No ! I TAKE MIXED SIGNALS AS NO !

@marryjane1684

Жыл бұрын

Exactly lmfao 😂😂😂😂

@moeshataylor3387

Жыл бұрын

Amen

@_einodmilvado

Жыл бұрын

Same.

@Mariam-zz5wy

Жыл бұрын

thank you!

@nicbow1991

Жыл бұрын

Same

Mixed signals means they don’t like you enough to make a move plain & simple.

@Anawar29

Ай бұрын

Exactly. This video is giving people fake hopes!

@Gabrielletalise

Ай бұрын

It could be fear of rejection I advise you to break the ice and be direct. You don’t know if you don’t try

@LyliJ

12 күн бұрын

Not necessarily. In my case we are colleagues. So there is a risk of it being awkward and there is also the fear of rejection on both sides. I can tell he likes me at least as a person, and wants to be around me.

So this video is dangerously validating all of us girlies that are in a delulu situationship. I’ll take it. 🤧🎉

@vlogs.bymila

8 ай бұрын

delulu=solulu

@silverkeycreations3912

8 ай бұрын

@@vlogs.bymila yes ma’am😭💅

@cheryl2675

5 ай бұрын

😂

@Cinerouquine

5 ай бұрын

Exactly what I was thinking. All of those phoney signs might also mean you are making him uncomfortable in your presence and he’s not that into you. I found that video preposterous. Ladies: be clear with him. If he backs away: he’s not into you. Move on.

@SanctaJives

4 ай бұрын

Lol

This video just turned all the red flags into green 😂

@maiyahhx2318

Жыл бұрын

You’re too real for this 😂😂

@sunrisefairy534

Жыл бұрын

Yes

@lanadst6745

Жыл бұрын

I was thinking that too … sounds to me he is just not into you 😂

@NJM1313

10 ай бұрын

i wish i could like this comment more times so its the top one. because WHOA nope those are red flags.

@cc1k435

4 ай бұрын

This is definitely all very middle school. 😂

Dont try to decode someone! IF they want you they should be able to say it to you! IF NOT MOVE ON!

@josephvinings6173

2 ай бұрын

Brilliant! Mixed signals come from hell. They never lead to anything worthwhile

@user-mg5oe2zj6y

9 күн бұрын

Amen

Ladies this video actually makes you a chaser to the guy you like...if a man not giving you that attention you need you're not the one. Period

If he is concealing it, then he is looking for someone better but keeping you on the hook.

@bintarmupiza542

11 ай бұрын

No. We think you are out of our league, afraid of rejection

@elizabethcountess8863

11 ай бұрын

@@bintarmupiza542 interesting perspective

@rebeccagrace1509

11 ай бұрын

@@bintarmupiza542 Agreed... sometimes.we meet someone we are not ready to

@coppersulphate002

10 ай бұрын

​@@bintarmupiza542that could be true but there is some guys also think that they could do better

@tomjones5338

10 ай бұрын

No it doesn't what makes u think he's looking for another person from what I've heard women do this called monkey branching

Included: He got married to another lady cause he is battling his feelings for you😂

@erilanesantos504

9 ай бұрын

😂😂😂

@teek6333

9 ай бұрын

😂😂😂😂screamin

@akihsat

9 ай бұрын

Yea I got that for me too

@stellabenjamin-tr1ic

9 ай бұрын

This gave me a good chuckle.😀

@lauhuili1090

8 ай бұрын

😂😂

They also act like this while they're playing you.

@tabithathewholistic

7 ай бұрын

Yep!!

@hannahscott6604

9 күн бұрын

All the time!

But also if a guy treats you like this, stay away from him. Idc if he's insecure, that's no excuse for him to make _you_ feel insecure as well. If he can't build a solid foundation of trust with you, he's mentally immature and not the right one for you.

@RizkiPujiLestariKRH

7 ай бұрын

thank you 👍🏻 yeah i've met a guy like this before, and now i'm moving forward

@crystallam1721

7 ай бұрын

True. Very true.

@annbarclay3825

5 ай бұрын

what about one sided lust

My sign is always ignore the person i truly admire and have more conversations with people around them but never with them 😂

@francis7336

8 ай бұрын

way to make your crush feel insignificant and insecure about themselves lmao

@enona16

8 ай бұрын

I am the same 😄😄😄

@rebeccagrace1509

8 ай бұрын

Same.. he too beautiful to look at🙈

@stupidityshouldhurt1

6 ай бұрын

If my crush would do this, I would think they're not interested and probably don't even like me as a person.

@esperance2814

6 ай бұрын

@@stupidityshouldhurt1 the first thing is to ignore them but trust me you will know that this person like you later ,they will show you signs .... The eyes never lie 😌 the fact that i ignore this my crush is because my eyes aren't the same when I'm in front of someone i like ,my face always turns red and they can see clearly that i like them 🤭

Mixed signals means NO. Men are not that complicated. No guy who is attracted you behaves this way… he might have options or you’re a placement holder

Not gonna lie the best advices on these men are coming straight from the comments😂

A man’s perspective on this: 1. Mixed signals We are not all immature, we do not all give mixed messages to women we fancy. I suggest you avoid men who do.

@Kellystella97

5 ай бұрын

Thanks saved me type time 😅i agree

@GM-tk4db

4 ай бұрын

Thank you, I think this is something immature men do.

@Cinerouquine

4 ай бұрын

YES.

@KaTraJa3

19 сағат бұрын

💯FACTS💯

I have to disagree with the one where he is dating other people and talks about other people in front of you...Either he's not interested, or is a narcissist. and any self respecting women would not put up with that.

@aymanyounes2196

Жыл бұрын

You are so right if he sees other girls. This videos got some BS. I'd cut off a girl for good if she sees other guys or even if she were to try to make me jealous 😅

@juliealbright5191

Жыл бұрын

@@aymanyounes2196 true...If someone is dating me and another woman at the same time, He's not interested in either one, trust me. So, I am gone...I just won't give that guy an ego boost by sticking around...and I'm not desperate to have a man in my life.

@aymanyounes2196

Жыл бұрын

@@juliealbright5191 Excellent leave a guy if he acts like that. It could also mean he's a player. You deserve a good guy that's the complete opposite and loves you. Good luck

@Bubblebee47

Жыл бұрын

Agreed

@celiaescalante

11 ай бұрын

Actually, they do it to be playful, they expect you to say something sassy that will show him or her that they are stupid to pass up on you. It happened to me and I didn't know, so instead I felt the guy was trying to hurt my feelings, so it hurt my pride and it caused me CPTSD. I would bottle up feelings, instead of touching him. They love to be touched.

Except for number 3 about body language, I believe the rest is full of red flags. The hot/cold behavior, dating other people, don't asking the person out, and not being sure about his feeling, is completely unmature. I wouldn't advice to date an unmature guy, which shows these "signs".

@PrettyDreadie

Жыл бұрын

You mean immature lol

@busisama-awu9410

Жыл бұрын

​@@PrettyDreadie😂😂😂😂

@kekp3791

Жыл бұрын

I agree with you. Immature or had a trauma from a previous relationship and is afraid to take actions, but date only other people who he thinks he can have the situation under control (meaning not engaging in feelings). Both are wrong and do not allow him to enjoy life. I know a man who reacts like this with me. And while he is intelligent, admirable etc, I think he is the second case: he felt in love before, got deeply disappointed, and now is afraid to have responsibilities. 😏

@nazxra

Жыл бұрын

@@kekp3791 do you mean being afraid to be hurt or disappointed again?

@kekp3791

Жыл бұрын

@@nazxra more afraid of be hurt. That's why he is careful to not fall in love, and is always prepared to end the relationship.

It's going to save you a lot of wasted time and energy if you just wait for the right one. Never settle for a relationship because you don't want to be alone or because you don't believe that you can find better. What is meant for you, will find its way to you. 💙KZreadr That Helps People Overcome Toxic Relationships

@coudgeb

Жыл бұрын

That was very nicely said. And so right

@whosyourdaddy4579

Жыл бұрын

The "right one" isn't necessarily going to "find you"! 🙄

How to spot an emotional immature person:

If this is one man we are talking about and he is exposing 2-3 of those signs, then this is a man with a trauma and definitely not a viable relationship material, sorry. if I have to walk on eggshells and baby a guy because he is "scared", "afraid", or "insecure", I'd be way better on my own. Take notes, women, don't sell yourselves cheap.

This is horrible advice. Ladies, a man that wants you will have no problem expressing that to you. You will have no doubt that he is serious about you. Men are not as complicated as people make it seem. And in the rare case that he does have feelings for you but can’t express his true feelings to you, this means that he is emotionally immature. In this case, let it go because you don’t need someone who cannot communicate or who has emotional damage. That simple.

@rolansanchez7046

Жыл бұрын

I agree with you I got so tired of this guy at work who just keep on staring at me and smile.

@martagcd

Жыл бұрын

​@@rolansanchez7046maybe he's not single but can't help liking you

@ariyonnathebeautifulariese4104

Жыл бұрын

That’s not true. Most men aren’t good are expressing their feelings. It’s normal.

@AL_4083

11 ай бұрын

This isn’t always the case.. my ex husband had no issues with expressing how much he loves me but treated me the opposite. My best friend however, has a very difficult time expressing how much he loves me but isn’t afraid to show it! It just depends on the man!

@baby_wit_tha_cakes

11 ай бұрын

@@ariyonnathebeautifulariese4104 this is not normal for a emotionally mature man. If he cant express himself then you’re dealing with a boy.

Makes you wonder how people ever get in relationships at all if everybody’s just always scared and never asks anybody out.

Idk what to do :') liking someone is getting harder day by day

@mayalvna

6 күн бұрын

easy: don't give the time of day to this 12 year old dude described in this video. Problem solved

Everyone is so rough in this comments. Not everyone acts the same, some people won't ever admit it because they think you are way out of their league.

@tomjones5338

10 ай бұрын

​@Carol-bs6luhow about women stop thinking men don't have confidence stop pretending u understand men whrn u truly don't

@Bbate

10 ай бұрын

@Carol-bs6lulmfao your EQ is probably below 50

@trixieagustina6163

9 ай бұрын

@Carol-bs6luNobody is perfect.

@stealthy1498

8 ай бұрын

@Carol-bs6lulol this girl thinks she understands. Wish I could help.

@bastian9693

4 ай бұрын

@Carol-bs6lulol but if men go out of their way to basically flirt or send signals people think it’s creepy. Women litterally do the same thing, every human gets cold feet. Hell, this is even worse with gay people because no one ever knows if the person is straight or not. There’s so much hypocrisy in the comments

This advice is like Gina's dreams in He's not that Into You! If someone likes you, he will make it happen!!

If someone is behaving this way, depending on the time, just run.

@amolanievee

9 ай бұрын

whyyy my crush acts like this and he confessed he has a crush on me

@bastian9693

4 ай бұрын

Lol if you just run away after one instance of “mixed signals” then you’re litterally no better though

Most of the time its infatuation but not love ;I have got infatuated many times till now in my life

@whosyourdaddy4579

Жыл бұрын

But that's commonly how love starts...with infatuation that hopefully matures into real feelings of love.

If he's fighting his feelings, then obviously I'm not worth his time/emotions or whatever, I shouldn't have to convince him to ditch the hoes and choose me, or what am I missing?

Bunk! I don’t play games like a high school kid and neither does my guy. 🙄

If they are acting in this way then they are not ready for a relationship because they shouldn't have to fight it.

This makes so much sense with the guy I once got close with til he said he was no longer interested in me and doesn't like me whatsoever , and yet his actions and body language is the complete opposite. Despite these mixed signal I moved on even if this guy' truly did have feeling for me I know my worth and deserve to be with a man or won't be afraid to admit his feelings for me . And won't be in denile , and won't date either people as he know I'm the only for him , I'm with a better guy now who loves me and respect me for me , and refuses to date either people accept me , yea so I still have feeling for the old guy , but I also have really strong feelings for the new man in my life , but I wasn't going to hang around and be messed around with for the rest of my life , waiting for the old flame to realise his loss. Xx speaking out of experience here

This is making me more delulu

@Seraphim7

2 ай бұрын

Lol I was thinking about delulu Today.…. We got to Trust our Instincts… Guys who make us Feel Delulu are the Ones we Need to Stay AWAY From. ……….. They use Girls & Women to Mess + play with our heads…. Gaslighting n Such

he is a fcking 10/10 and I am heading out the door! he wants to fight his feelings? I’m out, dude!

This is game playing ladies and you don’t need to be with a BOY, you want a real MAN.

This video is horrible. This should've been directed towards teenagers because a grown ass man will be open and honest about their feelings.

What a load of rubbish- if a guy likes you then you will know about it. If not he is using you and get him out of your life if he is not a true friend. Too many mucked up blokes out there

This is SO immature!! Do NOT give this type of guy the time of day. No emotionally stable woman would ever be ok with this immature behavior.

Great to know …. Not to date ….. grow up and just be who you are ….. no don’t put up with this no one needs a little boy.

@amandabotterill1000

Жыл бұрын

True fuck buddy usually x

This is my damn co-worker. Focus Josh😂

Men are very emotional more so than women when they fall in love

@ariyonnathebeautifulariese4104

Жыл бұрын

Not true

This video should be titled Noticeable red flags to avoid 😅

@boohoo4416

9 ай бұрын

😂😂True

@bastian9693

4 ай бұрын

Lol then just move on and stop bitching about it. If you ignore them and they instantly start giving you more energy than they ever have before then you know…and if they don’t then you know

@josephvinings6173

2 ай бұрын

😂😂😂😂

Or he could be a narcissist

@CarmenRamirez-sw7qt

Жыл бұрын

Idk, I dated 2 of those, and they were quick to tell me they wanted to date/ be together.

@BodyGoals27

Жыл бұрын

Narcs pull u in really quickly They know right off the cuff they want to F your whole life up and go in for the kill

it is always most helpful to get the inside look into a "guys headspace" & their reasoning!! Thank you. :)

@whosyourdaddy4579

Жыл бұрын

Absolutely! Gotta figure out who are the psychopaths first! 😂

Yep plus feelings can turn to once they've got some friendships over showing they weren't a good friend in first place .

Why can’t he just tell me? 😂

@teanna4569

9 ай бұрын

Because he doesn’t want you to think you have power over him, sooooo to flip it around they ignore you or mistreat to gain leverage and stay in control of the relationship… or and they will slow things down and pace it or disappear and come back ….Men 🤦🏽‍♀️

@XDHelloViidaXD

9 ай бұрын

That part 😒

@kavuyisakalunda3744

4 ай бұрын

If he can't tell me how he feels about me then to hell with his mixed signals because real men knows what they want in a woman they fancy. 🤔😃

@bastian9693

4 ай бұрын

@@teanna4569what is this “relationship” control if you haven’t even started dating?? Lmao

Ugh. Flirting with others. Irritability. Ignoring. RUN

@latoyawinter3396

3 күн бұрын

this

Tjis is one of the most helpful videos yet....ty

Tooo many games

The problem is in todays world people think they are not good enough and fear rejection especially with social media and stuff where everyone strives for perfection. So don’t think someone is not interested just cause he’s too affraid to ask you out.

Thank you I know a guy like this now I know how he feels this really helped thank you for sharing

@MsLilac88

Жыл бұрын

Same here too, my guy best friend has a crush on me these 4 months but he knows that I am married.

Tbh.....mixed signals equals zero connection. Almost equates to electric shock therapy. Hey Im feelin pretty good.....then ZAP!⚡️⚡️⚡️.....wait....who are you again?

I love how dramatic my life sounds>🤣

This is like a get out of jail free card for all the wishy washy men out there...they should be a man and be real!

Thanks. This is very helpful.

Ahhh....red flags!!!...

Perfect recepie to date a narcissist, stay away ! As the video advances, it gets worst. If he seems jealous and questions you about other men, run run.

Love how all of these except for no. 3 USUALLY mean he's just highly uncomfortable around you or simply not into you. Or maybe he is, but he's mentally still a child 😑

lot of these actually apply to how I act around my crush... ugh

@amolanievee

9 ай бұрын

why?? casue my crush acts like all of these after he said he has a crush on me and he ghosted me for like a week and we’re talking again and im genuinely confused

This explains so much for me, yet at the same time, it only makes the situation look even more like murky water.... if I just take things slow and stick to the plan, then perhaps something positive can come out from this. My interest in my co-worker comes from knowing that he's a bachelor by choice, yet, he has a lot of friends that are female. If his resolve is fading when it comes to remaining single, then I guess I can just rest easy knowing that I'm playing my cards right.

@karendobbs8153

8 ай бұрын

He could be gay.

Listening all points and grow more defences 😊👍

Come on, David! I know you're concealing it. Go ahead

*I love you, and I will love you until I die, and if there's a life after that, I'll love you then.*

Now I’m more confused 🫠🤣

I had this co-worker who looks at me and smile and I look at him too in the eye but I feel so self-conscious so I walked away, I don't know what that stare means.

Thank you 🎉

#1 is a freaking massive red flag right there. Passing off this video

Fascinating ❤️😊

Was so helpful 😭 Thankyou so much 😭❤️

Mixed signals can also indicate he changed his mind and it's time to move on.

What do you call a shy person in this situation? We are talking about extroverts that act like introverts during sexual tension.

I subscribed! Great!!❤

@PsychologyElement

4 ай бұрын

Thank you so much for subscribing!

It's time wasted just say how you feel gentlemen 😜

I had these feelings for my manager while she was pregnant..

This advices is true for certain type of men.

For me, I 100% of the time DON'T KNOW WHEN MEN ARE FLIRTING WITH ME. I just don't pay attention.

All these mixed signals is most likely a NO

@ariyonnathebeautifulariese4104

Жыл бұрын

Not really, usually men would say or give direct hints that they aren’t interest. Mixed signals can turn into a yes.

Who else likes someone rn and you're watching this so you could hide it better😂

@nadia-yx6re

9 ай бұрын

You should probably do the opposite lol. They will never find out and if you keep going that route, not sure how you'll end up with someone you like. :( Inch towards showing them a LIIITTLE bit more daily.

yep i just realized he's just a crush and he does not like me back :,)

I subscribed!

@PsychologyElement

Жыл бұрын

Thank you for subscribing!

i dont deal with beta alpha will make sure you know they mark their territory 😂😂😂😂

@boohoo4416

9 ай бұрын

😂😂😂🤣love this

The man who really wants you will NEVER playing games. He will NEVER put himself in place to lose you. The real mature man will make it crystal clear and bind you. Any other than that is just immature boy not good enough/ not really care/ not ready for you. NEVER entertain a clown if you want THE KING, QUEEN. ❤

I am not 20… mixed signals are a BIG NO… step up, or step back!

I'm happy all the narcissists are finally decent and mature men according to this video.

if he did take a move, it would've been the cutest example of enemies to lovers for our entire class 😂

I'm a woman and I do ALL of them when I really like someone!! I'm an introvert.... THAT'S WHY 🤣😂😅🙈🙈🙈

If he is acting this way he has issues and you should ignore him for good. If you are unsire about a mans feelings he isnt the one. the right one will make it known for sure and will not let you get away. you wont have to do anything at first but exist.

If he struggles to know how he feels about you, then he's not sure about you. You better leave!

I’m so confused because we were flirting the other day and then he blocked me.

Such a lovely guys in the video❤

I'm not sure if I believe it until they have problems with their self confidence

I subscribed

This is all true for a man that is immature emotionally and in the age range of 6-15 imo.

@user-gr5io9jt5y

Ай бұрын

My dick head was 63! I ran😂

🤷‍♀️ if the person does not have feelings for me like that really strong then I rather be left alone from the person if I knew exactly who that is.

What if a guy you have been mutual friends with for years tells you he cares for you but wouldn’t even dance with you? I tried dancing with him and he totally dodged it even though i was trying to be friendly about it(We have danced together before either of us got married to different people)

@MissJJoan

Жыл бұрын

Unless you’re both widowed/divorced I wouldn’t recommend dancing with him either. Can’t lead to anything good if you’re both currently married. For future reference, the thing you need to understand about guys is they can like you but not necessarily enough to pursue a relationship with you. As a rule of thumb, flirt for a week or two and if he doesn’t ask you out move on. It’s the best way trust me.

@stuartlincoln4943

Жыл бұрын

Maybe he wants to so much, it physically hurts him not to be with you, so needs to hold back …. No point in having you in his arms for 5 minutes if it can’t be longer.

@tamikawahl7540

Жыл бұрын

@@MissJJoan I see what you are saying but I don’t understand why it’s and issue to dance now when it wasn’t before? Yes we are married to two other people, who also know one another very well. We are all friends at the end of the day 🙂

@delmi864

9 ай бұрын

Dont xaste your tome. My advice.

Simply put… men r a walking contradiction…🙄

I am experiencing number 1 now. What should I do? He acts like he does not care anymore and he isn’t smiling anymore. ( last week he was smiling) Help 😫 I don’t want him to hate me. 😢

I KNEW IT

I act the same way. If I'm struggling with my feelings, I ignore you to a point. If I see you coming I will go down a different path. I will speak and have a good conversation with you if we can break the ice. Then, I will struggle with my feelings if it's something unattainable to me and I will ignore you in order to get myself under control. So frankly, if they are ignoring you then I think it's not because they don't like you or aren't attracted to you, but because you are off limits for some reason. If YOU don't think there is a reason a relationship should be off limits then I think ladies should pursue a tad. Go talk to him, get in his space. As long as you don't settle for anything less than what you really want. A long term forever relationship marriage thing lolll

My guy texts then don't texts. Sometimes hes talktive sometimes not. When we see each other everything is great

@annabarone8727

Жыл бұрын

He confuses me

This was interesting but i just dont buy it. most men who ignore you ect end up ignoring you permenantly

This is me.. I'm not a guy... LOL