I genuinely wish I had resources like this channel much, much earlier in life.

@chrish813

15 күн бұрын

Never too late my friend

The thing your mentor said, about " having someone who believes in you more than you believe in yourself" would fix a lot of problems for a lot of people.

ok a) can't believe you're 40 - you look fantastic. honestly thought you were my age (28). and b) your videos always give me faith in other men like you being out there in the world so thank you. your wife and son are very lucky to have you in their life.

Killing the lottery mindset really hit me, I'm going to focus on that. Thanks for the video!

You’re right in every point - for 5 years now I try to follow these but I still struggle… I already shared this with my brother.

This is probably the most powerful video I’ve ever watched and it came at such a perfect time. Having difficulty navigating one of the toughest stretches I’ve had to endure and what you said about not knowing how to handle it struck me. Wow, thank you. Just ordered the book

great timing. just getting out of a relationship and using this opportunity to doing what I need to do for myself.

Conner. This is my go-to channel now. And your book is fantastic. Specifically, Chapters 4-6, amazing! Thank you. You have a gift

@ManTalks

13 күн бұрын

Appreciate that! Thanks for tuning in and glad this hit home

Appreciating the present. Invaluable. I've just realized this recently. Forget about the past. Be cognizant, but don't worry about the future. Be thankful and enjoy what you have now, today.

I really respect you and your work, Connor. Thanks for what you do! You're a good example.

@ManTalks

16 күн бұрын

Thank you, appreciate you tuning in brother

I needed to hear this, thank you for sharing your truth! It’s a deeper truth that all of us men to the core are struggling with.🙏

Really appreciated this mate. Brilliant advice for men in the modern world.

I commit to avoiding all thirst traps and instead focusing entirely on leveling up myself and achieving my goals

Darn it. I use my lottery mindset too often. As you said, it effects what I do in the current. Big one!

Another great video mate! Appreciate you.

Good one Connor. Thank you.

Really needed this one today thank you!

So much truth here

Man, step 3 made me stop the video to think 🤔 great stuff!

@ManTalks

13 күн бұрын

Glad you enjoyed it!

thx man i appreciate you

I really appreciate you and your content. Thank you 🙏

@ManTalks

16 күн бұрын

Thanks, I appreciate you tuning in

First tip was overrated because everyone works out nowadays, but man the rest of the video was just straight insights. The one thing I would focus on is “make your pain your purpose”. That really would solve a lot of simultaneous problems at once in my life.

Very good! Liked and subscribed.

@ManTalks

12 күн бұрын

Appreciate it!

the last advice hit me hard

Thanks for this. They are all true. #7 is #1 for me. Well, it was anyway. Once I understood that this could be repaired, I became and I'm becoming the man that I wanted to be.

Could you make a video on why someone would have anxiety before a presentation?

29:20 was very helpful for me to realize. it wasn't until i fully embraced this that i really could feel the full extent of my feelings regarding some aspects of my victimization. one of my primary defense mechanisms have been to deny my weakness or vulnerabilities

The title caught my attention

One criticism I have here is about your first point, where you seem to argue that sleep hygiene is not as important as exercise. They are both incredibly important, and it could be detrimental to some people to believe that their sleep quality can be compromised in favour of exercising. The truth is that there is space for both, and that depending on one's life situation, one of them might need to be prioritized about the other. And if one's mental state is deeply affected by fatigue, proper sleep and rest will be just as important, if not more important, than a strict exercising regime. That being said, everybody has time for, at the very least, mild exercise (say, a walk) every day!

Can you talk about to get thru a break up ? And the no contact rule etc ?

“Stop making excuses”. Roll credits 😂. No seriously, I couldn’t receive any other messages after that one. If I can stop making excuses, I could turn this ship.

Im feeling rough, I’m feeling raw, I’m in the prime of my life

@awsambdaman

16 күн бұрын

W song

@20:29, you can say reefer. 😂

❤❤❤

How do I get your book?

Sorry to say that number 9 is missing ;-)

... as a German Biochemist Ph D - it is Genetics the conditioning of the PAIN - Reward Pattern in the Auto Pilot to which we have NO access - no matter how hard we try to get there ever. It takes intense Inner Strength Training - a sort of „Navy Seals“ Training to de Condition from that pattern and establish a new Genetics of PAIN Reward - that restructures the Auto Pilot In a wider sense it is „De Domestication“ from the social cultural forces that program our Minds - to do things that are BAD for us - and ultimately destroy the Bio Sphere. The Auto Pilot is never addressable via rational and “verbal” means! Best Business for the Mind Opiate Drug Pushers$$$$$

You know, I realized, all the times I went to the hospital, no one in my family ever came to see me or friends(lol). I gotta say, once you know no one cares around you, it makes you wake up to how people 'can' be. I want to become an animal and seek revenge but I will not. Not even a call to check up on me, well complaining about bills. All good though, thanks for nothing. No love lost, when it was never found.

Great video Conor. It might be very helpful to acknowledge that to stop believing you are broken (which is undoing shame) is not a simple decision. It takes time, dedication, and hard work. Its definitely doable. But to just say “stop doing it” implies it is simpler than it really is.

@user-ee1fn4vt8b

15 күн бұрын

Why is there always, always, always someone in the comment going “yeah, well, doing X is not that easy”. Always. No one said it was? Why are you attacking the few people who are fighting for you? What is the end goal of this comment, really?

Invite Craig Jones please

I understand not giving women the attention they crave through apps and social, but I'm someone who isn't on any of those. That isn't going to help you get into a relationship because most men need to do those things in order to meet the woman in the first place. And when you said not to go after women you don't have a shot with, that's especially hard because anymore, an average guy has trouble even getting a below average woman. A man who is a 6 is lucky to get a woman who is a 4 because she's holding out for a man who is an 8. And while I don't look at much porn, I'm guessing you're referring to masturbation as well. Most men, including me, aren't giving that up because that's the only sex we get. I'm with someone and haven't had sex in almost a year. We had sex once in '23 and once in '22. Before that we had sex maybe 2 or 3 times a year and the first few years we were together, maybe 5-6 times. So like most married men, taking care of it yourself is about the only sex you can get. And I'm not giving up video games. While she doesn't like me doing it, at least I'm on the couch with her. If I'm out doing the things I used to do like long bike rides or in the kayak and I'm away from her for the majority of the day, then she will make life unbearable. I think I'm like most guys my age when it comes to games. When we were young, we'd play video games and D&D because we couldn't get dates. We now play them because we've gotten dates and learned we prefer video games to being in a relationship.

@doggystyle8457

11 күн бұрын

All I could read was: 'excuses excuses excuses' . BS my friend, you are where you are because you have put yourself in that position.

If men did what you say here.. There would not be any MAGA, red or black pill society.. :D

@seantv1510

9 күн бұрын

You forgot some rather obvious and important things like the complete degeneracy of everything mainstream disguised as "peace/love/new-age/hippy" movements that preach acceptance of *"everybody" while hypocriticaly practicing the opposite. As well as all of the weak followers of the false dichotomy of the left v right paradigm, where people foolishly and ignorantly speak badly about, lets say.. the "right" or Trump, while supporting something as odd or ridiculous as our current supposed "leader of the free world" 🙄 It all goes into the trash where it belongs.

This guy helped me to focus on my life and my goals 🫶