More success, less struggle. That's the truest mission of this work.
I share solutions to life's challenges and we do a lot of straight talk around mindset, money, purpose, clarity, new school spirituality, beliefs, etc.
I'm a mindfulness teacher, retreat host and master NLP practitioner since 2008.
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Its ok to be stucked. Time to begin to observe and feel more. And accept... stuck is in the overjudgement.
This change my habits but not who I am I can just be more caring to be less bored but i''m bored same way and caring differently... the need to let go of ourself is to stop working on ourself somtimes
Intéressant! Sometimes Im high on down or viceversa . Life for me its two wave and I have to deal with the poles depend how Im able
Thank you for this, realignment is needed. God bless you for the free knowledge to share,
You are so welcome!
That’s very true mindset is everything once it’s changed everything else will follow I love this Mindset shifts create frequency shifts and you can manifest a whole different reality ❤🎉
thank you and yes ❤
Great video thank you! Keep putting one foot in front of other it will find you
Hiiiiii! Thank you and it's a great unfolding happening. Weird, but good. I hope the job hunt is going well
@@AshleyPaquinOffical good as it goes but going ok plus getting new opportunities. Nice seeing you back in your truck! It’s all good
Had a real nasty experience last week but oh well. I think we are both on bit of a seeking path looking for what we really, really, really, really want to do. I think you could do amazing work in the life coach field helping people.
love the truck! TY!
Thank you! I am some version of a life coach already ,). NLP is my territory. I just want more offline stuff. Sorry to hear about your nasty experience :(
❤thank you 💯
you're welcome! ❤❤
I assume visualization also goes hand in hand with this questioning, seeing yourself visually making right choices throughout the day
yes! some call that priming the brain. this helps the nervous system accept what you want as OK and safe. the brain is really funny
@@AshleyPaquinOffical The brain is very funny indeed. Priming as in NLP Priming?
Yes- priming as in NLP. This video will take you through an exercise so to create the future you want with more ease (by priming the brain) kzread.info/dash/bejne/lYCOscaLftO3daQ.html :)
I took some good notes. "Mindset is comprised of three things...". I was waiting for points 2 and 3 (?).
Mindset = 1. Your programming (beliefs and safety patterning that get imprinted from 0 to 3 but not later than 6 years old). At large, your mind is set to this programming unless there's revision work (which is available). 2. Attention - how you focus / use your mind 3. Intention - what you intend / your intention hope that clarifies :)
What about obwious things like being a wage slave?
what would be the first step towards what you really do want if not being a 'wage slave'? i have been there myself
@@AshleyPaquinOffical For me, it is like just to die. There is no reason to live here. This world is a shithole. We all know there is no hope. It is not our fault, nor responsibility. I was born to be loved, but this world betrayed me. I was fighting every day. Now I am 44. And I have already 0% battery. And there is nothing in our reality, to "recharge back".
Awesome stuff. Thank you so much for your effort you put in.
you're welcome! hope it was useful
Lovely video and a useful steer as always!
Patchy! Glad you enjoyed it. I had to take a time out and practice this for 3 weeks so I get it ,) Sending you and the cats much love
🧐 Is this a repost? They're always great, I could swear I saw this not long ago though.
I redid the video! Good eye. This is the new one. My energy was off in the first one so I made a new one ,)
@AshleyPaquinOffical Admittedly, this one did keep my attention better, I think that's a 'my energy' thing though.
Fear is tricky.... so real. I think staying present is so important. I let my 9-5 consume my mind (in a very negative way) if I'm not paying attention. When I feed into myself, even if it pulls away from work, then I'm happy and doing activities that at least make me feel peaceful or optimistic. I found one of your videos months ago and it led me to pick up "The Artist's Way" for a second time (thank you!). Since then, I have been drawing and playing music again. KZread is the thing I actually want to pour my energy into (usually I'm too ashamed from failure to even acknowledge this out loud anymore). I'm trying to inch my way towards it and make filming a safe space. I experience so much fear and discouragement in my own mind when filming myself. Thanks for reading/listening! I really like this daily question, "what is the healthiest and most supportive choice I can make today?" <3
Super glad and fear is no joke. It's the result of whatever we experienced as little people so it's all about safety patterning and you can't change that with the logic mind. I'm glad you're still here and I love the Artist's Way. I haven't picked that up in a while but that's good stuff to soothe fear -- art, being, gentle. 🌹🌹
Great advice as per usual Ash! Totally get the mindset/fear message-can be a bit of a battle, can't it? Good luck for your future ventures. x 🌹x
Yes! Thank you! You're a part of the future ventures ,) KZread isn't going anywhere. Thanks for being here! 🌹🌹
i'm back! glad you're here. like and subscribe to get me out of the bottom of the algorithm ,) so we can party more. please and thank you
Not seeing many vids from you lately, hope you are ok. Love your videos.
hiiiiiiiiii! thank you for asking. that's very kind to ask. i've been traveling and slower on production. i appreciate this and am getting back at it this week. went to Sante Fe last week which blew my mind. ancient vibes and lots of art. hope you're well too and say hi to your kids lol
@@AshleyPaquinOffical no worries just seeing if you were all good! Sante Fe is great very spiritual place and hot I’m sure!
bless. new video up this week!
There’s something to be said about putting things in perspective remembering that literally everything is temporary. Life’s heaviness becomes a little less weighted when we remember that even the hard times will pass and feeling stuck is just as much a part of our healing as anything else. It’s our bodies way of telling us we need to lean into our emotions and become more introspective. The answers will come when they’re meant to
love this. thank you for sharing.
Let's deal with what or who glued us. Then being "stuck" will look quite different.
Precious. Thanks, Ash. I practice this too, of looking at my situation in a positive light as much as possible. Sometimes life really beats it out of you though and it's hard to find the light in anything. Thank you for this.There is always hope, even if it is simply the presence of another person who understands. Best wishes to you, you are on the right path too.
you're very welcome and i totally hear you. life can be relentless in getting us to grow and change. glad you're here and hope to meet you in the masterclass! it's free and we're doing some super cool stuff to support the brain / heart. take good care of yourself ashleypaquin.com/masterclass2024
If you go new age. You’re really buggard
Lost my partner of 20 years on and off. If your stuck yore screwed.
@AshleyPaquinOffical I figured it out (referencing earlier convo). It's called a red light synchronicity. kzread.infoSMoIrlFiYAY?si=i6ITBuNVblWKPoEV It's when the universe temporarily "blocks you" from a rigid path to see how you react. Usually its a spiritual test set up by universe/higher self. And different from trauma/worthiness.
Gotta have Faith! All Glory to God 🙏🏻
I teared, before I been making video about confusion. N it felt somehow I’m alone. Is it me only experience this. But now , I feel like heard
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I got it .. But i Just cant seem to reconnect to My self again... Maybe because i am Not the Same Person anymore, But ITS all Just so draining and i feel Like burning and Fading Into nothing.
why is that a bad thing? said with all sincerity. i'm not being an ass. "Maybe because i am Not the Same Person anymore". sounds like you know what's going on. and the burning and fading into nothing (although feels like hot garbage) is actually the ego being integrated back into its highest form of consciousness. i want to say well done. life does this for us, not to us so just keep going on step at a time. i have been there myself maybe 100000 times so i feel you. and come to the masterclass ,). - a
@@AshleyPaquinOffical i would Love to, But i need to hold the Money together :/ But Ur words definitly helped a Bit.. so thank you! ✌🏽💜
The masterclass free! And all content!
@@AshleyPaquinOffical woooot!?!! I must be dreaming 😬😅😂☺️ i am going to Check IT Out!! Thank you sooo much 💙💜✨☀️
they're free if you join live, and then for 3 days after for the replay. after that, they're added to the soon-to-be live shop page on the website for sale. join here: ashleypaquin.com/masterclass2024 ☀️☀️ being stuck sucks. that i know!
It's not possible to be stuck. It's resistance
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Same thing I think.
peoples has their karma and the bad instead and make suffer the others ones.the source let do.he is like they
I’ve been feeling stuck in my life for the past couple of years. What you say in this video really helped me put things in a better perspective . I stumbled across your channel a few months ago and I’m always intrigued by your videos. Thank you 🙏
you're welcome! glad it's helpful.
Totally isolated, empty, pain, rejected, and lonely. The external continues to perpetuate these feelings, no matter how brave i try to feel and push through this it has persisted for years. I cant get out of it no matter whar i do. I just want it all to end. Tired of trying to fix it this is dumb life is dumb it is a cruel joke of torchure and suffering for no apparent reason. Even worse is i know it is supposed to be better but i is not obtainable. I am awesome which makes it even worse that i am being a resentful looser.
i hear you. and i have been there myself. i do believe there are tools and resources to help move the needle in the way that's good now. please join the masterclass if you're called to. we'll be doing some cool exercises to support the brain (so you don't have to work so hard). hand in there. you are awesome. regardless of your emotional state
Timely and super helpful. Thank you. ❤
So glad!
you're amazing
thank you! hope it was helpful
I feel like I have been doing the inner work for years and I’m still stuck
I have been there too. I know it's rough, but you got this. I have found in my own experience that when I am stuck there is one big glaring thing that I don't want to look at. As soon as a certain emotion or thought comes up my first instinct is to distract myself or numb myself with something that makes me feel good. The trick is to pause when you start to feel bad, and look at what thoughts came up during that time. If there are any statements that have the word "I" in them it is an egoic statement. It is a belief that is in place to try and keep you safe. Usually we pick up these statements as a result of someone teaching it to us, or more commonly as a result of some past pain we had to endure. To become unstuck, you find the pain that's hidden behind all your "I" statements and reframe those events from a healthier perspective. Sometimes the pain is very hidden. It can be something that started all the way back in childhood at your youngest years. Unpacking what you can will eventually lead to finding what you need to become unstuck. I hope this helps.
love this. thank you for sharing
please join the masterclass if you're called to. i'm teaching some really cool stuff that marries the science mind / heart. our brains have some really outdated wiring and that doesn't update on its own, but we've got tools to help. hang in there and i feel you
@@High-Impact-Vivid-Colorsthanks so much for sharing your amazing comment 🙏
Do something different
Love this message! Thanks for sharing your amazing insights ❤
You are so welcome. Thanks for the support.
You are good! Thanks!
So kind, thanks for being here.
Wow, very timely for me. I am now working to sink into this stuck feeling and let it serve its purpose instead of resist it so much. Thanks!
one could say, "what you resists, persists". doesn't make it easier, but i feel you. do join the masterclass if you're called!
Im stucked , and dont feel safe , im so exhausted , brainfog, pain all over , anixty
thank you for sharing. i hear you and have been there myself.
I think my issue isn't that I'm stuck, just that I have no agency to improve my situation. For example, I've been stuck waiting for the past two weeks to see if I can get a job that I imagine I would start at the beginning of next week. I feel I have zero control over whether or not I get this job, and then there's the issue that I know I'm not a very good/desirable worker and might get let go in the first week due to my incompetence. How can I reclaim the feeling that I have agency when it seems the universe is telling me to sit back and enjoy the ride?
You do have agency and you do have control! If you think/believe you are 'not a very good/desirable worker and might get let go in the first week due to incompetence' then that is very likely to happen. Change your belief/conviction in this and see what happens. You probably have heard of the placebo effect: patients get a sugar pill and are told it will make them recover. A significant percentage does recover just because of their belief in this sugar pill. The reverse is also true: the nocebo effect. If you believe the medicine you are given will not help you, it probably won't. Your current conviction sounds like: nocebo. Change your belief/conviction to placebo, really feel it all day long and see what happens. See life as a dream: you are not just a person but consciousness projecting the dream in which you appear as a person. As in any dream.
that's a great question. a dear mentor would always say to me, "sometimes you have to slow down to speed up". if the job is taking a reallllly long time, what other things in your life will help fulfill the experience of agency? once you have a sense, go do that. wishing you lots of luck on the job.
@@AshleyPaquinOffical Thank you 😊
@@GeertMeertens No, I didn't see your reply. What did you say?
@@ourdivinemouseoverlord3308 You DO have agency but if you believe you don't you won't. If you are convinced you are 'not a very good/desirable worker and might get let go in the first week due to incompetence' that is likely to happen. But if you change your belief/conviction, the outcome will also change. Please google Neville Goddard, he wrote lots of books on this subject. An example is the placebo effect: patients are given a sugar pill and are told it will heal them. Many do recover not because of the pill but because of their belief in it. The reverse is also true: the nocebo effect. If you are convinced the future will bring you more suffering it probably will.
The hardest thing about feeling stuck is not knowing what to do.
hang out here ,). no really. if the masterclass is good, please join. i'll be sharing some really helpful stuff so you know what to do. my best - a
My brain is saying, thank you, this makes sense. I know I'm not going through this for nothing. ❤
you're going through this for incredibly valuable reasons that haven't been revealed yet. i promise you. please join the masterclass if you're called to! we'll do some cool things to help you along the way x
Is your masterclass in person? I'm from. LA and can drive there. Thank you
i wish! it's online. i love that you'd drive up! info is below for the masterclass. i do run retreats around the world and Portugal + the Rockies (in the USA) are on dock for 2025. maybe you'll like that too ,) free masterclass: ashleypaquin.com/masterclass2024
@@AshleyPaquinOffical online is fine! I will book. Thank you!
you're welcome. thank you! i look forward to having you with the community
today has been tough especially. i find myself very frustrated as im struggling financially and in other ways but i feel like i am running around like a chicken with its head cut off. im working to change and grow which has been very terrifying. im scared and im frustrated, but i dont want to stay the same. im doing so great and im proud of myself, but it feels like im never doing enough and it feels like im not moving, like im not on the right path. it's hard to know that's not true when that's all those thoughts are leading me to feel. thank you for all you do and im proud of you for exploring these feelings to be able to speak about them to help people like myself. much love!
you're very welcome and i hear you. we've got to just be honest about all this as that will help get on the other side. you're working to change and grow and that takes a lot of stamina or courage so well done. please join the masterclass if you're called. we'll do some really cool stuff to support your brain / heart. my best - a
❤❤❤❤ Thank you Thank you needed this, you're such a beautiful soul
You are so welcome! Nice to see you again. I hope this is helpful and do join the free masterclass if you're called to. We'll put this all into play x
hiiiiii friends. let me know how you are. it's been a few days. like and subscribe too ,)
You are the best! You were born to be doing this!
Hey friend! It feels like it’s been 1 million years. I’ve been slow on production but will make a video for y’all this week. Hope you’re well!
@@AshleyPaquinOffical off to a interview fingers crossed. Next to my wife you are the most beautiful woman in the world. And most interesting haha
PS liked this video very much, trust our heart is part of the intuitive genius we all have.
Thank you! I’m glad to hear. 🙌🏼🙌🏼
@@AshleyPaquinOffical hope your summer going well
I want to go ahead but it's still fuzzy
You can always take just the first step forward into the fuzziness and life will give you feedback and direction. Sending my best.
Thank you for saying we don’t control things or the timeline. So many teach that we can manifest it all ourselves. This has only created grief and turmoil for me.
i'm glad you know the truth too. we can control our efforts between milestones, but the timeline is not ours :). many well wishes to you
Keep up sweetie! You’re getting there! Lots o love ❤️❤️❤️
Thanks for your support.
Right, like attracts like or the opposite…..it’s electromagnastim I hope my magnetism is bringing fullness. Cheers❤️❤️❤️
cheers to you also ️❤️ best best to you
I liked a lot the tool/practice number three.Until last year I didn't believe in the universe. But it showed me its presence when it blocked my plans. I need to learn to cooperate with it so that I can experience the best life outcome.You have teached me a lot Ashley. Thank you! ☘️🌷
Thanks for sharing! You're very welcome
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