Love and marriage is a beautiful gift from God. Living in harmony despite all differences is biggest challenge I think both partners need to work at
@ctpatriot91163 күн бұрын
I joined the military just to get away
@gregorylatta81593 күн бұрын
God is the purpose, not happiness.
@MishaDavis-rr4ik3 күн бұрын
How can i leave a marriage with no money i mean come on now smh
@rahmamohammed21033 күн бұрын
Please I just started with my 17 year old son. Three days clean. Please I need guidance cos I'm 31 and confused on how to go about the whole thing. Hope to hear from you soon. Thank you
@AndrewMooreJ4 күн бұрын
Ok. This guy is the real deal.
@ohla71595 күн бұрын
Im unhappy with my marriage because my husband doesn’t satisfy me in bed 😢 also. I dont feel he trust me on finances, he hides his income away from me. 😢
@MissLerae3r4t58 күн бұрын
Man i live in Utah and I terrified of cannibal but I will go there!
@muffintopz469210 күн бұрын
Yes, let’s attach meaning to pain: it means loss of quality of life, it means unnecessary expenses, it means being viewed and treated as ‘less than’, it means loss of income for a full year when you have a child to support, it means garbage sleep for years nonstop, it means, degradation in physical health and overall beauty, it means isolation from others, it means having no one to discuss it with, it means extreme fatigue, it means EVERYTHING in your life suffers because of the pain. People who don’t feel your pain don’t care one bit. People who inflict the pain don’t care one bit. But hey, I’m still alive so there ya go. 😐🤦🏽♀️
@lheya8813 күн бұрын
My son when angry used to dig the soil by his hand. I need to understand
@cheylie15714 күн бұрын
How TF do you cope with a customer that recorded you.
@ericachamlee368425 күн бұрын
Thank you
@Olympus_has_fallen26 күн бұрын
Here to endure the pain of my parents beating
@ayacouzi296526 күн бұрын
I love your prespectives on issues and how you present them, thank you for sharing the knowledge!!
@show_me_your_kitties28 күн бұрын
7:13 He financially abused me for the last time. The trust is destroyed. I have tried every way possible over the last 6 years, it's not happening. There is them and us, him and I; my burdens are mine hos burdens our ours; what's his is his what's mine is everyone's. Incredibly selfish person who does not want me. I have two weeks to prepare. I told him i will not be able to hold the family up and save to leave, he has to do it on his own. He has used me financially for years with no conscious what so ever. There is no future here and I can't do it anymore but I am afraid. I know i will make it but im still scared.
@shovel5526Ай бұрын
got yelled at so bad today I needed to search this LMAO
@xkiller007x815 күн бұрын
Welcome to customer service and enjoy!
@MultiAarcherАй бұрын
What I’m Trying To Control Or Wanting To Control Is What Properties In The Outside World Can Fly The American Flag Or Where The American Flag Can No Longer Fly As An Everyday Thing The American Flag Is One Of The Only Thing That’s Causing Me To Want To Find An Eye Flash Machine To Give Me The Choice Not To See It Not Just On Google Earth And Street View On Google Maps But Also In Reality Too For It To Be Black Or White For My Eyes
@kashishkandhari2213Ай бұрын
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@tracyklein9669Ай бұрын
This is very helpful to me and my family. I made some mistakes like that. ❤
@Lizheller08Ай бұрын
my dad finds my weed and vapes cause he’s ALLWAYS on the look out nowadays, i walked into his room while he was sleeping and while i walked out he thought i stole his pills, what i usually use is carts and nic im not doing no hard drugs or anything and he doesn’t trust me at all he thinks im a drug addict and idk what to do anymore
@viridianhughes219Ай бұрын
What about a customer who intentionally sows confusion-where it is very obvious?
@1gaylasАй бұрын
I'm 59 yrs old and have never had a career, I've had jobs just not what I would consider a career. Currently, and for a very long time I've been trying to open a business and so as I'm listening to your video, I'm thinking of several reasons why I am not lucky enough to do this, or there's some other reason why it wouldn't work out for me. I thought I was 100% committed but I guess I am afraid to get out of my comfort zone.
@nursehatchet6000Ай бұрын
Is it safe to say that reason is a principle based on a natural law.
@josephp8815Ай бұрын
Sometimes I do what I want to do. The rest of the time, I do what I have to. - Cicero.
@shakirov.nicoleАй бұрын
you named your video how to make friends and went on telling us not to…
@leaperm34332 ай бұрын
I’ve literally become the most confrontational person.
@JonathanCrossland2 ай бұрын
Values drive behaviour. Substituting behaviours for other behaviours is just a fools errand. The best way to change, is to change the weights of values. If you value somethng that is in opposition to a behaviour, you must amplify that value until it is more valuable and the behaviours will change. Its all about values.
@JonathanCrossland2 ай бұрын
I also doubt that people get married because they think their life is going to be better. Instead it is more likely that they want to be with that person no matter what.
@JonathanCrossland2 ай бұрын
One wonders how many conscious thoughts over unconscious thoughts there are. Most thoughts pop into our heads, when we speak, we dont acrually know what we are going to say as we are speaking. One also has to wonder about control of emotions. Rationally it seems that we can, but there are many scenarios where people have done things they are clinically not in control of. The final one is control of behaviour. This is where I would agree wholeheartedly. We are in control of our actions, although there are some "reactions" we are not control of. You are specifically talking about conscious thinking and acting, but cognitively this is not alwaya true. For example, with anxiety, I cannot control cortisol and adrenaline in my brain, causing anxiety. This is a chemical response to which I cannot control. I can try to mitigate it, but its biological.
@ks506soton2 ай бұрын
When both parties are financially screwed! When a child is too old to live with the parent, but the parent is co-dependant on the child, so both people become incapacitated! Our institutions, governments and just simply the way we live don’t make things easy for anyone.
@FleurOlivia2 ай бұрын
Thank you, I listened and wrote down and applied it to a current situation I am facing. This really guided me into the right direction and way of thinking. Thank you for being so helpful.
@dorajones85812 ай бұрын
His last name is sober quits 😂😂😂😂
@MS-ns4ki2 ай бұрын
I don’t think they will ever be solved lol
@hatemmh21912 ай бұрын
I hope you soon get back to this priceless and fruitful channel
@hatemmh21912 ай бұрын
I really enjoy my time watching and learning from you You're great
@Sky6an2 ай бұрын
This is literally the most useless video Ive ever watched😂 bro really said “oh you feel underpaid? Well how about you change your mindset on that😢” bro stfu💀🤦🏾♂️
@koyeldas87062 ай бұрын
There's a teacher in my school who just hates me maybe because i don't butter her like others and always insults me. I always try to avoid her but it's not possible all the time i have stopped going to school because of her but tomorrow I'll have to go school. I feel like dropping out 😒
@daveloncarr16982 ай бұрын
Thank u for this teaching! The point about it not being confrontation but what I believe or connect with it really helped me!
@melissacannon29152 ай бұрын
Would this apply to a child as young as 3 years old?
@principlebasedliving32942 ай бұрын
Thank you for your question. The thing about principles is that they apply to everyone. However, the way in which you apply the principle may differ depending on the person, their age etc
@Emeraldcity7472 ай бұрын
And there's this other Ethiopian guy so he's like around Tyrone's age 32 years old and it didn't really have a job he was complaining about his cousin Solomon that he stole money from him and everything so one day I kicked them out I want to live with me in the studio I'm like you know you're not working you don't got no kids no no wife and everything I don't expect you to to live with me and everything I see him after a couple months later like and he doesn't want to give me his number cuz I never looked at you the same you like fake and everything and I'm not trying to get taken advantage of and he got like he came from back from New York was being homeless and he came back to like Washington State still being homeless and he tried to give me to go to New York for with him for a visit I'm like what am I going to do there? I think even friends like they tried to take advantage when they don't think that they're trying to use you like I try to be helpful and everything but people do take advantage of their own friends even their family members and it's it's a it's a sad it's a habit though it's like second nature when people take things for granted people for granted.
@Emeraldcity7472 ай бұрын
You know that so after that like I have not even like a couple of my friends African-American dude this guy isn't he's like lazy doesn't want to work and I was helping to move out he's living with his mom says like 33 years old and he got so I'll just tell I told him like yo he has an autistic brother right so I said he should come to my country in Africa and got holy water people got cured cancer, AIDS and cancer he was like no I don't need that. So then after that today he got like schizophrenia or whatever so when I drove to the casino his name is Tyrone Elliott and after that I never heard it from him past 10 years from 2014 till now I was helping him driving around sometimes I bought them food or whatever I always helped him out.
@Emeraldcity7472 ай бұрын
I think you know I'm in Seattle Washington and stuff like that I don't know about other cities but especially in this city that I helped the homeless people less fortunate especially the females and I give them my real phone number and I bought them for the drink I was just asking him to be drug addicts or just homeless or you know I'm not mentally ill but like people that is coherent so I get and they never hit me one time or texting me data that they will never see me again and one girl even asked me she said and what do you want in return I'm like I just want to be a Good Samaritan to help and everything so that was only this one girl and the white I'll let her sleep stay with me I'll pay for the hotel room but I slept there too so that's just one story where I bought her even her cell phone and Metro and then after that. So then after that I never heard from her one time I called the number that she gave me the number and I never seen her ever again I'm like wow. So anyway long story short anyway me and her were like I was just about Cardinals or whatever in case she wants to mess around so she just seen over here sex or whatever. It didn't even have a voicemail and
@jocelynpowell62232 ай бұрын
Thank you for taking confusion out of confrontation. Well thoughout and heart delivered. Thank you for the compassion. You have helped me tremendously.
@myriamabidi27982 ай бұрын
I tend to avoid confrontation because of the fear of not being heard /acknowledged. I don’t want to spend energy explaining myself and then all of it being flushed down the drain. Now I know for a fact that it may be the result of my relationship with my dad ,always shutting me down when I tried to explain myself even in situations where I didn’t do anything wrong ,always being shushed , yelled at and cursed at. Now I realize how much it affected me and still affects me in my daily life ,my interactions ,and relationships. I don’t know what I should do ,maybe go to therapy ? I’m lost
@LamyailmaLamyailma2 ай бұрын
Beautiful, I like it.
@Wyrimo12 ай бұрын
So grateful for this video. My “aha” moment was recognising that am only in charge of my feelings, I was more afraid of their reaction (anger), which is their problem not mine to carry. Thank you
@joshmomyer67743 ай бұрын
It pisses me off when i can't do what i want to
@selfsafetyawareness26233 ай бұрын
Good Information!! Thanks 😊
@incognitoriaanonymousita3 ай бұрын
Amen ...change self
@incognitoriaanonymousita3 ай бұрын
My husband does not know how to have a conversation of give and take where you talk and then allow the other person to talk or ask questions or interject ideas. He likes to talk like a runaway freight train without interruption, however by the time he is finished I don't remember what he has said. When I try to have a normal conversation then he says I'm interrupting him.
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Love and marriage is a beautiful gift from God. Living in harmony despite all differences is biggest challenge I think both partners need to work at
I joined the military just to get away
God is the purpose, not happiness.
How can i leave a marriage with no money i mean come on now smh
Please I just started with my 17 year old son. Three days clean. Please I need guidance cos I'm 31 and confused on how to go about the whole thing. Hope to hear from you soon. Thank you
Ok. This guy is the real deal.
Im unhappy with my marriage because my husband doesn’t satisfy me in bed 😢 also. I dont feel he trust me on finances, he hides his income away from me. 😢
Man i live in Utah and I terrified of cannibal but I will go there!
Yes, let’s attach meaning to pain: it means loss of quality of life, it means unnecessary expenses, it means being viewed and treated as ‘less than’, it means loss of income for a full year when you have a child to support, it means garbage sleep for years nonstop, it means, degradation in physical health and overall beauty, it means isolation from others, it means having no one to discuss it with, it means extreme fatigue, it means EVERYTHING in your life suffers because of the pain. People who don’t feel your pain don’t care one bit. People who inflict the pain don’t care one bit. But hey, I’m still alive so there ya go. 😐🤦🏽♀️
My son when angry used to dig the soil by his hand. I need to understand
How TF do you cope with a customer that recorded you.
Thank you
Here to endure the pain of my parents beating
I love your prespectives on issues and how you present them, thank you for sharing the knowledge!!
7:13 He financially abused me for the last time. The trust is destroyed. I have tried every way possible over the last 6 years, it's not happening. There is them and us, him and I; my burdens are mine hos burdens our ours; what's his is his what's mine is everyone's. Incredibly selfish person who does not want me. I have two weeks to prepare. I told him i will not be able to hold the family up and save to leave, he has to do it on his own. He has used me financially for years with no conscious what so ever. There is no future here and I can't do it anymore but I am afraid. I know i will make it but im still scared.
got yelled at so bad today I needed to search this LMAO
Welcome to customer service and enjoy!
What I’m Trying To Control Or Wanting To Control Is What Properties In The Outside World Can Fly The American Flag Or Where The American Flag Can No Longer Fly As An Everyday Thing The American Flag Is One Of The Only Thing That’s Causing Me To Want To Find An Eye Flash Machine To Give Me The Choice Not To See It Not Just On Google Earth And Street View On Google Maps But Also In Reality Too For It To Be Black Or White For My Eyes
❤
This is very helpful to me and my family. I made some mistakes like that. ❤
my dad finds my weed and vapes cause he’s ALLWAYS on the look out nowadays, i walked into his room while he was sleeping and while i walked out he thought i stole his pills, what i usually use is carts and nic im not doing no hard drugs or anything and he doesn’t trust me at all he thinks im a drug addict and idk what to do anymore
What about a customer who intentionally sows confusion-where it is very obvious?
I'm 59 yrs old and have never had a career, I've had jobs just not what I would consider a career. Currently, and for a very long time I've been trying to open a business and so as I'm listening to your video, I'm thinking of several reasons why I am not lucky enough to do this, or there's some other reason why it wouldn't work out for me. I thought I was 100% committed but I guess I am afraid to get out of my comfort zone.
Is it safe to say that reason is a principle based on a natural law.
Sometimes I do what I want to do. The rest of the time, I do what I have to. - Cicero.
you named your video how to make friends and went on telling us not to…
I’ve literally become the most confrontational person.
Values drive behaviour. Substituting behaviours for other behaviours is just a fools errand. The best way to change, is to change the weights of values. If you value somethng that is in opposition to a behaviour, you must amplify that value until it is more valuable and the behaviours will change. Its all about values.
I also doubt that people get married because they think their life is going to be better. Instead it is more likely that they want to be with that person no matter what.
One wonders how many conscious thoughts over unconscious thoughts there are. Most thoughts pop into our heads, when we speak, we dont acrually know what we are going to say as we are speaking. One also has to wonder about control of emotions. Rationally it seems that we can, but there are many scenarios where people have done things they are clinically not in control of. The final one is control of behaviour. This is where I would agree wholeheartedly. We are in control of our actions, although there are some "reactions" we are not control of. You are specifically talking about conscious thinking and acting, but cognitively this is not alwaya true. For example, with anxiety, I cannot control cortisol and adrenaline in my brain, causing anxiety. This is a chemical response to which I cannot control. I can try to mitigate it, but its biological.
When both parties are financially screwed! When a child is too old to live with the parent, but the parent is co-dependant on the child, so both people become incapacitated! Our institutions, governments and just simply the way we live don’t make things easy for anyone.
Thank you, I listened and wrote down and applied it to a current situation I am facing. This really guided me into the right direction and way of thinking. Thank you for being so helpful.
His last name is sober quits 😂😂😂😂
I don’t think they will ever be solved lol
I hope you soon get back to this priceless and fruitful channel
I really enjoy my time watching and learning from you You're great
This is literally the most useless video Ive ever watched😂 bro really said “oh you feel underpaid? Well how about you change your mindset on that😢” bro stfu💀🤦🏾♂️
There's a teacher in my school who just hates me maybe because i don't butter her like others and always insults me. I always try to avoid her but it's not possible all the time i have stopped going to school because of her but tomorrow I'll have to go school. I feel like dropping out 😒
Thank u for this teaching! The point about it not being confrontation but what I believe or connect with it really helped me!
Would this apply to a child as young as 3 years old?
Thank you for your question. The thing about principles is that they apply to everyone. However, the way in which you apply the principle may differ depending on the person, their age etc
And there's this other Ethiopian guy so he's like around Tyrone's age 32 years old and it didn't really have a job he was complaining about his cousin Solomon that he stole money from him and everything so one day I kicked them out I want to live with me in the studio I'm like you know you're not working you don't got no kids no no wife and everything I don't expect you to to live with me and everything I see him after a couple months later like and he doesn't want to give me his number cuz I never looked at you the same you like fake and everything and I'm not trying to get taken advantage of and he got like he came from back from New York was being homeless and he came back to like Washington State still being homeless and he tried to give me to go to New York for with him for a visit I'm like what am I going to do there? I think even friends like they tried to take advantage when they don't think that they're trying to use you like I try to be helpful and everything but people do take advantage of their own friends even their family members and it's it's a it's a sad it's a habit though it's like second nature when people take things for granted people for granted.
You know that so after that like I have not even like a couple of my friends African-American dude this guy isn't he's like lazy doesn't want to work and I was helping to move out he's living with his mom says like 33 years old and he got so I'll just tell I told him like yo he has an autistic brother right so I said he should come to my country in Africa and got holy water people got cured cancer, AIDS and cancer he was like no I don't need that. So then after that today he got like schizophrenia or whatever so when I drove to the casino his name is Tyrone Elliott and after that I never heard it from him past 10 years from 2014 till now I was helping him driving around sometimes I bought them food or whatever I always helped him out.
I think you know I'm in Seattle Washington and stuff like that I don't know about other cities but especially in this city that I helped the homeless people less fortunate especially the females and I give them my real phone number and I bought them for the drink I was just asking him to be drug addicts or just homeless or you know I'm not mentally ill but like people that is coherent so I get and they never hit me one time or texting me data that they will never see me again and one girl even asked me she said and what do you want in return I'm like I just want to be a Good Samaritan to help and everything so that was only this one girl and the white I'll let her sleep stay with me I'll pay for the hotel room but I slept there too so that's just one story where I bought her even her cell phone and Metro and then after that. So then after that I never heard from her one time I called the number that she gave me the number and I never seen her ever again I'm like wow. So anyway long story short anyway me and her were like I was just about Cardinals or whatever in case she wants to mess around so she just seen over here sex or whatever. It didn't even have a voicemail and
Thank you for taking confusion out of confrontation. Well thoughout and heart delivered. Thank you for the compassion. You have helped me tremendously.
I tend to avoid confrontation because of the fear of not being heard /acknowledged. I don’t want to spend energy explaining myself and then all of it being flushed down the drain. Now I know for a fact that it may be the result of my relationship with my dad ,always shutting me down when I tried to explain myself even in situations where I didn’t do anything wrong ,always being shushed , yelled at and cursed at. Now I realize how much it affected me and still affects me in my daily life ,my interactions ,and relationships. I don’t know what I should do ,maybe go to therapy ? I’m lost
Beautiful, I like it.
So grateful for this video. My “aha” moment was recognising that am only in charge of my feelings, I was more afraid of their reaction (anger), which is their problem not mine to carry. Thank you
It pisses me off when i can't do what i want to
Good Information!! Thanks 😊
Amen ...change self
My husband does not know how to have a conversation of give and take where you talk and then allow the other person to talk or ask questions or interject ideas. He likes to talk like a runaway freight train without interruption, however by the time he is finished I don't remember what he has said. When I try to have a normal conversation then he says I'm interrupting him.