12 Signs of a Low Value Man 1. Emotionally messed up-look for patterns of constant anger, victimization, negativity, rigidity, etc. 2. No growth mind set- not ambitious, doesn’t grow, stagnant, boring 3. No internal voice-weak sense of self needing constant external sources for validation 4. No life purpose 5. Cheap and stingy 6. Big ego=insecure 7. Mommas boy 8. Vindictive-can’t forgive or forget 9. Misogynist and sexist-you will never be his equal 10. Emotionally unavailable-no vulnerability or intimacy 11. Too nice-may be weak when needs to be tough 12. Addictions that he is not working to rid

@I666I

Жыл бұрын

12 Signs of a Low Value Woman 1. Inked (Sign of emotional damage) 2. Uses Instagram and TikTok (Low self-esteem) 3. Thinks it's all the man's fault (Misandry) 4. Has male friends instead of female friends (Sign of not being monogamic) 5. Thinks men have to be perfect but have to accept any flaws from women 6. Her ego and self value is solely based on her looks 7. Has nothing else to talk about but herself and what she did today, yesterday or whatever 8. Doesn't want or can't have children 9. Thinks men have to pay for everything in modern western societies, where women have rights and can be financially independent too (Might aswell become a professional if men have to pay to be intimate with her) 10. Doesn't know anything about healthy food and cooking and can't properly feed your children 11. Doesn't clean the house 12. Addictions that she is not working to rid

@m3kuro9sk39

Жыл бұрын

@staeni92

@m3kuro9sk39

Жыл бұрын

@@I666I agree 👍

@latinaalma1947

Жыл бұрын

Thank you!

@SuperPopem

Жыл бұрын

I guess I'm low value I score high on items 9. And 10🤣

I just dropped my whole list of crushes.

@Elven.

Жыл бұрын

😂 lol , it sucks to have to weed out people and be left alone wondering where are other human beings on this planet

@Theblackswan55

Жыл бұрын

High value men are hard to come by...and there are a lot of low value men out there. I d rather be alone.

@dalkongju

Жыл бұрын

@Spartan Elf so true. This is not my first time. Whenever i felt i no longer want to be somewhere and those people dont resonate with me anymore i move on. Each time i did that I had an instant and a huge shift in my life. It is not easy until you settle in your new level. You start feeling left out. But thats the place where you need to tune into. Understanding you made a choice to upgrade and that you have work to do for that gives you drive to use that space you created for yourself. Then life gets much much better. However the more you go up the more it gets hard to find a person. Then.... as @dark femininity said you realize "I'd rather be alone that settle for low value people". No way you wanna step down that ladder.

@gwortman3515

Жыл бұрын

Well..keep several around until you meet the one God sends to you. Have fun with them. Let them spend $$$ on dates. Today's woman needs to use the males a little... after all, they've been using and abusing women since the beginning of time.

@martinvee8852

Жыл бұрын

@@dalkongju Can totally relate. Very resonating. Sounds like you had some awakening experience, Do you practice meditation? The video is very informative, makes sense when you move up the emotional scale, the environment and people may not be in tune with you no longer and is generally the case to pack up and move on... As for finding a quality man, I hope he sweeps you off your feet sooner than later :)

1) *Too* Emotional/ Emotionally Messed Up 2) He doesn't have a growth mindset 3) He doesn't have internal references 4) He has *no* drive or purpose in life 5) He is *cheap* 6) He has a *big* *ego* without skills & competence to back it 7) He is *too* close to his mom 🤮 8) He is *vindictive* 9) He is *misogynistic* & *disrespectful* 10) He is emotionally *unavailable* for relationships 11) He is *too* nice of a man 12) He is *NOT* working on his *addiction* *problems*

@oia5882

Жыл бұрын

Emoji on number seven😆😆

@joeyc1725

Жыл бұрын

Don't follow make choices for yourself

@anetab2917

Жыл бұрын

@@joeyc1725 my ex to a T , except n.7, he hated his mother and she hated him

@lululestat

Жыл бұрын

Agree with all of these

Be careful sometimes Narcissists and Psychopaths portray themselves as high value people, they are quite manipulative, may appear to have success and many friends but all of it quite superficial. Folks with mental disorders like Borderline personality may have difficulties maintaining healthy relationship. Don’t let anyone push you either or convince you aren’t successful because you don’t work on a particular skill development, everyone is progressing at their own pace and everyone has their own vision of happiness.

@marinagimenezleal

Жыл бұрын

She thinks Jeffrey Bezos is a high value man 😄

A low value man is always going to be a narcissist

@rayc9899

Жыл бұрын

Somebody who is always waiting for the next bus and at the same time possessing and controlling. After two weeks after a break-up (supposedly the love of his life) is on the chase again (cause Rhonda was taken) and 2 months after he's living with a low class woman who use to be in a shelter for abuse woman, married to a drug dealing in prison and a daughter who can't even spell children right and she babysit young one. Her reputation is she was going with so many men that she was know as an easy target. Like I always mentioned a PHD doesn't make a man, so fuck-up he's.

@michellewall6748

Жыл бұрын

So true!!

@col2959

Жыл бұрын

Haha. Clue less

@kylemorris8302

Жыл бұрын

Should probably look up the different types, research them then establish in your head what that looks like. I have with women aka victim mentality or it’s all about me and it’s saved me from a lot of trouble. Be careful of the covert ones though their probably the trickiest to spot.

@MissTiffany01

5 ай бұрын

Always

The absolute worst man I have been with is an attorney…I thought oh he is educated, great profession ect…..he is an evil narcissistic who has the worst rage and temper and emotionally abuses me regularly….I ammmarried with kids with him so leaving is not an option for now….don’t make the mistake I made by marrying someone just because I thought he was educated and would never abuse me….always, ALWAYS pick a man who treats you with kindness, love and RESPECT…..money is nothing when you are crying every single day and fear his rage

@cosmicrhino2936

Жыл бұрын

Im sorry you go through this.Please leave.

@shanellem6310

Жыл бұрын

Sis, you always have an option to leave. Start planning your exit now. It might be awhile before you actually leave, but you will leave. This environment is not good for your kids. Also, move in silence. Tell no one your plans.

@hikerhobby1204

Жыл бұрын

@@shanellem6310 Absolutely! Staying due to the kids is much worse then leaving with the kids. He is teaching the kids how to be like him.

@SL-hq9mg

Жыл бұрын

How can you give advice while you're staying with him probably for the financial security he provides for you and the kids ? Make it make sense.

@hikerhobby1204

Жыл бұрын

@@SL-hq9mg If you’re talking to me I left him 27 years ago. Raised my son, sent him to college and now he’s an aviator. I didn’t receive a dime from anyone, worked hard then worked some more.

Im noticing the trend of calling people low and high value which is low value in an of itself. Everyone has inner demons and every one has baggage. It’s what we do with that baggage that makes a difference. Maybe we can say individuals that are in need of healing. It doesn’t sit well with my soul to call someone “low value”

@sharonrose4

Жыл бұрын

Nicely put! 🤗👍🌞

@xan8185

Жыл бұрын

@@sharonrose4 it’s everywhere and it’s disgusting that people are jumping on the bandwagon. Imagine if there were videos calling women who have suffered various relationships pitfalls, single struggling women as low value. Women, like men, struggle. I don’t see how in a society today that screams for equality, inclusiveness and understanding can so readily accept this new term of calling our fellow humans low value. Anyone who does not see a problem with this should look in the mirror.

@sharonrose4

Жыл бұрын

Thank you for your reply. You are absolutely spot on. The terms used and the comment section did not sit well with me either. Your comment resonated with me as I totally agree with all you stated. 🤗🌞🌻

@mansnothot1284

Жыл бұрын

It's like the saying "you can't beat a demon without being one". Doesn't matter if your a man or a woman, the moment you see others as low value presents the fact that you are low value yourself because a high value being sees the value in anyond. Good of you to have introspection instead of the irony in the video about the 1st trait that I see in most comments here.

@redzgaming6880

Жыл бұрын

"He who fights monsters must be wary not to become a monster himself. For when you stare into the darkness for too long, the darkness stares right back."

Women tend to do exactly the opposite of this video because immature men and problematic men are so much more “emotional “ making them more attractive then solid well balanced guys. But totally agree on this video

@bakhytgul4457

Жыл бұрын

Nice point

@Laineyraider

Жыл бұрын

Low-value men can also pave the way for mediocre men. Women can have so many terrible experiences with men that sometimes they see traits such as "He doesn't hit me or yell at me" as a winning quality when it should really just be a baseline expectation.

@I666I

Жыл бұрын

than*

@kylemorris8302

Жыл бұрын

There is hypocrisy on both ends. Both don’t understand there need to be a balance of both. Not let one dictate their decisions or undervalue what each other bring in that aspect. You need rationality and emotions in your decision making.

@kiekko673

Жыл бұрын

@@Laineyraider Calling someone a “low value man” is a sign of a shallow minded person. ✌️

I know this is about men but this is a good list for me to start working on myself as a woman

@lisalynch229

Жыл бұрын

Love your comment. To be honest, it's a great idea to check ourselves (as females) against this list. On which side of these values do we find ourselves. Thanks for being real

@returnoftheromans6726

Жыл бұрын

Very true. Let's turn the mirror about and take a good, hard look into it.

@glimmeringsea5105

Жыл бұрын

That's true too

He is a narcissist. I was in a situation with him it was horrible. He appeared to be good on the outside but on the inside he is damaged. We need to love ourself more

@kylemorris8302

Жыл бұрын

Mmm yes and no. Depending on the narcissistic type he was. Narcissistic love themselves to much and have a overinflated ego that somehow their better then everyone around them(or poor me mentality of no one recognizes my greatness which is covert). They need therapy. But yeah they don’t know how to love themselves and they use others love and their own to feed into that ego instead of them as a person.

@user-df5jn4dt4v

4 ай бұрын

You are wrong. Narcissistic people don't love themselves at all,they have 0 self-esteem,they build their "Confidence" (mostly their fake over the moon Confidence) over Sabotaging someone else's life. They make it look like they really love themselves,but that couldn't be more far from the truth. Had they loved themselves,they wouldn't have mind to see other people succeed. Bc they are happy when you aren't happy,and when you are happy they suffer. ​@@kylemorris8302

I had such an ex. We broke up after 9 months of relationship. I felt so calm and peaceful inside after all

A friend to everyone is friend to no one, I find it folks that have many connections especially on social media are desperate for attention. Emotionally mature people have very closed small circle of friends and they are quite private not flashing their success and not seeking a pity for their failure on social media platform.

Every word is true for no. 1, from personal experience. Stay away from this sort of people, that can never end well

On my list, number 1 is that he demonstrates misogynistic attitudes and behaviour - such as feeling endlessly entitled to comment of women’s bodies, thinking he knows what women should do with their lives and decisions better than they do, demonstrating shallowness when it comes to women, uses misogynistic and/or racial slurs, using language that objectifies women, repeating sexist tropes- for example thinking of Asian women as submissive dolls based on their race and gender, or classifying women’s body hair as unclean but men's as clean- shows a discomfort with sexual fluidity or homosexuality, normalized and dismisses rape culture in any way, slut shames women while gassing up male friends for their sexual ‘conquests’, dismissing art/ literature/ music made by women, fixates on women being “too emotional” instead of taking the time to fix their own emotional constipation. It’s honestly amazing how many women tolerate casual misogyny in their intimate relationships and even friendships with men, imagine how completely different our experience of the world would be if we not only rejected these things but trusted our sisters to have a zero tolerance policy on these things too. Internalized misogyny and pick me attitudes are holding women back collectively, big time.

@MichelleAntonia

Жыл бұрын

Nothing but truth here!

@lunalu552

Жыл бұрын

The race and body shaming thing. Try the same and see how they react.

@truthh8597

Жыл бұрын

This comment WINS You are one high value women, strong of mind and good of heart I can tell. This is the exact problem why high value women who don’t tolerate this behaviour are treated as replaceable

@kylemorris8302

Жыл бұрын

Mmm coming from the MGTOW moment I can see these things popping up more like with sexist jokes, the lack of respect and is the reasons I left. Also seen with the feminists movement how they don’t take accountability for their own actions but point fingers and not being able to put themselves in mens shoes which is also why I left. That being said be better off having a videos that addresses men and women properly and addressing both issues at hand from both sides. Because if you do one side your doing more harm then good and all your doing is feeding the fire to a pointless gender war. To be honest this gender war is getting old and it’s time we understand and work with one another.

@bloodbuddy7

Жыл бұрын

@@kylemorris8302 Gender war? Is that what you call hundreds of years of men treating women as property and blocking women from financial freedom and bodily autonomy through force and legislation? That's not called a war, that's called oppression. Study your history and then get back to me, because I'm sick of men treating this like an 'everyone is equally to blame' issue. What percentage of war lords and rapists are women? Not a lot. Stop ascribing equal blame where it doesn't exist. The reason we can't 'work together' is one side is asking for equity and the other to maintain power and privilege. There's no 'working together' when the interest of one side is to politically and legally maintain control of the other. The rate at which men can recognize and actively dismantle patriarchy will determine, ultimately, how long it takes, not how soft, pleasing and empathetic women act towards insecure men who need their egos constantly propped up just to address an unjust system they benefit from.

Wow! Thanks so much for this. My ex just left me and he had 6/10 of these traits. He was completely emotionally unavailable and very stingy with money. Although he was rich, he had a poor mindset and when he got angry he would refuse to pay for bills he previously had pledged to pay for. This assires me that I haven't lost a good man.

@pipermcpickles5283

Жыл бұрын

Thank goodness he's gone and you can now find the wonderful man that you truly deserve! 💖💖💖👑💎

@michaelgoodwolf6117

Жыл бұрын

No the person making the video is low value and a narcissistic.

@shanellem6310

Жыл бұрын

OMG. We're we with the same man? Mine had all the traits you described plus he was a serial cheater. As soon as I found d that out, I started planning my exit. Getting ready to move out now.

@kimk3821

Жыл бұрын

@@shanellem6310 I'm so sorry about that. Leaving is not easy. Especially the first few weeks, you almost wish you could return, but you have to be strong and remember why you left each time the desire to go back comes to mind. I wish you well. Leave that Narcissist alone. Also, make quora your best friend whenever you feel like you meed answers. So many questions answered there.

@lunalu552

Жыл бұрын

Poor mindset is directly connected to anxiety and emotional issues. I've met poor men who didn't have poor mentality, they are not cheap in attitudes. I have a poor mindset because I was raised with the anxiety of no money, the house in bad state, the 2nd hand clothes, the "you're not going anywhere", "you're lucky enough you have food and a roof. You're already rich. I HAD NOTHING". Even when my parents had money they kept living like this and I grew into a ball of anxiety. But I'm a 5'3 tall, 100lbs woman...I'm not a threat if I become emotional over something. But men will reflect it with aggression and testosterone and compete with women. It's scary.

Disagreeing about the money management. A man who works, manual labor 6 and 7 days a week YOU call low value because he pays for something with a coupon? I suggest to you that this is an example of YOUR low value. A well bred young lady does not pay any attention to how a gentleman pays for anything. Being this scrupulous about something none of your business is cheap.

@interestingtimes6242

Жыл бұрын

Thank you. You are obviously a high value woman. A rare jewel.

@sensimania

Жыл бұрын

I haven't got to that part of the video yet, but I totally agree with you. I don't have a problem with coupon payments. I also use coupons (where possible) and I earn 6 figures, lol! If I saw my date use a coupon, the only thing I'd be mad about is the fact that I didn't know that particilar business accepted coupons sooner, lol! There's a difference between being smart with your money and being stingy.

@a.c.4732

Жыл бұрын

I agree Karen O ; some very high-handed, judgemental opinons on display . You can't generalise , you have to weigh up each individual on the overall , finished example .

@itsjustme5030

Жыл бұрын

I'd view using coupons as smart money management. Why spend more than necessary? The only way I'd see this as worrisome is if the only things we can do involve coupons.

@col2959

Жыл бұрын

Bravo.

The type of person to take this advice whole heartedly is the type of women to stay away from. If you're viewing this, you are red flag.

@truthh8597

Жыл бұрын

Yea because a low value man like you can’t ‘control’ a woman like that Your insecurity screams in this comment

@joem.5946

Жыл бұрын

@@truthh8597 if it means ill dodge someone who thinks like this than THANK YOU. I am a "low value" man.

@joem.5946

Жыл бұрын

@@truthh8597 i did watch it through, and yeah sure there is some good information to pull out of this. Just cant be the gospel is all. 😎 good job!

@deborahday1786

Жыл бұрын

But you're here....

@joem.5946

Жыл бұрын

@@deborahday1786 doing it for the algorithm.

I changed the word "man" to "woman". It worked, thanks 😉

@greg33770

Жыл бұрын

Yep !

@meowiahh

Жыл бұрын

See #9

@jackfavvv0280

Жыл бұрын

Nice catch, brotha. No wonder why none of this clicked with me.

@apparently_sonam

Жыл бұрын

She admits off the bat , she has dated and even married these so called men. All the flaws sound like women for the last 40 years at least…?! She then says she wish she knew the signs lol you can’t make this shit up….

@padmalakshmi4292

2 ай бұрын

Another low value man found😂😂😂

It's a nice guide for women to stay single. Such a man doesn't exist. Just don't bother and buy cats. And don't forget, you can't ask someone to have certain traits or mindset without having it yourself. Are you bringing anything to the table except for your "bun"?

@greg33770

Жыл бұрын

That last sentence is perfect, seems like they think that thing is made of gold and thats all we seek as men.....

@nevermind8589

Жыл бұрын

@@missmissy6300 Nobody's whining here, u used the incorrect word. Most of modern women chase a prince on a white horse while not being princesses themselves. You ask a man to meet a whole list of requirements, while not meeting these requirements yourself. You asked for equality and got it. A man only asks for a nice woman who respects him and who is a good mother. And you keep chasing 2% of highly successful men. Maybe you will win the lottery. But ask yourself, do these men need you? Unless you lower your expectation, you will end up with a lots of cats and regrets in your 40s. Some points in this video are hilarious. Like not being emotionally unavailable, but at the same time not being too nice . These terms are ambiguous, and who is there to judge? About being emotionally unavailable. Men are not like your girl or gay friends, who will share every little detail with you. Women nowadays are too picky, thanks to Instagram, Tiktok and other apps. There's always someone who is more successful, handsome, rich, etc., that makes women unsatisfied and miserable.

@nevermind8589

Жыл бұрын

@@missmissy6300 How she "multiplies everything you bring home"? I see that as "good girls gone wise and now single in their late 30s and can't find a man and regret that they didn't lower their expectation when they could"

@nevermind8589

Жыл бұрын

@@missmissy6300 A woman will never leave a rich guy for an average guy. This is nonsense. Even if she leaves a rich guy for an average/poor guy, then she will keep bringing it up during every argument. She will regret it.

@nevermind8589

Жыл бұрын

@@missmissy6300 You give a woman your house and she makes it her home You give her groceries, she gives herself hot home-cooked meals. Nowadays most women can't cook and men can easily order food. We don't need you. You give her your seed, she gives herself a whole baby. Usually women make a decision about having a baby. You give her your ambitions, she doesn't give anything back. A woman always thinks about herself in the first place and want a man to provide. Women asked for equality and got the equality, but you still want men to provide. Women are scared of being alone. They will keep the toxic relationship just to be not lonely in order to do the monkey branching as soon as they find the better option. If a woman is single she is considered as unworthy, that's what she think.

As a woman watching this, i relate to some points in order to help me better myself. Not looking for perfect cause i too am a work in progress. The quality i do need though is the ability to learn and teach; forgive and repair. Cause these qualities will help us heal, grow and stay together.

You literally just described every one of my exes

@_think8830

Жыл бұрын

well myb the prbl is u not ur xz:)

@stewartwilson1209

Жыл бұрын

You attract everything in life that you think and that you are. Woman are always blaming the guys that they themselves attract in to their lives instead of working on themselves and learning to grow.

@DevlVergil

Жыл бұрын

@@stewartwilson1209 True. If you only attract bad partners, it's not (only) the partners, it's also on you.

@roofieandraggy16

Жыл бұрын

I would grab a fishing pole and forget the fashion......🙄

Many men unconditionally love women that resemble their mum, but treating a stranger just like mum will only result in awkwardness. The so called unprocessed contrived emotions breed only unhappy relationships.

@kylemorris8302

Жыл бұрын

That’s why you treat each other as partners and adults and not as a parent. I love taking care of my partner and I love being taken care of but it’s not because I want her to be my mom but i know she is there as a partner when I’m sick and not feeling well. We take care of each other and there is no shame in that. We are human and we all get sick despite what gender we are.

Considering a nice man, regardless of whether he is weak or not, as low value in an of himself, is incredibly shallow. Just because kindness as a trait comes with the baggage of requiring to develop assertiveness and a thicker skin, and also perhaps cooperation being a higher priority, nearly as important as personal achievement, doesn't in any way diminish a man with this trait. In fact, it takes a special kind of strength and endurance to incorporate niceness/kindness, without losing it by growing harsh and cold, into a strong determined masculine framework. A surprisingly arrogant view, considering the well thought out nature of the rest of your observations...

@MichelleAntonia

Жыл бұрын

I totally agree with what you said, but nice and "too nice" are totally different things. "Too nice" isn't really nice at all, it's insecurity, fixation on what others think of him, people pleasing. This particular weakness is seen a lot in women, unfortunately, but it can be seen in men too. It's not good in either gender.

@DzondzulaKarakondzula

Жыл бұрын

@@MichelleAntonia As somebody who had to grow out of that, I couldn't agree more :)

@GoodGuyPlayer2

Жыл бұрын

THANK YOU!

@rushrush1209

Жыл бұрын

I certainly agree. A nice man is not low value. A nasty man is.

@vkrgfan

Жыл бұрын

The problem is folks with the lack of boundaries and low self esteem are taken for a ride by others. That’s not preferable in men or women, being assertive is being able to establish healthy boundaries. My ex husband was taken for a ride by his family they manipulated him controlled our finances as a result we got divorced because they were disrespectful towards our marriage and didn’t consider me as an equal member of the family but that wasn’t about them it was about my ex husband that couldn’t stand up for himself and for us.

Lmao. You described every single woman I met so far! Are you sure this video is about men? 😂

@greg33770

Жыл бұрын

You must have dated the same ones as me !!!😆 😉

@winning3329

Жыл бұрын

You must live in a trailer park

@winning3329

Жыл бұрын

@@greg33770 You must have some low standards then

@Hurtzilla

Жыл бұрын

Exactly

100% the same for low value women, I think! 💋

It's all fun and games until the same standards are used against you.

@Americano3232330

Жыл бұрын

Hoes foreheads start sweating 😥

@AxelSituation

Жыл бұрын

so? I know that I'm HV so not worried.

@nonconformist9991

Жыл бұрын

@@AxelSituationDo you think that you are high value because you are a sucker for the validation they are selling you. Do you define your existence or do others set the standard for you? Do you just buy what they tell you look like they want you to validate your existence how exactly is this value you speak of determined?

@winning3329

Жыл бұрын

@@nonconformist9991 a lot of red pill bums consider themselves high value when they still living with their mothers and have a basic job making 50k a year and have the body of a snowman and the face of a gargoyle so you are nobody to complain. Atleast women judge personality unlike men who judge women on looks. How many of your red pill junkie friends married a woman based on looks and she took him to divorce courts and took half?

@mushroommagic1697

Жыл бұрын

Of course those can be flipped to women and vice versa, those are human traits. The video is aimed to women who search for a man to get in a relationship with, this is why ”low value man is...” is used in the video. Bruh why is a phrasing offending you?

This whole video is 💯 accurate. Stay away from all these types of guys ladies. Red flags galore. Save yourself

We have come to a point where we're subjecting our opposite gender into unfair judgement, which I believe is very, very selfish and away from the point. It's like a competition. If possessing all of these qualities is what would make a man "perfect", then you will die without EVER meeting a perfect man. I agree, some issues highlighted in this video are sensitive and need to be addressed, but if you can't compromise a few in favor of others, you will not succeed in your dating endeavors. Remember, the goal of forming relationships is to coexist/cohabit, keeping in mind some flaws that we may have. These things that women are complaining about are more or less the same things men complain about women. Bottom line, stop pointing fingers. Learn to accommodate and not to judge with cruelty and a lot of insecurity!

@everythingautomotiveeta5839

Жыл бұрын

So very well written. Thank you

@vkrgfan

Жыл бұрын

Agree, many hold so many unrealistic expectation which they can’t even meet themselves on their requirement list.

@christinelawrence4315

Жыл бұрын

Nobody is after a perfect man BUT if they have low/poor qualities then that man is not worth your time and is not the right one for you. There are also low quality women out there too (Jezebel Spirit is one example) and for men these poor quality women should be avoided at all costs!! I think you've misread the intention of this video "The Lifestyle Show 176K" ...

@area51m_

Жыл бұрын

@@christinelawrence4315 First of all, you need to have a clear definition of "quality" and how it relates to "value." Second, this video does not talk about your "Jezebel" character, and I strongly think you should publish your own video talking about such spirit - perhaps you'll be better understood!

@christinelawrence4315

Жыл бұрын

@@area51m_ Well if you don't know what QUALITY is let me spell it out for you... a person of good morals and values; one who shows true humanity by their kindness and doing the right thing by themselves and others .. BTW I was relating that "Jezebel" scenario for men to watch out for poor quality women who seduce and entrap men with their evil agendas.. Just don't start with your woke garbage and condescending tones!

I've saved this video to my playlist for my son to watch when he is older. You've hit the nail on the head on every single point without exception.

@rewlmoa

Жыл бұрын

maybe try actually being a father to your son instead of letting youtube videos be the determining factor to your son being a good man?

@charlie-george

Жыл бұрын

@@rewlmoa Oh dear. Rew, if only your condescending comment was based on empirical or relayed information instead of assumptions and resentment to people who are intellectually open-minded, I might have taken your words more seriously. I advise you wash your mouth out with salt water and soap if that's the way you speak to people in person. Go and take a long walk off a short cliff mate 👍

@missleo2003

Жыл бұрын

I love it !!!👏👏👏👏

@SiegfriedLextr

9 ай бұрын

Rew is actually right, you sound like a lousy father. @@charlie-george

Weird that women say they want a man who is their equal, and proceed to only date men who are superior to them and ahead of them in every way imaginable (financially, physically, emotionally etc...)

@Theblackswan55

Жыл бұрын

Who are these women who say they want their equal? I am not one of them for sure.

I'd have to disagree with #4. There's nothing wrong in enjoying simplicity. The only goal in life is to be happy.

@TheEllord33

Жыл бұрын

@J. H. life is not an entity, it has no thinking no goal. However people define their own goal.

@vkrgfan

Жыл бұрын

Why we should put society first and aspire to contribute to it if the society doesn’t give a shit about individuals. Capitalistic society is backstabbing, we refuse to participate in rat chase.

@Dialogos1989

Жыл бұрын

@@TheEllord33 people are organisms, which are shaped by their environment. Anything that gives you meaning isn’t “created” by you. It extends outside of you, across space and time. No one creates their own meaning, they discover something that was already there inside them, that was given to them by the universe (or God or whatever)

@TheEllord33

Жыл бұрын

@@Dialogos1989 oh you're one of those that think free will and consciousness don't exist

@Dialogos1989

Жыл бұрын

@@TheEllord33 I’m a compatiblist when it comes to free will. And clearly consciousness exists.

What about low value "friends", in-laws, etc. Get rid of them, too. They'll suck the life out of you. The fact of the matter is there's a small percentage of people who are of quality so most people settle. It's either that or be alone. Take your pick

@christinelawrence4315

Жыл бұрын

Tina .. YES indeed everybody who sucks the life out of you and treats you like garbage .. time to go (for them) and time to grow (for you/us)...

Jeff bezos isn't what I'd call high value. Read up on how Amazon treats their employees.

@vkrgfan

Жыл бұрын

Thank you for pointing this out, she completely brushed off the fact that he cheated on his wife of 20 years. Just because he is billionaire doesn’t make him high value.

@SiegfriedLextr

9 ай бұрын

Plus, didn't his wife help him build his wealth? isn't it like 50/50 relationship? @@vkrgfan

Sign 13....... hes dating or with a woman who NEVER can be satisfied (or happy) and is capable to complain about anything (even without words)

I just went out with a guy who had a good job and he didn't even pay for my coffee on the first date! Then he turned down a hike we were going to do because he thought the $38 gondola ride was 'a rip off'. To make matters worse, he lived at home at 33 and wasn't even paying rent! Thankfully, I blocked him instead of going on the 2nd date!

@gwortman3515

Жыл бұрын

There are some real losers in the ladies choices these days. Where are the real gentlemen?? I had one throw me a $1 for his cold drink that costed $3.......I knew at that moment he was a loser as he bragged about all his toys and accomplishments..hahaha on him!!!

@angelacasein7059

Жыл бұрын

Guys who don’t pay on the first date are “friend zoning” themselves so just take it as a sign he is too self obsessed and immature to be worried about you at all

@honkingantelope1990_

Жыл бұрын

Jeez... I never had such an experience men in Greece or the balkans are used to pay the bills outside or in the household. Not only in dating but in relationships and in marriages. And it's not that I don't have to offer economically my husband is one of them. He wants to pay when we go outside and the most out of the bills. Same he was doin when we were in a relationship. I never paid any special amount with any of my exes

@MrDeano-eu9rg

Жыл бұрын

@@angelacasein7059 what if SHE asks HIM out?

@nap871

Жыл бұрын

@@gwortman3515 Where are the real gentlemen? the thing you don't get is that men today are not going to spend lots of money on you unless you demonstrate value to them. Being a woman isnt good enough anymore.Just showing up with a half assed attitude won't cut it. Like you are doing the guy a favor by being there. Times are changing. Women have to earn it. Nothing is given anymore based on outdated seggs roles. There are fewer and fewer niceguys with crazy notions of chivalry that are rooted in the Victorian Age. The thing you really have to understand is that men are getting smarter. Let me drive that point home. We see you as you are. We know your dating strategies now. Those were cloaked during the dark ages of the 1980/90s before the internet. How you categorize men into the Lover Provider Dichotomy. How many guys were ruined in marriage. How many were told your go to riddle -- I love you but Im not in love with you. Marriage rates are at 100year lows. Think that's an accident.

Great content, thank you for taking the time to put together and share!

Wow , all these traits are something that I mostly find in women , the worse part is that they don't wanna be held accountable for that either. Because the guy will be considered mysogenistic n sexist toxic person. I don't know how n why I got recommend to this channel. But ty very much.

@genghiskhan6688

Жыл бұрын

I showed this video to my gf and we just laughed about the 3 traits on this list she thinks fit me. It's lile a horoscope; you shouldn't take this seiously. Sadly many women do, but there are smarter ones out there =).

@philipbre

Жыл бұрын

Same here! And agree. All of these are 100% women. Think with emotions, emotional mess, bad spending habits, and have problems with authority, esp if that authority is a man. No growth - women want to make the same as a man with about half the experience, and yet still expect men to pay for the big bills. Womens internal references, are literally just bunch of back patting. "Oh Becky is soooo beautiful". Becky is obese. Drive and purpose, yeah I've met enough woman whose main purpose in life is to be a sponge, and make babies. Cheap... Literally any man who doesn't splash out, gets called cheap, no matter what the context. Had enough experience. And there's a reason why people from wealth is "cheap". They don't owe you anything. Woman have the largest egos, and there is no bases for having it. Men have egos because they have built their success. Woman have it handed to them today. I'm tired of writing. This whole video is Uber gaslighting. #mgtow

@nevermind8589

Жыл бұрын

Women never to be accountable for anything

I'm 64 and needed this information when I was 12, seriously. Advice to young people: Stay out of romantic relationships. You can thank me in 40 years.

@kropking

Жыл бұрын

Only the bitter and incompetent will thank you... for making them feel like they're not alone. 😂🤣😂

@danilaroche1156

Жыл бұрын

So young people shouldn't want marriage?

@Febi_Me

4 ай бұрын

@@kropkingthat might be true but she is right. I mean, where is the lie?

Less is more... what we can't do for ourselves we cannot expect from others, self value is never confirmed by others. It's about taking ownership of what makes you happy and gives you purpose in life.

Number 7 hits hard. I remember once we (My ex and I) were arguing about something that was not even remotely related to his mom and he blurted these words - YOU CAN NEVER BECOME LIKE MY MOM. L.M.A.O.

Wow This was my ex lol he was emotionally manipulative and gave me ultimatums plus anger issues if I didn't spend the night with him and so I walked away and feel more at peace now living the single life 🥰

@Theblackswan55

Жыл бұрын

I am happy for you Megan that you are out of an abusive relationship. They are really not worth our time.

@meganlangdale8699

Жыл бұрын

@@Theblackswan55 Thank you ❤️ I agree completely since I've learned that I'm worthy of something better than that 🙏

I disagree on how you describe "low value men", as if us women were emotionally intact and devoid of flaws. I don't doubt that there are horrible men that you shoudn't consider dating, but if anyone treats this list seriously you can discard any man that comes across your life and become too nitpicky. And what if you really vibe with a man that has one or two of these flaws? Every person is much more nuanced than a list like this.

@kropking

Жыл бұрын

A sane woman appears! Thank you for not being a scatterbrained mess, Celia!

@Tionaintown876

Жыл бұрын

She is clearly listing red flags to look for in a relationship. These are certainly things you should take note of. Not once did she say if he exhibits one of these traits he is not the man for you. The tone of the video is “watch out for these things” and certainly if a man displays three or more of these characteristics, he is a low value man. You act as though this video is a disservice to us women

@celiagonzalez2123

Жыл бұрын

@@Tionaintown876 See, that's the problem. I think that going by a list like this instead of using common sense it's dumbing us down. Suddenly we cannot think for ourselves but we have to go about using things like this video to discard someone, tinder style. It puts everyone on a pedestal. Suddenly unless you are perfect you're not worth dating, thus faking your attitude and personality in order to fit the mold of a high-value woman.

@celiagonzalez2123

Жыл бұрын

@@2wheels_steel Pretty spot on, it is indeed cruel to call someone low-value. As if they are made of plastic haha 😆

@Tionaintown876

Жыл бұрын

@@2wheels_steel See, that’s your first mistake. Money does not make someone a high value man or woman and this is the first thing we learn in this niche of content. You’re new here and it shows. By your definition, that woman who pays all of the bills but is a total bitch, rude, disrespectful and unloyal is high value, because she pays all of the bills. Let us flip the script a bit, a rich man who is a drunk, abusive and a coward is a LOW VALUE man. This is a simple concept once you want to understand it without being OFFENDED by someone being called low value. Get out of your feelings a bit. If you open your ears and your heart you will be able to watch similar videos of this style and learn a bit more of what it takes to be high value.

The first 3 can easily be caused by being with an emotionally abusive woman. Been there myself, I had a good job, I was confident, I was industrious, I had hobbies and interests, many friends, I spent 8 years with someone who expected me to be a mind reader, criticised everything I did, would always prevent me doing the things I loved, she'd hire someone to do tasks that I could quite easily do myself JUST to make me feel useless, she used love/intimacy as a weapon. During those 8 years I lost 3 jobs, I was depressed, I was angry all the time, I felt like a failure. In reality I was an idiot who spent 8 years trying to give someone everything they wanted, but could never hope to live upto the expectations laid down by film, TV, social media and those bloody romance novels.

@vkrgfan

Жыл бұрын

I doubt about the value of a woman who came up with the list. The list is pretty shallow and lacks nuance in my opinion. It’s true you can become a failure if you are in abusive relationship and the worst of all they will convince you that you are low value. Being happy with what you got apparently is a flaw, you have to constantly participate in the rat chase and prove the world your worth. Why? Why I need to care what world thinks of me or prove anything to anybody? Who gives a shit anyways?

@kiekko673

Жыл бұрын

@@vkrgfan Exactly! You don’t have to play the whole game, leave it for the shallow minded idiots. 😁😄😆

@maame5207

Жыл бұрын

Sorry for that

@nevermind8589

Жыл бұрын

That's why men should stay true to themselves and never listen to the women's bullshit

@winning3329

Жыл бұрын

@@vkrgfan There absolutely nothing wrong with this list. The fact that you are gaslighting and trying to warp reality really speaks volumes about yourself. Also if you are choosing abusive women then that's a you problem.

Life-saving, thank you. Better late than never. May I also add, his interests are fleeting and shallow and depend on who he's currently with. It can be not easy to spot when you don't know how he is with different people but there's this trait that his interests come and go depending on the interests of a person he's into atm. It probably can be said not only about his interests but beliefs as well. People like that have no solid values.

@Elvenboadicea

Жыл бұрын

Eek, typical narcissistic traits. Mirroring their victims to bring them "trust" Yup, I'm staying single 😆

@I666I

Жыл бұрын

Just sell yourself and you never have to worry about being dependant on money from men again. It is harder for us to get quality women, because you are all replacable.

@HSBsoulsurfer

Жыл бұрын

@@I666I You need serious help.

@mave143

Жыл бұрын

@@I666I same can be said of men. It also sounds like some woman had your balls in a vice grip and you're projecting from embarrassment and emotional pain. I hope you get better.

Stay alone! 98% of men are so messed up,I have no time,no energy anymore! A man is a bonus!

@kropking

Жыл бұрын

Amusing, since men built the entire world and invented almost everything you use on a daily basis, including the internet connection and electricity that you used to upload your goofy comment. Ingrate!

Thankyou your video's are really helpful.

I have some of treats she mentioned. But what she doesn't know, is that i was sexually molested as a child. Was treated badly by my parents and siblings. Now, I make 125,000 a year, I live in a nice New Jersey neighborhood, married for 10 years and just got a luxury apartment in Dominican Republic, I'm sure my wife would not be with me had she followed this lady's advice.

Even if all men would be „high value“ it wouldn’t be enough for a woman because they are programmed to seek out the best genes based on their subjective markers. So in conclusion this drama will never end because of the selective nature of females and the need for more. Men will simply adapt, pretend or die out that’s it, always has been.

@returnoftheromans6726

Жыл бұрын

This made me chuckle, because it's painfully true.

wow, is this really what society has come to? l am so disappointed if this is what women really think. i Really hope not. low value men? im sorry but no one is worth more than someone else.

you really have amazing eloquent cool accent i want. i listen to your video and practice it for myself religiously. thank you for inspiring me, Both of the content and the talk. Keep the good work queen

This was VERY HELPFUL. Thank you.

True, exact.Thank you 🙏🏻 I had had such experiences . 👍

This really helped me understand a lot about certain men in my past or current reality. I vet them for 3 weeks and observe our conversations and their behaviors before I meet them in person. This gave me a lot to look out for and creating better standards for myself. Thank you!

@harryz8982

Жыл бұрын

Enjoy being alone forever.

@hizzlemobizzle

Жыл бұрын

yes never be open and be sure to be hyper critical of others. These are the keys to happiness?

@bigdaddyslick4961

Жыл бұрын

You realize no high value man chats with random women for three weeks before meeting right

@GLeon-ov9yu

Жыл бұрын

Lol no high value man chats for three weeks before meeting 🤣🤣🤣

@winning3329

Жыл бұрын

@@harryz8982 Better to be alone then with a bitter person like you.

Oh boy, someone is going to be single for a while.

@Theblackswan55

Жыл бұрын

Too bad someone is not single precisely because someone learned these things the hard way and learned how to spot gold. Gold still exists but we don't all see the same thing.

@vkrgfan

Жыл бұрын

Gold like Jeff Bezos? Good luck! Let us know how long that will last.

Interesting. I have dated a few low value men. I have also dated the opposite. For some reason a lot of women have crushes on low value men. So I was always nervous when they went out by themselves. However the high quality men are not only not as sought after, they make you feel good about yourself. I always wondered why I stayed friends with some of my exes and others I ran for the hills. Now I know why.

💀 The type of person You allow Yourself to enter into a relationship with also says a lot about You as an individual. While You are looking for a high value partner, do make sure to do YOUR best to be a high value person as well, one who is WORTHY of the high value partner that You desire. Completely agree with the points raised in the video, excellent material. 💀

@Theblackswan55

Жыл бұрын

100% agree with you. Will make a video explaing that point.

Very few men with a growth mindset can handle women with a similar mindset, ambition and drive. Most of them are happy with arm candies or women who will manage the home while they're away at work

@cosmicrhino2936

Жыл бұрын

Its true its sad. My ex had this mindset and I appreciated it even if we broke up.

@gwortman3515

Жыл бұрын

Or away at play

@rodfonda3248

Жыл бұрын

It's not so much they can't handle those women,,Its just that ambitious, successful women tend to be more masculine and bossy ,that successful masculine men don't find attractive,,the arm candy and the stay home women are more feminine and submissive,,same thing, that women generally don't find feminine ,weak men attractive,,its Biology

@cosmicrhino2936

Жыл бұрын

@@rodfonda3248 i dont find submisdove women that I have to provide for attractive anymore. It feels great I just dumped this woman who dont work.

@rodfonda3248

Жыл бұрын

@@cosmicrhino2936 I see your point if she didn't want to do any work at all

I came here thinking I’d disagree with the list but this is actually really good. If I had a daughter I’d give her the same advice…except for the Jeff Bezos thing 😂

Precious. Thank you so much!! 🙏🙏

Funny, I had a man like that who could not work for somebody and started his own business. Yes, he was emotional, but he was the most generous person I met and spent a lot on me, opening business contacts for me. If a man cant hold a job does not mean he is worthless.

Thank you for your insightful information. I dated a man for 4 years who possessed many low value traits. My ex husband has some too. There is a new man in my life and he has no low value man traits at all. Amen 🙏

@abelsietecuatro9249

Жыл бұрын

I'm a low value man. But Why many girls want to date with me? I'm stingy. I'm not romantic at all. My voice is awful. And I know handsome, romantic, high value men, totally destroyed because women reject them or breake up with them without mercy

@bobleglob162

Жыл бұрын

You'll get bored, start taking him for granted and eventually only see his flaws, then you'll throw him away.

@alicemungia1642

Жыл бұрын

@@abelsietecuatro9249 you must be doing something right.

@alicemungia1642

Жыл бұрын

@@bobleglob162 maybe, but at least I won't be lied too and mistreated.

@winning3329

Жыл бұрын

@@abelsietecuatro9249 sounds like you are attracting other low value women. It's not hard to please a desperate low value women.

I definitely wouldn’t take advice from this lady lol

Loved the point about the addiction

Thank you for expressing this so succinctly. I wish I had this information years ago.

Too judgmental. In the end you have to interact with anyone you want to know, and treat them as an individual, instead of making so much superficial theory that will never help you get "the right person" anyway. Go take the risks (that's what human interaction is about), and stop helping make human relations even more picky (and therefore confusing) that what they already are.

@returnoftheromans6726

Жыл бұрын

Amen!

I resonate with nice men. At first, it seems good to be with a nice man. But as time goes by, I found this trait harmed me So, we agreed to meet at 12pm, he was living far away from me, so he need to take a train He said he will take the train with 10 am departure hour I checked again with him at 10am, he said he missed the train I asked why, he said he was having a brunch with his friend and didn't realize he missed the train I felt like he didn't appreciate me, cuz then he was late more than 2 hour As the next train schedule was not that close. I realized he being nice man means he could "sacrifice" me for other people's business as he was too nice to say no to them.

Fantastic video, thank you very much!!!🖤

Thank you lovely.this video has so useful topic.🥰

Could you please do a video on how to behave with men in dating apps?

@roofieandraggy16

Жыл бұрын

I can help you with this.... dating apps are designed to keep you're dumb ass single.

This is so very thoughtful and loaded with useful information. I wish I had seen this earlier but I think every girl should watch this video and learn! Thank you!!

@col2959

Жыл бұрын

No it’s a load of crap and you’ve been suckered in

@kylemorris8302

Жыл бұрын

No they should not! There is a lot of issues in this video and doesn’t them properly not to mentions she failed to mention communication which is vital to any relationship. A well don’t video should be done by someone who sees both sides and can come to a resolution and not base it on one sided observations.

@phenitagomes1292

Жыл бұрын

I agreed but I also feel like some ppl have to learn by experience.

@winning3329

Жыл бұрын

@@kylemorris8302 I disagree with you because no woman should be communicating with toxic men. Remember that not all men have the women's best interests. I was with low value men and it was a waste of time communicating with them.

@winning3329

Жыл бұрын

@@phenitagomes1292 Warning women could save their lives. They kind of men are the types that commit dv against women.

Do one on low value women next. I’ll admit, I think I have some of these traits, but I am working on it. I’ve been too nice my entire life. It’s a strength and weakness. I struggled for a long time with depression, no aim and felt like life was pointless. But I’m getting help for it and I think I have made progress. I do have a close relationship to my mom. I don’t think she has any control over me though. And lastly, probably most importantly, I’m still struggling to establish myself financially. I’m pursuing PT school, but for now I have to live with my parents so I can financially afford it, and devote my time to it. Clearly I am in no position to be in a relationship, which is why my (now ex) of 2 years left me. I don’t blame her. I have a lot of work to do on myself(as does she).

@scarlett9750

Жыл бұрын

Men when someone criticize them: WHAT ABOUT WOMEN. WOMEN DO IT TOO BLA BL ABLAAAA

@winning3329

Жыл бұрын

There's plenty of red pill junkie crap you can find about women and also I recommend to keep working on yourself and worry about women later.

@EvilSapphireR

Жыл бұрын

don't listen to these two broads in the thread bro. if there's a video on low value men it's only fair to have one on low value women. sadly it's less likely the channel will make one though. also do keep on bettering yourself, but make sure not to do it for women but for yourself. Only the worthy woman should have the honor of being with you.

@simsim876

Жыл бұрын

Well done for being self aware. Keep going you have got this 💪🏼

@SiegfriedLextr

9 ай бұрын

It's fair though, you have a problem with that? @@scarlett9750

Loves to stay at home watching movies!!!

@dejaunajackson7666

Жыл бұрын

Exactly ever wants to out because he’s either broke or people will see the real him. Always has a problem or an opinion about everything.

Well said!

Having a good job still doesn't really mean he's a high valued man.

@iaf4454

Жыл бұрын

It is true but if a man has a good job means that he is working on his skills and his own dreams. A man feels more satisfied with himself when he gets that perfect job he has dreamed about

All I know is almost every woman has gotten away from their responsibilities&actions, and almost every mentally weak man has given us all bad names. Did this woman ever cover staying away from a woman with red flags? Society ruined men now we all must fix it and help each other. Mgtow

@nightly765

Жыл бұрын

Same goes for women. All the low low value women gave us a bad name, even though there's still good women out there. I think when people share their experiences, it's about shitty people, so everyone now thinks everyone of both sexes are shitty. Like the average person doesn't rate an app or service if they've had good or at least satisfactory experience, but as soon as they have a bad experience, they're soon giving them 1 star. There are still decent men and women out there and making the opposite sex the reason for all your problems is just you not being accountable and responsible in choosing a partner. Society ruined men and women, and I agree we must work together instead of against each other.

I practice Stoicism and controlling my emotions. Stoicism has really helped me with females. I don’t react to the shit tests women pull. Example my ex girlfriend tried to make me jealous. She was like I’m going to Vegas with the girls. I didn’t react and just said be safe and have fun. It pissed her off because I wasn’t worried. Why worry about something that hasn’t even happened?? Plus, she can’t say shit when I go on vacation with the boys.

Excellent video!

Thank you for putting them out clearly

Most men are low value, to find a high value man is like finding a treasure.

@MrDeano-eu9rg

Жыл бұрын

Are you a female incel? If you try lots of guys and you think they're ALL no good maybe YOU are the problem.

@christinacatalano

Жыл бұрын

Lmao preach

@Mohammed-mk5hy

Жыл бұрын

U r right, I also think high value men r rarer than high value women

@ILoveFornite69

Жыл бұрын

Whoa don’t OD on the redpill.

@imzjustplayin

Жыл бұрын

Most people are low value...Difference is, men aren't entitled like women in western countries are.

On a certain level, we have low value in our brain, the neurochemicals that show up in flow: so dopamine, norepinephrine, anandamide, endorphins, and serotonin. If you were to try to cocktail the street drug version of that, right, you're trying to blend like heroin and speed and coke and acid and weed- and point is, you can't do it. It turns out the brain can cocktail all of 'em at once, which is why people will prefer flow to almost any experience on Earth. It's our favorite experience. It's the most addictive experience on Earth. Why? 'Cause it cocktails five or six of the largest pleasure drugs the brain can produce. We're all capable of so much more than we know. That is a commonality across the board. And one of the big reasons is we're all hardwired for flow, and flow is a massive amplification of what's possible for ourselves.

Great video, thank you!

Thanks for great videos

I LOVE your channel and want to mention that the microphone audio sound (like a thunder sound) is very distracting. I say this not to criticize, just to mention in case you're not aware.

@Theblackswan55

Жыл бұрын

Thank you for letting me know...I need to look into this and fix it.

@kimk3821

Жыл бұрын

@@Theblackswan55 lol personally I love how it sounds so mysterious 😅

Im a low value man. She is right. Stay away from me. I'm stingy. I don't have friends or family. I'm an emotionally mess.

@kylemorris8302

Жыл бұрын

Well why are you stingy? As far as being a emotional mess…go to therapy deal with your hurts, ways of thinking and let it help you.

My ex has all of the traits. I can't stop laughing 😂😂😂

I just love your videos, straight to the point such great advice

If i may just say something about a man who has money but is still very cheap. He may have made his money by being cheap and saving all of his money to be able to invest it later on. All I'm saying is this type of man has developed a habit of penny pinching which is a very real thing whether you believe it or not. If you find yourself with a man that can be described as this then dont just give up on him he may need time to feel comfortable with the idea of spending money. It's respectful to the man to atleast give him a chance, thank you for hearing me out.

@gwortman3515

Жыл бұрын

Yucky excuse

@drduzzit8761

Жыл бұрын

@@gwortman3515 not at all, its a real thing amongst partners that one tends to be the spender and one tends to be the saver, theres testimonials on youtube about people finding it hard to let go of their money, men and women.

@sarahbartholomew3442

Жыл бұрын

Loser. You still want everything, including access to a woman’s magic box/feminine energy, at a discount. Work on your withholding habits before u try to date and learn how to actually be generous

@TravelBug189

Жыл бұрын

A man isn’t a project that a woman needs to take on. Too many women do that. They help a man, fix him up, wait around only for him to dump her then marry the next girl that comes his way. They just put in all this hard work and have nothing to show for it Also, don’t be with a man who has potential. Potential is subjective and hypothetical. It’s not certain and it provides no security. Yes, a guy may or may not become more generous over time but you’ll lose precious time waiting to find out. Chances are it will never happen or be short lived

@drduzzit8761

Жыл бұрын

@@TravelBug189 the same can be said for everyone, no one human comes with a manual book i guess it really depends where your relationship with him/her is at. Thanks for sharing 🙏

„He doesn‘t have a growth mindset“, the thing is, when we do, even women tend to be replacable

People also will attack a man if he is better then them. It’s usually the narcissist who feel insecure. You become a mirror to them of what they are lacking in life.

What if my mom lives with me because she can't support herself. Does that make me a low value man? Or should I just kick her out to her streets?

@imzjustplayin

Жыл бұрын

You're a low value man because you didn't buy her another house, etc. etc. blah blah blah, the entitlement of these women on here is astounding.

@vkrgfan

Жыл бұрын

I didn’t like her advice precisely because it lacks nuance and she demonstrated passive aggressive reaction on criticism on some of her points made. She spoke of equality but wants a man to pay for her outings, she judges male and his mother relationship but doesn’t leave a room for situations like yours.

@nickanthropocene6502

Жыл бұрын

@@vkrgfan like redpill advice for men, the reality is most of this advice won't end well in practice if not taken with a truckload of salt. At most maybe use them as guidelines, not rules.

Ngl, it’s probably hard with the “too nice of a man thing” since there’s a personal preference and like, being nice doesn’t mean you would let people push you around. I’d agree with everything except the “too nice of a guy” thing, nice guys finish last because they’re the people who’d actually work in relationships a lot of the time. Edit for clarity: Interpreted like she was generalizing too much

@karltheman266

Жыл бұрын

It's not to be taken literally. What she means by too nice is someone who only knows to be nice. There's no such thing as too nice as long as you can stand up for yourself when the time is right.

@josepharmstrong6429

Жыл бұрын

@@karltheman266 True, I guess I just interpreted it differently.

Oh man, you already have insane hypergamy why push even further?

Thanks God i am single!! Nobody evaluates me as asset!

I don't believe in classifications and ready made recipees. Human relations are extremely complex, one has to na igate through them differently every time. I also don't agree with the label '" low value:", it is so much a symptom of a culture seeing everything and everybody as a " commodity" , a merchandise.

Fantastic Video- a lot of us were never taught how to observe a man's emotions character traits. I left a handsome, brilliant, successful scientist that had ALL of these traits. 😳poor soul --- I'm glad I'm out.

@MrDeano-eu9rg

Жыл бұрын

All this shit applies to women aswell. This whole comment section is full of what incels believe women are...stop feeding this bullshit.

Sorry but your point about “nice men” is ridiculous and contradictory. Either you’re a nice human being or not. Being nice is not a sign of weakness but strength. It’s easy not to be nice, that’s weak. Nice and stupid does not make a good combination just as mean and stupid does not. Nice and smart however is a great combination, add wisdom to the mix and he’s perfect.

@judiezell4306

Жыл бұрын

I don't believe she meant that. There are many great men who are mature and nice. TOO nice would be a turn off for me. They're easily dominated by women and I would never want a man who's scared of me. They're pushovers. Great point!♥️😁

@MrDeano-eu9rg

Жыл бұрын

This whole thing is bullshit. Women show all these things also. In this day and age of free women in the West these all apply both ways.

Top video, well done. 👏👏

Incredible quality in this video. I love how you develop your points with practical examples. A nice change from the useless bullet point style videos with no substance at all and yet millions of views.

completely unrealistic. ladies, your unicorn man does not exist!!!

15:37 I used to have a girlfriend who always made stupid remarks about other people and had many many wrong ideas. whenever I tried to tell her, with the voice of reason, why she is wrong or mocking other people all the time is disrespectful she replied by "you're disagreeing with me just because im a woman. you are a hater and a sexist." our relationship didn't work out. I'm kinda lost here. I never criticized her because of her gender, but because of her attitude. so I don't understand this point that you are making. Ladies help me out here, was I being rude? I've been single for 4 years now, so I keep thinking about the fact that maybe something is wrong with me or I shouldn't have tried to lead her to a good path.

@itsjustme5030

Жыл бұрын

Her mind was made up. If she's saying rude things about other people to you, you can bet she's saying rude things about you to other people. The whole "if she cheats with you, she'll cheat on you", only with gossip instead of sex. Nothing you were going to say or do was going to change it. She'll have to have her ass handed to her in order to change.

@olivernagy1805

Жыл бұрын

I was raised with a narcissistic parent. I can assure you that your partner was a narcissist too. It is one one the narcissist affect that you feel right now "what did I do" "wasn't I good enough". The narcissist will mess up your pschycology and your values about yourself and others. It wasn't your fault, it was her's and she tries to convince you that it was yours. There is a youtube channel where a psychologist helps people who were under narcissistic abuse I would recommend it to you. It is called: Jay Reid: recovery from bad childhood

@returnoftheromans6726

Жыл бұрын

No, that was on her. Not on you. Don't worry about it, bro. You're good.

@nevermind8589

Жыл бұрын

She is a queen lol. Good thing you dumped her