Independent philosopher, detransitioned male, freethinker, transhumanist and anarchist. What you can find here is social and political commentary on detrans/trans issues and what's going on in the world as well as diverse philosophical content. My aim is to encourage healthy disagreements, open conversations and diversity of thought and build bridges to end the cultural war. Currently writing a book on technological evolution.
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Jennifer Bilek’s new book about this sounds like a must read.
A little bit so much
Your story is important but doesn’t represent everyone in the world. Keep that in mind when you speak of something. It’s not truth but yours
Of course. I never said that everyone will regret their transition or detransition (which are two different things to he honest). I don't think the right to transition should be taken away from people.
You need more education and discipline
I think you're correct for the most part. However, I could see us making a dramatic return to written language if there was any major weakness, actual or perceived, in our digital infrastructure. If, for any reason, the Internet began decaying or experiencing regular outages, I think you'd see people hold fast to physical copies of information over and above digital ones
Thanks for sharing. ❤
Appreciate the good soul you are Alexander , Thank you just for being you. 🙏❤
I don't like Trump, however I feel ashamed for this type of leftists. I former belonged to the political left, but THIS new left is so disgusting, this has nothing to do with what I once voted for. Thank you for your video, nice hair btw.
It didnt work.
Nice hair
Handsome ❤
You have it correct In the title. DISGUSTING
Destiny is hardly a representative of the entire Left in the US.
Indeed. He's a troll.
He is considered left in the US but in the rest of the world he'd be conservative
This is NOT the Left's reaction. This doesn't represent us. Everyone has always had an opinion in everything. That's life. The difference is that they can get on the internet now and have more people here it. Thanks to algorithms you disproportionately see content that you then take as representative. As for wishing Trump would win as revenge is ignorant on so many levels. But you're just some person on the internet spouting your thoughts, the same as everyone else.
I don't think it is representative of the left in any way, shape or form. I stated it in the video. More than half of my views can be considered left wing, some of them even radical anarchist left. But like you said, a lot of people will take those voices as representative of a whole group of people. This is one of the big issues with the internet. It amplifies the least reasonable voices. And in all honesty, the whole part of me wanting Trump to win was a joke. I care about it as much as I cared about who won the UEFA championship.
cause you, op, speak for every leftist? lol
Yeah not watching all that Speak for yourself because I transitioned at 24 and it’s been amazing for me I’m also surprised at the feminization results I’ve gotten even though I know I’ll never 100% blend as the other sex Stay clean because drugs are bad , mkay ?
Well I'm happy for you but some people can transition for wrong reasons and it's important to get that information out there. It has nothing to do with the effects. I was happy with the effects of hrt as well.
AGP can be a lifesaver for some; when one cannot find a dyadic relation, the only human relation left is the auto relation. Autoheterosexuality is based.
There are no based or not based sexual orientations.
@@ivydark9741 i think the point is more that AGP has been stigmatized and treated as a monstrous quality to have, it's about time people treat it like the harmless sexual orientation that it is
I don’t think ”transformation” is inherently erotic. But instead, it’s the “it could be me too” feeling. Cis women are culturally treated as essentially different from trans women, with essentially different personalities, sexuality and experiences. So if a nerdy inceI-ish boy transforms into a onIyfans model, that triggers their envy of women more than cis women do.
That’s true, considering many AGPs don’t want to be women, they want to be the objects of their se xual desire (they want to be se x objects).
I really don't think it does. At the end of the day they will never be a woman. Many men won't be attracted to them and if they have surgery then that's more of a thing to pity them for... All that dilation? Nothing to envy there...
AGP and dysphoria are caused by the obvious aesthetic superiority of women. Unless they go blind no pill can really take away that. But there are psych medications that can suppress all motivation and sexuality in general. I have taken such durgs. They are worse than hrt
Vast majority sounds 90% but it seems way less than this and they are not just regular people by obvious reasons, in the sense of normalcy.
yes, they obviously are
I like how they try and whitewash what it really is, "top surgery" and "bottom surgery." These quack doctors need to say it for what it is, we're cutting your breasts off. We're cutting your balls off and cutting your penis apart. This can not be undone. I think that they should just say it bluntly to these kids, in those exact words. You'll know real fast your actual feelings if you're trans or not. It is so, so so sad finding out some of these young girls are asking now "how long does it take my breasts to grow back?" Never. You are never, ever going to have your breasts back. They're in the atmosphere now after being sent through a medical incinerator.
AGP transition is based, best decision i ever made
Very interesting channel. This reminds me of the psych term "metacognition."
Sexuality is definitely a spectrum. But gender isn't.
Awesome cooperation! Thank you!
There are also different forms of teleology, not only of transhumanism, the anti trans ideology has some bad individualized kind of teleology in it which is strangely always only posed against AMAB trans people: " You as an individual are immutably purposed to be in a destinated class of potential small gamete producers (even if you`re unable to produce any gametes at all) and with that a subhuman, and taking away a part of human rights on this base from you is a good thing." And then you wonder this makes most AMAB trans people very angry?
Biology is just an excuse. It’s just about looks. Most agps don’t meet the minimum beauty standards necessary for female privilege.
What rights have been taken away from men?
What are you talking about? No one has taken your rights!
if you say “men are gross and i don’t want anything to do with them or to be around them”, you are either a brave gender critical sex realist feminist, or a delusional predatory pervert. it depends on your actual or hypothetical “gametes”
@@LusciousTwinkle giving cis women rights trans women shouldn't have is taking away rights from trans women!
I would raise two additional arms on my body if I could, I find having only two arms deficient. Is this also a kind of BIID, or "only" transhumanism?
I disagree when u say you're not emotional in your reasoning. Happiness is the end product of being honest to yourself and strength of becoming a force for good. Actually that be a good read for you Dalai lama interviews called, a force for good / guide to happiness Hope u doing good
They Are sterilising kids. We Are All surposed to have atleast 3 kids. 2 for the parentes and 1 for the stat. You All want the healthcare system to go on. You mutelate your body on our expenses on very egoistic grounds but have you ever thought about very sick people.
I am so sorry you are going through this 😢😢 please try reach and guide others......
Thank you. I am doing that.
It's so sad to me that the end result is that they look like neither and both all at the same time. Forever in the limbo of ambiguity to the outside observer. I just can't wrap my head around the minds of adults, medical professionals, and even parents that permit this.
@@atalleywak But is there anything wrong with that ambiguity? I don't mind it. To be honest, I even enjoy it. Considering all the consequences of my transition this is the least of my worries.
@@alexanderl9721 No, nothing wrong as long as the individual is comfortable with it, of course. What I think is sad is if someone is unhappy with that state and looks back on their actions with regret, especially if they were too young to fully understand the ramifications. The happiness of the individual should always be first.
@@atalleywak I agree with you one hundred percent. What I mean is that gender ambiguity in and of itself is not a bad thing but it can be if that is an unwanted consequence of transition.
Also I wanted to say I find it very interesting to hear you both say that you don’t regret your transition. I’ve come across this before on Reddit and it doesn’t seem that uncommon. A few female detransitioners say they’re happy with their mastectomy even though detransitioning was the right choice for them. I think this is an important distinction to make as we learn more about why people transition. Especially because there are people on the other side, like Scott Newgent, who regret their transition but feel they are “too far gone” to go back. Ultimately, the thing we should be trying to minimize is regret, whether or not a person detransitions.
Yes, absolutely. Minimise regret, not necessarily detransitions.
Alexander... thanks for sharing the story. I believe we are all made in the image of God, Men and Women. I hope you find the peace you need.😊
I’m a fan of Ray’s channel, I appreciate his openness about AGP and the role it plays in male transition.
"With every act of demonization, when aware, we deflect our flaws, casting the blame on a faceless shadow. This perpetuates the ignorance of our own darkness. Just wonder if we will ever admit we made a very bad mistake by our own choice.”
Gender is not fluid; you are either male or female, and NO amount of wishful thinking will change that. I don't give a Sh%t what the Woke nuts of today say.
You misunderstood the concept we were discussing. The perspective on one's gender identity may change over time. So if someone identifies as trans they may experience a shift in that identity. This may be one of the leading reasons why detransitions are taking place. Either as a stand alone reason in and of itself or an accompanying part of the detransition process that didn't necesssarily kickstart the detransition but the actual reasons for detransition gave birth to the phenomenon.
I love Alexander, but I just can't stand Ray Sorry
Ray comes across as incredibly condescending. Too much college, probably.
He seems normal to me. I don't know how he's condescending.
Could it also be so, that the arousal comes from the feeling / affirmation of being sexual attractive as the gender you feel you are or wish you were? The sexuality is probably secondary, as it is a personal attraction. Maybe the people who can feel content and happy with autogynephilia, are just a bit lower on the trans spectrum, feeling fine with just the fantasy and the sexual release it provides them. However, the further out on the spectrum you find yourself, the more you want to be the gender you feel like. Again, the sexuality is secondary. gay/bi/straight doesn´t really matter to figure out where you fall on the trans spectrum. So do not mix sexuality with gender. Autogynophilia might just be transgender people low on the spectrum, where they can cope with their gender issues through the sexual release of their fantasy. So they are still transgenders and their sexuality can vary between all kinds, and they can cope with their gender issues through this act. So sexuality and gender are thus kept separated :) If it is just the clothing being used as part of a sexual act, then it is still only just sexuality. But I am very sure that no one would go through HRT & SRT just to fulfill a sexual fetish, since the changes you will go through a very wide and has a enormous effect on your entire being. Especially since most transgender/transsexuals I know (incl. myself), want to fully be our gender ALL the time and in ALL situations INCL. sexual relations and fantasies, but not only in those sexual relations. I think the term can be valid, but I also think it is misused or misunderstood.
YOU HAVE TO UNDERSTAND THAT THE JAPAN OF TODAY IS RADICALLY DIFFERENT FROM IMMEDIATE POST-WAR JAPAN. After World War II, Japan, and other Asian countries, looked around and swore to themselves they would never allow themselves to be ruined again. They thought, Who won the war? The United States. So we will follow the model of the United States, and one day we will be as good, and even better than the U.S. Asians became very materialistic, whether Capitalist or Socialist-Communist. In the following decades, 50s, 60s, 70s, and now, 2024, this extreme materialism ruined families. Like the United States, and like Europe, etc., Japan (and other Asians) sees their women postpone marriage, dislike having children, and go into colleges, and come out into careers. It's tragic. But so many Japanese women don't think so. Like their American counterparts, they think not being wives and mothers is liberating. They have their own money. They can go from man to man. Ans tgis is a big addiction to women. But Old Man Time will not be denied. The young, whether female or male, will be soon middle aged, then late middle aged, then ... Any Western guy wanting a Japanese wife may want to look to the Philippines, Thailand, or Vietnam. My Chinese wife and I - I am Caucasian American male - celebrated our 50th wedding anniversary, Sept. 2023. We met at an American university. I talked her into a MRS. Degree with me instead of what she was studying. But we are of course a different generation. There was still a possibility to convince an Asian girl to marry. Now, it is more difficult. Not impossible, but more difficult. What is happening in Japan, and around the world, is tragic. I will conclude with this - If you're a young guy, most anything you put your mind to do - given enough time! Not giving up! - you will eventually succeed. Question is - How much do you want it? How much time will you give until you succeed?
No one wants you
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Thank you for your honest, articulate, personal story. So many young lives being damaged by this misguided ideology.
Another way to look at it is that we need MORE nice, genuine people like you who don't want to be like those types. So it's really important for you to find like minded females to have children with. That's the only way to "even the playing field" so to speak.
All Hail the nice so called nutters like Alexander , go forth and be proud to dribble down your chin..!!! 😁
I am going to throw this out there as an elderly person. I think a lot of the problem has to do with young people spending to much time on line and having to be out and interact with people. The more the isolation the more intese the isolation becomes. However, you can always find like minded people if you look.
I've got nothing but love for you Alexander , i appreciate you for the way you carry yourself and how much you care , I think we could do with more Alexander L's in this world. Wishing the absolute best , good health & happiness to you & your loved ones. Blessings from Scotland. ❤🙏
Guess I suffer from this. Let's be honest though....women today in America want 5 things from men but say they want these things at first. Here they are: 1. 6 figure guy 2. Pretty boy 3. Great personality 4.Great in bed 5. A moral or value guy If you can find these guys make sure they never find each other. Even girls think they are so much better because they can sleep with a guy and up their dating status or elevate their status. Then when men go overseas to marry women say men are PDF's or Pedialytes. Meaning men are dating too young. A man dates younger because older women have kids. Also women might have trauma and men don't want to be in a relationship with a broken person. Better make sure she doesn't have a jealous ex or you might be in a hospital. That is just in dating btw. I prefer to be by myself because even having friends usually meant I had to pay for everything. When you fall on hard times people that you thought were your friends......? Yeah. So what is the point? I'm 45 now and I live for me. Sounds kinda self centered but I'm on the other side of my life now. Friends? Friends? Nope. Most of mine are dead now because of drugs and other issues because they did drugs. Once they were there I distanced myself from them. So making friends today is mostly about what you can do for them. Been there done that. The other side of my life might be lonely but maybe I can wait it out just in case I do find a girl one day. If not I will be be alone. Been this way all my life why stop now.
Stop blaming women for your life lol
@@Keurgui1 I'm not but the stats show that 80 percent of marriages that are filed are by women. Am I to say men screw up all the time? Kick rocks!
That depends on your type. You should admit you need certain image. There are many ordinary women. Maybe you are not interested in that. Just think about it. I am not trying to proof anything. Hermann Hesse in Demian (closer to final part) wrote that love is also to be achieved, to match with your partner.
@@balsarmy Let's get down to it. People married in the past death due you part. Now it is marry until the other person gets a better job then leave because the other one has a better one or knows that she/he (mostly she) can get alimony. People don't grow apart. We choose to do so based on circumstances. In the past people had to depend on each other. Today the income of a household has the same value with 2 people working vs. a man working with a stay at home wife. There is no value in marriage in these times. Women can do the same as men so what is the value? Sex? That is all it seems and a woman can get that at any time. I'm not trying to throw women in the trash here ok but the world is different now. I never was a gamer or even played games. It wasn't until these women started having kids that they wanted a so called good man. Bill Maher asked the question once "Why are there so many people that are LGBTQIA on the East and West Coast now and the heart of America is mostly straight"? Answer is because the roles are reversed. I'm not saying a woman needs to stay in the kitchen but the opportunities are favorable for them. As a woman told me once "I don't need a man....I got something in my top drawer that can do what you can do". Almost 50 percent of men in this country are single and just like Japan the population is dropping. So no matter how you feel it doesn't change facts. Men built the world we live in and it seems that women in this country only need us for one thing. Reproduction.
@@ramaslambert7200 you seem really unhappy
I think BRIEF periods of hikikomori can be beneficial. Withdrawal from society indicates illness, spiritual or physical. Unless the period of withdrawal leads back to health, hikikomori could become unhealthy and difficult to pull out of. 🌻