“Was it really my fault?” asked the Short Skirt. “No, it happened with me too,” replied the Burka. The diaper in the corner couldn’t even speak. -Darshan Mondkar

@kittydogcalendar8090

8 сағат бұрын

So sad 😭

The little kid clothes....

@Boundlessness

10 ай бұрын

Those break my heart 😢

@Mothpunk

9 ай бұрын

I saw one with a diaper and it absolutely broke me

@jax-ur-beloved

9 ай бұрын

all of the clothes..

@Stars4mikan

8 ай бұрын

It’s sad

@Harrow567

4 ай бұрын

Yeah, it’s heartbreaking as children are innocent

Stories about sa by older brothers always hurt so much. My brother and I love each other as much as siblings do, and I can’t fathom him ever doing something to hurt me, especially sa, I’ve always felt so comfortable around him and like we’re friends. The idea that some kids live in fear of their older brothers hurts so much and cuts so deeply for me. It makes me so angry that any brother would do anything that gross or despicable, that some people are so robbed of sibling affection in place of something so horrific.

@Quesoquantum

Жыл бұрын

Some dude at the local high school got ousted for r^ping his younger sister. He complained to the principal for "being treated unhumanlike" you didn't treat her like a human. He gets bullied hella hard and lowkey he deserves it.

@Owibi

11 ай бұрын

@@Quesoquantumood. I hope he gets bullied for that. That’s more than just disgusting. Seems like he deserves more than bullying though

@Quesoquantum

11 ай бұрын

@@Owibi real

@Valentynekittylover23

Ай бұрын

my brother did it to all of us younger girls

One of my assaults I was in a Halloween costume, about 11, and it was a puffy ball gown. I now sew ball gowns for myself. I always loved ball gowns and I would not allow him to take that love away.

@Quesoquantum

Жыл бұрын

Good on you, don't let him take that from you

@pinkybunny

2 ай бұрын

good for you :) hope you’re doing better now!! 🩵

@lordvoldemort5586

2 ай бұрын

@@pinkybunny I am, I got a daughter now. She's the light of my life, my miracle and I am a bit of a momma bear. I'll be sewing her a ballgown here soon for her birthday.

@pinkybunny

2 ай бұрын

@@lordvoldemort5586 🫶

@FlowerRot

2 ай бұрын

That great, wishing you two well and a happy birthday to your daughter :)

I hate that this happens, more often than we think too. What us as women/men wear is NOT the problem, we need to educate our children about this from a young age and until we die. I don’t want to grow up in fear of putting on a nice breathable dress hoping that some creepy person looks me up and down, and I most definitely do not want my future children to grow up to be afraid either, or worse, to be the rapist themselves. This is a sad sad world we live in..

@wrathengel82

10 ай бұрын

we shouldn't educate our children to fear, we should educate them to not r4pe

@Universityyy

9 ай бұрын

@@wrathengel82they should do both

@wrathengel82

8 ай бұрын

@@Universityyy yeah kinda

Those few entries of what I assume are guys who say they've never been asked this question before but have been asked why they didn't fight back... That's so messed up in so many ways. First of all it exemplifies the weird double standards people have for survivors of different genders, and second of all it indicates how invalidating people are towards male survivors... I am so sorry, you all are so valid and it was never your fault! It's not as simple as 'fighting back'. :'(

@sarahvanheusden8372

4 ай бұрын

and the thing is when you say that your assaulter was stronger they just give you weird faces

@mossy_brickens

15 күн бұрын

Especially the one with several assaulters. People just have these super hero fantasies when they hear bad news, like you should have just kung-fu them all in a middle of a sick back flip. I remember in news some dude was following and attacking people with an axe, and commenters were like "this passerby shouldn't have saved themselves by leaving a dangerous place, they should have thrown sand in a face of a killer!" They make up crazy Capt. Jack Sparrow scenarios just like that.

“It’s not all men”. I know that But when a man is walking behind me, I don’t care what kind of man it is

@DanteMustDie3594

2 жыл бұрын

And that is why I hate walking behind women, and why I try to walk past them.

@lailumayunus3153

2 жыл бұрын

I as a woman can say that if you don’t want to make us uncomfortable while walking past us here’s some things u can do 1. Try to walk beside us and if you want to say something like hi or good morning u can 2. If ur in a hurry don’t stand behind us , contrary to most peoples thinking we don’t feel that uncomfortable when u pass us Just walk normally we don’t mind , unless u give off bad vibes as someone who has been followed home multiple times it is these few things that make me trust that some one isn’t following me , but remember it is different or others

@Quesoquantum

Жыл бұрын

Exactly.

@BandObsessed923

11 ай бұрын

​@@DanteMustDie3594honestly, if she's not wearing headphones or any other noise blockers, the best course of action is to speak up and say that you're not following her on purpose, just headed the same direction

@piroshk1968

10 ай бұрын

you can be r#ped by family members, spouses, boyfriends, even your male friends. how do they expect us to not see them like disgusting animals when so many of them are like this. TOO many of them in fact

I hope they are all doing better!

I noticed some guys said "they asked why I never fought him/her and if this makes me gay, not what I was wearing." And that's truely disgusting on a nother level. "What were you wearing" is used to silence women and children. "does this mean you're gay?" Is used to silence men

@cheese7119

17 сағат бұрын

:'( nooooo

6:06 was very powerful, im glad they didnt let such a horrible thing destory something they loved

@wrathengel82

10 ай бұрын

5:57 ****

A sky blue sequin shirt, black jeans and white running shoes. I was 10, he was 16. It happened 4 times, though I don't remember what I wore the 3 other times, I cut it out of my mind completely. I don't remember my childhood to this day.

@bibliosmiia

2 жыл бұрын

im so sorry.

@JaneCrossan

4 ай бұрын

I'm so sad that you were robbed of your childhood memories. I wish you the very best of everything that life has to offer ❤

I feel like people wearing more modest clothing are more likely to get s*xually *ssaulted. Society teaches you that modest clothes make you safe. When you feel safe and comfortable, you’re an easier target. It does not matter what you are wearing. It is ALWAYS the perpetrator’s fault

when i told my friend about it she asked what i was wearing, i was wearing a black oversized hoodie and black leggings. literally nothing attractive.

@itsjiminsnonexistentjams1221

3 жыл бұрын

So weird that men can be attracted to literally ANYTHING.

@elianna5742

3 жыл бұрын

@@itsjiminsnonexistentjams1221 honestly

@elianna5742

3 жыл бұрын

@Gennari Nicole thank you, i really try to be.

@Regina.6692

2 жыл бұрын

The fact that she even had the audacity to ask what you were wearing

@the_roach_king.

2 жыл бұрын

You mean the STRANGER asked you what you are wearing. Cuz hunny you ain’t friends after that.

I was a very cheerful and outgoing child. I would even sneak out just to play tag or fly kites with my friends. (1) I was 4 years old (wearing a purple dress) and my father's youngest sibling was still around highschool. He would offer that he'd let me play on his phone as long as I followed him in his room. He would forcefully pin me down making me face a wall while music was blasting so nobody could hear me cry. He never put it in but he would always stretch my butt and rub against me. It continued for a few months and my parents were always in the room besides his. I was so traumatized that my brain had basically deleted a portion of my memories from when I was 4 and only remembered when I was 10. (2) a year after the first incident so I was 5 (a shirt and a skirt that reached below my knees). My cousin [15-16] said he was sleepy and that he wanted to sleep with me in exchange for his gameboy so I said okay.[*at the time I couldn't remember the first incident*] He was silent at first but then he lifted my skirt covered my mouth and rubbed against my legs. I was terrified but I didn't say a thing about it. I've been seeing them almost everyday since I lived across the street. I don't know if they remember. Even when we moved I never had the courage to open up to my parents. My mother had thought that I was trying too hard to match my sexuality but in reality I'm just afraid to wear skirts and dresses. Even shorts make hyper-aware of people. Ever since then the thought of talking to family members or anyone related to my family makes my heart race and I'd have a hard time breathing till people were out of sight. (especially with someone who's older than me)

@radicalsus

3 жыл бұрын

I'm so sorry that happened

@rwenrenw2187

3 жыл бұрын

@@radicalsus thank you so much for your concern. I just wanted to vent out but I'm alright now ^^

@spade3917

3 жыл бұрын

They are disgusting to do that, you are strong remember that.

@rwenrenw2187

3 жыл бұрын

@@spade3917 thank you so much.. you telling me I'm strong made ne cry..

@artistic_mess1258

3 жыл бұрын

I'm so sorry that happened to you :(

reading all these comments breaks my heart, you all didn't deserve this and know its not your fault. it sickens me that people are so messed up to do this to anyone and my heart goes out to all you survivors

I do like that cases of both genders are shown even if it's more common when it comes to females.

@Quesoquantum

Жыл бұрын

Fr.

@Universityyy

9 ай бұрын

Fr

I was wearing my school uniform.

@2roorin

2 жыл бұрын

I'm so sorry,it isnt your fault I hope that things are getting better for you and that you're taking care of yourself

@Aria_2K2

2 жыл бұрын

@@2roorin thank you so much x

@Quesoquantum

Жыл бұрын

They say "it's your fault" when it's not. Even if the clothes mattered, those uniforms are designed to be modest.

@unclejohn761

2 ай бұрын

How are you holding up nowadays?

The little girl's clothes, my heart hurts, because I too was SA by not one, but two of my family members, when I was a kid too.

The sari one breaks my heart, I hope she is better now.

I just don’t understand why men/women have to do this :(

@north6981

3 жыл бұрын

Ikr:(

@icouldntthinkofanything1785

2 жыл бұрын

Women do this to men, men do this to women, women do it to women, and men do it to men. It's not a gender thing. It's a humans not respecting each other thing.

@kenzieelizabeth7558

2 жыл бұрын

@@icouldntthinkofanything1785 they said men/women. they never said it was a gender thing.

@icouldntthinkofanything1785

2 жыл бұрын

@@kenzieelizabeth7558 They used gender as the definition of the people who do this.

@Regina.6692

2 жыл бұрын

@@icouldntthinkofanything1785 They pretty much said what you said. They never made it gender specific.

first time i was 7, pretty sure i was wearing pink and darker pink matching cat pjs with a pun on them. last time it was hard for me to remember, but i think it was also pjs but they were blue and white and it had dogs on them.

@2roorin

2 жыл бұрын

it isnt your fault im so sorry and hope things are getting better for you now

I got to thinking, through all of the blame I had to go through from the people I thought I could trust, what actually happened? The first time it happened, I was around 8, wondering around my local Hobby Lobby with my mother when I suddenly got lost. I cant remember what happened between everything, but I remember coming to with a man holding me still in the back of the store. I ran to my mom, scared and crying, telling her I didn't know what happened, because at that age, I didn't. The second time it happened, followed by the third and fourth, were all by the same person when I was 11-12. A boy at my school had been groping all of the girls when I decided to fight him. He dragged me to the bathroom and smothered me with my own school uniform shirt. The next thing I knew, I was laying on the bathroom floor with my pants disturbed and my head throbbing. The third, he did the same thing only I was found before waking and was blamed for being assaulted. My counselor who I had trusted, asked me what I was wearing. My school had a strict dress code, with uniform shirts, long pants, and no skin showing (couldn't show knees, shoulders, cleavage, ankles even) so being asked this took me by suprise. What I had been wearing was my shirt, part of the uniform, and some jeans that were ripped during the struggle. I was blamed for wearing my school uniform and still getting raped. This happened one more time, the exact same thing, and my parents never knew. The fifth time was my boyfriend. He had many issues, as did I, at the age of 12, and he ended up pinning me to the bathroom wall and raping me, all while I was conscious, only I couldn't say anything because he had a weapon and I knew it. The most resent time was just a few months ago, I was walking my therapy dog Goose, who is trained to never bite or anything. I was wearing sweatpants and a sweatshirt as I was sick with a cold. This random boy is on his scooter and he starts riding next to me asking me weird, perverse questions. I ignored him and didn't say anything, but he took this as invitation. He tackled me and started undressing me when my dog Goose, who wasn't even 1 year old, bit his leg until he bled. I struggled to stand up but I knew I had to because I had been laying on the side of the road. Goose immediately checked on me and wouldn't leave me alone (as she's trained to do) for the rest of the week. I only ever saw that boy one more time, and that was when he tried talking to me at school, but I promptly kicked him. I don't know what would have happened if Goose wasn't there that day, because I know that boy had access to drugs and weapons, so I owe it all to my dog who helped me recover.

@aaliyahishtiaq8594

9 ай бұрын

This world sucks, people blaming you suck, the people who did it suck. I want to hug you because you didn't deserve this. I hope this world does justice to you and doesn't hurt you. You are so strong.

I was wearing a grey turtleneck and a ripped jeans with boots. My ex-best friend ruined my life.

@clover_dosex_x3944

Жыл бұрын

That's heartbreaking, I'm so so sorry. Nobody deserves these things, I really hope your in a better place

@JaneCrossan

4 ай бұрын

😢

Honestly as I got older in life the more I realized that I was assaulted. Of course it wasn’t nearly anything as bad as other people have dealt with (although if my mom hadn’t stopped it, it may have gotten bad) I don’t remember what I was wearing. I don’t even remember how old I was. I just know I was a child. And he was a child too My brother and I always fought but one day, I don’t remember what led to it but he was licking my chest. I didn’t think much of it at the time. I didn’t know what sex was and I thought this was us finally bonding and getting along. That’d happen for I don’t know how long before I went to change in the bathroom and my brother came in. And I told him to get out. And then my mom intervened and lectured him. He would then after occasionally touch my clothed chest with his hand trying to disguise it as giving me a pat. But eventually that ended. Nothing was ever reported since he was my brother and only a year older. Also it was years ago and hasn’t did anything like that ever since. Besides I’m probably the only one in my family that remembers that it happened since it wasn’t full on r*pe and as far as I’m aware hasn’t even really traumatized me like how others have been affected

@PlutotCharmant

11 ай бұрын

What your brother did is absolutely terrible. It may not be rape but it doesn't make the situation any less bad! The "I thought this was us FINALLY bonding and getting along" is heartbreaking to hear about a sibling's relationship

@janesvirtualworld

10 ай бұрын

You were assaulted, your experience is still valid. An older brother should never do that to his sister

I was 7 when it happened to me. I was with a boy in my neighborhood and all the other kids in the neighborhood were stuck with homework, so I was left alone with him. He groomed me, and because of my innocence I didn't know what was happening, so reluctantly after I had said "no" multiple times, I said yes just to get him off my back. I hadn't told anyone about it until I was 12 and had long since moved away. I was wearing a swimsuit and a skirt, I used to wear that every summer because I lived in Georgia at the time, and it was very hot outside.

What I was wearing: A long sleeved shirt, with all the buttons closed, shirt tucked in. A tie, jumper and a blazer. Long trousers. Long socks underneath. Only my face, neck and hands were exposed. It was a standard British secondary school uniform. I was 14 in year 10. It happened in school.

@Universityyy

9 ай бұрын

I am so sorry that happened to you

@MinisDunyasi5

9 ай бұрын

@@Universityyy Thank you. I feel a bit better. But the it happened recently. When I reported what happened they only warned the boys who sexually assaulted me. Not much happened to my abusers. So it kept on happening. I was victim blamed for it. I have no friends, my classmates were laughing at me as I was getting sexually assaulted and sexually harassed. Here’s the full story: Most of it happened in my biology class, in front of the teacher she was hearing and seeing and she LET IT HAPPEN. I told her I was being sexually harassed and sexually assaulted during her class. She told me to “use better words” because “sexual harassment” and “sexual assault” are strong accusations. But I was being sexually harassed and sexually assaulted, I WASN’T EXAGGERATING. She said I should say they were “bothering” me because I was “distracting them”. I asked her how I could be distracting them because I was wearing my school uniform. I never even wore a skirt to school because of how often I was being sexually harassed and sexually assaulted while wearing trousers. The problem definitely wasn’t the clothes. She commented on how the make up I was wearing was giving them the wrong impression. The only thing on my face was foundation and setting spray. And CLOTHES AND MAKE UP DON’T EQUAL CONSENT. She said I should stop distracting them and never warned those who were sexually harassing and sexually assaulting me. I told her if my make up distracts them, that says more about the lesson and her teaching. She said “boys will be boys” “guys have natural tendencies that are impossible to manage”. There was no point in talking to her. But when I talked to the school the school didn’t do much either. They even asked me what I was wearing. Because of this my sexual harassment and sexual assault continued for 2 months. It happened IN SCHOOL mostly in biology class WHEN THE TEACHER HEARD AND SAW IT BUT DIDN’T DO ANYTHING. The only reason it ended was because summer break came. I’ve been told that they were “warned” during the last week of school, after continuing for 2 months. planning on changing schools. I don’t want to worry about my safety in school. TLDR: I was being sexually harassed and assaulted during my biology class. The teacher saw and heard everything but didn’t warn the ones who hurt me, instead she victim blamed me and slut shamed me.

Hope they are all okay

I was wearing a suit and tie, I was 13. Thanks sister!

@beanietime3959

8 ай бұрын

You didn't deserve that... Wishing you justice man. You are stronger than her and I hope you had a powerful recovery.

It must have been summer time and I just then graduated kindergarten so I couldn’t have been much older than 6. My dad went on business trips and my mom worked long night shifts. My dad hated the idea of babysitters but since it was family he trusted them enough. I was being taken care of by my female older cousin and her older siblings. I remember falling asleep while I watching NICK Jr and sometime during the night I woke up and my older male cousin was on top of me and I saw my other female older cousin that was supposed to be taking care of me, watching from the door way. I still have not told my parents what happened and I still see my cousins at family reunions.

@bibliosmiia

2 жыл бұрын

... im so sorry. you DID NOT deserve that. its both of their faults.

@user-qo4eb8fu9s

29 күн бұрын

Just tell them(parents) get off your chest they don't deserve to get away from what they did

4:49 is SO horrific.

1) A body suit, jean shorts, and converse when I was in high school and it was my dance instructor about twice my age 2) Some type of loungewear - leggings, tshirt/sweatshirt by an acquaintance 3) Again some type of loungewear by my ex

2:00 this goes for me aswell. My mom would get mad that I’d throw tantrums every time she tried to put a dress on me. I did tell her though, maybe a year later

This is why I make sure no one is looking at my sister in the wrong place

1:15 Oml, from their own brother?! Oh my god, and they were only four years old. I'm so sorry. 4:17 This one too. I am so sorry. I am also so sorry for all the other r*pe survivors.

wow one of them was four years old thats fricking disgusting and by there own brother, i hope he went t jail and she's doing better now

the sari one was so sad....

@mermaid3597

2 ай бұрын

😢😢

It's scary bc I'm only 11 and some of the victims are near ,my age

@AvaBroadway

2 жыл бұрын

Same

@user-dv9ip6bq9b

10 ай бұрын

It can happen at any age. Two teens r-ed a 70+ old woman less than a year ago in my town, and then burned her alive. No one received any punishment, because they were too young.

@1leena.

2 ай бұрын

@@user-dv9ip6bq9b absolutely terrifying.

Breaks my heart seeing people going through this And they can’t do anything But it breaks me more when people say grow out of it or the past is the past it’s still not ok that people went through it’s a serious problem that needs to be fixed no matter the age it’s still traumatizing for the victim who went through it.

Hi im a little girl named Keeley I was about 8 or 7 when this happened....it still scares me till this day. It still happens when I spend the night with him.Here it is (At the age of 8) I was 8 and I was spending the night at my grandmas with my cousin 11-12 and my lil brothe 6-7 and my brother was asleep it was about 1:00 A.M my cousin was on the pc I was wearing something comfy [a blue flam flimflam shirt and jeans] and he wanted me to go under the pc and I said ok! Not knowing what he was gonna do...and he took of his pants and u know the boys spot... here’s another one but I survived it.. (Age 8 different time point btw) Again same people cousin and my brother my brother was asleep it’s was some point at 1:00 A.M he said he needed me and I was scared but I said ok.. he lowered the pc chair to his...spot he said to cover my eyes and I said “I don’t feel comfortable” he said ok and he hugged me almost down to my butt and when I was sleeping he said his phone light on me and asked “can I sleep with u?” And I said no thx and he said aw but he keeped doing it till he got tried.. and this my friends is my I’m scared of my cousin!

@imbetterthanyoubtw

2 жыл бұрын

As an 11 year old myself, I hope you are okay but i am kind of confused how a CHILD could do that to another child. You are strong and I hope u get past this

@dynamiclizard1098

2 жыл бұрын

Sweetheart, please tell a trusted adult. Whether it’s a teacher, parent, a friend’s parent, or other family member, please tell.

@Quesoquantum

Жыл бұрын

Tell someone. Tell an adult, tell the police, tell someone. Don't suffer in silence. You deserve closure. Thank you for sharing :)

It makes me so sad to see them talk about how they hated their clothes after the event and it just reminded them of their SA or R*pe. To the victims, you are stronger than the perpetrator, and you'll always be. Wishing everyone in this vid and the comments justice. YOU ARE NEVER ALONE !!!

I just remember of last 3times, a red top (10/12) A knee length full sleeves sweater along with mufflers and jeans ,and last time a t-shirt and knee length leggings

Black leggings and a long plaid shirt. He was family. I was 7. I couldn't even process what had happened for about 10 years.

This world is a disappointment sometimes...

@ghosttoast2519

2 жыл бұрын

oh my god. your pfp is *poggers*

omg the bloodstained underwear holy shit! who would do such a thing?

@That.one-freindGroupXOXO

8 ай бұрын

Where is that?

@ClunkerBunker

8 ай бұрын

@@That.one-freindGroupXOXO i think around the end

@saanvipulavarti7797

Ай бұрын

That literally traumatized me

(1) tank top and shorts, probably the usual for child me. we were the same age, kindergarten. I feel horrible, i jus hope he wasnt experiencing anything at home.. I never wore shorts or tank tops or even skirts ever again. i was too scared. (2) a shirt with a cat on it that says “i hate you.”, a hoodie around my waist and black leggings. I still have the shirt, just sitting there in my drawer.. idk what to do with it. Everytime i see it, i want to cry. these experiences make me feel so guilty, like i should’ve done something. I always feel disgusted with myself when im reminded. (I wasnt r4p3d any of these times, sexual assault more like.)

@rosemarie1817

2 жыл бұрын

Well, you still didn't deserve it, I hope that you'll be able to talk to someone and get past this, please don't let this ruin your life❤

@bratworst453

2 жыл бұрын

@@rosemarie1817 thank you, i hope you’re doing ok as well have a nice day or night !

My cosin. He wanted to play house with me. I was the mom. He was the dad. He was YOUNGER than me but yet he still assaulted me.

@ILikeCreepyStuff

9 ай бұрын

Oh honey. Iam so so sorry

@LowSelf-EsteemLord

9 ай бұрын

@@ILikeCreepyStuff its okay

I hate people sometimes. I saw one with a diaper before. I cried so hard. Things like this break and shatter me to pieces.

A kids nightgown, he was supposed to be my dad.

@Poland4life

8 ай бұрын

that's NOT your dad, a dad protects his children from danger rather than being the danger

Seeing this breaks my heart, oh my

i hope you are all safe, it wasnt your fault and it never was. we love you big time stay safe.

God the ones where it not only happened to children but *kept* happening

Why do men and women do this :(

1:46 is heart breaking to me

I'm scared. I've walked to and from the park in my neighborhood countless times in the dark, alone. I haven't been hurt before but the fact that I might be at the community pool, they might not have a bathroom, and j might have to walk home alone, in a swimsuit. It scares me. Just putting my new swimsuit on yesterday to get wet with out those was uncomfortable untill I got used to it. People are horrible

I was crying the while video man.

@Universityyy

9 ай бұрын

Same

😭 this is so sad..

Mostly PJ's, my school uniform with either skirt or trousers, and mostly wore jeans and a t-shirt sometimes skirts and dresses (mostly gothic or emo clothes). From 10 to 28 by my nephew who is 3 years younger than me (I'm 30 this year, I spoke out in 2021 and haven't seen him since) I wasn't raped but he would have sexually charged conversations with me, the first time was at my sister's house, I started my period at 10 and my sister didn't know and she put me and my nephew in the bath together, he kept asking me about my body and why it was different and kept staring, a few years later, when I was 11 to 12, him and my sister moved in because they had no where to go, he started showing porn and that "2 girls, 1 cup" video, (Just to note, I'm Autistic). I didn't want to watch porn because the idea of sex scared me but he kept showing me it, one time my sister bought a sex book to read with her boyfriend and my nephew would show me the book. I always felt uncomfortable and gross. He eventually moved out but would come visit a lot and stayed over in my room and wanted to sleep in my bed with me. When I was 15, he started asking me for sex, I would say no but he'd keep going on about how he's not had a girlfriend and started taking pics under the covers of his p*nis, the pics were dark but he asked me to do the same, he didn't see anything but it still felt like I was violated, after I got a boyfriend it mostly stopped but he would make weird comments to my boyfriend like "she's difficult to wake up". My boyfriend thought it was weird but just thought "maybe he meant because she fell asleep while watching a film or something" so brushed it off. It got even weirder when he want to sleep in the same room as me and my boyfriend when I move in with my boyfriend, 18 years old, after when my boyfriend left, 23 to 24, I moved back in with my parents when I was alone my nephew would ask for sex I would say no, always no, it got to the point where he would be mad at me because I said no. He stayed with us for 6 weeks, everyday... One day during that time he wanted us to touch ourselves in front of each other, I said no. He kept going on about it, I said I would make him a video (I was trying to do anything to appease him).. he said no to that, he wanted to see a real v*gina, so I said I would show him my p*bes and he sais ok.. so I did and he shown me his. After he didn't talk to me for days and went home, I felt disgusting, so horrible. The sad thing is.. in 2020 to 2021 he was arrested for exchanging CP of kids from under 1 years old to 15 years old (he has a sister who is 3 years old now and was obsessed with her) to other paedophiles on Discord, Kik etc... So the first place he said he wanted to stay was with me and my parents, and when he stayed with us, it started again, the sexually charged conversations... That was when he told me that, when he would sleep next to me to on the floor in my room, he would get off while I was sleeping... And because he said to my boyfriend that I was "difficult to wake up", I have no idea what else he did while I was sleeping.... In 2021, I went to CBT for suicidal thoughts and self harm, I finally got the courage to speak out about what happened and my parents kicked him out. He not allowed to come near me and he said to my mum "I'm glad to see the back of her" like I was in the wrong.. My family supported me and I got PTSD therapy. (I'm back with my boyfriend now husband) and I'm much happier now...

When I was 7 years old, I was wearing a pink hoodie and jeans. I was in the girls bathroom in school. One of the older girls came in there. She was supposed to be my friend. She kept on touching me and trying to take my clothes off and shoved me into one of the stalls to this day I havent told a single person in my family

@pomodoro144

9 ай бұрын

im so sorry, i know how invalidated you must feel

@saanvipulavarti7797

Ай бұрын

I’m soooo srry but no one cares bout that bit!h stand up for urself

first time i was wearing a jeans and a summer shirt of some type, i was 8 at most, second time i was 11 and i was wearing jean shorts, a t shirt and a blanket, i was asleep on the couch he was like a dad to me, he did it again the day after and then again that same night

I wore the cloths on Saturdays,, Pajamas,, weekends from school. For every time he had done it. Each Saturday- I always got UTI infections,,

“Is it my fault.?” Said the red dress, “No” Said the hijab,”It happened to me too” “Me too” Said the t-shirt and jeans, “Same” Said the Hello kitty shirt and pink skirt.

There are so many kids' outfits...

This is very heartbreaking. Before I say anything else I was talking about this type of topic in my health class, and someone mentioned this exhibit, and I didn’t think it was fully real until I found this and I did more research. It’s just heartbreaking that this happens to people and it makes it worse. There are some cases of it happening to children so sad

I was wearing my school uniform and other days my school sports uniform. I was 11 turning 12. By an older school friend

The cheer one and blood one :(

@pomodoro144

9 ай бұрын

the blood one made me tear up, i can’t imagine the pain and the regret, the fear, the feeling that it was your fault

I remember exactly what I was wearing the first time it happened. I was wearing my shirt from my 8th grade Washington D.C. trip I had gone on just a few months prior, a pair of jeans that were ripped at the knees, and my black high tops. I ended up throwing the shirt away years later, I hated how it slapped me in the face every time I opened my drawer.

I was 5 in 1997 when my so called "friend" my age had two older boys approximately 5th grade tried to SA on a bean bag chair outside my apartment door. I yelled for my mom and they stop. My mom tired of me yelling because our next door neighbors with two kids complained about my sister and I all the time, told me to come inside. Second time I was 9 or 10 at my babysitters house when the other boy she babysat got on top of me naked but no intercourse. I was in high school on an Amtrak train when this older dude kept rubbing my leg and pleasured himself. Even if I move my leg he would continued. I got separated by my sister since there was single seats left.

I was assaulted several times by my older brother when I was younger. My parents only found out this month because I accidentally let it slip that I was sexually abused. They called la DPJ and he was taken away. I always trusted him and I still do. I miss him a lot but both of us understand that what he did was wrong.

These are disgusting. People themself make me disgusted I feel like I want to just bully them but I know that’s not right. For the people who felt this it’s not your fault never was it’s not right for someone to control you and your body. Even if you are not in control of your body right now it has no right for anyone else to be control of it. Even or kids like girls and boys I hope there okay now❤

i was 10 when i got sa'd, he was 16, i just wanted to talk to him about this anime i had watched, but he wanted more from me, he even threatened to tell my boyfriend at the time, and tell my parents, and friends, but he wouldn't if i sent him pics. They always say its our fault, even if we were 5, or 4, or under that, its our fault.

@weallluvclifford

4 ай бұрын

The first time I was wearing a flowery crop top, and some pink shorts, and then I was wearing a shirt with matching pants, they both had donuts on them and my mom just bought them for me, I am now 15, and I still own both of them, I never really grew out of my clothes from then, so I still wear them, and it took a while but I've gotten over it, I had horrible nightmares and had to sleep with my mom forever

from the ages of 13-15 my father would slap my butt whenever i gave him a hug. not playfully or softly he would slap it to the point where it stung afterwards. still to this day i dont know if i should classify it as sexual assault, or if im just overreacting. but each and everytime i was just wearing either a t-shirt or a hoodie and nike shorts. every single time.

@stunnachanel1843

4 ай бұрын

Yeah that was definitely strange for him to do…

@pinkybunny

2 ай бұрын

if it’s only between those ages then that’s really weird

I was 8. I was wearing black leggings, a gray shirt with a pink heart on it, and a gray jacket with more pink hearts on it. He was my friend's brother.

I’m actually really surprised (and validated honestly) by seeing that there are some other women who got sa’d by other women. I’ve been told that it was just her being old fashioned and just a girl thing, but it’s not, I was a kid. None of these people deserved what they got, and neither did I.

"Was it my fault?" Asked the skirt. "No, it happened to me too." Replied the burqa. Meanwhile, the diaper stays silent. It didnt know how to talk!

I was wearing black cargo pants and a oversized black vans t shirt with my favorite vans jacket. I still have the clothes I was wearing when it happened somewhere in my closet

Idk what I was wearing or how old exactly I was (probably 4-5years) and i never really remembered it as bad, because nothing really happened. I don't remember much but, My brothers old friend would molest me ,yes even in my brothers room. I eventually told my mom and my mom kicked him out instantly and my brother was also angry at him. His excuse was that he was only touching me ,nothing more. Like I said I don't remember much of it, only that it happened and life continued after that. (I do think it might be the reason why I am so uncomfortable with my body today, but I don't know )

I was wearing jeans and an over sized t-shirt. I had never realized it until recently but her and her brother would constantly s3xu@lly @ssult me.. Then she took it too far. To her it was just a big joke. I cant believe i called her my friend. She even did it to my brother.

1:45 wow...3 times?

I don't know if this is considered abuse... But one time I was at my sister's 15th party, everything was very nice... I was wearing a lilac dress.. And cute black shoes... my great uncle got drunk he carried me to a table and almost kissed me... my aunt just stopped my great uncle before he kissed me... THANKS TO HIM my anxiety got worse.

@pinkybunny

2 ай бұрын

that’s DEFINITELY sexual assault!

A pink tutu and my little pony shirt, age 4.

@Adoniaanjelita03

3 ай бұрын

Oh I really feel sorry for you

Was wearing a t-shirt from hot topic and jeans wearing a hoodie and jeans the second time wore cat pjs the 3rd time two times were men last was a woman cant trust no one (I'm female)

@adrianbristol1471

2 жыл бұрын

Yeah, as a csa survivor myself, I can understand the paranoia and fear of people. I've been through it countless times as a young girl by my grandfather. I didn't even know it was wrong (on his part, I can't blame myself for that) until I was about 12 or 13, and I'd been through it my whole life. And walking around walmart I was always scared of any super tall, old guy that passed me. Now I'm much happier and moved on, but since I am a trans boy now, I worry that my appearance might scare some girls because I now look like a guy. I understand other people haven't fully healed, so I am worried that just my appearance can trigger someone. And I hope that one day you can move on and heal too. 🤍

@Quesoquantum

Жыл бұрын

♡

pyjama shorts and a t-shirt, she was my only friend at my school

@Adoniaanjelita03

Ай бұрын

I feel sorry for you 😢😢💔💔😭😭

i hope all these people know it is not their fault. it is never because what you were wearing. i was wearing a baggy t shirt and leggings the first time and bike shorts with a tank top the second time. he was my first boyfriend. my first relationship. i thought i could trust him but i guess i was wrong. i was 14.

My school uniform(my school has a compulsory uniform) . It happened last year when i was fourteen and my mom's youngest cousin was eighteen. She said "you're crazy, stop imagining things. MY BROTHER would never do that. YOU'RE paranoid". She, a 40 year woman and a MOTHER of 3.

my SA was in the locker room in eighth grade, I was 13 and she was supposed to be a good friend of mine. I was changing in a shower stall and she came over which was normal since we would talk with one another even when changing. She grabbed my breasts, I slapped her and walked away, I was fully clothed and she grabbed my behind as well as my breasts again. I told her to stop and she did but a couple of minutes later she did it again. No one else cared in that locker room and everyone asked if I was gay and because of that everyone thinks I'm gay when in reality I never wanted any of it and wish I never went to school. I came home crying and my own mother didn't even care and I've only told my closest friends, never my family. Nobody has ever asked me the question of what I was wearing when I told my close friends, they just comforted me and shared their stories with me too.

oversize shirt, and pj shorts. He was my ex, i thought he just wanted to talk.

@d3hftoness

2 жыл бұрын

i’m so sorry that happened i hope you’re doing better

@cutieusagii

2 жыл бұрын

@@d3hftoness I am thank you, it took me 3 years to learn to love myself. I’m happy, and moved on. I even have a boyfriend now :)

FOUR YEARS OLD. THESE PEOPLE ARE MORE THAN SICK.

Not the r word but here's my story I was in the bus, I was wearing my favorite oversized hoodie. My hair was short short. I was hugging my school backpack when an old man sat near me and placed his hand on my leg. Because I was hugging my backpack and my clothes were so baggy, the people sitting in front didn't notice. I texted my classmate who was also in the bus with me and suddenly said oht loud making sure everyone heard me: "CAN YOU PLEASE TAKE YOUR HAND OFF OF MY THIGH?!" And got up just in time for my friend hinting at me to go and taking me from there

I dont know if i was sexually assaulted but onve my little brother looked up my 😿 And so did my sister (i was 6 and 7 they were 4 and 12)

I’m scared rn cuz the one who Get SA is people My age OR 2/3yr older😭

People can be so fucking horrible.

It’s painful too see this😔

1:15

I don't know if this was rape my friend said it was but im not sure cause he was my bf i was wearing a crop top and shorts all i wanted was a kiss at the end of our date but we ended up in the bathroom my mind said no and so did my body but i couldn't say the word no it was as if i was paralyzed when it was over i felt disgusted the worst part is he ended up cheating on me is this rape or was it ok since i didn't say stop or no

@SP-dy8sm

2 ай бұрын

It is a type of rape, peer pressure, I think. People may argue and victim blame you by saying “but you gave consent” but this is still wrong and it is peer pressure.

@rajanikaur6758

Ай бұрын

It is you should report about it.....

A pokemon Pikachu tshirt with shorts the first time it happened, i dont remember what i wore everyday after that, but it still happened everyday without fail. I hate family

@Poland4life

8 ай бұрын

I want you to know that you're not alone and if the person hasn't been investigated or arrested yet please contact the authorities and try to get that to happen because you never know if they're still doing it to others or will do it again

@restlessrobbie2238

8 ай бұрын

@@Poland4life thank you, I am currently trying to speak with the police because my aunt learned what had happened and she gave me the phone number. It was my uncle on my dads side and I was 12/13. I am autistic and super neurodiverse in general so he took complete advantage of me bc I couldnt speak at the time, I was the nonverbal type of autistic and I can still be sometimes when I have PTSD attacks

@Poland4life

8 ай бұрын

@@restlessrobbie2238 if you haven't then also talk to other family members and try to get that uncle cut out of your and their lives

The ones that were the most heartbreaking was all the kids clothes. What fucking interest could you have in someone that barely fucking knows the abc’s????

3:17 why a little boy?

@-_cat_-_paws-_

3 ай бұрын

Wdym

I'm sorry for the people in the video and the people who are telling their stories in the comments. I don't think this would happen to me because I'm overweight and hideous. But you never know.

The army officer😢😢and the small kid the burkha girl also 😢😢what was the fault of small kid the armmy officer protects us now i am scared 😢😢

it doesn't matter what you were wearing, you just need to be aware of the people.

@Dhaddy_Juke

3 жыл бұрын

Don't victim blame

@sin3224

3 жыл бұрын

I wonder who blame victims here

@Dhaddy_Juke

3 жыл бұрын

@@sin3224 you.

@sin3224

3 жыл бұрын

idk why you don't get it

@Dhaddy_Juke

3 жыл бұрын

@@sin3224 why would you tell victims they have to be aware of people