Navigating Loss, Finding Strength: Dallutah Moncho's Journey Through Grief

Embark on an emotional journey with Gaona Live in this touching episode featuring Dallutah Moncho, a resilient woman who has faced profound grief and loss in her life. Dallutah bravely shares her heart-wrenching story of enduring unimaginable tragedies, starting with the devastating loss of her older brother to suicide when she was just 8 years old, followed by the passing of her father due to illness shortly after, and later the unexpected loss of her mother when she was 18.
In this deeply personal conversation, Dallutah reflects on the profound impact of these losses and how they shaped her as an individual. She candidly discusses the immense emotional toll of losing three significant figures in her life at different stages of her upbringing and the enduring effects it had on her mental health and emotional well-being.
Moreover, Dallutah shares the complexities of navigating motherhood while carrying the weight of such profound grief. She reflects on how her experiences of loss influenced her approach to raising her daughter, touching on the challenges, and the resilience she found while navigating the delicate balance between her own healing and being a nurturing mother.
Join Gaona Live and Dallutah Moncho in an intimate and heartfelt conversation that explores the depths of grief, resilience, and the complexities of navigating life after experiencing immense loss. This episode serves as a tribute to the strength found in adversity and offers empathy and understanding to those who have walked a similar path of enduring profound grief and loss.

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  • @thuogabankhalele4637
    @thuogabankhalele46377 ай бұрын

    I'm profoundly sorry to Dallu for her devastating losses, and really wish her all the best. Gaona you always hold this deeply painful conversations with empathy, o sena le di cue cards! You're called for this,I know you know this🤗

  • @gaonaliveconversations

    @gaonaliveconversations

    7 ай бұрын

    Oh girl, thank you so much, I always say to the guests “let’s not script it, let’s let the Holy Spirit lead us” 😁

  • @thuogabankhalele4637

    @thuogabankhalele4637

    7 ай бұрын

    Amen❤

  • @4tshepom
    @4tshepom7 ай бұрын

    Saw this on TikTok and came here to watch it in full. Dallu is so strong and carries herself so well. I hope that God provides for her and she has everlasting healing from the grief she has faced ❤️

  • @tumelonkhwa6802
    @tumelonkhwa68027 ай бұрын

    Ooh Darling Dallu baby bathong you've always been a strong girl always smiles even @ our boarding school 😊how your mama loved writting letters to you and started with darling dallu and you'll let us read them @ primary school... You are healed baby you've come thus far 💝

  • @pakokatlegobasana
    @pakokatlegobasana7 ай бұрын

    Her voice is full of pain 😭💔She is so strong,her story is so painful and she couldn’t tear up 😭😭,am sending hugs to you ❤️❤️❤️

  • @gobonaonepitlagano8028
    @gobonaonepitlagano80287 ай бұрын

    Nna grieve and fear held me back from having kids, im 33 now the very same age my mum passed on but I'm still not sure about having a kid. My Mom's passing away when i was only 9 brought so much fear of having kids, i think of them losing me ba le bannye. I totally feel hear her

  • @sebaganku8125
    @sebaganku81257 ай бұрын

    Saw Tik Tok clip and I came running immediately.....

  • @amahKebonang
    @amahKebonang7 ай бұрын

    Growing up my life was miserable, when I lost my mom I blocked the pain,did not cry even when the casket went down because I was worried about my siblings 😭 trust me blocking away that pain will catch up with you when time goes on....All I can say is God is good all the time 🙏🙏

  • @thabangkabesa5948
    @thabangkabesa59487 ай бұрын

    Just shed a tear when Dallu said she was 18 years 😪😪😪😪😪 when mama passed on

  • @rosinahmaoba5153
    @rosinahmaoba51537 ай бұрын

    Thank you for sharing. May God continue to strengthen and heal you.

  • @tumelomagwegwe4985
    @tumelomagwegwe49857 ай бұрын

    This is painfull 😢 but hope with time you are healing…

  • @daisy_lalagags6240
    @daisy_lalagags62407 ай бұрын

    Shame some people have been through the most, may God continue to heal your strong heart dear.. May He guide you to the best path of your life,& may He give you that fulfillment that your heart desires... continue being a strong positive person that you are... One thing I have learnt is that most of us have deep cutting wounds that our parents failed to protect us or even help us heal from them... You are doing a great job protecting your daughter from all that... She will grow up as a strong person...

  • @user-vz4cz8vs3o
    @user-vz4cz8vs3o4 ай бұрын

    I'm literally in tears😭😭 this conversation just triggered my grief for my late brother. Loosing a sibling is devastating yet it's often downplayed. Sending love n light Dallutah❤❤❤️

  • @user-xq2mc6ie2r
    @user-xq2mc6ie2r7 ай бұрын

    There is healing in talking about loss, indeed Dallu u are a very strong woman. Love and light❤may the good Lord continue to strengthen you❤

  • @pasekar
    @pasekar7 ай бұрын

    I cried watching this so sad💔

  • @maatlateto5534
    @maatlateto55347 ай бұрын

    It was an emotional episode 😢💔 love and light to you Dallu❤

  • @segakwengsebolao9633
    @segakwengsebolao96337 ай бұрын

    This was a painful episode to watch but sending all the love to Dallu.

  • @banayensala7390
    @banayensala73906 ай бұрын

    Thank you for sharing your story….😢

  • @tumisunshinekgannyeng7886
    @tumisunshinekgannyeng78866 ай бұрын

    Hugs mama my prayer is that God comforts you and pardon you in every way

  • @lamenthibelang3270
    @lamenthibelang32707 ай бұрын

    Eagerly waiting

  • @maitumeloramonkga8182
    @maitumeloramonkga81827 ай бұрын

    Loving this conversation and so many parts of it are relatable, loosing people you love, and when she talked about having to be strong for her mum, that has been me all my life. Death remains a mystery!

  • @ammytshabatau1840
    @ammytshabatau18407 ай бұрын

    Absolutely love watching this channel grow and appreciate the quality of the show. The whole Production, tone, chemistry with the guests....its all so organic 🎉🌼

  • @sethunyaethusang2415
    @sethunyaethusang24157 ай бұрын

    Very emotional journey...Dallutah has gone thru a lot of pain at a young age..i wish all the best in all aspects of her life. Thank u so much Gaona for this episode...as always u r make us appreciate that its not only s goin thru diff situations...ppl r goin thru worse...this would definately motivates sm1 to keep pushin with life.

  • @collinmoruakgomo9440
    @collinmoruakgomo94407 ай бұрын

    ijoo, I can relate🤞 my great grandma used to introduce us like, "ke ene Collin wa mmaagwe wa gore..." ka nako eo, i am young, confused, i have so many unaswered questions, and afraid that their answers might tear me apart, that hela had to silence the inside me 😭

  • @gaonaliveconversations

    @gaonaliveconversations

    7 ай бұрын

    Awww so sorry about that

  • @abbymildred8
    @abbymildred87 ай бұрын

    I really admire your strength Dallu. I can so much relate to your story, especially with regards to your mom’s illness, being in Marina, loosing her, God blessing you with a baby girl. I feel your pain because I experienced the same thing. May God heal your heart & give you strength to become to best mom to your baby girl❤️❤️

  • @malebogolaonebakaka4463
    @malebogolaonebakaka44637 ай бұрын

    You are so so strong Dallu...May God continue to guard and guide you dearest...heard you very clearly 'talk if need be' its very important ❤

  • @stephinabareki1753
    @stephinabareki17537 ай бұрын

    This is me gaining strength...

  • @yolandamothudi9278
    @yolandamothudi92787 ай бұрын

    Sending all the love Dallu ❤, you’ve always been a strong girl growing up. Modimo wa go rata friend.

  • @gohahmaitapiso
    @gohahmaitapiso6 ай бұрын

    She is a brave woman❤😔

  • @Peaches70017
    @Peaches700177 ай бұрын

    ao shems bathong, this is all too much.I couldnt hold back my tears. Dallu is so strong, to endure all this yoh!

  • @masegomotlhaping8928
    @masegomotlhaping89287 ай бұрын

    Ouch sorry dear🫂🫂it is well! Dallu you are so strong, may God heal, restore you and help you face the future with much hope and faith ❤❤love you so much 🫂🫂 Thank you Gaona for the conversation ❤❤

  • @kutlontwayapelo8368
    @kutlontwayapelo83685 ай бұрын

    Takes me back to the journey of caring for my mom and eventually havin to deal with losing her… ijoooo the 💔💔

  • @Ratie441
    @Ratie4417 ай бұрын

    Il never forget Dallu nd her story.❤️God bless you mam.

  • @semukelisomaseko8795
    @semukelisomaseko87956 ай бұрын

    💔💔This is heart breaking. Your mama taught u well Jehovah is always there for u my girl. He says throw all your burdens to him. And he says draw close to me and l will draw close to u. James 4:8

  • @tsholofelomoyo2819
    @tsholofelomoyo28197 ай бұрын

    May God continue to strengthen you,heal you ,both parents I loved and had opportunity be around their spiritual space at Botswana Council of churches

  • @opelomoakofi771
    @opelomoakofi7717 ай бұрын

    Iyooo😭😭😭😭😭I’m literally crying watching..😭😭

  • @gaoneranko-ngakaemang9837
    @gaoneranko-ngakaemang98376 ай бұрын

    Ijoh mma o strong😢😢😢... Sending my hugs❤

  • @tshegomotlhageng
    @tshegomotlhageng7 ай бұрын

    Eish...I knw the feeling...been there😪

  • @cliffordmmolawa4824
    @cliffordmmolawa48247 ай бұрын

    Iyhooo😥😨😢 l don't kno the pain of loosing immediate family members in such a tragic manner & in a short space of time,,, but hey l'm very sorry 4 yr loses! May the good Lord continue 2 bless u & give u more strength 2 pull through💪✊💐 @33:55..."My other aunt a bo a nthaa a re,"Dallu, pull yourself together, o ngwana o le nosi, you need to toughen up. E seng yalo dio tsa ga mmago ditlo go senngwa ke batho." 😭😭😭😭 IT HIT HOME ThanQ again Gaona & yr team 4 yet another intriguing episode

  • @keletsorantsiapana3794
    @keletsorantsiapana37947 ай бұрын

    Haish this life on earth is just painful 😢 love and light Dallu❤ Modimo ke ene a itseng

  • @kediemetseg.mokomeng225
    @kediemetseg.mokomeng2257 ай бұрын

    😢so sad

  • @matlhogonolofrederick22
    @matlhogonolofrederick223 ай бұрын

    😭 😭 awwww May MODIMO heal you ❤and bless you

  • @bamedibeela7070
    @bamedibeela70707 ай бұрын

    Yohh💔

  • @pearlypearl3880
    @pearlypearl38807 ай бұрын

    Yhoooo💔

  • @xcoolmate04
    @xcoolmate047 ай бұрын

    Dallu mma i resonate w every word you said i lost both mom and dad all i can say is eish go bokete mma.no child should burry their parents yoh Modimo re gopole masiela 💔

  • @betshondlovu717
    @betshondlovu7177 ай бұрын

    Oooh Dallu 🥺❤️, I am so sorry for your losses, may God continue to be with you tlhe mma and give you forever healing and strength ❤

  • @nobbyrabantheng5201
    @nobbyrabantheng52017 ай бұрын

    Dallu is the true definition of a young strong lady and God will open great doors for her and most importantly give her eternal peace An angel in flesh

  • @relebanyemathabe3435
    @relebanyemathabe34354 ай бұрын

    😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢 💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔 💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔

  • @itumelengramotlhwa907
    @itumelengramotlhwa9076 ай бұрын

    Sorry for all that you been through Dallu, God chose you and continue being strong. 🫂 Modimo ke Modimo, thato yagwe e botlhoko but He remains our God. Love and light you ❤️😚

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