#2: On the Road to A Righteous Wife (المرأة الصالحة) || AMAU
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00:00 Introduction
03:26 The comprehensive nature of Islam
07:11 Righteousness is from Allah
11:13 You have to exert effort
13:25 What is the source of guidance?
16:35 Allah’s solution vs human solutions
18:39 Don’t replace The Qur’an and Sunnah
21:06 The role of social media
28:38 The role of culture and gurus
32:25 Don’t rush to divorce
35:31 A wife’s relationship with Allah
36:38 Four qualities of a righteous wife
39:41 Avoid extravagance in spending money
42:30 Don’t let others influence your marriage!
52:09 Shaytan loves divorce
55:10 Righteousness leads to a happy marriage
59:58 Looking good for her husband
1:04:45 Obeying her husband
1:11:46 Doesn’t abuse her husband’s wealth
1:13:43 TV series are destroying households
1:15:22 Don’t catch your spouse off-guard
1:18:48 Earning love and being childbearing
1:21:57 Reconciling with her husband
1:25:52 Soft words and companionship
1:27:48 She covers herself and avoids arrogance
1:28:37 The upside-down world we live in
1:29:53 The generation before us
1:32:27 40 years without an argument
1:34:42 Society’s impact on the divorce rate
1:36:37 Halal and haram beautification
1:42:40 Paradise and hellfire are through the husband
1:44:56 The strangest complaint!
1:47:41 Rights and responsibilities
1:49:53 She doesn’t overburden her husband
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I would like to say as a brother although this video was for sisters, ive benefited much myself. Absolutely beautiful video. Hearing you explain a righteous woman only makes me want to strive to be the best man I can be, as of now I am not deserving of a woman of this caliber. May Allah make us amongst the best of men and women.
@sara-jn4kv
2 жыл бұрын
Ameen
@nawalhassan8558
2 жыл бұрын
Aameen ya rabb
@yoyokan
2 жыл бұрын
Ameen !
@rashawnevans394
2 жыл бұрын
Aameen
@rashawnevans394
2 жыл бұрын
Ma Sha Allah …….. Ustadh said “ if she doesn’t give Allah his right, don’t think once that she’ll give you yours brother ….. AllahulMusta’aan!!!!
Imagine having friends like these two. Ma shaa Allah. May Allah let us be beneficial for our own Akhira & to our families & friends.
@ghurabaa114xx
2 жыл бұрын
Aameen yaa Rabbi
@mattynyang3282
8 күн бұрын
Allahumma Aaaameen Aaaameen YA Rabbil Allamin 🤲🏾✨
I’m just speechless. This has been my all time favorite video you’ve made. Allahuma barik. The note you spoke about why iblees loves divorce even though divorce is permissible SubhanAllah. I’m happy you’ve spoken generally on this topic of marriage but also showed those more specific issues like not having rights fulfilled And etc, such a comprehensive conversation, allahu akbar. It’s so much deeper than marriage. It’s showing truly why marriage is half of deen…how it completes deen.
This is pure gold. Every married couple should watch this together. May Allah reward you both in this dunya with the highest of success and with Firdaws in the Akhirah. By watching this I've learnt so much about myself and how I can improve, so many gems subhanallah. It doesn't even feel like it was 2 hours long because you two are talking like friends and having a conversation allahumma barik. JazakAllahu khayr.
@swurne1127
2 жыл бұрын
Salaam, wbt unmarried couples?
@akme2d
2 жыл бұрын
@@swurne1127 Are you joking? What are they doing together in the first place?
@userunknown-lb8qw
2 жыл бұрын
@@akme2d looool i think she/he meant people that are not married. allahu a'lam
@swurne1127
2 жыл бұрын
@@akme2dThe guy who commented said every married couple should watch this, i was asking if unmarried couples should watch this aswel
Name a better duo than these 2 brothers! May Allah reward the both of you and the rest of Al Madrasatu Al Umariyyah. I have benefited greatly from your different posts over the years. As far as English speakers, I believe you all are the best source of knowledge of the deen in modern day. I'll never forget the first video I saw of Ustadh AbdulRahman Hassan teaching aqeedah on the whiteboard in 2016 (highly recommend!) AMAU is always in my duaas.
Jazakallahu khair There is no audio from 1:39:37 till the end
@ulfatfaraji9678
Ай бұрын
Yes, please fix. Great video!
Al Imaan is the most expensive treasure, whoever loses it has lost the real life. The real life is: 1) Obedience to The Most Merciful --- Allah 2) Following the Prophet Muhammad sallallahu 'alayhi wa sallam. "O you who believe! Answer Allah (by obeying Him) and (His) Messenger when he calls you to that which will give you life,..."(8:24) (From the book 'Tajdeed Ul Imaan', pg:8)
As a new parent I’m so grateful to Allah that He has given us these videos, resources through these amazing brothers and their knowledge, may Allah bless and reward them both abundantly, so that I can teach my children more easily these concept that were never taught to me at least. Problems and issues that rise from not following the Islamic way, explained in such an easy to understand way and with evidence that can be referenced and backed up.
0:47 keep repeating that part. Ustaad's face lit up and that smile, MashaAllah
I have heard of cases where sisters were shocked to find out that their friend married with a very low mahr.They tried to convince her to ask for a greater mahr than it.That is why ustad is right.Dear sisters,never ever allow even your friends interfere in your relationship!
May ﷲ reward the AMAU team. This channel came into my life at a time I really needed guidance and I can’t explain how much I have benefited from this. May ﷲ grant you all the best in this life and the next! The comment brother Shahid made about TV shows affecting your life. Wallahi that is so true, I remember watching shows here and there never noticing how much it actually affected me. It genuinely does affect your imaan and your salah. The Khushoo of your salah is affected - and that’s the most precious connection you have to ﷲ so don’t let anything affect that! May ﷲ safeguard the Muslims and grant us the highest rank of paradise!
I love the talks with these 2 together, Alhmdulillah.
Jazakallahu khayran for benefitting us always. May Allah brighten your faces in this world and hereafter, ameen.
Jzk. May Allah swt reward you both. My ADHD brain can’t fathom how you are able to drive safely and have such a deep impactful conversation, Allahumubarik feekum.
May ALLAH عز و جل bless your hard work. Truly this channel has been so beneficial. Keep up the hard good work.
Amazing thank you so much. May Allah reward you all. Cant wait for the next part in’shaa’Allah
JazakAllah khiar for this excellent video. I wish we could hear the end part, the brother was just about to hit some great points!
Allahuma Barik. Please continue with the series as I enjoyed listening to the first episode while driving myself and inshAllah the same will happen again with this episode.
Allahu mabarak!! This new series is great, May Allah reward you both!
MashaAllah thank you for addressing social media and its engineers and how it is effecting every society
Still love the intro! I loved this series as with everything AMAU produces. I think it’s safe to say AMAU have changed many of our lives Alhamdulillaah. Especially with the academy. May Allaah accept from them & allow us all to benefit 🤲🏻
Tricky to find a righteous housewife today.. A righteous woman stays home (a homemaker) and doesn't go out unnecessarily May Allah grant me one Ameen
@faizan_blue
2 жыл бұрын
Allah will provide and he is the BEST of providers
@aatif7518
2 жыл бұрын
@@faizan_blue 💯 insha'Allah
@copainspammeur404
2 жыл бұрын
@@faizan_blue true. In these times our faith is being heavily tested
@UmmFatimah20
2 жыл бұрын
Ameen
@rr12766
2 жыл бұрын
Staying home won't make a woman righteous. Many hisewives exist who sit and backbite all day, listen to music , miss their prayes. On the other hand you have women who are quran teachers, involved in organising events for women at the masjid, who run their own businesses, and rae very strict with their salah, hijab etc , despite leaving the house everyday.
May Allah preserve Ustaadh AbdulRAHMAN and Bro Shaheed. Another exceptional talk beneficial for both brothers and sisters!
One of those lectures we want to come back to time to time. Jazak Allahu Khayr
JazakumaAllah khairan for this video. I have come to realise that I am so far away from being a righteous wife. I have a lot more to work on subhanAllah
SubhanAllah this episode is way more than just about marriage. This episode is about life. ALLAHUMA BARIK. Such a refreshing conversation to hear.
Alhamdulilah ala kuli haal! Love This Episode MashaAllah TabarakAllah! This gives hope to myself and all the Brothers and Sisters seeking to marry a righteous Spouse. May Allah increase us All in worshipping Him سبحانه وتعالى in the correct manner through all of our Actions Ameen
This was so beneficial; so sad to know we lost audio on the last 15 minutes there. Surely there were some gems that got left behind. Jazakallahu khairan to the team for another fantastic episode in the series.
May Allah make them better than what we think of them and forgive them for what we don't know of them. Ameeeeeeeeeeen
@Inspire_sagi
2 жыл бұрын
Aameen
@umermohiuddin2061
2 жыл бұрын
What a dua subhanAllah, ameen.
@sb_1389
2 жыл бұрын
@@umermohiuddin2061 My thoughts exactly, subhanallah!!
Can’t wait to listen to this in shaa Allah!!! Couldn’t help but read ahead in looking at the time stamps, I wish a topic that was covered was avoiding marriage to non Muslims as many who are disillusioned go this route and end up regretting it. Nevertheless there looks to be ALOT of good here I intend to use in the ambition to marry!!😁😁😁😁
Thank you! Wisdom. Substitute Organic Raw Honey for sugar. All substances to heal are in the Qua'ran. The Qua'ran has elevated the Honey Bee for its importance .While researching plants for the health of the honey Bees, In the Bible and the Quaran, I discovered a way of life. .
@Memorize-Quran-With-Me
2 жыл бұрын
Seriously? Good for you sister! Everyone should be finding their way to islam through reading a few verses of quran in their "research" for whatever they are doing in life......but alas the words of Allah are true: few of them believe
@lavarball7538
2 жыл бұрын
Bless you sister, may Allah guide us all to the ultimate truth
Amazing episode ..i love listening to podcasts, for people who have left music and movies these kinda things are such a great replacement like even we have some great stuff to watch now and which definitely can’t be labelled as boring! Jazāk’Allahu khayr and please do bring Ustadh Muhammad Tim on board ان شاء الله 🎀
If anyone from the AMAU team is reading this please encourage the viewers to like the videos to spread the dawah so it can enter every house with the permission of Allah. You guys are really pushing the dawah to another level with the help of Allah SWT May Allah SWT preserve you all ❤️ love you all for the sake of Allah SWT
I fond another favourite ayah in the Quran because of watching this series surah tawbah ayah:40
Amazing lecture. Thank you for such a amazing deep explanation as other talks don't give better explanation and it can cause misconceptions. May ahllah reward you both.
Intro was just BOOM ...allahumma barik
Absolutely amazing video every muslim should watch mashallah
ما شاء الله تبارك الله، بارك الله فيكم و أحسن الله إليكم
Intro was beautiful, AllahumaBaarik
Barakallufeek Ustadh , and May Allah reward you all, And place it in both of your meezan and to whoever participated in making this series.
@AMAUofficial
2 жыл бұрын
Allahuma Ameen!
Beautiful reminders.
Amin thumma amin to you dua in the start of this second reminder and the comprehensive narure of Islam.😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊
May Allaah bless you brothers, what a reminder, so many benefits!
The first section brought a genuine ear to ear smile to my face. Allahuma barik. May Allah bless you both and allow you both to be neighbors in the highest level of Jannah. Ameen ya rabb Ameen. I’m so excited to listen to this episode as i know it will be so beneficial not just for sisters who are looking for marriage but also already married. May Allah allow us all to be righteous spouses and correct our shortcomings and increase our piety and good manners.
@hamzahdomeih7750
2 жыл бұрын
Aameen
@mattynyang3282
8 күн бұрын
Allahumma Aaaameen Aaaameen YA Rabbil Allamin 🤲🏾🌴✨
Audio is missing around 1:36:37 Jazaakallah khair for the beneficial series of lectures.
@longegg-wind9577
2 жыл бұрын
Starts from about 1:39:00 but i thought it was just me
@RochelleHa
2 жыл бұрын
@@longegg-wind9577 Jazaku’Allāhu khair
@germanexpatinsaudi-arabia
11 ай бұрын
@@longegg-wind9577no also with me. I watched all of it until the audio stopped.
Masha’Allah sheikhs barakallahu feekum
May ALLAH bless you brothers very beneficial!
After watching this lecture. I want a separate lecture of brother shahid hassan😅. He always have some interesting points اللّهُـمَّ بارِكْ
جزاكم الله خيرا على المحتوى المثري وهدانا جميعا
SubhanAllah I was thinking about the same thing a while ago what Shahid said about the abundance of information its so true.
جزاك الله خيرًا شيخنا
Barakalahu feekum brothers for sincere advice
Masha’Allah Tabarak’Allah !! Ya akhi… the beginning segment to which you showed such brotherly and genuine gratitude to your brother could have made me teary 🥺 Subhan’Allah !! May ALLAH Azzawajal continue to bless, reward and guide you both immensely until your very last moments in this life and in the Akhira. Aameen!
@AMAUofficial
2 жыл бұрын
Allahuma Ameen!
Brothers you forget that Lowering your gaze is a must for both men and women Many Hadeth was narrated by Muslim women That means women have the right to go on social media and do duaa and speaks out about the women rights which most of men forget or ignore to say it We have many young people go stray because you don't teach women how Islam respect her and her role and most of the younger people don't know their rights in Islam but you just keep telling them about forbidden That's why these young girls have been deceived by feminist movement Which we know it is planned to destroy the family life
Barak Allah Feek Ustath
Audio is much better al hamdulillah
My 2 biggest advice to married sisters/ to be married sisters: 1. Have financial literacy and independent financies from your husband. This is regardless of whether you have happy and successful marriage. He could die before you. He could walk out of the marriage. He could change. Hence, it's a must for women to have their own financies 2. Keep people out of your marriage. Don't complain about your spouse to others (e.g., mother, sister and friend). Keep your problems private. Only seek advice from professionals (e.g., mosque Imaan, a therapist).
@redman6790
Жыл бұрын
If the wife has separate finances then she doesn’t need her husband to take care of him, she only wants him. The husbands primordial role is being a breadwinner, the wife is being a carer. This is obfuscated when the wife has finances.
@taimurahmad
Жыл бұрын
Assalamualikum brother. Well said
@thepremaritaldiaries
14 күн бұрын
@@redman6790 It doesn't have to be the same amount. A small side hustle from home so with time it grows as she saves it. She should use her husbands money but having your own money for future investments and benefit is a smart thing. If the husband gets laid off or his finances go down at a point of time, they could use her and his savings to make ends meet. She could have a savings before marriage or keep her mehr as a savings but to be completely without money might put them in a tight spot in the future. She might also want to provide for her parents by paying them a monthly bill when the husband is not able to afford it. But again, to use from the husbands money 99% of the time.
Such humility. A true scholar. May Allah give you all the success and keep you and your family a healthy prosperous long life
@dhakasujon1603
2 жыл бұрын
@@Dhaifaalmansurah I think he is a scholar sister. But I maybe wrong. Regardless he is an excellent daee
@salafiyyah001
2 жыл бұрын
Narrated Abu Bakra: A man praised another man in front of the Prophet (ﷺ) . The Prophet (ﷺ) said to him, "Woe to you, you have cut off your companion's neck, you have cut off your companion's neck," repeating it several times and then added, "Whoever amongst you has to praise his brother should say, 'I think that he is so and so, and Allah knows exactly the truth, and I do not confirm anybody's good conduct before Allah, but I think him so and so,' if he really knows what he says about him." Sahih Bukhari 2662
I’m sorry but that intro is fire!
Baarak Allah feekum
Hi, lovely video mash'Allah; I wanted to ask you what's the name of the nasheed that you have put on into, please? so lovely mash'Allah.
The sound went off towards the end and it became silent. Is this only for me ?
@mahadihassanriyadh
5 ай бұрын
same
جزاكم الله خيرا
Will they do any more hot seat podcasts? I really enjoy those.
Jazakom allah khayran.
@AMAUofficial
2 жыл бұрын
Wa Jazakallahu Khayran
Can't wait for this to be up on Spotify, Jazakallahu Khayr
Salam brothers. May Allah bless you both I benefited from this video. My question goes with the lines of husband seeing you at not your best. For example when wife is delivering baby it’s not a beautiful sight to see and this may put off husband sometimes. What does our deen say about husband being in the same delivery room?
Jazaku’Allāhu khair wa Baraku Allāhu fikum. Great series!
Where can we get the audio from 1:39:36 onwards? No audio in rest of video. Please advise. Thank you.
Brothers you should cover the fitnah of free mixing between, married couples with other married couple, before marriage, divorce couples meeting up with ex spouses with the excuse of children, divorce couples are just friends and call each other for chit chatting which upsets their new spouse who does not free mix and is very loyal. Old friends who have your number and call your husband/wife to say hello/salams. I'm talking about free mixing with opposite genders in all these situations. Also second time marriages are failing because men and woman are to friendly with their ex spouses and not acknowledging who they are married too. Also ex spouses trying to break up marriages. Also who is responsible for a divorced woman. In the west the society makes out the ex husband is still responsible for her. But in islam isn't it her family/male members. Also the man after divorce, shouldn't he leave her alone so she can move on.
Mansha Allah
I must say I have so much respect for Somalian women here in London. Majority of time well hijaby dressed women I see are Somalis.
@abumukhtaar3845
2 жыл бұрын
May Allah give us all somali wives
@hmzzrg5045
2 жыл бұрын
@@abumukhtaar3845 *righteous wives if they are Somali so be it
@abumukhtaar3845
2 жыл бұрын
@@hmzzrg5045 May Allah give us righteous somali wiveS
@Ayattl
2 жыл бұрын
@@kaalufshinni3576 I don’t think it was that deep. Please be kinder
@abumukhtaar3845
2 жыл бұрын
@@kaalufshinni3576 What if I am somali myself? You would feel stupid would'nt you bro... Therefore I advise you to remove your comment as you will be asked about it on the day of judgement, may Allah protect us all from false accusations & bad thoughts of our brothers in iman.
وَاللَّهُ يَدْعُو إِلَىٰ دَارِ السَّلَامِ وَيَهْدِي مَن يَشَاءُ إِلَىٰ صِرَاطٍ مُّسْتَقِيمٍ ** correction**
Masha Allah
و عليكم سلام ورحمة الله وبركة شكرا استاذ
Sal bro.. happy seeing you again, kindly drop me a message..your formal school mate in Madinah
When will you be resuming the exclusive Aqeedah class on the book Al-Tadmuriyyah? I was enjoying it!
@Omar-uy4ce
2 жыл бұрын
@Kk There will always be barriers with studying the religion because it's such a virtuous action. You need to strive with whatever resources you have and inshallah Allah (Swt) will make it easier for you.
@ghurabaa114xx
2 жыл бұрын
@Kk aw :( may Allah make it easy for u
@user-dx8eh2vc5r
2 жыл бұрын
@Kk Are you a brother or a sister? If you’re on the telegram group message me إن شاء الله I’ll try to help.
@RochelleHa
2 жыл бұрын
It should be tomorrow for Patreon students. The classes were shifted for just this week’s class. Today was Saturdays class and tomorrow is for Sunday’s class. In Sha Allāh schedule will be back on track this weekend. But that class is tomorrow in’Sha’Allāh
49:45 yes "friends" can destroy a marriage too
May ALLAH makes us from the righteous wife in this time. Amiiine **Any person who passed through this video plz make douعas for me to get married very soon In shaALLAH.
Introduction : when you were reading surah taubah :40 almost to cry 😢😭
Assalamu alaykum brothers May Allah(SWT) increase your Knowledge and grant u Goodness in Ithis world and the Hereafter Ameen ya raabil alameen plz forgive and correct me if I didn't understand the story. So my take on it is. Firstly the sister who got influenced by the other sisters and confronted her husband. Dont u think part of the marriage is talking explaining giving her advice and guidance bcoz this was a test from Allah (SWT) and to see how they solve and find a solution to it and take it from there and not be so harsh . Marriage is abt growing together and help each other with each other's flaws. By the will of Allah (SWT). She is some one daughter . Imagine the hurt her parents and family feeling. U hav to considerate and think and have wisdom and ask for guidance from the Almighty Lord Barak Allahu feek
@parminderkalyana3518
2 жыл бұрын
Keeping in mind she is from bak home and she was probably overwhelmed and out of curiosity and that's wer shaytaan saw his chance. I take it they haven't been married long and I think u said they had children or the auntys was saying the children get money. Now I may b wrong so plz forgive me. It's almost sounds like his ego was hurt and showing his control and who's boss and sends her bak home. Now we r always going to get sisters and brothers like that. So may b he could hav gone to Imam Iof that masjid and ask him to do a kutbahh regarding that matter thru the Quran and sunnah. Bcoz these woman need to b reminded so they dont do it to anyone else InshaAllah and hav a chance to make tawbah and seek knowledge InshaAllah .Its abt finding solutions by the Quaran and Sunnah Barak Allahu feek
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Assalaaamu alaikum. There is no audio in the video from 1:39:35.
Very good masha Allaah. Brothers what about the men and women who after divorce thing they still can free mix because they have children? So many of these cases are happening because they are adopting the western values like were just friends now. They stay friends with the ex and their new spouses feels they can't say anything about the husband's or wife's relationship with their ex. No one is addressing this issue clearly. This issue is causing second, third time marriages to fail.
Can you please do series on 99 names and attributes of Allah barakallahu lak
@shay-maa4164
2 жыл бұрын
Ustadh Tim Humble has a series Allahumabarik kzread.info/head/PLo8-JRSO3j93SMfqIKUrlCrn29VJdF9Ox May Allah grant you and us beneficial knowledge Ameen
what's the Ayah the Shaykh recited in the beginning? جزاكلله خير
As Salaamu Alaikum Wa Rahmatullah Wa Barakatuhu! I am learning a lot from your videos. Unfortunately, at 1:39:42 in the video, there is no sound. Please check your recording and reupload. Jazakullah khair
@salafiyyah001
2 жыл бұрын
Wa alaykum salam wa rahmatullahi wa barakatuh
3:20 آمين
Which poem is the Usthaad talking about?
MASHALLAH
Did the sound cut out at 1:39:44?
Is there a way to contact you for some questions?
سلام عليكم. The audio cuts out at 1:39:43. I tried to see if the problem was with my wifi, ear buds, or phone but it's not any of those things.
@zakiya_arab
2 жыл бұрын
Same problem happened with me :(
Mashallah
No sound after 1:39:37 ?????
Do you have a series for righteous husbands? So many lectures only on role of righteous wife.
@safiasaleh7322
2 жыл бұрын
They said the next episode will be on righteous husbands. Mentioned it several times in this episode.
48:45 subhanalah outside women can Really destroy a marriage
Assalam alaikum wa rahmatullahi wa barakatahu. Jazakallah khair. may Allah bless the people behind AMAU. Can someone tell where the opening poem from!
@bnc559
Жыл бұрын
Ayah from the Qur'an
There is no sound at the end of the video??
sound is gone after 1:39:00 ~