The fact that there only 13k views on this but millions and millions of hateful comments towards jalen shows how many people didn’t watch the full thing. Social media is a wild place. Any women judging their relationship is clearly not in a healthy one.

it’s insane that a clip from this is going viral a month later. and exactly what he spoke about in the beginning is happening 🫢 people see one clip and run with it so bad. just because they need to dissect a seemingly happy couple

@tianarichardson858

9 күн бұрын

and the movie is called The Brothers 27:31 a classic i watched it the other day

@melaniesnell

9 күн бұрын

people take a few seconds of a clip and do whole think pieces like they're in these people's everyday lives 🙆🏽‍♀️

@Chemisegrise

8 күн бұрын

And they’re being soo annoying in monet’s comments now over this?!? Insane

@renebleek509

8 күн бұрын

Thisss. People like to yap before knowing the whole story

@maryamkhalil2354

8 күн бұрын

exactly what i was thinking about 😭

bro these people on tiktok are sooo miserable 😂😂😭😭😂😂😂 they literally hate themselves. no way they watched this video and got that one piece and flipped it so hard.

@Animalcrueltyisbad1

7 күн бұрын

Right?! They’re both so emotionally intelligent. It makes me mad and breaks my heart that people took that clip out of context without watching it. He wasn’t even talking about money in that clip.

@Shel15

6 күн бұрын

They didn’t watch the video at all! They didn’t comphrehend the context at all and it show ! They only thinked about money when he said the 80/20 part i fee

It’s so refreshing to know there’s still grounded people on these platforms in spite of all the fame, money, & hate they receive. They never loose sight of what’s actually important, which is the life that is happening before their eyes not obsessing over the lives they see online. A relationship shouldn’t just be this or that, each relationship is different in terms of their values and how they choose to live. Just find what works best for you and live fully.

This was like therapy and the conversation was well articulated thank you

This was so good! I really value the opinions you both shared. I’m happy I listened to the whole episode instead of reacting to the clips circulating on social media.

@treasuremcmillan4768

8 күн бұрын

that’s exactly why i came to watch . even with the clips as a woman i was okay with what he said our stuff can get pricey and if your asking the average 9-5 man to do that and keep himself together that’s impossible or chances are slim to none . regular people even at my young age expect to be flown out by a man that works at mcdonald’s .

I’d like to start by saying Jalen seems like a decent person, who is genuinely working on being a good partner. However, engaging manosphere talking points is as toxic as he feels sprinkle sprinkle is. For this particular discussion they are two sides of the same coin. Whether or not him and his lady enjoy 50/50 is none of my concern, but please don’t use toxic to counter toxic.

@Captain_Of_A_Starship

5 күн бұрын

You really don't know what your talking about

@keep3alini664

2 күн бұрын

Not really cos when u think about it, sprinkle sprinkle is just rehashing views that patriarchal men in the olden days had. All cos manosphere dudes bring it up dont make it invalid, thats called a genetic fallacy

Definitely one of the best episode with incredible men perspective and genuine vulnerability! I love this for you guys! Be soft and love on yourself the way you would love others!!

@donttripwegotu

28 күн бұрын

Glad you enjoyed it!

Jalen came ready to pod in these convos, you can tell!🤝🏾

I think the ability to take charge, make decisions and get things done for your partner is being a “provider”. If ya girl calls you freaking out cuz she’s stranded on the side of the road w a flat, and w no AAA, if you’re able to fix that problem for her, then you’re a great provider. Whether you fix it yourself, or just call someone to get it done. Providing emotional comfort! Whether it requires physical or financial action! I’m sure a woman would appreciate you fixing the tire yourself or calling someone to fix it, either way, just getting it done regardless

@MakiahRoam

9 күн бұрын

In my opinion, you're describing a person who is assertive and dependable. A "provider" is a giver, a supplier, or a donor which is why we tie finances to it so naturally. Fixing the tire is one thing but actually paying for the service would be another.

@jas1565

2 күн бұрын

We don't need to alter the definition of what a provider is. Words have meanings. Making decisions or taking charge doesn't make someone a provider, it could mean they're reliable with good leadership qualities but that doesn't make a man a provider.

This episode has taught me how to be a healing partner

31:14 men should not be paying for the woman’s whole life. If y’all are married then that’s different. There’s nothing wrong with what Jalen said. We should spoil men too

@vanessamorales5482

8 күн бұрын

everyone’s relationship is different if that’s what works for them that’s fine but it won’t work for everyone. some men like being the providers.

@princesss515

8 күн бұрын

Okay pickmiesha

@AlannaBoo524

8 күн бұрын

@@princesss515 yall call anyone with a different opinion a pick me. Okay miss leech who wants men for money

@SweetyKariLoveJB

8 күн бұрын

Do men have periods and also carry babies for 9 months, GIVE BIRTH risking their lives and then look after the babies?

@D.T_

7 күн бұрын

Girl if you don’t love yourself enough to make you a priority 🤣🙌🏽

Y'all need books. It's called being a gentlemen. 60% of is being considerate of others, and looking to service and assist when needed. those hard action that involves muscles aches, pains and strain doesn't form masculinity.

The brothers is such a good movie!

David came through with this one😊❤

this entire interview is being taken out of context on social media, and as a woman it’s actually really insightful to hear from a man different answers to these questions

I don’t want my man to look at me like a child…

I’m not going to use a play on English words here…all I have is Ew

Can we get an update about your life David? Haven’t heard about what you have going on in a long time.

@donttripwegotu

Ай бұрын

oh didn't know y'all cared, might have to do that soon

This podcast has 15k views yet millions of people are writing think pieces on a 30 second video taken out of context.

@donttripwegotu

6 күн бұрын

need to come watch the full episode

The last bite is the one.

lol tik tok users: CONTEXT is important

Not every man can be able to provide… that’s okay

Thought this episode was gonna be BS😭..but it was actually so deep, mature, and meaningful. I'm so glad I watched it and learned from it🙌🏽

@donttripwegotu

28 күн бұрын

we do it all over here

Some ppl are saying sprinkle sprinkle shouldn’t be taken seriously or he’s misunderstanding what it means. Y’all can say this but reactions to Jalen saying he doesn’t believe the default of being a provider is solely monetary shows that his views on the sprinkle sprinkle movement was right in the mind of many women. A lot of women now question Jalen’s right as a man, his masculinity, and in crazy cases his sexuality bc they now view him as a broke leech because he’s not Monet’s default walking wallet. The original message of the sprinkle sprinkle movement may have been different but women now or showing out in the worst way possible, doing exactly as what men do connecting a women’s worth as a human being/woman to the state of her body by connecting Jalen’s worth as a man by him not paying both his and Monet’s separate mortgages and all hers/his extracurriculars as a nonmarried/childless couple. The toxic response to this open, non-malicious conversation shows what the sprinkle sprinkle movement means to many now.

If I can give you my last. I can give you my all.

Some of ya'll really missed the point of sprinkle sprinkle

@laylaj2196

5 күн бұрын

exactly

@ratpatootie9579

4 күн бұрын

Y’all can say this but reactions to Jalen saying he doesn’t believe the default of being a provider is solely monetary shows that his views on the sprinkle sprinkle movement was right in the mind of many women. A lot of women now question Jalen’s right as a man, his masculinity, and in crazy cases his sexuality bc they now view him as a broke leech because he’s not Monet’s default walking wallet. The original message of the sprinkle sprinkle movement may have been different but women now or showing out in the worst way possible, doing exactly as what men do connecting a women’s worth as a human being/woman to the state of her body by connecting Jalen’s worth as a man by him not paying both his and Monet’s separate mortgages and all hers/his extracurriculars as a nonmarried/childless couple. The toxic response to this open, non-malicious conversation shows what the sprinkle sprinkle movement means to many now.

Cmon quality

Came over bc one app doesn’t show the picture.

We here🔥🔥

What's the tittle of the movie??

@johna1986

5 күн бұрын

The Brothers

31:15 No one was taking Sheera seriously. So the fact that men decided to counter a joke just let's us know who's been in women's business. And we call them soft cus it's not something real men should be worried about

@locateemurge4327

9 күн бұрын

This is NOT true, a lot of people are joking BUT there is DEFINITELY women that say shera has changed their life because they are happier than ever going after money…

@ashleylorenjo

8 күн бұрын

Lol nah be real and honest. Women are taking that woman serious

@ratpatootie9579

7 күн бұрын

Well, the outrage ppl re having now to Monet not treat her boyfriend (not husband) as a walking wallet says otherwise. The girlies were indeed taking her very seriously 😭

@D.T_

5 күн бұрын

@@locateemurge4327 I think women are just choosing successful generous men, instead of broke bitter men.

@gili4562

5 күн бұрын

@@locateemurge4327i do take Shera seriously it has benefits so many women to avoid dusties like yall🥰

He was speaking facts

@gili4562

5 күн бұрын

For broke males and dusty that gossiping on camera 😹 ofc yall agree w his dusty self, 30 and that some 20 yr old who provides for him💀💀

@blakewillie6331

5 күн бұрын

@@gili4562 he’s rich stupid

@blakewillie6331

5 күн бұрын

When you have money you spoil eachother you don’t live in reality

I came from that one clip that's been circulating on tiktok, and a bunch of women are stitching it trying to shame him as if he said anything bad. it's like some women are threatened by men whose self worth doesn't only derive from their capacity to provide or from them being the sole provider. Basically men who don't feel less of a man because they don't have all the financial power, which is ironic. those women basically want a man who needs to have leverage over them

Lol the lady his talking about Is shera 7. She dosnt sit on social media but on KZread exclusively. Shera deems herself a finacial advisor not a dating coach . She is not giving anyone any advice about dating . Infact she encourages people to go out be young and find love and enjoy it The problem is people think and believe she is giving out relationship advise meanwhile she is giving out her version of financial advice

@Scrappy_Nugget

8 күн бұрын

Cut the crap it’s toxic lol

This podcast ateeee. At first I started watching it because of all the hate on tik tok but everything that was said is just facts

First viewer 🫶🏾🤩

30:02 sprinkle sprinkle is the most disgusting advice ever. Shera promotes getting the bag from a man & leaving. Terrible advice

@D.T_

7 күн бұрын

Pickmeisha ❤

@biba3025

5 күн бұрын

Barbara the builder 😂​@@D.T_

@D.T_

5 күн бұрын

@@biba3025 lol 😂 I don’t do no building. Sounds like something y’all do