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  @mamolefiqobose8940Күн бұрын

  Bathong this is painful...am soon sorry Fifi

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  @kelebogilemmanekemaplanka1340Күн бұрын

  We serve a living God, who is merciful. This story is sooooooo DEEP and it can ONLY be GOD. Thank you Gaona for allowing Batswana this space to share their life experiences.

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  @learnwithme3222 күн бұрын

  This should be used as a teaching aid in schools. Please let's share with our teacher friends and save our children! Batswana betsho let's protect our children!

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  @gaonaliveconversations2 күн бұрын

  We need to do that 🙌🏽

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  @boitumelomaswabi15612 күн бұрын

  And people still wonder why the no one cares for extended family anymore, now you know. Better safe than sorry!

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  @peggypheage52262 күн бұрын

  Love and light ❤

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  @refilwesilandela79302 күн бұрын

  Thank you so much for watching. And hope there bits of information that can be used in keeping our children safe. Love Refilwe 😘🌸

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  @user-hg4xm4hd1s2 күн бұрын

  😭 💔

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  @refilwesilandela79302 күн бұрын

  What a testimony of God’s faithfulness. He takes broken pieces and uses them as a tool to help the next generation. I hope there were some bits of information you got from the podcast to help keep our children safe Love Refilwe😘🌸

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  @khravos3 күн бұрын

  Course most kids dont speak up. Everyone claims to be a rape victim nowadays like its a badge of honor or something. Im sure most actual victims don't want to be apart of that group of people where they act like its cool to be a victim.

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  @ThembisoMhlauli2 күн бұрын

  Badge of honour????? Are you being serious....people share information to help others not for honour....

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  @gaonaliveconversations2 күн бұрын

  You are sick

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  @refilwesilandela79302 күн бұрын

  My good sir I do agree with you most children don’t speak up because of the trauma done to them. But I totally disagree with your comments about those who have chosen to speak up about abuse they faced as children. I believe we are brave and we are refusing to remain victims or embarrassed or hurt. We refuse to allow the same pattern of abuse to continue to the next generation. We speak up to our families or other means of social media to alert people the dangers that children live with. I am hundred percent proud of myself or any survivor that spoke up about the abuse they faced. God is proud of us. Love and light Refilwe 🌸

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  @vezembakario63003 күн бұрын

  Love and light Refilwe❤ Waitse having a girl child is scary😢tota hela botlhe we just need to be engaged in their lives maybe such incidents would be avoided 😢

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  @refilwesilandela79302 күн бұрын

  So true having a child whether a boy child or girl child is scary but we always cover them with the blood of Jesus and speak life over their lives. My book has more insight on what I call mindful parenting from my own experience as a survivor. It teaches on what to look out for but it also has a beautiful storyline as well which is so child friendly and colourful. Your children will want to read it every day 😁🙏🏾🌸. Love Refilwe 😘🌸

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  @gigitobedza69803 күн бұрын

  I think also the boy child should be taught just as the girl child that they should not be touched inappropriately. I have heard a story of a young boy who wrote to a radio station that they are 11 and they are being molested by an adult man and did not know what to do. Both genders need to be taught how to respect each other, how not to violate the other and how not to breach one another’s boundaries. I understand though that this is from a perspective that such things mostly happen to the girl child.

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  @refilwesilandela79302 күн бұрын

  Yes I totally agree I think we focused a lot on my story but it was also important to note that my book is not only targeted at girl child only. The fiction part of the story is loosely based on my own tragic experience of child abuse but the other part of the book is on mindful parenting from my own experience as a survivor. So my book is in two parts. The book speaks for all genders where we begin teaching our children young that no one is allowed to touch you inappropriately. We have seen so many sad cases where girl children and boy children are molested which breaks my heart. I totally agree that both genders need to be taught boundaries from an early age. Love the information you gave mummy and thank you for the feedback Love Refilwe 😘🌸

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  @gaonaliveconversations2 күн бұрын

  Absolutely accurate Gigi ❤

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  @wamponatsimanyana3 күн бұрын

  🫂🫂🫂🫂🫂❤

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  @refilwesilandela79302 күн бұрын

  Thank you so much for the million hugs 🤗 you send my way. God bless you Love Refilwe 😘🌸

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  @sethunyaethusang24153 күн бұрын

  Heartbreakin....to light and love Ref. I wil definitely get yo book.

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  @refilwesilandela79302 күн бұрын

  Thank you so much for wanting to get the book 📕 🙏🏾🌸. May God increase and bless. Love Refilwe 😘

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  @LesegoKSekwati4 күн бұрын

  Love and light my dear God is our refuge and strength ❤❤

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  @refilwesilandela79302 күн бұрын

  Thank you so much for the words of prayer indeed God is our Refuge and strength😘. A beautiful testimony indeed. The book has more insight on how to take care of our children and keep them safe from predators. Love Refilwe 😘🌸

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  @learnwithme3224 күн бұрын

  Gaona, in light of this conversation, I'd like you to explore the role of sleepovers...Keep up the good work, baby sis!❤❤❤

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  @sethunyaethusang24153 күн бұрын

  I don't subscribe to sleep overs bcz of these thins

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  @gaonaliveconversations3 күн бұрын

  You are absolutely right. Will work on it ❤

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  @learnwithme3224 күн бұрын

  Thank you for speaking up, my sister! Sooooo many children have suffered and continue to suffer in silence. I have mentored one who lost a mother, then right after losing her mom, she was raped by her mother's brother and her mother's father. Ga ke batle go dirisa uncle le grandfather for emphasis purposes. So my dear, you're doing the Lord's work. You are a survivor! You have successfully reclaimed your agency. Gaona, thank you for creating a platform for such important conversations!❤❤

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  @gaonaliveconversations3 күн бұрын

  Thank you so much for watching and appreciating these real life stories 🙏🏽🙏🏽

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  @refilwesilandela79302 күн бұрын

  Thank you so much for mentoring the child that went through so much trauma. You are hero and May your kind heart shown to that beautiful child be rewarded. Thank you so much for the words of affirmation spoken to me. Love Refilwe 😘🌸

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  @learnwithme3222 күн бұрын

  @@refilwesilandela7930 Love and light, sis!💫🫂❤️

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  @motumidintwe23814 күн бұрын

  May God continue to be with you in your journey, may he bless your writing so that we get to see more of your books.

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  @refilwesilandela79302 күн бұрын

  Thank you so much for the words of prayer 🙏🏾. Amen and Amen Love Refilwe 😘🌸

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  @masandefuzile22614 күн бұрын

  Ke matsapa

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  @QueenShaz-oc3qg4 күн бұрын

  some doctors are from hell. I once had a Psychologist who told me to stop crying, while he was counting the things i have in my life like family, job and etc., knowing very well my frustration was coming from those things.

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  @patiencetsiane39825 күн бұрын

  Sad story Anitah, but you are a strong woman indeed.

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  @user-je4gg4sk1v5 күн бұрын

  She’s still hurting sooo much you can hear her heavy breathing when asked questions 😢 love nd light MisRu 🙏🏾🥰🥰

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  @rasfigorakwena4278 күн бұрын

  Eish 😭 how do i get in contact le stux

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  @mfundowcele96448 күн бұрын

  Thank you somuch for video guys 🙏My 39 Year old Aunt is living with Dermatomysis it's been 2 years now, physically he's gained a lot of weight plump skin but no itchiness, clear skin only fatigue and joint pain that's she suffering from the most.

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  @keoneeG9 күн бұрын

  Ga ke na kgang.. hei 😢botshelo bo kgona go nna botlhoko.. this is too painful. Love and light to you my sister

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  @TshepisoMmolai10 күн бұрын

  Toxic! 😢

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  @jamesramhawana897811 күн бұрын

  May the Almighty bless Kagiso Sekati abundantly 🙏🙏🙏

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  @tetorakola255611 күн бұрын

  What a strong woman ❤ I felt it when she said depression wants you all to itself, it wants to separate you from people 😢

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  @justd.d751714 күн бұрын

  39:43 😂😂😂😂 a re bue ka noga took me out

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  @pulanemahase72814 күн бұрын

  I love how she let out a beautiful, genuine laughter there at the end after sharing such a heavy experience. Gaona, thank you so much for this podcast. I have seen a couple of comments from Batswana bahaeso bare they had been waiting for a podcast like this in Bots. Le 'na kele Mosotho oa Lesotho oa habo lona I appreciate this podcast. I have been binging on old episodes. I love how candid and vulnerable your guests are, I love how you make them feel comfortable and you allow yourself to be soaked in too. I think that important. The conversations here are so real and informative. Keep up the good work ausi ❤

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  @paulbarnett758816 күн бұрын

  It's sad to see woman suffer like this when all the females wellness information from Yah was written in the Torah by Moshe (Moses). The two main reasons why women suffer: 1. about 95% of experiments are done on men and male animals. 2. Wellness information for women in the Torah is interpolated in the Bibles. These two reasons create the ultimate disease called misogynyreligious disease. Example, in Wayekra ((Leviticus) 15:19 "she shall be put apart". Here's a mental picture how wicked is that expression, it's like a 28 to 30 pound nutritious cake from the creator was to be given a woman to enrich and nourish for a month but she is only given 0.001% part of the cake for the month. Will that woman be well-fed? Any serious woman, who wants to know the 99.999% part of the wellness information that is removed from the Christian Bibles can contact me with your husband or parent or a brother.

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  @linahtuta462216 күн бұрын

  I've been struggling with severe migraines as far back as i can remember, ive been to the Headache clinic in Braamfontein, got a device that i used to put in my mouth, but even that stopped working eventually. When i am going to have a severe migraine attack, my vision normally gets blurry for about 30min, THEN, a migraine. They are so intense that i have to be sedated or take heavy medication to drug me to sleep. I have been to numerous neurologists.I have tried numerous medication, yet i still struggle with them. I dont know what triggers them, they just hit me.A migraine could literally wake me up in the middle of the night, I'll wake up screaming. They are random. I get migraine attacks once every month, or once in two months. And its always on either side of my face. I am so triggered watching this video because for once I feel someone understands my pain. To top it all, I work in the Auditing field, a pressurised environment. I dont know how many times i have been absent from work due to migraine attack, or how many times I've had to leave work. And people think these are just "headaches", they dont understand how severe and intense these are. Some even swear I am demon possessed when i get an attack. My comment is all over the place because i relate so much to this video. Feels like you are describing my reality. I am so triggered, but thank you for sharing, at least now i know I'm not alone.

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  @kellyloeto222416 күн бұрын

  @@linahtuta4622 have you checked if they could be triggered by hormones?

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  @linahtuta462215 күн бұрын

  @@kellyloeto2224 I have not, I have had numerous tests though, but no Dr has told what the trigger could be.

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  @kamomasokwane766016 күн бұрын

  I am due to see a neurologist in November, in the meantime whenever they attack, God knows I feel like burying myself 😪

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  @anitahmoeng880916 күн бұрын

  Oh no precious lady. I am so sorry. Why is your appointment so far? Is there anything that helps in the meantime whilst you are still waiting for your appointment?

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  @anitahmoeng880916 күн бұрын

  These 3 months are going to be a long wait😢

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  @kamomasokwane766015 күн бұрын

  @@anitahmoeng8809 I booked in May, so I/we were told that the only available dates are in November. I tried a different hospital and it was worse, they were giving me dates in Feb 2025..

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  @kamomasokwane766015 күн бұрын

  @@anitahmoeng8809 Govt dates! I managed to book in May. I was told to try another hospital but it was even worse, I was getting dates from Feb/March 2025, even worse.

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  @IAmChosen992516 күн бұрын

  Love from 🇿🇦🇿🇦🇿🇦🇿🇦🇿🇦🇿🇦🇿🇦🇿🇦🇿🇦☺️🤘🏽🌹

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  @IAmChosen992516 күн бұрын

  Sharing my sympathy, my boyfriend tells me of his background it's very similar to fifi's story and everytime he shares I can tell his broken even with all he has accomplished.

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  @IAmChosen992516 күн бұрын

  Love her ❤️is she on KZread

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  @kellyloeto222416 күн бұрын

  Thank you for sharing your story Anita. Made me realise my migraines are nothing compared to what you go through. I know that paralyzing pain. I tell people that when you come out of an attack, it feels like you’re emerging from the depths of hell where you were physically fighting for your life. You feel so drained! May God heal you. I pray that you find the root cause and finally find healing.

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  @redibonemohlamonyane623916 күн бұрын

  Kagiso is such a woman, I don't trust myself go ka ema maemo a gage shem.

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  @latunahtarea445317 күн бұрын

  migraines are just the worst , i remember my first attack i thought i was dying

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  @anitahmoeng880916 күн бұрын

  Yeap,i totally get you. We wont die from these though. Are they gone now?

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  @latunahtarea445316 күн бұрын

  @@anitahmoeng8809 lucky for me I know I only get them when I braid something tight ..so I learn to avoid tight hairstyles ...

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  @philipmpolokeng922417 күн бұрын

  One of the headaches 😩 whenever it hits me I just need my space,no sounds, no light just my bed and a dark room with no noise until I get better 😢..nd most people don't understand this headache until it hits them

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  @anitahmoeng880917 күн бұрын

  Im so sorry you have had to experience this. Lets educate them and sensitise our families about our needs when we get these

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  @MalebogoSmith17 күн бұрын

  God is there waitse bathong 🥲....

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  @samuelphadi786317 күн бұрын

  Wait for this episode ❤

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  @mmapulakootshole2520 күн бұрын

  Bathung ka mokgwa o ke sa itshwareleng ka teng nka latela mother wa ko SOS ke setse ke godile jaanong....ko gre o ne are bana ba ba reng???😢

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  @boitumelomsboi477722 күн бұрын

  How inspirational 😊😢

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  @masegoolekile408424 күн бұрын

  Shee Fifi, touching story.you are so strong! We thank God for protection, grace and His divine leadings❤️ thank you for sharing your story. Forward and up you go hun! 🤗

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  @kelebileonemubu788324 күн бұрын

  Test before testimony 🙏

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  @OntlametseMotsisi24 күн бұрын

  Eish 😢 😢 😢

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  @tebogonorman805625 күн бұрын

  Ao Gaona mma 💔😭😭😭😭😭😭😭I have never cried like this. But look at God 🙏

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  @gaonaliveconversations24 күн бұрын

  Eish it’s a heart wrenching story and I’m so happy it has a happy ending

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  @SelebogoBlessedMotho26 күн бұрын

  How do you share this with your kids😢

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  @SelebogoBlessedMotho26 күн бұрын

  Thanks Gaona for giving her chance to share this with US😭🙏Modimo o teng😭❤️

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  @gaonaliveconversations24 күн бұрын

  I’m so grateful she trusted me with her story

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  @ElaineMoeng26 күн бұрын

  Wow! This is so inspirational…To God be the glory

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  @priscillankhabe455127 күн бұрын

  Mom le ene bathong... Going for days ntse nto e sena mabati😭😭

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  @gaonaliveconversations24 күн бұрын

  Eish mma 😢

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  @thapeloodirile492323 күн бұрын

  You can say tht again😢😂yei...come and see

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  @mmapulakootshole2520 күн бұрын

  Ey mma,le ene O ne a pega weight hagodimo ga bothata jo bana ba ba neng ba setse ba nale jone 😢 ng-ng 'tshelo Jo!!

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  @TshenoloPMalatsi27 күн бұрын

  Pain before purpose❤️‍🩹