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There is a lady at my current job who presents herself as a high performing, friendly coworker. However, she is one of the most vicious, unproductive people I ever worked with. She gossips most of the day and when she talks to you, she asks invasive questions in an effort to collect more info on you to gossip about.
I must be super.
Want 2 days work for 1 day work.
I’ve worked in multiple places and all I’ve met are bad people: mean, loud, aggressive, bossy, belligerent, nasty, social climbers, as-kissers, I’ve seen them all!
I met some of the most nastiest and most belligerent coworkers in fast food. There were literal dragons working in there.
I had to learn this the hard way. I actually shared personal information to these f’ing coworkers I just met. Never again. They returned it with nastiness and belligerence. Never ever again am I trusting coworkers. I don’t give a f if I’m not a team player.
If you have a sick person in your family like you mother you can tell it to your supervisor?
True for upper class individuals that see everyone else as their competitor. Not true for ordinary working class people.
Exceptional advice ❤
Thank you for teaching me it really makes me feel a lot better now
You can give guidance to a new colleague with tips to do the job efficiently, which you developed yourself through years of experience. Then your boss comes up to you to tell you this guy picked things up quicker than you...
My boss always takes back her words, is that toxic?
Sign #6, workplace sees women giving you attention.
I'm thinking about quitting my job yet again for I don't know how many times over the last five years. I suppose im watching videos to convince myself to actually do it. I can afford to not work for a long time. 1500 pound toolbox makes it a bit difficult, logistically. Only one manager and she is also HR. Heard a few days ago she may be buying the business soon. Things will not be getting better for me.
This guy knows what he is talking about. When I began a career with AT&T many years ago, a friend who was an AT&T retiree gave me the best advice of my professional life. "The company will chew you up and spit you out. Keep people at arms length. Don't become chummy with your co-workers. Guard your privacy. Keep your personal life private. It is impossible to keep from hearing gossip, but do not repeat what you hear. Large companies are notorious for backstabbing and using employees for doormats. Follow all company rules and never deviate from them. Kissing the boss's ass will get you nowhere. Concentrate and focus on performing your job to the best of your ability. Always be on guard to co-workers who will use you for their benefit. Many times you will be stepped on. Swallow your anger and never try to seek revenge on a boss or co-worket who has wronged you. Never say or do anything that will result in you being classified as a troublemaker." I followed my friend's advice and had a very successful career with AT&T. When I left the company. I had no close friendships with company employees, but I had the satisfaction of knowing I successfully performed my job to the best of my ability.
June 22 2024. Come back Mr Marat you are great. Also write a book and self publish it
June 22 2024 from western Canada. 🇨🇦. You are great. Please return to you tube. Also write a book and self publish. 🎉
Thanks for the videos. I got the job.
I experience all of this from my boss. I really loved the job and I sticked around only to have an admin hearing. I even underwent to counselling and don't know if I am going to resign until she convinces the mgt to have me terminated. I resigned rather than be placed to PIP. She was a black american. I was traumatized by the event. May God take care of her for me.
My boss tried to beat me twice, I'd rather d!e than going there once again
Now when i go there i constantly see the timing of when I'm going home,i go to sleep with stress of work next day,i wake up being stressed for being forced to go there,it caused me strees and a lot of anxiety and panic attaks,i want to quit and get a new job so bad
The biggest sign is that my boss tried to beat me twice
Dismisses my ideas every time! Even when a billion dollar profit is available.
Holy bleep! That was his exact words!!!!!
Thank you
What’s worst is getting a write up over the managers fk up. Instead they blame it on you and if you have no knowledge about write up you’ll be like me and sign them without knowledge of how bad a write up makes you look.
My boss sent me a job posting 😂
#4 is a classic!
Im always careful with colleagues
Thank you so much for this video. Wish I would have came across it sooner.
I have toxic problems with my current job I'm only going to hang on until the end of this contract and move on
This type of behavior is illegal under federal law and when you report it they still get to stay why because they don't train someone else to do their job
Bosses like thay create active shooters.
Perfect description of my situation with an Indian woman so called boss so I just waved and said bye bye
You just explained my situation. Even worse when they increase your salary by a few Rands once in 2 years.
Words of wisdom.
I had to issue a complaint to HR about my manager using physical anger towards me !! Probably going to be fired soon or forced to quit soon !?
toxic bosses are awul, but a toxic co-worker who the boss favors is worse because they tagteam gaslight you. Problem is office politics are a repeat of high school days and for some strange reason, groups love a hater.
I can't believe my boss is a gaslighter he does number 1 through 3. He doesn't say it and a rude tone but he says it in a calm but cheerful and passive way. When he said last week that he didn't need me he said it in almost like a cheerful way and a calm voice and then he walked away. I agree that there was a better way I should have did that but when he told me that he didn't need me I started crying my eyes out from anxiety because it made me question one I'm still doing working here then? I wanted to Rage Quit but I knew that would be the right answer because I got to do it when I'm calm because not only will he have won, it would burn my bridges completely which is what I don't want. I'm only working 4 hours a week anyway so I'll tell him today in person after my shift ends that today will be my last day and hand in my registration letter. I will thank him for his time and express gratitude. I know he's trying to get me to quit but luckily I have another job lined up now. I worked there for 6 years and throughout my 6 years we had four or five different managers and so far my soon-to-be former boss was the most stable and longest one.
I'm friendly with them at work, but I don't view them as friends. Out of the building, out of their lives.
I'm very familiar with all your points. What I'd really like to see from studies is why the managers and corporations, who must know all this too, continue to not follow these rules and lose great people. It seems that these 5 reasons are known by everyone and for many decades, but still companies don't seem to care and continue as they have in the past. I do not believe it's because of lack of training or insight. I think it's proven that companies often do in house training for many employees and talk about these issues, yet they don't seem to make a difference.
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Never in my whole life, I have come across a company like this....its been 45 days and I can't take this toxicity.
Yup its managers, especially micromanagers and ones that give too many adhoc tasks, giving more workload.
Thank you for sharing this information, it certainly is helpful
I’m pretty good on my toes but I’m 98% sure I have undiagnosed selective mutism so… actually not that great apparently I keep saying I don’t know I have no experience so there’s no improvements but I can’t tell an employer that.
If a boss is gaslighting you is because they know you can surpass them.
Yea that’s what I’m going through now it just sucks 😢
I used to just leave and go elsewhere, until my brother told me as a Christian I was running from the test. I am the type if you bully me we both will be out of a job. I am in a situation like this and it makes their arse itch because I won't leave. As I was in prayer the other day, The Lord spoke to me these words. I am the Lord your God, and vengeance is mine and I will repay. So humble yourself and see my glory. Once I took my eyes off of them, I am giving room for King Jesus to judge. If there are any sons and daughters of God experiencing this kind of treatment, humble yourself and work as unto the Lord and he will repay. Amen