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166: What No One Tells You About Socialization And Homeschooling

Homeschooling is all we've ever known. In this episode we share what our experience was like interacting with "normal kids," how our parents equipped us for the "real world," and what we want most for our children by the time they leave the "nest." I am trying to think of more things I can put in quotations. I cannot think of any more at this time. Maybe I just "lack creativity."
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Timestamps:
0:00-2:16 Intro
3:26-6:00 Homeschool Socialization Concerns
6:25-8:43 These Concerns Are Trivial
8:45-10:50 No Easy Button Parenting
11:00-13:45 Living In A Different World
13:56-16:15 Public School Doesn't Fix The Problem
16:20-20:15 Unnecessary Uncomfortability
20:20-25:07 The Endgame For Our Kids
25:10-28:00 Excusing The Shyness
28:01-34:00 Practicing Practical Social Skills
34:01-37:17 Parental Socialization
37:30-38:28 Outro

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  • @amandagorman7800
    @amandagorman78002 жыл бұрын

    To further encourage any parents thinking about homeschooling, I got to experience both homeschool and public school. I 100% thought that being homeschooled was actually the better social experience. My parents made sure we got together with other homeschooled kids frequently though our homeschool co-op, choir, book clubs, sports, family gatherings, etc. My time with them was so refreshing and spiritually encouraging, and we made powerful and lasting relationships. I had a very difficult time finding such close friends in my highschool, because our values were so different. There may have been more people to socialize with, but not as many opportunities to make best friends.

  • @NowThatWereAFamilyPodcast

    @NowThatWereAFamilyPodcast

    2 жыл бұрын

    So good, Amanda!

  • @tomcarrow
    @tomcarrow Жыл бұрын

    Send your kids to school for socialization. Schools: no talking and stay in your seats!

  • @steffa648

    @steffa648

    Жыл бұрын

    As a former teacher I confirm this is true!!

  • @thegospellibertypodcast9481
    @thegospellibertypodcast94818 ай бұрын

    Excellent episode! As a homeschooling family, we agree 😃👍

  • @amotherslittleway
    @amotherslittleway10 ай бұрын

    This is wonderful guys! Thanks for sharing your story, inspiring for our family on the homeschool journey ♥️🫶🏼🙏🏻

  • @thankyouiloveyou
    @thankyouiloveyou2 жыл бұрын

    School is forced association. Very different than socialization. Thank you so much for this video. Very encouraging xox

  • @NowThatWereAFamilyPodcast

    @NowThatWereAFamilyPodcast

    2 жыл бұрын

    Thanks Trinity

  • @therealdougjohnson
    @therealdougjohnson2 жыл бұрын

    Yes everyone in my life thinks I’m insane and my kids won’t know how to talk to anyone 🤪

  • @true2life_SA
    @true2life_SA Жыл бұрын

    Thank you for talking about this!

  • @amc8075
    @amc80752 жыл бұрын

    This was very helpful! I’d love to hear more about how you will handle extracurricular activities as the kids get a little older in elementary school and beyond. I feel a lot of pressure to “make up” for the kids not being in regular school. There’s so many things our kids are interested in… sports, swimming, piano lessons, etc… How do you decide how many activities to do or not do?

  • @NowThatWereAFamilyPodcast

    @NowThatWereAFamilyPodcast

    2 жыл бұрын

    Great suggestion!

  • @taniasnyman9602
    @taniasnyman96022 жыл бұрын

    This is really good, thank you for this episode. Would you please consider sharing (maybe in the newsletter or on your website) what the conversation starters are that you practice with your children? This is an area in our family we can grow in and I really want my boys to be equipped to talk to anyone. I am so often amazed at your wisdom and entrepreneurship, well done!

  • @NowThatWereAFamilyPodcast

    @NowThatWereAFamilyPodcast

    2 жыл бұрын

    That's a great idea!

  • @therealdougjohnson
    @therealdougjohnson2 жыл бұрын

    Also- kids are not all socially equipped in public school… for real lol

  • @NowThatWereAFamilyPodcast

    @NowThatWereAFamilyPodcast

    2 жыл бұрын

    Truth

  • @Sarah-zq1kd
    @Sarah-zq1kd6 ай бұрын

    I think it's wonderful that you have both been shielded from a great deal of sin from a young age, and that you can carry on that legacy with your own family, giving them the gift of confidence, and allowing them to fulfil the purpose God has in mind for them. I disagree with your claim that shyness is selfishness, and your advice to for a shy person to listen more closely to the other person they are communicating with is ill advised. I believe this because people who have grown up around sin, in their families and communities, are affected in complex ways, and do not present a shy demeanor out of obsession with the self, but instead, because of deeply held beliefs about themselves and the world. With God's help, it takes a considerable amount of work and perseverance to overcome. Not to mention that manipulative types thrive on this sort of attention from a person who is operating from this spiritual state of being. Perhaps your well loved and spiritually nourished children could be made to understand these sorts of spiritual states so they can be a reassuring representative of heaven, and encourage the healing God wants for people, so they too can fulfill their role within the wider spiritual context.

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