0:39 "they ask me if being raped means im gay" WHO EVER THOUGHT TO ASK SUCH A QUESTION. WHAT THE F WAS THIS MAN THINKING?
@BooksForThought7258 күн бұрын
1:46 im sick to my stomach.
@dawnthatdancesoverthehoriz154212 күн бұрын
We need a "What he was wearing" museum as well. Men are quite frankly overlooked or told toxic things when it comes to their assaults. I wanna give props to the people who also mentioned that women can also do sexual assault. Comign from someone who had been touched and played with by my female older cousin for 6 straight years, this hurts man. It really does.
@Ilovechocolate0112 күн бұрын
It makes me so sad to see that you can’t prevent something like this and the worst part was probably the 4 year old by her brother😭. I hope they are all in therapy and that they are doing better I know that they will never heal. Why tf are people doing this? They are destroying life’s and also if they really want s*x then why don’t the go to a prostitute
@cheese711914 күн бұрын
Not the r word but here's my story I was in the bus, I was wearing my favorite oversized hoodie. My hair was short short. I was hugging my school backpack when an old man sat near me and placed his hand on my leg. Because I was hugging my backpack and my clothes were so baggy, the people sitting in front didn't notice. I texted my classmate who was also in the bus with me and suddenly said oht loud making sure everyone heard me: "CAN YOU PLEASE TAKE YOUR HAND OFF OF MY THIGH?!" And got up just in time for my friend hinting at me to go and taking me from there
@Purple-light-Art-Shorts22 күн бұрын
they made beautiful clothes to a memory of absolute horror...
@stickman-iq2xyАй бұрын
I was wearing leggings. And a sando. I was six.
@Adoniaanjelita03Ай бұрын
I feel sorry for you 😢😢
@h.c3508Ай бұрын
my SA was in the locker room in eighth grade, I was 13 and she was supposed to be a good friend of mine. I was changing in a shower stall and she came over which was normal since we would talk with one another even when changing. She grabbed my breasts, I slapped her and walked away, I was fully clothed and she grabbed my behind as well as my breasts again. I told her to stop and she did but a couple of minutes later she did it again. No one else cared in that locker room and everyone asked if I was gay and because of that everyone thinks I'm gay when in reality I never wanted any of it and wish I never went to school. I came home crying and my own mother didn't even care and I've only told my closest friends, never my family. Nobody has ever asked me the question of what I was wearing when I told my close friends, they just comforted me and shared their stories with me too.
@bethanyoneal5789Ай бұрын
I’m pretty sure I was wearing a t shirt and shorts. I was on a date and I told him I didn’t want to have sex, but he coerced me into it. Rape by coercion is still rape.
@whatswrongwithmybrainАй бұрын
Sexual assault is not gendered! I drives me insane that some people. Thousands! Think that if you are a guy S/A is impossible to happen to you and that women cant be a assaulter! Its insane!
@Yang_IseulАй бұрын
My school uniform(my school has a compulsory uniform) . It happened last year when i was fourteen and my mom's youngest cousin was eighteen. She said "you're crazy, stop imagining things. MY BROTHER would never do that. YOU'RE paranoid". She, a 40 year woman and a MOTHER of 3.
@nicolelol27282 ай бұрын
I was wearing black cargo pants and a oversized black vans t shirt with my favorite vans jacket. I still have the clothes I was wearing when it happened somewhere in my closet
@Beeee6932 ай бұрын
2:56 this is disgusting😢😭
@Hadles6663 ай бұрын
I dont know if i was sexually assaulted but onve my little brother looked up my 😿 And so did my sister (i was 6 and 7 they were 4 and 12)
@little_kiwi163 ай бұрын
I don't know if this was rape my friend said it was but im not sure cause he was my bf i was wearing a crop top and shorts all i wanted was a kiss at the end of our date but we ended up in the bathroom my mind said no and so did my body but i couldn't say the word no it was as if i was paralyzed when it was over i felt disgusted the worst part is he ended up cheating on me is this rape or was it ok since i didn't say stop or no
@SP-dy8sm2 ай бұрын
It is a type of rape, peer pressure, I think. People may argue and victim blame you by saying “but you gave consent” but this is still wrong and it is peer pressure.
@rajanikaur67582 ай бұрын
It is you should report about it.....
@hangezoe11884 ай бұрын
“Is it my fault.?” Said the red dress, “No” Said the hijab,”It happened to me too” “Me too” Said the t-shirt and jeans, “Same” Said the Hello kitty shirt and pink skirt.
@the1di0t_m00n4 ай бұрын
These are disgusting. People themself make me disgusted I feel like I want to just bully them but I know that’s not right. For the people who felt this it’s not your fault never was it’s not right for someone to control you and your body. Even if you are not in control of your body right now it has no right for anyone else to be control of it. Even or kids like girls and boys I hope there okay now❤
@naotenhoideiapranome85494 ай бұрын
"Was it my fault?" Asked the skirt. "No, it happened to me too." Replied the burqa. Meanwhile, the diaper stays silent. It didnt know how to talk!
@WhatEvenTheHellIsThat4 ай бұрын
I wasnt raped but i was assaulted, probably around 2 years ago. My brothers friends where over and this particular friend had been over at least 10 times before. He is 3 years older than me, almost 4 and when we where talking in my room he forcefully kissed me. It was and is my only kiss. I pushed him back and started yelling for him to leave my room.I guess he didnt want to make a scence because he left. I had never thought of him in that way and i still go though the events leading up to it and the events after in my head, trying to belive it wasnt my fault. I know its not my fault, and its nothing compared to what some people have gone through but it makes me feel so violated every time it crosses my mind. Every time he came over after that I avoided him and would lock my self in my room, not being able to look at him. My brother confronted me a week or two later telling me his friend has been telling people we slept together and my brother wanted to hear what happened, because again im only 12 and his friend almost 16(im also not like that at all) I told him he tried to kiss me and i rejected him. I said he must be but hurt i dont want to date him and that he was lieing about us sleeping together. The only person ive told the truth to is my best friend. I dont understand why he would lie about that, why he didn't ask for concent, why he likes a 12 year old. I still start feaking out if i hear my brother say hes having friends over, hopeing it not him. I was wearing striped sleep pants and a care bears tee shirt.
@theoneandonlycarpathia4 ай бұрын
army acu's with a gun homedog had full nethorite and got onetapped
@Iloverobloxalot4 ай бұрын
Bro woman should be able to wear almost everything we walk in *except maybe school* and we shouldn’t be worried about being raped and/or groomed just cuz they loot pretty beautiful hot whatever the case might be. woman mostly do all the work and this is how much we get raped/groomed in total come on we need to stop doing dis cuz it’s really not important to do that
@darkfire12624 ай бұрын
Ive lost every drop of my faith in humanity after watching these types of videos, what you're wearing never symbolizes if your "asking for it" some people are just disgusting... 😕
@Manzanares_sadie4 ай бұрын
3:17 why a little boy?
@-_cat_-_paws-_3 ай бұрын
Wdym
@TheRubberDuckCollector5 ай бұрын
The ones that were the most heartbreaking was all the kids clothes. What fucking interest could you have in someone that barely fucking knows the abc’s????
@they.call.me.cami.5 ай бұрын
FOUR YEARS OLD. THESE PEOPLE ARE MORE THAN SICK.
@weallluvclifford5 ай бұрын
i was 10 when i got sa'd, he was 16, i just wanted to talk to him about this anime i had watched, but he wanted more from me, he even threatened to tell my boyfriend at the time, and tell my parents, and friends, but he wouldn't if i sent him pics. They always say its our fault, even if we were 5, or 4, or under that, its our fault.
@weallluvclifford5 ай бұрын
The first time I was wearing a flowery crop top, and some pink shorts, and then I was wearing a shirt with matching pants, they both had donuts on them and my mom just bought them for me, I am now 15, and I still own both of them, I never really grew out of my clothes from then, so I still wear them, and it took a while but I've gotten over it, I had horrible nightmares and had to sleep with my mom forever
@Harrow5675 ай бұрын
This is very heartbreaking. Before I say anything else I was talking about this type of topic in my health class, and someone mentioned this exhibit, and I didn’t think it was fully real until I found this and I did more research. It’s just heartbreaking that this happens to people and it makes it worse. There are some cases of it happening to children so sad
@gizzlesomething70955 ай бұрын
i hope all these people know it is not their fault. it is never because what you were wearing. i was wearing a baggy t shirt and leggings the first time and bike shorts with a tank top the second time. he was my first boyfriend. my first relationship. i thought i could trust him but i guess i was wrong. i was 14.
@YDS_amour_F0R3V3R5 ай бұрын
I don't know if this is considered abuse... But one time I was at my sister's 15th party, everything was very nice... I was wearing a lilac dress.. And cute black shoes... my great uncle got drunk he carried me to a table and almost kissed me... my aunt just stopped my great uncle before he kissed me... THANKS TO HIM my anxiety got worse.
@pinkybunny2 ай бұрын
that’s DEFINITELY sexual assault!
@Goofyartseverywhere5 ай бұрын
what is wrong with society doing that to children to?
@PrabhjotKaur-tk3xm5 ай бұрын
The army officer😢😢and the small kid the burkha girl also 😢😢what was the fault of small kid the armmy officer protects us now i am scared 😢😢
@Missy_artsorpaint5 ай бұрын
Society is so fucked up
@ElectricBoogaloo7 ай бұрын
I was 8. I was wearing black leggings, a gray shirt with a pink heart on it, and a gray jacket with more pink hearts on it. He was my friend's brother.
@sage90638 ай бұрын
I’m actually really surprised (and validated honestly) by seeing that there are some other women who got sa’d by other women. I’ve been told that it was just her being old fashioned and just a girl thing, but it’s not, I was a kid. None of these people deserved what they got, and neither did I.
@Catseye1898 ай бұрын
“Was it really my fault?” asked the Short Skirt. “No, it happened with me too,” replied the Burka. The diaper in the corner couldn’t even speak. -Darshan Mondkar
@kittydogcalendar809014 күн бұрын
So sad 😭
@marloschiber72438 ай бұрын
I remember exactly what I was wearing the first time it happened. I was wearing my shirt from my 8th grade Washington D.C. trip I had gone on just a few months prior, a pair of jeans that were ripped at the knees, and my black high tops. I ended up throwing the shirt away years later, I hated how it slapped me in the face every time I opened my drawer.
@beanietime39599 ай бұрын
It makes me so sad to see them talk about how they hated their clothes after the event and it just reminded them of their SA or R*pe. To the victims, you are stronger than the perpetrator, and you'll always be. Wishing everyone in this vid and the comments justice. YOU ARE NEVER ALONE !!!
@rustgore63869 ай бұрын
from the ages of 13-15 my father would slap my butt whenever i gave him a hug. not playfully or softly he would slap it to the point where it stung afterwards. still to this day i dont know if i should classify it as sexual assault, or if im just overreacting. but each and everytime i was just wearing either a t-shirt or a hoodie and nike shorts. every single time.
@stunnachanel18434 ай бұрын
Yeah that was definitely strange for him to do…
@pinkybunny2 ай бұрын
if it’s only between those ages then that’s really weird
@ClunkerBunker9 ай бұрын
omg the bloodstained underwear holy shit! who would do such a thing?
@That.one-freindGroupXOXO9 ай бұрын
Where is that?
@ClunkerBunker9 ай бұрын
@@That.one-freindGroupXOXO i think around the end
@saanvipulavarti77972 ай бұрын
That literally traumatized me
@restlessrobbie22389 ай бұрын
A pokemon Pikachu tshirt with shorts the first time it happened, i dont remember what i wore everyday after that, but it still happened everyday without fail. I hate family
@Poland4life9 ай бұрын
I want you to know that you're not alone and if the person hasn't been investigated or arrested yet please contact the authorities and try to get that to happen because you never know if they're still doing it to others or will do it again
@restlessrobbie22389 ай бұрын
@@Poland4life thank you, I am currently trying to speak with the police because my aunt learned what had happened and she gave me the phone number. It was my uncle on my dads side and I was 12/13. I am autistic and super neurodiverse in general so he took complete advantage of me bc I couldnt speak at the time, I was the nonverbal type of autistic and I can still be sometimes when I have PTSD attacks
@Poland4life9 ай бұрын
@@restlessrobbie2238 if you haven't then also talk to other family members and try to get that uncle cut out of your and their lives
@RhythmShorts9 ай бұрын
I noticed some guys said "they asked why I never fought him/her and if this makes me gay, not what I was wearing." And that's truely disgusting on a nother level. "What were you wearing" is used to silence women and children. "does this mean you're gay?" Is used to silence men
@cheese711914 күн бұрын
:'( nooooo
@Prettyboyavery9 ай бұрын
I was wearing a suit and tie, I was 13. Thanks sister!
@beanietime39599 ай бұрын
You didn't deserve that... Wishing you justice man. You are stronger than her and I hope you had a powerful recovery.
@oopsie_gacha9 ай бұрын
Idk how yall remember what you were wearing, i blocked it out lol
@pomodoro1449 ай бұрын
pyjama shorts and a t-shirt, she was my only friend at my school
@Adoniaanjelita032 ай бұрын
I feel sorry for you 😢😢💔💔😭😭
@KOTAzZz19 ай бұрын
1:46 is heart breaking to me
@casper56699 ай бұрын
A kids nightgown, he was supposed to be my dad.
@Poland4life9 ай бұрын
that's NOT your dad, a dad protects his children from danger rather than being the danger
@stateofgrace49 ай бұрын
the sari one was so sad....
@mermaid35972 ай бұрын
😢😢
@dragonfly768810 ай бұрын
People can be so fucking horrible.
@LowSelf-EsteemLord10 ай бұрын
My cosin. He wanted to play house with me. I was the mom. He was the dad. He was YOUNGER than me but yet he still assaulted me.
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0:39 "they ask me if being raped means im gay" WHO EVER THOUGHT TO ASK SUCH A QUESTION. WHAT THE F WAS THIS MAN THINKING?
1:46 im sick to my stomach.
We need a "What he was wearing" museum as well. Men are quite frankly overlooked or told toxic things when it comes to their assaults. I wanna give props to the people who also mentioned that women can also do sexual assault. Comign from someone who had been touched and played with by my female older cousin for 6 straight years, this hurts man. It really does.
It makes me so sad to see that you can’t prevent something like this and the worst part was probably the 4 year old by her brother😭. I hope they are all in therapy and that they are doing better I know that they will never heal. Why tf are people doing this? They are destroying life’s and also if they really want s*x then why don’t the go to a prostitute
Not the r word but here's my story I was in the bus, I was wearing my favorite oversized hoodie. My hair was short short. I was hugging my school backpack when an old man sat near me and placed his hand on my leg. Because I was hugging my backpack and my clothes were so baggy, the people sitting in front didn't notice. I texted my classmate who was also in the bus with me and suddenly said oht loud making sure everyone heard me: "CAN YOU PLEASE TAKE YOUR HAND OFF OF MY THIGH?!" And got up just in time for my friend hinting at me to go and taking me from there
they made beautiful clothes to a memory of absolute horror...
I was wearing leggings. And a sando. I was six.
I feel sorry for you 😢😢
my SA was in the locker room in eighth grade, I was 13 and she was supposed to be a good friend of mine. I was changing in a shower stall and she came over which was normal since we would talk with one another even when changing. She grabbed my breasts, I slapped her and walked away, I was fully clothed and she grabbed my behind as well as my breasts again. I told her to stop and she did but a couple of minutes later she did it again. No one else cared in that locker room and everyone asked if I was gay and because of that everyone thinks I'm gay when in reality I never wanted any of it and wish I never went to school. I came home crying and my own mother didn't even care and I've only told my closest friends, never my family. Nobody has ever asked me the question of what I was wearing when I told my close friends, they just comforted me and shared their stories with me too.
I’m pretty sure I was wearing a t shirt and shorts. I was on a date and I told him I didn’t want to have sex, but he coerced me into it. Rape by coercion is still rape.
Sexual assault is not gendered! I drives me insane that some people. Thousands! Think that if you are a guy S/A is impossible to happen to you and that women cant be a assaulter! Its insane!
My school uniform(my school has a compulsory uniform) . It happened last year when i was fourteen and my mom's youngest cousin was eighteen. She said "you're crazy, stop imagining things. MY BROTHER would never do that. YOU'RE paranoid". She, a 40 year woman and a MOTHER of 3.
I was wearing black cargo pants and a oversized black vans t shirt with my favorite vans jacket. I still have the clothes I was wearing when it happened somewhere in my closet
2:56 this is disgusting😢😭
I dont know if i was sexually assaulted but onve my little brother looked up my 😿 And so did my sister (i was 6 and 7 they were 4 and 12)
I don't know if this was rape my friend said it was but im not sure cause he was my bf i was wearing a crop top and shorts all i wanted was a kiss at the end of our date but we ended up in the bathroom my mind said no and so did my body but i couldn't say the word no it was as if i was paralyzed when it was over i felt disgusted the worst part is he ended up cheating on me is this rape or was it ok since i didn't say stop or no
It is a type of rape, peer pressure, I think. People may argue and victim blame you by saying “but you gave consent” but this is still wrong and it is peer pressure.
It is you should report about it.....
“Is it my fault.?” Said the red dress, “No” Said the hijab,”It happened to me too” “Me too” Said the t-shirt and jeans, “Same” Said the Hello kitty shirt and pink skirt.
These are disgusting. People themself make me disgusted I feel like I want to just bully them but I know that’s not right. For the people who felt this it’s not your fault never was it’s not right for someone to control you and your body. Even if you are not in control of your body right now it has no right for anyone else to be control of it. Even or kids like girls and boys I hope there okay now❤
"Was it my fault?" Asked the skirt. "No, it happened to me too." Replied the burqa. Meanwhile, the diaper stays silent. It didnt know how to talk!
I wasnt raped but i was assaulted, probably around 2 years ago. My brothers friends where over and this particular friend had been over at least 10 times before. He is 3 years older than me, almost 4 and when we where talking in my room he forcefully kissed me. It was and is my only kiss. I pushed him back and started yelling for him to leave my room.I guess he didnt want to make a scence because he left. I had never thought of him in that way and i still go though the events leading up to it and the events after in my head, trying to belive it wasnt my fault. I know its not my fault, and its nothing compared to what some people have gone through but it makes me feel so violated every time it crosses my mind. Every time he came over after that I avoided him and would lock my self in my room, not being able to look at him. My brother confronted me a week or two later telling me his friend has been telling people we slept together and my brother wanted to hear what happened, because again im only 12 and his friend almost 16(im also not like that at all) I told him he tried to kiss me and i rejected him. I said he must be but hurt i dont want to date him and that he was lieing about us sleeping together. The only person ive told the truth to is my best friend. I dont understand why he would lie about that, why he didn't ask for concent, why he likes a 12 year old. I still start feaking out if i hear my brother say hes having friends over, hopeing it not him. I was wearing striped sleep pants and a care bears tee shirt.
army acu's with a gun homedog had full nethorite and got onetapped
Bro woman should be able to wear almost everything we walk in *except maybe school* and we shouldn’t be worried about being raped and/or groomed just cuz they loot pretty beautiful hot whatever the case might be. woman mostly do all the work and this is how much we get raped/groomed in total come on we need to stop doing dis cuz it’s really not important to do that
Ive lost every drop of my faith in humanity after watching these types of videos, what you're wearing never symbolizes if your "asking for it" some people are just disgusting... 😕
3:17 why a little boy?
Wdym
The ones that were the most heartbreaking was all the kids clothes. What fucking interest could you have in someone that barely fucking knows the abc’s????
FOUR YEARS OLD. THESE PEOPLE ARE MORE THAN SICK.
i was 10 when i got sa'd, he was 16, i just wanted to talk to him about this anime i had watched, but he wanted more from me, he even threatened to tell my boyfriend at the time, and tell my parents, and friends, but he wouldn't if i sent him pics. They always say its our fault, even if we were 5, or 4, or under that, its our fault.
The first time I was wearing a flowery crop top, and some pink shorts, and then I was wearing a shirt with matching pants, they both had donuts on them and my mom just bought them for me, I am now 15, and I still own both of them, I never really grew out of my clothes from then, so I still wear them, and it took a while but I've gotten over it, I had horrible nightmares and had to sleep with my mom forever
This is very heartbreaking. Before I say anything else I was talking about this type of topic in my health class, and someone mentioned this exhibit, and I didn’t think it was fully real until I found this and I did more research. It’s just heartbreaking that this happens to people and it makes it worse. There are some cases of it happening to children so sad
i hope all these people know it is not their fault. it is never because what you were wearing. i was wearing a baggy t shirt and leggings the first time and bike shorts with a tank top the second time. he was my first boyfriend. my first relationship. i thought i could trust him but i guess i was wrong. i was 14.
I don't know if this is considered abuse... But one time I was at my sister's 15th party, everything was very nice... I was wearing a lilac dress.. And cute black shoes... my great uncle got drunk he carried me to a table and almost kissed me... my aunt just stopped my great uncle before he kissed me... THANKS TO HIM my anxiety got worse.
that’s DEFINITELY sexual assault!
what is wrong with society doing that to children to?
The army officer😢😢and the small kid the burkha girl also 😢😢what was the fault of small kid the armmy officer protects us now i am scared 😢😢
Society is so fucked up
I was 8. I was wearing black leggings, a gray shirt with a pink heart on it, and a gray jacket with more pink hearts on it. He was my friend's brother.
I’m actually really surprised (and validated honestly) by seeing that there are some other women who got sa’d by other women. I’ve been told that it was just her being old fashioned and just a girl thing, but it’s not, I was a kid. None of these people deserved what they got, and neither did I.
“Was it really my fault?” asked the Short Skirt. “No, it happened with me too,” replied the Burka. The diaper in the corner couldn’t even speak. -Darshan Mondkar
So sad 😭
I remember exactly what I was wearing the first time it happened. I was wearing my shirt from my 8th grade Washington D.C. trip I had gone on just a few months prior, a pair of jeans that were ripped at the knees, and my black high tops. I ended up throwing the shirt away years later, I hated how it slapped me in the face every time I opened my drawer.
It makes me so sad to see them talk about how they hated their clothes after the event and it just reminded them of their SA or R*pe. To the victims, you are stronger than the perpetrator, and you'll always be. Wishing everyone in this vid and the comments justice. YOU ARE NEVER ALONE !!!
from the ages of 13-15 my father would slap my butt whenever i gave him a hug. not playfully or softly he would slap it to the point where it stung afterwards. still to this day i dont know if i should classify it as sexual assault, or if im just overreacting. but each and everytime i was just wearing either a t-shirt or a hoodie and nike shorts. every single time.
Yeah that was definitely strange for him to do…
if it’s only between those ages then that’s really weird
omg the bloodstained underwear holy shit! who would do such a thing?
Where is that?
@@That.one-freindGroupXOXO i think around the end
That literally traumatized me
A pokemon Pikachu tshirt with shorts the first time it happened, i dont remember what i wore everyday after that, but it still happened everyday without fail. I hate family
I want you to know that you're not alone and if the person hasn't been investigated or arrested yet please contact the authorities and try to get that to happen because you never know if they're still doing it to others or will do it again
@@Poland4life thank you, I am currently trying to speak with the police because my aunt learned what had happened and she gave me the phone number. It was my uncle on my dads side and I was 12/13. I am autistic and super neurodiverse in general so he took complete advantage of me bc I couldnt speak at the time, I was the nonverbal type of autistic and I can still be sometimes when I have PTSD attacks
@@restlessrobbie2238 if you haven't then also talk to other family members and try to get that uncle cut out of your and their lives
I noticed some guys said "they asked why I never fought him/her and if this makes me gay, not what I was wearing." And that's truely disgusting on a nother level. "What were you wearing" is used to silence women and children. "does this mean you're gay?" Is used to silence men
:'( nooooo
I was wearing a suit and tie, I was 13. Thanks sister!
You didn't deserve that... Wishing you justice man. You are stronger than her and I hope you had a powerful recovery.
Idk how yall remember what you were wearing, i blocked it out lol
pyjama shorts and a t-shirt, she was my only friend at my school
I feel sorry for you 😢😢💔💔😭😭
1:46 is heart breaking to me
A kids nightgown, he was supposed to be my dad.
that's NOT your dad, a dad protects his children from danger rather than being the danger
the sari one was so sad....
😢😢
People can be so fucking horrible.
My cosin. He wanted to play house with me. I was the mom. He was the dad. He was YOUNGER than me but yet he still assaulted me.
Oh honey. Iam so so sorry
@@ILikeCreepyStuff its okay
4:49 is SO horrific.