3 Attractive Habits That Make Women Want You

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Charlie Houpert from Charisma on Command explains how to flirt with women. How can men flirt well with girls? What are the best Charisma on Command tips for being funny with women? What are some signs that she’s flirting with you? How does Charisma on Command say that men can be funnier with women? How do you talk to women? How do you flirt confidently?
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  • @ChrisWillx
    @ChrisWillx2 жыл бұрын

    Hello cult members. Watch the full episode here - kzread.info/dash/bejne/ip2Zpbdynt3YnJs.html

  • @CoolPapaJMagik

    @CoolPapaJMagik

    2 жыл бұрын

    Sweet Baby Gang for life. Lol I didn’t know this was a cult but I’m in

  • @ogresimping3246

    @ogresimping3246

    Жыл бұрын

    Cult members? I got my crab costume ready to go! 🦀

  • @Winterfelt

    @Winterfelt

    11 ай бұрын

    @@CoolPapaJMagik I’m

  • @Winterfelt

    @Winterfelt

    11 ай бұрын

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  • @Winterfelt

    @Winterfelt

    11 ай бұрын

    Ju

  • @DenzelRoss
    @DenzelRoss2 жыл бұрын

    he's absolutely right on this stuff... especially the "dont have a sniper mentality" point; everyone is an opportunity for us to practice outgoingness and "flirting" with the world.

  • @Sakattack2023

    @Sakattack2023

    2 жыл бұрын

    "flirting with the world" is how I live my life. (except on here) Especially with women I don't even find attractive in my day to day. It just helps you get ahead and leave a good impression. Along with the benefits he described.

  • @robgoodsight6216

    @robgoodsight6216

    2 жыл бұрын

    ....well...I would tend to agree.... 😏...but what if one is?🤔

  • @DenzelRoss

    @DenzelRoss

    2 жыл бұрын

    If one is then hopefully you would've had plenty of practice. Sometimes if they're very attractive, it could be easier to talk to them, because there's not much ambiguity as to why you're speaking with them. Even you can be more genuine because she is genuinely attractive to you.🤣 and she would appreciate the spontaneous authenticity as opposed to a dude presenting a script, which you would more likely be doing if she was average looking. But anyway, practice, practice. My girl broke up with me a week ago, after two years, I'm back in these cold cold streets🤣

  • @Macheako

    @Macheako

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@Sakattack2023 bruh.....please don’t flirt with me...... Plz 😂

  • @Fuudimitzu

    @Fuudimitzu

    Жыл бұрын

    I devloped this kind of personality when i started to work as a cashier in Tesco, talked in a a fun way to a lot of woman. And this sticked with me and i don't have any problem approaching even the most beautiful females way above my league. Life is too depressing, we should make fun conversations whenever possible.

  • @martinnhantran
    @martinnhantran2 жыл бұрын

    1. Be interesting 2. Genuine standards 3. Hold and enjoy sexual tension - Setting a vibe and sharing your values - be curious - Vibe and be outgoing with everyone, don't snipe

  • @ainzooalgown1364

    @ainzooalgown1364

    Жыл бұрын

    If anyone is struggling to be interesting: Be interested in a topic you enjoy, and others will empathize with you.

  • @jerkkub

    @jerkkub

    Жыл бұрын

    @@ainzooalgown1364 What if i enjoy like 50 different topics?

  • @loanna5500

    @loanna5500

    Жыл бұрын

    @@jerkkub choose those, that will probably interest her most

  • @thewaysh

    @thewaysh

    Жыл бұрын

    @@ainzooalgown1364 What if I enjoy electric cars and biotech?

  • @charzanboo9940

    @charzanboo9940

    Жыл бұрын

    @@thewaysh Go to electric car and biotech seminars and conferences...

  • @slushyslimshady
    @slushyslimshady Жыл бұрын

    Found these points most enlightening 1. Flirtation is world building. 2. A good flirt is capable of creating a pleasant "world" through communication. 3. Flirt with the world. Everyone wants to inhabit a pleasant world!

  • @madkabal

    @madkabal

    Жыл бұрын

    Stupid conversation from a stupid man that was born wealthy, never had to fight for anything. isnt short. isnt ugly. and a completely fake persona

  • @Ortex313
    @Ortex3132 жыл бұрын

    Even though I’m married, this is still great advice. People in long-term committed relationships still need to take their significant others on dates where the two can just vibe and have fun and charm each other.

  • @herb1563

    @herb1563

    Жыл бұрын

    If your partner were ‘flirting with the world’ would you be fine with that or would it be cause for concern?

  • @patfix

    @patfix

    7 ай бұрын

    With ‘flirting with the world’ he just means to interact with other people even if there’s no sexual/relational interest. So no, I wouldn’t mind it. In fact my partner does that (way better than me). If you’re a more introverted person that’s a really hard thing to do, which is kind of my problem with these tips.

  • @TheDubstep452

    @TheDubstep452

    6 ай бұрын

    Married and watching a video on how to rizz

  • @Fujtajblus

    @Fujtajblus

    6 ай бұрын

    @@herb1563 It is pretty much clear he suggests you do this when you're single. So dunno how you got the conclusion you do this also when you're in a relationship

  • @Patash7

    @Patash7

    3 ай бұрын

    What does vibe mean?

  • @aalonbullard9320
    @aalonbullard9320 Жыл бұрын

    I currently work in customer service. I try to talk and engage in playful conversation with everyone at all times. its been over a month now and it comes so naturally to just flirt with more attractive young ladies now because being flirtatious with everyone makes it as easy as breathing. Not having a sniper mentality is probably the number one key in my opinion. Hes absolutely right

  • @slushyslimshady
    @slushyslimshady Жыл бұрын

    Absolutely love the "flirt with the world" idea. I've always thought of flirtation as being strictly sexual, but it's really the foundation of pleasant interaction. Whenever you find yourself in a pleasant social situation, you're usually flirting with a person or a concept. It's a creative process 🤔.

  • @zerodarkthirty703

    @zerodarkthirty703

    Жыл бұрын

    This is absolutely not true, and really a very odd way to view social interactions. Unless, of course, we are going to completely change the definition of the word flirt, which is understood to mean behaving in a way to signal to another person that you are interested in them and you wish to attract them. Flirting is understood to be a precursor to a more intimate relationship. If on vacation I sit down next to a gentleman by the hotel pool and I strike up a conversation about the resort, where I’m from, what I do for a living.. I am not flirting with him in any way shape or form. Am I being friendly? Yes Am I being outgoing? Sure Is there a chance I just popped a Percocet? Of course Am I flirting with him? No, Not even a tiny bit.. And again, unless we are just redefining the word, I find it to be a very bizarre, and somewhat gross way to describe that interaction.

  • @devkrishanrpurohit5181

    @devkrishanrpurohit5181

    Жыл бұрын

    Read the way of the superior men, if this concept interests you

  • @jamesmarsden7111

    @jamesmarsden7111

    Жыл бұрын

    ​@@zerodarkthirty703 I'm sorry what you said was bs

  • @zerodarkthirty703

    @zerodarkthirty703

    Жыл бұрын

    @@jamesmarsden7111 yeah.. why is that? What did say that is false or misleading?

  • @wiffy3825

    @wiffy3825

    Жыл бұрын

    @@zerodarkthirty703 sounds like you have no desire to come off as a charismatic person.

  • @JP-vx2sr
    @JP-vx2sr2 жыл бұрын

    I used to get nerves around attractive women, and then i would think to myself "supposing things went well, 6 months in there's things i would start to despise, and things i would take for granted. Why wait six months when i can start now?" The point wasn't to have a bad attitude, but to not absurdly overvalue some stranger because lizard brain and to counter it in a way my brain would genuinely accept. You too can imagine genuinely hating anyone! lol

  • @danfontaine8179

    @danfontaine8179

    2 жыл бұрын

    I feel like I need to continue letting this soak in. All these 10s walking around out here with perfect lives and perfect souls lol

  • @JoseDiaz-rd9fh

    @JoseDiaz-rd9fh

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@danfontaine8179 Imagine them taking a dump. Yes it stinks too

  • @lavienestpasunlongfleuvetr2559

    @lavienestpasunlongfleuvetr2559

    Жыл бұрын

    Or you could just focus on having a good conversation with them, and make that your goal, instead of bringing a negative vibe from imagining you'll hate them eventually.

  • @JP-vx2sr

    @JP-vx2sr

    Жыл бұрын

    @@lavienestpasunlongfleuvetr2559 cool

  • @samuelmorse784

    @samuelmorse784

    Жыл бұрын

    @@JoseDiaz-rd9fh That is a very stupid dehuman Ising thing to do. Look up Joseph Stalin that is the exact visualization. technique he used to justify murdering millions of people.

  • @monadamus42
    @monadamus42 Жыл бұрын

    "Flirt with the world." So true. Definitely makes you more attractive to anyone witnessing it as well. Masterclass. Thank you!

  • @simpleman7203

    @simpleman7203

    Жыл бұрын

    @@ralphfurley4217 and?

  • @rumpustime5460

    @rumpustime5460

    7 ай бұрын

    ​@@ralphfurley4217Well most people still don't do it so a reminder is probably warranted.

  • @user-he2ou2ex2f

    @user-he2ou2ex2f

    5 ай бұрын

    @@ralphfurley4217You really think the origin of it is 20 years ago. Everything has been done in human history in some form. Everything is just built on prior knowledge.

  • @davidwilcock4661
    @davidwilcock4661 Жыл бұрын

    Those last lines from the video are gold💯👏 flirt with the world, and have patterns of communication that are habituated in that way

  • @techiegz
    @techiegz Жыл бұрын

    That last advise is so on point! I know because it's naturally how I am with anyone. And women especially always mention "the vibe". If it's how you normally roll, it's never a stretch!

  • @mannymartin_ez
    @mannymartin_ez6 ай бұрын

    Charisma On Command has legitimately changed my life for the better. I owe so much to this dude.

  • @avipatable
    @avipatable4 ай бұрын

    "Flirting with the world" just makes your day better - and often the other people too (hopefully) chatting to an old lady walking her dog etc. Helps the world go round.

  • @clemdane
    @clemdane2 жыл бұрын

    The world-building thing is SO on the nose. Perfect.

  • @RishabhSharma10225
    @RishabhSharma10225 Жыл бұрын

    This was the best video I have seen on this topic. Useful, practical and relevant advice.

  • @erikhansen6780
    @erikhansen67806 ай бұрын

    Love the idea of “flirting with the world”. I’m 21, and used to be so nervous talking to women. Recently working in a busy restaurant as a host really really helped me with this concept! I’d recommend it to anyone who’s young and looking for a job, and to build their social confidence at the same time. You’re constantly interacting with people from all walks of life, while walking them to their table you can practice your conversational abilities. Great advice.

  • @KalvinistKyle
    @KalvinistKyle10 ай бұрын

    I have noticed the days i have more conversations with normal people, it warms me up. And so moving forward i am already in the right mindset to talk to people I might otherwise be too cold for. For work, as a delivery guy, i had headphones in a lot and hardly took them out thinking the music helped overcome nerves but it did the opposite. Taking them out and engaging has helped me go from transactional to full attention. So now i warm up and give my attention and it does numbers. This flirting with the world idea is exactly what I experienced in the process.

  • @parthdeshpande2966
    @parthdeshpande2966 Жыл бұрын

    Flirt with the world. What a powerful message put so succinctly. I'mma embody this.

  • @ebsss100

    @ebsss100

    Жыл бұрын

    How’s it been so far?

  • @Mikejames1080

    @Mikejames1080

    Ай бұрын

    I'm not sure that's such a good idea.

  • @Mikejames1080

    @Mikejames1080

    Ай бұрын

    ​@@ebsss100clearly not very well.

  • @darrenchee7494
    @darrenchee74942 жыл бұрын

    I knew it! Definitely it's not just the girls that I'm attracted to, but one must be able to be vulnerable. How I like to view people are just as life-forms roaming the Earth, with all their different flavours and spices about them. This way, I've been able to see people just as they are, and not judging them at face value. I just like to also look as tough experiences, not limited to dating, as something that will make me stronger and a better man.

  • @hollowedboi5937
    @hollowedboi59372 жыл бұрын

    This is a great format: you have the full podcast which you can watch in its completion, or pick a topic from the podcast in separate videos that have specific titles in 10 minute chunks. Perfect for KZread’s taste, and for the viewers who like either long or short form content, or perhaps someone who wants to hammer in a topic into their daily mantra.

  • @RizztrainingOrder

    @RizztrainingOrder

    Жыл бұрын

    Yes, the format that every KZread podcast employs.

  • @snakesandpsychology
    @snakesandpsychology2 жыл бұрын

    Ok, here are some practical tips from a straight woman. Feel free to add/disagree.0 1. He's absolutely right about breaking the touch barrier early. My "move" is to walk up to a bloke I like (and usually already know but want to let him know I like him) and give him a shove and walk off. Works every time. If you're going to do that though, be gentle. We're smaller than you lol. A hand touch is nice but I would find someone grabbing my arm way too much. If she's wearing a ring, gently taking her hand to look closely at it works. 2. If it's raining and neither of you have an umbrella, shelter her under your jacket. It's gentlemanly, gets you nice and close to each other and makes for lots of laughs. 3. Other old school gentlemanly stuff is nice like opening doors or even offering an elbow as you walk. We get to serrupticiously feel up your biceps and is another good way of breaking the touch barrier. 4. This one works well at a bar: If you're approaching someone for the first time, standing side-on is much less threatening than face to face (especially if it's crowded) and personally I love a bloke looking down at me out of the corner of his eye. Dunno why. Try a lop sided smile too. 5. The most charismatic people often are the ones who have developed genuine interests and persuits. Go try a quirky hobby. It gets you in the habit of striking up a good rapport with new people and there might even be some good looking women there :) Good luck.

  • @Jayweex

    @Jayweex

    2 жыл бұрын

    Q

  • @Toleich

    @Toleich

    2 жыл бұрын

    If you want to catch more fish, don't take advice from a fish. Talk to the fisherman.

  • @Macheako

    @Macheako

    2 жыл бұрын

    I disagree....... With the idea that us men NEED a woman’s advice 😂✌️🇺🇸

  • @caribanna1865

    @caribanna1865

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@Toleich the fish don’t want to get caught if they had a choice they would escape the nets for their lives. Comparing women who do want to be in relationships to fish is apples to oranges.

  • @DestroyYourSkills

    @DestroyYourSkills

    2 жыл бұрын

    This is actually genuinely good advice... shame these wannabe 'alphas' are too busy trying to inflate their fragile little egos to take it... more 'fish' for me I guess 🤷😂🙏

  • @manu.iunker
    @manu.iunker7 ай бұрын

    That last piece of advice is GOLD. Don't become someone for the top girls. Become someone for anyone, or rather any situation worth of your time. It comes down to your values. Don't value only sex. Value your time being around others and by yourself. So much more than pleasure only, it's so a tiny glimpse of the spectrum, which unfortunaly tend to obscure the whole set.

  • @Miss_PANDAS
    @Miss_PANDAS Жыл бұрын

    I think I need to make a video on this topic myself. The sexiest thing a man ever did for me was come up and introduce himself and shake my hand. Now I'm the type of woman who values old fashionedness, so maybe not every woman will be so appreciative of this type of introduction. But for me, it represented manners, confidence, and sincerity. Three things I deeply value and admire. He had a humility about him too, and he completely captured my attention. I often compare his way to what I'm mostly used to. Men approaching me who immediately launch into a barrage of information about themselves, boasting and bragging, trying to force a good impression and agreeing with everything I say. A combination of arrogance and insincerity that will turn me off the most and quickest.

  • @ultrafly100

    @ultrafly100

    Жыл бұрын

    Many women talk about how much they hate approaches and try to encourage men not to do it at all, and I think the reason is because most men approach badly. A good approach is always at least pleasant for both parties, even if the woman isn’t interested in anything more.

  • @JezaLoki

    @JezaLoki

    Жыл бұрын

    You've never been a man approaching a woman. If you had, you'd know that it has practically nothing to do with what you do or say and everything to do with how you look.

  • @stevendalloesingh

    @stevendalloesingh

    7 ай бұрын

    You shoupd make that video, really good topic.

  • @kaim8115

    @kaim8115

    4 ай бұрын

    ​@@ultrafly100u mean being unattractive?

  • @constructionagency8394
    @constructionagency83945 ай бұрын

    “2:45” the way he’s broken down sexual tension is really intuitive and interesting. I’ve experienced this a lot but didn’t know how to describe it. Such a great topic to touch on 🎉

  • @Neonb88
    @Neonb887 ай бұрын

    Really great tips for spicing up a boring work meeting or gathering of family or friends too. Even just striking up a conversation at the bus stop with the right energy can be an awesome part of your day and others'

  • @marcoslopez127
    @marcoslopez1272 жыл бұрын

    I genuinely like this guest.

  • @lookinforhumanz7640

    @lookinforhumanz7640

    2 жыл бұрын

    You could say he's pretty charismatic

  • @anglodoomer5995

    @anglodoomer5995

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@lookinforhumanz7640 the fact he’s a sexy guy means nothing?

  • @Robert-ri7mt

    @Robert-ri7mt

    2 жыл бұрын

    🥴🤢🤮

  • @jacobzindel987
    @jacobzindel987 Жыл бұрын

    I found its actually a lot easier, to pick up women, working in a liquor store than going to bars. It's quieter, so easier to have conversation, the women are are less defensive, plus, you get to meet the introverted bookish nerd girls who spend their weekend at home with video games and a bottle of wine, instead of going to bars.

  • @tomaszsosnowski9279

    @tomaszsosnowski9279

    Жыл бұрын

    Plus you get paid

  • @omgyeaXD

    @omgyeaXD

    Жыл бұрын

    Ah the alchoes

  • @dukedook1187

    @dukedook1187

    Жыл бұрын

    giga chad move

  • @wainedodd8055

    @wainedodd8055

    Жыл бұрын

    Don't go to bars. Be the Barman. They come to you.

  • @brothashizztv258

    @brothashizztv258

    Жыл бұрын

    Location matters a lot lol

  • @RidleyE
    @RidleyE Жыл бұрын

    Chris you earned a new subscriber with his one, thanks a lot for what you do

  • @lovetofly32
    @lovetofly324 ай бұрын

    This is exactly what ive had to learn over the last decade.. best advice ever!

  • @Eltonlin1998
    @Eltonlin1998 Жыл бұрын

    not having to always crack a joke when there is sexual tension is really hard to achieve, but is a really good point

  • @mikasasukasa4479
    @mikasasukasa4479 Жыл бұрын

    I have never once heard #3 on that list. That's simple yet clever thinking.

  • @dipro001
    @dipro001 Жыл бұрын

    "flirt with the world" is a good legit advice

  • @bacnic
    @bacnic Жыл бұрын

    The last part was eye opening, thanks

  • @DanielGoldMcduckRose
    @DanielGoldMcduckRose Жыл бұрын

    It doesn’t matter what u do if u don’t believe in yourself. Try something what’s the worse than no is the regret of not knowing if. I learned two years ago the hard way now I must use that regret as motivation. Best of luck to everyone.

  • @Adam-ui3yn
    @Adam-ui3yn Жыл бұрын

    Wow he provided a tonne of tangible examples and explained himself in a concise fashion, this was very informative ! At the end he brought up "sniper" type men, which I strongly identify with as I'm an introvert that is really productive. I have no inclination to flirt with the world, and to have it turned on all the time would be exhausting. My question is if being/acting extroverted is the only way to get women and their attention ? Talking and flirting with women comes very easy to me, my biggest difficulty is being able to do this with total strangers. If it's a girl in my class or at work it's easy, but talking to the cute barista or girl in the library seems so daunting.

  • @tempestandacomputer6951

    @tempestandacomputer6951

    7 ай бұрын

    As someone who "identified as an introvert" for years, I can say you just need to do it more. Try to chat up your cashier, waiter/ess, the random retail store worker. It is a muscle, the more you do it, the less effort it takes. You aren't stuck being "socially exhausted" after every conversation; you can and should change that.

  • @juice_man4439

    @juice_man4439

    7 ай бұрын

    I’m the same way, it comes easy with people I know but doing it with strangers is difficult sometimes. But the best way to get better at it is to do it. You don’t get better at something without practicing. It’s like being a comedian. Bill burr talks about how when he first started he’d go on stage and completely bomb and get booed off. But once you start getting those laughs and cheers you build confidence. Same thing with talking to strangers. Once you have some positive interactions then you start to get confident, and people notice. After that it’s easy

  • @Itzblu777
    @Itzblu777 Жыл бұрын

    This is a collab I definitely did not see coming

  • @jaye3547
    @jaye35476 ай бұрын

    I've flirted with the world in the past, as an introvert it is absolutely exhausting. The type of girl that attracts would have me exhausted for the rest of my life. The best advice is actually "be yourself", specifically be the best version of yourself. The rich, ripped, interesting worldly version.

  • @MrKrushgutz
    @MrKrushgutz2 жыл бұрын

    He gives an example of two people dating if they match online… most men can’t even get a quality match.

  • @danfontaine8179

    @danfontaine8179

    2 жыл бұрын

    At this point it’s a carrot on a stick. Tinder throttles your searches and how much you’re seen based on how much money you give them it’s like yo, mother fucker this is my community stop telling me who I can date lol

  • @cupbucket
    @cupbucket Жыл бұрын

    Fellow northener. Haway the lads! Proud of you for doing what you do

  • @geegee_509
    @geegee_509 Жыл бұрын

    That eye contact is what made me lean in for the first kiss. My man gave me that approval with his eyes. It was magical 😌

  • @josephsheehan1852
    @josephsheehan1852 Жыл бұрын

    Constantly asking “why”? after a simple question is a good way to keep a conversation going and to better connect with someone as well I’ve learned

  • @timofaust1315

    @timofaust1315

    Жыл бұрын

    Works even better when you have some stong flashlights into their face during that interrogation. Also, waterboarding works well to find out if they are really not interested.

  • @lastnamefirst650

    @lastnamefirst650

    7 ай бұрын

    ‘Why’ makes us defensive. It’s way better to ask ‘what about that is x y z to you?’ Use the words they chose

  • @Silrk246813
    @Silrk246813 Жыл бұрын

    More of this. Love it.

  • @MisterBlex
    @MisterBlex Жыл бұрын

    I remember someone saying men think in yes and no. Women think in maybe. Getting into the maybe playful type of conversation and just having fun is preferable for both the women and you :D

  • @Jason-se1ke
    @Jason-se1ke Жыл бұрын

    Fantastic interview

  • @kg2306
    @kg23062 жыл бұрын

    I love Charisma On Command! I found it from when he made the 3 vids on Russel Brand and spontaneously being witty. The advice he gives on his channel is dead-on!

  • @levihalperin7649

    @levihalperin7649

    2 жыл бұрын

    Their podcast is even better

  • @CMartinSalomon
    @CMartinSalomon7 ай бұрын

    Thanks Chris! Great video

  • @brianlarocque3691
    @brianlarocque3691 Жыл бұрын

    Astonishing! Just WOW to your videos! Definitely will share this video with my friends. Also, I’ll share a product Spanish Fly natural aphrodisiacs with them because my sex experience was unbelievable! I’m really excited about all the effects 🔥.

  • @jacquelinehovey2671

    @jacquelinehovey2671

    Жыл бұрын

    my boyfriend jack wanted me to be better in bed. haha jack and how? and out. of the blue your comment. thx to it he didn't break up with me luckily

  • @robgoodsight6216
    @robgoodsight62162 жыл бұрын

    Just enjoy the evening...or what ever you are doing is a good start.... Just ignoring those moment of "empasse" , being comfortable in most of the situations... Being classy, not overdoing it... Being mysterious enough....

  • @Macheako

    @Macheako

    2 жыл бұрын

    Bruh just whip it out..... Worst case she says no 😂

  • @robgoodsight6216

    @robgoodsight6216

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@Macheako ...brooo.🤣🤣🤣... Well this is after the proposal of a "coffee "...and the traditional..." I am not doing it normally..." ...and why not?

  • @Macheako

    @Macheako

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@robgoodsight6216 hahaha 😂 hell yea

  • @angelv3489
    @angelv34893 ай бұрын

    LMAO so hard "By the power of GraySkull ..." 😂 !! Great insight, guys!!! Thank you

  • @khaos_theorem7842
    @khaos_theorem7842 Жыл бұрын

    Good job female that joke was great! Here's a hug 😂

  • @GameW200
    @GameW2006 ай бұрын

    Life changing about those sniper guys and flirting with the world I was like that too, you have to be able to talk to anyone and make a lasting conversation out of anything and to do that you have to be a certain type of person

  • @VelkePivo
    @VelkePivo2 жыл бұрын

    Went into this with a roll of the eyes and a groan, but exited nodding and saying, that really makes sense

  • @Rango965
    @Rango9658 ай бұрын

    Very pertinent content, thanks a lot!

  • @jerkkub
    @jerkkub Жыл бұрын

    The best podcast there is.

  • @shorditchiscool
    @shorditchiscool2 жыл бұрын

    Some good advice in here… Coming from two beautifully symmetrical people.

  • @zupurfeg89
    @zupurfeg89 Жыл бұрын

    When I was in a "flirt with the world" mood at a party I got a date from a hot girl (unfortunately when we were by ourselves I was not able to be in the same mood, neither was she, so it did not lead anywhere) and the second time the interest from another one - It was like the first times I was behaving like that in years, so I would say that's very good advice.

  • @jakew8368
    @jakew83686 ай бұрын

    Bro on the left was FOCUSED at 5:12

  • @itsgodnga
    @itsgodnga4 ай бұрын

    flirting with the world is the best way i can think of to put it, bravo

  • @johnlombardo7816
    @johnlombardo7816 Жыл бұрын

    What a cool concept flirting with the world! Makes so much sense ! Thanks fellas! I'm new to the dating world as I have been in 15 years worth of relationships .. and achieving said girls came all to easy.. hence why I'm not still there today.. anyway.. this was incredibly well broken down and I believe I'm halfway there but that concept seems to open up the world now , excited for my first day next Friday! Thanks!

  • @dylancooper3690
    @dylancooper36907 ай бұрын

    This is actually helpful. Thank you.

  • @BRBallin1
    @BRBallin17 ай бұрын

    I was a little straightforward with my conversation style usually and that resulted in a lot of quiet moments where I ran out of things to say. Once I switched it up to have more easygoing/flirty filler stuff it became a bit easy

  • @Gunnumn
    @Gunnumn Жыл бұрын

    im naturally a good talker, i love telling stories and even other people stories. I'll have some beers with my friends and I end up having conversations with waitresses or hair dressers and my friends look at me like why didnt you ask her number she totally is into you. I tend to flirt without even realizing it and i cant get a clue if shes into me or not.

  • @azula6039
    @azula60397 ай бұрын

    I used to be a "sniper" ...obv without the "snipe effect" and about 9 month ago i started forcing myself to have converstions (and trying to enjoy them) with literally everybody. Made awesome new friends since them, got a few dating opportunities from real life AND when i think about engaging into a conversation with a cute girl on the street or whereever... not that scary any more...In general, people really dont mind being talked to.

  • @Ronin_72
    @Ronin_72 Жыл бұрын

    I hope someone sees this but when it was talked about flirting with everyone a) I figured out this on my own (I'm just trying to be a more charismatic person as a whole) b) once I came to this conclusion I found it's just fun. I honestly look forward to talking to the cashier because it makes my day better. One thing I do what to point out is, It really helps to not be afraid of people and I am not. Since childhood I have had little problems interacting with people (the times I had problems I wasn't being sincere/self confidence was low).

  • @jeffreychongsathien
    @jeffreychongsathien4 ай бұрын

    My two cents: 1) Be comfortable in your own skin 2) Have something interesting to say 3) Be interested in what she has to say 4) Enjoy the interaction

  • @hongkongkev3941
    @hongkongkev3941 Жыл бұрын

    Great clip and solid, sensible advice. Have a positive vibe and let your values be your virtues. Experience says that if you get the basics right, health, wealth, mindset, patience. You'll be alright

  • @venmis137
    @venmis137 Жыл бұрын

    I really like the concept of worldbuilding. Just seems to be a really fun idea. I'll be sure to try it out when I actually start dating.

  • @PaulDC-xl2pw
    @PaulDC-xl2pw13 күн бұрын

    Thanks for the insights!

  • @mjt7231
    @mjt72317 ай бұрын

    Be yourself and actively listen. As long as it’s real life that’s pretty much it. This isn’t how to get any woman. But if there’s chemistry. This is your best chance.

  • @jabbaweezy
    @jabbaweezy8 ай бұрын

    9:43 He's very right on what he says from this point. Gotta talk to everyone, even flirt with women you aren't attracted to or have no intention of pursuing .

  • @chris_sndw
    @chris_sndw7 ай бұрын

    As a guy who was 10 years out and gaming girls as a sport and is now in a relationship this man is 100% right with everything he said. And also thank you for this reminder that I should flirt more with my girl and not allow the everyday work to beat me down.

  • @BenWeeks-ca
    @BenWeeks-caАй бұрын

    Having standards, sharing your values, your why - these are all great things to apply in business too. Be silly, share values-your why, qualify clients so they sense you might reject them if they aren't a fit for you. Not sure how to translate sexual tension. But being curious in them of course is great.

  • @Masterpiece4590
    @Masterpiece45907 ай бұрын

    That was good. Thanks!

  • @andreasleonhard1512
    @andreasleonhard1512 Жыл бұрын

    He is 100% correct

  • @razzaghnoori1
    @razzaghnoori1 Жыл бұрын

    Look at Charlie's micro-expressions after getting these questions for the millionth time...

  • @MrRaitzi
    @MrRaitzi2 жыл бұрын

    You get confident when you look like these guys 😂

  • @peymanj3456
    @peymanj3456 Жыл бұрын

    Someone who's flirting with the world... this really got me thinking 🤔

  • @rezur3kt698
    @rezur3kt698 Жыл бұрын

    Damn solid video

  • @user-pb1bb4zd7g
    @user-pb1bb4zd7g Жыл бұрын

    For me the biggest takeaway is „flirt with the world“ :D ❤

  • @Oatskii
    @Oatskii2 жыл бұрын

    This is the most attractive I’ve seen Charlie

  • @milohasagun
    @milohasagunАй бұрын

    Hate to admit it but i definitely fall into that sniper category.. lol. Im always overthinking and shy and feel entitled to a good woman for no logical reason. Im going to really start working on breaking out of this and learn to make pleasant conversations with anyone i can. Thanks for the good advice

  • @joshmaccallum-stewart2474
    @joshmaccallum-stewart24746 ай бұрын

    Definitely 'I've run out of things to say' 🎃😂🤭

  • @CasandraLeahhh
    @CasandraLeahhh Жыл бұрын

    "no I don't wanna sleep in the water closet" 😂😂😭

  • @joelaussiegunner1400
    @joelaussiegunner14007 ай бұрын

    This would have been great advice 10 years ago 😊

  • @spartaknumerouno
    @spartaknumerouno7 ай бұрын

    look for Mystery's old videos from the early 2000's, i think. Mystery was a true pioneer and made the very same points with far more cogency, charisma, and thrust. His technique was known as the Mystery Method.

  • @bryanb.386
    @bryanb.3867 ай бұрын

    Easiest way is to just start trying with the mindset of reality that for most men its a numbers game. If yiu reflect some you will be able to learn as you go.

  • @r0conscious
    @r0conscious7 ай бұрын

    'Shape based things' 😂

  • @AwwSnookems
    @AwwSnookems7 ай бұрын

    1. be good looking 2. helps if you are tall

  • @sunshinebus99
    @sunshinebus996 ай бұрын

    It does help to be stunningly beatiful, and have this guys voice.

  • @ZZOskarZZ
    @ZZOskarZZ Жыл бұрын

    1 - Be handsome 2 - Don’t be Ugly 3 - Avoid to do 1 and 2

  • @AgathaWhispers

    @AgathaWhispers

    Жыл бұрын

    Ty for the lol

  • @TwistVisuals

    @TwistVisuals

    6 ай бұрын

    You missed the point of the video

  • @IsUserADuck

    @IsUserADuck

    6 ай бұрын

    Instructions unclear. Should one avoid being handsome and avoid not being ugly?

  • @pdublt3d
    @pdublt3d7 ай бұрын

    Firstly and most importantly, be attractive to them. Everything after that is practice.

  • @DaveOu

    @DaveOu

    7 ай бұрын

    Sounds like an excuse to never try ngl

  • @pdublt3d

    @pdublt3d

    7 ай бұрын

    @@DaveOu Nope. Just try in the right direction, and it'll get a lot easier.

  • @davedave8608
    @davedave8608 Жыл бұрын

    wise words

  • @joaquin67
    @joaquin67 Жыл бұрын

    That sexual tensions is the hardest part, but I've done it accidentally when I've felt the most confident with my body

  • @seeking37
    @seeking37 Жыл бұрын

    Who ever said “1st base is kissing” got it wrong and I think a lot of people have been mislead by this growing up and taking into adult hood.. first base is eye contact/talking, second base is touching, kissing is at least 3rd. Every time I’ve ever hooked up at a club there was plenty of touching before kissing I’ve always found this to be so much more comfortable

  • @JeffCahill-tp8ik
    @JeffCahill-tp8ik13 күн бұрын

    This guy really gets it.

  • @mrlennon4869
    @mrlennon48692 жыл бұрын

    brilliant

  • @_Anna_Nass_
    @_Anna_Nass_ Жыл бұрын

    I would honestly love if a guy treated date chatter like a podcast 😁

  • @dexzero
    @dexzero Жыл бұрын

    1. Be handsome 2. Don't be unattractive 3. All of the above

  • @richmoreno9938

    @richmoreno9938

    Жыл бұрын

    😂

  • @timofaust1315

    @timofaust1315

    Жыл бұрын

    Bonuspoints for being higher than 6`6 and having a six figure income ;)

  • @doublevision2943

    @doublevision2943

    8 ай бұрын

    ​​@@timofaust1315 I believe the most attractive height is really about 6 to 6'1. It starts to drop already at about 6'2½, not to below average extends but pushing the 2 meter mark makes men look lanky skinny, fragile, especially if they don't work out, even if they do but aren't super serious about it. Other than that attractiveness is just first impressions. If you're a boring or non sympathetic, unconfident person looks won't matter much once you get to know one another, at least not when it comes to building meaningful long-term relationships. ALSO I'm getting very sick of all these doomer type people pretending that looks are all genetic when you can always look more attractive and it's not even hard. The best reason to improve your physical appearance is for self confidence boosts. Can't deny that finances aren't important. It goes back to female nature wanting a man that can care for her and her offspring. More important than being rich is being active though, female nature despises inactivity in men and being unemployed usually doesn't come with a lot of activity and initiative

  • @4comment0nly76
    @4comment0nly76 Жыл бұрын

    take the world seriously but yourself lightly. that's how you flirt.

  • @vileproductions8511
    @vileproductions85117 ай бұрын

    1- be attractive 2- be attractive 3- be attractive … to not state that you’re looks dictate womens resposne to you’re advances is insane

  • @XTen1000DaysX

    @XTen1000DaysX

    7 ай бұрын

    Did u learn nothing?.lmao