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@DroppingBombs4ever

Жыл бұрын

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@MassMultiplayer

Жыл бұрын

shit im top 2% any top 1% can make me top 1%? lol im fit healthy and tons of free time, anyone has anything over minimum wage for me? lol its slavery everywher ehe in quebec.. work 12 hour for rent and meal and you have 1 penny left for imprevue lol

@davidosalsero2519

9 ай бұрын

Blimey!

I dated a girl with BPD, it was a fucking nightmare, she built me up and made me the happiest man and was super obsessive with me. She then switched and would try to tear me down as a human at every opportunity. It’s such a toxic thing to live with, if you have a woman like this LEAAAVE.

@racerx2348

8 ай бұрын

me too ! she tattoed my name on her back a week ago, now sat night she's nowhere to be found. 2mmrw she'll say she fell asleep. or her phone didnt have signal where she was. ive caught her in atleast ten lies, one time i saw her at a bar , i told her i saw her, and she still denied it for 2 weeks,

@Saskidan

5 ай бұрын

Ditto and I almost left my job/city to move in with her. So glad I saw the truth before it all went down. Dodged a bullet.

@DanParker-nw6wu

4 ай бұрын

I feel you brother. I was married to a narcissist for many years and had two children with her. The kids are grown now and tell me I should have left and divorced when they were little. Then I got in a relationship with a woman with BPD and it was even worse. Total insanity with here mood swings, anxiety, depression and I was the blame for it all. I had enough experience although it took me a while to see what was going on to walk away before the marriage she wanted so desperately.

@Lenny_Hondo

4 ай бұрын

6 years of that hell. Will NEVER live like that again.

@armyparrot9353

4 ай бұрын

Seems more like a narcissist

21. NOSE RINGS. Every woman ive met with a nose ring has been for the streets.

@captainalex157

5 ай бұрын

+1 99% of them are radical feminist man haters as well.

@23293

3 ай бұрын

1000% it's obvious even pierced private parts😂😂😂

@gucciblack9335

Ай бұрын

Man you said a mouth full,you ain't lying at all

@latetotheparty184

Ай бұрын

22. Women with low voices. (Indicates high testosterone and hence competitiveness ) 23 Women with advanced degrees especially in non science areas. 24 Women who's mothers are ball busting to their mates. 25 Women who swear a lot. 26 Women on ANY psychiatric med including ones for depression and sleep 27 Women who have ever had a Democrat yard sign in their yard or bumper sticker 28 Women who have ever gone to a feminist rally or right to abortion rally, or any left political cause Also choker collars, hoop earrings, plastic surgery, inability to cook, liking NPR, being anti gun, messy housekeeper, high debt ...... it seems like I could go on forever.

@PanSearedRibeye68

Ай бұрын

They like to be led around.

“I wish I saw this shit 20 years ago.” Damn right

@swill1020

3 ай бұрын

Yep

Tattoos are a sign of trauma. I dated a women covered in tattoos, she told me that she got a tattoo each time she had a trauma because they were better than self harm, this was straight from the horses mouth. Any women with tattoos will have issues. Next time you meet a girl with tattoos, subtly ask her the story behind one of her tattoos, I guarantee it wont be a nice one.

@nickjurkovic6831

Жыл бұрын

At best it’s “we were drunk on a hoes trip and did it!”

@ulrohermit1369

Жыл бұрын

wow , never looked at it with that perspective , thank you ,this was actually pretty helpful

@TheHumanRanger

Жыл бұрын

I met one like that, 13 tattoos, 27 piercing and she was 19... yeah she was cute and fun for spicytime 2 times, but she flirted with other guys right in front of me... she got dumped FAST!

@jstefa2

Жыл бұрын

the best story i heard was. this dog saved my life. it taught me responsibility and accountability. she is a walking red flag, but that tattoo was from her heart and genuine. also her dog is one of the most well behaved and lovable Pitbull's i have ever seen.

@bragiodinsen4604

Жыл бұрын

some dumb married woman who was obsessed with me got tattoos when she had a fight with her husband to spite him

Had a gf 10 years ago who had a committee that collectively convinced her that she could do better. She bought it and broke up with me. As one would expect, the committee consisted of a woman twice divorced and cheating on her third husband, another that was divorced, and a third that had actually cost the gf her no drugs allowed job at one point by giving her a joint for her birthday. I saw a pic of her recently. She had put on 100 pounds. What a fright. Me, still single, retired, bought a Harley with best friend who did the same, looking to build a retirement home. No regrets.

@K4113B4113

11 ай бұрын

@treeghettox Omg hahaha!

@williamparrish2436

11 ай бұрын

This was a hard lesson for me to learn. I kept asking myself why my girlfriend cared more about the opinion of her friends than mine lol? I didn't realize she didn't have a mind of her own until she broke up with me and started dating someone her friend thought would be a better match. And the guy was a drug dealer.

@sbek1337

11 ай бұрын

Had a very similar experience, makes you wonder if they realize how dumb they are

@juliend9495

10 ай бұрын

​@@sbek1337no they don't.

@globalbossevent7284

10 ай бұрын

Yes had a girl that I cared for leave me when I was young for someone with more money. Now she lives in a van and I am on the opposite side loaded with rentals.

Tattoos are like beards. Both are masculine, neither are bad, but I don't want them on my women.

@ShredzZ

Жыл бұрын

Most tattoos that women make are bad to be honest, spider on left hand, fairy on neck and dog paw on ankle 😂

@donnieo4838

Жыл бұрын

@@ShredzZ Yeah and they always try and act like there's some deep meaning behind them

@sachawisznia9685

Жыл бұрын

😂

@ppg4667

Жыл бұрын

The worst is the thigh tat on women. All are bad but that thing sends me running the other way.

@matthewschwartz6607

Жыл бұрын

They are kind of hot on women.

Before my wife and I got divorced, her female boss got divorced from her husband, father of her 3 kids. She ran away at 36 with a guy who was 24 and rode motorcross bikes for a living. Left her kids in the lurch. She would call my wife and URGE her to also get divorced. About how it was NEEDED. You see this alot, one woman in a social group will run away with a guy and urge the rest of them to do it. That was 10 years ago. The motor cross guy dumped her, no shock, and she became a man-hater, but sued to get the kids custody back after running away without accountability for a YEAR, and yet the Colorado court gave it to her. It was a female judge. It was insane. Those poor kids. She started to drink and even after my wife and I got a divorce, they stopped being friends. So a toxic woman can come from social circles.

@ypmm53

Ай бұрын

The late great Kevin Samuels said “single women keep women single.” He was not lying. I hear about these stories time and time again.

1. Daddy Issues 2. Feminist 3. Competitive 4. Slew of Past Boyfriends 5. Violent Tendencies 6. Tattoos/Piercings, Scary Nails 7. High Bodycounts 8. Committee of fools 9. Alcohol/Smoking, Drugs 10. No work ethic, unhealthy. Poor hygiene.

@tomkelsey3512

Жыл бұрын

And the Number One red flag is.....(envelope please).....she's a modern woman !

@mikea.4477

Жыл бұрын

And 99% of women that you’ll encounter on dating apps these days will have at least one of these issues! It’s almost unbelievable that the majority of modern women are completely undateable and will probably die alone.

@BarnabyBarry

Жыл бұрын

Women who talk all the time-insanely jealous women and “pills”-always unhappy!

@21skeptik

Жыл бұрын

What is committee of fools?

@Gizziiusa

Жыл бұрын

@@21skeptik when women advise other women. usually its the worst advise that they can give. it can also be a subconscious "crab mentality" at play as well.

Rich this list pretty much describes 75% of the dating pool today for single men.

@huntstyle

7 ай бұрын

And it's only half the list. I'm sure the full list covers at least 95%. It's frustrating when you meet someone you see potential in, then you learn she has the same red flags as the rest of them.

@Matt-yz3iq

5 ай бұрын

Take it with a grain of salt.. these guys are all human and I doubt they have their personal shit completely figured out. It’s impossible to go 20/ for 20 on red flags they mentioned in todays market lol. It’s a good guide though and they make great points.

@Azeteck

4 ай бұрын

25% is awesome I played Video Games with a 1% drop Chance of the item😂

@23293

3 ай бұрын

The full list disqualifies 99 percent 👌

@angmori172

Ай бұрын

Becoming a 10% guy is easier than ever though. Have you seen the competition? Like fuck me, imagine being part of the greatest generation when Eastwood, Heston etc were the standard and everyone had served in war. Meanwhile my competition has lower test than my grandma and are enslaved to the screen.

Deadliest red flag: isn’t obsessed with you or have genuine burning desire for you

@J.J.Redick

Жыл бұрын

idk about the deadliest maybe ur just not a highly attractive guy

@johnnym9909

Жыл бұрын

Disagree. I've had women obsessed with me and they smoked and had tattoos. It didn't end well each time. If a woman is obsessed with you she could have bpd; stay away from that.

@setokaibasbankaccount9109

Жыл бұрын

@@johnnym9909 yea l agree with Johnny. Genuine desire is great but obsession is just weird. Females that become obsessed have crazy in them and it rarely ends well.

@imageword5576

Жыл бұрын

@@johnnym9909 Every square is a rectangle, but not every rectangle is a square.

@Paulroach6

Жыл бұрын

Found my x partner read tracking me. She told me I need to be obsessed with her. Accused me of wearing Cologne to impress other women ( weird considering she had just bought it for me and I was going to hang out with her in that moment too ). Trust me obsessed is a huge red flag. You think it’s flattering at first but your going to pay for it in the end.

Divorced in California after 6 years of marriage. She was a stay at home mom. Court made me pay for her attorney. I contested nothing hoping to cut my losses. Not so fast. Her attorney drug it out for years since I was paying his bill. BTW, she picked one of the top divorce attorneys in the county. I had just lost my job (100k a year) when she filed and took a position with lower pay ( 70k) because I was getting hit with $3000 a month support and had to get some money in the door as fast as possible. Horrible experience. Nearly impossible to get your custody agreement followed. No one cares if you are the man.

@agentcooper4627

9 ай бұрын

California is especially brutal to men. That's why Ellen Nordgen had her attorney claim Tiger's main residence was in California. The courts there will invalidate pre-nups and just fuck the man over.

@ecowyatt

9 ай бұрын

Not surprised that a California court would make you pay her lawyer bill. Really f**cking sucks that you had to go through all that.

@donquihote6023

9 ай бұрын

Yup.

@Ghostrider-71

9 ай бұрын

Yikes, very sad.

@-whackd

9 ай бұрын

Commiefornia. Disgusting place to even start a family so I don't know what you were thinking. Were you at least living in a mainly middle-upper class white and Asian area like Irvine? Even then the schools are gay factories. I always wonder about people who walk into parenthood with no plans and expect to put their kids in disgusting public schools.

Daddy issues explains why my ex told me she loved me but would start fights with me. She'd go full Cathy Newman. Id say "Im not interested in chasing other girls" and she would reply "Oh? So youre saying you want to see other girls!" Who else has experienced this? She takes your words, twists them 180 degrees, starts a fight and then says "we are always fighting. This isnt going to work. I love you but you don't love me. I cant do this anymore" and then they dump you. My ex gf is textbook daddy issues.

@JezaLoki

Жыл бұрын

Never go full Cathy Newman

@Kevvvinus1

Жыл бұрын

Been there brother, no logic can go through to her head. And whatever you will say she will twist it. Psycho , have to stay away

@Machiaspinner

11 ай бұрын

Be aware they are very narcissistic, nothing can fill the void that exists inside them , always chasing attention even by degrading themselves. Thank god i've finished that relationship before i would regret it deeply.

@VivatVeritas1

10 ай бұрын

Definitely childhood issues, maybe with mummy more so than with daddy. Mood swings, shit testing, inimitable reasoning, rewriting history, victimhood, toddler tantrums and mind games. It’s a continuous power play, although she would deny that of course. They run on the latest emotion all the time and wil have you walking on egg shells to keep the peace. The day you realize this cannot work is a sad one, because you tried so hard for so long, and because you have to face the fact you have been willfully blind.

@younesben147

9 ай бұрын

It's called Borderline Personality disorder@@VivatVeritas1

A few times I went to high level corporate dinner parties in Hong Kong, all the really really wealthy types from all over the world with their wives. You don't see a tattooed female among them. The few women who operate in that world they tend to have a very conservative appearance. Ladies, you want the respect of the men then don't look like a rough n tumble carnival hand.

@inconnu4961

Жыл бұрын

LOL

@liliwms508

Жыл бұрын

Great advice sir

I always reinforce with my daughters that tattoos are a sign of lack of self control.

@abranisdz34

Жыл бұрын

A Tattoo is a sign of an issue.more tattoos,more issues

@I_am_Raziel

Жыл бұрын

If she has tattoos, it is also a sign that she does not have self respect, no respect for her own body.

@endorphinrider1633

Жыл бұрын

I never have nor ever will date a woman with tattoos or piercings (other than earrings). I'm a boomer and the only people that had tattoos in my youth were sailors or bikers. I'd've passed out if I had a crystal ball back in the day and I could see what was coming...

@Original22

Жыл бұрын

Tattoos I never had a problem with but I did find most crazy girls drive a Subaru 😂

@inconnu4961

Жыл бұрын

@@endorphinrider1633 I dated a girl that had a butterfly on her lower back. I found out when i saw her lower back. And a girl i dated had a small rose on her ankle. They seemed innocent. Now i see women with arm sleeves! Ugh

As a female, I do agree with your red flags. I view tattoos as the only kind of artwork that depreciates over time. No matter what color they start with, over the years, they seem to turn green and blurry. How refreshing for gentlemen to not embrace tattoos. And your other comments are spot on as well.

@leonhenry4861

Жыл бұрын

Maybe in the west I guess 😂😂😂

@Bosanovadude1

11 ай бұрын

He did say one or two small ones that can’t be seen basicallly with a short sleeve shirt or private area That’s fine but if you want a sleeve tattoos I’m sorry but me personally I think it looks gross

@exhibitdesign901

10 ай бұрын

@@leonhenry4861 true, if you have ever traveled to Tahiti where tattoos began, that type of tattoo is truly beautiful.

@zamar2158

8 ай бұрын

​@@exhibitdesign901 from that part of the world and have seen in Tahiti, on Maori etc - no, I'll pass. Just because indigenous people do it doesn't make it wonderful. Maybe some aesthetic value at 2 weeks, by year 2 its dreadful.

@exhibitdesign901

8 ай бұрын

@@zamar2158 I think we are agreeing - sort of. I think no matter what color tattoos begin with, they all tend to end up green and blurry. However I like the tribal ones that belong to the culture that first created them, in that I find it belongs to that culture and find it beautiful in that regard. But then I am viewing through my culture and it really doesn't matter does it?

If she is contentious and unfeminine, that pretty much encapsulates the 20 red flags.

@Tindel10

Жыл бұрын

The entire law can be put into one sentence. You shall love your neighbor as yourself.

I only have one red flag: disrespect. The instant a woman shows me ANY disrespect, I'm out.

@gitgen1887

11 ай бұрын

Stems from these red flags, disrespect comes way later.

@rabbiehossain7938

11 ай бұрын

Dude people who love can also disrespect you. For example if your dad or mom or family member disrespects you, do you just walk away? No bro you try to work it out and manage it. Unless it is something as bad as cheating.

@huntstyle

7 ай бұрын

@@rabbiehossain7938 my mother and father have NEVER disrespected me. If yours have, I'm sorry.

@Saskidan

5 ай бұрын

That's exactly what I believe as well. My gf was hungry and needed to smoke weed one night and couldn't find a lighter. I was waiting for meals that I was getting for her and I and also asking for a lighter from people. Then she looked all pissed off and asked me why I was not helping her. I tried to explain I was and she told me to shut up. I told her I will not put up with that disrespect and I took our meals and left. She cried and cried phoning me saying she couldn't help it she was hungry and needed to get high. I forgave her and said we can work on things. Now she doesn't even contact me anymore and is probably getting plowed by one of her ex's.

@primefashion06

2 ай бұрын

@@gitgen1887 Yeah

Also, stay away from women who are secretive about their Past. Usually there is something very dark and repugnant in her past deeds which will affect the Relationship with you. Quite a few things in many cases!

@TJ-ml8tt

Жыл бұрын

Lol how judgemental have you been for these women not to share their past with you? I've heard some crazy shit simply from not being judgemental. Girls tell me everything - to their detriment. Let's me know I need pass real quick.

@inconnu4961

Жыл бұрын

Thats Red flag #15 Liars.

@inconnu4961

Жыл бұрын

@@TJ-ml8tt Some women are smarter than others! sounds like you prefer the dumb ones!

@georgeafutujr.9369

Жыл бұрын

@TJ No "Mystery-women" for me thanks! I don't need a woman who "shagged" the whole Football Team in her College Days or has 2 "women-beating stalkers" looking for her to kill her! There are women out here like this believe it or not and they will not tell you these things about themselves in most cases. You have to "hear through "The Ethers"" or your shared Social Network.

@AllByDesign4

8 ай бұрын

@@TJ-ml8ttyou are so lost. All women for the most part are secretive about their past. Because they know it will affect their present and future. I swear some of you just think you’re soo smart at tryin to call someone out. 😂😂😂 jokes on you

(1) Always sleep at least 12 hours a day. (2) Never play pool against a man named after a city. (3) Never date a woman with a dagger tattoo. - The coach on Teen Wolf.

@studleyjb3172

10 ай бұрын

Or a state....

The tramp stamp era was insane 😂😂😂 now they’ve moved into sleeves and chest tats

@jimbojones9118

11 ай бұрын

And neck/face tats

@decadeyt5891

16 күн бұрын

@@jimbojones9118neck and face tats are usually signs they were being pimped.

On Tatoos, .. It also shows the girl doesn't think about the future. That's just my take.

I remembered when I got a job some years ago. There was this lady who is a 9/10 and was in charge of helping me with the tasks I had to learn. Many dudes were approaching her everyday, so I preferred to keep things professional. She started making small talk with me and trying to get my attention. I just talked to her when it was necessary, but I thought it would be great if we could go out on a date. Found out she was already dating with a dude from other company while she was secretely dating another dude in my departament. I am glad I didn't make any move. The reason? I saw a small tatoo on her wrist the first day I met her, and the video of Coach Adams talking about tatoos as red flag was the first thing that came to my mind.

@umaxi96

Жыл бұрын

lol as if the tattoo has any casual connection to her promiscuous behavior

@levigivens

Жыл бұрын

@@umaxi96 dissonance

@I_am_Raziel

Жыл бұрын

@@umaxi96 seriously?

@pkrent3461

Жыл бұрын

@@umaxi96 they mostly do.

@ridbanner1407

Жыл бұрын

@@umaxi96 poor judgement is poor judgment

As a 52 y/o male, it's been my experience that men with tattoos have the equal amount of poor judgment, bad past decisions, and all the associated problems that a woman with tattoos have. Wayyyyy too many 4 day drinking binges etc. etc. etc.

@Tindel10

Жыл бұрын

Facts. They also don’t wanna hear that they also made a very poor decision. You are telling the truth.

@stachowi

Жыл бұрын

Tattoos scream YOLO bad judgement

@psychopompous3207

Жыл бұрын

This is ridiculous. Many get tattoos as a sign of brotherhood. E.G Military.

@mikolowiskamikolowiska4993

Жыл бұрын

@@Tindel10 now they've. What next?

@Peterbilt359

Жыл бұрын

I have 8 tattoos. Never smoked or drank. Will gross 2.6 million this year with 300,000 net. My main client is one of the wealthiest organizations in the world. I own 3 homes, land, 13 vehicles. Twice widowed and never divorced, I don't believe in divorce or accept it. I've had 38 years of happy marriages, cancer took them both to soon. I'm so sorry for your bad experiences I hope you find peace.

My first wife was violent…Add alcohol into the mix, and that violent behavior turned into a full blown physical assault. I’d tuck tail, and leave the house. I finally wised up, and never returned to the house until the divorce was finalized. Grandma was right, beauty is only skin deep, and never marry a woman with thin lips.

@EL-ee4cz

11 ай бұрын

Same. Im trying to keep my distance from my ex-gf, but it's tough refusing her invitations.

@louiscormier9641

10 ай бұрын

@@EL-ee4cz Keep taking those invitations….. you’ll get f*cked in more ways than you’ve ever imagined.

@xxyyzzplants131

10 ай бұрын

Grandma was always RIGHT!

@OPEN_ROAD1800.

4 ай бұрын

🤣🤣🤣😭😭😭 thin lips 💋

@boomersD9CAT

4 ай бұрын

@@xxyyzzplants131 Truth !👍

Being realistic 99% of girls are going to have at least one of these red flags. It’s so hard to date around these signs

@imageword5576

Жыл бұрын

I think you'd have to find some 18 year old virgin from a very religious family nowadays, like an Amish or Mormon woman.

@samjon6403

Жыл бұрын

​@@imageword5576all women have some sort of a peppered past. It's about finding the ones that have the least.

@joeylatz7611

Жыл бұрын

@@samjon6403 well said, you just had to be realistic cause you’ll be forever alone if you’re going to disqualify every girl with one of these 20 flags. Cause they are going to have at least one. I been knee deep in the dating world the last couple years spinning plates and met amazing girls with one or 2 of these flags, it is what it is.

@SeethingOne-s6d

Жыл бұрын

@@samjon6403 The biggest thing is finding a woman that holds her self accountable.

@samjon6403

Жыл бұрын

@@SeethingOne-s6d that's impossible my friends. My wife never had a single redflag but she does not hold herself accountable and always transfers that.

I call the committee 'the war council.' Overcoming the war council can be really hard

A few years back I had a really good buddy who met some broad 10 years older than him who had every single one of these traits. Eventually she drove a wedge between us and now we don't talk anymore. Some dudes are absolutely blind to negative traits in females. It's pretty insane.

@zamar2158

8 ай бұрын

Megan Markle

@huntstyle

7 ай бұрын

Yeah, that's why you have to recognize these things early, before you catch feelings. Because once you catch feelings, you'll start excusing all those red flags.

@rosbifle413

7 ай бұрын

@huntstyle I thought my buddy was intelligent but turns out he must be incredibly stupid. She looks like Freddie Mercury too. No joke.

Very great small clip Rich. Were not taught to learn how to properly vet women. And thats where alot of us went wrong. We met a pretty face. Shes agreeable and submissive the first year. You believe shes different from the women you usually date. Then you marry her. Put babies in her. And in year 3 , the real her comes out. So many men get trapped with this. So i proplerly vet women for atleast 2 years and see how she handles stress. A women under distress will tell you alot about them.

Rich, you've toned it down which looks good on you. As a woman wanting the best for Men, your red flags are spot on. 🎯

Rich this is the best I've seen you at- this guy really drew you out and you come across as a real guy who is trying to help real people. great interview.

Yup Tats are a big red flag 🚩 it’s just a fact at this point. The female that l knew who had tatted arms, thigh, & leg had heavy emotional issues and trauma. Not to mention they come with insecurities, tatts are a form of mutilation, l understand their appeal but most heavily tatted people got issues. She’s not a bad person but def nowhere near relationship material.

@inconnu4961

Жыл бұрын

I hate to be that guy, but she probably IS a bad person! She has simply hid it from you! people who are THAT emotionally damaged tend to do lots of bad things because they have a low regard for others. if they have a low regard for themselves enough to mutilate, they will blame 'other people' for this and mistreat them accordingly at some point. So whether you will label them 'good' or 'bad' they still have a higher propensity to DO or SAY 'Bad' things!

@cam6887

Жыл бұрын

Heavily tatted versus has a few or one or two is completely different IMO

I was dating this woman. She didn’t make much money and I was totally ok with that. One night on a Thursday evening she had just gotten back from a concert. I had sent her an Uber eats card that evening so she and her roommate could get some food and bond. We were texting that night and she was appreciative and eventually we said our goodnights. For the next three days I got blocked on everything and couldn’t get a hold of her and had no idea why. Turns out in their little bonding session the roommate had convinced her that I was this terrible person and that she shouldn’t be dating me. And of course she believed her roommate. Most women are absolutely miserable and hate themselves, and we know misery loves company. Shortly after that I left that relationship because I knew I’d always be on eggshells as long as she kept that kind of company around to convince her that I was the devil.

@brickmissing8295

Жыл бұрын

Sounds like you were messaging her too much and sending her too many gifts = creates an impression of needness and low value.

@andrewvo8395

Жыл бұрын

@@brickmissing8295 you came to that conclusion after hearing one story? You should be a fortune teller. I’m not going to explain the dynamics of that relationship since you seem to already know all about my mistakes, but just so you know the facts, it was the complete opposite of your assumption.

@psychopompous3207

Жыл бұрын

Wait...so she reneged and then reached back out to you? Or did you have to contact her? What was her excuse?

@andrewvo8395

Жыл бұрын

@@psychopompous3207 eventually she replied and said it was a way to punish me. For what… I never got the explanation. Her roommate was a cheater and liar and planted seeds In her head. I wasn’t the right person for her. She wanted drama, and I wanted peace. It was never going to work but I’m glad I had the balls to leave because she was physically gorgeous.

@psychopompous3207

Жыл бұрын

@@andrewvo8395 Good for you. Nothing is worth more than freedom. Looks fade, and infatuation decreases. But respect is a stronger foundation than "love" and it must be earned.

If a woman does not adore her father, and adhere to his wisdom, she's as good as fatherless. My experience has been women tend to repeat the dispositions of their maternal female ancestry. It over-rides every other environmental influence, including her father.

@Jesskiss33

5 ай бұрын

No that's not for all women. I know because I am one and I don't let my issues with my father stop me from being happy and living a full life. To use something like as an excuse to abuse you partner is abhorrent

@svartvist

5 ай бұрын

@@Jesskiss33 Of course it's not for all women. But it's of no value to characterize that small % that don't fit the profile. And it never fails that one or more who believe they don't, take exception.

@Jesskiss33

5 ай бұрын

@@svartvist 🤨

Tattoos alone eliminates about 80% of women where I live. And of course there are plenty of other red flags in the 20% left. Basically, we're out here looking for a needle in a haystack!

@tresjolieme81

5 ай бұрын

This guy is old he doesn't have it all right

@Yaboifatback

4 ай бұрын

@@tresjolieme81the truth hurts

@tresjolieme81

4 ай бұрын

well theres nothing women do about the tattoos its from the past, you have a past a woman would have to understand and move on from, hopefully I'll have a good man to see my tattoos as ink in my skin I cant help. @@Yaboifatback

@MikaAltidorMMC

2 ай бұрын

There are still plenty of good women without the red flags, lol. You'll find them taking the same personal development courses, writing courses, anything related to physical and financial improvement, and classes on exciting hobbies, and literature.

@huntstyle

2 ай бұрын

@@MikaAltidorMMC you missed the key part: "where I live."

Glad I stumbled across your videos rich. Great content

We’ve all been mucked up by our pasts, it’s nobody’s fault, horses are for courses, etc…….. Rich Cooper is an honest man’s man - the truth informs or hurts………

Listen fellas: Even Rich wish he'd seen this stuff 20 yrs ago. We all do!!

I'm a woman and I 100% believe that I have the same rights as men. In addition to that virtually all women can't do what men can do in certain jobs, therefore if they can't pass the test, then they shouldn't be there. The military is a prime example in combat. If I was a man I wouldn't want a woman in my squad. Another thing I want to comment on is woman that get an exorbitant amount of child support and while they go onto move onto their life, many men are left in poverty. Shared parenting is what should happen if possible in most child custody cases.

@LuvableAF

Жыл бұрын

"if I was a man I wouldn't want a woman in their squad". True. I was the only female out of 65 men in Ql3 (Battle School) and the recoursed guys (failers from prior course-previously injured) all hated me lol! I was defended soooo much in the beginning from the guys I went through basic and holding with, but after a couple of months, my ability to keep up, and mouth all the men off, made them change their minds about me, and soon I had cigarettes when ever I needed them because I became one of them! 🤣🤣🤣

@90secondsuntilmidnight

11 ай бұрын

@@LuvableAF whatever lol

@alicjaadamczyk7252

3 ай бұрын

​@@90secondsuntilmidnight How can you be do rude to another women?

@NrthrnKnght

Ай бұрын

@@LuvableAF how many did you smash?

thank you Mr Cooper. Thank you.

I think they should have required classes on red flags and the importance of communication in relationships in school. I would have avoided so much suffering in life had I known better. However, I do realize that you can grow for the better by going through difficult circumstances in life. I wouldn’t be who I am and where I’m at in life if it weren’t for God carrying me through the trials.

Borderline Personality Disorder? Even mental health professionals try to stay away from that kind of women, they are impossible to deal with. Dating an ex: love triangle, some of the most toxic things in relationships along with cheating, which is also a love triangle.

@Yaboifatback

4 ай бұрын

Or women with depression. Keep your depressed a$$ away from me. I ain’t got time to be a therapist.

These shows all miss the options available. "Move on" "replace her" etc is easy when you have unlimited options.

Great clip and advice Mr Cooper, Thank you

Note: In Russian, "Soviet" means "committee". The Soviet Union literately means the Union of the Committees. And what matters for the committee is not each of its members as individuals, but the committee itself.

@starguy2718

Жыл бұрын

"Komitet" is Russian for "committee"

@Justen1980

Жыл бұрын

"Tyolka" means miserable heifer

@rothbardfreedom

Жыл бұрын

@@starguy2718 As we have "council" and "committee". Synonyms.

@yuris6125

Жыл бұрын

Совет is more like a council.

@HandleMitCare

17 күн бұрын

The Russian and Chinese flags are Red...coincidence? 😂

Rich, I know you didn't go thru "All 20 Red Flags" ~ but, to me, you left out THE MOST IMPORTANT RED FLAG! If I don't get my way, there's going to be a Hell of a Fight. This applies to everything, big & small ~ (buying the large bag of potato chips, or, the medium size).

@MikaAltidorMMC

2 ай бұрын

You're right. THIS is the biggest red flag for me too. Also, coaxing or trying to manipulate the guy for small or large decisions

Purely Practical Points, Respect for u Sir!!

The biggest red flag possible: "What are your thoughts on open relationship's?" The worst question you could possibly ever be asked.

@jimmyjay6497

Жыл бұрын

For dudes it’s fine. Women don’t get that opportunity. Unless they’re for sale. I can have many, she will have me!! Or she can walk.

@jimmyjay6497

Жыл бұрын

She always gone be thinking about Tyrone’s c*ck fellas.

@DarrenJohn10X

10 ай бұрын

[Jada Pinkett-Smith has entered the chat]

@agentcooper4627

9 ай бұрын

I mean, I would be walking away before the question was even finished.

@hughbyrne1428

6 ай бұрын

Hit down accidently

dagger nails means she can barely type, cant do any hobbies, work, or cook or anything that involves using your hands, playing a musical instrument, turning a wrench, using a broom. She is too"good" to do things that involve using your hands !!!

@lochnessmunster1189

22 күн бұрын

Great point.

I'm about to talk to my girl about being friends with her ex. If she's not cool with it, it's over. I should have mentioned it when I first found out, but I was a bit taken back

@edwincolon4391

Жыл бұрын

Update? What happened

@jimbojones9118

11 ай бұрын

Yes we need updates

@rabbiehossain7938

11 ай бұрын

I divorced my wife as she still kept her ex on snapchat. Don't trust that shady app

I agree with the red flags. I would like to add though, that not every dad is perfect and having a fucked up dad (e.g. abusive or narcissistic) does not mean a woman does not deserve a good husband later on. The point IMO is that you take care of your mental health and tackle issues that accured in the past rather then generalizing and saying"All woman who have dad issues mean a red flag.". Heavily depends on how she deals with it nowadays and if she overcame it etc.

@MalinWriteAComment

9 ай бұрын

Good pint. Should we rather talk about "healthy male rolemodels" for cases like the one you describe? If the dad is abusive, narcissist etc. perhaps the daughter/ son has a great relationship with stepfather, grandfather etc. And her mother should at least have a positive view on men.

@huntstyle

7 ай бұрын

I believe saying she has daddy issues implies that she has not worked through and moved past that trauma. Many probably never do. If she's done counseling and is no longer carrying that baggage, that's different.

Nobody ever mentions: When a man makes more money on aggregate than a woman...who is he generally spending that money on? Women who would shrink the 'wage gap' are literally cutting their own throats.

"Dagger claws" I call em CARDI B NAILS.

@ridbanner1407

Жыл бұрын

Raptor claws is the one for me

@shirtlesslager

4 ай бұрын

No way they don't have no kidding feces under those nails. Disgusting.

All of these things are on that list are potentially true. The real problems start the first time you roll over and don't stand up for yourself and your needs. I see and have seen plenty of mates that fell into this trap. It hasn't gone well for them afterwards.

@dw4956

Жыл бұрын

Its called the 90 days shit test. If you fail, you go from relationship to relationshit. All woman pull the 90 days shit test.

Brilliant. Thank you.

Keep an eye out for the Big Four - Progressive, Feminist, single mother, and lots of tattoos. Those alone will cut out 90% of the women you should be avoiding.

"dramaczidal" --"i call it "the Sisterhood" a girl can be caught red handed being evil but the "Sisterhood" will blame men.

Lifehack actually. If a girl has a quote that usually tell you about her insecurities or flaws. It’s amazingly consistent.

A very good point you make about the type of jobs a woman will do and how much they make as a result. A few years ago my daughter was dropping me off at a part of the airport that catered for FIFO to the mine sites. She made the point " this looks like an airport for men" Yes about 95% of the people there were men. If you take this into account I wonder if there is any differance in income for men and wemen.

I was raised by a stepdad and I hated the man with a passion. He and my mom had two sons together. So my stepdad had two step children and two of his own. My two half brothers were completely his kids. My other brother and myself were second class citizens. He was the reason I moved out the house the day after I graduated Highschool. I would never raise someone else's kid as I think it's nearly impossible to truly love another man's kid as you will never be the "real" father.

@decadeyt5891

15 күн бұрын

Mad at the step father🤣 Blame your mom

Each red flag has a pointed base which when impaled thereon will cause you pain and trauma. A bad choice in a partner can be death by 1000 cuts...

Did anyone hear which study he referenced regarding body count and pair bonding etc? I’ve heard this a lot and want to read it myself

@elsa_nyc

Жыл бұрын

I would like to see it myself, too. Everyone states it as fact, but unable to locate the actual study.

@inconnu4961

Жыл бұрын

I had seen the study before (actually the paper written about the study done) it has now been scrubbed from the internet. the Red pill guys had mentioned it pre-Kovid, but havent found it since.

@ericb8413

Жыл бұрын

It’s called the Teachman study. You can google it. Dr Jay Teachman conducted the research.

This was great. Very entertaining. :D

Very helpful advice.

If a woman has talon claws, or dagger nails, is she going to give herself pink eye if she scratches her eye?

@iamenergy9310

Жыл бұрын

Females with those nails I assume have bad hygiene as well, they collect bacteria easily. Those claws demonstrate who they are as well and they're never pleasant

@visionforetold4568

Жыл бұрын

She probably doesn’t even wipe, let’s be honest

@bennaarsongidi9269

Жыл бұрын

Or is lazy bum , can cook , clean etc

My 85 year old mother has a friend group. They laughingly call themselves "The Nags". 😅

@KyleJames860

Жыл бұрын

😊😂😂

This guy hit the nail on the head.

This is a good episode. And I agree with everything brought up.

If I was a mother to a son, I'd give him the same advice.

Would dreadlocks fit into the tattoo/piercing category? Not a full head of dreadlocks but like 2?

Rich is 100% spot on here, i'm 49, straight and have been single for the last 10 years, best years of my life. Kiss goodbye to you hobbies and obsessions when you enter into a relationship.

The emotional baggage analogy. lol

Rich, when you dropping your new book?

How about women who post half naked pictures of themselves on instagram?

@inconnu4961

Жыл бұрын

Thats Red Flag #13 Women seeking Validation

@florianarndt

Жыл бұрын

Don’t waste your time on them.

Its the gigantic liability that scares me away from women. If they want to, they can literally ruin you and your families life with a simple phone call and lie. Its just not worth the possibility of a woman slightly enriching your life. The ROI just isn't there anymore.

Great video

When I was younger the only ladies that had tattoos had been in Prison !

Good insights into women and their committees.

You forgot what I would call an "efficient eater". I dated several women who could really put a large volume of food down quickly. All of them are now obese. Run like hell.

One of your best clips

"Never trust anything that bleeds for 5 days and doesn't run into the woods and dies.." - Advice from some solid old guy when I was like 20

@frankmills1149

Жыл бұрын

Disgusting. Why do you hate all women so much. Grow up.

@MeganWall1019

Жыл бұрын

And then some of our dads talk like this and wonder why we have daddy issues

@ppg4667

Жыл бұрын

@@MeganWall1019 go drink a BudLight in your safe$pace...

@susanlovesjava4961

Жыл бұрын

And if not for that you wouldn't even be here. Keep denying an eternity of biology and reality.

@ppg4667

Жыл бұрын

@@susanlovesjava4961 Why are you two "women" on here watching "the 20 red flags?" Something went wrong in your life/relationship and you're trying to find out "why" ?

#5 Actually experienced this one. Was dating a LEO down in the L.A. area, while I lived in Santa Barbara at the time, and we'd been dating for about 2 months. We seemed simpatico on most things, but one day we were at her place chilling and watching something on TV and I made a joke about something and I don't know if she didn't know her own strength, or if it was intentional, but she suddenly got up and punched me really hard mid-chest. Now, anyone that knows anything about fighting knows that you can stop someone's heart by striking them there, so I was taken aback by both the force she'd hit me with, as well as the fact that she'd actually struck me for no damn good reason. I just got up, said "What the f*ck?!" and left. Never went back. Took only one call from her. Explained my position. And that was that. I actually had a fist-sized bruise appear there the next day. Now, knowing she was a LEO, I could have sent photos and gone down to the local PD and filed charges and whatnot, but I was raising my teen daughter on my own and just didn't think it would be good for her to see dad going through a DV/assault court proceeding at that time. I just left it at the fact that I'd cutoff that potential for further toxic behavior in my life. Only thing that really angered me more than the incident itself, was that when she called me, she kept insisting I was "overreacting". That comment, and the bruise the next day, were what almost did push me to file charges. But I just figured I'd never ever see her butt again and leave it at that.

@miguelgonzalez6213

Жыл бұрын

I should add. I've never ever again considered dating a woman who was employed in a field that pushed them more into the 'masculine zone' than if she worked in an office or career that tended to be more classically a majority of women. Nursing, teaching, accounting, etc.

@samsongomah1318

Жыл бұрын

Absolutely, 100% avoid dating women who work in hyper-masculine occupations like cop, firefighter, paramedic, corrections, or military. The traits needed to survive in these fields breed masculine women who get emotionally eff-ed up because of the things they do and see in their jobs. To make matters worse, many of these women self-medicate the stresses of these jobs with booze and drugs, and wind-up getting involved in workplace flings. I'd add nurses to the list, as well: feminist occupation, stressful, and shiftwork breed emotional trouble. Teachers and psychologists should go no the list, too: highly woke educations turn women in these jobs into man-haters.

@BirdDogey1

Жыл бұрын

I was in law enforcement for 20 years. Never knew a female officer who was happily married. Never.

@FedkaSlovanich

Жыл бұрын

@@FritzDWhiteevery one of her coworkers would harrass the shit out of you till the day you die

@K4113B4113

11 ай бұрын

@@BirdDogey1 Holy shit, really?

Thanks.

I went through a very short relationship. Thought she was the one. Ended in heartbreak cos of one major red flag... She was still in love with her ex and was not only still friends with him (after she left him for abusing her), but i gave her the option to stop talking to him or i leave... She literally chose him... 😂

@luisvilla799

11 ай бұрын

Dude I gave the same option to the woman she picked her male friends I was out, she just happened to text me yesterday some random shit I just ignored it

@Bloom0to9

11 ай бұрын

@@luisvilla799 dude respect! It's hard . I usually say them in that scenario, "how would you feel if your mum was friends with other dudes , going out and messaging them. And how would your dad feel?" And they still think it's normal, they are too far gone. On to the next one brother

@luisvilla799

11 ай бұрын

@@Bloom0to9 yeah man they try to justify it so I’m out I’m starting to see it more in the latin American culture more, I always see it in the black and Anglo American culture and some think it’s okay, they woman I mentioned happens to be of mixed race black and white and tattoos and 2 baby daddy I just wanted to smash but saw the red flags and was out now after I have told numerous times don’t call or text she still does

@Bloom0to9

11 ай бұрын

@@luisvilla799 You and I may have different boundaries (i dont think that is the case) but I suggest to, take a step back and ask yourself what you would advise if your best friends if they were in your position. Me personally, I would run for the hills if I were you haha

@luisvilla799

11 ай бұрын

@@Bloom0to9 I think we had the same boundaries the woman I previously was just a smash plan lucky for me it didn’t get there

Here’s my x partners tattoo story she told me. She had her arm completely sleeved, ok I suppose but then her hand had her husbands name on it and quite big mind you. I enquired the back story ( told me he cheated on her so the day after she found out she got his name tattooed on her ). 🤦‍♂️ 🚩 I was speechless

Very powerful!

One thing I've noticed about men is that when they find a woman attractive, they often try to explain how something works, or teach them something that they are passionate about. They do this because they want to show their value. Like hey, I know good shit, and I'm a good person to know! But women often see it as "mansplaining" because they don't understand why anyone would do that. If you are attracted to them why not flirt directly? But that's the problem. Most men don't know how to flirt properly, and they are trying when they are explaining what they are passionate about. Its all a mess.

Fuuuq my ex back in the day was showing ALL of these signs. She left because she was "talking to her friends" and they told her to leave me. While were dating she was talking to a blaq dude with a TVR also twenty years older and was hanging around him and then shortly after left me. Even though she said "don't worry about it" 😂😂😂😂 I was such a dumbass. Much love from the UK

Dang! My husband sure did luck out. I am glad I have knowledge of these traits and chose to not have them at all or not carry them into my marriage. My marriage and husband are most important, second only to God.

Excellent video. I've sent a few of your videos to a woman friend I knew from 25+ years ago whose life and relationships went off track from subscribing to feminism. Women need to hear a man's perspective because all they ever hear are from other women. One thing about the lawyer though....in the past 15 or so years being on social media, women always say that their attorney tells them it's going to be hard because so many men get away without paying child support and something like 90% of divorces pay zero alimony. And this is for divorce or just baby mama situations involving custody and child support, not marriage. So I wonder if lawyers just tell their clients in general like "You're lucky you have me fighting for you" whether they are a man or woman.🤔 I have no doubt that men can get screwed in court and even more so if they were never married. Society takes care of single mothers but nobody cares about "baby daddy" situations

I wished I would have known this when I was younger. I’ve made poor decisions on my women during my lifetime.

Tattoos are weird. Why would you want to scar yourself and mutilate your body. I don't get it

@jawwad1189

Жыл бұрын

Neither do I, it is sad

@setokaibasbankaccount9109

Жыл бұрын

It’s become a dumb fashion trend. Let’s mutilate the largest organ on our body to look “cool” and get eyeballs from others. It’s corny.

@timothygibney159

Жыл бұрын

@@setokaibasbankaccount9109 I always told myself I am not opposed to a tattoo for something meanable but I have not found any good reason to mutilate myself for any reason. It's permanent

@jmf1976jmf

Жыл бұрын

Maybe to memorialize an awesome person or event, big maybe, still not for me

@sirhenrycurtis2220

Жыл бұрын

Buy a print or T-shirt

I wish to have seen this 15 years ago 😂

Man I wish I could send this to someone anonymously 😂

Have the book? I do! Read it as many times as it takes.

Hoop earings

@shanefitt

Жыл бұрын

bigger the hoop... bigger the hoe... 😂

@decadeyt5891

15 күн бұрын

The bigger the hoop, the bigger the hole

How do you identify women with high body counts? Character profiles can only do so much, there are plenty of "nice" acting and looking women who have actually been through lots of men.

@imageword5576

Жыл бұрын

There are some signs you would probably pick up on if you're observant. For instance, if she is nice and enthusiastic about getting sexual with you on the first date, that probably means she's been with a lot of guys before you.

@joeylatz7611

Жыл бұрын

Stirling cooper brushed on perfectly cause he explained exactly a girl I fucked who had a high notch count. When she’s flakey, doesn’t respect your time, doesn’t do wifey things to try to impress you so she can stick around , inability to pair bond( fucks but can easily hop to someone else the next day) a girl with morals would put in effort to stick around after being with a new partner cause she doesn’t want to add another notch. Look him up on body count cause girls would never tell you the truth when you ask but they are some key signs to know or have an idea

@CopperBased

Жыл бұрын

Instagram. Also women will tell on themselves, eventually.

@radekradek8509

Жыл бұрын

Depends, if you get her comfortable enough (right environment and right time e.g. she's tipsy or just after sex) she's gonna tell you all you need to know. No need to ask it directly, you can indicate you had a girlfriend with high body count and see her reaction.

@ericlewis9638

Жыл бұрын

⁠@@CopperBased 1000% If you know what to listen for they will tell you everything and if you have a good memory they will tell you something. AND 123456 months later they will tell you the exact opposite not remembering what they had told you before that is how you catch them lying and know what’s really going on. Also whatever they tell you when they’re drunk or whatever they tell you when they’re really angry that’s the truth. And lastly and probably the most important of all is always trust your gut if something doesn’t seem right and all of a sudden you feel like you’ve been punched in the stomach your gut is telling you something really really really wrong and if you hear voices to tell you something believe the voices it’s your intuition the universe god whatever you wanna believe talking to you trying to get you out of trouble. that’s what they really mean and feel.

My ex had a war council, I used to blame them for the end of relationship. Then I blamed her. Then I blamed myself for choosing her. Now I can see why I chose her. I feel sorry for both of us yet hopeful that I can do better in the future.

Hard times create strong men

Why I didn't had this advice 50 years ago.

@levigivens

Жыл бұрын

50 years ago, it was considered common sense. The nuclear family, taboo tattoos, no social media. Etc.

@KD400_

Жыл бұрын

Because it was common sense back then. U guys had Muhammad Ali richard pryor elvis the Beatles frank Sinatra johnny carson dick cavett etc. This level of intelligence today is so low