I feel like if you watch this, you definitely care about your relationship.

@va1gue292

3 жыл бұрын

I really do but I feel like my relationship is one sided

@xxvain

3 жыл бұрын

Then there’s me watching even tho I’m not in a relationship lol

@itzcreatoroffate8243

3 жыл бұрын

@@xxvain lol

@itzcreatoroffate8243

3 жыл бұрын

I'm in a relationship...but I feel like I'm giving to much n getting too less....its actually silly to think..may be...but when my partner calls me I am always available...like 99.99% available...but when I call him or try to spend time with him..he is asleep..or else he picks up the phone n asks me to hung up just bcoz he wants to sleep...N this thing frequently hurts me but I try my best to hide my pain behind my smile...stillI I fail sometimes when its unbearable...I am in that point in my life n relationship that I don't know what to do..what to say and how to react ....I really fo need a 3rd person help😢🥺😓🙏

@adamziolkowski2549

3 жыл бұрын

I should've cared when we were still together

No hate but, dont break up with someone just because of this video

@exhhhhh_b

3 жыл бұрын

look out though

@LandoBando-pj5ox

3 жыл бұрын

@@exhhhhh_b ye

@dryflowersbouquet

3 жыл бұрын

What if someone is getting depressed for these exact reasons?

@afreen5058

3 жыл бұрын

Some people may feel that this lit up the lightbulb. But YES its not good to leave someone right away just because you watched a video. But the video is information, and it that information starts the gears a-turnin' then perhaps it is better to look into your relationship a little deeper and question the things you related to the video. In that way, the video is a supplement to one of the reasons a person would walk out, but not THE definitive reason. Let's hope that anyone who broke up because of this video had other input as well, such as thinking a lot about it, input from friends, reading, etc. whatever it may be.

@gitarisqya7836

3 жыл бұрын

kinda think this 😭🥺

0:55 1. Your relationship is solely about the romantic pull 1:29 2. You don't like their friends 1:57 3. You spend too much time together 2:24 4. Your relationship feels one-sided 2:48 5. You feel controlled 3:18 6. You can't be yourself around them 3:51 7. You don''t feel accepted 4:26 8. You fight all the time 4:49 9. You don't trust each other 5:37 10. They're regularly mean to other people 6:07 11. They're passive aggressive 6:41 12. The timing isn't right hope this helped

@sohoon9395

Жыл бұрын

Oh thank you

@sargonblade8472

Жыл бұрын

God bless you

@AtLanTis613

Жыл бұрын

Thanks dude

@phatcat3705

Жыл бұрын

Gosh. Literally EVERY "relationship" I've ever had. 😕

@phatcat3705

Жыл бұрын

My parents' marriage is like this, too. It's also very codependent, too. It's been like this for DECADES, in fact, and ever since I was born, I've never recalled them being loving or affectionate towards one another. They should've been divorced a long time ago, but, alas, they're still married after 40+ years. I don't count this at all, though. They've just been roommates who hate each other but became too used to it, and it's bad enough that my dad actually CHOOSES to sleep on the couch and did that for so long now that he can't fathom ever sleeping in a real bed. This affected my sister and me, too. If anybody sees these signs in their relationship, please do yourself a favor and break up with that person. Do not think about giving them a second chance, lest they take advantage. And definitely do not marry them, much less have kids to drag into this chaotic situation.

I watched this about 2 months into my last relationship and went “oh thank god I don’t have any of these signs.” Came back again 7 months after that relationship ended. The signs just hadn’t surfaced yet since they were still in the lovebombing phase. This video is 100% correct 🤷

@xxkatiefansonamyxx

Жыл бұрын

Literally had the same experience except i watched it a year into our relationship

@amywilliams5729

Жыл бұрын

@@xxkatiefansonamyxx. Amy wiillmas crush 😻 on. JoMurry friends best 1. 2. in Relationships. all. Love ❤️ together. 3. staring. at. each other. 4. Smile.😊. 5. metal. where college 6. from lost years 20201. 7. Filst kiss 😘

@amywilliams5729

Жыл бұрын

@@xxkatiefansonamyxx. AmyJoMurry Relationships 2 years ago after Strong friendship all. Love ❤️ together 20201. AmyJoMurry woking together. Staring at. each other. like you.

@umagikurski3699

Жыл бұрын

Samee!!

@carolw3391

11 ай бұрын

This is me too. We broke up at almost one year then get back together, Now we live together for two months it was just very painful to separate but maybe it's for the best

When your boyfriend is a red flag but you're colourblind 💀

@happier___368

3 жыл бұрын

😂😂😂

@lauraduala2508

3 жыл бұрын

😹😹 No love blind

@-ix-3152

3 жыл бұрын

Damn... 😕

@zillagoodwill959

3 жыл бұрын

Yooooh 😂

@Misscnyp

3 жыл бұрын

🤔😭😂

the fact that my girfriend literally broke up with me over text while i was in the middle of watching this video 💀💀💀

@parklez3250

2 жыл бұрын

Damn, I hope you're alright

@rubiefultonn

2 жыл бұрын

@@parklez3250 thank you haha, I'm going to be okay, I just need a little time to heal

@rainnfoxer261

2 жыл бұрын

I’m gonna end it or try to

@rainnfoxer261

2 жыл бұрын

She’s said she never loved me

@rainnfoxer261

2 жыл бұрын

I was too invested in her I tried my best to be the best boyfriend for her and she said it was all a joke It’s been a good run guys I hope to die and go back to wherever I came from

This video has truly made me realize how problematic I've been with my partner. I'd oftenly cause conflicts over such petty reasons. He has his flaws too and so do I. I've been reflecting on myself lately. We're currently on a break from each other and both agreed on working on ourselves for the mean time. I've been doing a good job on improving myself, I used to be so defensive and immature. I just wanna be the partner he deserves.

@sarchiba

9 ай бұрын

Good on you for trying to better yourself, that is very valuable

@ria8977

9 ай бұрын

@@sarchiba thank you! That means a lot

@daddyganesh8958

5 ай бұрын

Great sista 👏

@ria8977

5 ай бұрын

@@daddyganesh8958 We have broken up but we're in good terms. I appreciate your encouragement a lot 🤞🏽💛

@larryramos3191

5 ай бұрын

How long have you been in the break for?

In the case of my wife and I, we fought quite often early in our relationship. To the point where she didn’t think we were going to make it. One important factor was the way we resolved those fights. Through mature communication and the willingness to try and adapt we’ve been able to learn how to co-exist better. I believe being able to resolve fights is one of the keys as you’re bound to get into them eventually.

@issober0110

10 ай бұрын

Did you and your wife sometimes stay a couple of days away from each other after a big fight? Like, you still communicate over the phone but not as often as usual?

@malu8710

10 ай бұрын

This! I had severe trust issues in our relationship because of my upbringing. This caused a lot of fights initially because I couldn’t control my emotions even though I knew it was wrong. When I saw it was ruining our relationship, I apologised and promised to never do that again. She gave me time to slowly control my emotions and I put in the effort to do so. Communication is definitely important in a relationship. If both of you wants to make it work, you’ll do anything for it

@issober0110

9 ай бұрын

@@malu8710 Thank you for your answer, pretty much whats been happening in my relationship where I just can't controll my constant overthinking. Probably doesnt help that it's the first relationship for the both of us. luckily she is patient, and I will take your tips and have them in the back of my head, specially with working on my trust issues :)

@t.h.3146

8 ай бұрын

Hi Jeffrey! Thank you for sharing your experience! I can currently relate to your wife’s previous position. And if I may ask, what made you decide to continue that relationship? Since having a partner who didn’t think the relationship has a future can be taken as a sign of incompatibility. And thank you in advance if you decide to share your wisdom!

@lazyboy008

8 ай бұрын

@@t.h.3146 For me it was easy to continue as I've never been so sure of someone. She was my best friend and I remember not being able to describe why I loved her so much - it's as if I didn't need a reason. Yes, it was a bit unnerving that she felt that way, however, something in my heart knew we were meant to be together. For my wife, she really struggled to reconcile between what her head vs heart was telling her. One day, it also clicked for her and here we are today. I hope that you also find your truth.

Not me getting ready to overthink my non existent relationship🤡

@bo-xm3so

2 жыл бұрын

mood

@confusedgay1770

2 жыл бұрын

mood

@KyleeCammon

2 жыл бұрын

Literally me 😭

@NYYankees-xt7to

2 жыл бұрын

Stay single. Trust me😎

@EbonyMarvel

2 жыл бұрын

Not me overthinking my current.

"You spend too much time together" Couples living together during quarantine: ...

@lena-py7qz

3 жыл бұрын

ibuki pfp

@izzywoods794

3 жыл бұрын

😂😂me rn. But we’re both introverts so i actually only see my bf for like half the day

@gbg.2002

3 жыл бұрын

I don't think it's not good to spend too much time together... What about people married for 20+ years n stuff? I mean as long as you both understand each other, Love them unconditionally, be honest, treat them well, respect them and their decisions and by being loyal, you can really look forward into being in a serious relationship. I don't think there is any actual problem if they spend too much time together. Well, we need to give them space, coz that's like a necessary thing in a relationship. So yeah!

@gbg.2002

3 жыл бұрын

@The Angry Introverted Scotsman I wouldn't say no to that... :)

@Trollestiatumblur

3 жыл бұрын

Gayathri B.G Spending too much time together is most certainly a problem. We need our own interests, hobbies, friends, etc. Plus working. That’s 8 hours everyday that you don’t see them if you have a 9-5 type of job (like I do.) You’ll hate each other if you spend too much time together, and I need a few hours to myself every morning and when I come home from work simply because I will be the worst person to be around if I can’t have alone time. I will be moody, snappy, and aloof if I go a few days without having me time. And plus that’s a sign of toxicity and dependence if you and/or your partner need to be around each other or talk 24/7. My abusive ex wouldn’t even let me sleep unless I was otp with him. It got to the point where he would come with me to the bathroom when we were living together. Trust me... it’s definitely a bad thing.

Is there ever really a perfect time for a relationship though? I feel like if two people who are very goal driven end up falling for each other, then they’ll never really feel like it’s the perfect time fit a relationship

@8Corpse1Allergy8

Жыл бұрын

you rather feel free

@rayleenjayne2655

Жыл бұрын

Yeah I think it’s really just about the mental space either person is in, even if things like work or school or other responsibilities get in the way of meeting each other’s needs, you have to know yourself and your own capacities to both give and receive love.

"Tell me who your friends are and I tell you who you are" Has no friends.

@eshiboo3301

3 жыл бұрын

Deadass tho, explains a lot for me

@bmay669

3 жыл бұрын

You're a nobody

@MattBG67

3 жыл бұрын

You dont exist

@shakurwonders5216

2 жыл бұрын

@@MattBG67 let me hope thats a joke

@missSmile.

2 жыл бұрын

😂❤️

me: is in a healthy and loving relationship youtube: hmMMmMmmMmmMmm jUst GOnNa rEcoMmeNd ThiS ReaL QuiCK

@lylavati

3 жыл бұрын

I had the exact same thought. 😄

@galaxylucia1898

3 жыл бұрын

😂😂😂

@fayeholder2238

3 жыл бұрын

😂😂😂😂

@isbsjajsjsahajdixjshanw2844

3 жыл бұрын

I hope your relationship is still going steady and you both are happy! Have a good day :)

@jonnamesa5058

3 жыл бұрын

so true haha

I used to be passive aggressive in my LDR. Honestly he had every right to leave because I was making our relationship difficult so instead he stayed and helped me uncover the root of the problem. We are going still dating and about to reach a 3 year mark. It's not perfect but worth making it work😊

@kata9755

Жыл бұрын

its amazing

@natashamasha5774

Жыл бұрын

@@kata9755 Well all I can honestly share is my experience so here goes I hope it helps:-) Since i grew up not knowing how to communicate my feelings I struggled a lot later as a young adult so he instead encouraged me to be honest about my feelings, why I felt a certain way whenever we faced challenges as a couple as well as in our individual everyday lives with others. it took time but eventually I got the hang of talking about how I felt even about past experiences. That's how I realized I was holding onto anger from childhood experiences which really wasn't dealt with in a healthy was hence I became passive aggressive. Communicating my emotions and getting to understand them was what helped me I guess.

@darknessvoid9614

Жыл бұрын

Hi, Are you still in LDR with your partner?

@Ssn5881

Жыл бұрын

Here ldr and I made it hard for him. I know we loved each other but it was my ego issue that ruined it. He said I'm not the only one who's wrong in this, he was too. We both can't fully make each other happy. It has ended after 10 months together

@chaeriplease

Жыл бұрын

in your Lana Del Rey?

Im in a recent relationship with my crush and she always treated me like I’m worth something great. Everyone at my school treat us like we’re worth nothing.We always encouraged and cheered each other up when we were feeling blue. Talking to her and hanging out with her brings happiness into both of our lives. I honestly don’t want to be with any other girl but her. And watching these videos made me realize that this relationship is going to be really strong. We are both going to the ninth grade and I now know that we will still be together through high school. 😊

@Datboiiijoshua

Жыл бұрын

Oh poor baby Stfu wuss

@snowinoutsidern3223

Жыл бұрын

How’s it going?

@sarchiba

9 ай бұрын

I hope it works out for you!

“Some people will leave you soon no matter how, but it's not the ending of your story, it's just the ending of their role in your story. cause life goes on"

@Purplecorgi10

3 жыл бұрын

What a nice, true quote.

@MercenaryFox

3 жыл бұрын

hey bucky. you assasinated anyone yet?

@danielesteve8359

3 жыл бұрын

@@MercenaryFox Yep. He doesn't look like he was ever loved anyone.

@misscornicat

3 жыл бұрын

Trueee

@tonianjelica

3 жыл бұрын

Beautiful

Bad comunication and not being able to resolve conflicts and collisions is what ends relationships for me.

@briv.8145

3 жыл бұрын

This is why I just ended my marriage. We have just about all these signs but communication was our biggest and most heart breaking thing for me. If two people don't communicate well, no matter how hard they try, maybe they're just not meant for each other...

@warrefransen7751

3 жыл бұрын

Or when you try to talk about how you feel about something in the relationship and she starts to lash out and starts to gaslight you in always making drama...

@judimarie1778

3 жыл бұрын

Especially when communication is slowly disappearing not like the usual before

@IbarraAlejandro

3 жыл бұрын

That's why I ended the relationship....

@hiunaut2833

3 жыл бұрын

Relatable, we were never the wiser back then, Happy life stranger.

Number 12 is so relatable for my relationship... We hit it off so well the first month and bad things outside of our control just keep happening to her and now we haven't talked in like 4 weeks... Sometimes you can't control these things so please don't blame yourself, trying to find faults within you when it's really out of your control... Damn I miss her :(

1. Watching videos or listening to people put ideas into your head about why your relationship wont last. 2. These thoughts convince you they are real. 3. Convinced it will happen, you self-fulfill these prophecies. 4. You sabotage yourself and your relationship unwittingly, but purposefully. 5. You end up being the reason the relationship doesn't last. 6. You feel vindicated in your earlier predictions. 7. You are convinced these videos and/or other people must be right since what was said came true. 8. You carry this out with every relationship you attempt regardless of any potentially different outcomes. 9. You share this so-called wisdom with your friends and family. 10. The toxicity of this mindset continues to spread like an out-of-control virus, therefor avoiding the real issue, which is yourself.

@bandav_lohengrin

Жыл бұрын

WHY ARE YOU SO RIGHT???? 😭😭😭😭😭

@rc-kb5or

Жыл бұрын

This is so damn true, it all starts with the thoughts you allow to shape your reality; your approach and your intention in relationships is what matters the most. You cannot expect to mold a relationship without the right tools. I am guilty of this cycle bc I've done it many times only to realize how blinded I was to believe my own prophecies and keep myself from working on the relationship which makes the other person exhausted bc who would want to work on it without your counterpart, right? I'm still working on this. And its not easy but having a partner who's willing to make the same efforts makes it a lot more worth it. Best wishes to you guys, let's keep working on ourselves 🧡

@crissalazar1571

Жыл бұрын

It's a matter of perspective and opinion that can possibly allow greater insight. It shouldn't be digested as a "one size fits all". If it doesn't apply, let it fly. Don't do the exact thing you're so adamant about. Let others formulate what works best for THEM.

@marbymacapobre8050

Жыл бұрын

Damn, thank you for this

@joao3547

Жыл бұрын

Yep. Forget about these crappy "psychologists", they're just trying to make a buck with these videos

*12 early signs a relationship won't last :* 1. your relationship is solely about the romantic pull 2. you don't like their friends 3. you spend too much time together 4. your relationship feels one-sided 5. you feel controlled 6. you can't control yourself around them 7. you don't feel accepted 8. you fight all the time 9. you don't trust each other 10. they're regularly mean to other people 11. they're passive aggressive 12. the timing isn't right

@myaaa2626

3 жыл бұрын

Gank you bruhva

@myaaa2626

3 жыл бұрын

6(u can't be yourself around them)💜

@malorieedie7763

3 жыл бұрын

For me it’s numbers #2, 4, 5, & #7.

@saviourscorpius

3 жыл бұрын

for me its 3

@niksrathore6280

3 жыл бұрын

We spend too much ti!e together cos we are married( ；∀；)..is it okay then?

Not everything we lose is a loss. Sometimes, you're relieved free from the pain of holding on to the ones who aren't meant to be in our life.

@ruchamansukh1203

3 жыл бұрын

I felt that😭💖

@add2console163

3 жыл бұрын

Wow Anjali

@momijiparfait

3 жыл бұрын

Yess...this is exactly what I've been dealing with recently.

@UltimateTS64

3 жыл бұрын

Facts

@afreen5058

3 жыл бұрын

Yes, I'm starting to see how true this is.

I am very glad to say that my relationship is fine, but I also realized throughout this video that my relationship with my mom is toxic.

I will not lie, these help me be a better boyfriend. I love my girlfriend to the moon and back, but I also didnt realize how I truly was acting and reading her signs wrongfully, until I started watching these videos. Forever greatful and thankful for videos like these. So many signs I've realized with my girlfriend and in myself, now I feel like I could love her better than I already do. I thought I knew how to love her before, but you know what it's been said "when you watch the truth, then you understand and realize at the same time." Thank You.

@ethanloch3802

Жыл бұрын

The mark of a truly deserving boyfriend is one who can both admit these things, and change for the benefit of his partner! Props to you man, hope you and your girl are doing okay and that you have the best life together!

@Irenebloom

10 ай бұрын

This is so beautiful, I wish you and your girlfriend the best.

@michaelbishop2930

10 ай бұрын

@@Irenebloom she has left me been single now since. Anyways I wish nothing but the best for you!

@michaelbishop2930

10 ай бұрын

@@ethanloch3802 hey sorry it took so long to reply. She has left me and have been single since. Thank you for your kind words, It’s because of people like yourself who show that they care is what kept me from going insane. Thank you again.

@ethanloch3802

10 ай бұрын

@@michaelbishop2930 I don't know why she left you, but you should know that it's people like you who are the ones who set an example for a good relationship. So many people nowadays forget how important the connection is. It's so materialistic and people think it's all about looks and money. Even money can't buy a personality. Never forget that, and I hope whatever happens you keep your attitude from your original comment with the next one, and if she doesn't leave you, I can assure you you'll make her very happy.

when your boyfriend is a red flag, but you're a bull ☠️

@bluemoon9530

3 жыл бұрын

:)

@zanismara

3 жыл бұрын

😂😂😂😂

@k.l.3242

3 жыл бұрын

@MAYUR TRIVEDI_X_I_19 how did u comment that emoji?-

@mort13

3 жыл бұрын

XD UNDERRATED

@animethighs6667

3 жыл бұрын

:awesome:

I'm not ashamed to admit I was the toxic part of the relationship. The reason being, is that I've since identified and taken care to fix those habits I'd formed. And my lovely ex, has helped facilitate my getting better as a person for it. That woman is a goddess and deserves nothing but praise for her patience.

@theoutlook55

3 жыл бұрын

Kudos for being man enough to admit it.

@FancyRavenmoon

3 жыл бұрын

Becoming responsible for your own words can help your self esteem build character. Speak positive for what you believe and you will get what you need,

@versaii5519

2 жыл бұрын

love this energy

@hibarizvi9171

2 жыл бұрын

More power to you! And we need more people like her!

@MaseratiChris556

2 жыл бұрын

You’re very lucky! I’m in your day one shoes right now

this video validated my feelings on my relationship, it feels so good to be in a healthy relationship, and know that our small disagreements are ok, as long as we talk them out :)

"We often settle for less in a relationship, than the things required to have a fulfilling one" -Thanks.

Been dating for 8 years, and the signs are more visible now 😔 I have started playing some couple question games like “Lovify”. To understand each other better. In this game, we have to guess each other's likes. This helped me understand my gf's expectations better. And, she is loving it. Cheers, to all couples. We all will make it through 💞

My wife of 20 years made me feel like I could be my truest self since day 1. Before we even got married I cried in her arms over this very fact. To this day she says she doesn’t remember that moment 😂 😆 😝. But she’s my best friend, and I can’t see myself with anyone else besides her. Here’s to another 20 years!!

@stararmy7219

2 жыл бұрын

Aww this is so sweet☺️happy 20 year anniversary for you guys!!

@Ellie-nq6ws

2 жыл бұрын

This restored my faith in men a bit...I look forward to the part in my life when I meet someone who appreciates and chooses me from day 1. I entered all past relationships with an attitude to understand them, in hopes of it being reciprocated only to find out down the line that they lie, use me and dim my light. Working on myself to prevent similar relationships I have to leave in future

@tonyallen3138

2 жыл бұрын

@@stararmy7219 thank you.

@tonyallen3138

2 жыл бұрын

@@Ellie-nq6ws if you can meet a man that can connect with you on an emotional, intellectual, and more than a physical level engage him thoroughly. They exist, you’ll definitely know the difference.

@miss420mj

2 жыл бұрын

I love hearing these stories! All the best!

The list for those who are in a hurry: 1. Your relationship is solely about the romantic pull 0:55 2. You don't like their friends 1:27 3. You spend too much time together 1:57 4. Your relationship feels one-sided 2:24 5. You feel controlled 2:46 6. You can't be yourself around them 3:16 7. You don't feel accepted 3:50 8. You fight all the time 4:26 9. You don't trust each other 4:59 10. They're regularly mean to other people 5:35 11. They're passive-aggressive 6:06 12. The timing isn't right 6:40 Who else is a single pringle here?

@theindigotree

3 жыл бұрын

I am I I'm kinda proud to be.

@tanyadegurechaffhellspawn3784

3 жыл бұрын

Just Broke up with my 28th girlfriend

@vasigheroef.2635

3 жыл бұрын

Spending too much time together huh, should I break things off even before there could(if there could ever be) an us😞

@tanyadegurechaffhellspawn3784

3 жыл бұрын

@@vasigheroef.2635 I don't know

@hutao9661

3 жыл бұрын

@@tanyadegurechaffhellspawn3784 WHAT

What an extremely soothing voice! One of the most soothing voices on KZread. The person speaking in your videos + the cartoons make your videos so soothing to watch. Thank you

All these comments are so genuine and heartfelt. What a great community. Glad we can bond together everyone ❤

6 reasons why Psych2Go is an awesome channel 1. The girl's voice is *calming* 2. They post every day 3. Their videos are helpful 4. They sometimes heart/reply to comments 5. They make learning fun 6. The drawings have adorable lil sprouts on their heads

@theonlygosha

3 жыл бұрын

So their content is to a high standard

@angelgirl3263

3 жыл бұрын

7. Always amazing 😉

@Chad_Hart

3 жыл бұрын

This channel totally helped me get thru a divorce last summer. Thanks psych2go

@Purplecorgi10

3 жыл бұрын

The girls voice is calming what-

@KyHundley

3 жыл бұрын

Agreed

It is important to maintain your identity in any and all relationships...

@danielesteve8359

3 жыл бұрын

More important is to keep your money far from them...

@Anisha..Alayna

3 жыл бұрын

🗣🗣🗣🗣💯💯

@jskillz253

3 жыл бұрын

Daniel Esteve lmfao I have made some bad investment calls

@HeyKiikii

3 жыл бұрын

Daniel Esteve I’ve made some bad decisions too regarding sharing my coins , sigh

@mothercoyote351

3 жыл бұрын

Yes it is but it's not always as possible as we'd like it to b unfortunately 😔. Ik this 1st handedly cuz I live in a relationship like what was discribed in the video & I am constantly questioning my true identity. Which in my opinion no one should have to do if ur in a honest, loving, caring, & trustworthy relationship.

All 12...she did all 12. I looked past so much for the sake of not being alone again. I learned to love myself and see through those rose tinted glasses. After 6 years of being together, 1 and half of that married, we ended it with divorce back in January.

“Perfection is a Myth” That quote hits different

Relationships last because two people make a choice to keep it, so we need to fight for and work for it. Being someone’s first love may be great, but to be their last is beyond perfect 🖖

@ruchamansukh1203

3 жыл бұрын

So truee💕💕

@Havenyee

3 жыл бұрын

Long story short, love is a choice :)

@monabohamad2242

3 жыл бұрын

@Bekah L. so how do you guys choose who to love? and since when is love a choice?

@monabohamad2242

3 жыл бұрын

@Bekah L. if what you guys said includes Family love then maybe I don't really choose to love them maybe I do maybe I don't

@stefanstefan6740

3 жыл бұрын

@@monabohamad2242 He meant its a choice to stay and fight for it if you choose it to work. You can choose to make it work because you love someone. Even after the feelings arent so strong anymore.

i don’t even have a relationship, *why* am i watching this.

@monabohamad2242

3 жыл бұрын

Probably to get Educated well I'm only making a guess

@hulkgreen6786

3 жыл бұрын

You best get into one

@Possiblyabandaid

3 жыл бұрын

It is not a fault to admit you do not know.

@Me-dj2sz

3 жыл бұрын

It’s the bold why for me

@ooohshobee351

3 жыл бұрын

Hahahaa me too

Love really is blind, isn't it. Welp, Moral of the story: don't fall in love.

@WingsOFireArts

Жыл бұрын

You don't have to stay single. I think you just have to find someone who you can trust not to do any of these things. ❤

Thank you ! Great job ! In the passing aggressive face you may want to include the long silence faces as punishment… you resume is very accurate…

The people admiting themselves and being proud of their improvement in the comments just brings smile to my face. Very brave. We got this. Not a single one of us here are perfect.

@octopus4925

Жыл бұрын

Your comment just made me smile, so thanks for paying it forward :) so true that we all are guilty of some less than ideal behaviors, and that's ok! We just all need to keep trying our best

@BranchofWellnessCounselingPLLC

Жыл бұрын

🙏🏻🙏🏻

@natsunakusunagi9214

Жыл бұрын

thank you, i needed this

Bold of you to assume I'll end up in a relationship someday.

@allisong.4280

3 жыл бұрын

WOOOOOOW SAME

@sanskritisharma4944

3 жыл бұрын

😂😂

@eL.N.M.

3 жыл бұрын

They don't assume, you're the one who clicks the video . . LOL, jk jk jk XD

@giveittomerightnow

3 жыл бұрын

Yeah, I'm too ugly and short to even TRY

@hiwall4883

3 жыл бұрын

Lol, good comment.

we’re going through a rough patch. we were too dependent on each other, which caused jealousy. we are taking time for ourselves currently , and i pray that the outcome comes out looking happy and healthy. every other part of our relationship was so beautiful

That was so beautiful. So much wisdom in there.

i want to break up with my boyfriend, i’ve never felt so alone when i’m with someone. he purposely humiliates me and my past in front of other people knowing i’m embarrassed about it. he calls other women hot and cute in front of me, he is more affectionate with them than he ever was and will be with me. ive spent so much money on him, he begs for money everyday and get upset w me when i say i barely have any for myself. only time he looks excited to be with me is when i give him sexual pleasure. he gets so irritated with me when i tell him in not in the mood and tells him i kill his mood all the time just by talking. he tells me “i don’t care” to everything i say or enjoy. this person is a literal cancer to me. ive never been so un attracted to someone in my life, so repulsed by someone’s personality. it took me so long to realize but i deserve better, i break up with him tomorrow. wish me luck

@naomirhoja6539

2 жыл бұрын

I know you didn’t ask, but you deserve so much more and I hope you find someone who makes you feel soooo loved 🥰

@hauwarango1111

2 жыл бұрын

He was the one who helped me in restoring back my ex partner three days ago without delay

@hauwarango1111

2 жыл бұрын

Whtsaap him"**

@charlespaul6725

2 жыл бұрын

How’d it go?

@kithkosmos

2 жыл бұрын

i hope all went well. you deserve so much better than that!! best of luck

I saw him every Saturday. The first 1-2 months was amazing, for him it was like a get away from the issues he had prior to me. It was a fantasy. It was a dream. He was amazing. We were perfect. I became attached to him and he became the only person I wanted to talk to and hang out with. However, on his birthday, 18 hit him and all the issues he had prior to me had toppled on top of him meaning he was going through serious things in life and gave me less attention. As I took that personally and I did not know at the time, I brought up more and more issues between us in our relationship and created a lot of stressful situations for him. I stopped becoming the thing which made him forget about all his problems and our relationship became another problem. This created a bigger drift between us and he took to his games and his friends as a distraction which left me alone for longer and created even bigger issues. Please take this from me and do not become attached or dependent on your partner to bring you happiness. It kills a relationship. You are not ready for a relationship if you are. You need to grow and accept yourself and love yourself before you love someone else.

@loveatris

2 жыл бұрын

I can very much relate to this 😭

@cynthiaeffie9156

2 жыл бұрын

Very relatable😭😭

@badmammajamma6735

2 жыл бұрын

Exactly what happened to me. I feel you.

@HawaiiDEEPS

2 жыл бұрын

Very self aware

@busisiwebooi1455

2 жыл бұрын

But if you are already dependent on them how do you undo it ? 😭😭💔

after i had a big fight with my girlfriend of ~1 month and i started questioning things and rethinking things and there’s just so much you can miss when you’re in the moment, especially in the honeymoon phase. the fact that we even got into a fight this big at not even a month in is a giant red flag. im breaking up with her soon (i dont know when cus she wont text me with when shes free to talk >:( but im telling myself that ill do it over text in 2 days if needed) and im proud that i have the decency to cut this off and that i had the self-awareness to start questioning her instead of bowing to my knees trying to fix things. ive been thinking that if this fight didnt happen i dont know how much time i would’ve wasted, and this video just re-affirms that.

Remember, “Every new beginning comes from some Other beginning’s end “

@thecoldglassofwatershow

Ай бұрын

Closing time coded 😂

@thecoldglassofwatershow

Ай бұрын

You don’t have to go home, but you can’t stay here

If you are watching this while you are heartbroken, because the relationship you had was perfect to you and you try to find a reason why he is gone, I feel you. I am struggling too.

@jenny01317

3 жыл бұрын

Hope you are okay Gaia. Go no contact, and work on yourself. Life is short, either he comes back or someone else better will come into your life. Do the self care work and take care!

@blessingugochi2029

3 жыл бұрын

Honestly! My heart aches so much because I know how much I was willing to make it work despite everything but he just watched me put in all the efforts. I’m really begging God to heal me.

@cookingonnaa8998

3 жыл бұрын

💜💜💜

@faliandra7659

3 жыл бұрын

@@blessingugochi2029 just try and see it from another point of view...if you tried so hard and he didnt do anything, its good riddance! hes not the one for you, you need someone who puts equally as much effort as you did. Value yourself more and come to realise that he wasnt good enough for YOU, not the other way around. Realising this should make it a little bit easier to get over it. I know its hard in the moment, but time will show you it was a good thing to happen, not a bad one!

@didyoujust7810

3 жыл бұрын

There was a lot of issues, the main one was the timing wasn't right. I'm a better person now, which he helped me to be. So is he, he's a better person now because of me and he told me this. But he is my soulmate, and I cannot escape this horrible crushing feeling that what is done, is done. It's too broken and the past is inescapable. He sees me as his best friend, and I wish I could do it all again as the person I am now, go back in time, start fresh. But it's over and I am having a really hard time accepting it or moving on with my life.

Ive been overthinking my relationship and this def made me overthink it more

@ohhheaven.

Жыл бұрын

Same..

@Jukebox707

Жыл бұрын

Samw

@Lancelotlobstertail

Жыл бұрын

Literally same :,)

@MJ_338

Жыл бұрын

So I'm not the only one...

@karennovosat5435

Жыл бұрын

Hahahaha

Only last for three months, realization, awakening, acceptance, and healing. I learned a lot to love myself better.

The timing not being right is the hardest in my opinion. It's out of both of your control and it's all down to one's life path. For instance, one could be moving home, one may not be in a positive headspace at that period in their life, one could simply not be ready for a relationship. It's an inevitable sadness.

"You can't take a joke ugh" ...I heard that a million times

@sydneybishop1093

3 жыл бұрын

I don't know how to feel about this. I always kind of felt that, that was a red flag, because not everything is a joke and when I continued watching the video and mentioned that sign. Uuuf, I was like daaamn... I could relate to 5 and I feel that is too much for too long.

@raphaelmotta7630

3 жыл бұрын

Saying that is a tell tale sing of a total asshole.

@normalman6078

3 жыл бұрын

you probably cant

@paigemadeline4320

2 жыл бұрын

Gaslightingg

@HasretSR

2 жыл бұрын

I used to say this thinking my gf had a similar sense of humour as mine. I stopped doing it when she told me she didn't like it. wasn't enough of a change I guess.

My girlfriend most likely won’t see this, but I’m really lucky to have her in my life. Before we met my life was so empty because of my parents recent divorce and my dad moved away I also moved away from all my friends all in the same week I met her and at first didn’t see her romantically but we hung out more often and I just fell in love she treats me with so much respect and love ahhhh I love her so much. I am aware how grammatically incorrect that statement was but idc I love her so much

@von2886

3 жыл бұрын

Me: *I’m your girlfriend and I saw this.* - XDD sorry this was immature of me but I just want to 😊, hopefully you both still together still, good luck! Keep it strong!

@gabymendelek6142

3 жыл бұрын

OMG I LOVE YOU IM SO GREATFILL TO HAVE U IN MY LIFE YOURE THE BEST

@karmansingh8644

3 жыл бұрын

Bruh listen to me... This is comming from a person who's situation was kindof similar... Try to fight with life alone.. Win over it be happy and then share the hapiness.. Unconciously you will look for hapiness from the other person and im honestly saying that it won't last

@floppyhatcharlie4280

3 жыл бұрын

@Maja bruh

@alessiodaini7907

3 жыл бұрын

@@welhungyongmancitywok8189 Nah, it's nothing. Message could be useful for someone else and expressing an opinion and a general piece of advice is easy to do. Braveness is something doesn't suit me, in this case. What that person does in her life is something I don't truly care: everybody does what it wants in its own life and I don't feel like looking for persons' identities for each messages on the youtube.

this really made alot of sense and will used for future decision making.

as someone who just got into a relationship and has had my friends tell me of these red flags, I thought they were right. But when I took off and put on the rose-tinted glasses, I saw the same person I liked from the start. Sometimes even better than the start. Love what you do

When my husband and I first started dating, we spent 8+ hours a day together. This was not due to co-dependence. But the fact that we were both in the same college classes and had the same major. We made good lab partners because we worked well together. We hung out with our friends seperately or together, but we liked and still like spending a lot of time together. We'll have been married for 6 years in May.

@ben24763

2 жыл бұрын

Opposite situation--my bf and I don't have any classes together (very different majors) and I dislike studying together because it feels like he's so focused on whatever important work he's doing, and all I can do is wait for him to be done. So right now we only spend time together when we're both free. Do you have any advice on how I can become more comfortable with studying together?

@ktm5130

2 жыл бұрын

@@ben24763 I honestly don't have specific advice. We just got along very well, and even if we weren't studying together it was enough to be studying in the same room, but not necessarily studying together. I don't expect him to be constantly engaging with me. If he is focused on something, I let him finish and do my own thing and vice versa. We understand that if one of us is in the zone, then the other doesn't interrupt.

@dana_4475

2 жыл бұрын

Periodddd

@rieriechan6243

2 жыл бұрын

@@ben24763 had the same situation as you when I was in highschool. I would say just do your own thing (talking to friends, drawing, finishing tasks) that's what I did and I hope it helps for you too ^^

@souldancersbyjennifer

2 жыл бұрын

Wow... Sounds wonderful... Congrats and wish you both many many more loving years ahead!

Me: single Also me: oh no he’s leaving me

@weirdsider4412

3 жыл бұрын

😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭

12 is important. Life is long, and impatiently starting a relationship isn't smart, but I unfortunately find it to be a common occurrence to people around me. On the other hand, I think it's exciting to be friends with someone for months or years before confessing to each other and starting an intimate relationship.

This reminded me of the relationship i had with my ex bsf and this video only reminds me to stop rushing to be in a relationship, i have to do whats right for my future and sometimes it means waiting a little longer for love and thats ok… people come and go but only you will ever truly have yourself so love yourself and know your worth and then when the time is divine youll have all that youve ever wanted for yourself

I completely agree: when someone doesn't accept you the way you are and want you to be someone else, stay yourself or leave, it can never be wealthy or sane

@danielesteve8359

3 жыл бұрын

That's exactly what everybody does...

@giuliabricci6580

3 жыл бұрын

Honestly to a degree, if someone isn't ready to also changd and grow with you (of course on both sides!) then that's the biggest red flag for me. When someone is too stubborn to see that they too have flaws that might be hurtful. Of course there's a difference between changing everything on demand and having a conversation about some things that ask for compromise and maybe sacrifice. So yeah, accepting the flaws but also trying to better oneselfs and the relationship. Communication jeij

@smithwilliams545

3 жыл бұрын

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@marishajames3581

3 жыл бұрын

It’s about the willingness to evolve to be the best possible person you can be. Some people may “be themselves” but have horrible habits that inhibit their own self growth. Should be motivating each other to be better.

People who disliked realized there relationship is about to hit rock bottom.

@hugegander9477

3 жыл бұрын

just two people XD

@Iloveyou-nx9hu

3 жыл бұрын

@@hugegander9477 perfect XD

@eduardoricardo94

3 жыл бұрын

No, they're too blind to realize these 12 facts

@earllawrence7108

3 жыл бұрын

Edrick Wilson haters have their notifications on :/

@eduardoricardo94

3 жыл бұрын

@@earllawrence7108 its a good thing tho

Thank you for all the tips! It definitely was great to watch this video (made me even more grateful for how healthy the relationship I’m in is) and read the comments (It’s so amazing how everyone opened up about what they have been through and how it affected them), we are all here for each other :) I would want to ask for your guys’ advice, opinion on a situation I’m dealing with in my relationship. Before, I have to say none of the other signs apply to us and it’s just really healthy. We do have conversations about things that don’t go too well, but those are always good and we be up being beneficial in the future, we never get to bring those things up again as they aren’t an issue anymore after we talk about them. The only big problem that keeps hurting the both of us (actually the 3 of us) is the fact that I don’t like his girl best friend (she is a good friend, interesting person, kind and fun, but I just don’t trust her). I have seen her cheat on her boyfriend right in front of my eyes and she drinks a lot, is very chaotic, which me and my boyfriend aren’t, but he still cares for her because of other qualities of hers, which is fair enough and understandable. I still though have a bad feeling about her and I feel very anxious every time they hang out for a longer while (he told me they made out once one year ago when we weren’t together yet, but he said it definitely didn’t mean anything, that’s also on my mind though, because I found out about it after thinking it might’ve happened, but I was hoping it didn’t). She is a big part of his life, but she sees things very differently than I do and what I feel like is not okay she sees as exaggerating, which creates a bit of a conflict, puts my boyfriend in between, which hurts him too. During a party once she told me I shouldn’t worry about anything, but she was slightly drunk and the conversation was so strange (I still appreciate the fact that she came to me, I know she doesn’t like the situation either). What I am asking you is what do you think is best to do in order to deal with this situation? We are (me and my boyfriend) trying to think of ways to deal with it, but we are not sure what to do and this has been an ongoing conversation for a while now. It hurts the both of us so much we ended up crying several times (he kept telling me we will figure it out, we will end up finding a way and that it will be always, as all he wants is to be with me, but he also said he promised her this will never be between them, won’t ruin their friendship, which is, again, very fair). He doesn’t only tell me, but he always makes me feel how much he wants to be with me. We really want to make this work, but we don’t really know how.. And I definitely understand it can all come from me and my thoughts, but I don’t know how to deal with them really, and it’s not about trust issues, cause I trust him 100%, but I just don’t like her and it makes me feel bad when they are together, which hurts me and hurts him.. What would you do in this situation, under these circumstances?

@oddeven327

Жыл бұрын

You said you trust him 100% so I believe you need to let the feeling of hatred towards the girl go away, slide it off, ignore it, since that hatred is negatively affecting your relationship and your mental health, I suggest, you work on this aspect of yours. It's okay to have a different perspective, you may be calm and she maybe chaotic but acknowledge the difference and focus on yourself instead. If he cheats on you that would be his fault and not the girl's fault, so let it go. Focus on yourself.

@alex36265503

11 ай бұрын

seven months later, i wonder how that went out. Could you solve the situation? BTW my reading of the situation is that he should let that friendship go and focus on your relationship, since that's priority.

@Akrazzyy

7 ай бұрын

He can't hang out with her without you present. He cant see her more than twice a month, even thats too high. Its not your fault, it's his. He needs to let her know that you are his wife or about to be if not already, so they both need to keep distance now. If he can't do it, Pack your bags and leave him.

@Akrazzyy

7 ай бұрын

He needs to make decision with you and only you involved. Not a third person who don't give a solitary fu*k about your relationship.

you guys have saved my life multiple times. thank you.

“Is your partner the only person you see?” Well yes... we are in a pandemic 😂

@cookingonnaa8998

3 жыл бұрын

Facts

@acaken7269

2 жыл бұрын

plus not everyone loves to hang out with friends especially they do not have friends they love to hang out to

@lawlietharris8632

2 жыл бұрын

@@acaken7269 🥲it's the "do not have friends" for me

ACCEPTANCE. Sometimes, you just have to accept that some relationships are not meant to last--and that's okay. Another great learning experience, as they say. ❤️❤️❤️

@ronaldvasquez6488

3 жыл бұрын

Yeah understanding something and learning from it is healthy.

@psychsigns1000

3 жыл бұрын

@@ronaldvasquez6488 I agree, Ronald! Truly, it pains us but the learnings are our rewards. ❤️❤️❤️

@davewolf8869

3 жыл бұрын

Not great. But a learning experience for sure.

Generally it comes a time when you need to stop relationship because it isn’t working for you anymore and it isn’t making you happy and you don't enjoy. Be careful to the signs you should look out for to know when it’s time to let go the relationship. Here we have respectful list of signs. It takes time to move on, but let yourself feel and grieve and just be. Remember that you deserve love. And the right person will be near you.

I truly began a relationship just about 2 months ago (officially) however, just as much joy as it bring, it swings back greatly like a pendulum to give the same amount of great pain and worry when there is constantly people all around trying to rip us apart

I met a guy and we had the most intense friendship chemistry. Sadly we tried to date and that was the worst mistake of my life... It ended pretty badly two years later we're friends again 😂

@nesrinbayramali

3 жыл бұрын

so relatable...

@simonedesabata9538

3 жыл бұрын

May I ask why it didn't work as a couple, but did (and does again) as friends?

@MusiicRoolz

3 жыл бұрын

agree with ^

@1crazycity

3 жыл бұрын

@@simonedesabata9538 have the same question

@ruchamansukh1203

3 жыл бұрын

@@simonedesabata9538 some combinations of qualities are just perfect for friendship..but as a romantic/sexual relationship is different, they may not go so well together in that case (just my opinion)

Maybe deliver the "but's". For example: Your relationship feels onesided. But maybe your lovelanguages are just different. Then link the video. People want quick answers and leaving the points like that, might help someone to jump to false conclusions. People already throw away ppl way to fast rather than reflect and fix

@past3ltrash

3 жыл бұрын

This is very true. Me and my partner have different love languages and had to learn to speak each others love language. 😊

@deniseherud

3 жыл бұрын

Um no. I disagree entirely. People should be throwing partners away *sooner* than later-women especially need to learn this. It’s not my job to “fix” anyone but myself, and I spent too many years dealing with ‘fixer-upper’ men...building their sense of self-worth and making them feel better, but the relationships never improved. Once I got over that and did the work on *myself* I stopped having crappy relationships, and I feel better about myself.

@hansanderson8953

3 жыл бұрын

Denise, yeah some people need to hear this side. But for others this might be their truth. Especially in recent times. Thts why i want a more diverse video. So everyone can find their truth.

@Ahmetfusta

3 жыл бұрын

Yeah. They oversimplify everything but some of those points are just much more than they seem to be.

@premieress2623

3 жыл бұрын

Completely agree. Me and my husband also have different love languages. So we talk about it. When we are hurt we communicate. We both work at meeting each other's love and affection needs. Also spending too much time together? One thing we have in common that we do together is video games. That requires alot of time spent together lol.

This hits so hard. Much needed.

I surely, agree to all what you said. Thank you for sharing.

I need to add, as a licensed counselor, the video focused on the "other" when the more difficult evaluation of oneself should be considered if any of those traits and behaviours describes YOU. Understanding that will help you understand why you have difficulties in sustaining or obtaining meaningful relationships.

@saumyapandey7253

3 жыл бұрын

Only problem is, people would either dismiss that any of those traits are exhibited by them or super insecure people would see everything is wrong with them.

@izzywoods794

3 жыл бұрын

Saumya and that’s why counselors and therapists have jobs!👍🏽😂

@andreafaria4980

3 жыл бұрын

This is so true! I noticed that most of those signs were in my (ex) relationship somehow, but sometimes he was the one who showed unhealthy behaviors (like passive-agressiveness), and sometimes it was me (not trusting him). It's important to see our own flaws too if we really don't want the story to repeat itself later.

4:23 that fart startled me a bit 😂

@nomsam.2988

3 жыл бұрын

I laughed so hard 😂😂😂

@ajimusrex

3 жыл бұрын

I thought I hallucinated that! Bwahahhaha! I was watching this with despair as my last relationship hit all 12 of these and then a fart noise and I was like, ok yeah- don't be too upset since I can still giggle at a toot noise

@peeledpapayas3712

3 жыл бұрын

Fuck I can't stop laughing 😂

@eljana123

3 жыл бұрын

I DIED HAHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHHAHA

@invasion8547

3 жыл бұрын

Me too😂😂😂😂

I think the worst part about this is that looking from both me and my partners perspectives, over half of these checked out for our relationship and I hate that I'm the one who ended up doing half of these things to my partner yet never realized it until it was too late. At least it's never too late to improve though.

Number 7 so very true, you’re not a rock. A gem. You and your parter need to look out for each other, Like my parents see each other as gems.

“The timing isn’t right” *me nervously laughing during covid*

1.When they never accept their mistakes.. 2.Lying 3.When they don't respect you

I’ve been in the wrong timing boat before. It really hurt because I felt my significant other was absolutely perfect for me and it was definitely a tragic end just like the video said. I led to a lot of lifetime struggles because of comparison issues. She was a first in my life and no one ever could measure up to her. After decades of back and forth emotionally with this person and finally reaching mutual understanding the two of us have agreed the relationship was more than normal and was very special, however life didn’t wait and each of us moved on. Today, we are still friends. The friendship isn’t perfect but thanks to social media we can still say hello and how are you. Even though it’s been hard, it’s been worth it, to not abandon the other, even if it only means we’re distant friends.

I love your content!! , it looks really amazing!!

my boyfriend & i have been dating for 7 months & this is first healthy relationship of my life and this video just validates that to me even more. the only thing on this list thats true for us is we spend a lot of time together, but even then we still make time for friends & family as well. I'm so happy :)

@melodytumblr1549

2 жыл бұрын

I don't even know you but I'm very happy for you!

@charlesvincentb.ramoso4753

2 жыл бұрын

Good for you:)

@sudhanshuchoudhary6792

2 жыл бұрын

You give me hope

@ChristalRaine

Жыл бұрын

Happy 1 year :)

@Persononyoutube78

Жыл бұрын

Still going strong??

“Sometimes no matter how much you wanna be with someone, the timing just won't allow it” felt that pain but just accept the fact.

@youtubetele858

2 жыл бұрын

Its such a confusing and obsessive pain

This video appeared 3 days late on my feed. I am in the process of moving on and I will use this if I ever get the confidence to feel emotions again in the future.

I was in a relationship about two months ago, though it’s sadly ended. I still love them, but I knew there were problems, and this video does help me see that the relationship was probably not going to keep going at the rate things were. We’re still friends, but I’m not really over it, thought I do hope I’ll get through it.

i really think this girl is the one, it’s crazy, we have so much in common and our only real arguments are more debates, never anything mean really, she’s so nice, the timing couldn’t be better, we feel comfortable and safe around one another. i think this is it guys. wish me luck.

@hannamattsson9871

Жыл бұрын

How do you feel about it now?

@zoomy7488

Жыл бұрын

Update?

@l.4070

Жыл бұрын

good luck you got this!!!!!

@jennifervandenberg2455

Жыл бұрын

How is it going now? 7/13/22

@ldhdjzjjaklzjdbd6610

Жыл бұрын

What’s the status

Relationships can also end due to simple misunderstandings, as I have learned

@belalaloca

2 жыл бұрын

This is why communication is so important!

HOMICIDAL Rage and SUICIDAL grief consume every cell of my being.

You're voice is very calm and soothing

The sign before the signs: you're watching this video.

@Z5Z5Z5

3 жыл бұрын

Well no. It was recommended cause I watched a dif video from then

@seasnaill2589

3 жыл бұрын

Nah, I just saw this in my feed and though "This could be useful in the future"

@sliceofpay

3 жыл бұрын

You ain't wrong 😂

@Jesus-christ05

3 жыл бұрын

nah im watching it so i can watch as how me and my boyfriend dont match any of these signs

@Evolventity

3 жыл бұрын

@@Jesus-christ05 😂

At the beginning of my relationship, I definitely was the toxic one in the relationship. I know I had exhibited a lot of these points. My partner and I are still together now (almost 3 years) and I know I have definitely changed a lot from the past. However, I still think about whether we're still a good fit together for his sake and should continue dating because of the past. They tell me I have changed a lot for the better, but I still hate myself a lot for the behaviors I used to exhibit

@brienna224

2 жыл бұрын

i hope you can forgive yourself 💕

@CriS-jq6em

2 жыл бұрын

Can you help me? I have just started a relationship and I dont wanna ruin it What did you use to do wrong? And How have you started to change?

@brienna224

2 жыл бұрын

@@CriS-jq6em i might not be the one to post the original comment but i think best thing to do is self reflection. It can show your true actions and discover why you formed the habits you do now. It is important in a relationship to not be you vs. them. You need to listen to them and not get defensive about it. Be honest with yourself on the stuff you have done, be apologetic, and actually attempt to change. On the other end, don't hold back on your own feelings and emotions. Talk through problems and don't avoid them. Problems are inevitbale but healthy couples can tackle them. (through talking and other things). There's also love languages test and apologetic languages tests you both can take so you understand one another. You won't have the best/healthiest relationship overnight, but there's hope!

@CriS-jq6em

2 жыл бұрын

@@brienna224 fantastic answer Thank you, I’ll take a screenshot😂 have a nice day!!!

@devanshiloonaich

2 жыл бұрын

Oh my god same situation idk why am i so toxic so clingy idk i have tried to change but now he says he is not emotionally open to me because i hurt him with my actions like fighting all the time idk we have been so much worse than this but i hope i change before its too late . 😔

Omg if only i had seen this video i would be avoiding a long time of pain. Okay, so it had started because of romantic feelings to each other. Well, I told him first that I did. But we were just so different from each other. We had so little in common but I tried so hard to ignore that. Sadly, he did not and just kept bringing it up all the time. I didn't like most of his friends and he always made fun of my friends, my closest friends, even though I never insulted any of his friends. He just became a whole different person when he was around those "friends" and I never liked that person. The relationship always felt like one-sided. He decides what we do, where we go, what we eat, I didn't have a say in it most of the time. He always controlled me. "Be like that, act like that, wear like that" and none of "that" was me. We fought like a hundred times because of that. He would never accept or change that so I would just try to end the fighting because I didn't want to fight anymore. I could never act like the real me around him. There was always something wrong for him. Like, I'm a childish person. I like to dress like that, I like to act like that, I like to talk like that. But he was always like "act like your age, why are you so childish?". I could never have fun when I was with him. He wouldn't accept me like that. I changed my whole style because of him. I wore things that I wouldn't normally wear but that still didn't make him happy. He would make fun of people behind their back. Even though I always tell him to stop saying these things, he wouldn't stop. AND the worst part is that he would just keep talking to those people that he makes fun of. He was...utilitarian. He always thought that he would get advantage of these "friendships". He was so passive aggressive. Like, he would mention something I am or I do in the middle of a conversation with me and other people but he would mention it like I didn't do it. Like, I was kind of trying to figure out some things about my sexual preferences. I thought I was bisexual back then and he would be like "Glad my girlfriend isn't bisexual or anything". I know what you're thinking, "why didn't you break up with him if he was so horrible?". I was afraid of being alone. I didn't have many relationships. I didn't have many people who actually liked me. So if I left him, I'd be alone, again. The "love" I was feeling made me blind. But, at the end, I met someone while I was still with him. I met someone that when I was with I could be "me". I fell for him, when I made sure that I was feeling something for him, I broke up with my boyfriend. We started dating. And I realized all these bad things about him after we broke up. Now I am sincerely happy. I actually feel like this relationship is my reward. I believe, well we both believe that we're soulmates. I actually feel like, and really really REALLY hope, this one will last. Pray for us guys!

@ethanloch3802

Жыл бұрын

Hope your relationship goes well ❤ damn, your boy emulated pretty much all the signs except for sign 12, which I have to say I could fill in for you. I'm 18, blind, really curious about relationships, but I would lose everything if I even tried to pursue something with someone. However, I can only promise that when the right one comes along, I won't control them or do any of that stuff because I can't even see what people wear 😂

thank you that's make me think about refusing it before starting already.

Most important one is when there is too much of mutual dependency and a belief that a relationship is always meant to be exciting.

@stephaniep1761

3 жыл бұрын

but to a woman, it is! That is why we fall in love...we believe you will always offer that same level of love. Boy, are we wrong!

@shivamnow

3 жыл бұрын

@@stephaniep1761 I absolutely understand. We all crave love but at the end of day, every human being is different and no matter how hard they try, they cannot give you the exact some love you except. The best way would be to be open towards all form of love that comes your way including yours.

@stephaniep1761

3 жыл бұрын

@@shivamnow Actually, men and women should both learn what the opposite gender needs. It is fairly universal, but in our age of equality, we have blurred the divide.

@shivamnow

3 жыл бұрын

@@stephaniep1761 Absolutely. It's applicable for both the genders Stephanie

@enriqueora8663

3 жыл бұрын

The thing is the world is shitty enough, if they are really going through a rough time then it would be selfish to expect something from them. But when everything is cool you should be having an exciting time With your partner. And if they don’t want to have a good time then what are you together for, to bitch and moan to eachother?

Relationships are overrated and our media is pretty convincing that we won't ever be happy if we are single.

@monabohamad2242

3 жыл бұрын

If relationships are overrated then so is being single

@jodiarias4688

3 жыл бұрын

Im single and its better that way why be in a relationship when 99 of the time it wont work out

@monabohamad2242

3 жыл бұрын

@@jodiarias4688 so why do people get to be in a Romantic Relationship at all if it's so terrible and overrated and doesn't even work 99 of the time?

@jodiarias4688

3 жыл бұрын

@@monabohamad2242 because they are lonely or they want something else from my pride is so big i wont let anyone destroy that 🤡

@monabohamad2242

3 жыл бұрын

@@jodiarias4688 what does any of that even mean?and you're not saying that there's anything wrong with not wanting to be lonely are you? cuz if there's nothing wrong with being lonely and maybe even WANTING to be lonely then there's nothing wrong with wanting to not be lonely I guess it's kinda of all a Matter of Perspective

Going from hitting all points to none is such a relief. Value yourself more and love yourself more. For me it wasn't worth the 5 years I wasted. I bet it's the same for everyone in the same situation

The amount of calm and peacefulness in this woman's voice is unbelievable.

my gf always played the victim, couldnt communicate, seemed like she didnt want to be around me, and our relationship was one- sided. she broke it off with me a while ago, and im glad.

@death24314

3 жыл бұрын

She was cheating

@Sumsulsulsususj

3 жыл бұрын

She defo used you. Anyways there's always other fish in the sea. Keep your head up

@jackthorton10

2 жыл бұрын

Indeed

@missbieber1211

2 жыл бұрын

My ex did the same to me, i was not happy when he dumped me but grateful now, kinda

Before when me and my girlfriend were first learning that we loved each other we were watching videos from this channel like “How you know you met your soulmate” and took quizzes online about it too, but it didn’t end up lasting but I’m happy we won’t have to feel upset because of each other anymore and we’ll learn to let go and I hope any of you that are going through anything bad in a relationship are able to find inner peace

@lingsasmr8682

3 жыл бұрын

Ty🤍

@jps6709

2 жыл бұрын

If you are taking online quizzes to see if you should be with someone… you shouldn’t be with them… you need to clean your room and grow up. Respectfully 🤠

OMG. This is helping me a lot!.! Thank youuuu!! :D

All of these really hit home. I can't do this with her anymore, I give up.