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Good info!

0:24 I try to use my its ok encouraging voice when things happen. My cat will come to me when tis a bad hairball and I just lightly touch her side. When its over I clean it up and give her pets if she feels like it. Just sounding disappointed has worked wonders. Last time she bit me out of the blue I used that tone and she came up and licked my cheek and rubbed her cheek to mine. Its important to help negate bad memories by telling them their good, loved, etc. They need certainty in love just like we do. 2:35 My cat never learned how to sheath her claws in play. Took a lot of scratches and her confusion but we seem to of worked it out. When she drew blood Id show her the blood and gently scold her. No blood, eh I can take it occasionally for my kitty. 5:54 If I find myself staring I blink and hold my eyes closed opening them slowly. Take slow easy breaths. Usually diffuses the tension. To gently get a standoffish cat try putting them on your lap. Just scoop them up and put them there - let them decide where to go and what to do. After a few times they will get used to thinking ah this isnt a panic I can think on this. As soon as they realize that you can get them to sit on the arm of the chair. Side pets might be appreciated by a cat that been over petted in the past.

I have a feral cat it took over 3 years and outta the blue it came inside and started sleeping in the bed at my feet at first the at my back now on me or at my bellyand lets me pet her its crazy even my cat eatting dog wont touch her not chasing nothing it walks right by him if its in a chair andbthevdog walks by it reaches out and lets it paw run over his back he says and does nothing it doesn't run from him but it does run from the new dog and it chases it its like a game for them two it gets up high but close enough to reach claws out and nab him it kays in doorway and he ruffs and whines and sqwalls something awful like he cant get past the cat or cat wont let him get by but cat will rub all up on him now the alf ster growls if the cat tries laying nexy to him or positions himself head mext to me ass to the cat but i have caight them piled up all on top each other and its weird .just loke the rabbits the one literally cleans the big bad cat killer and he does nothing the jump and run uning him as a roadway funnest shit you rver saw better then tv not that i have one to watch amd field mice are just as comical they go inti the rabvits cage steal their food and drink from their water bottkes Smart mice.and then there is the black snakes who climb up the porch trying to get to the few baby mice i found and take care of fed water ect .critters sure are funny.😂

Don‘t Play with Laser Pointers- an actual study showed that cat get frustrated if they never succeed in getting the pray- sounds obvious to me…