10 biggest red flags to watch out for in women

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0:42 Has no female friends
1:56 Talks badly about her ex
3:08 Super into you super quickly
4:09 Hot and cold
5:06 Never admits fault or wrongdoing
6:19 No goals or hobbies
7:24 Doesn't know what she wants
8:35 Man hating behaviors
9:54 She lies
11:07 Doesn't know anything about you
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  • @lonerider8243
    @lonerider82433 жыл бұрын

    1-No female friends 2-Talks bad about ex 3-gets into you too quickly 4-SHe is hot & cold 5-Never admits being wrong/doesn't compromise/treats things in black & white 6-No goals or hobbies 7-She doesnt know what she wants 8-shows man hating behaviour 9-Lying 10-doesnt know anything about you

  • @nikosv8166

    @nikosv8166

    3 жыл бұрын

    oh man i met a girl with 8 of these qualities.... was a nightmare and so hard to get rid of her

  • @gingerbreadzak

    @gingerbreadzak

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@nikosv8166 same🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @devinrodgers2911

    @devinrodgers2911

    3 жыл бұрын

    Narcissist

  • @Raptured_and_back

    @Raptured_and_back

    3 жыл бұрын

    Or ruminating and talking about good things about her ex is a flag she is more attached to him than you

  • @marrenrue7731

    @marrenrue7731

    3 жыл бұрын

    All women do number 5

  • @PrimalKingTV
    @PrimalKingTV3 жыл бұрын

    I agree. If she has no interest at all. Her main focus will be you and trust me you do not want that.

  • @ahabrawgaming1289
    @ahabrawgaming12893 жыл бұрын

    Don't be mr. Repair Be mr.ignore and live happily.

  • @themorningsky2632
    @themorningsky26323 жыл бұрын

    Dated a girl who rarely apologized to me. Whenever I got mad at something she did or say, she always said "you misunderstood me." She was playing me like a harmonica.

  • @exoticindiaa

    @exoticindiaa

    2 жыл бұрын

    That's Gaslighting dude ! She is miserable, her own mind would eat her like maggots one day, you just dodged a land mine

  • @TheSingleGuy
    @TheSingleGuy3 жыл бұрын

    Pay attention to whether YOU are giving off some of these red flags, relationships are a two way street. Sometimes women will mimic your behavior. Also if you guys think of any others that I missed please post them below!

  • @excallibur4574

    @excallibur4574

    3 жыл бұрын

    Yep. The lying one is key. A healthy relationship has transparency, honesty, & no lying. I refused to be transparent with my girl for months about something then finally caught her lying to me (Because she was trying to mimic my behavior). Checked her on it, fixed it by being transparent going forward & she hasn't lied to me since

  • @cb6083

    @cb6083

    3 жыл бұрын

    I always mirror men's behavior... whenever I see and feel any of those red flags..... sorry guys 🙈😅 you'll get them back, before I walk away and let go

  • @chriswood922

    @chriswood922

    3 жыл бұрын

    Dated a girl that everyone said was a total liar, crazy, manipulative, for about three months we hung out and vibed like we knew each other for years she was very beautiful and I'm always saying to myself this girl or that girls way to good for me which I know is bad to do I just can't help it at the moment but she wanted to get into a relationship and I wasn't so sure cuz I knew I'd get attached to her, but took her pov in perspective maybe thinking she's changed idk, we got matching tattoos that had half hearts on her finger half on mine and she'd kinda imitate how I have alot of respect with life and Loyalty amongst everything in life, rn lol so two weeks ago she says she's going to pick up her brother with her sister in georgia and we're in Indiana so she's texting me saying ,"I miss your face, or love you miss you" gets back in three days and ghosts me for a week straight and I told her from the start that we should've just been friends but still swore up and down she was being honest with me but obviously she just wanted to play some sorta mind games or emotionally needs attention from who or whatever I just thought wow three months out I'd honestly give her a golden globe nominee for how genuine she did act with me and just got together and was great but yes she just acts like I'm extinct now so idk

  • @lyleburlingame2276

    @lyleburlingame2276

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@excallibur4574 you caught her lying because she was trying to mimic you ? No brother. That not why people lie. They lie to hide things they arnt proud of, ashamed of or things they want to hide. I think you should examine that and don't be blaming yourself for the reason you caught your girl lying to you

  • @Toxic2T

    @Toxic2T

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@chriswood922 bltches swing that way, trust me you dodget a bullet.

  • @TuomasSjogren
    @TuomasSjogren3 жыл бұрын

    Guys, do not miss these red flags in a women. I was recently with a girl who had at least 7 of these signs and holy shit, when you're too caught up in the romance you forget that women should also respect you and give you what you need! Now that I look back at it, everything makes sense now and I'm happy that I moved forward in life.

  • @davorebo5790

    @davorebo5790

    3 жыл бұрын

    Yea.. its great to watch these videos for reminders ... I had a few leaches in my life

  • @willperry9324

    @willperry9324

    3 жыл бұрын

    100% bro my ex had like 9 of them and holy fuck love blinds you. So true focus on yourself kings

  • @aten8953

    @aten8953

    3 жыл бұрын

    Same here I ignored or let slide all those red flags, 2 years wasted

  • @kirilmihaylov1934

    @kirilmihaylov1934

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@aten8953 me too 1 year

  • @Sharkenite

    @Sharkenite

    3 жыл бұрын

    I agree as well. I had my own flaws as well in yhe relationship because I thought it was all me but holy damn this video listed a half of what my ex was. The sex and romance deluded me from reality. What's worse is that everyone around me was watching us too and they all tried to warn me but I didn't listen. Or couldn't listen from the overdose of serotonin clouding my vision. Never again.

  • @willperry9324
    @willperry93243 жыл бұрын

    Bruh my ex was all of these 10 😂 I'm gonna buy a dog and stay single

  • @fionagrant2023

    @fionagrant2023

    3 жыл бұрын

    My dog gives me more love than anyone ever has. Its a win win for both of us

  • @patrioticaussiesams8581

    @patrioticaussiesams8581

    3 жыл бұрын

    Already have but I have classic cars instead of a dog..

  • @helensanderson7092

    @helensanderson7092

    3 жыл бұрын

    That's what I did when I saw his red flags

  • @nikosv8166

    @nikosv8166

    3 жыл бұрын

    dude, the brutal truth is these sorts of women are not girlfriend material... they are commonly referred to as 'pump and dump'. More PUA's need to expose these traits as I find guys are led into a trap of 'dating' one of these monsters because they are good looking..

  • @tomforan8516

    @tomforan8516

    3 жыл бұрын

    A Friend of mine - when his wife left, he was Sad. But when later his Dog died, he Cried .......

  • @Thagy1973
    @Thagy19733 жыл бұрын

    He is absolutely correct on these!! Had a girl that got waaay too into me waaay too fast and sure enough...crazy asf!! 🤣🤣

  • @Azinoqq
    @Azinoqq3 жыл бұрын

    11. She doesn't respect your hobbies. Girl once told me that the thing I do for 8 years+ is "a waste of time"

  • @gregorfrim2898

    @gregorfrim2898

    3 жыл бұрын

    and what was that?

  • @gamingvids6651

    @gamingvids6651

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@gregorfrim2898 for me, its fun stuff with my right hand

  • @goat7651

    @goat7651

    3 жыл бұрын

    If it gave you joy then it was not a waste of time 💊🤔🥱

  • @kevinmalone3210

    @kevinmalone3210

    3 жыл бұрын

    Completely disrespectful and a waste of your time.

  • @raskal5988

    @raskal5988

    3 жыл бұрын

    Video games are a waste of time unless you're making money from it.

  • @neilazeez101
    @neilazeez1013 жыл бұрын

    What I like about this is I can apply these red flags to myself on the male side, and see what I can do better too! Thanks Lloyd!

  • @legitimatte
    @legitimatte3 жыл бұрын

    So there was this one girl I really liked. She ended up breaking my heart before we were even in a relationship. Watching this, I see that she has some of these red flags. However, I saw I actually myself(a guy), had some of these issues too. My point is, don’t forget to self reflect on yourself.

  • @nomsamkhize2241

    @nomsamkhize2241

    3 жыл бұрын

    Very true brother!!!

  • @nomsamkhize2241

    @nomsamkhize2241

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@username-ze9fx That was a very good decision you took. But just be 100%sure that you did not Love her deeply.otherwise you might not be happy at all. I mean if True Love is There.... If you Love her,communicate... express yourself how you would like things be done.

  • @thunderflashcodm3934

    @thunderflashcodm3934

    2 жыл бұрын

    Istg bro... I saw a few of them in my too

  • @kage353

    @kage353

    2 жыл бұрын

    How do you get your heartbroken before even in a relationship😂 you sir are a professional sucker

  • @kubel83

    @kubel83

    Жыл бұрын

    You were not in a relationship. Ergo you broke your own heart. You put her on a high pedestal. You tricked your own mind in to believing you had something when you clearly didn’t. That’s on you and not her. So I will say that is selfish to blame her for that. Perhaps she just saw you as a kind person and not relationship material. Nothing more, nothing less. I’m not trying to be mean to you. And I’m sure you really liked her. I’m just saying you set yourself up believing this was more than it was.

  • @SuffocateMe
    @SuffocateMe2 жыл бұрын

    # 3 is basically just BPD 😂 and yeah you really need to get out of there if there's any signs of that

  • @SuperJason707

    @SuperJason707

    2 жыл бұрын

    BPD results from childhood abuse. Yes, you need to get out of there fast. Even many psychiatrists can’t fix this. And if you are not one, you can never fix her.

  • @Koettnylle
    @Koettnylle3 жыл бұрын

    I played around with reinterpreting these red flags into green flags. Here's my take on what to look for: Has both male and female friends Rarely speaks about her ex, and if she does it's not all negative Shows a healthy balance between interest and independence Maintains fair consistency and mutuality with regards to contact Shows a healthy balance of standing up for herself, and being humble Has goals or interests besides the relationship Knows what she wants in relationships (Has a healthy amount of self-knowledge) Respects men Is honest Shows interest in what's going on in your life

  • @katherinemansfield4722

    @katherinemansfield4722

    3 жыл бұрын

    omg! these are all wonderful

  • @MelisseDelice87

    @MelisseDelice87

    3 жыл бұрын

    Very good!!! I look for many of these traits. I think the 4th (healthy balance between interest and independence) is VERY important. Also, the more I go on in life, I say it's quite suspicious when someone is not able to befriend people from both sexes.

  • @katherinemansfield4722

    @katherinemansfield4722

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@MelisseDelice87 yh

  • @ruffdawgg

    @ruffdawgg

    3 жыл бұрын

    Yes!

  • @mattl1962

    @mattl1962

    3 жыл бұрын

    Love it. It makes me realise that sometimes, negative thought patterns can drive our mindset more than we like to admit. Admittedly, red flags are usually like things you're not thinking about but they bug you subconsciously and you don't know why. That's all a red flag is. Putting a name to the thing that bugs you. Green flags are universal.

  • @blacklightrr
    @blacklightrr3 жыл бұрын

    This info is priceless. I made a huge mistake and gave my heart to a BPD girl six years after my divorce and she crushed my self esteem. I have to work hard to regain what I lost during those 6 years.

  • @kirilmihaylov1934

    @kirilmihaylov1934

    3 жыл бұрын

    This chicks with psycho problems are the worst to deal with. She will try to project the shit on you . Fuck that .Run ASAP

  • @SuffocateMe

    @SuffocateMe

    2 жыл бұрын

    NEVER date a BPD girl

  • @valeriakraynova5078
    @valeriakraynova50783 жыл бұрын

    Nothing but the truth! And what was pleasant is that you mentioned it in a respectful way!

  • @marko1401
    @marko14013 жыл бұрын

    Doesn't know what she wants, then says there are no quality guys out there. lol :)

  • @ahabrawgaming1289

    @ahabrawgaming1289

    3 жыл бұрын

    I don't blame women who say that cause they basically have a beta male father 🤣

  • @PeerlessUtopian

    @PeerlessUtopian

    3 жыл бұрын

    They know exactly what they want, they merely pretend not to so they can manipulate men.

  • @jakehawkins8669

    @jakehawkins8669

    3 жыл бұрын

    Amen to that brother

  • @innocentone8212

    @innocentone8212

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@PeerlessUtopian qq00

  • @urijahfaith2961

    @urijahfaith2961

    3 жыл бұрын

    I've heard this too. Dumbest shit lol

  • @adramelke1722
    @adramelke17223 жыл бұрын

    basically, figure out how to spot a narcissist and avoid them like the plague

  • @TYE2020
    @TYE20203 жыл бұрын

    Find the right partner who's gud for u and who's gonna make your life emotionally fulfilling

  • @mlopez3567
    @mlopez35672 жыл бұрын

    Thanks for the videos. I'm not just learnings about other people's behavior but also doing some self analysis at the same time.

  • @abrahamisaacsalomon9738
    @abrahamisaacsalomon97383 жыл бұрын

    Love this! Sounds like a common denominator between a few of those points is girls with a "victim" mentality, big red flag

  • @user-sb6iw1pk7k
    @user-sb6iw1pk7k3 жыл бұрын

    14 minutes of wisdom. Thanks bro

  • @DOW1100
    @DOW11003 жыл бұрын

    I've dated girls with manyof the attributes you described above and I made similar experiences to you, the vid is very on-point. Keep up the good work!

  • @ParryLinn
    @ParryLinn3 жыл бұрын

    His and Coach Corey' ideas really have helped me passing through many of transitions that I considered hard in life!

  • @Corrinthian_
    @Corrinthian_3 жыл бұрын

    " _Only_ a Sith deals in absolutes " 🤓

  • @minder4u1

    @minder4u1

    3 жыл бұрын

    yeah otherwise you could get sithilis

  • @NUDZZZ

    @NUDZZZ

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@minder4u1 HAHA

  • @NoFriendLikeJesus

    @NoFriendLikeJesus

    3 жыл бұрын

    Is that absolutely true?

  • @christar331

    @christar331

    3 жыл бұрын

    Confident players have the high ground.

  • @fatalradius
    @fatalradius3 жыл бұрын

    Excellent list! #3 is a hit or miss, I'd say it's a red flag if she wants to be with you way too often from the get go.

  • @user-JamesBond
    @user-JamesBond3 жыл бұрын

    I love this video! Such great advice! Finally somebody that can point out what crazy women are. I had this one girl that was so into me and then broke it off and now I am in the absolute no contact rule. I even filed a restraining order

  • @cptdurr
    @cptdurr3 жыл бұрын

    you basically named 99 procent of young girls, i have lot of trouble with these types, they give me a lot of troubles and headaches

  • @legitimatte

    @legitimatte

    3 жыл бұрын

    Yeahhhh. Be smart when young and stay out of the dating game. Work on yourself first. Over half these people don’t even know themselves and they’re creating this crazy relationships and it always leads in heart-break. All good things come in time.

  • @omarhinojosa279

    @omarhinojosa279

    3 жыл бұрын

    What age is considered young to yall ?

  • @legitimatte

    @legitimatte

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@omarhinojosa279 I think that it really depends on the two people and the circumstances of the relationship. But that’s just my opinion.

  • @BG-sq7zf

    @BG-sq7zf

    3 жыл бұрын

    1st Take: "My advice to women is date all of them: the bad boys, the cool boys, the commitment-phobic boys, the crazy boys. But do not marry them. The things that make the bad boys sexy do not make them good husbands. When it comes time to settle down, find someone who wants an equal partner. Someone who thinks women should be smart, opinionated and ambitious. Someone who values fairness and expects or, even better, wants to do his share in the home. These men exist and, trust me, over time, nothing is sexier." Yours sincerely, Sheryl Sandberg, chief operating officer of Facebook 2nd Take: “My music is always going to make a woman feel like a bad bitch. When you make a woman feel like she’s the baddest bitch in the room, to me, that’s female empowerment.” Decently yours, Cardi B. My Humble Take: What most simps, feminist fe/males, white-knights, betas and conservative guys fail to realize: bad boys provide excitement, novelty, unpredictability and fun (fear, roller-coaster drama) to a new level. In other words, stability and commitment (no longer) won't cut it for today's 🦄. Why is that? Before she was your girlfriend, wife or lover, she already had been "run through" so many guys. And each time she slept with someone (both wo/men), she lost a part of her psyche, well-being or mind/soul/spirit. In other words, she is no longer able to have emotional attachment in a healthy or committed way. *The Myth of Male Power* by Warren Farrell *The Feminist Lie: It Was Never About Equality* by Bob Lewis *Anatomy of Female Power* by Chinweizu Ibekwe *Men on Strike* by Helen Smith *Silent Weapons for Quiet Wars: An Introductory Programing Manual* by Anonymous *The Rational Male Series* by Rollo Tomassi *The Manipulated Man* by Esther Vilar Isaiah 3:12 *Childish* leaders oppress my people, and *women* rule over them. O my people, your leaders mislead you; they send you down the wrong road. Proverbs 31:3 Don't give your strength (attention, resources, mental point origen) to women, nor your ways to that which destroys kings.

  • @cherylowen1093

    @cherylowen1093

    3 жыл бұрын

    Dude go to school and learn how to spell! (Percent)

  • @lil_per_vert
    @lil_per_vert3 жыл бұрын

    If a womam doesn't have a hobby, You are her hobby! 😁😂

  • @themadasshatter1088

    @themadasshatter1088

    3 жыл бұрын

    Cliche dating site profile- "Love hiking, traveling," Hiking= Walking. Not a hobby. Traveling= Going different places. Not a hobby.

  • @ToxicAfricanKing

    @ToxicAfricanKing

    3 жыл бұрын

    😂😂😂

  • @lil_per_vert

    @lil_per_vert

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@themadasshatter1088 true

  • @zippyblessed839

    @zippyblessed839

    2 жыл бұрын

    True

  • @amnestylost
    @amnestylost3 жыл бұрын

    VERY real talk. Some of the best from you, IMO.

  • @adewusisunday7433
    @adewusisunday74333 жыл бұрын

    Thank you for sharing these 10 red flags. It is really helpful

  • @paulovenz8037
    @paulovenz80373 жыл бұрын

    Great video, thanks, the ending point helps, that you don't date girls like that anymore , because you put out the right energy

  • @stonks1150
    @stonks11503 жыл бұрын

    This guy is a fountain of knowledge! Thanks for everything you do bro!

  • @movementencouragedfitness5945
    @movementencouragedfitness59452 жыл бұрын

    Man this is unbelievably accurate.

  • @CosminPerisan
    @CosminPerisan3 жыл бұрын

    Lloyd, you shine a good light on us, man! Keep up the good work!

  • @colmanr5572
    @colmanr5572 Жыл бұрын

    I love this video man - very accurate, i've watched it a few times since you first posted it, despite this I recently ignored your red flag number 3 (super into you super quickly) - she seemed pretty mature and to have her whole life really together, career, family (etc). But yeah about 6 weeks in and the craziness comes out, I managed to break it off quickly but I won't be ignoring this video again! Cheers!

  • @mattbrooks456
    @mattbrooks456 Жыл бұрын

    I’ve been watching your channel for years dealing with some really tough situations. One struck a chord, especially the idea of being into me within a couple of weeks. It made me realize she’s dating the idea of me, and not be. And win an argument does arise that image fades. We’re I to keep down this path, I would have to put on an image of a person that I’m not. As always, thank you for the insight

  • @davidwjohnstone5613
    @davidwjohnstone56132 жыл бұрын

    Bro such a legend! going through a tough time after a breakup and even just this video has opened my eyes a lot

  • @Plarocks
    @Plarocks3 жыл бұрын

    This was such a good, eye opening video. My Ex-Wife had SEVERAL of these 10 red flags. I am getting up there, and I actually want to marry a woman that is better than my ex-wife. This video really laid out a path. I also thought the production value was excellent. Hard truths my friend. Thank you for them.

  • @teniolakayode2585
    @teniolakayode25853 жыл бұрын

    Omg she checks everything on the list

  • @VikesHike
    @VikesHike3 жыл бұрын

    thanks for the tips, Lloyd. also thanks for the session you did on Saturday, it was helpful

  • @Nappygurl8021
    @Nappygurl80213 жыл бұрын

    I want to give you a hug. I think you need a real one with no hidden agenda 🌈🌱🌄

  • @LuisArias-ui5dw
    @LuisArias-ui5dw3 жыл бұрын

    All this knowledge u just dropped was pure facts dude.. bros be careful with all those conniving broads out there stay up Lloyd 😎🤘

  • @saundrell3
    @saundrell33 жыл бұрын

    Thanks for the video. This was painful but very helpful.

  • @repswithroscoe
    @repswithroscoe3 жыл бұрын

    "I am not in the fixing women business" hahahaha must be nice - how do I quit?

  • @montamiddleton9318

    @montamiddleton9318

    3 жыл бұрын

    Don't date women that need fixing its that simple.

  • @christeluy

    @christeluy

    2 жыл бұрын

    Remind yourself always: It is not your job to fix anyone. You can try to be supportive but if she doesn't try to help herself then there's nothing you can do for her. It's hard to help someone who doesn't want help. Set healthy boundaries for your own peace of mind. Maintaining good mental and emotional health is important too.

  • @jnbovee
    @jnbovee3 жыл бұрын

    Very good video. Informative and honestly entertaining, too

  • @drew1841
    @drew18413 жыл бұрын

    Super helpful video! Well done dude. Another one to remember is what is a girl’s relationship like with her family and parents and what was her upbringing like. It’s sad and I hate to have to admit it but I’ve seen too many times that women who experience traumatic events in childhood or during their upbringing, end up having major issues later in life particularly with relationships.

  • @fionagrant2023

    @fionagrant2023

    3 жыл бұрын

    Its not their fault they were abused. If you demonstrate you are worth trusting then a woman will trust you but if she has been mistreated its not her fault

  • @michellenorman7798
    @michellenorman77983 жыл бұрын

    Im a woman and i can say none of us are perfect.same with men . My advice ...trust your instimct.

  • @TheSingleGuy

    @TheSingleGuy

    2 жыл бұрын

    Absolutely, this was not meant as an attack on anyone. I myself have been guilty of some of these. If you see someone exhibiting them consistently you don't have to leave them but I would at least address it. See if they are willing to change or it can be worked out. You're right, no one is perfect but if the person is willing to work with you then a lot of issues can be fixed.

  • @michellenorman7798

    @michellenorman7798

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@TheSingleGuy so true .takes effort but i tbink its worth it to work on it.whatever it may be.

  • @THCNooB

    @THCNooB

    2 жыл бұрын

    Should I Trust In Your Keyboard ?

  • @brianrhodes8369

    @brianrhodes8369

    2 жыл бұрын

    Dated all of these.. and here I am 37 and single.

  • @kingchris5516
    @kingchris55163 жыл бұрын

    Dope content as always

  • @blissfulmale
    @blissfulmale3 жыл бұрын

    Bro, this is a brilliant video and very helpful. Thank you.

  • @MsAnchovey
    @MsAnchovey3 жыл бұрын

    This are good points for both men and women. Watch for it in yourself, men.

  • @videosofcourse
    @videosofcourse3 жыл бұрын

    7 bro.. so true.. you’re awesome!

  • @TheSahand68
    @TheSahand683 жыл бұрын

    Great analysis, right on the target, so true!

  • @erikjohansson6579
    @erikjohansson65793 жыл бұрын

    Wholesome, good advice Lloyd.

  • @MrKChris1
    @MrKChris13 жыл бұрын

    All 10 points spot on!

  • @nimkal
    @nimkal Жыл бұрын

    Absolutely amazing points. Have respect for yourself, and she should care too if we are too care. I will no longer be attempting to be the guy that tries to help fix the girl that has issues or doesn't know what she wants, because they're also not respectful and don't give a damn. You deserve way better than an attention seeker who probably seeks the same from others simultaneously and is lying to you. Nope, screw that. Get someone with positive vibes that can match your positive vibe. Those with issues that are dishonest don't deserve any of your time and attention.

  • @Txp91
    @Txp913 жыл бұрын

    Number 8 is classic feminist: one word to describe a women with man hating behaviors. Great stuff Lloyd =)

  • @gerrytv45
    @gerrytv453 жыл бұрын

    I like your video sir! Thanks for giving these kind of information. Lots of knowledge. Keep it up. Godbless you.

  • @beachmountain3828
    @beachmountain3828 Жыл бұрын

    Haha you're so good! Impressive how you know so much about the female psychology (:

  • @webeducation
    @webeducation3 жыл бұрын

    Great list 👌👌👌 - would add blame shifting to the list. For example she says "I wouldn't have done xyz if you'd didn't make me xyz". similar to not taking responsibility.

  • @hansburg4362
    @hansburg43623 жыл бұрын

    If you have no problems identifying roughly 8 out of 10 points on a woman with ease, this should definitely concern you. I am watching this a couple month after a breakup and I am stunned how fast I could check these points on the list. I wouldn't describe my ex as a generelly bad person, but this video definitely made me view that relationship, and her actions, from another perspective. And let me tell you, I am now even more convinced that I made the right decision... :D

  • @sansenescoba9405
    @sansenescoba94053 жыл бұрын

    Dude you slay it all, my ex act this way. And yeh she has another guy. I sub.

  • @paulbienvenu5494
    @paulbienvenu5494 Жыл бұрын

    Man thats good to hear

  • @ryanbarker3978
    @ryanbarker39783 жыл бұрын

    Number 11 though obvious when you read it is that she never reaches out first. If you are the only one initiating communication at best she doesn't like you and at worst she is manipulating you.

  • @helensanderson7092

    @helensanderson7092

    3 жыл бұрын

    My boyfriend did that. I was the one reaching out to him and he went days without replying to me. All the time saying he was committed to us. I'm a good, kind woman who hasn't got any of these traits

  • @ryanbarker3978

    @ryanbarker3978

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@helensanderson7092 Oh yeah, this is not isolated to one gender. There are men who do this to woman all the time too and the same thing I said above goes in that situation, too. When people are interested in being around you, they will be. When they're trying to avoid you, they will make every excuse not to show up. People who show up periodically only to get something out of you are manipulating you and not healthy for your life. It doesn't really matter if that thing is a hookup, attention, validation, etc.

  • @dakotaxu4792
    @dakotaxu47922 жыл бұрын

    EVERYTHING you have said is 100% ACCURATE!!!!!!! I JUST met a girl who checked all the first 7 boxes and she even has a t shirt that says ‘Women are always right’, and she only has male friends, talks bad about her exes, when we first met she was all into me immediately, she has no female friends, at work they think she’s crazy!!!!! Loyd how do you know all this?!!!

  • @IntoDeathandTheBuddahMatrix

    @IntoDeathandTheBuddahMatrix

    Жыл бұрын

    Experience

  • @deepsouth_bul
    @deepsouth_bul3 жыл бұрын

    Add another one: women who refuse to communicate with you. Some women will literally act desperate for your response, and complain about you "ignoring" them and then once you answer them, they "respond" as if you have said nothing. It's like you're there so they can have their monologue. It's infuriating.

  • @drumdad54sdl47

    @drumdad54sdl47

    3 жыл бұрын

    I heard these ones: "You're 'ghosting' me." (While being just as silent) "I want to talk on the phone more vs texting/messaging." (The phone line runs both ways, SO CALL ME THEN.) It's tough to always be "the problem" in a relationship.

  • @WaterFly2149
    @WaterFly21493 жыл бұрын

    1-No female friends (0:44) 2-Talks bad about ex (1:55) 3Ggets into you too quickly (3:09) 4-She is hot & cold (4:08) 5-Never admits being wrong/doesn't compromise/treats things in black & white (5:05) 6-No goals or hobbies (6:17) 7-She doesn't know what she wants (7:23) 8-Shows man hating behaviour (8:33) 9-Lying (9:53) 10-Doesnt know anything about you (11:07) - Re edit for plays for Lone Rider

  • @heyes6715
    @heyes67153 жыл бұрын

    U earned my subscription

  • @addorvertalers7230
    @addorvertalers72303 жыл бұрын

    Just perfect, my man🙋‍♂️

  • @alexmccalley6837
    @alexmccalley68373 жыл бұрын

    Bro 💯 facts are facts

  • @leosolis5846
    @leosolis58463 жыл бұрын

    Thanks for the advice the single guy

  • @LolaCrazy2221
    @LolaCrazy22213 жыл бұрын

    I can really relate #3. This happened to me recently. It took a awhile for me to realize that this was a scam and not realistic.

  • @peepeepoopoo7016
    @peepeepoopoo70163 жыл бұрын

    There is this one girl i was talking to. She has EVERY single red flag except for the first one. After just a week of talking, she started facetiming me at night, started acting jealous when i replied a bit late, and started treating me like her boyfriend. She was moving wayyyy too quick. And when i tried to talk to her about it, she gave me the cold shoulder and started treating me like garbage. ABSOLUTELY CRAZY GIRL! Thank god i blocked her.

  • @durvenlong1618
    @durvenlong16183 жыл бұрын

    Thank you so much sir... you are such an inspiration l love your vblog l been practising one of rules and it actually works

  • @tysmustang4470
    @tysmustang44703 жыл бұрын

    #3 was the worst for me, she turned out to be bat shit crazy after 3 days, I luckily didn’t tell her everything about me

  • @thebluemorpho2962

    @thebluemorpho2962

    3 жыл бұрын

    Ngl I was like that and now I’m trying not to fall in love too easy, I have no hobbies 😂

  • @redpillthinking6043

    @redpillthinking6043

    3 жыл бұрын

    Usually means they have BPD.

  • @montamiddleton9318

    @montamiddleton9318

    3 жыл бұрын

    Watch out for those kind of girls cause they can turn into #8 kind of girls and murder you in your sleep. 🤔

  • @_wazzer
    @_wazzer Жыл бұрын

    Bro this is literally the girl I was talking to💀💀💀💀 this vid maybe feel better… I learned so much sucha W channel.

  • @dougiehikesvegas
    @dougiehikesvegas3 жыл бұрын

    I feel like #7 is most women. They never know what they want.

  • @dougiehikesvegas

    @dougiehikesvegas

    3 жыл бұрын

    @Jennifer than your that one woman in 10,000. Stay assertive beautiful.

  • @davorebo5790

    @davorebo5790

    3 жыл бұрын

    Funny.. I had a girl that said that after dating her for a few months... so I started talking to other women ..she eventually came around and wanted us to be "exclusive"... lol

  • @dougiehikesvegas

    @dougiehikesvegas

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@davorebo5790 lol! Good story she was confused until other women wanted you haha! Unlike us guys, women tend to want you more when other women want you. Stay toxic!

  • @redpillthinking6043

    @redpillthinking6043

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@dougiehikesvegas Simp

  • @dougiehikesvegas

    @dougiehikesvegas

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@redpillthinking6043 lol simp. Stay positive!

  • @davidchen4441
    @davidchen44413 жыл бұрын

    The no girlfriends one is classic. The girls usually a bike

  • @adamlanza5383
    @adamlanza53833 жыл бұрын

    You're describing the boarder line personality disorder. Run man run!

  • @taniajones9757

    @taniajones9757

    3 жыл бұрын

    You want a perfect lady good luck

  • @nickhines1131
    @nickhines11313 жыл бұрын

    A past life of drugs, laziness, mental issues, texting men, no female friends, wanting me to clean everyday, cook for her everyday, etc,etc,etc, just got out of a highly toxic relationship for the last 3 years, I'm new in this area, and will have to search for a while, or just go on a solo career.

  • @zippyblessed839

    @zippyblessed839

    2 жыл бұрын

    U can search for me😄

  • @fabricecadet9109
    @fabricecadet91093 жыл бұрын

    My Baby momma summed up right here

  • @peloi111
    @peloi1113 жыл бұрын

    Have been to Crazy Town with #3, a complete narcissist. Lost 4 years in a bad relationship, lost 4 years recovering. No matter how good the sex is, WALK AWAY.

  • @blacklightrr

    @blacklightrr

    3 жыл бұрын

    Facts, the sex keeps men addicted. Stop playing the game fellas.

  • @ENIGMAXII2112

    @ENIGMAXII2112

    3 жыл бұрын

    Toni V. You write the HARD truth! Many Men my "forget" the lost years in recovering from these REAL Crazies! All those total years lost... For S*X? Not worth it...

  • @bunnybgood411
    @bunnybgood4113 жыл бұрын

    As a women these shows are fun to watch. None of the girls I know act this way. 😀😁 All your points are spot-on.

  • @halaniwalombardi3562

    @halaniwalombardi3562

    3 жыл бұрын

    Riiiiight.

  • @enchantedviper2571
    @enchantedviper25713 жыл бұрын

    you got this king 🤴

  • @witcher348
    @witcher3483 жыл бұрын

    TheSingleGuy: * posts this vid Women: And we took that personally

  • @justinstevens3743
    @justinstevens37433 жыл бұрын

    Honestly, none of those characteristics are what you want in a friend either. It’s just better to not know them or go ahead and excise them from your life.

  • @gilbertb8078
    @gilbertb80782 жыл бұрын

    I watched girl channels with girls posting why girls don't like me or how to get girls to like me.You first guy vid I watched.You are right.I made mistakes b4.Thank you,I'm a fan of you from now on.

  • @benhartart9487
    @benhartart94873 жыл бұрын

    My ex had a few of these but not many, we were together 12 years Lots of good times but man some really hard times too Memoriesssss, sometimes I miss her, other times I’m really happy I’m single

  • @Ianhawaii10

    @Ianhawaii10

    3 жыл бұрын

    Wow that's a long time with someone, I hope you find peace 🙏

  • @davorebo5790

    @davorebo5790

    3 жыл бұрын

    Ended a 7 yr relationship with a narcissistic woman.. its tough but it gets better with time and a shiat.. ton of hobbies .. keep busy

  • @fionagrant2023

    @fionagrant2023

    3 жыл бұрын

    Exactly in every relationship there is good and bad. Ive loved every man lve been with but l also had to walk away when l realised they were hurting me

  • @kenandrieling5885
    @kenandrieling58853 жыл бұрын

    I've dated all these girls as well. I once I was seeing this for 3 months who asked me if I ever talk to my dad. I had told her several times that my dad had passed away...

  • @fionagrant2023

    @fionagrant2023

    3 жыл бұрын

    Well maybe you talk to him after he has gone so she might just be checking to see you are ok

  • @Jackgritty28

    @Jackgritty28

    3 жыл бұрын

    People don't like her,she gets teased,the girl has no friends,she feels stranded,doesn't have an ex,not a good sign,I'm different to other guys💲

  • @clfrostyletrasmano3737
    @clfrostyletrasmano37373 жыл бұрын

    You deffo got me on the 3rd one coz it recently happened to me haha!!! You're dope and you got a new sub!

  • @freak49
    @freak492 жыл бұрын

    #11 - all she wants is favors from you OR your only value to her is a "good time"

  • @HullRupture
    @HullRupture2 жыл бұрын

    One particular trait I've dealt with, with women from dating apps is women who are hung up and feel victimised by something. And they will over explain and argue about this with you even if you don't have an opinion either way or impose this belief on you. It's the main issue that has killed off a date for me

  • @djsdesignsandcustoms4779
    @djsdesignsandcustoms47793 жыл бұрын

    I like all the biggest red flags that you shared. It can happen you never know if she’s cheating on you just leave her . You just needed to kind the perfect woman in your life that will remember the basic things and always cares about if you get home from work she will run up to you look into your eyes said I’m miss you that’s the type of woman that you want .

  • @unceljeffy2716
    @unceljeffy27163 жыл бұрын

    Literally every girl has a couple or more of these tbh

  • @omens6402

    @omens6402

    3 жыл бұрын

    “If you’re seeing these things consistently”

  • @mwloos1

    @mwloos1

    3 жыл бұрын

    They do. The goal is to pick the ones that have a low red flag score 😂

  • @georgewilliams8264

    @georgewilliams8264

    3 жыл бұрын

    Yeah my ex had all ten......plus 4 more!

  • @georgewilliams8264

    @georgewilliams8264

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@mwloos1 👌😂👍🤣

  • @CFChristian

    @CFChristian

    3 жыл бұрын

    Mine literally had all of them. 🤦‍♂️

  • @visibiba2127
    @visibiba21273 жыл бұрын

    great job bro.

  • @mooneyrj76
    @mooneyrj763 жыл бұрын

    A good question when your getting to know someone is "What is your biggest regret?" How she answers can tell you alot.

  • @Lil_Tweeter
    @Lil_Tweeter2 жыл бұрын

    I feel so called out 😂

  • @mrnobody3949
    @mrnobody39492 жыл бұрын

    A big one... "disrespect"

  • @DrRodox.
    @DrRodox.3 жыл бұрын

    Thats why ill always say that is more appropriate to start relationship as soon as possible (17/18 years) so you can face those red flags and learn from it so by the time you're 30+ you can choose a real nice woman to be your friend and wife.

  • @adsvert3909

    @adsvert3909

    2 жыл бұрын

    But i wonder... Would u consider a 30+ woman too? I see alot if men the same age as a woman treat her as too old if she is 30+ and single. Just asking. No accusations.

  • @DrRodox.

    @DrRodox.

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@adsvert3909 Thats a nice point you brought up. Its true that many men dont look up to women 30 and 30+, but that is a society's old tale. For 2 reasons: 1 - back in the day, woman 30 or 30+ were in fact very beaten by time, wich does not applies to nowadays. 2 - Its easier to be persuasive with a 20ish than a 30ish. Many men dont want equal, they want to rule alone.

  • @hotwheelsindallas-fortwort7932
    @hotwheelsindallas-fortwort79323 жыл бұрын

    I found one or two or three of these qualities and every woman I've come across with the exception of maybe three women in my life that goes my dating options but it's nothing wrong with smashing ...keep it moving !

  • @thelightofislam3069
    @thelightofislam3069 Жыл бұрын

    I totally agree with all you mentioned, u you noticed any just move on.

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