Preach! I'd like to add 4. Not supporting your successes. 5. Not enough communication. You're my girl but I can't get a response for 24 to 48 hours? Bye!

My wife doesn't hang out with guy friends anymore because we are married and i don't hang out with female friends anymore neither because it's about respect for our marriage. Most of her friends are females and most of my friends are males. We try to hang with more married couples instead of single couples.

Number 4 : hate her father

@reputationforever1323

7 ай бұрын

There are a number of issues that make it reasonable to hate your father . At least ask first

@janettejanners7714

3 ай бұрын

Exactly. If her father was abusive or not a good parent, then not liking him is totally understandable

@JohnSkyLey

3 ай бұрын

Even more reason to not date her - any woman that didn't have a solid relationship with a strong, masculine, and virtuous father in her life will not value a masculine, virtuous, man. If she didn't value her father, what makes you think she will value a guy she is dating?@@janettejanners7714

@alinehannak227

Ай бұрын

He wasn't even in my life 😂.

@barbieskates540

Ай бұрын

If she has healthy relationship with older men or uncle that is like a father, THAT can be a good thing to show she has a healthy ability to respect men. -- Having a BAD dad in her childhood, takes time to get over and forgive

All three red flags checked, no wonder it happened to me 🫤

The third one. Raising her voice and yelling at me, GOT ME.

Another one if she’s always on social media

@anthonycosta128

8 ай бұрын

#5 Daddy Issues

@motiveperson143

8 ай бұрын

😂lol

@alinehannak227

Ай бұрын

That means no social media for you too 😁.

@dragonbane9773

Ай бұрын

@@alinehannak227 I half agree. I’m saying it like if she spends majority of her time on it then it’s a problem.

@alinehannak227

Ай бұрын

@@dragonbane9773 Hm 🤔. But isn't majority of the time spend at school/university/work? How much time is too much for you?

My ex had all these 3 flags I rejected her with respect

1. She has ever cheated.

Exactly what I did to my ex, when she showed her real face. Thanks man, your videos are great 👍

Long nails, fake lashes, smokes are red flags for me.

Def the partying , and she doesnt want to invite you 😂

Bros speaking from experience 😅

You are spot on with these. Tattoos are another red flag

@alinehannak227

Ай бұрын

Why 😳?

@30daymissionman

Ай бұрын

@@alinehannak227 psychological studies have shown women with tattoos are more likely to be impulsive, more promiscuous, more likely to make bad decisions and suffer from a mental illness.

@Myxenoverse2saiyan

Ай бұрын

​@@alinehannak227 she's a guy

Literally what I just went through

@satvikbahuguna6940

Жыл бұрын

Im stuck help

@brochahotato4622

7 ай бұрын

Dude, same shit here.

@COMBO_TATTALIA

5 күн бұрын

Same bro, all three red flags checked,no wonder it happened to me as well

He's right ! .......Also add , if she does not work and simply expects you to work and earn money

I'm a woman. My dad and I don't have communication because he prefers his friends over his children. Im sorry, but how would I love him under these circumstances? He doesn't remember my birthday or age 😂. This doesn't make me a bad person. My point is there are validated reasons for a person not to love their dad. I have healed and I have created healthy relationships with men.

The guy "friends situation" is getting so old. Why do women need these dudes?

Or has 3 kids from 3 different guys..or ADD..all different dads😂😂😂

I was with you until that last one. It depends how often she yells. If it’s like all the time, then yeah okay, you should dump her. But like, people yell sometimes, it’s part of life. In an argument, sometimes voices are raised. It’s unpleasant but it doesn’t always mean that something abusive is happening.

@lionelgrisbane-ud87

9 ай бұрын

He said being disrespectful. Arguments happens but disrespect is crossing the line. Pay attention next time

Okay. So, I have none of those red flags and I’m still single. Make it make sense, sir. 🤔

❤real talk 2ru

Great video!

what? a girl having guy friends is a red flag? jeez then he must be that insecure. just because a woman has guy friends doesn't mean she'll cheat on him with them

@kengvue1699

11 ай бұрын

Hey, hey. Why do y’all always say “being insecure.”? Those guys are not there with her to be her friends. Are you okay? They just wanna have something with her. They’ll be there waiting for the day she break ups with her bf and then take the chance. Dude, guys only like to hang out with guys. If I wanna have fun, I’ll be with the boys.

@urdrunklesbiangf

10 ай бұрын

​@@kengvue1699 not all guy friends wanna get with the girl

@kengvue1699

10 ай бұрын

@@urdrunklesbiangf y know what? Nvm. Your right! Let’s keep living in this fake world. Yeah, if a man in a relationship decides to text a girl and ask her to be his friend, definitely, He only wants to be friends. Be frs

@urdrunklesbiangf

10 ай бұрын

@@kengvue1699 I have guy friends and we don't see each other any other way

@madervideosproductions.2525

9 ай бұрын

Agreed!

Exactly 💯

I mean, I guess it only depends on what age girls have guy friends, because when you're younger you just wanna enjoy your youth and not think about serious stuff yet, but it would turn into some what like a red flag when she's in her 20's. And this would be the same for guys too😊

which caption software do you use? if you could share please 🙏🙏

Top 5 Red Flags: 1. Daddy issues 2. High body count 3. Feminist 4. Boss Babes 5. Party Girls

@jaemess77

3 ай бұрын

I think this list says a lot about you. How's your body count?🤔

I go to a male dominated college. And there have mostly guy friends, and only a few girls are my friends. I wouldn't say they give me any attention or they are my orbiters or anything

3 additional ones 1. She is a feminist or radical leftist 2. She shows signs of trauma, scars, (active) addiction, anxiety or borderline pd. 3. You feel as if you cannot life without her. Chances are you have a toxic dynamic already at place.

@regiflex9603

Жыл бұрын

My current girlfriend with whom I’m on a break with right now shows 2 and 3. She has anxiety and I do feel like I cannot be without her. It’s been fucking with my head lately I think I’m going to sort my shit out and have her sort her anxiety out or I’m done with the relationship.

@LordxPaesh

Жыл бұрын

so you're not gonna date ever again? cus everyone has trauma lmao

@GentlemenJack109

Жыл бұрын

@@LordxPaesh facts she can’t control that and everyone deserves love even people that are messed up in the head like me

@Marigenous_Time

Жыл бұрын

I understand everything but 2. Many people can live normal lives with trauma or a mental health condition. It's your job if you love her to understand and help her. Though, if she is dragging you down with her, that may be an issue but not one to break up over if you truly love her company. People can't help many of those things.

@martinkrutzfeld

Жыл бұрын

@@Marigenous_Time No its not my job to understand and help. You cannot. There is a reason why a therapist cannot have a personal relationship with a patient.

Ty

Does this apply if your married!!! Lol She's always yelling😂

@barbieskates540

Ай бұрын

Set boundaries.. Everyone required to take slow deep breaths and talk calmly when speaking to the other. have people write out their feelings first before discusing things if they can't talk calmly.

You just described someone I just dated.

#4 She has a lot of cats

@LordxPaesh

Жыл бұрын

not liking cats is actually a red flag. tell me you don't respect boundaries and like being a control freak without telling me lmao

@anthonycosta128

8 ай бұрын

#5 Daddy Issues

@reputationforever1323

7 ай бұрын

Why are cats hated so much ? I saw a guy with 3 dogs and everyone loved him but a girl with 3 cats is red flag ? Maybe she wants to save them or maybe she even likes them . What's wrong with it ?

@anthonycosta128

7 ай бұрын

@@reputationforever1323 Because dogs are loyal cats are not very

@janettejanners7714

3 ай бұрын

I’m not a ‘cat’ person, but I wouldn’t see having a few as a red flag

My ex had all of these and more :D

What if I was guy friends but also girl friends but not as much? (Also I do like attention but I tend to give my attention back)

When I asked my girlfriend why is she giving attention to her male friends, or wheb she solo goes with them on a party or coffee, and I tell her I am not cool with that. She then sells me stories of how am I controlling and insecure and starts playing a victim card like I don't respect her social life and asks me to apologize to her because if I don't, she will be greatly offended by me.

@laurelfilipfashion8106

2 ай бұрын

Bro run!!

@barbieskates540

Ай бұрын

of women get used to multiple men giving her attention, that can be very addicting to her.. avoid women like that

Yeah i dont agree with the first one💀 he's just trying to isolate you

10 RED FLAGS 🚩 1-Tattoos that are very exposed; 2-Always wearing gym clothes; 3-Single mother; 4-No long relationship in the past; 5-No respect for parents or simpler people; 6-Act naturally in any environment (clubs, restaurants, your home, in your car, with your money...); 7-A lot of worry about hair, makeup, gym; 8-Dependence on cell phones and social networks; 9-Very easy sex and in all positions (always carry a condom, lubricant, "always virgin" reducing gel to deceive that it is very round,....) 10-Lies (age, profession, religion, money, always a victim,...)

@djangounchained6669

3 ай бұрын

What did you mean in no 9?

if a man i fancy REQUIRES that i ditch any friends male or female that's a red flag to me

@janettejanners7714

3 ай бұрын

It would be to me too. You need friends otherwise you become too dependent on the new partner

also make video for date man to man

I mean the last one is very context depending since forexample everyone hs fights sometimes and everyone has breakdowns sometimes

Hell yeah And a lot of tattoos? hoove earrings 💫and a lot of makeup.

@alinehannak227

Ай бұрын

And breathing 🤣.

Wow my crush has the THREE of them, what a coincidence

@princess_bubblegum372

11 ай бұрын

Just move on

2/3

3/3 😂😂

This list is a red flag

@Partyhardy28

8 ай бұрын

Says the soy

I’ve probably got a 50/50 split of male/female friends, when I worked as a chef it was a heavily male dominated industry, so naturally my friends were male, now the majority of my male friends are gay, as I work in the airline industry, so they’re no threat to my relationship with a straight man, I wouldn’t drop lifelong friends for a new relationship, because then the new partner becomes your only pillar of support, I can understand them not wanting to hang around with men you once dated, but expecting to drop every single male friend is just being controlling

Damn

💯💯💯

Your doing gods work my boy

4. She likes hello kitty

Responds: 1)man she just have FRIENDS... 2)this is not a red flag is a prob she can have a drink problem take her to someone to help her... 3)Yeah but you have to respect her too ✨✨✨✨✨

Oh im her

I can agree with the last two but I absolutely disagree with the first one I have a lot of guy friends who are my nerdy friends that I've known since high school and they are gold to me my friendship with them is gold to me and no man is going to be above that. If one of my best guy friend from high school needs a kidney I'm giving him my fucking kidney okay

*i live by the quote of jack reacher* *the cheapest women tends to be the one u pay for* *lifetime single. sex is a transaction not a relationship.*

I'm glad you spreading this more because these are green flags for me. I'll just keep dating the social intresting independent women. You keep gaslighting

@kenashah3721

9 ай бұрын

I aupport ya bro.. the list is a red flag lol

Wish but she is my bm 🤦🏽

Lad

Weed and too much into the hood

All these are essential

First one is bullshit a guy once told me that it's either him or my guy friend ha obv I choose my friend no one can controll u like that 😅😅

@kelvinmitchell1974

Ай бұрын

Yeah see how that goes

Short tempered is a red flag..?

What ?!?! 😂😂😂 dude this is the worst advice. Thanks for warding off suiters because I have male friends. How ridiculous and narrow minded

@shawnangelolee1238

Жыл бұрын

Cry about it he's right though

@BustedBasingKiLlEr

Жыл бұрын

Pick me 😢

@princess_bubblegum372

Жыл бұрын

​@@shawnangelolee1238 if a woman has guy friends there's nothing wrong with that

@kengvue1699

Жыл бұрын

@@princess_bubblegum372 really? Friends? What makes you think a guy finds it fun hanging out with girls? He’s just tryna hit

@princess_bubblegum372

Жыл бұрын

​@@kengvue1699 guys and girls can be friends without having any romantic feelings towards each other

This is cool if the same rules apply to you and you’re okay with accepting that your rules might be huge red flags to women but either way respect is mutual.

The guy friends thing idk not in other cultures but maybe in yours

You can just tell right away that this man is a womanizer.

Rubbish

The list is the reddest flag ever.. 1. Shouldn’t have male frineds? Lol what about my 12 ppl friends group where 7 are girls and 5 are boys? Then i contact them coz ilike attention? Lol.. no we just had a bood bond of friendship and wider ur vision and see that it’s nit just me interacting with those 5 boys.. there are other girlies along with me lol..😂😂😂 2. Yelling? Trust me it’s majorly and severly trauma and nthing else.. so if she yells at u at times is not a red flag but when u hold her in ur arms and try to calm her and task her is she is okay and tell her that her yelling is not good for either of you and for ur healthy relationship and explain how she doesn’t have to yell… and then alsoo if she doesn’t understand you and doesn’t goes silent and feel bad about yelling theeen it IS a red flag lol

@kenashah3721

8 ай бұрын

@@Akshat2021. what do u mena by 1st and 3rd circle here? Can u can please explain?.. thx for not judging me right away though lol

My girlfriend is mean and disrespectful to me but why I can’t leave her?

@dantexonline4666

8 ай бұрын

Buddy just run, I was in your situation before. Trust me when I say this especially if you've already tried calling her out on her disrespect and it didn't change anything...RUN. no heads up, no negotiation, no break up text. Just ghost, block and fucking run!

Something that could be perceived as an attempt of social isolation and manipulation by your parter is if you make them choose between you or friends of the opposite gender. Don't play with fire if you can't handle being burned.