I like this topic.

I don't know how to thank you.. It is really beneficial for us to hear true things that are rarely spoken. You make me love my religion more, and also want to learn more about it. Ustadh Abdulrahman is a role model for ummah's young people.. Lots of duas from Turkey

@user-hw6cg9ji5x

2 жыл бұрын

Ukhti, one question. Are there many of Ahlus Sunnah wal jamaaah brothers and sisters in turkey? What we hear is that there are 99,9% Ahlul Bidaah, Sufi, Maturidiyyah and so on. Is that correct?

@handeylmaz4711

2 жыл бұрын

@@user-hw6cg9ji5x I guess we cannot say that "there are lots of Ahlu's Sunnah wa'l jamaah brothers and sisters in Turkey" unfortunately.. It is really complicated. What we see here is, most of the people don't try to learn about their deen. The discussion is not who is ahlu's sunnah and who is ahlu'l bidaah or this or that. The biggest problem is ignorance, deficiency in ilm. So we should prioritise learning the deen from right sources, live according to it, and try to be a good example for others. The groups you mentioned are really a minority in here. We need to see the big picture.. May Allah help us.

@user-hw6cg9ji5x

2 жыл бұрын

@@handeylmaz4711 May Allah bless you. Be Happy that Allah guided you, sister. Make Dawah to all of your Friends and family. Was-Salam

@ummnahl3235

Жыл бұрын

السلام عليكم ورحمة الله وبركاته Sister I am a turkish sister (from germany tho) too would you want to get in contact? Its hard to find people like you who listen to AMAU and the likes Allahumma baarik

@handeylmaz4711

Жыл бұрын

@@ummnahl3235 و عليكم السلام ورحمة الله وبركاته اختي Sure, I'd like to get in contact

جزاك الله خيرا استاذ

Dawah keep going foward

جزاكلله خير!

السلام عليكم ورحمة الله وبركاته و Jazakum Allahu Khairan

MashaAllah MashaAllahhhh

This is better than those people who debate about womens rights or mens rights .Islam is enough

‏السلام عليكم ورحمة الله وبركاته Ustadh can you continue The Hotseat

26:49 My dad calls me dad too I’m Haitian though idk if that for all Haitians or he says it to me.

Ustad plz make duah for me. Struggling a lot in this issue.

@user-hw6cg9ji5x

2 жыл бұрын

May Allah grant you sucess in your marriage and soften your heart towards your wife and her heart towards you, Ameen

@sadmansakib6877

2 жыл бұрын

@@user-hw6cg9ji5x ameen

I feel like this episode is more interesting... and it is mostly neglected duties.

BARAKALLAHU fikum please Ustadh can you make a video about the benefit or beauty of a Shari'a implemented state? BARAKALLAHU fikum

اللهم بارك

Have you made the podcast about polygyny yet?

These days men looking for a women with 30k salary and degree as something essential in order to make a marriage work or to raise kids .. may Allah swt guide the men in the ummah they are not following the Islamic principles

The woman should consider the financial situation of the man. So ask what can be provided, asking more then the man can effort is unrealistic.

Ustadh, what you're talking about in the IndoPak community is jahez, the "dowry" the woman pays in the marriage. As far as I'm aware, this is an unIslamic practice, but I'm hearing here for the first time that it may actually be permissible. As for modern days, some families do it like the man provides the house and the woman's side provides some of the core furnishings (wardrobes, beds, etc.) and consider that to be part of the jahez. I hope this helps!

I wish some of these talks could be in Arabic inch'allah

ما شاء الله

The best discussion I ever heard about women's rights. Thank you. But what I learned here is far away from what many Muslim women receive from their husbands... And what is worst they are badly treated by their Muslim husbands...

Asalamualaikum could you provide some advice about the housing situation, it is deep in my culture. Advice regarding how you can explain it?

@userunknown-lb8qw

2 жыл бұрын

show them the proof from the Qur'an and sunnah. and if they don't listen then you have every right to not listen because it goes against the deen.

does anyone know the Ayah which the Shaykh recited in the beginning? جزاكلله خير

@Ebn_Munir

Жыл бұрын

Surat Tawbah Ayah 40 إِلَّا تَنصُرُوهُ فَقَدۡ نَصَرَهُ ٱللَّهُ إِذۡ أَخۡرَجَهُ ٱلَّذِينَ كَفَرُواْ ثَانِيَ ٱثۡنَيۡنِ إِذۡ هُمَا فِي ٱلۡغَارِ إِذۡ يَقُولُ لِصَٰحِبِهِۦ لَا تَحۡزَنۡ إِنَّ ٱللَّهَ مَعَنَاۖ فَأَنزَلَ ٱللَّهُ سَكِينَتَهُۥ عَلَيۡهِ وَأَيَّدَهُۥ بِجُنُودٖ لَّمۡ تَرَوۡهَا وَجَعَلَ كَلِمَةَ ٱلَّذِينَ كَفَرُواْ ٱلسُّفۡلَىٰۗ وَكَلِمَةُ ٱللَّهِ هِيَ ٱلۡعُلۡيَاۗ وَٱللَّهُ عَزِيزٌ حَكِيمٌ (٤٠)

Asalaam how do I enroll with this madrassa I have been trying to find website or link I have been unsuccessful

Few years back, at site we asked an engineer why are you sir doing so much paper work at site so late. He told us, if we do office work at home then what is difference between home & office & we should give time to our family also"

Do someone know what the sheikh recited in the intro? Please tell me that there are a full clip of it…hehe?

@ImansHomeschool

2 жыл бұрын

It is from Surah at-Tawbah (9), ayah 40 إِلَّا تَنصُرُوهُ فَقَدْ نَصَرَهُ اللَّهُ إِذْ أَخْرَجَهُ الَّذِينَ كَفَرُوا ثَانِيَ اثْنَيْنِ إِذْ هُمَا فِي الْغَارِ إِذْ يَقُولُ لِصَاحِبِهِ لَا تَحْزَنْ إِنَّ اللَّهَ مَعَنَا

In the indo-pak-bangladesh region, you will NOT believe the amount of IMMENSE distress the in-laws cause to the girl - when the girl is made to live with her in-laws. Often, not always intentionally from the mother-in-law, but just different upbringing. Wallahi, I have seen VERY different upbringing even in the small country of Bangladesh - just across small districts. And some mother-in-laws just are bossy and have ego issues. Ibnul Kayyum closed this issue when he said (and I am paraphrasing and adding context): give your wife her new home, and maintain distance between in-law relatives. Distance between in-laws creates love! Sisters in the indo-pak region should always consider a righteous *intelligent* and *knowledgeable* brother upon the manhaj of the Salaf - who can ensure your well-deserved honor - just as Shaykh Assim Al Hakim says: "Brothers, don't think about marrying if you're a mommy's boy."

Does anyone know where i can buy the Imamas these two are wearing?

@mohamudahmed6554

2 жыл бұрын

No, but they do live in Dubai so there ut is more common. I want to buy them as well since i saw some Brothers wearing them in Finland. So maybe you can order it online, but try your Islamic clothing shops in your city.

❤❤❤❤❤

What cou try is Br. Shahid from?

Amazing reminder but in your episode about righteous wife u mention that your wife should be wudud. Women’s primary need is love. can you also talk about the fact that a man should also be the wudud towards his wife? Jazak

❤

Now what if the guy can’t afford the girls dowry ? Then he would just have to leave her alone right ? Say the girl has high standards and has a certain life she’s living , if the guy is not up to par with it he would have to leave her right ?

What's the reciter name at the beginning?

What's the difference between dowry and mehr? Im little bit Confused

@smvvh

2 жыл бұрын

It’s the same thing mehr is just the Arabic name for dowry

Allahu Akbar

Who is the Qur'an reciter at the begining ?

@ssmmm1926

2 жыл бұрын

Ustadh himself

Everything should be done & spent by the husband to be. A father is giving his daughter(his beloved blood) for freee whom he fed,cared, gave education & wt not & if still the husband demands or seeks them to spent on something,then he isnt man of faith & it is very very shameful for him to accept anything from girls side. We should stop this culture of spendings by girls side. Make nikah easy, give dower to her, bring her home, give walima & kalas tata bye bye to everyone. This is our way in islam & only best way for everyone.

do they live in Saudi Arabia

@user-bq3cw3bw8t

2 жыл бұрын

UAE

After listening to the hijrah talk I thought I found a scholer talked the walk made hijrah In somalia very dissapointed this what's missing these days can't show families examples

Where can i buy the coloured scarf around their heads in the UK ?

@htmoh8115

2 жыл бұрын

Islamic store, ebay online etc

@MrBobDug

2 жыл бұрын

It's emirati, best bet is to see if someone can grab one for you from UAE 20 dollars max in Diera

@AllahKnowsme07

2 жыл бұрын

Check out as-sumou London

Where does Ustadh by his thobes and Headwear?

@rateorhate11

2 жыл бұрын

Probably in the UAE since he is there quite a lot.

@AllahKnowsme07

2 жыл бұрын

See as-sumou London

@rafiekmoosa4472

2 жыл бұрын

@@AllahKnowsme07 shukraan 👍

26:40

أريد الزواج من أخت فاضله ترتدي الحجاب الشرعي وترضي أن تعيش معي في صعيد مصر

Parents have more rights than husband, the brother is wrong in this case, waryaa waaridka yaa daryeela gabdhaha , nin kulahaa

@alhomsiyyah

2 жыл бұрын

Parents have rights but if the rights of the husband and parents clash then the husband takes priority

@saidohn8126

2 жыл бұрын

@@alhomsiyyah no it doesn't, no man can take the parents place, first of all how the man I married come near to my parent's right, when my parents wants something from me he can't say anything unless it's unIslamic and Haram otherwise for me my parents are number one and if my husband has a problem with it then the door is wide open for him to go. And for him his parents are number one and if I have a problem with it then the door is wide open for me. When 2 people get married then the 4 parents are above them and they must be heard and respected unless they told you to so Haram things

@alhomsiyyah

2 жыл бұрын

@@saidohn8126 do you have an evidence for this from the Qur'an and Sunnah?

@saidohn8126

2 жыл бұрын

@@alhomsiyyah yeah I have my evidence but go and do more research before you follow some men who thinks women are property for men, how could someone say that a man you married and is not doing special things like something that he is only doing for you so you must secrefice your mother and father. When the prophet is saying the closest person for you is your mother. Husband and wife need each other and if I don't understand him then I have the right to divorce and married another one but do I have to leave my mother and get another Mother no, so my parents comes first and then my kids my husband's place is 3 and the one I am married to knows this and respected my decision and for him his parents are number one and I'm very pleased to know that because I want my house to be the perfect place for our 4 parents, my Allah give them good life here and akhirah

@alhomsiyyah

2 жыл бұрын

@@saidohn8126 Ameen, and what is your evidence?