3 Gays 1 Hotel Room | Chosen Family Podcast

It’s happening! Mom, Dad, and Baby all in the same room. Join them as they discuss why Ashley puked on stage, how Mak was traumatized by a crab, and a listener question on how to let anger out.
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  • @shadufr
    @shadufrАй бұрын

    bro the in-person podcast vibes are UNMATCHED I live for this

  • @meganknapp6226
    @meganknapp6226Ай бұрын

    lol, the Jewish joke while Ashley is wearing striped pajamas 💀

  • @kalpic11

    @kalpic11

    Ай бұрын

    noooooo

  • @Qweenkayy

    @Qweenkayy

    Ай бұрын

    OMG🤣💀

  • @punishedcrow

    @punishedcrow

    Ай бұрын

    LMAO NOOOOOOOOO

  • @kelli_o

    @kelli_o

    Ай бұрын

    i really hope ashley sees this comment

  • @brennabreithaupt6928

    @brennabreithaupt6928

    Ай бұрын

    @ashleygavin

  • @JuMixBoox
    @JuMixBooxАй бұрын

    Even Alayna's ✨fiancée✨ as the live audience? This week truly is everything.

  • @kerizella
    @kerizellaАй бұрын

    a single hotel room isn't enough to contain this much lesbian power

  • @hnysdn
    @hnysdnАй бұрын

    Mak’s girlfriend explaining to the crab place people: “everyone can cook, not everyone can eat. “

  • @PNWwildlife

    @PNWwildlife

    Ай бұрын

    😂😂😂😂 best comment ever!!

  • @colaty8P

    @colaty8P

    Ай бұрын

    lmao

  • @neutrinohman
    @neutrinohmanАй бұрын

    I really appreciate how this podcast has helped to simulate the experience of being a child of divorce

  • @craigjenkins5434

    @craigjenkins5434

    Ай бұрын

    Lol this is the best possible outcome of divorce

  • @globular3811

    @globular3811

    Ай бұрын

    LMAO

  • @karisfunkartist
    @karisfunkartistАй бұрын

    When Mak said "why'd you put Mak in the corner?" Only thing I could think was "nobody puts Baby in the corner!" 😂

  • @briannacruz2816
    @briannacruz2816Ай бұрын

    “Bro stop, I’m going to come“ that was so funny lol

  • @clarag0373
    @clarag0373Ай бұрын

    the ordering a crab and not expecting to get a crab is cracking me up i love this

  • @blixacash5458

    @blixacash5458

    Ай бұрын

    But it's not cracking up the crab...

  • @swiftie4856
    @swiftie4856Ай бұрын

    Nobody mentioned the black tank top. Maybe it’s because Alayna’s girlfriend was there but I felt a little betrayed by the lack of mentioning how hot she was.

  • @jadynromero8175
    @jadynromero8175Ай бұрын

    Lol to be fair, I like it when Ashley points out the parasocial 😂 reality checks are important lol

  • @emilym7253
    @emilym7253Ай бұрын

    trashing apple maps is the content i am here for truly

  • @lysie23
    @lysie23Ай бұрын

    I can’t believe they put mak in a chair!!!!!

  • @kalpic11

    @kalpic11

    Ай бұрын

    is there lore I’m forgetting?

  • @Sselwal

    @Sselwal

    Ай бұрын

    Nobody puts baby in the corner.

  • @goldenmomo85
    @goldenmomo85Ай бұрын

    49:28 the way it endeeeeeeed!! I'm dyyyyyyyyying 🤣💀💀💀💀💀

  • @twildabuckingham
    @twildabuckinghamАй бұрын

    "You guys were *SO EXCITED* to do this 😂😂😂😂😂" "Well yeah❤?"

  • @BHandle14
    @BHandle14Ай бұрын

    Alayna's crabs and period joke was flawless! My wife and I laughed so hard. This episode is amazing!

  • @jazzwalker5074
    @jazzwalker5074Ай бұрын

    I love that mak is the youngest but has amazing dad jokes

  • @spiderlinz
    @spiderlinzАй бұрын

    41:08 every time Ashley says “DUMB” I cannot breathe

  • @moony788
    @moony788Ай бұрын

    Mak: „I don‘t think I actually have autism“ also mak: „umm that is too much eye contact for me. No eye contact pls.“

  • @significantsoil5345
    @significantsoil5345Ай бұрын

    37:55 Ashley filling in for Fulton 🐈‍⬛️

  • @Chuberlovesguatemala
    @ChuberlovesguatemalaАй бұрын

    I really want a compilation of ashley explaining what the chosen family is and why we are watching. Pure Gold. The moment when it goes too far and alaynas face is like woah ok ok

  • @Sarah-hs5vw
    @Sarah-hs5vwАй бұрын

    All single lesbians will be standing on chairs at your shows now 😂

  • @AKViiduh
    @AKViiduhАй бұрын

    Maks hilarious album cover joke went unnoticed! 😂

  • @eyeAmBrittanyH

    @eyeAmBrittanyH

    Ай бұрын

    I literally burst out laughing and was expecting another AshGav high five but it didn't happen LOL

  • @petrasteinke4388
    @petrasteinke4388Ай бұрын

    10:26 Mak the Menace came back for a moment 😂

  • @the_rest_is_confetti
    @the_rest_is_confettiАй бұрын

    37:54 I've never laughed so hard at this podcast. It was perfect. Especially that no one adressed it.

  • @interferenzbrille_2542
    @interferenzbrille_2542Ай бұрын

    As a german, I actually agree with Ashley's analysis, really. Imagine living there and having to deal with these kinds of people and bureaucracy? It IS hell on earth.

  • @lilshmet4167

    @lilshmet4167

    Ай бұрын

    Yeah, I relate to this in Belgium

  • @sabbistarr9874
    @sabbistarr987411 күн бұрын

    "Was there a bib? .... Then you're getting a whole crab." Ashley kills me. 😂😂😂😂😂

  • @TolPhontos
    @TolPhontosАй бұрын

    As a German Gen X I can confirm that being on time is considered polite, best to be 5 minutes early. I Don't know if the younger generations still value this as much though

  • @ashgavs

    @ashgavs

    Ай бұрын

    in germany they do. trust me.

  • @madig2041
    @madig2041Ай бұрын

    petition for more in person podcast episodes

  • @tambob82
    @tambob82Ай бұрын

    Supposed to be working rn.😏 Much love from Germany!💚🇩🇪 Update: Finished Pod, have Notes. Yes, Germany has a yuuuge stick up it's ass. I'm a Brit, but have lived here for 24 years. The safest, stablest country I know. But being a rebel is hard here.😅

  • @user-et5me8mo9e
    @user-et5me8mo9eАй бұрын

    Technically it is 4 Gays 1 hotel room because Alayna's girlfriend is also in the room. lol

  • @Eeeeeeeeerie
    @EeeeeeeeerieАй бұрын

    “DID THEY BRING OUT THE WHOLE PIZZA AND MAKE YOU CUT IT” was WILD 🤣 Ashley’s savagery has me dying

  • @J_Themborn
    @J_ThembornАй бұрын

    For the anger question, why not go to a rage room? You can go to a room where you can smash stuff and scream all you want

  • @irradiated_woman8016

    @irradiated_woman8016

    Ай бұрын

    I've wanted to do this ever since I heard it was a thing (s/o Amy and Tammy Slaton lol) have you done it? Was it good?

  • @KaitieHopkins093
    @KaitieHopkins093Ай бұрын

    They're too powerful all together, be afraid, be very afraid

  • @krissicarsonart
    @krissicarsonartАй бұрын

    1. As a single woman at Ashley's shows, all I'm thinking about is how bad of an audience member I am because I don't yell or laugh really hard. I feel this way at all comedy shows. 2. I use Google Maps because Apple Maps has steered me wrong TOO MANY TIMES. Also, I road tripped around Canada in 2017 and Apple Maps wouldn't even work, so Google it was from then on!

  • @ashgavs

    @ashgavs

    Ай бұрын

    dont feel bad, i dont want you to yell lol, so i really appreciated it!

  • @hi-yo1kq
    @hi-yo1kqАй бұрын

    21:13 the shock on Ashley’s face I can’t-

  • @sierrafancher9958
    @sierrafancher9958Ай бұрын

    Not the ‘this is my album cover’ during the Alayna GF reveal omg 😅

  • @sarahm7086
    @sarahm7086Ай бұрын

    2:46 god Ashley you didn’t have to call me (us) out so hard that early on

  • @theauntless
    @theauntlessАй бұрын

    25:15 "Sorry I'm too distracted by the point I'm about to make" 😂

  • @joybubbles
    @joybubblesАй бұрын

    Ashley giving out free foot content! I love how unhinged you three get in a hotel room.

  • @summerkennedy348
    @summerkennedy348Ай бұрын

    I actually use a compass and wind direction to get where I’m going

  • @summerkennedy348

    @summerkennedy348

    Ай бұрын

    I love to scream in my car or in the middle of the woods to get anger out

  • @emilypalma5763
    @emilypalma5763Ай бұрын

    As a single woman who’s been to Ashley’s show I feel absolutely attacked mak and your completely 100% right too

  • @gadogado4468
    @gadogado4468Ай бұрын

    This was next level chaos and I couldn't get enough.

  • @liza-uw3sq
    @liza-uw3sqАй бұрын

    y'all didn't say anything about what you ate today for dinner, but I'm sure it was a crab!! LMAOO

  • @_asantesana_squashbanana_

    @_asantesana_squashbanana_

    Ай бұрын

    Pssy!

  • @DarkRulerHaDes666
    @DarkRulerHaDes666Ай бұрын

    49:26 Another one for the 'best moments' list, methinks.

  • @blakemtg47
    @blakemtg47Ай бұрын

    A glimpse of what Mac is like off camera? 21:07

  • @jacklandismusic
    @jacklandismusicАй бұрын

    Growing up on the East Coast, I’m VERY used to getting a whole crab when I order crab. We mostly have blue crabs over here, which don’t really get big enough for the legs to be sold on their own. You can get snow crab legs, but they’re usually a totally separate and distinct item from just a crab dish.

  • @kerukei1
    @kerukei1Ай бұрын

    I binge watched nearly sixty episodes. This is for sure my favorite pod.

  • @ttarotkidd
    @ttarotkiddАй бұрын

    BEST ENDING EVER LMAO

  • @JuMixBoox
    @JuMixBooxАй бұрын

    Sorry from Germany and thank you from Amsterdam! (I went to the show there because it was closest to me and I used to live there.) It truly is something else to see you on stage in a room that feels so massive and see you in your element. In a "I can't believe I just took a picture on my phone of that, that's something that I'd only get to see on TV"-way. What a fun episode as well! And a deep question. You guys rock!

  • @hanna445
    @hanna445Ай бұрын

    It's so funny to me to hear someone elses opinion on germany as a german because working here is insane to me, i can't imagine just being thrown into this. It's a constant feeling of "is it really that serious" 😂

  • @Mi-Mi-Michelle
    @Mi-Mi-MichelleАй бұрын

    As a German not living in Germany I just pissed my pants 😂

  • @liasnclr
    @liasnclrАй бұрын

    Ashley’s face when Mak said, “I take walks” 😂

  • @KalhyceK
    @KalhyceKАй бұрын

    For the anger thing, exercising, particularly some kind of martial art/combat is very good. Contrary to what you may believe, you won't hurt anyone and it would help you to control how your anger is directed. It was very helpful for me when I was a teen. Running might also help. Depending on where you are based, rage rooms might be an option. Otherwise, wood chopping or doing something like that mght also help. One more thing, metal music, or music in general, sing to the top of your lungs. It gives you a physical and mental outlet.

  • @matthijsclaessen8152

    @matthijsclaessen8152

    Ай бұрын

    Yeh. Listening to aggressive music is a safe way to vent or experience emotions.

  • @RoxaneJ14
    @RoxaneJ14Ай бұрын

    The chaotic energy of this pod was amazing, it's really lovely to see you guys all together and really adds to the pod!

  • @Louisyed
    @LouisyedАй бұрын

    Alayna competing with Mak at the end for who is more in awe of Ashley 😂

  • @ItsEmmy69
    @ItsEmmy69Ай бұрын

    OMG THIS MIGHT BE THE BEST ENDING TO A PODCAST EVER LMAAAOOO

  • @DanielleDrewa
    @DanielleDrewaАй бұрын

    I knew Alayna’s girlfriend being in the back ground but still made me excited when I heard her voice! Alayna little laugh and compliments to her gf! ❤

  • @marritt1
    @marritt1Ай бұрын

    I could watch this for hours. Please do more together in person I loooooved it

  • @eyeseajujubee
    @eyeseajujubeeАй бұрын

    The chaos of the family being together is top tier ✨

  • @lizan1993
    @lizan1993Ай бұрын

    This was so fun! Ashley was so funny with her face in the other camera angle 😂 so proud you loved amsterdam! Not suprised, it is a really unique city!

  • @rachellemackay6438
    @rachellemackay6438Ай бұрын

    I want to win that immersion shattering sit in pod cast viewing!!

  • @JimmyR2023
    @JimmyR2023Ай бұрын

    I’m an Aussie that works in Germany and the Germans focus on tasks not outcome. It is highly bureaucratic, inefficient and technologically backwards. The fax machine lives on in Germany.

  • @joojoobeez
    @joojoobeezАй бұрын

    The “I’ll eat whey” “Yeah, whey good!” Right before the ad break would’ve been a perfect cut to a Hellofresh ad

  • @Ahearnhoula
    @AhearnhoulaАй бұрын

    As a Marylander, the best crab comes to the table whole. I was so confused at Mak’s shock!

  • @irradiated_woman8016
    @irradiated_woman8016Ай бұрын

    The _THBPTTTTTTTTT_ i produced when sweet little brother produced a WW2 joke out of nowhere... that was amazing. For the record, i also laughed at alayna's no period-only crabs.

  • @RakshadaShirley

    @RakshadaShirley

    Ай бұрын

    Me too

  • @helpfuliavids
    @helpfuliavidsАй бұрын

    I feel seen with the rant on German neurotic behavior.... the fact that this is normalized and if you are different you are socially penalized is why we are f*ed up even when we are not neurotic like that.

  • @pauliina_
    @pauliina_Ай бұрын

    As a German, Ashleys perception of germans and punctuality is so funny. It's true, being on time is running late in Germany haha. And general bureaucracy in Germany is so fucked up, but I only ever think about it when people from abroad complain about it.

  • @chrisfrench5304
    @chrisfrench5304Ай бұрын

    Best episode yet . Loved the entire vibe

  • @kapowjam3462
    @kapowjam3462Ай бұрын

    This was something! Always a special event when anyone is together 🎉

  • @trisarahtopsart
    @trisarahtopsartАй бұрын

    No but the comedic timing of Mac's whey joke and the ad was everything

  • @RondyWooten
    @RondyWootenАй бұрын

    I use Google Maps. Thanks for asking.

  • @kaiya33123
    @kaiya33123Ай бұрын

    WAAAHHHH I've been waiting for this episode ever since I saw the content you posted with each other on insta!!🥰🥰😍 The all together live podcast vibes are EVERYTHING!!😍

  • @etheplant
    @etheplantАй бұрын

    i didnt even know apple maps existed lol

  • @fluterem8866
    @fluterem8866Ай бұрын

    omg finally in-person!! Thanks for keeping me company while I cook dinner, y'all. I used to call my ~actual family~ but now I live in a weird time zone and they're usually asleep, lol.

  • @niareb
    @niarebАй бұрын

    Mak's German joke made me CREASE

  • @hi-yo1kq
    @hi-yo1kqАй бұрын

    Amazing episode. Definitely one I’m going to rewatch

  • @ramaadole9514
    @ramaadole9514Ай бұрын

    In person podcast was the greatest thing ever after the day ive had!

  • @weiting1950
    @weiting1950Ай бұрын

    Apple Maps because it shows traffic lights and you can count them so you know exactly when to turn!!

  • @skallywalla502
    @skallywalla502Ай бұрын

    This was amazing. Watching this right before couples therapy with my spouse is exactly what i needed. ❤ I always feel bad when i can tell Ashley isn't feeling well...but then usually laugh the hardest because she channels her pain into humor so effortlessly. THAT ENDING 😂😂😂

  • @shae113
    @shae113Ай бұрын

    Talking about being at Ashley's shows makes me all the more excited for this fall. I have my tickets for the Buffalo appearance in November! Also, for the Patreon listener, you can't lessen anger by expressing anger, it has to be defused. Anger is a masking emotion that covers other emotions, often multiple ones. Figure out what other emotions are actually there (jealously, betrayal, guilt, grief, etc.) and address those (therapy!!!). Anger is preventing feeling these deeper and more complex emotions from being felt, so if you want to get rid of the anger, deal with the deeper feelings. Also, focus on taking care of yourself now - eat as best as you can, sleep regularly, and look for joy in your life wherever you can. It will get better, nothing lasts forever.

  • @KristanceGlam
    @KristanceGlamАй бұрын

    One of my favorite episodes so far!

  • @heuredux
    @heureduxАй бұрын

    watched this on my way home and i literally have to control myself from laughing so hard in the bus hahahahaha

  • @ewaldahl
    @ewaldahlАй бұрын

    I always use Google maps. I am a taxi driver for my job. It always gets me to my destination within 50 feet. Love ya all

  • @Miss.sassycassy
    @Miss.sassycassyАй бұрын

    I LOVE that you have the convos that are real and raw ON the podcast not off air.

  • @Miss.sassycassy

    @Miss.sassycassy

    Ай бұрын

    Also I just use whatever map I see first on my phones screen so sometimes Apple sometimes Google and I never noticed it wasn’t the same thing until I looked while you guys talked about it😅😂

  • @barbaradiaper2448
    @barbaradiaper2448Ай бұрын

    One of my favourite episodes. Loved it ❤

  • @kaylajonesmarie
    @kaylajonesmarieАй бұрын

    Never been so excited

  • @Over.thewillow

    @Over.thewillow

    Ай бұрын

    That's concerning

  • @skymacdermott7486

    @skymacdermott7486

    Ай бұрын

    I literally yelled "they are doing an in person episode" and my brother looked at me concerned 😅

  • @stephaliexoxo
    @stephaliexoxoАй бұрын

    During the pandemic, and low key due to TikTok, I couldn’t find enoki mushrooms anywhere. All the local Asian markets near me were completely sold out so I resorted to watching the videos of people eating them 😅😂 weirdly relatable

  • @bug_joony
    @bug_joonyАй бұрын

    Nobody puts Baby in a corner 💪🏼🙄

  • @stephtaylor6292
    @stephtaylor6292Ай бұрын

    the outro had me in tears of laughter for a full minute after.

  • @joe-dy9fh
    @joe-dy9fhАй бұрын

    I got so excited when I realized it was wednesday again! Also you three look so good

  • @seraynity20
    @seraynity20Ай бұрын

    why does this have to end, i can watch them forever, we dont get much episodes where we see them together :(( i wanted this to be longer, the vibes when they are together are so different than virtual and the energy is just off the charts

  • @julzamidala2865
    @julzamidala2865Ай бұрын

    This is such a great pod, the in-person energy is so good. You know, for a live podcast... that's recorded... and then edited. ;)

  • @julzamidala2865

    @julzamidala2865

    Ай бұрын

    Also, re: the Germans. Ashley’s observation that life is a lifetime of uncomfortable horrible emotions explains why Germans are so neurotic, they focus on perfectionism and timeliness to distract themselves from their existential dread of Ashley’s truth. ;)

  • @ROCKONplaceboforever
    @ROCKONplaceboforeverАй бұрын

    Amazing this made my week better ❤

  • @KittyRoyalty777
    @KittyRoyalty777Ай бұрын

    Ashley going too deep to fast😂

  • @mariannetfinches
    @mariannetfinchesАй бұрын

    This episode was so hilarious. Definitely one of their best ones. My take on the anger thing is don't let it build up. I used to marinate in resentment. Now i start by thinking of the other person's perspective - am i justified? Do they have a point? They have their own needs that might just not meet mine. If that's not it, i address it directly as soon as I'm able to do it calmly. If i can't do that because the person has some power over me or is a faceless organisation, I do what Ashley does on stage & go into multiple high-energy rants which serve the dual purpose of catharsis & entertainment. Either way, don't bottle it up. It'll come out at some point whether you choose it or not

  • @Amaya-ir6ob
    @Amaya-ir6obАй бұрын

    “Guys stop im gonna come” *end of podcast* 🤣😂🤣 Lowkey my favorite episode so far

  • @ASMRSlow
    @ASMRSlowАй бұрын

    Loved every minute of this!!

  • @miraclewade6112
    @miraclewade6112Ай бұрын

    As a southerner from the coast, I didn't know people didn't know about crabs 😭 You have to be taught how to break it open and eat it and what parts not to eat Also only cooked crabs are red

  • @MrBochan123
    @MrBochan123Ай бұрын

    Europeans laughing our asses off about the crab hysteria 😂😂😂😂😂