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@Lmwpitt

Жыл бұрын

Ah, now I see why this video exists haha

@Redneckcountrycowboy49

Ай бұрын

I think everyone would love to see your rims and your adult race car bed and what kind of rims are you going to purchase to put on it. Laugh out loud.

1- Twin size Mattress in floor with no bed sheets. 2- Car Jack Stands in a corner. 3- Dumbbell Rack. 4- 32inch TV on top of a upside down shopping cart. 5- Microwave oven on top of a beer keg. 6- Plastic bags for each type of clothes (Keep organized, you know...). 7- Milk plastic rack upside down to put old spice cologne and deodorant. 8- AR-15 and some ammo laying on the floor. 9- Mini fridge with Hot pockets and Pat Ribbons. 10- Teddy Bear.

@alanh7247

Жыл бұрын

11. triumph speed triple.

@TJ-kj9ki

Жыл бұрын

12. AR-15 for teddy bear

@Nev1812

Жыл бұрын

13. Hiker Backpack for outings

@ninjaproofshadow

Жыл бұрын

Damn if you shifted your budget a little you would be more comfortable

@delab13

Жыл бұрын

My guy, this is perfect!

I have a bike pump next to my bed in case my girlfriend loses air. She likes it when I read before we fool around. Books are attractive.

@drip369

Жыл бұрын

💀💀

@apachehelicopter8264

Жыл бұрын

Duuuuuuude.🤣

@dudemcaverage3903

Жыл бұрын

Sir... Thanks for this laugh 😆. Hugely needed and appreciated 👍 Have an awesome day

@ericmoore9444

Жыл бұрын

A bike pump gets the job done. You can get a lot of downward leverage.

@ericmoore9444

Жыл бұрын

Love is a complicated thing!

I also highly recommend a home defense weapon of choice at the ready at your bedside and taking a course on proper use, if not familiar. Life experience has taught time and time again that we never know when it might be needed. All the best Courtney and Teddy.

@davidplummer2473

3 ай бұрын

Got a Glock under the folded blanket on the little bookshelf. Check.

@paulkapke9284

3 ай бұрын

I thought that is what she meant when she said "protection"😭

@om617yota8

3 ай бұрын

100% agreed. Even if you're not a practitioner of the art of klik-pao, there are fire extinguisher size cans of pepper gel that will pointedly remind someone that this is not their home.

1. Good Mattress 2. Candles 3. Drapes 4. Book shelf 5. Paintings 6. Full length Mirror 7. Condoms 8. Bed accessories 9. Humidifier 10. Bedside Lamp

@ErikPelyukhno

Жыл бұрын

Clean up kit

@sluggergod

Жыл бұрын

Ty

@motozealot5176

Жыл бұрын

whats a condom?

@greg33770

Жыл бұрын

mattress and condoms.....thats all

@rgtunderworldrgt7773

Жыл бұрын

Folks like you that do these video summations...are Kingd-Queens!!

As a bare minimalist, I don't even have a bedroom. I retire at the end of every single day in my SUV and all I have is [1] mattress & pillow, [2] fan, [3] small bin for clothes, and [4] gym bag. How long have I been doing this you ask? This November will be my 50th consecutive month. Live free, clutter-free

I consider my bedroom as my sanctuary where comfort and serenity are the master words. It's not only a place where I sleep and dream, but also a place where I can rest, listen to peaceful music and think about my life so I can become a better version of myself. Thank you for the video!

I like what Courtney said about bed sheets. She’s hardcore like my grandmother. She endorses washing bed sheets once a week. I wash my bed sheets every two weeks. I figured out my best routine when I was 18. I still work for the same company 18 years later. I’ve been there for half my life now. Every payday weekend I wash my bed sheets. Just bought new ones this month actually. As a bachelor I’ve learned that payday weekend is a good marker for routine chores such as washing bedsheets and vacuuming my car. The first weekend of the month is good for washing shower curtains and bath rugs and mopping bathroom floors. Just some tips I use.

@russ9921

Жыл бұрын

Get a cleaning lady. You evidently need one in your life.

@farmerx165

Жыл бұрын

@@russ9921 cleaning lady would probably find all this serial killers dead bodies

@russ9921

Жыл бұрын

@@farmerx165 🤣🤣🤣

@Don2006

Жыл бұрын

I didn't know people washed shower curtains. I wouldn't even know how

@dudydude3287

Жыл бұрын

Also cleaning and doing chores on payday weekend seems like a very solid method of saving money, since you're occupied with chores rather than spending money after getting $$$ head

I'm saving up to get some sweet rims for my racecar bed. As a grown man, I think its important to show that I care about my investments

@SgtMcCullin

Жыл бұрын

XD

@captainfalcon7227

3 ай бұрын

😭😭😭

@dull_boy_274

Ай бұрын

Hopefully spinners

Great stuff, such a positive influence for guys out there. With your content I picture a bunch of guys hearing this and becoming a little more emotionally intelligent, a little more thoughtful, and a little classier. I listen just for ideas for how I could work on myself more as well. Thanks!

@CourtneyRyan

Жыл бұрын

Wow, this comment made me smile! Thank you 🥹

@ronfranklin5854

Жыл бұрын

I totally agree Shane! It’s so great having a female’s perspective with such authentic content. I pictured a bunch of guys running out to Bed Bath and Beyond today 😂

@shanemcgrath3419

Жыл бұрын

@@ronfranklin5854 haha that's hilarious and presumably true!

@rgtunderworldrgt7773

Жыл бұрын

@@CourtneyRyan 100% Shane. Very well put For me, what makes Courtney stand out? Is that her advice seems to come from a very genuine, altruistic point of view. It's not her intent to help men mack, or game women, or even hook up. So much as she is clueing us in how How women tick, why? What they look for in a man, and why. Generally helping mtn Better understand them, while also improving ourselves, so that we can be better men, people and partners Not just to get women, but to be better overall human beings. It's Not about Men vs women, as much as it is being better, more together versions of ourselves. Like, it's Not about Men, vs Women. It's about Mrn And women, being Better, Together. Awesome to get good wisdom from a Super Hot chick, who is also a grounded, smart, solid human being.

@elmateo77

Жыл бұрын

You're right, I feel way more emotionally intelligent now that I put a lamp on top of the gun safe in the corner.

Those advices are for all people important. Its always good to design your bedroom the way you feel most comforting. Sleep is extremely important for physical and mental health. Any little detail that helps creating the environment you need to relax and have a peaceful night is worth it... Even when its just a tiny thing like putting your phone away from nightstand or adding a plant. Good video and keep the great work up, Miss Ryan ✌️

@Introvertedalpha

Жыл бұрын

🙌

@OneOfUs0000

Жыл бұрын

Nah I didn't find them important at all. Most of these things are actually needed by women, not men. Sure, if you as a man have all these, you'll be a lot more sympathetic to women, but tbh as a grown man all YOU (and not others) need in your bedroom is a comfortable bed, and some source of light. All the rest is just plus for additional comfort. I personally never needed a candle, but I still have one 'cause I noticed women like it. Men need hell a lot less than women, that's the truth.

1. Book ✔ 2. Soft Mattress✔ 3. Accessories... Yes I don't sleep on a bare mattress of the floor✔ 4. I don't know about these "drapes" you speak of, I have manly curtains ✔ 5. Candles - no not my style - ladies bring your own❌ 6. Reading lamp✔ 7. Full length mirror❌ I only have a half length (I have failed) 8. Artwork (or course... I'm not a monster!)✔ 9. Humidifier (this should be number 1 here in Cleveland!)✔ 10. Protection (yep mattress protector fitted just right)✔

"if you're a grown man, your room should reflect that" I feel attacked

@drip369

Жыл бұрын

Buck Up Buttercup 😉

@CourtneyRyan

Жыл бұрын

Hahahahaha

@jeremiahbok9028

Жыл бұрын

Me too. I am a huge cartoon fan and I have a Discord from mlp on my dresser, I also have a book on the making of Disney's Cinderella on my bookshelf, as well as various mangas. I am a dweeb and I am proud. But it turns out lots of women are animation nerds too, so.

@antikertech157

Жыл бұрын

It's true though....

@ChadAF_YT

3 ай бұрын

We all need to tighten up. Don’t worry boys, look at your girls car if you need to feel better

Bonus that I found and love. Get a water decanter with some matching glasses, just one or two will do. Fill it with water before bed. Its so nice to be able to wake up and just have water right there. No more morning cotton mouth, bad breath, and just general thirstiness. Also, keep lubricant with your protection, and make sure they can work together. Your bedroom activities will thank you.

@matikaevur6299

Жыл бұрын

Yeah, water near bed is invaluable in hangover situation. Just remember to keep it fresh ... hangover plus diarrhea is not good combination ;)

@codykirchner9606

Жыл бұрын

@@matikaevur6299 Entirely valid point as well. I don't get drunk, but if someone did, it would help with that as well.

@matikaevur6299

Жыл бұрын

@@codykirchner9606 Yeah .. depends on how "grown" you are. I'm late 40's and don't need that kind of first aid anymore, either. In my late teens to mid 20's .. well :)

I have a flat, pancake pillow. But to be fair, I’ve been a stomach sleeper my entire life. Only in the past few years have I started waking up in the middle of the night and grabbing a second pillow for my side sleeping shift. That one has some quality neck support and keeps me from feeling my age in the morning!

11-a soft fuzzy pair of hand cuffs and a blind fold 12-a mini fridge 13-a bed with posts 14-robe 15-blue tooth speaker Bonus-make your candle the cool to touch wax for an extra heightened experience

Bonus one which I would personally recommend, a Reed Diffuser. Trust me, your girl would love it.

I would also recommend a nice desk and maybe a nice set of drawers or even a filing cabinet. Even if you don't have a personal, landline computer, simply getting various possessions and effects off of the floor and onto a higher plane or inside a space you aren't walking on will do you tons of good. And please throw out your water bottles and other trash, and please run the vacuum every so often. Even once a quarter, that will do you so much good.

You're helping me alot. I used to be incel but your advice helps me stay in school and work in an internship.

@CourtneyRyan

Жыл бұрын

I’m so glad I can help! 🤍

@scifirealism5943

Жыл бұрын

@@CourtneyRyan thank you! If there's hope for me then there's hope for ALL men.

@jeremiahbok9028

Жыл бұрын

Good for you, we love to see it.

@lupusanthro5021

Жыл бұрын

How are you no longer an incel? Do you have a girlfriend now?

@scifirealism5943

Жыл бұрын

@@jeremiahbok9028 thanks

Great video Courtney! I recommend a small or stand up plant if there is room for it. The best men's apartment or bedroom to model after is in the film American Psycho... very minimal, clean, white, great artwork etc... I also do not put a tv in my bedroom... bedroom is for sleeping, comfort and unwinding!

@adam.maqavoy

Жыл бұрын

Agreed. TV in Bedroom is just a bad idea for several reasons

@CourtneyRyan

Жыл бұрын

This! 😂

@AllHandlesRTaken

Жыл бұрын

Really? You recommend a serial biller as a role model? Do you have daughters, that you love?

@whilliamnilsson6788

Жыл бұрын

@@AllHandlesRTaken You must be fun at parties

@nestorperena8629

Жыл бұрын

well that's the idea: being a mask for others (impress them for whatever reason) and not genuine.

I've had a Tempur-Pedic mattress for almost a decade and love it. But I had one guest who said that she missed the spring squeaking!

Shes 100% right, especially on the last one. Can't stress how important it is to have protection in your room at ALL times. No exceptions. Had a woman over one time without having any on hand. The desire in the moment, however, would not be denied. And i spent the next several months paranoid, waiting for a dreaded call from her. Fortunately nothing came of it, but its not worth the worry. I learned my lesson. keep those things well stocked.

@dang75790

4 ай бұрын

What that you gave her an STD lol. 😂😂😂😂

Aromatherapy is relaxing for me n awesome. I have candles and incense, a bookshelf n a night stand lamp. Soo relaxing

Please dont take this the wrong way cuz i think ur such a super sweet girl but these are just common bedroom items with an ad for a mattress.

Great content Courtney, I love your unpredictable topics. I would add an essential oil diffuser for peace of mind, peppermint, francansense, eucalyptus, white Angelica etc And, no tv Maybe a CD player for old school audio books Bottle of water Alarm clock across the room Enjoy

Bed Drawers for clothes Mirror Wardrobe (preferably built in) Working Light Curtains/blinds Optional - Bed side table to put anything on such as mobile phone or alarm clock Storage space (drawers, cabinets, shelves on walls, etc) Desk (if you really must work in your room or for studying) Shoe rack Working fan (for the hot summer nights) Portable heater (for the cold winter nights) Anything more than this is overkill and waste of money

@reptiloid-kun9247

Жыл бұрын

Optional - woman

@GrowingDownUnder

Жыл бұрын

@@reptiloid-kun9247 to be honest, there would never be a woman in my house....because I can't get any haha and i'd never be able to afford a house anyway

@reptiloid-kun9247

Жыл бұрын

@@GrowingDownUnder I like your point

@zhen86

Жыл бұрын

candle and full length mirror is a women want not what a grown man need.

@LB-uo7xy

10 ай бұрын

​@@zhen86 You really don't care how you look then, not even for a job interview to be sure you dress to impress? You can also practice facial expressions and body posture in the mirror. I think mirrors are great for interview and work practice, even if you have a blue collar job.

white drapes with elite looking curtains are a must! Totally changed the look and feel of my room

@Introvertedalpha

Жыл бұрын

🙌

Missing 3 things... A pistol/gun, because you are a man in a dangerous world (and know how to use it...my protection drawer has 2 meanings 😅). A super soft plush rug. Ive got one under my king bed that extends out from under it about 2 ft on all sides. Its a nice touch. And its a good little knee padding 😏. And you gotta have a color LED light strip under your bed, prefarably wifi/bluetooth controlled. Pop that sucker on with some red lights and boom, perfect mood lighting.

Top tip. Store protection in the artwork. Totally classy

@ilai7893

Жыл бұрын

Lol storage unit with protection, wine and glasses kept behind the artwork

Just had to Google what drapes was. Never heard that saying before. I’m the UK we say curtains, also I love my humidifier

@drip369

Жыл бұрын

Yeah in America we say both but I would say drapes isn't a common thing anymore, so hurry for the Millennials keeping it alive hahaha

Clean pillow, Clean Sheets, Dark drapes - no electronics, no books, no distractions. I am asleep in 3 minutes or less. Next to bed - alarm clock, shot gun and a pair of slippers No candles, no potpourie, no art, no posters, no flags, 'sexy time' happens in the other room. I do not want to sleep in a wet spot - protection is there.

My ex had an inflatable doll in his bedroom ; I found it under the bed!

@jleano609

Жыл бұрын

🤣

I just need the perfect lamp by my bed to read with and I think I have most of those things covered! Thank you for another great video, Courtney, and keep on being you :)

Courtney you got your self together and provide quite practical advice.

I have a small book shelf and one of my favorites happens to be 1984 by George Orwell

@CourtneyRyan

Жыл бұрын

Love it!

@antonboludo8886

Жыл бұрын

Yes, that is a great book!

Yes, a nice comfortable bed is very important. It's worth every penny. Candles add a bit of romance. These are huge pluses if you have these when we come to your house.

@CourtneyRyan

Жыл бұрын

You get it Court! 🤍

@drip369

Жыл бұрын

Yeah I keep a wax smell in both the living room and the bedroom and my nicer lamps with the red bulbs in them are in the bedroom. The setting is always appreciated

@jdanon203

Жыл бұрын

LOOOOOL you ain't comin over unless the guy makes six figures, is at least six feet tall, and has six pack abs or an eight inch dick. Dudes are onto y'all.

@mickeyconnor830

Жыл бұрын

@@TheNaturalHealthBlogger That attitude is why nobody is coming to your house. Get your head right, and your immutable traits won't matter nearly as much to you or to anyone else as they do now. If you can't hold a conversation without spitting venom, putting your loathing for self and others on full, shameful display, then your mindset is going to continue to be flat-out repulsive. A bitter disposition is a bad look on anyone. Read books. Work on yourself. Until you've put in some real effort, maybe you ought to quit crying about how come nothing's changing. It's nobody's fault but yours.

@huggybear2789

Жыл бұрын

Nothing says romance like having sex with random dudes...

Courtney got me laughing at the fact that she says that we don’t listen to her 😂. We’re guys we tend to do what we want but I heard you loud and clear. Protection in the room ✅. Great content

@kylekenan2321

Жыл бұрын

I also heard her say we don't listen.

@dmax9946

Жыл бұрын

I use my protective body armour while wrestling in the bedroom

@buggus0034

Жыл бұрын

You got them level 4 plates?

defo getting these things when I turn 18 and start living in my own place. Heck, i'll try get some now!

I got my ultra firm King Koil queen mattress May 2020. The 12mo financing for a 2g purchase bundle was so worth it!

I recently upgraded my wardrobe. I switched out a few of my graphics tees, and kept some of my more neutral tones and blue (matches my eyes) etc. and active wear, gym shorts and shirts etc. Additionally, I have some buttonups hanging that I'm going to bring into the rotation more regularly. Making a bunch of glow ups, while currently in the job search for something with a higher salary, so there's a lot happening right now, wish me luck!

I would recommend waterproof pillow protectors, I have some very expensive memory and latex pillows that I have had for years but because they have been sealed in waterproof pillow protectors they are not exposed to things like snot and drool, they last. A lot of people buy new pillows as a conventional pillow is like cotton wool, you wet cotton wool and it will lose its shape forever same goes for pillows. My phone is usually in my pocket or on the charger in both cases not in reach

Thank you, I really appreciate your videos!

Very interesting video. Decided to evaluate my space and listen to this for ideas and I got a thing or two that I'd upgrade when I'm in my own place (still with the parents atm) but I'm good for the most part. I got a decent array of books (could use a bookshelf tho but space is lacking), good bed, mattress and plenty of varying sheets to go with. Also got the lamp and candles. I didn't even know humidifiers were a thing lol, for reasons of I'm not on my own plus religious I don't have or use protection (my safety is abstinence until married, plus even if I was intending on bringing different girls home I probably wouldn't bring them home to my room then get into it with my grandma in the bedroom directly opposite). Definitely need a mirror though, that's the one thing I'm lacking. Edit: also realised I forgot I don't have drapes. I think given my situation currently my room is good. When I do go in my own however I would change a few things. I've got a TV in my room standing on a shelf with lots of DVD'S and Blu-Rays, and I used to have a PS4 (now in storage, I need a break from it) there too. Also I got a pretty bulky desk underneath my window hence why I can't have drapes. If I'm riding solo, I may not have the TV in my room as I could watch whatever in the TV room anyway, if I keep one in my room id wall mount it. Would definitely look into getting a proper bookshelf to better display my books. I'd definitely get a different wardrobe, something a bit more modern, probably bigger and something that either has or could at least fit a mirror. I'd go for a more sleek and modern desk also, I'd try to get a drawer cabinet to store a few things. My "artwork" is something I'm actually quite proud of mostly, I've got a couple little kid photos of myself which I might not hang up on my own but I think with patents around its more appropriate, but what I would definitely keep is my religious iconography. I'm big in my faith, it's the core to who I am and the artwork reflects that plus I think it fits well into respectable and mature and not nothing like the naked chick's or the beer boxes. Definitely when on my own I'd look into drapes. Really liked this video courtney.

Absolutely true, thanks a lot ✨

@CourtneyRyan

Жыл бұрын

You’re so welcome! 🤍

And an intimidating Big Bong! And a projector. And cream for the skin to smell good 😊

Another good thing to add to this a flashlight just in case there is a power outage or emergency in the middle of the night.

Thank you . My bedroom is so boring . I don’t like clutter or furniture. I have bed nightstand and desk in there. THATS IT.

I have a bedside bookshelf in my bed is primarily for sleeping as my favorite place to be is my gym which is where I unwind and recover as well as train. Most of my reading is done in the living room or the dining room because your brain can associate certain behaviors with certain environments so I no longer watch TV in my bedroom, I no longer read in my bedroom and I for sure as hell don't ever eat in my bedroom anymore. Ever since I turn my room into a blackout Zone I have been sleeping solid and thorough

@CourtneyRyan

Жыл бұрын

Oooh yes I’ve heard the dark curtains really help!

@drip369

Жыл бұрын

@@CourtneyRyan so does having outlet timers that turn on lamps with red light bulbs in them before dusk so that I can slowly get all of the other lights off and begin to unwind. Just enough light to read and do things but low enough on the lux meter to not turn on stress hormones so that I actually relax before bed

Thank you Courtney, great content.

I have 2 more to add to this. 11. Firearm 12. Police grade handcuffs

6/10 I have blinds instead of drapes and no candles. No Mirror. I'm pretty good on books though. My Bedroom is pretty much the house library. "A room without books is like a man without a soul" - Cicero As for protection, I have a bunch of Dungeons and Dragons rulebooks visible on my shelves. I wasn't sure whether to count that though.

@MasterNoMore

Жыл бұрын

The Last paragraph haha

@davidh5101

Жыл бұрын

D&D books are very effective birth control.

@marcmays48

Жыл бұрын

When she was talking about birth control... I somehow don't think that that is what she had in mind... 🤔🤣

you know what courtney, i'll take you up on that...i have purchased at least 3 books the last 8months(seeing as though the first and last time i purchased a book to read was TMNT back when i was 12 at a school book fair) and never read them...but seems like probably the only time i would ever attempt to read a book...and i do want to get into reading...i dont know about 10 pages...but i can definitely do 3-5

I agree with the bookshelf. I don't think anyone needs a small library there but it shows you have more going on besides video games. I second the pictures on the wall as well.

@Introvertedalpha

Жыл бұрын

🙌

@xpindy

Жыл бұрын

Video games? You guys have a lot to learn.

Courtney Ryan: “Have a bedside book.” Me: *Reading Warhammer 40,000 books* “BURN THE HERETIC! KILL THE MUTANT! PURGE THE UNCLEAN!” Courtney Ryan: “I don’t judge what books you read. It’s a very personal thing and so long as you enjoy reading-“ Me: “WE ARE THE ANGELS OF DEATH! WE ARE THE FURY OF THE EMPEROR’S WILL MADE FLESH!” Courtney Ryan: “Absolutely, what you are reading should be engaging and enjoyable. It’s easier to relax when-“ Me: “Kill for the living! Kill for the dead!! For the Warmaster and in the name of Holy Terra…CHAAAARGE!! LUPERCAL!!!” Courtney Ryan: “……………” Me: “LET THE GALAXY BURN!!!!” Courtney Ryan: “……Everyone needs a hobby.” *SNIP some time later...* Courtney Ryan: "I mentioned hobbies! Hobbies like writing, journaling, hiking, photography, something that will enrich your life and make you feel better about yourself. Painting perhaps." Me: *Painting Chaos Space Marines and muttering some filthy sonorous gutteral doggerel about someone named Slaanesh, and everytime I finish one I shriek* FOR THE WARMASTER! THE DESPOILER! DOWN WITH THE CARRION GOD! HAaa HA HA ha hA HA HA!!!!" Courtney Ryan: ".... Painting is an excellent hobby!"

@markymarknj

Жыл бұрын

I prefer an old John Grisham novel myself... :)

@KrimsonStorm

Жыл бұрын

based

@TomFynn

Жыл бұрын

My hobby is to give blood. FOR THE BLOOD GOD!

@stuarthamilton5112

Жыл бұрын

@Spots Corner Slow death of the species. Nothing more grimdark than that. The Emperor protects.

@stuarthamilton5112

Жыл бұрын

@@KrimsonStorm That moment when they realize what happens when men are sick of the shit…… They asked Conan what was best in life. Maybe they didn’t like the answer.

Love the tip to have a bedside book (or two)!

@elmateo77

Жыл бұрын

Does anybody actually read paper books anymore though? I have an entire library (currently like 600 ebooks) on my phone, and can read any time I like without having to carry a heavy book around all day.

@Introvertedalpha

Жыл бұрын

@@elmateo77 While we personally love flipping through the pages of a paper book, we also enjoy the convenience of an ebook!

@ericraber1214

Жыл бұрын

Rollo Tamossi has 5 great books! Rich Cooper, don’t forget Aaron Cleary book of numbers. Also Jack Donovan, to become the warrior and build your tribe. This will help you understand why you are lost in a western society ran as if we are all women…

@antoinecharlesdegaulle580

Жыл бұрын

@@elmateo77 i read paper books

A nice chair/recliner is also nice to have.

Courtney doing an outfit check while balancing on the edge of a bathtub....Now *there's* an image!!😁

This is good way to merge a sponsor with content, fair play.

On a serious note.... candles are essential. I also have a fragrance diffuser which you put water and scented oils in and it shoots scented vapor into the air. Obviously the candles I use match the fragrance of the oil in the diffuser and of course reed diffusers too. I have millions of books. I also keep my bed covered with faux fur throws in co-ordinated colors above the bedspread and there are pillows and cushions all over the place.. One thing I would argue is also essential in a bedroom that you missed is potted plants. I have 5 plants in my bedroom and also occasionally put in a bouquet of flowers to brighten the place further.

@91722854

Жыл бұрын

fragrance diffuser? I have a bomb diffuser and 3 kitchen knives in the drawer next to my bed

Perfect Lighting courtney👌

Chad has his mattress on the floor with no head board but still blows her back out on the first date. But...please guys still go ahead and make sure you have all this stuff so you can be alone and cozy in your room while you watch and simp over always low cut top Courtney on youtube😉 Some of you dudes are so caught up in the matrix and don't even know it. This chick is so smart and runs such an amazing hustle, It's actually impressive🤌

Yes you can wash your pillows & dry them too.

You are forgetting a BEDSIDE FIREARM! Defending against unexpected and violent intruders is more important than any of the above...

You probably won’t touch this question, but I would be interested on your thoughts on what do you think should be considered and decided on before moving in with someone?

@CraigCatapano

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Check the local laws to make sure there is no "common law" laws. Some states she becomes your wife after a certain amount of cohabitating

1:53 For a great night's sleep my body requires a hard surface, I prefer hard wood floor or rock with a woolen blanket above and below( to avoid draft ) for a good sleep.

77inch Big screen TV Some 1/4 scale super hero statues , & graded vintage comics on the wall, Surround sound speakers, PS5, & my Series X & lastly bed 🛌 Universal gym in the garage 💪

"And who doesn't like fancy!?" HAHAHA! Love it!

Interesting evaluation. Most men do not really pay much attention to "atmosphere" in their living spaces like women do, so I'm sure this is useful. It doesn't have to be perfect, just uplifting. I have am fortunate to own a home to myself, so each room has a different visual theme according to it's purpose. Play, eat, cook, work, rest. I think it's important to divide your home according to your activities. I eat dinner every night in my dining room, even if it is alone. That's my way of honoring the way it used to be with family. My living room has all my favorite pictures, books, and memorable items. My game room has all my electronics and musical instruments. My bedroom is simple and comfortably decorated --- no TV, no computer, no toys, no distractions. And surprisingly, contains 9 out of 10 things on this list.

Another great video👌

Love your content as usual...that having been said, art is a personal thing - be it a beer box, posters...whatever: remember Tennyson said in his translation of Ulysses " I am a part of all I have met..."

While a bed frame looks nice and my fiancée wishes we had an "under the bed", I have a king-sized bed in a 10 x 12 room and there is no way to do that without blocking partially 1 of 2 windows. As it is, to add a nightstand for her the mattress sits under a window where I would have a headboard behind me. That's the concession to age and the master bedroom isn't on the main floor (where the only bathroom is) and has been converted to an entertainment room. My must haves are a book on the nightstand and a diffusor with lavender or eucalyptus to help me sleep. I have 3 Leonid Afremov prints with a robin egg blue wall color that makes them pop. Still looking for the perfect picture for the 4th wall.

Courtney you absolutely have to wash your pillows! Change pillow case weekly, wash pillow every 4-6 weeks, and replace pillows every two years. That's my routine. Also have to wash drapes regularly or get a steam cleaner for it

Ddaannggg 5k views within the hour! Keep up the great content Courtney!!

I lol 😆 when you talked about college poster. Have a great day Courtney

I’m a weird guy. I never step foot in my bedroom unless I’m going to bed or picking clothes from my closet. And that’s when my wife is at home. For years we had to live in separate countries at least 6 months of the year, and during that time when I’m alone I would sleep on the couch in the living room. If I dare sleep in the bedroom, all kinds of nightmares would plague my sleep.

@drip369

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It's not weird, it's actually a good thing because your brain does associate certain behaviors with certain environments as I quit watching TV in bed, I quit reading in bed and I quit eating in bed years ago and it has improved my sleep greatly. I also invested in red light bulbs, outlet timers, and blackout curtains just so that my bed is a sanctuary, as well as a fun place to hang out haha so now I do my reading in the living room next to another lamp with a red light bulb in it, I eat at the table and I do my reading either at the table or on the couch

Great video, Courtney! I would love your advice for me. What advice do you have for people who want to get married but not have children? I know you have expressed in other videos your desire to have children, and that is great. But children are not for everyone. I have been told to be myself and be open and honest about this choice. Of course, that is good advice even if it doesn't expediate the process. I'm even questioning whether or not marriage is for me or worthwhile pursuing.

@moleahy6880

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Agreed. Having children is not for everyone. But that's the whole point of marriage. There is no reason whatsoever, especially for a man, to get married if he doesn't want to become a father.

@001barca

Жыл бұрын

@@moleahy6880 Well its a person's choice to become a father or not. Some people wanna get married but not have kids

@moleahy6880

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@@001barca Yes, that's true. But getting married for a man makes no sense without children. Women are always ready to get married because they usually marry up. But men marry down. The tradeoff is supposed to be a family and without that, it isn't a good deal for a man.

@001barca

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@@moleahy6880 To each their own. It depends on different cultures, also different thoughts of people in the same culture. It is easily understandable that a man needs a partner more than a woman. A woman is born with more abilities than man, she can do the outdoor and financial stuff and she can do the indoor home stuff, take care of kids at the same time while most men struggle to do so. Also, easy for a woman to live alone happily without a man while its really hard for men naturally. Wife is a man's family, family ain't only with kids. Kids are an addition to an already established family. If both partners decide not to have kids, then it is totally understandable.

@moleahy6880

Жыл бұрын

​@@001barca Do you mind if I ask how old you are? I'm an older guy and have done a lotta living.

Good info Courtney Ryan thumbs up hope you are doing well 👍

A place to lay out clothes for the morning is really helpful, and a vacuum for getting all the crumbs and ants out of the bed once or twice a month is a must. Lol.

Blue blocking glasses are a must

@CourtneyRyan

Жыл бұрын

Yes!!

Fixed title: "The bedding advertisement every grown man must watch"

_"I don't know what you guys are doin'."_ 😄😳 Something about the way you said that was hilarious. First time I've ever laughed and felt insecure at the same time.

LOL at the "unknown stains on the pillows" remark. Regarding "protection" (ie condoms), how do they prevent crazy people? I know they protect against pregnancy and STDs, but I didn't know they also warded off crazy people, lol (and if they DO ward off crazy people, they must have a high failure rate)

@CourtneyRyan

Жыл бұрын

😂 making sure you don’t get stuck with one because of a pregnancy potentially! Lol

Pretty much have all that in my room, but the most important thing I have next to my bed is my turntable. Nothing like playing a record before winding down.

One of the best inventions for guys like me that haven’t had the time to learn much about art yet is the new Samsung picture frame TVs. Hang it up on the wall across the foot of your bed and you have a TV when you want to watch with your significant other on a lazy day or play games in bed and then when it’s not in use as a TV, you can have it cycle through artwork so you can at least fake like you’re sophisticated until you do get around to that art history. It also has low-profile mounts so it doesn’t even look like a TV on your wall and these picture frame border accessories. I’m not sure if other TV manufacturers have come out with anything similar, but the concept by anyone just feels really fashionable on my wall

@xpindy

Жыл бұрын

A TV? Why would you need a tv in your bedroom? It will only bother you when you are trying to read.

@CharlesChacon

Жыл бұрын

@@xpindy this was the most adorable response.

@CharlesChacon

Жыл бұрын

@@xpindy not patronizing.

I agree that I have seen enough of my phone during the day, the only time its in bed is for music, not social media. I love the Temper pedic Never ever buy a bed in a box. DEAD SERIOUS

Just a suggestion, in place of the book or supplemental, to relax I listen to books (using various apps) rather than read. Let’s my eyes rest and get to relax. Thanks Courtney!

I'm glad you brought that up, Courtney. You would be beside yourself if you knew the dungeon I live in. If I sent you a bathroom photo, you would lose your lunch when viewing it. A brief description; there is no hot water, the water that feeds the toilet tank has been bypassed, the room is at best 45 degrees, I see my breath all winter in it, to flush the toilet, there is a hose from the well-water sink runs down the side of the sink into a 5-gallon pail where you use that to flush it. The 12X14 foot room I live in has a space heater. On a good night, I can sleep well at 55 degrees, and on a cold night, it's 48 degrees with the space heater running all the time. My last shower was at my late father's house in October 2020. Since then, I have washed in my room with 49-degree well water. There's plenty where that came from. Recketeers are ruthless; people have disappeared, and I know I'm not far behind. They are the John Gotti of the 21st Century. Regards

Wow, I just litterally have all of this just right now in my badroom (thanks for my landlord for having some of this already)😅😅😅

This is clutch advice!

@CourtneyRyan

Жыл бұрын

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Would you say a few mementos from traveling are alright? I would also suggest an Air Purifier, Tissue's and a nice holder for the box, a Watchbox, and a classy streamlined (not gigantic) sound system. Cellphone speakers are terrible for any mood.

I got a 2 inch memory foam pad on the ground, a desk, power rack

1. Bedside Book - Check 2. Good Mattress - Check 3. Candles - Can candles be replaced by incense sticks or no. 4. Drapes - Check 5. Bookshelf - Will have soon 6. Paintings - Not into painting type of guy for my space 7. Full length Mirror - I do have one 8. Bed Accessories - don't have any 9. Humidifier - Will get one 10. Condoms - do you need them if you're in relationship if it's serious or no. 11. Bedside lamp - Eventually Will have one 12. Artwork - I don't know about but are vampire poster movies okay to have in a bedroom if they're framed or no what are your thoughts because I would like to know. How does this sound the list if you don't mind me asking.

@scorpionwins6378

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I went through a phase a few years ago where I was constantly burning incense. It got to a point that my bed, couch, clothing etc. everything smelled like burnt wood. Also started to develop headaches and nausea from it. The thing about incense is that you have to be in an open, well-circulated environment if you are burning it, because it can in fact be very harmful to your respiratory system. After a while I got tired of the headaches and feeling sick from my room smelling like a big bonfire pit. Just buy a candle instead.

Pretty basic and practical list for the most part, for me, here's my additions and subtractions, first the subtractions, book, drapes , humidifier, art work and since that part of my life is non existent, protection. Now the additions 2 important ones...TV and a PC desktop or laptop or both😁

Multiple full length mirrors to make the room look a bit more spacious (so the theory goes), family pictures if you're not big on art, a ceiling or oscillating fan for the hot months and an illuminated clock or clock radio so you can readily check the time without having to find your cell phone.

thanks for these videos

Courtney always coming in clutch

Love your videos. Most is just reassuring what I already know, much of this video I'm like "Ahh, this makes sense." That being said I wonder if some guy posted 10 things every grown woman needs in her bedroom, if it would get hate or not. Maybe not! Who knows! Keep it up!

Yesss the bath room cat walk… I thought I was the only one

great video this video helps us guys keep up the good work

AC unit, fan, phone charger, wall outlet, table, shelves, supplementss, tools, etc.