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  @Spookyy2412 күн бұрын

  Conversations like this are what keep relationships alive

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  @gwendolynharper604816 күн бұрын

  Ok i need yo see this in its entirety.......lol.

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  @joanriach919117 күн бұрын

  I guess that is why in the past people got engaged for two or three years before they got married.

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  @sisblk78617 күн бұрын

  🤔😆😌 Is it Sorta-Kinda like a DOUBLE-SIDED BASKET? *askin for a friend

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  @paulwilliams829326 күн бұрын

  I Enjoyed The Conversation. And The However Definitely Needed To Be Explored.Thanks.

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  @sosapiosexual25 күн бұрын

  Glad you enjoyed it

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  @JeanZamot29 күн бұрын

  Jesus is Lord

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  @mamaluicioussoulfoodandent955929 күн бұрын

  You can still love a person and let them go.. I loved my children father and he loved me, but we couldn't stay together. Love brought us together, and love was a reason why we separated.

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  @sosapiosexual29 күн бұрын

  I agree. Thanks for the comment

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  @p0k3mn1Ай бұрын

  True love, is eternal, non conditional, and will always be there. Damn near impossible to achieve

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  @TrippyGoldFTWАй бұрын

  i think she’s right. true love will remain forever. if yu “fall outta love” you never truly loved them to begin with. edit: i think yu can have love for someone yet realize that it isn’t right or it won’t work.

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  @ivindavis4071Ай бұрын

  I think it's different between men and women. I'm not saying it's ok for a man to cheat, but it's different then if a woman does it. If the man is spending time,money and sex on her then I think that for definitely be cheating

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  @MONKEYDZETSАй бұрын

  Facts or Facts

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  @MrFrankwite1Ай бұрын

  Talking bout Dreaka G?

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  @user-cw5ov9lu8rАй бұрын

  Learn to be spiritually, physically, emotionally and mentally stable... Self love is a must. I know this now and more.❤

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  @brandysmitg4016Ай бұрын

  She sounds single.

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  @rjd.6067Ай бұрын

  This is such a poor piece of advice. How about we teach our young to handle the dirt. In your twenties you are legally grown.

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  @waynescott2804Ай бұрын

  Enjoy getting your holes filled and then getting cats.

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  @NikkiScott1Ай бұрын

  Just saying, humans were made to find their mate and marry for life and have kids. We were created to do that, so yes, if you find l9ve in your 20s, get married.

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  @a1alyssaaАй бұрын

  I feel like her view on this topic is a lil biased she seems very male centered

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  @REALTALK150Ай бұрын

  Aye BRUH... Where yall get buddy from???

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  @sosapiosexualАй бұрын

  This is by far the best comment/ advice we have ever gotten across all social media platforms thank you so much for taking the time to articulate your thoughts and opinion on our video. After I re-watching the video we posted multiple times I have came to the conclusion and 💯 percent agree with my wife there is a difference between boundary and control. Her thoughts views and opinions wasn’t understood by me at the time but now I truly understand what she was saying again thank you so much for the comment. Much love peace

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  @GaryLamb2020Ай бұрын

  🤭🤭🤭

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  @GaryLamb2020Ай бұрын

  I'm going to use my wife's name as an example. I call Letoya "Toya". I've called her that ever since we started dating. She does not like it when I spell her name Toya when referring to her. She feels that it teaches others call her "Toya". I don't see what wrong with others calling her Toya, but she DOES. It could be a respect thing or whatever... It does not matter. She doesn't like it and every time I do it, she mentions it. So, I stop spelling her name without the" Le"... That is a boundary of which she will not let go of. Is she controlling me? No! I literally used "Toya" several times, but to honor my wife's wishes I restrain MYSELF from doing that on a regular, hence why I think Tiffany says it's a boundary and not control. My wife can't prevent me from using "Toya" no more then I can prevent her from letting me know she does NOT like it. I can continue ignoring her boundary and she will keep reminding me of that boundary. Now, let's say I decide I don't care what she feels about it. I'm going to use "Toya" no matter how many times she tells me she doesn't like it. What other boundaries am I ignoring because I feel she is trying to "control" me with boundaries? Welp, I think that is insanely OUT of control. I can't honor my wife by adding 2 letters??? That is absurd. If my wife likes to go to the club and she ignores my wishes for her not to, she is telling me she is not in this relationship to build but to benefit, which is cool "IF" I accept it, but to go along with a person who has shown she is not going to budge on what is causing me pain is immature, insecure and unloving to "myself". I don't care if my wife goes to the club or not. However, I DO care who she is going with and why. I don't allow her to go with just anybody. (Yes! I Control that!) and she has the same authority over me. (The husband's/wifes body no longer belongs to themselves) there's plenty of reasons for this. I know my spouses blindspots and she knows mine. I may have a drinking problem or a wondering eye or naive or gullible or whatever. It doesn't always have to be for attention, but safety. Marriage in of itself is controlling. We BOTH decided to cut all other options off by vowing to each other. There's just certain things I am no longer allowed to do without consulting with my spouse and to ignore that open doors to easily avoidable problems. If someone you're interested in sees YOUR boundaries as controlling, then control YOUR feet and walk away, cuz trust and believe that person has a boundary called "You Can't CONTROL Me!" and I will respect that boundary by leaving. 😊

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  @GaryLamb2020Ай бұрын

  @27:18 Completely agree with Tif on this. I see where you are coming from, I do... however, to say the everybody NEEDS strangers validation is far fetch. I need validation from my wife and ONLY my wife. No other woman matters because that woman's values may not mesh with mine, my body type, height, too muscular, not muscular enough... etc can all be disqualification. I had a woman tell me that I'm too cute. I didn't even know that was a thing until I heard it. On the flip side, it does stroke egos to receive a compliment or two, but to NEED validation? Gotta disagree with that.

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  @bloodastro8393Ай бұрын

  That was honestly the worst advice ever

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  @kashiavanlengen7943Ай бұрын

  I'm sorry what did he say

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  @bryonnewman2959Ай бұрын

  She’s right and he’s a simp.

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  @aliens-4-saleАй бұрын

  she’s right lol

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  @mountainmade4094Ай бұрын

  This dude wants to be cheated on. 😂😂😂 clown 🤡

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  @RealKevDortaАй бұрын

  Right ❤

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  @sunset33533Ай бұрын

  I had to stop rejecting myself to build confidence. The meditation book called 30 Days to Overcome Rejection by Harper Daniels helped a lot for me.

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  @happym3008Ай бұрын

  The source is codependency on childhood

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  @ceceporter3923Ай бұрын

  All facts!

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  @tehhampshure6337Ай бұрын

  I agree with Lamont... people can go to the club for many reasons, it can be a celebration, someone who loves to dance, seeking attention etc.. Limiting to people only seek attention isn't necessarily everyone's circumstance. When it pertains to the topic of control. If someone knew their partner loves going to the club, and they don't. It will causes problems if the partner who decides not to go tells their partner not to go. They should make the decision to leave based on different stages of life. But if the partner doesn't want to breakup they would have to work through some of their insecurities. The control comes into play when the person decides they would rather keep their partner home with them instead of going out. This will cause resentment along with the partner becoming dishonest. Great topic and podcast!!!

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  @sosapiosexualАй бұрын

  Thanks for the comment and I understand your position in this debate thanks again

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  @anap2353Ай бұрын

  So it’s a double standard? If Riri does it it’s good? lol.

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  @wesleymadevlogs3131Ай бұрын

  I agree with Tiffany

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  @wesleymadevlogs3131Ай бұрын

  Great topic 🗣️

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  @gwendolynharper60482 ай бұрын

  God Mommy is loving alot of these videos that I'm seeing ,tjis one in particular so true so good ,I love the growth from when you first began .....go babygirl!!!👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼

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  @sosapiosexual2 ай бұрын

  Thank you 🙏🏽

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  @lauravalancy25212 ай бұрын

  Mine really really really does. ❤

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  @marvinbyrd59672 ай бұрын

  This is incredibly stupid. Women are not capable have handling men's baggage because men's life is is so much more difficult. This is just too much feminist brain washing that tells women they are oppressed. Any man who has opened up about his baggage in a meaningful way will turn his girl off 100%.

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  @dwightperry98112 ай бұрын

  These women always projecting their crap on men, talking about we are all dramatically broken. No we're all not, just you

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  @TheSillymansam2 ай бұрын

  Women only pick winners at the finish line. They will not build a man who is at his low.

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  @theshillonggirl2 ай бұрын

  America and its single mother boom - yet still teaching men how to date ! Crap!

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  @Man295t2 ай бұрын

  Don't listen to her. You're always second too her child

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  @Heybaja2 ай бұрын

  Are you smart any? The child could be yours and you will always come second to a good woman I'm sorry . Until a child can do for themselves a real mom puts her child before herself.sorry your mom put you second go heal.

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  @YUcare2 ай бұрын

  Do not date women with children.

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  @DietrickMitchell2 ай бұрын

  I have watched that video on TikTok. Unfortunately, you dealing with a narcissistic person. One of the main attributes being a narcissistic person is to do something To talk about it later! His codependency towards that girls mother is highly demonstrated. He’s doing all of that because of the mother not the child. The good thing is the daughter is mature enough to know her so-called stepfather is doing these good gestures or should I say paying for this wedding with bad intentions, In conclusion, The daughter is mature enough to know that this man that her mother is dating do not have great intentions, and if he did have great intentions, the daughter would not be looking for her biological father to be present in her life!

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  @sosapiosexual2 ай бұрын

  I agree. Thanks for the comment

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  @wesleymadevlogs31312 ай бұрын

  🔥

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  @edward56432 ай бұрын

  She so right, once we married we are a team we signed the contract

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  @beesonpetals71542 ай бұрын

  Sadly even in marriage I think you still gotta have your own back, just in case. And I hate that about marriage and reality. Your wife or husband may do something one day and flip your life upside down. Can you still rely on her to be loyal or rely on him to still financially take care of you? Culture or religion may say one thing, but reality says another - that humans are fickle, unpredictable, and can never truly 100% rely on other humans.

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  @sosapiosexual2 ай бұрын

  Well said. Thanks for the comment. I personally agree with you. Reality is what reality is. Us adults have to distinguish between fairytales and reality.

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  @geekgroupie422 ай бұрын

  i think its good to help people, and people help you. its cooperation!

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  @Similo2 ай бұрын

  I can help people because I even forget i did. But people seem to misuse you after you get something from them.

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  @geekgroupie422 ай бұрын

  @@Similo yeh sometimes but there are lots of good people who don't do that

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  @Joystarr20002 ай бұрын

  ❤ peace and blessings I just found your channel.

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  @sosapiosexual2 ай бұрын

  🙏🏽

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  @cliftonconnor93892 ай бұрын

  Go ask their daddy for rent money. I'm out.

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  @derrickgs7772 ай бұрын

  I was waiting for the single mom song 🤷🏾‍♂️