Thank you for watching! I look forward to reading your thoughts 🤍

@chellyberk

3 ай бұрын

Hello ma'am, thank you so much for the tips. I'd do well to practice them. However, do you think this is applicable to public speaking and voice acting? Cause, I personally feel it's apt only during a conversation not during presentation. As we're always told to put life into our presentation during public speaking and voice over, depending on what you're trying to pass across. It shouldn't be calm all the way. I'm confused at this point, cause I'm someone who speaks calmly at the start of a public presentation, but in the process I begin to sound energetic, rush my words and put much emphasis into my presentation. Though, I usually notice the rapt attention in my audience , which has always given me the notion of a good public speaker, but stumbling on your video yesterday, makes me ask myself if I was doing it right or are these tips majorly meant for dialoguing?

@ayanime_edem

3 ай бұрын

@chellyberk fun fact, I’m holding a training next month and one of the feedback I received was that my voice is too calm and it’ll put the participants to sleep. I laughed because my conversation voice and presentation voice are two different things so you’re right. This is helpful during personal conversations while you want to be energetic and “perform” during public speaking or a presentation.

@chellyberk

3 ай бұрын

@@ayanime_edem oh really? when and where will the training hold?

@ayanime_edem

3 ай бұрын

Oh it’s a private training for a company

@justus8327

Ай бұрын

I came here from Instagram. Thank you.

When my love speaks to me softly, nor matter how I am angry, I calm down. A soft woman has a lot of power!

@ayanime_edem

9 күн бұрын

Absolutely! 🤍

@Joyodigidawu-bu5rx

Күн бұрын

God help me to be a calm woman 😢

“ Walk to the person to talk. No yelling!” ❤

@ayanime_edem

3 ай бұрын

🤍

This video has my name on it in capital letter. I am the one that sounds like a man, has a loud voice, speaks very fast when angered, yell at the top of my voice while calling out a colleague or staff. This going to be my most watched video of yours. Been struggling and working soooooooooo hard to bring out my feminine self. Done being the strong lady

@ayanime_edem

3 ай бұрын

As you work on being more feminine, also be quick to forgive yourself if you make a mistake. It’ll help make your femininity journey easier. Remember to be kind to yourself beautiful 🤍

@empress9857

Ай бұрын

Same here I speak very aggressively especially when I’m feeling some type of way

@user-ob5ly2ry5l

25 күн бұрын

I'm a teacher how can I be elegant😂😂

@NewHorizonFoot-pe9gv

21 күн бұрын

I hear you!😂

@vaolahmirembe6529

20 күн бұрын

I thought I was alone😂😂😂

it's so funny how difficult yet easy this is. it's difficult to break away from what your used to and your habits, but it's so easy because soft, beautiful, femininity is our nature.

@ayanime_edem

Ай бұрын

Yes it’s in our nature, we simply have to soften into it 🤍

I appreciated that you showed different voice inflections that are soft.

@ayanime_edem

2 ай бұрын

Absolutely! 💯

here because when i’m on the phone w my distant family, they tell me i sound like my 10 year old brother. i’m an 18 yr old woman aspiring to change that. thank you for this video!

@ayanime_edem

16 күн бұрын

My pleasure!🤍

Nice tips! Diction is so important. Great video! I will add: Be concise. Be clear. Share the air, listen twice as much as you speak.

@ayanime_edem

3 ай бұрын

Great tips… Thank you for sharing 🤍

I need to put this in my daily watch cause my speech needs improvement

I truly needed this. I am a loud person. My friend keeps telling me to lower my voice while talking... it's so embarrassing. I stutter and it is natural so I tend to use energy to pronounce some words. Thank you for this video

@ayanime_edem

2 күн бұрын

My pleasure...

A lot of older ladies speak so softly and elegantly as if that were more the norm back when they were my age. It is so charming and makes them more attractive. Also the same with little girls when they speak. I have been on this journey for a minute and have gotten much better over the past 2 years and one of the most amazing perks is how much faster and more efficient customer service (whether male or female) helps me! I love it!

@ayanime_edem

2 күн бұрын

Wonderful. Love that for you! 🤍

Thank you for the tips

i enjoy using " like, uhm, and right " softly in conversation tbh, in a girlish way i practice this particularly with other gfs it's more to use for fun

@ayanime_edem

2 ай бұрын

Exactly… they can be used in a softer more feminine way 🤍

Thank you for this video. I speak softly and elegantly like my mother and aunts. They sound just like Claire Huxtable from the Cosby show!

I appreciate your authentic voice in the video. Unlike other videos where the voice feels forced, yours feels genuine. Also, those examples you included? Absolute perfection! *Chef's kiss*

@ayanime_edem

3 ай бұрын

Thank you for your kind words! I had to remind myself to not fake my voice because my voice is feminine just the way it is! 🤍

@ayanime_edem

3 ай бұрын

I hope that every woman who watches this video comes to love their voice regardless of what they may think a “feminine voice” should sound like.

Thanks for sharing. I enjoyed the information shared. Personally I am drawn to a well sounding voice but this video brought awareness to me which makes me excited to try. It showed me my imperfections when in company with my friends I ramble my words during an exciting conversation. So I'm happy I have something new and interesting to work towards. 🙂 🙌🏾❣

Beautifully said 🙋💞

@ayanime_edem

19 күн бұрын

Thank you kindly 🤍

This is golden! Thank you for this video

@ayanime_edem

17 күн бұрын

Glad you enjoyed it! 🤍

just stumbled across your channel, i love it sis ❤ doing my self care watching this was a treat

@ayanime_edem

16 күн бұрын

That’s so wonderful to hear! 🤍

I love the way you sound real ❤️

@ayanime_edem

3 ай бұрын

Thank you 🤍

Thank you for this!

@ayanime_edem

26 күн бұрын

My pleasure 🤍

This was such a good video to watch ❤ thank you so much for sharing!

@ayanime_edem

3 ай бұрын

Glad you enjoyed it! 🤍

I discovered you today and I am completely in love with your content. Thank you

@ayanime_edem

16 күн бұрын

Oh wow! 🎉 Glad to have you here! 🤍

I love the light right above your head, not sure if that's intentional but makes awesome effect

@ayanime_edem

14 күн бұрын

It wasn’t intentional… it was after filming I noticed it too… talk about happy coincidence

Amazing!!! I love how all voice types are included. I love it ❤🔥

@ayanime_edem

3 ай бұрын

Glad you like it because it was important to me that there’s inclusivity here too. It doesn’t matter the pitch of your voice, if you apply the tricks in the video, you’ll sound soft & feminine.

I love this! Implementing with immediate effect!

@ayanime_edem

Ай бұрын

Wonderful! 🤍

Thank you si much for this valuable lesson 🥰

@ayanime_edem

Ай бұрын

My pleasure 🤍

I couldn't stop watching this video till I got to the end . ❤ Profound advice 🎉

@ayanime_edem

2 ай бұрын

Glad you liked it!! 🤍

Thank you so much, interesting.

@ayanime_edem

16 күн бұрын

Glad you enjoyed it! 🤍

Very insightful.

@ayanime_edem

2 ай бұрын

Glad you think so! 🤍

thank you so much your video make me see my mistakes so now i better in the way I spoke and more feminine ❤️😘

@ayanime_edem

24 күн бұрын

Perfect! 🤍

Thank you for always sharing insightful knowledge👏🏾.

@ayanime_edem

10 күн бұрын

My pleasure

Slay bestie

Brilliant teaching ❤

@ayanime_edem

3 ай бұрын

Thank you 🤍

Best video I have watched on this subject. Thank you so much for really clever tips. Love from Australia 💖

@ayanime_edem

Ай бұрын

Oh thank you for your kind words! I’m glad it was helpful 🤍

Very helpful ❤

@ayanime_edem

Ай бұрын

My pleasure 🤍

Thank u❤❤❤❤

@ayanime_edem

Ай бұрын

My pleasure 🤍

I actually picked a notepad and wrote down action points from this video. This was really insightful. ❤❤

@ayanime_edem

3 ай бұрын

I’m glad 🤍

I love how true you are ❤

@ayanime_edem

2 күн бұрын

Thank you 🤍

First of all, I can listen to you allll day 😍

@ayanime_edem

Ай бұрын

Awww… thank you 🤍

Your voice so beautiful❤😍

@ayanime_edem

17 күн бұрын

Thank you so much...

How do I barely find this channel sis !!🥰

@ayanime_edem

20 күн бұрын

Better late than never… glad to have you here beautiful 🤍

I looove how u are speaking and you are also elegant and funny. So beautiful 🥹🩷 Thank you for these great tips 😍😍😍

@ayanime_edem

Күн бұрын

My pleasure beautiful 🤍

You're the first person Ive seen that talks and articulates with a balanced lips/mouth😅like your lips arent twisting to a specific side. I love that❤

@ayanime_edem

2 күн бұрын

Thank you... 😅

Great content 😊

@ayanime_edem

Күн бұрын

Thank you 🤍

I love the way you speak,so soothing to the ears😊

@ayanime_edem

3 ай бұрын

Thank you beautiful 🤍

@crc5430

Ай бұрын

She truly has mastered sounding soft and feminine.

Ayannime!!! You're here! I'm glad I found your channel. Your voice is so soothing 😊

@ayanime_edem

3 ай бұрын

Yes I’m here… I guess I have to talk more about my channel on IG. Glad to have you here 🤍

@Josephine2.0

3 ай бұрын

@@ayanime_edem yes, please. You should. I'm sure many of us there still don't know there's some sweetness going on here😘 I want to ask you something, don't you act anymore?

@ayanime_edem

3 ай бұрын

@Josephine2.0 not really, only when I’m called upon

I found your channel when i actually needed to learn speaking intentionally , but i struggle the most finding the appropriate words for my tone so many times i just end up using slangs and short cut words like bro or yaar which we commonly use in India i want to learn more about the words and tone ❤❤ Well...... Now I'm Subscribed ❤

@ayanime_edem

10 күн бұрын

Yay! Glad to have you here... 🎉 Be kind to yourself and take it one day at a time. It may take a while to unlearn but if you commit to working on it, trust me, speaking eloquently and elegantly will become second nature...

@Khushiloves_

9 күн бұрын

@@ayanime_edem 💖💖✨️✨️✨️

Your voice is so soothing sister Love it❤

@ayanime_edem

21 күн бұрын

Awww, thank you beautiful 🤍

@NipuniKaluarachchi

21 күн бұрын

@@ayanime_edem 😍💕

I struggle to say soo many things and end up saying gibberish...i am optimistic the video will help greatly when i start practicing and being intentional about it

@ayanime_edem

15 күн бұрын

I'm glad you found this video… Regarding what you’re struggling with, remember to take a few seconds to gather your thoughts… you can always say to your conversation partner: “give me a few seconds to gather my thoughts, I want to get my response right” 🤍

I always look forward to your new videos because your videos are enlightening and I do enjoy them watching them.😇🤗🥰 However in my opinion, giving us the list of the points you discuss in the video as a recap, at the end of every video will enable us remember the points more.

@ayanime_edem

2 ай бұрын

I’m glad my videos are helpful and for the recap, that’s why the videos are cut into chapters for easy reference…

@abosedeayomide8929

2 ай бұрын

@@ayanime_edem alright

wow just wow

@ayanime_edem

3 ай бұрын

The three word comment that made my day 🤍

Melanie Griffith’s voice ❤❤❤❤

@ayanime_edem

Ай бұрын

Very sultry

I hope to really improve some day😢 i really want this growth

@ayanime_edem

3 ай бұрын

It’s possible… one day at a time. One habit at a time 🤍

I really enjoyed this video, particularly where you addressed my favourite topic, the avoidance of overusing filer words while speaking! 😊 my take is that they make a person sound less intelligent or knowledgeable in their presentation. I instantly lose interest in what the speaker is saying and focus on the “like” mmm,”like” Not good at all.

@ayanime_edem

10 күн бұрын

How wonderful! I'm glad to have you here 🤍

Tip 1 got me on the floor 💋😭

@ayanime_edem

20 күн бұрын

😉

Omg you had to include Karen on the high pitch, which is just perfect 😂😂😂😂 meanwhile thank you for this

@ayanime_edem

3 ай бұрын

I couldn’t resist and amazingly, that’s not her real voice 😅

@humaneenough6719

3 ай бұрын

@@ayanime_edem for real 😳 🤔 now I know

I like Marilyn voice

@ayanime_edem

Ай бұрын

We all do… 😉

I do the first thing and everyone always think I'm flirting with them. Im from the south so i naturally speak slow, it seems like i lose people attention when i speak. Ive had people tell me how slow i speak lol

@ayanime_edem

Ай бұрын

I’m sure that will be the effect, it’s what I notice too when I practice the first tip. Regarding speaking slowly, if it’s TOO slow, you can see how to pick up the pace, so you don’t lose people’s attention 🤍

6:08 love the giggle 😂❤

@ayanime_edem

10 күн бұрын

Okay, now I'm shy 🙈

@raghad157

10 күн бұрын

@@ayanime_edem omg you are so cute I can’t 🤭🫠❤️

@ayanime_edem

9 күн бұрын

😁🤍

I thought I was the only one struggling with this ... Leaving in an all boys family contributed to this 😢 and i had no female friends back then

Please provide a translation to the Arabic language

@Ayanime you're talking to me 😂😂😂

@ayanime_edem

18 күн бұрын

Oh oh 🙈

The home scene 😂😂

@ayanime_edem

14 күн бұрын

It always makes me laugh and it’s so relatable 😂

It's the fake pitch for me 🤣🤣🤣. It got me laughing out of my feminity 😂

@ayanime_edem

14 күн бұрын

🙈🙈 well, I had to show us how ridiculous it looks…

My mother and I are both trying to work on the way we speak and aside from volume we both have what I would call a punching laugh. We both laugh very loud and sharply and we want to rid ourselves of this. Any tips?

@ayanime_edem

15 күн бұрын

This is going to sound weird but you can start practicing what you want your new laugh to sound like… Another tip is to react a little more quietly when next something makes you laugh and even if you forget to, don’t beat yourself up… simply whisper to yourself “I’ll do better next time.” The amazing thing about this is that your brain will start reminding you of your intention to laugh a little less loudly. Now that you’ve set this intention, you’ll notice that more opportunities will come up for you to practice your new laugh, make the best of them and before long, it’ll be a part of you… …and my regards to your mom 🤍

@michaniebrown8509

15 күн бұрын

@@ayanime_edem thank you so much for the advice and I really liked your video ❤️

Nice accent. Where are you from 😊

@ayanime_edem

6 күн бұрын

Oh thank you, I’m from Nigeria 🇳🇬

"Are you flirting with me?"

@ayanime_edem

2 ай бұрын

Um, yes 🤭😊

❤

Bye❤

Each time I try speaking in a feminine way , my female friends will be like " joliv are you okay ? Are you sick 😩" . Same goes to my boyfriend 😂

I had crushes but I still talk the same 😂

@ayanime_edem

10 күн бұрын

Oh well...

❤😊

@ayanime_edem

22 күн бұрын

🤍

🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

I wonder ...how many dudes got this on their fyp and stuck through to learn a female voice for trolling😭

@ayanime_edem

13 күн бұрын

Oh oh...

1:16 but I’ve never had a crush on someone 💀

@ayanime_edem

Күн бұрын

That's why the clip from the movie was included, so you can see an example...

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We have to use the gay voice 😂

@jasminealexia

6 күн бұрын

Nah sis 🤣🤣