I’m a girl and I work in software sales which is predominantly a male industry therefore all my friends are mostly men. I didn’t meet them in my childhood but I’m with them all the time because we work together. It’s always appropriate though.
@Wickedgu3st4 сағат бұрын
It’s only appropriate on your end. You know damn well how many of those dudes would want to sleep with you.
@rahundsigma3 сағат бұрын
Ya but if you're a girl in software, chances are you aren't the type of woman these guys are talking about. Source: i work in software and those girls aight the best looking
@locolocc93775 сағат бұрын
Hella simps
@supahcrazychick19 сағат бұрын
Black Folks don’t date! I like you you like me we go together.
@delelelele_whooop61942 күн бұрын
Men paying the bills and paying for dates is not a new thing. Women HAD to get married to men because they weren’t allowed to work, or have bank accounts, or get a loan, buy a house, etc. It’s funny how men put themselves in that situation to be the “provider”, but blame women. The problem isn’t women. The problem is capitalism and patriarchy, but y’all aren’t ready to have that conversation.
@ErfanBoachie-dh6sw5 күн бұрын
😢😢😢😢😢😮😅😅😊😊
@blakelombardi47536 күн бұрын
Bro makes her go down stairs when someone breaks in😊
@dragonraider146 күн бұрын
Nothing wrong with being gay, live your life as you see fit.
@AlyviaAshley7 күн бұрын
I don’t want my man to look at me like a child…
@ethanxclutch7 күн бұрын
lol tik tok users: CONTEXT is important
@jamarissalinas45847 күн бұрын
this entire interview is being taken out of context on social media, and as a woman it’s actually really insightful to hear from a man different answers to these questions
@zevannafeliciano60027 күн бұрын
This podcast ateeee. At first I started watching it because of all the hate on tik tok but everything that was said is just facts
@unitedteststrips42728 күн бұрын
If I can give you my last. I can give you my all.
@unitedteststrips42728 күн бұрын
The last bite is the one.
@ratpatootie95798 күн бұрын
Some ppl are saying sprinkle sprinkle shouldn’t be taken seriously or he’s misunderstanding what it means. Y’all can say this but reactions to Jalen saying he doesn’t believe the default of being a provider is solely monetary shows that his views on the sprinkle sprinkle movement was right in the mind of many women. A lot of women now question Jalen’s right as a man, his masculinity, and in crazy cases his sexuality bc they now view him as a broke leech because he’s not Monet’s default walking wallet. The original message of the sprinkle sprinkle movement may have been different but women now or showing out in the worst way possible, doing exactly as what men do connecting a women’s worth as a human being/woman to the state of her body by connecting Jalen’s worth as a man by him not paying both his and Monet’s separate mortgages and all hers/his extracurriculars as a nonmarried/childless couple. The toxic response to this open, non-malicious conversation shows what the sprinkle sprinkle movement means to many now.
@Srbpenny8 күн бұрын
Not every man can be able to provide… that’s okay
@user-vp5go7og9g9 күн бұрын
The red flag is asking the question
@thedissilent25489 күн бұрын
I came from that one clip that's been circulating on tiktok, and a bunch of women are stitching it trying to shame him as if he said anything bad. it's like some women are threatened by men whose self worth doesn't only derive from their capacity to provide or from them being the sole provider. Basically men who don't feel less of a man because they don't have all the financial power, which is ironic. those women basically want a man who needs to have leverage over them
@TimmyWUPO10 күн бұрын
Came over bc one app doesn’t show the picture.
@dianabaeza914411 күн бұрын
nah he’s keeping it real, I appreciate that
@botellojackie11 күн бұрын
such a good episode
@ratpatootie957911 күн бұрын
This podcast has 15k views yet millions of people are writing think pieces on a 30 second video taken out of context.
@donttripwegotu11 күн бұрын
need to come watch the full episode
@Mc0419Күн бұрын
It’s the attention span. I came here from a tik tok I saw talking about this and my first reaction was I’m going to go to the source and watch it in completion when I get the chance to create an opinion. People cannot do that now a days.
@1Keeperman112 күн бұрын
If you know, you know. Knew I wanted to be with my girl forever about 2 weeks after meeting her. Getting married in September
@donttripwegotu11 күн бұрын
Move with thecwuickness
@zaithwa-malaikamainja67112 күн бұрын
Screaming!!! Came here from TikTok. I want part 2! Nowwwww😭
@donttripwegotu11 күн бұрын
coming soon!
@janleea.469112 күн бұрын
What's the tittle of the movie??
@johna198610 күн бұрын
The Brothers
@user-yh4yr6dr6z12 күн бұрын
Y'all need books. It's called being a gentlemen. 60% of is being considerate of others, and looking to service and assist when needed. those hard action that involves muscles aches, pains and strain doesn't form masculinity.
@beingmaiily406412 күн бұрын
The fact that there only 13k views on this but millions and millions of hateful comments towards jalen shows how many people didn’t watch the full thing. Social media is a wild place. Any women judging their relationship is clearly not in a healthy one.
@ayeeitsjae12 күн бұрын
I love this episode … but now a days dudes be wanting women to bring something to the table
@Buenok1dd12 күн бұрын
It’s so refreshing to know there’s still grounded people on these platforms in spite of all the fame, money, & hate they receive. They never loose sight of what’s actually important, which is the life that is happening before their eyes not obsessing over the lives they see online. A relationship shouldn’t just be this or that, each relationship is different in terms of their values and how they choose to live. Just find what works best for you and live fully.
@blakewillie633112 күн бұрын
He was speaking facts
@gili45629 күн бұрын
For broke males and dusty that gossiping on camera 😹 ofc yall agree w his dusty self, 30 and that some 20 yr old who provides for him💀💀
@blakewillie63319 күн бұрын
@@gili4562 he’s rich stupid
@blakewillie63319 күн бұрын
When you have money you spoil eachother you don’t live in reality
@erinrowan582213 күн бұрын
bro these people on tiktok are sooo miserable 😂😂😭😭😂😂😂 they literally hate themselves. no way they watched this video and got that one piece and flipped it so hard.
@Animalcrueltyisbad111 күн бұрын
Right?! They’re both so emotionally intelligent. It makes me mad and breaks my heart that people took that clip out of context without watching it. He wasn’t even talking about money in that clip.
@Shel1510 күн бұрын
They didn’t watch the video at all! They didn’t comphrehend the context at all and it show ! They only thinked about money when he said the 80/20 part i fee
@mmate3413 күн бұрын
I’m not going to use a play on English words here…all I have is Ew
@buttercupslongnails13 күн бұрын
Lol the lady his talking about Is shera 7. She dosnt sit on social media but on KZread exclusively. Shera deems herself a finacial advisor not a dating coach . She is not giving anyone any advice about dating . Infact she encourages people to go out be young and find love and enjoy it The problem is people think and believe she is giving out relationship advise meanwhile she is giving out her version of financial advice
@Scrappy_Nugget12 күн бұрын
Cut the crap it’s toxic lol
@BabyScorpio88813 күн бұрын
Some of ya'll really missed the point of sprinkle sprinkle
@laylaj219610 күн бұрын
exactly
@ratpatootie95798 күн бұрын
Y’all can say this but reactions to Jalen saying he doesn’t believe the default of being a provider is solely monetary shows that his views on the sprinkle sprinkle movement was right in the mind of many women. A lot of women now question Jalen’s right as a man, his masculinity, and in crazy cases his sexuality bc they now view him as a broke leech because he’s not Monet’s default walking wallet. The original message of the sprinkle sprinkle movement may have been different but women now or showing out in the worst way possible, doing exactly as what men do connecting a women’s worth as a human being/woman to the state of her body by connecting Jalen’s worth as a man by him not paying both his and Monet’s separate mortgages and all hers/his extracurriculars as a nonmarried/childless couple. The toxic response to this open, non-malicious conversation shows what the sprinkle sprinkle movement means to many now.
@AlannaBoo52413 күн бұрын
31:14 men should not be paying for the woman’s whole life. If y’all are married then that’s different. There’s nothing wrong with what Jalen said. We should spoil men too
@vanessamorales548213 күн бұрын
everyone’s relationship is different if that’s what works for them that’s fine but it won’t work for everyone. some men like being the providers.
@princesss51512 күн бұрын
Okay pickmiesha
@AlannaBoo52412 күн бұрын
@@princesss515 yall call anyone with a different opinion a pick me. Okay miss leech who wants men for money
@SweetyKariLoveJB12 күн бұрын
Do men have periods and also carry babies for 9 months, GIVE BIRTH risking their lives and then look after the babies?
@D.T_11 күн бұрын
Girl if you don’t love yourself enough to make you a priority 🤣🙌🏽
@AlannaBoo52413 күн бұрын
30:02 sprinkle sprinkle is the most disgusting advice ever. Shera promotes getting the bag from a man & leaving. Terrible advice
@D.T_11 күн бұрын
Pickmeisha ❤
@biba302510 күн бұрын
Barbara the builder 😂@@D.T_
@D.T_10 күн бұрын
@@biba3025 lol 😂 I don’t do no building. Sounds like something y’all do
@brookemckenzie782613 күн бұрын
I think the ability to take charge, make decisions and get things done for your partner is being a “provider”. If ya girl calls you freaking out cuz she’s stranded on the side of the road w a flat, and w no AAA, if you’re able to fix that problem for her, then you’re a great provider. Whether you fix it yourself, or just call someone to get it done. Providing emotional comfort! Whether it requires physical or financial action! I’m sure a woman would appreciate you fixing the tire yourself or calling someone to fix it, either way, just getting it done regardless
@MakiahRoam13 күн бұрын
In my opinion, you're describing a person who is assertive and dependable. A "provider" is a giver, a supplier, or a donor which is why we tie finances to it so naturally. Fixing the tire is one thing but actually paying for the service would be another.
@jas15657 күн бұрын
We don't need to alter the definition of what a provider is. Words have meanings. Making decisions or taking charge doesn't make someone a provider, it could mean they're reliable with good leadership qualities but that doesn't make a man a provider.
@teebl338113 күн бұрын
I’d like to start by saying Jalen seems like a decent person, who is genuinely working on being a good partner. However, engaging manosphere talking points is as toxic as he feels sprinkle sprinkle is. For this particular discussion they are two sides of the same coin. Whether or not him and his lady enjoy 50/50 is none of my concern, but please don’t use toxic to counter toxic.
@Captain_Of_A_Starship10 күн бұрын
You really don't know what your talking about
@keep3alini6647 күн бұрын
Not really cos when u think about it, sprinkle sprinkle is just rehashing views that patriarchal men in the olden days had. All cos manosphere dudes bring it up dont make it invalid, thats called a genetic fallacy
@helena462413 күн бұрын
This was like therapy and the conversation was well articulated thank you
@firstgenmoneymusings13 күн бұрын
This was so good! I really value the opinions you both shared. I’m happy I listened to the whole episode instead of reacting to the clips circulating on social media.
@treasuremcmillan476812 күн бұрын
that’s exactly why i came to watch . even with the clips as a woman i was okay with what he said our stuff can get pricey and if your asking the average 9-5 man to do that and keep himself together that’s impossible or chances are slim to none . regular people even at my young age expect to be flown out by a man that works at mcdonald’s .
@tianarichardson85814 күн бұрын
it’s insane that a clip from this is going viral a month later. and exactly what he spoke about in the beginning is happening 🫢 people see one clip and run with it so bad. just because they need to dissect a seemingly happy couple
@tianarichardson85814 күн бұрын
and the movie is called The Brothers 27:31 a classic i watched it the other day
@melaniesnell13 күн бұрын
people take a few seconds of a clip and do whole think pieces like they're in these people's everyday lives 🙆🏽♀️
@Chemisegrise13 күн бұрын
And they’re being soo annoying in monet’s comments now over this?!? Insane
@renebleek50912 күн бұрын
Thisss. People like to yap before knowing the whole story
@maryamkhalil235412 күн бұрын
exactly what i was thinking about 😭
@EA-cv6ic14 күн бұрын
Sad results I can become rich but not attractive😢
@Opinionates15 күн бұрын
You should never casually be dating. The whole point of dating is to find your life partner. And if the person you are dating wants to do inappropriate content for other men's pleasure, that is not your life partner. If you are doing that while we are dating, what's stopping you when we're married?
@THEMUKKIDS17 күн бұрын
Jalen came ready to pod in these convos, you can tell!🤝🏾
@AllanjamesStewart18 күн бұрын
Belongs to the streets
@mitchiegotmovesy763519 күн бұрын
Break up with her
@Torchlight_Studios19 күн бұрын
This chick does OF 100%, only a OF model would say some stupid shit like that.
@3kingsgaming39819 күн бұрын
This is why a girl can’t answer that question
@fatherofdragons547719 күн бұрын
"If you really love your girl you would be okay with her flirting with strangers online and undressing for them"
@danyahulk79020 күн бұрын
Why do people casual date that shouldn’t be a thing that’s like saying im gonna use you and then I’m good
@dmack898520 күн бұрын
Girls dont use game to land a male they just get attention lmao
Пікірлер
I’m a girl and I work in software sales which is predominantly a male industry therefore all my friends are mostly men. I didn’t meet them in my childhood but I’m with them all the time because we work together. It’s always appropriate though.
It’s only appropriate on your end. You know damn well how many of those dudes would want to sleep with you.
Ya but if you're a girl in software, chances are you aren't the type of woman these guys are talking about. Source: i work in software and those girls aight the best looking
Hella simps
Black Folks don’t date! I like you you like me we go together.
Men paying the bills and paying for dates is not a new thing. Women HAD to get married to men because they weren’t allowed to work, or have bank accounts, or get a loan, buy a house, etc. It’s funny how men put themselves in that situation to be the “provider”, but blame women. The problem isn’t women. The problem is capitalism and patriarchy, but y’all aren’t ready to have that conversation.
😢😢😢😢😢😮😅😅😊😊
Bro makes her go down stairs when someone breaks in😊
Nothing wrong with being gay, live your life as you see fit.
I don’t want my man to look at me like a child…
lol tik tok users: CONTEXT is important
this entire interview is being taken out of context on social media, and as a woman it’s actually really insightful to hear from a man different answers to these questions
This podcast ateeee. At first I started watching it because of all the hate on tik tok but everything that was said is just facts
If I can give you my last. I can give you my all.
The last bite is the one.
Some ppl are saying sprinkle sprinkle shouldn’t be taken seriously or he’s misunderstanding what it means. Y’all can say this but reactions to Jalen saying he doesn’t believe the default of being a provider is solely monetary shows that his views on the sprinkle sprinkle movement was right in the mind of many women. A lot of women now question Jalen’s right as a man, his masculinity, and in crazy cases his sexuality bc they now view him as a broke leech because he’s not Monet’s default walking wallet. The original message of the sprinkle sprinkle movement may have been different but women now or showing out in the worst way possible, doing exactly as what men do connecting a women’s worth as a human being/woman to the state of her body by connecting Jalen’s worth as a man by him not paying both his and Monet’s separate mortgages and all hers/his extracurriculars as a nonmarried/childless couple. The toxic response to this open, non-malicious conversation shows what the sprinkle sprinkle movement means to many now.
Not every man can be able to provide… that’s okay
The red flag is asking the question
I came from that one clip that's been circulating on tiktok, and a bunch of women are stitching it trying to shame him as if he said anything bad. it's like some women are threatened by men whose self worth doesn't only derive from their capacity to provide or from them being the sole provider. Basically men who don't feel less of a man because they don't have all the financial power, which is ironic. those women basically want a man who needs to have leverage over them
Came over bc one app doesn’t show the picture.
nah he’s keeping it real, I appreciate that
such a good episode
This podcast has 15k views yet millions of people are writing think pieces on a 30 second video taken out of context.
need to come watch the full episode
It’s the attention span. I came here from a tik tok I saw talking about this and my first reaction was I’m going to go to the source and watch it in completion when I get the chance to create an opinion. People cannot do that now a days.
If you know, you know. Knew I wanted to be with my girl forever about 2 weeks after meeting her. Getting married in September
Move with thecwuickness
Screaming!!! Came here from TikTok. I want part 2! Nowwwww😭
coming soon!
What's the tittle of the movie??
The Brothers
Y'all need books. It's called being a gentlemen. 60% of is being considerate of others, and looking to service and assist when needed. those hard action that involves muscles aches, pains and strain doesn't form masculinity.
The fact that there only 13k views on this but millions and millions of hateful comments towards jalen shows how many people didn’t watch the full thing. Social media is a wild place. Any women judging their relationship is clearly not in a healthy one.
I love this episode … but now a days dudes be wanting women to bring something to the table
It’s so refreshing to know there’s still grounded people on these platforms in spite of all the fame, money, & hate they receive. They never loose sight of what’s actually important, which is the life that is happening before their eyes not obsessing over the lives they see online. A relationship shouldn’t just be this or that, each relationship is different in terms of their values and how they choose to live. Just find what works best for you and live fully.
He was speaking facts
For broke males and dusty that gossiping on camera 😹 ofc yall agree w his dusty self, 30 and that some 20 yr old who provides for him💀💀
@@gili4562 he’s rich stupid
When you have money you spoil eachother you don’t live in reality
bro these people on tiktok are sooo miserable 😂😂😭😭😂😂😂 they literally hate themselves. no way they watched this video and got that one piece and flipped it so hard.
Right?! They’re both so emotionally intelligent. It makes me mad and breaks my heart that people took that clip out of context without watching it. He wasn’t even talking about money in that clip.
They didn’t watch the video at all! They didn’t comphrehend the context at all and it show ! They only thinked about money when he said the 80/20 part i fee
I’m not going to use a play on English words here…all I have is Ew
Lol the lady his talking about Is shera 7. She dosnt sit on social media but on KZread exclusively. Shera deems herself a finacial advisor not a dating coach . She is not giving anyone any advice about dating . Infact she encourages people to go out be young and find love and enjoy it The problem is people think and believe she is giving out relationship advise meanwhile she is giving out her version of financial advice
Cut the crap it’s toxic lol
Some of ya'll really missed the point of sprinkle sprinkle
exactly
Y’all can say this but reactions to Jalen saying he doesn’t believe the default of being a provider is solely monetary shows that his views on the sprinkle sprinkle movement was right in the mind of many women. A lot of women now question Jalen’s right as a man, his masculinity, and in crazy cases his sexuality bc they now view him as a broke leech because he’s not Monet’s default walking wallet. The original message of the sprinkle sprinkle movement may have been different but women now or showing out in the worst way possible, doing exactly as what men do connecting a women’s worth as a human being/woman to the state of her body by connecting Jalen’s worth as a man by him not paying both his and Monet’s separate mortgages and all hers/his extracurriculars as a nonmarried/childless couple. The toxic response to this open, non-malicious conversation shows what the sprinkle sprinkle movement means to many now.
31:14 men should not be paying for the woman’s whole life. If y’all are married then that’s different. There’s nothing wrong with what Jalen said. We should spoil men too
everyone’s relationship is different if that’s what works for them that’s fine but it won’t work for everyone. some men like being the providers.
Okay pickmiesha
@@princesss515 yall call anyone with a different opinion a pick me. Okay miss leech who wants men for money
Do men have periods and also carry babies for 9 months, GIVE BIRTH risking their lives and then look after the babies?
Girl if you don’t love yourself enough to make you a priority 🤣🙌🏽
30:02 sprinkle sprinkle is the most disgusting advice ever. Shera promotes getting the bag from a man & leaving. Terrible advice
Pickmeisha ❤
Barbara the builder 😂@@D.T_
@@biba3025 lol 😂 I don’t do no building. Sounds like something y’all do
I think the ability to take charge, make decisions and get things done for your partner is being a “provider”. If ya girl calls you freaking out cuz she’s stranded on the side of the road w a flat, and w no AAA, if you’re able to fix that problem for her, then you’re a great provider. Whether you fix it yourself, or just call someone to get it done. Providing emotional comfort! Whether it requires physical or financial action! I’m sure a woman would appreciate you fixing the tire yourself or calling someone to fix it, either way, just getting it done regardless
In my opinion, you're describing a person who is assertive and dependable. A "provider" is a giver, a supplier, or a donor which is why we tie finances to it so naturally. Fixing the tire is one thing but actually paying for the service would be another.
We don't need to alter the definition of what a provider is. Words have meanings. Making decisions or taking charge doesn't make someone a provider, it could mean they're reliable with good leadership qualities but that doesn't make a man a provider.
I’d like to start by saying Jalen seems like a decent person, who is genuinely working on being a good partner. However, engaging manosphere talking points is as toxic as he feels sprinkle sprinkle is. For this particular discussion they are two sides of the same coin. Whether or not him and his lady enjoy 50/50 is none of my concern, but please don’t use toxic to counter toxic.
You really don't know what your talking about
Not really cos when u think about it, sprinkle sprinkle is just rehashing views that patriarchal men in the olden days had. All cos manosphere dudes bring it up dont make it invalid, thats called a genetic fallacy
This was like therapy and the conversation was well articulated thank you
This was so good! I really value the opinions you both shared. I’m happy I listened to the whole episode instead of reacting to the clips circulating on social media.
that’s exactly why i came to watch . even with the clips as a woman i was okay with what he said our stuff can get pricey and if your asking the average 9-5 man to do that and keep himself together that’s impossible or chances are slim to none . regular people even at my young age expect to be flown out by a man that works at mcdonald’s .
it’s insane that a clip from this is going viral a month later. and exactly what he spoke about in the beginning is happening 🫢 people see one clip and run with it so bad. just because they need to dissect a seemingly happy couple
and the movie is called The Brothers 27:31 a classic i watched it the other day
people take a few seconds of a clip and do whole think pieces like they're in these people's everyday lives 🙆🏽♀️
And they’re being soo annoying in monet’s comments now over this?!? Insane
Thisss. People like to yap before knowing the whole story
exactly what i was thinking about 😭
Sad results I can become rich but not attractive😢
You should never casually be dating. The whole point of dating is to find your life partner. And if the person you are dating wants to do inappropriate content for other men's pleasure, that is not your life partner. If you are doing that while we are dating, what's stopping you when we're married?
Jalen came ready to pod in these convos, you can tell!🤝🏾
Belongs to the streets
Break up with her
This chick does OF 100%, only a OF model would say some stupid shit like that.
This is why a girl can’t answer that question
"If you really love your girl you would be okay with her flirting with strangers online and undressing for them"
Why do people casual date that shouldn’t be a thing that’s like saying im gonna use you and then I’m good
Girls dont use game to land a male they just get attention lmao