Ladies,be like CHIOMA ADELEKE:Such A Role Model!...My Unpopular Opinion!

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  • @Nezeville
    @NezevilleКүн бұрын

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  • @tonkab8197
    @tonkab81972 күн бұрын

    You date and marry according to your level of “self esteem”

  • @KaiPhD

    @KaiPhD

    2 күн бұрын

    Drops the mic. 💯

  • @eljayjay7884

    @eljayjay7884

    2 күн бұрын

    That is Deeeeeeeep🤗

  • @faithtendai9923

    @faithtendai9923

    2 күн бұрын

    Yeerrrr this hits hard

  • @pdm8446

    @pdm8446

    2 күн бұрын

    👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

  • @lovelyAfo

    @lovelyAfo

    2 күн бұрын

    Gbam

  • @uniqueblesyn1412
    @uniqueblesyn14122 күн бұрын

    Finally, someone said it. Chioma is not a virtuous woman, she might be patient and tolerant, but she should not be a role model for young girls

  • @KaiPhD

    @KaiPhD

    2 күн бұрын

    💯💯💯

  • @nessas8589

    @nessas8589

    2 күн бұрын

    Exactly 💯

  • @stinalawman2748

    @stinalawman2748

    2 күн бұрын

    I know that u are a role model

  • @theresabalogun4095

    @theresabalogun4095

    2 күн бұрын

    Gbam!

  • @deltaspiced_T

    @deltaspiced_T

    2 күн бұрын

    Talking about Tolerance Nigerians can be gullible no disrespect meant to you oh I'm just using your reply as a context...there's no Human being on earth that could be that patient and calm then certain people knows how to paint a perfect public picture I'm talking about those anonymous msgs she'd express herself in ways you can't think of perfectly behind closed doors only if those side chic's Sophie and co can own up....y'all wld see Sophie act out throw tantrums no be person dey provoke her??Omo I don't hate Chioma oh but she's the last person I'd see as a Real one I don't respond multi faceted people abegg

  • @blackdiamond231
    @blackdiamond2312 күн бұрын

    Some of us don’t want to smile in a keke, neither do we want to cry in a Rolls Royce. We rather genuine laughs with a faithful husband in a Honda Accord😂😂😂

  • @Mimitalksfaith

    @Mimitalksfaith

    2 күн бұрын

    Amen to this

  • @adeanie1625

    @adeanie1625

    2 күн бұрын

    This comment needs to be pinned 😂

  • @kind2423

    @kind2423

    2 күн бұрын

    This comment is too real

  • @naananelson9959

    @naananelson9959

    2 күн бұрын

    Peroid

  • @busolafunmiojo3164

    @busolafunmiojo3164

    2 күн бұрын

    God bless you

  • @moreniwura7805
    @moreniwura78052 күн бұрын

    Some women still have their dignity intact even when money is involved

  • @ezeikeracheal8767
    @ezeikeracheal87672 күн бұрын

    Rightly said Neze 👍 Chioma is not a standard for all women. She just made her choice based on her values and level of tolerance.

  • @PitaPeace

    @PitaPeace

    2 күн бұрын

    Very true

  • @bibaolaitan5189
    @bibaolaitan51892 күн бұрын

    Thank you Neze, the amount of women praising this is troubling. I am afraid for this country.

  • @limfenyuykinyuy4861

    @limfenyuykinyuy4861

    2 күн бұрын

    It's indeed terrible. Even in my countrt Cameroon. I appreciate he loves her. But as they are married he should respect her and not cheat like that. People have no idea how devastating it is to loose your sanity in a relationship with a cheating patner. I hope he changes for the better. It's sick what our generation spplauds!

  • @KaiPhD

    @KaiPhD

    2 күн бұрын

    I agree.

  • @elohorziregbe3504

    @elohorziregbe3504

    2 күн бұрын

    It big wedding they want

  • @olao9893

    @olao9893

    2 күн бұрын

    @@limfenyuykinyuy4861 Agree💯.

  • @Dorothy8631

    @Dorothy8631

    2 күн бұрын

    Very troubling. It’s same in my country Ghana. I can’t and will never wish this kind of man for myself.

  • @mjybeex6016
    @mjybeex60162 күн бұрын

    I’m always perplexed people only focus on the fact that he’s fathered all these children while with Chioma but no one talks about the incurable diseases he could have inflicted her with. To father those children - he was NOT practicing safe sex. I’m almost scared to say that if fathering children with ALL those women while with her is all that resulted from his promiscuity - they both got lucky! 😢

  • @sugarbush0659

    @sugarbush0659

    2 күн бұрын

    I have said this on a few of the videos I watched. The women kept dogging the Sophia, lady and kept saying his other children don’t matter on chioma and her children. And how much he loves her. And I said not enough to protect her from disease and no matter what all his kids matter. They shouldn’t be shunned or mistreated and talked about by these women who idolize chioma….

  • @tonero8562

    @tonero8562

    2 күн бұрын

    ​@@sugarbush0659 What of those men who will cheat secretly without social media hearing about it. Just leave matter, it rains everywhere.

  • @oluwayemisiakaaka3163

    @oluwayemisiakaaka3163

    2 күн бұрын

    Exactly 🙌👌

  • @oluwayemisiakaaka3163

    @oluwayemisiakaaka3163

    2 күн бұрын

    Exactly! 👌👍

  • @oluwatoyin6348

    @oluwatoyin6348

    Күн бұрын

    @@sugarbush0659 All his kids matter EQUALLY because HE CHOSE to sleep with ALL the mothers. I don't understand why people are being so sentimental concerning the Chioma. Dey no go share for her money, dey no go share for her pain.... so why can't they be objective and truthful ? There is so much to teach our young girls NOT TO DO, using Chioma and Davido as a case study. But it seems the morals our grandparents and parents taught us then no longer have meaning to most in the present day Nigeria. Imagine somone in the comments section responding to a comment like yours that those who disapprove of the wedding are jealous of the ' GRACE ' upon Chioma !!!! HABA ! Which kin grace be dat ?!!! Grace that makes your biyfriend/ fiance/ husband to be kneeling down and crying for girls' toto all over the world ? Grace that make you a step mother to only God knows how many ( innocent ) children all over the world ? ! Abeg, that is the kind of ' grace ' many women do not pray for, and cannot handle o ! UNTIL we begin to tell ourselves the truth ( that the Nigerian society has become so corrupt because of this inordinate desire for wealth and riches to the level where the SOURCE no longer matters ) we will not be able to curb the current trend of Yahoo Plus boys and Olosho girls like the Celine and Afibas in our soceity. I weep for the teenagers and youths of Nigeria because the ( most )parents have failed woefully ....

  • @Oyinda4lfe
    @Oyinda4lfe2 күн бұрын

    Chioma alone knows why she has chosen to marry Davido, and her decision should be respected. But I completely agree that she certainly shouldn't be the go-to role model, nor should her choice be the standard.

  • @r.q5194
    @r.q51942 күн бұрын

    Am from Kenya and just love this intelligent woman

  • @priscaooko4626

    @priscaooko4626

    2 күн бұрын

    east africa women especially rwanda and kenya we are a movement🤣🤣🤣🤣..nigeria women come for benchmarking😊😊😊mama tears in marriages,,mama enduarances for abuses😶‍🌫😶‍🌫😶‍🌫

  • @fatimasani6151

    @fatimasani6151

    2 күн бұрын

    Yes, our Neze is wonderful with a supportive husband, just like the Kenyan Lynn Ngugi.Both channels are educative.

  • @tonero8562

    @tonero8562

    2 күн бұрын

    ​@@fatimasani6151How sure are you? Are you living with them in their home. Please please.

  • @tabithaauma1532
    @tabithaauma15322 күн бұрын

    ....I listened to women on social media applaud her choice and I was sick to my stomach...😢

  • @ranjanah9055

    @ranjanah9055

    2 күн бұрын

    Me too😢. The bar is set really low 😔

  • @moreniwura7805

    @moreniwura7805

    2 күн бұрын

    It's really sickening to see women applaud their self esteem being rolled in the mud because money is involved

  • @estyonyi8153

    @estyonyi8153

    2 күн бұрын

    ​@@moreniwura7805it's really sickening 😢😢

  • @somoyesimileoluwa2283

    @somoyesimileoluwa2283

    2 күн бұрын

    ​@@moreniwura7805❤❤❤❤

  • @rebeccaadeyemi5073

    @rebeccaadeyemi5073

    Күн бұрын

    Aswear

  • @marthacrentsil-acquah2242
    @marthacrentsil-acquah22422 күн бұрын

    "There is no role being modeled here", Neze, I love you for this truth. I have been married for 17 years. I have 3 daughters and a son but I WILL NOT SETTLE FOR THIS FOR ANY ON MY 3 DAUGHTERS. God Forbid.

  • @ruthkj3660

    @ruthkj3660

    Күн бұрын

    😂😂😂😂😂😂.

  • @Ris_Properties
    @Ris_Properties2 күн бұрын

    My love for KZread viewers. Theirs thoughts are usually different from Facebook, Instagram and Tiktok users. They're more matured in minds.

  • @danielflorence7686

    @danielflorence7686

    Күн бұрын

    Especially Tiktok

  • @kumbiaros216
    @kumbiaros2162 күн бұрын

    My love for Neze!!!We all love David and Chioma,but people shoud stop normalizing abnormalies....I pray God continue to bless their home... This video is ONLY FOR THE WISE❤❤❤❤❤

  • @olujonzin

    @olujonzin

    2 күн бұрын

    💯💯💯💯💯

  • @sandraokonkwo900

    @sandraokonkwo900

    2 күн бұрын

    Exactly ,The wise and deep thinkers.

  • @tonero8562

    @tonero8562

    2 күн бұрын

    No the video is for the negative thinkers and haters

  • @DUCKYRICHY

    @DUCKYRICHY

    2 күн бұрын

    God cannot bless what is contrary to his word.

  • @chichinwagod8641

    @chichinwagod8641

    2 күн бұрын

    ❤❤❤❤

  • @Zoeyagule
    @Zoeyagule2 күн бұрын

    My God!!! I’m in my early twenties and I consider myself as a blessed girl for finding barrister Neze! There’s so much noise out there and the truth is suppressed! God blessed Neze ❤❤❤🎉

  • @Petra.80
    @Petra.802 күн бұрын

    The audacity of this woman to speak this truth! Thank you ❤

  • @abapyne2995
    @abapyne29952 күн бұрын

    As a 21yr old lady, I strongly believe and I have seen people smile and laugh in luxury.

  • @annasexpressions
    @annasexpressions2 күн бұрын

    Money can not buy peace of mind and morals

  • @peacegracemercy5445

    @peacegracemercy5445

    2 күн бұрын

    At all.

  • @Nanakesewaa

    @Nanakesewaa

    2 күн бұрын

    Truth

  • @atueyivanessa4528

    @atueyivanessa4528

    Күн бұрын

    True

  • @esinamdo
    @esinamdo2 күн бұрын

    Real love doesn't come with pain. It's beautiful to see the big wedding they had. I agree with you Neze dear. Chioma is beautiful and bet her last coin on something she can get a quarter of for the name and trophy. That doesn't make her a role model. This won't be our girls. Indeed stronger are women who walk away from all the abuse for their peace of mind. Women of African abuse endurance is not healthy. Money is not everything.

  • @Lisa30981

    @Lisa30981

    2 күн бұрын

    Well articulated point my sister,it starts with us to say no to dis abuse from men&later on covered with expensive gifts but not changing deir ways&in da end,dey become meaningless till u walk away after wasting almost all your life in pain!

  • @tayookunfolami2522

    @tayookunfolami2522

    2 күн бұрын

    🎉collect your flowers ma

  • @user-ie6ss3by6i

    @user-ie6ss3by6i

    2 күн бұрын

    Fact

  • @RDCFemmes

    @RDCFemmes

    2 күн бұрын

    i saw a comment about someone asking for Chioma's beleesing for her daughters and i commented so you wish for your daughters to be impregnated and moving with a man before marriage and go through multiples affairs? you seriously consider it a blessing? with this kind of mothers why would you need enemies.

  • @gbonjukola-balogun1362

    @gbonjukola-balogun1362

    2 күн бұрын

    Are you envious of them?

  • @amazing-gracedanieltv6607
    @amazing-gracedanieltv66072 күн бұрын

    My GRANDPARENTS had a kingdom marriage, everyone including my mum, her siblings, community people knew how self disciplined and faithful my GRAND-DAD was, infact my grand-mom was being accused of using juju on him. And no he was not poor, he was well travelled, he was the first METHODIST MISSIONARY to the United Kingdom, Very Rev. Asuquo J. Udo, he travelled everywhere with his wife to different parts of the world, even when he had options of going alone, he always insist on carrying his wife, he was always known to be a FAMILY-ORIENTED MAN. Even he died a month before i was born(1993), his story was told to us his grandchildren by elders of the community and some of his associates and ofcourse my grand-mom will not stop talking to me about how self disciplined her husband was, and it was rare in her time to see such man, even when she didnt ask for fidelity, he gave her fidelity. Yes, they are faithful men, and its not about money, but about discipline

  • @elizabethbekoe381

    @elizabethbekoe381

    2 күн бұрын

    It's about love ..respect ..stability and peace of mind ..commitment is key !! Money can't buy love

  • @danielflorence7686

    @danielflorence7686

    Күн бұрын

    Well said darling ❤

  • @DeeRee2010

    @DeeRee2010

    Күн бұрын

    Hmm....Neze!! Very well said...u hv hit the nail @ the Head....a word is a enough for d wise ....

  • @ccntekim2864
    @ccntekim28642 күн бұрын

    They have chosen to be together and that is fine for them. But words like “virtuous”, “role model” certainly do not apply to this woman. PLEASE!! Let this not become what young girls want to get into now.

  • @shesqueen_esther
    @shesqueen_esther2 күн бұрын

    Neze, you have spoken facts. The part where you said, the strong person is the person that even in the midst of the things she stands to gain, still chose to walk away from emotional abuse and the likes. I felt that. I can relate too.

  • @ngozidavidakanno7136

    @ngozidavidakanno7136

    2 күн бұрын

    I just pray she doesn't contract deadly diseases that comes from such relationships, a man who enters very hole, and impregnate any thing on skirt, that money will turn to shit in a twinkle of an eye, I love her, I just pray Davido changes, and all the demons responsible for all this ashawo character will live him, oginidu haaa.

  • @queentv7565

    @queentv7565

    2 күн бұрын

    ​@@ngozidavidakanno7136Nobody dey force davido to do what is not good, na he mimd set make he dey do it, davido too like toto 😂

  • @chibandamwende3676

    @chibandamwende3676

    2 күн бұрын

    My sister if a Man ever calls you strong 💪, 🏃‍♀️ 🏃‍♀️ 🏃‍♀️ run ,run to the hills and never accept as a woman never accept ,women are the weaker vessel,omo we have 2 face,Davido,Diamond, Heck Samidoh yes am Kenyan and if I tell you follow the gospel according to Neze 😅😅😅🤼‍♂️🇰🇪

  • @maahonemercyma9083

    @maahonemercyma9083

    Күн бұрын

    Even if at the end you can die.

  • @sophiaplange516
    @sophiaplange5162 күн бұрын

    It's all about the money here in Africa. Imagine someone saying True love comes with Pain...wow! really? To each his own, don't let anyone force his or her opinion on you

  • @Mimi-jk9jc

    @Mimi-jk9jc

    2 күн бұрын

    Would you opt for rich+cheat or poor+cheat? Reason: how many rich men do we have in Nigeria? How many cheats do we have in Nigeria?

  • @berthaduah5508

    @berthaduah5508

    2 күн бұрын

    ​@@Mimi-jk9jcCORRECTION: Is not every man who cheats and it is not every rich man who cheats.

  • @grace-en7gs

    @grace-en7gs

    2 күн бұрын

    It’s sad that you have come to these conclusions probably based on your experiences or what’s happening around you. Cheating cannot be normalised! It’s not every man that cheats whether they are poor or rich! So it’s disheartening to limit people to your abnormal two options: poor + cheat or rich + cheat! So sad. It may interest you to know that there are men who are sexually responsible and have treated their women with love & fidelity whether are rich or poor.

  • @sophiaplange516

    @sophiaplange516

    2 күн бұрын

    @@Mimi-jk9jc and who says you cannot find a Rich man who doesn't cheat. Who also says you cannot be Rich and have options. All I see in your statement is low self-esteem which, unfortunately, a lot of women have in this part of the world.

  • @simplye.l.

    @simplye.l.

    2 күн бұрын

    ​@Mimi-jk9jc lol, those aren't the only options

  • @simplydemii
    @simplydemii2 күн бұрын

    You and your DJ deserve an award for always using the perfect song 😂😂😭😭😂😭

  • @danielflorence7686

    @danielflorence7686

    Күн бұрын

    😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @gyenommusa8924

    @gyenommusa8924

    Күн бұрын

    Azin ehnn

  • @chrissynyanway2104
    @chrissynyanway21042 күн бұрын

    A virtuous woman as described in the Bible or dictionary, is not one that goes under shame n disgrace for her promiscuous husband! Being a virtuous woman is far more than this n we should not encourage our young girls to be virtuous in this sense. This is all about money! She wouldn't have done that for a poor man! Who wants their child to suffer pains, agony n emotional distressed in such a young age only because of money? As u rightly said, money is not everything! I agreed 100% with your thoughts on this. Thank u.

  • @Ladyfaithke
    @Ladyfaithke2 күн бұрын

    It’s a sign that he’s despised you so much that he chose you cause you can endure and overcome and never leave .

  • @encyclopaedia641

    @encyclopaedia641

    Күн бұрын

    Exactly! My thoughts exactly

  • @mariamjibrin7260
    @mariamjibrin72602 күн бұрын

    Chioma is not my standard. the standard is to marry a man that can be a good husband and a model to my children before having children. this is not goal jo. I believe that if she was raised well or adhere to her parents upbringing, she should not have dated someone like Davido not to mention having babies out of wedlock then marrying him.

  • @the7thquesttravelvlog995

    @the7thquesttravelvlog995

    2 күн бұрын

    ​@@chioma6844fact check... before the twins..she had a baby before the twin (may God rest the young boy's soul)

  • @AyoBamidele-gl6lk

    @AyoBamidele-gl6lk

    2 күн бұрын

    ​@@chioma6844lie lie.chivido fans with their lie

  • @sandrajordan2179

    @sandrajordan2179

    2 күн бұрын

  • @tonero8562

    @tonero8562

    2 күн бұрын

    You are trying hard to paint her black because you can't see yourself getting the grace she has. Envy is just consuming some of you. Who knows the man you will end up with

  • @williewill3314

    @williewill3314

    2 күн бұрын

    Just because ppl got finger they just type rubbish who told u she had hertein out ofwed lock even the first don she was a fiance they twin she married davido in court before they were born. Get a life focus on ya life

  • @nwadimkpatogunloju349
    @nwadimkpatogunloju3492 күн бұрын

    The praise from people is born out of the fact that she won among all the women. What I see in it is the wealth and affluence involved was a big attraction for Chioma. Though she met Davido before he became very famous she too was too young to get involved in what she did. I am surprised that from her background at her age the parents watched and saw their daughter drop from school to follow a lifestyle completely alien to igbos. Having children out of wedlock and actually living with the man before marriage. The wedding was a crowning of all the pains she took her family through. As at now she has nothing to loose because she will enjoy the comfort ahead needs. But will she have to put up with the ridiculous life of Davido? Definitely maybe as at now her age is not allowing her to feel it. She is still living in a make believe world. Wish her the best

  • @kaybyonye
    @kaybyonye2 күн бұрын

    'Aaahh' song😂😂😂😂 i can't believe that was a real song that exists😅

  • @nanangachingoma8673

    @nanangachingoma8673

    2 күн бұрын

    That was my thinking too. I was like: "what song is this now????" 😂

  • @hawaali4115
    @hawaali41152 күн бұрын

    This lawyer Nezaville sabi well well!

  • @aduraamarachi4089
    @aduraamarachi40892 күн бұрын

    You have said it all my sister

  • @graceasanyangu9287

    @graceasanyangu9287

    2 күн бұрын

    VERY TRUE Mama🥰❤much love from Zambia

  • @sandrajordan2179

    @sandrajordan2179

    2 күн бұрын

    She Nailed it

  • @jam2finds
    @jam2findsКүн бұрын

    I Africa it’s all about poverty which makes women acts like dump. When my mother visited me in UK, she looked at the system of freedom and said to me that, if she was living here she would have left my dad long time ago.

  • @sharonosaze

    @sharonosaze

    Күн бұрын

    Hmmmmm

  • @danielflorence7686

    @danielflorence7686

    Күн бұрын

    Truth.

  • @lola2659

    @lola2659

    Күн бұрын

    There are lots of single mothers sleeping with men who just give them sex. They cook for the same man to attract him and open their children to risk of abuse because of sex. Some of this women struggle a lot without a man. Trust me things are not always as they appear

  • @CYDER-cv3yk

    @CYDER-cv3yk

    Күн бұрын

    Hmmm really 🤔🤔

  • @HanifaUwitonze
    @HanifaUwitonze2 күн бұрын

    I thought i was losing my mind reading those filthy comments. I had started to lose hope. Thank God there are people who are still thinking correctly .that mariage is doomed and cursed .money is not everything

  • @roseorewa603

    @roseorewa603

    2 күн бұрын

    You have said it all no more no less. Let them be glorifying abnormality because of wealth.

  • @HanifaUwitonze

    @HanifaUwitonze

    Күн бұрын

    @@roseorewa603 can you imagine if it was a simple broke guy not famous not rich ? Would it be the same story ? Would she stay ? I'm afraid of a woman who stays with a guy who cheats without even protection .is she not afraid of her health ?

  • @Elxa-fb5gv

    @Elxa-fb5gv

    Күн бұрын

    She might be promiscuous too otherwise the emotional trauma is too much😢 for a committed person​@@HanifaUwitonze

  • @nnekairoegbu2360
    @nnekairoegbu23602 күн бұрын

    Chioma has made her decision let's respect it. Chioma is not the standard for every woman thou.😂😂😂😂

  • @simipamzat6924

    @simipamzat6924

    2 күн бұрын

    Not at all. When she contracts some deadly disease, she wouldn’t be the standard!

  • @stormieblaze510

    @stormieblaze510

    2 күн бұрын

    Congratulations to both of them and I am super happy with this happy ending to their story. However - I echo you to say Chioma’s decision is not the standard at all - we must not dilute moral standards. The drama she’s put herself and her family through is unnecessary, but her patience and decorum needs to be studied and it paid off. Sometimes, love is not enough.

  • @lydianyagwoka409

    @lydianyagwoka409

    2 күн бұрын

    We women leave men because they cheat and end up single and date married old men, what's the point I support her fully. To date a celebrity you must have a strong heart oooo no be joke

  • @lindaegwuonwu3287

    @lindaegwuonwu3287

    2 күн бұрын

    @nnekairoegbu2360 I concur

  • @limfenyuykinyuy4861

    @limfenyuykinyuy4861

    2 күн бұрын

    Thankyou

  • @maryjaneomoroseTV
    @maryjaneomoroseTV2 күн бұрын

    How do I like this video two times? A very balanced opinion.

  • @innocentagbo2855
    @innocentagbo28552 күн бұрын

    Don't ever think of being like anybody, just be yourself!

  • @magahalgorre-ndiaye3267
    @magahalgorre-ndiaye32672 күн бұрын

    This message should go viral! Thank you for a great message and I hope many women would learn from this. I grew up in a family where my dad was a cheater and my mum took it but it damaged me as their child and I am still trying to heal at 41 years old.

  • @adeshileadequateabigail4403

    @adeshileadequateabigail4403

    Күн бұрын

    So sorry😢. You will be fine. I just want you to know it was not your fault. You didnt choose your parents. You just have to keep improving yourself and hope for the best.

  • @Funmyy
    @Funmyy2 күн бұрын

    I congratulate them but I can never wish chioma and davido’s marriage on my enemy .

  • @Tpetra143

    @Tpetra143

    2 күн бұрын

    😂😂😂😂😂😂wahala pro max

  • @annabelrobert9639

    @annabelrobert9639

    2 күн бұрын

    You've said it all.

  • @KayNaude

    @KayNaude

    2 күн бұрын

    😂😂😂

  • @JesuisFlay

    @JesuisFlay

    2 күн бұрын

    At all lol. No money in the world could make me open my life to emotional turmoil or the possibility of diseases. I’ve been in that exact situation and I walked away. Glad I did.

  • @deborahkabutey5214

    @deborahkabutey5214

    2 күн бұрын

    😂😂😂😂

  • @kukuakukua
    @kukuakukua2 күн бұрын

    Thank you my sister, we've lost all moral compass as a society. I see comments on Chioma and Davido's marriage and I know that the standards we are teaching our daughters (and sons) are falling lower and lower each day. We are teaching them that in the presence of fame and money (or their absence), it is okay to accept community peni-ses as husbands. We say that's what true love is. Smh. But what good is material possessions in the face of HIV, numerous baby mamas and children? Shouldn't we teach our children to love and respect themselves and choose peace of mind above everything? Why can't love be pain free and respectful?

  • @ijeomaagu5465
    @ijeomaagu54652 күн бұрын

    Nezeville has the best unbiased commentary ooo. She speaks from a place of abundance and not lack. Love the content nne

  • @yozareason1803
    @yozareason18032 күн бұрын

    You are really smart! I’ve said this from a very first day I listened to your videos, since you Nigerian days…. I’ve been so disturbed reading other comments even from other content creators 😳😳 I couldn’t believe that almost 85% of women in Nigeria are attacking us when we say something different and saying we are jealous 😳 why would we really??? You really have a sound mind ❤

  • @kossy140

    @kossy140

    2 күн бұрын

    Very sound my dear

  • @somayinaayerite7643
    @somayinaayerite76432 күн бұрын

    Life is a choice, Chioma made her choice. If that is what she wants, then that is her choice. This is not a standard for everyone.

  • @nyekay615

    @nyekay615

    Күн бұрын

    Asking respectfully, is it your standard?

  • @queensleychukwudum2119
    @queensleychukwudum21192 күн бұрын

    Today, after watching your show for more than a year, I subscribed! You went against the grain and I am so proud of you! You spoke my mind succinctly.

  • @sadebabalola2189
    @sadebabalola21892 күн бұрын

    Go Nezeville ,well said. ..Stronger is the person who chose to WALK... You are a woman of great wisdom. Abi oo,my sentiments exactly. The narrative needs to change for next generation. Thanks for speaking real truth

  • @AliceJohn-vv1jn
    @AliceJohn-vv1jn2 күн бұрын

    That's how social media people will hype you to death unless you use your sense,

  • @limfenyuykinyuy4861
    @limfenyuykinyuy48612 күн бұрын

    Soo sad that our generation is blinded by money and have no standards. A well elaborated and educative video. Women who see themselves as high valued will accept every single thing you mentioned here. You expressed my mind

  • @Scoop777
    @Scoop7772 күн бұрын

    The wedding and all its glitz is just for a day. Marriage is for a lifetime. I pray it all ends well. All the red flags do not look good. She seems to have moulded herself to please Davido. It could end in tears. I'm thinking in the extreme as PDiddy and Cassie come to mind. All that glitters is not gold

  • @Lisa30981

    @Lisa30981

    2 күн бұрын

    Well said.

  • @josephinehagan6584

    @josephinehagan6584

    2 күн бұрын

    please don't let us sing doomsday for their relationship. They have been in relationship for quite a while and i think Chioma is aware of what she's up for against. Let's allow them be.When she feels she can no longer tolerate the humiliation, she will make her decision. Though they should not be the standard

  • @CommentBot007

    @CommentBot007

    2 күн бұрын

    Back to sender!! Life is a game she won the one she played and will continue to win the rest🙏🙏🙏👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻Amen If she didn’t marry him she would always be known as „Davido baby mama“……. Let her go all the way…. They understand each other. Millions will still die to marry Davido!‘n

  • @tonero8562

    @tonero8562

    2 күн бұрын

    It will not end in tears. Or should I say what you wish for her should come back to you? I wonder the kind of human beings that exist these days.

  • @shalbec3232

    @shalbec3232

    2 күн бұрын

    ​@@josephinehagan6584 like you said she's aware who she married so if he does cheat later on she must not act surprised because it Davido and it won't be his first or last time cheating

  • @oziomablessing3487
    @oziomablessing3487Күн бұрын

    I feel like hugging Neze right now 😂. This is exactly my point, it has nothing to do with hate or jealousy

  • @barbaratiedeu4985
    @barbaratiedeu49852 күн бұрын

    This analysis deserves a STANDING OVATION! 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

  • @AfricanDee
    @AfricanDee2 күн бұрын

    Ah! I wish KZread can allow me to like this video 100 times!! You said my thoughts so well. I’m so sick of other KZreadrs glorifying this behavior for fear of not being canceled. Yes, we respect her decision to marry David, but the sexual irresponsibility is real. There are diseases out there! What role models are we showing our next generation by not speaking the truth.

  • @Afrodiaspora
    @Afrodiaspora2 күн бұрын

    This hairstyle really suits you, your braid looks fantastic

  • @reitaebohon7853
    @reitaebohon78532 күн бұрын

    Thanks to our Barrister who speaks nothing but the truth. Nothing more to add. You nailed it!!! 👏 👌 congratulations to her anyway. She looks happy ❤

  • @flourishflo3570
    @flourishflo35702 күн бұрын

    The third one made me spill everything from my mouth 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 this lady is on fire with her mouth

  • @onyxx1030
    @onyxx10302 күн бұрын

    So many KZreadrs have posted so-called unpopular opinion, but Neze is the only one who has spoken truthfully and without fear!

  • @namastebawoni1356
    @namastebawoni13562 күн бұрын

    God bless you, Nezeville. I don't wish such marriage on my daughter. Congratulations to Chioma, May God continue to give her the grace to endure. Mother's must train their daughter on self-worth. Well articulated as always, Nezeville. Speaking my mind, emotional abu$e is as bad as physical abu$e. Emotional instability can also affect one's health physically. Women raised in the diaspora are educated from early on not to condone any sort of abu$e for whatever reason.

  • @katekamerun1550
    @katekamerun15502 күн бұрын

    Chai Neze you said it! If money was everything the rich will not cry! WORD!!

  • @ugoeziegwim1552
    @ugoeziegwim15522 күн бұрын

    My dear, I am glad to see a woman with this mindset. Thank God.

  • @baronesslizzy8428
    @baronesslizzy84282 күн бұрын

    ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️ Neze! It’s really sad to find out apparently that blatant promiscuity is acceptable for rich young men in Nigeria in 2024 and the one who ends up marrying them is considered to have won the jackpot, according to some bloggers (mostly men)! I will say this. The wedding ceremonies were spectacular and beautiful and opulent and fantabulous and the newly weds looked completely adorable and gorgeous. However, I still have my reservation about the character of the groom and pray that maturity and self respect for himself and his marriage and kindness and sensitivity to his wife directs his future decisions about ‘the other room’ activity.

  • @doreenchibuzor4340

    @doreenchibuzor4340

    2 күн бұрын

    I am a Nigerian and I hate that people hail promiscuity. Well the bride already knows how promiscuous the groom is and going to be.

  • @bibaolaitan5189

    @bibaolaitan5189

    2 күн бұрын

    I hope she can mentally tolerate it, and cope with it, but I hate the way ppl are praising her. If a woman did this to a man. She would be dragged to hell by both man and woman.

  • @BisolaHephzibahJohnson

    @BisolaHephzibahJohnson

    2 күн бұрын

    ​@@doreenchibuzor4340you mean poor people are not promiscuity?

  • @rosewangari1534

    @rosewangari1534

    2 күн бұрын

    We are quick to judge people in the lime light, whereas you find even in the slums that a man has multiple children with different women, but since they aren't popular.. we don't sit here and condemn their actions. I don't support promiscuity but those who do this, know what is in their minds and hearts.

  • @BisolaHephzibahJohnson

    @BisolaHephzibahJohnson

    2 күн бұрын

    @@rosewangari1534 tnx

  • @Adedolapo02
    @Adedolapo022 күн бұрын

    The way you articulate my thoughts on some subject matters is so beautiful. I totally agree with you on this

  • @valentinenkem9193
    @valentinenkem91932 күн бұрын

    Africans celebrate married in a beautiful way and leave out the most important part ,which is "how is this union going to survive after the big ceremony?"

  • @onege4460
    @onege4460Күн бұрын

    THANK YOU NEZE. When I saw your title, I ran here to flog you but when I listened to your comments, I was reassured that you are as wise as I thought. This relationship and this beautiful young woman should not be any body's role model. We are happy for her but she is in an abusive and toxic relationship. If this man was ordinary poor Femi in Ojuelegba, will these people say that he is a good man, that she is lucky to be married to him? The double standard is nauseous.

  • @ekeamarachi
    @ekeamarachi2 күн бұрын

    Thank you ma, i said same yesterday after congratulating them and I was so attacked that I had to delete it. Chioma is not the standard period

  • @evyjin9675

    @evyjin9675

    2 күн бұрын

    @@chioma6844you’re a fool

  • @ekeamarachi

    @ekeamarachi

    2 күн бұрын

    @@chioma6844 lol, I’m not shallow minded like you. Do you think you have to marry a rich man to make wealth, it’s lazy people like you that sell their integrity for money. I won’t and can never sell my peace for money unlike you

  • @user-hd2rf2mr9e

    @user-hd2rf2mr9e

    2 күн бұрын

    Why did you delete it.let them wail and cry the truth will stand strong forever.

  • @ekeamarachi

    @ekeamarachi

    Күн бұрын

    @@chioma6844 maybe but that won’t still make it right or the standard

  • @ekeamarachi

    @ekeamarachi

    Күн бұрын

    @@chioma6844 who is talking about Sophia, pls don’t divert from the main point

  • @tu-ugejoy6303
    @tu-ugejoy63032 күн бұрын

    God bless you Neze. When you see truth, you say it with your full chest.❤

  • @elizabethjohndouglasakelem5575
    @elizabethjohndouglasakelem55752 күн бұрын

    The main advice is in the last 10 minutes of this video. ❤ It doesn't rain everywhere oh. You should be genuinely happy in your relationship. Projecting negativity into your life. Settling for rubbish. To what end really? It's better to remain single sis than living through unnecessary nonsense.

  • @nkhabe03

    @nkhabe03

    Күн бұрын

    Queen May is the role model

  • @JAY18351
    @JAY183512 күн бұрын

    You had me at coronary heart disease step out abort mission, congenital heart disease pick your bags run away,deep vein thrombosis leave the room🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 you are so funny,entertaining and teaching all at the same time. This is my best channel on here!!!

  • @doraokojie2523
    @doraokojie25232 күн бұрын

    I celebrated my 23 years of marriage on the 20th of June, but as at 23 years ago we don't have much but we were so happy and blessed with 2 boys but today our joy have no boundaries , i think the problem in Africa is all about money 💰 so sad how even pastors and fatherly personalities clapping for nonsense

  • @estyonyi8153

    @estyonyi8153

    2 күн бұрын

    Honestly it's sad how people applaud the wrong things and want to normalize it.

  • @ezinnoch2203

    @ezinnoch2203

    2 күн бұрын

    ​@estyonyi8153 crazy. I was trying to explain this to someone and it seem difficult for them to understand

  • @RitaDokore

    @RitaDokore

    2 күн бұрын

    I agree the fact that black woman has to be strong for non sense and struggling love . She was never custom for real love .. all she is gaining his lifestyle and luxury...​@@estyonyi8153

  • @bettyosaremwen6490
    @bettyosaremwen64902 күн бұрын

    You have said what others are afraid to discuss. .kudos!

  • @peacegracemercy5445
    @peacegracemercy54452 күн бұрын

    Thank you our adorable Neze, i love you to the moon and back. I have 2 beautiful daughters who i will never wish this kind of life for. May they date and marry disciplined men. Amen!!! Thank you, Neze ❤🎉

  • @emmieQ
    @emmieQКүн бұрын

    Barrister Neze that music ahahahahah got me rolling on the floor 🤣 😂 😆

  • @edejorroseline3802
    @edejorroseline38022 күн бұрын

    This is a really counseling and a reminder to all the single ladies at there 😢 May God bless you for this ma

  • @j.n.8153
    @j.n.81532 күн бұрын

    I find her marrying Davido so ludicrous that I started thinking maybe he gave her an STD. I hope people don't think that this new marriage will end old habits. In fact, Davido will use his prior lifestyle to support continuation of it post marriage. His cheating isn't about Chioma. It's about his ferocious appetite to have access to sex anywhere and any time. That's stronger than public humiliation of Chioma. Those children of his are evidence of promiscuity, but what about those who bore no fruit for him? Sex addict is what it's giving. Any way, Chioma knows why she decided to jump the broom. God grant her a higher ability to see no evil and hear no evil. At least in America spouses are granted spousal and child support once divorced. You never know her aim.

  • @melissajohnson1082

    @melissajohnson1082

    2 күн бұрын

    Very well written! I concur!

  • @oluwabankeoyesoko2395

    @oluwabankeoyesoko2395

    2 күн бұрын

    True, you never know her aim.😮

  • @oluwabankeoyesoko2395

    @oluwabankeoyesoko2395

    2 күн бұрын

    Who knows the secret between them?

  • @j.n.8153

    @j.n.8153

    2 күн бұрын

    @@oluwabankeoyesoko2395 You're absolutely right! We can only guesstimate.

  • @tonero8562

    @tonero8562

    2 күн бұрын

    Just wish them well. All you said are based on assumptions. So no need for all that.

  • @ngoziilonze4616
    @ngoziilonze46162 күн бұрын

    Thank you so much, my dear . Moral decadence, especially in our country, is something else. People now think that money is everything, and that's so sad 😢😢

  • @fionalewinson5199
    @fionalewinson51992 күн бұрын

    True love dont come with pain. Love is kind

  • @estherbebe2303
    @estherbebe23032 күн бұрын

    Everything about Neze is correct 👍🏾 your accent correct ✅ Your vibes correct ✅ Your voice correct ✅ Your energy correct ✅ The way you mix comedy and truth, girl !you got talent, you should be a journalist 😂 The way you make us understand the story 👌🏾

  • @nanangachingoma8673

    @nanangachingoma8673

    2 күн бұрын

    Totally agree with you, @estherbebe2303! ... Thats what brings me to her videos wherever I get a chance. In this age of misinformation/dysinformation, we need someone who says the truth; no matter how horrible that truth may be! ❤️ you Barrister!

  • @MaiAngelTv

    @MaiAngelTv

    Күн бұрын

    As it’s time to be real. Accent needs to be tone down Abit…I sometimes struggles to listen to her. More Nigerian accent is clearer an easy listening. I do appreciate your videos.

  • @virtuouswoman4516
    @virtuouswoman45162 күн бұрын

    Nezeville, l have not seen anyone who best narrates events on her platform. Nezeville is a highly intelligent lady with excellent communication, eloquent and articulate. She is also extremely beautiful and stunning. Your fan from 🇬🇧

  • @joyajah6347

    @joyajah6347

    2 күн бұрын

  • @ghowell6657

    @ghowell6657

    2 күн бұрын

    Preach my sister❤

  • @suikansaidzeka1096

    @suikansaidzeka1096

    2 күн бұрын

    Neze is amazing

  • @user-tm3yj4yj1x
    @user-tm3yj4yj1xКүн бұрын

    The presentation and the backup song wanted to die me off with laugh 🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @ininkanta9952
    @ininkanta99522 күн бұрын

    You deserve a hi 5 for this piece🙌

  • @sylvanusjajuamoore6980
    @sylvanusjajuamoore69802 күн бұрын

    The song is something else 🤭😂. No way someone can be another person🙅🏾‍♂️. Be honest with yourself and let the person know what they’re going to see in you in the future,never you fake it to make them stay believe me one day the real you will show up and guess what they’ll leave.

  • @tamiausten873
    @tamiausten8732 күн бұрын

    Preach Mama❤❤. I've heard loud and clear. What is the point of luxury if it can't make me smile? I better dey water side, make I know say I dey suffer, at least I'll still have dreams of a better future. When you are rich and still in pain, the next thing is to take your life 🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️. May God help us to have peace

  • @adariches
    @adarichesКүн бұрын

    I wish I could like this video a thousand times! Thank you Neze for speaking nothing but FACTS! While everyone was oogling and fawning over their wedding, I was looking like 🙄😒. Why are we celebrating such a tragic union? Shout out to her for all the money, etc she's gonna get but life will be just as it has been for her the past years. Hey, she like it...I love it 😌

  • @iamsosasmama
    @iamsosasmama2 күн бұрын

    Correct, a sensible person has spoken. Thank you @Nezeville. People tapping into"blessings" & using certain others as yardsticks, tire me. God bless you for touching on this.

  • @datibella
    @datibella2 күн бұрын

    Na me land here fess😂. Nothing "Neze" gist no go do person 😂😂😂

  • @Emma_forever21

    @Emma_forever21

    2 күн бұрын

    I landed before you

  • @ednadosunmu

    @ednadosunmu

    2 күн бұрын

    😂😂

  • @SandraSalomeAngolorctr
    @SandraSalomeAngolorctr2 күн бұрын

    Barr.Neze you will not see pagatory for that song that you included .😂😂😂 Infact, I shall sit beside you when we get to heaven because,😂this gist too sweet! I was waiting for this unpopular opinion because I would NEVER put my mental health, sexual health, and physical health at stake in the name of "virtuous woman" just because of money. Let me gladly be among those "jealousy" individuals, but that union, is nothing to be proud about. Mind you, The real marriage is yet to start😂😂😂(this comes from a married woman). The fire hasn't even started. Let her enjoy the glamour, gold, and bliss that comes with the ceremony. The REAL MARRIAGE is coming, ooh!😅

  • @ijeomao.4847
    @ijeomao.4847Күн бұрын

    Thank God for you and your sense. Its such a breath of fresh air to hear a woman speak with her whole mind. I dont understand the nigerian womans OBSESSION with struggle and pain.

  • @gladys19gh
    @gladys19gh2 күн бұрын

    You've said it all, Sis. Our sisters & young girls must do better👌🏼 We must not normalize this.

  • @sn2919
    @sn29192 күн бұрын

    Neze got me laughing with this song.....I wish them the best .. peace and sense is found in Christ, may they find him. Is ironi ooo....not our role model. You nailed it! It's extreme poverty that make many think those things are normal.

  • @janetOlubiyi
    @janetOlubiyi2 күн бұрын

    This is really the hard truth.

  • @preciousglory6735
    @preciousglory67352 күн бұрын

    The blessings of God added No sorrow, may we not look enjoying outside for people face and crying inside may the good God bless everyone of us ❤

  • @zeemali4369
    @zeemali4369Күн бұрын

    👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾U couldn’t have said it any better.Thank u so much Barrister Neze. God bless u🙏🏽

  • @nnekairoegbu2360
    @nnekairoegbu23602 күн бұрын

    I personally know someone that died of a broken heart, her husband cheats on her like there's no tomorrow. She was a very unhappy woman and her husband is just a regular guy. Gone at only fourty six years. Women be careful oooh.

  • @Hoj299

    @Hoj299

    2 күн бұрын

    🙏 imperative to guard your heart

  • @lindaj7167

    @lindaj7167

    2 күн бұрын

    I know someone similar as well

  • @daisychepkorir7579

    @daisychepkorir7579

    2 күн бұрын

    😢

  • @trixwoman

    @trixwoman

    2 күн бұрын

    My mum died of broken heart,if I don't learn from my mum's case I must be a cursed fool. Emotional abuse especially for a loyal woman is very hard.

  • @ifeomaookoli

    @ifeomaookoli

    2 күн бұрын

    ​@@trixwoman😢 so sorry for your loss 🫂

  • @vickieogb1262
    @vickieogb12622 күн бұрын

    Another reminder that I’m following one with a value system!. I will never understand settling for a man without character cos of wealth sha, cos anyone can personally work towards financial freedom; nevertheless over the years I’ve also just learnt to respect people’s choices even if I’ll never be able to rap my head around such decisions. God help us all 🙌🏽

  • @e.a.2033

    @e.a.2033

    2 күн бұрын

    The problem is women working to get the wealth

  • @graciedee8248
    @graciedee82482 күн бұрын

    Omg, this Neze woman is full of wisdom. God bless you for what you do & for sharing with us. Love your channel.

  • @bceebakars
    @bceebakars2 күн бұрын

    i salute your frankly speaking. more strenght to your vocals.

  • @TamarMichael-xm8wj
    @TamarMichael-xm8wj2 күн бұрын

    😂😂😂😂 She settled for reasons best known to her but certainly not a roll model. Not every woman has the mental & emotional strength for a torturing philandering abusive hubby with or without money! Let's keep their unity in prayers because with settling comes repeated patterns, good or bad! Amen 🙏.

  • @finestfinest9926
    @finestfinest99262 күн бұрын

    So like I commented in your previous video " Chioma is still young with good shock absorbers...let's wait till she is in the thirties approaching the forties and if she will still contain all the excesses happening now.. Then we will understand her love better. Marriage is no joke ooo.

  • @damilolabashorun8890

    @damilolabashorun8890

    2 күн бұрын

    😂 love that shock absorbers😂😂

  • @inerit5175

    @inerit5175

    2 күн бұрын

    well said ! When you are 40 and the first grey hair starts showing and then he dates a fresh 20 yr old! Hmmmmmm

  • @eljayjay7884

    @eljayjay7884

    2 күн бұрын

    No joke 🤦🏻‍♀️

  • @pdm8446

    @pdm8446

    2 күн бұрын

    @@inerit5175e gbami oooo

  • @Hair4Two

    @Hair4Two

    2 күн бұрын

    Maybe that's the plan. Give it 10 more years amass so wealth and leave at 40 with the rest of your life ahead of you and your children at a reasonable age.

  • @eljayjay7884
    @eljayjay78842 күн бұрын

    All that you read from your book killed me woh😂😂😂😂😂

  • @kulajallah1737
    @kulajallah17372 күн бұрын

    Neze, everyone chooses their hard time! 😂😂😂😂But crying in a hut is harder and lastly being broke is even the hardest😂😂😂😂😂

  • @preciouschizim5985
    @preciouschizim59852 күн бұрын

    "Leave the room sister, you will die..."😂 Neze your story telling skill is something else.

  • @danielflorence7686

    @danielflorence7686

    Күн бұрын

    😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @abenahcnb1994
    @abenahcnb19942 күн бұрын

    People who think Chioma is happy in that relationship,Ur wrong. She is just in for what she gains in it the wealth and affluence

  • @angela-bx6gu

    @angela-bx6gu

    2 күн бұрын

    My sentiments exactly 💰💰💰 this man 😳🍆come and get it community

  • @namsyl2093

    @namsyl2093

    2 күн бұрын

    😂😂😅

  • @joykorshiwor699

    @joykorshiwor699

    2 күн бұрын

    We all can't tell if she is happy or not. It may be be those things may not be a deal breaker for her though

  • @tonero8562

    @tonero8562

    2 күн бұрын

    Chiomaa's spokesperson has talked.

  • @somoyesimileoluwa2283

    @somoyesimileoluwa2283

    2 күн бұрын

    ❤❤❤❤

  • @nadiaadu-gyamfi1251
    @nadiaadu-gyamfi12512 күн бұрын

    Thank you, Barrister Neze! You've said it alllll. God bless you

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