Phoebe & Me

Phoebe & Me

Hello,

I'm Jess, and I'm 28. Mum to Phoebe (P) who's 6, and Florence who was born March 2020. Wife to Neil, 32. We are a small family getting through day to day life as parents, sharing lows, highs & everything in between! You can expect new videos every Friday, 8pm.

xox

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  • @Ellarogozinaer
    @Ellarogozinaer22 күн бұрын

    Very proud of you, and hoping I'll feel how you feel in the future. I'm 2 weeks post op now, had it done in the same hospital, and can relate to everything you said from the very first day post op, your video helped me accept that what I'm going through is normal, and to be kinder to myself. My skin has rejected the surgical tape and i had macerations around the nip, so now I'm back to dressings although my surgeon wanted to keep me off any dressing or tape which scared me as I felt I needed the support at the incisions.. I totally hear you when you said "i have a waist", when I looked the first time I was like "I have a torso!".. the side soreness is really troubling me at the moment, and it does feel like compression on both sides 24/7, and this gave me a lot of bloating so I'm trying to walk more when I can to help my gut be at ease. I hope that by my next follow up appointment I'd be more comfortable to go without the dressings. God bless, you are a beautiful person, rember always tell youraelf that.❤

  • @aprilhughes3749
    @aprilhughes374927 күн бұрын

    17/07/24 just found your videos and I’ve been going through your story I’ve found this so helpful. Get my reduction 10 days xx

  • @doreenstallard3265
    @doreenstallard3265Ай бұрын

    I have ASD, my brother had a fit

  • @doreenstallard3265
    @doreenstallard3265Ай бұрын

    Does your older kid have dyspraxia?

  • @queenbutterflymollydumler8697
    @queenbutterflymollydumler86972 ай бұрын

    I had my surgery this past November and still recovering but mostly it's all healed up. My internal stitches keeps popping out and bleeding. Went to back to my doctor a few times to look at them as well

  • @nicholecox3108
    @nicholecox31083 ай бұрын

    Just come across these videos. Miss your vlogs

  • @patekupu3983
    @patekupu39835 ай бұрын

    Sean’s lil Phoebe

  • @kirstyosika7815
    @kirstyosika78157 ай бұрын

    Anyone else missed Jess this December? 😢

  • @nicoleadoresyouu
    @nicoleadoresyouu8 ай бұрын

    i’m having a breast reduction in three weeks and my build/breasts look similar to yours pre-op. i’m most scared of the anesthesia and feeling it, losing control of my breathing, and potentially not falling asleep all the way. i’m not even scared of the surgery itself…. just the anesthesia. do you have any reassurance you could provide on how the anesthesia was, if it’s worth being scared of, and if it was a traumatic experience at all? :(

  • @GeeAli19
    @GeeAli198 ай бұрын

    Missing you this year. Hope all is well with you and your family. Xx

  • @lizfield6486
    @lizfield64868 ай бұрын

    Very disappointed you didn’t do vlogmas this year 😢😢

  • @zh1991
    @zh19918 ай бұрын

    We miss your vlogmas. Hope you are all ok ❤

  • @0570dev
    @0570dev8 ай бұрын

    Missing you here Jess!! But do what's best for you and your fam!! Please if it's no to much to ask just let us know if you are well! ❤

  • @lizfield6486
    @lizfield64868 ай бұрын

    Jess were are you this year 😢

  • @alisona8732
    @alisona87328 ай бұрын

    No vlogmas this year? 😢

  • @gemmamansfield8865
    @gemmamansfield88658 ай бұрын

    I’m gutted always looked forward to Jess vlogmas not going to be the same 😢

  • @alisona8732
    @alisona87328 ай бұрын

    No vlogmas this year? 😢

  • @laa9131
    @laa91318 ай бұрын

    Hope you’re coming back this year for vlogmas 🤞🏻 it’s become tradition for me! Hope your all well xx

  • @zh1991
    @zh19918 ай бұрын

    There's no videos so far. It feels so strange 😢

  • @laa9131
    @laa91318 ай бұрын

    @@zh1991 so sad I do keep checking 🤞🏻

  • @laura-louisepaton7888
    @laura-louisepaton78888 ай бұрын

    Casually here waiting for your vlogmas this year ❤

  • @gemmamansfield8865
    @gemmamansfield88658 ай бұрын

    Hope you and girls doing ok love watching ur vlogmas videos will you be doing it again this year again lovely xx

  • @junehogan9353
    @junehogan93538 ай бұрын

    Are you doing a blog for 2o23 l hope you are missed seeing you and your lovely family . Hope you have all been well xxxx

  • @lizfield6486
    @lizfield64868 ай бұрын

    Hi Jess, hope your doing vlogmas this year 🙏🏻😊

  • @lizfield6486
    @lizfield64868 ай бұрын

    I keep checking to see if you’ve uploaded 😞

  • @Emily-uq3to
    @Emily-uq3to9 ай бұрын

    My daughter is turning 4 and she really wants that play dough dentist thing so my sister is going to get it for her for Christmas so she will be happy about that

  • @MegaDizzy01
    @MegaDizzy019 ай бұрын

    Im going to miss your vlogmas this year jess ❤

  • @danniellecalvey6811
    @danniellecalvey68119 ай бұрын

    I'm back watching vlogmas 2022😍 Secretly hoping for 2023👀😍

  • @kristinasmith2560
    @kristinasmith25604 ай бұрын

    Literally rewatched every single video Jess has ever done because I was so sad it didn’t happen 😭😂

  • @hollypinkpants1
    @hollypinkpants19 ай бұрын

    Just rewatched the last vlogmas I really hope you do one this year Jess and I hope you and the family are well x

  • @kellytownsend8116
    @kellytownsend81169 ай бұрын

    I get my breast reduction January 9th 2023. I can’t wait. Thanks so much for your video. I enjoyed it

  • @rhythmisadancer8394
    @rhythmisadancer839410 ай бұрын

    Thank you so much for this video. Im about to go through the same thing in less than 2 weeks 😬 im excited, but freaking out as well. And girl, you are so gorgeous!

  • @nicoleadoresyouu
    @nicoleadoresyouu8 ай бұрын

    i’m also so scared, i’m having mine in 3 weeks!! how was it? hopefully you had a speedy recovery!! i’m most scared of the anesthesia… i hate the idea of being completely knocked out and unable to breathe on my own. i also am afraid of waking up during it or it not working. how was the anesthesia? any words of encouragement? 😢

  • @rhythmisadancer8394
    @rhythmisadancer83948 ай бұрын

    @@nicoleadoresyouu girl!!! It was one of the best decisions I've ever made. It is scary because we don't know what to expect, but honestly it wasn't anywhere near what I even though it would be. I always feel sick from general anaesthesia, but I talked about my worries with the anaesthesiologist and he took that on board to minimise that feeling. And to have anti nausea iv meds ready when I woke up. And I needed them. I felt nauseous within 10mins of waking up. But the iv helped. Also, food helped. Even though its the last thing you may want, your body has been fasting for so long, it really does help. And a cold sprite and the nurse even put a fan in my room to keep me extra cool. I was fine within 30mins. The only uncomfortable thing were the drains. I stayed overnight, and the drains were removed before I left hospital the next day. And rest as much as possible when you get home. And hopefully you have someone there to help you for the first few days. By the 2nd week, you'll feel so much better but don't do too much. Im now at the stage where I can lift and be much more mobile, even though running and anything that makes you bounce is off limits for at least 3mths. The feeling of not having heavy breasts is such a relief. Im so excited for you. You got this!

  • @carolalvarez3925
    @carolalvarez3925 Жыл бұрын

    Just found this today. 8/17/2023. I am 6 days post op. I'm 75 , married, 2 fur babies. It is a lot! You look so beautiful. Looks like you had a mastopexy and reduction. I had an explant ( they were from 1980) and a mastopexy. I'm only 5' 2" but bra size was 42 DD. In 1980 I was a 34 C. I wanted the implants out and the sagging was really bad. I love clothes and always struggling because of the large breasts. Everone says I' m doing well but my breasts are definitely in the ugly stage. Very wide and flat. Still side swelling. Yours look amazing. What a brave person you are to share your journey. Thank you for this video.

  • @gemmamansfield8865
    @gemmamansfield8865 Жыл бұрын

    Hey lovely hope you and ur girls are doing ok and your keeping well miss your vlogs loved how real you was , as a mum with 3 girls I definitely related to you xx

  • @louisefoster6143
    @louisefoster6143 Жыл бұрын

    What are your boobs like a year later ? I have heard they can grow back ? 🎉😮

  • @evacameron6288
    @evacameron6288 Жыл бұрын

    Pita and humus sounds nice

  • @joanneneaves9651
    @joanneneaves9651 Жыл бұрын

    Plant 🌿 based vegan cleaner 😊 99p from shops and kind too animals ❤ this word obsessed is very strange to me, sounds weird

  • @samanthajayneleader
    @samanthajayneleader Жыл бұрын

    Are you coming back? ❤

  • @nigel8499
    @nigel8499 Жыл бұрын

    Could you post more 'Pinch of Nom' vLogs please (update from a few years ago) Many thanks

  • @anthony3046
    @anthony3046 Жыл бұрын

    The German cover is way better selected.

  • @xnuttynatx1293
    @xnuttynatx1293 Жыл бұрын

    Watching you cutting up a toasted pitta so satisfying lol 😂☺️x

  • @fightcancer
    @fightcancer Жыл бұрын

    6:56

  • @jeanettescott2018
    @jeanettescott2018 Жыл бұрын

    Loved these videos Jess. Took me ages to get around to proving I am 73. Lol. What a journey. You will be thrilled you are where you are now. Well done. X💖

  • @jeanettescott2018
    @jeanettescott2018 Жыл бұрын

    It’s because you are utterly open and honest and also lovable. X💖

  • @irishgalfla9214
    @irishgalfla9214 Жыл бұрын

    So honest & refreshing. Thank you

  • @juliekavanagh7982
    @juliekavanagh7982 Жыл бұрын

    Hi phoebe can i ask which spire hospital did you attend for your breast reduction and which surgeon please ive wanted one for years and i think am going to take the plunge 😊😊

  • @ourfamilychannel9309
    @ourfamilychannel9309 Жыл бұрын

    I never remember what my partner tells me about what he's doing at work either. I'm sure I listen, I just don't know where it goes cos it doesn't stay in my head. Your car chats are always entertaining cos u never fail to keep it real 😊 Xx

  • @christinearrell486
    @christinearrell486 Жыл бұрын

    How did you know what surgical bra size to buy before your operation

  • @curlycharlybrown
    @curlycharlybrown Жыл бұрын

    What is the name of your surgeon? Thanks

  • @Na51964
    @Na51964 Жыл бұрын

    I go through it everyday hun went to gp all my life nearly and got referred to a consultant at hospital but she declined me I was really upset and gave up I’m really tiny and my breast are really big and droopy it hurts I can understand what u went through

  • @emmamitchell7236
    @emmamitchell7236 Жыл бұрын

    I'd say olive oil for the fryer

  • @ourfamilychannel9309
    @ourfamilychannel9309 Жыл бұрын

    Wonderful to see your content again. I love your down-to-earth perspective on motherhood xx