Thanks for watching the video! Comment below and let me know how you're going to implement these tips!

@bhp000

Жыл бұрын

I just looked something up called avoidant personality disorder. Sounds serious!

@SocialConfidenceMastery

Жыл бұрын

@@bhp000 What made you look that up?

@bhp000

Жыл бұрын

@@SocialConfidenceMastery when tying in keywords 'hard talking to people'

Thanks for this video. It's kinda hard to admit, but the last part hit me like a truck. I was so needy for relying on my old friends who have mostly stopped talking with me. I didn't realize that I simply had to keep making new friends.

@SocialConfidenceMastery

2 жыл бұрын

I appreciate you sharing that!

@SocialConfidenceMastery

2 жыл бұрын

Out of curiosity, what type of people would you like to meet?

@justibe_213

Жыл бұрын

Same, my old friends stopped talking to me too. No specific reason just life I guess.

1. You don't go out enough. no-shit tier 2. no social skills; no-shit tier (watch videos on the subject) 3. too busy; stop being busy 4. low energy. strategies your energy. 5. shut up jeff 6. no confidence; no outgoing energy; be positive 7. you look unapproachable; dress 'nice' 'smile' 8. overthinking 9. accept failures 10. find mutual interest circles meh thanks and yw summarize readers

@SocialConfidenceMastery

Жыл бұрын

Which tip did you find the most helpful?

Don’t go out enough,and when I do I go alone 😂😂

I would say not going out enough and low self-esteem. I’m working to change that by just getting out of the house more and going out alone in hopes of meeting people. I also hope to befriend people at my job too

@SocialConfidenceMastery

2 жыл бұрын

That's great to hear!

@SocialConfidenceMastery

2 жыл бұрын

Out of curiosity, what do you do for work?

@mr.ninjawarrior4516

2 жыл бұрын

@@SocialConfidenceMastery I work in retail

@SocialConfidenceMastery

2 жыл бұрын

@@mr.ninjawarrior4516 Which store?

@mr.ninjawarrior4516

2 жыл бұрын

@@SocialConfidenceMastery Walmart

Low self esteem so true I feel I'm just nobody and don't deserve anything good

@SocialConfidenceMastery

Жыл бұрын

Is everything okay?

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I wish they taught this stuff in school! Thanks for sharing your knowledge!

@SocialConfidenceMastery

2 жыл бұрын

I totally agree with you!

@SocialConfidenceMastery

2 жыл бұрын

I'm glad you found the video helpful!

Really helpful video. I was struggling to express the actual reasons for my social awkwardness and having no social life . But I got the accurate answer and solution for my problems. Hope everyone could be kind to themselves and to others.☺️

@SocialConfidenceMastery

8 ай бұрын

That's great to hear! Happy you got value from this video!

How am I supposed to go out if I don’t have anyone to go out with? I’ve been to the bar by myself before and felt like a f***** WEIRDO

@SocialConfidenceMastery

Жыл бұрын

I go out by myself all the time but I don't like going to bars and clubs!

@SocialConfidenceMastery

Жыл бұрын

Try to find a venue that's more structured that you also enjoy!

Can't go out much when living with parents. Even if your 27. 28.30.40 years old.

@SocialConfidenceMastery

2 жыл бұрын

Sorry to hear about your experience!

@SocialConfidenceMastery

2 жыл бұрын

Any plans on moving out and getting your own place?

I've just accepted that I'm not going to have friends as an adult

@SocialConfidenceMastery

Жыл бұрын

Why is that?

@seanyt4570

Жыл бұрын

Same with me

My life is ok rn but i don’t get invited to any activities outside school, I’ve tried making my own but they never work out, idk how to get out of this limbo do you know? I try to be the best guy I can in front of my friends but outside of school I really have no relationships which I want to change

im introverted, don’t have any social skills and have autism. im content with my life and im happy the way i am because the internet exists :P

@SocialConfidenceMastery

Жыл бұрын

As long as you're happy!

@bittersweetindustryexecutive

Жыл бұрын

@jyn 🫐 Glad to hear you're happy! I think you actually DO have a social skill: You're actually able to interact with people on the internet. It may be a different KIND of social skill, it's still a SOCIAL skill though. Stay happy! :)

Tbh I thought that I was the problem, and that I was antisocial, but It turns out that its the other that have no interest in hanging out with me or just getting to know me, I guess I am not that fun and interesting I am a bit of an introvert but I like hanging out with people, and meeting them and just going out and having fun, but others don't really enjoy me I guess.

@nimazsheik5152

2 жыл бұрын

Get a 'fuck them' attitude. His last point was on the money, most of my friends got married and moved on with their lives. After watching this video I realized that I relied on those old friends without making new ones. Well now things are going to change and I need to go to more events and stuff and make new friends.

@SocialConfidenceMastery

2 жыл бұрын

Sorry to hear that!

@SocialConfidenceMastery

2 жыл бұрын

Out of curiosity, what type of people would you like to meet?

@SocialConfidenceMastery

2 жыл бұрын

I'm so happy to hear that Nimaz!

@SocialConfidenceMastery

2 жыл бұрын

What would you say is your biggest struggle socially?

Left school in 2020, me and my friends all went our separate routes and slowly stopped talking, I was never that social but I haven’t had any proper irl social interaction since 2023 and it’s starting to get sad.

@SocialConfidenceMastery

Жыл бұрын

Sorry to hear that!

@SocialConfidenceMastery

Жыл бұрын

What's your biggest struggle socially?

@whoareyou3571

Жыл бұрын

@@SocialConfidenceMastery honestly idek, I typically do alright talking to people but I just get anxious going outside, I think it’s down to my disease, I got diagnosed with chrons disease and it’s very unpredictable, I got diagnosed around the same time I left school.

Follow the List -Hard Work -Make Money -Make Exercity -Get High -Party Crazy -Sleep Good -Repeat

@SocialConfidenceMastery

Жыл бұрын

How's that working out for you?

@andartedesign3692

Жыл бұрын

@@SocialConfidenceMastery For a week between Monday and Friday, I work hard, exercise and get high, to sleep well. Between Friday night and Sunday night, I vary between resting and enjoying a good party, sometimes I go out to practice hobbies that is after, of course, doing the housework in the morning.

Or someone with a learning disability I feel people avoid me like the plague because of my disability. I still live with parents at 30 years old which is an automatic red flag I don’t know how to drive because of my learning disability two big red flags to finding a girlfriend or making friends.

@SocialConfidenceMastery

Жыл бұрын

Sorry to hear that!

this has made me dumbstruck, you were truly amazing xd

@SocialConfidenceMastery

2 жыл бұрын

I'm so happy to hear that!

@SocialConfidenceMastery

2 жыл бұрын

Which reason did you relate to the most?

Accept invitations? Bold of you to assume I get those

@nicoyablackmon7004

10 ай бұрын

I never received an invitation anywhere in like 20 years

Man I could use this adult I just not made a friend never knew how to get past step a. Problem is I never knew anyone

@SocialConfidenceMastery

2 жыл бұрын

I hear you for sure!

@SocialConfidenceMastery

2 жыл бұрын

How are things socially on your end?

@Frogger-by1cu

2 жыл бұрын

A work in progress I only made one or two friends in my life

@Frogger-by1cu

2 жыл бұрын

@@SocialConfidenceMastery being on the spectrum with social anxiety doesn’t help

But i feel like i am battle enemy and loss myself and lost social life after abuse, live alone, feel empty, didn know gt social life

@SocialConfidenceMastery

2 жыл бұрын

Sorry to hear that!

@SocialConfidenceMastery

2 жыл бұрын

What have you done so far to improve your situation?

I'll have no social skills for ever then 😂😂😂

@SocialConfidenceMastery

8 ай бұрын

What do you mean by that?

@banginzaza

8 ай бұрын

@@SocialConfidenceMastery Yes sir. I acknowledge I have no social skills and I'm content with it.

i dont want a social life. i want it nice calm and peaceful

@SocialConfidenceMastery

Жыл бұрын

Then why did you watch this video?

@SocialConfidenceMastery

Жыл бұрын

Are you saying you don't want meaningful relationships with others?

Please tell that not going out for a long period of time afffects mental health?

@SocialConfidenceMastery

Жыл бұрын

It does, like a lot!

@harsh1388

Жыл бұрын

@Social Confidence Mastery one of best videos I have watched today How to contact you any email or anything

@SocialConfidenceMastery

Жыл бұрын

@@harsh1388 That's great to hear! Thank you for the kind words!

@SocialConfidenceMastery

Жыл бұрын

@@harsh1388 Which tip did you like the most?

@SocialConfidenceMastery

Жыл бұрын

@@harsh1388 Send a DM on Instagram @socialconfidencemastery

I have no social life. My brain hurts. I can feel it dying.

@SocialConfidenceMastery

Жыл бұрын

Sorry to hear that!

@SocialConfidenceMastery

Жыл бұрын

What's holding you back from putting yourself out there?

@rol407

Жыл бұрын

​@@SocialConfidenceMastery childhood and people can't be trusted

@SocialConfidenceMastery

Жыл бұрын

@@rol407 What makes you say that?

Thank you! Overcoming porn and masterbation is difficult but worth it.

saddest thing i’ve searched up

@SocialConfidenceMastery

Жыл бұрын

You're not alone!

@SocialConfidenceMastery

Жыл бұрын

How are things socially on your end? Anything you need help with?

Its really sad that youre here.

Feel intrude no one udt me

@SocialConfidenceMastery

2 жыл бұрын

I'm not exactly sure what you mean by this!

I'm glad I look unapproachable because if you can't come to me being yourself. I don't want you to even come near me. Let alone look at me. Anyways I dress and smell good. I'm blk anyways. So no one cares 😂😂😂

Brooo you did a great job but the thing is i cant understand your speed english🥲

@SocialConfidenceMastery

2 жыл бұрын

Thanks for the feedback!

@SocialConfidenceMastery

2 жыл бұрын

Which tip did you find the most helpful?

It's always funny to me watching this type of video and advice because it's almost ALWAYS presented by and features *younger people* . Believe me, when you're older, i.e. 55+, divorced, an introvert and don't use social media, all this advice is practically worthless.

@SocialConfidenceMastery

Жыл бұрын

Why do you think so?