I m scared to talk to women and in tinder i get nothing 😢
@anonymeidentity10058 сағат бұрын
I m 19 m and 5’7 and i have never had a girlfriend and i got called ugly more times than i can remember
@RealSatanHere2 күн бұрын
Nowadays it’s on the inside man
@chennis1343 күн бұрын
I'm 31 and have never had a girlfriend either. I wasn't motivated to date in high school and college. Then, I tried various things after college - dating apps, coed sports (tennis, volleyball, kickball), going to bars by myself, salsa dancing, Reddit, getting set up by my mom, running club, chess club. I got about 10 first dates on the apps and 2 second dates, but nothing long-term. And nowadays I get no matches on the apps, so I stopped using them. I fear that I'll never date anyone. I'm quite lucky in a lot of areas in my life, but I feel like the world is conspiring against me when it comes to romance. It feels like I have no control over whether or not I find someone to date
@Mj06363 күн бұрын
Your whole world is within you my friend, you got this. Study Neville Goddard.
@angelique_313 күн бұрын
The ugly comments are rude because he’s actually cute he’s just a bit awkward is all
@spazmatic054 күн бұрын
Having a girlfriend is cool but when it ends your life changes. Especially when it’s that one girl. There’s the before you met her part of your life. The part where you are together. Then there’s the sad after where you wish you never met her.
@drewyetti4 күн бұрын
You were called ugly? Damn Women have their tendency to dehumanise men who they feel beneath them. Just remember, those women who said you’re ugly are ugly themselves without all the fake up and filters.
@foughtthelol5 күн бұрын
Be at the right place at the right time. Simple.
@tomatofarmerlarry33316 күн бұрын
it could be done, you just need to start dwarfmaxxing, pick up some hobbies, and meet people at places where you visit for fun activities, a library or board game club, it's the easiest way to start talking with someone. Being ugly is definitely the most important cause of being alone but keep in mind you also haven't tried looking as good as you can, also compared to actual ugly people I'd say you lack attractive features rather than having something very ugly, height is a big problem though.
@ripvanwinkle993517 сағат бұрын
Dwarfmaxxing? You mean coal mining?
@tomatofarmerlarry333116 сағат бұрын
@@ripvanwinkle9935 shave head, grow a beard, listen to dwarf metal and lift crazy weights, become an unmovable tree stump
@mikeylitchfield46517 күн бұрын
Being short is tough. Being average looking is kind of tough too. Those things don't seem to be dealbreakers though as I do see average looking short guys with girlfriends. Admittedly the girls tend to be shorter than them. There's short and there's short though. 5 ft 5 would be pretty tough. I don't know anyone that short with a girlfriend. 5 ft 7 ia probably the shortest guy I know who has a girlfriend. I think the introverted thing is a big problem too but it's something you also have to be honest with yourself about. If you're introverted like me then you kind of have to admit to yourself that you don't like spending time with people that much. Having a girlfriend is all about spending time with someone. Having a girlfriend didn't make me any happier really. Some things were better and other things were worse. I enjoyed having sex and the emotional attachment felt pretty good but I missed my freedom and I hated the nagging and needless drama. I'm not saying it's not an experience worth having but It's not some kind of lifer hack that will make you permanently happy either. You're from the UK and prostitution is legal in your country so at least you can get some of your needs met.
@ScottyTooHaughty8 күн бұрын
I'm also 31 and have never had a girlfriend
@rungeon839 күн бұрын
The simpsons reference!! Poor Millhouse :( He's never gonna be her bf
@rungeon839 күн бұрын
Ask yourself, if say a women approached you, say someone who isn't as attractive (like you see yourself) would you EVER react the way those women did? I've seen women act this way with proper chads..
@rungeon839 күн бұрын
I'm terrible when I drink with honesty, I find it so much easier to lie drunk as I HATE lies! But when you're drunk you'll say such stupid shit, that doesn't mean truth, alcohol kills braincells! Mate where do you live?!?! I'm from Manchester and now live in Plymouth, I've lived sheffield and a few other places that have high population and honestly i've never seen women talk to any man this way (guys who were really not attractive) because WHY?! You must be in an awful place! I know Plymouth people here are just more cliche and small minded, but not as cruel as you've experienced.
@rungeon839 күн бұрын
So i've been on dates with over 30 people easily (but I'm 39) and not once has a woman expected me to pay, normally we have that argument of who is gonna pay, and I have had a few women who got so frustrated to pay OUR FULL bill... PLEASE do not think all women are your bad experiences, you're a target for the worst people because you're too nice! It's okay to care about yourself more than them, infact you need to, women don't like men who are easy and a push over. They want someone who is like "actually no, I deserve more respect than this" easily said than done, I was cronically shy, stutter, not attractive etc etc but I know I am worth more than that and you are 100% worth more than some predator using you.
@rungeon839 күн бұрын
Mate if you was old fashioned you'd not feel the need to, you'd want to. Now I'm not old fashioned! I'm like "woah this bill is big, splitsville" So, I think you're not seeing the signs of bad people, you're being too nice and giving people WAY too much benifit of the doubt! Though I will say, a girl would rather eat at home alone than go out and have a guy buy nandos. So maybe some interest.
@_Sp4c3y_Күн бұрын
Bold of you to assume they have groceries at home
@TuristaArcsi9 күн бұрын
Im a 6/10 body, and 4/10 face guy, 35yo, pretty poor, moms hotel till 29 etc. Had 6 serious relationships, around 10 "kinda" girlfriends, and circa 40 hookup. Nothing is impossible!
@Us3r739Күн бұрын
How tall
@TuristaArcsi23 сағат бұрын
@@Us3r739 186 cm
@deinemuddatvfr17 сағат бұрын
How tall are you?
@TuristaArcsi17 сағат бұрын
@@deinemuddatvfr 186 cm
@TuristaArcsi17 сағат бұрын
@@Us3r739 186 cm
@rungeon839 күн бұрын
I've had sooooo many girls tell me I'm ugly... yet I still managed to be with very attractive girls. No normal person would go out their way to tell you , that you're ugly, EVEN if you was(You're bloody not!). There is no reason for it, just like you wouldn't walk upto someone "Hey just to remind you, you're over weight... that'll be all, ta ra" There are some nasty bad people around, bullies and people who are down on themselves, I know you are down on yourself and not like that, but everyone handles it different, you remained lovely, they didn't.
@tomandrews8619 күн бұрын
Save up your money and go Thailand man
@govholocaustal443210 күн бұрын
I'm not kidding when I say you are not missing out on anything...chase money man. Girls will never know what they want, they'll never appreciate you forever. You are just a dollar sign to them. Focus on your health and your hobbies. I've had a few girlfriends and all of them F'd me over in the end. Wish I would of learned to quit dating at a younger age. Sex is extremely over rated. Porn is free and more convenient if you need that release. As for companionship, get a pet or find friends through hobbies. You can even have women friends. I would just suggest never fall for their tricks. Love doesn't exist. It is just a chemical reaction our brains get to support reproduction of the human race. If you really want kids, adopt em. You literally need nothing but yourself in life. Happiness comes from within, money amplifies it, 99% of people drain it. Best of luck man. I hate to sound like a woman hater but modern women are trash if you are a man of morals and respect towards them. I hope the younger women out there start to become decent again and not blindly follow tik tok/social media trends. Here's a new trend for you girls: don't cheat, communicate, be respectful, be honest, be loyal, break up if things aren't working but try to repair/develop the relationship before fully giving up. The grass is green where you water it, not in another random guy. Good luck man, stay positive, be sad, whatever you want to do. Just live your life and let it flow :D
@HaydenYoshi5 күн бұрын
appreciate this dawg 💯
@Walkerwonderswhy10 күн бұрын
Think you need to build confidence 💪 try jiu jitsu or something like that. Get off the pc pal
@Walkerwonderswhy10 күн бұрын
Hit gym snd jiu jitsu
@sanitary10310 күн бұрын
I’m a bit of a traditionalist but if things weren’t vibing, you should have went dutch respectfully.
@jamesdavidson67610 күн бұрын
Just too many very entitled stuck up low life loser women that exist today that are really too blame why most of us single guys can't meet a decent normal woman anymore today. And now you have all these gold digging women adding to the problem as well. Back in the old days it was certainly so much easier meeting women just like our family members did, and it wasn't all about looks and wealth either since most women never really cared about that at all.
@neolee20311 күн бұрын
as i am in introvert too , my advice for you would be , try just chatting first . no face, better with someone who shares your interest , and just keep it rolling , start being friends first, dont think about relationship yet , Just talk and see if the sparks comes .
@user-rx7by5sn6o11 күн бұрын
U are so weak, why are u doing smth u don't want! U don't want to remove the mask - don't! Why is that so complicated
@rungeon839 күн бұрын
Why is that weak? Like you've never given into pressure before and it's not an unreasonable reason to say "hey what do you look like as I've never seen your face". The person who pulled a face at him is weak! Though I'll admit i've never met a bloke who has had this much bad luck with women. He's not even ugly! I've seen guys (myself) worse and land women.
@user-rx7by5sn6o9 күн бұрын
@@rungeon83 hey , there was no idea in being mean or smt, maybe my English isn't so great, what I meant is that he is not ugly, I am not a model myself, but had sex since 15 , now in my second marriage, I have a son , and I am 40 . My idea I s he lacks confidence and used to be pushed around and follow instead of lead, meaning he is doing things he doesn't feel like doing, and girls sense that from a mile away.
@bran837012 күн бұрын
Ugh!! What a d1¢k move 😒 . That sounds so scary 😰 . Glad you and your friend survived and didn't seem to have any lasting injuries. I'm sure it definitely was traumatizing though 😔.
@Thaleios12 күн бұрын
You are not ugly. You have your hair and from the looks of it, your original teeth, so you have more than a lot right there. Part of it is confidence but part of it is setting your expectations. You will find someone but you have to put yourself out there and meet people. You also have to realize you aren't likely to find someone that looks like a model and most of us aren't so there's nothing wrong with that.
@TheDeathlessLordCerberus12 күн бұрын
If we are going by the terms it means, like if you want sex and cant get sex then you are by the definition an "incel". If you can get sex and cannot be bothered and not interested then you are not an incel. So by these terms this is how it should be defined. That said, the term incel has now expanded to anyone who is shy, nervous, not good with socialization is now an incel, and that is just retarded.
@TheDeathlessLordCerberus12 күн бұрын
Wow. Love your channel, but. man. I would always have my friends back for something like this. So you watch your friend get his ass handed to him incase they give you a good hiding. Buth then proceed to bluff what items you have in your pocket which could easily have had the same outcome happen to you? You may as well have helped him. i hope he ditched you all lol.
@TinyBitBrit11 күн бұрын
When I make these videos I try to be as honest as possible, often revealing flaws and mistakes that I've made in the past. This is one of those times sadly, I can't change what happened but I can learn from it to make sure it doesn't ever happen again.
@rungeon839 күн бұрын
@@TinyBitBrit Mate don't worry about this, you always have these alpha men "oh I would have done ... this and that" like fuck! Everyone thinks they can do something until it happens!
@rungeon839 күн бұрын
Alright HARD MAN calm down lol!
@TheDeathlessLordCerberus8 күн бұрын
Not once did I say I was alpha I think people who say they're alpha are retards and secondly never once did I lash out or was uncalm. What's wrong with saying I couldn't stand there and watch that? Doesn't make me a "hard man". I didn't even say i'd win the fight. Just because i would act differently doesn't mean you know all about me. Try growing up? Everyone's such a cry baby nowadays over an opinion
@user-dn9kk9qu5y12 күн бұрын
STOP WAITING TAKE ACTION BRO YOU HAVE TO TAKE LIFE WITH BOTH HANDS AND SQUEEEEEEEEEZE IF YOU WANT TO DRINK THE MILK OF LIFE AHAHAHAH
@user-dn9kk9qu5y12 күн бұрын
CLICK YOU HEELS 4 TIMES AND SWEEZE YOUR TITTIES 3 TIMES AND YOU REACH A HIGHER LEVEL OF THINKING AHAHAHA THATS HOW I GET GIRLS BRO IT WORKS LOL
@user-dn9kk9qu5y12 күн бұрын
BRO GET SOME MONEY MATE AND THE HOES COME TO YOU THEN WHEN YOU HAVE PRACTISED ON THEM YOU HIT UP THE MILFS AND COUGERS THEN YOU GO BACK WITH THE GAME YOU HAVE LEARNT YOU FIND THE WOMEN IN YOUR AGE BRACKET IF ALL ELSE FAILS GO TO THAILAND
@CopeMasterFlexx13 күн бұрын
I feel you, King. You tried a lot and finding a relationship is not something you can build up to, it just happens or doesn't. I've heard others say "work on it!" and things like this. That only has meaning in their own head, in reality you cant work on finding a woman. It is just simply impossible if a set of circumstances outside of your control aren't aligned.
@TheCheshireCat.14 күн бұрын
Just for pay for it. 🤷♂️
@spanishjohn42015 күн бұрын
you just need to find a girl who is just as socially awkward as you
@defpixel15 күн бұрын
Not entitled to a relationship and not everyone fit to be in a relationship. Focus on yourself.
@naruto1611215 күн бұрын
Hit of reality as someone whos got no issue with getting girls but just cant stand the "emotional responsability" of having todeal with someone else's emotional trauma and neccessities, let me tell ya, you're better alone, I'm back to being single and I'm living the life, go out with my friends, gaming nights, talk to girls now and then but not going to the next levels ever again, life is good
@Mrshoottokill15 күн бұрын
im no expert but it seems very clear to me that you need URGENT DRASTIC CHANGE , get body fat percentage down ASAP ( go to gym) , fuck it do mushrooms they might help you realise something about yourself , you must have some women in your life who you could ask for help or maybe if they know someone ; it doesnt need to result in a relationship but its a stepping stone if all else fails hire a prostitute and just talk to her if you really can NOT talk to women or something . this is pretty shoddy advice but youre 31 years old you NEED change NOW . success is not guaranteed by doing these things but you resign yourself to failure if you dont do anything, JUST TAKE ACTION
@GodGuy815 күн бұрын
My hearts breaking for you man, my advice is to go to church regualrly, find one with a lot of women, being a regular in a community will lower womens higher standards
@Ross72A16 күн бұрын
It seemed like I had a chance back when I was 18, I waited too long and missed it, didn't know how to use it. I saw the writting on the wall right then and there Now I'm 58 and nothing has changed, I never had a girl. Rarely gets to me these days tho.
@jessicavega832216 күн бұрын
Why do you think you've never had a gf?
@Ross72A15 күн бұрын
@@jessicavega8322 i don't know it's like I always discusted them
@jessicavega832215 күн бұрын
@@Ross72A I'm 21 years old and I've never had a relationship either and I think it's ok, maybe you should try meeting people out there.
@Ross72A15 күн бұрын
@@jessicavega8322 at this point it's too late feller And I have friends, I'm not alone Women hate me
@jessicavega832215 күн бұрын
@@Ross72A It's never late to find love, the one who is limiting is you, why do you think women hate you?
@ydaedalus17 күн бұрын
This must've been very painful for you and your family. As someone who went through something similar, I'd encourage you to perhaps get in-person therapy (there are a few subsidised therapy services in the UK). Talking to someone may help you work through some of these things and look deeper into what's going on for you here. Airing your pain on the internet may not bring the relief and comfort you want and it definitely not bring you the peace and perspective you need. ❤
@ydaedalus17 күн бұрын
Hey, I've watched some of your videos and I feel for you. Many of us went through difficult (sometimes humiliating) things in our teens and twenties; I was called ugly by a guy I liked just because he thought it was funny to see my reaction. And that's just one of the ridiculous things that happened to me in my late teens/early twenties. I am now a few years older than you and I'm married to an amazing man. I think it's important for you (and all of us, really) not to get too hung up on the negative experiences we had as teens and young adults. Focus on the things you value now and look to the future and outward, rather than inward. Building good relationships with people (friendships, family relationships, romantic relationships and friendly relationships with acquaintances) is good for us. You're not ugly. And there's no social skill that cannot be learnt through practice.
@_Sp4c3y_Күн бұрын
He’s a 5’5 froglet, you’re a woman.Your dating prospects are ten thousand times better than his, you have no idea what he’s going through stop patronizing him.
@EminencePhront17 күн бұрын
Look buddy, let's get it out of the way. Looks aren't your issue. So ignore a lot of the bitter uglies in the room who think that things like confidence, grooming, and hygiene don't matter. I guarantee, you are working with enough that you could hire a professional photographer and a stylist and you could get some pictures that would get you dates online. But it's clear there are far deeper issues here. You need to see a therapist to help you get over the awkwardness and social anxiety. I also think it wouldn't hurt for you to find some pretty girls to practice on. Put out an ad. There are no shortage of women who'd get coffee with you and give you a chance to practice your flirting and conversation, probably for the cost of a coffee. Women like attention. If all of this isn't enough, think about nootropic supplements to treat anxiety like NAC and theanine. If there's a neurological cause to your woes you will need to address that too. Avoid pharmaceuticals though! Edit: just got to the height part. Yeah there are some girls out there who are biased against shorter guys. But not all of them. Get yourself some LiftKits to put into your shoes. I'm not short, but I'm not 6 feet and the LKs put me over the coveted 6' mark. Even getting yourself to 5'8 puts you into average territory. Find a shorter girl who you still tower over. There are plenty of those. Honestly, the worst height range as far as women with height issues, is like 5'7-5'10, where they're tall enough to be self-conscious about their own height but not tall enough to be forced to accept that most men are shorter than them. I've dated more chicks 5'11-6'2 than I have in the mid-range, because when you're a super tall chick, you just kind of get over it. So find a tiny girl or an amazon.
@theseek727818 күн бұрын
The girls absolutely loved me in highschool. And then i got more intellectual and they hated me for it. They want muscles, big money, and no brains.
@Takenoprisonerslogic18 күн бұрын
Drugs and alcohol will help you cope.
@dublintales631118 күн бұрын
I don't know if this will be any help but I've found that the best way to meet people and make friends/ partners is via shared hobbies and groups that cater for them. So if someone likes comic books join a club or society online and see if they have meet ups or suggest a meet up event or even organise yourself! And that can be for any interest you have or can imagine yourself liking. There are groups for everything these days. I met most of my girlfriends before my current wife via being a member of a political party and community groups. Honestly it is far easier when you automatically have an interest or ideology in common as it gives you something to talk about out of the gate. Give it a try!
@bioweapon442516 күн бұрын
This is so true. I met my wife on POF when I was 19. I had some stupid South Park quote as my title as I wanted to see if anyone would get it. After about month, she messaged me with the next line. Been together 12 years. People love to share their passions with others, it’s a great place to start.
@njp2k91410 күн бұрын
I came here to pretty much write this but you’ve done a great job already :)
@jacob.g.l159218 күн бұрын
Oh no boohoo 😢. "I dont like going out because it makes me uncomfortable" dude you're going to have to put yourself into uncomfortable situations. Oh you're shy? Big deal, get over it you pussy. You're 30! Chop chop! Time is running out. I don't drive, i dont have a lot of money and I'm shy, but i still managed to snag myself a wonderful girlfriend. You're not desperate enough. You aren't doing enough m8
@Takenoprisonerslogic18 күн бұрын
I don’t like uncomfortable situations either and I’m ok with it. I got plenty of drugs and booze to keep me in bliss.
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I m scared to talk to women and in tinder i get nothing 😢
I m 19 m and 5’7 and i have never had a girlfriend and i got called ugly more times than i can remember
Nowadays it’s on the inside man
I'm 31 and have never had a girlfriend either. I wasn't motivated to date in high school and college. Then, I tried various things after college - dating apps, coed sports (tennis, volleyball, kickball), going to bars by myself, salsa dancing, Reddit, getting set up by my mom, running club, chess club. I got about 10 first dates on the apps and 2 second dates, but nothing long-term. And nowadays I get no matches on the apps, so I stopped using them. I fear that I'll never date anyone. I'm quite lucky in a lot of areas in my life, but I feel like the world is conspiring against me when it comes to romance. It feels like I have no control over whether or not I find someone to date
Your whole world is within you my friend, you got this. Study Neville Goddard.
The ugly comments are rude because he’s actually cute he’s just a bit awkward is all
Having a girlfriend is cool but when it ends your life changes. Especially when it’s that one girl. There’s the before you met her part of your life. The part where you are together. Then there’s the sad after where you wish you never met her.
You were called ugly? Damn Women have their tendency to dehumanise men who they feel beneath them. Just remember, those women who said you’re ugly are ugly themselves without all the fake up and filters.
Be at the right place at the right time. Simple.
it could be done, you just need to start dwarfmaxxing, pick up some hobbies, and meet people at places where you visit for fun activities, a library or board game club, it's the easiest way to start talking with someone. Being ugly is definitely the most important cause of being alone but keep in mind you also haven't tried looking as good as you can, also compared to actual ugly people I'd say you lack attractive features rather than having something very ugly, height is a big problem though.
Dwarfmaxxing? You mean coal mining?
@@ripvanwinkle9935 shave head, grow a beard, listen to dwarf metal and lift crazy weights, become an unmovable tree stump
Being short is tough. Being average looking is kind of tough too. Those things don't seem to be dealbreakers though as I do see average looking short guys with girlfriends. Admittedly the girls tend to be shorter than them. There's short and there's short though. 5 ft 5 would be pretty tough. I don't know anyone that short with a girlfriend. 5 ft 7 ia probably the shortest guy I know who has a girlfriend. I think the introverted thing is a big problem too but it's something you also have to be honest with yourself about. If you're introverted like me then you kind of have to admit to yourself that you don't like spending time with people that much. Having a girlfriend is all about spending time with someone. Having a girlfriend didn't make me any happier really. Some things were better and other things were worse. I enjoyed having sex and the emotional attachment felt pretty good but I missed my freedom and I hated the nagging and needless drama. I'm not saying it's not an experience worth having but It's not some kind of lifer hack that will make you permanently happy either. You're from the UK and prostitution is legal in your country so at least you can get some of your needs met.
I'm also 31 and have never had a girlfriend
The simpsons reference!! Poor Millhouse :( He's never gonna be her bf
Ask yourself, if say a women approached you, say someone who isn't as attractive (like you see yourself) would you EVER react the way those women did? I've seen women act this way with proper chads..
I'm terrible when I drink with honesty, I find it so much easier to lie drunk as I HATE lies! But when you're drunk you'll say such stupid shit, that doesn't mean truth, alcohol kills braincells! Mate where do you live?!?! I'm from Manchester and now live in Plymouth, I've lived sheffield and a few other places that have high population and honestly i've never seen women talk to any man this way (guys who were really not attractive) because WHY?! You must be in an awful place! I know Plymouth people here are just more cliche and small minded, but not as cruel as you've experienced.
So i've been on dates with over 30 people easily (but I'm 39) and not once has a woman expected me to pay, normally we have that argument of who is gonna pay, and I have had a few women who got so frustrated to pay OUR FULL bill... PLEASE do not think all women are your bad experiences, you're a target for the worst people because you're too nice! It's okay to care about yourself more than them, infact you need to, women don't like men who are easy and a push over. They want someone who is like "actually no, I deserve more respect than this" easily said than done, I was cronically shy, stutter, not attractive etc etc but I know I am worth more than that and you are 100% worth more than some predator using you.
Mate if you was old fashioned you'd not feel the need to, you'd want to. Now I'm not old fashioned! I'm like "woah this bill is big, splitsville" So, I think you're not seeing the signs of bad people, you're being too nice and giving people WAY too much benifit of the doubt! Though I will say, a girl would rather eat at home alone than go out and have a guy buy nandos. So maybe some interest.
Bold of you to assume they have groceries at home
Im a 6/10 body, and 4/10 face guy, 35yo, pretty poor, moms hotel till 29 etc. Had 6 serious relationships, around 10 "kinda" girlfriends, and circa 40 hookup. Nothing is impossible!
How tall
@@Us3r739 186 cm
How tall are you?
@@deinemuddatvfr 186 cm
@@Us3r739 186 cm
I've had sooooo many girls tell me I'm ugly... yet I still managed to be with very attractive girls. No normal person would go out their way to tell you , that you're ugly, EVEN if you was(You're bloody not!). There is no reason for it, just like you wouldn't walk upto someone "Hey just to remind you, you're over weight... that'll be all, ta ra" There are some nasty bad people around, bullies and people who are down on themselves, I know you are down on yourself and not like that, but everyone handles it different, you remained lovely, they didn't.
Save up your money and go Thailand man
I'm not kidding when I say you are not missing out on anything...chase money man. Girls will never know what they want, they'll never appreciate you forever. You are just a dollar sign to them. Focus on your health and your hobbies. I've had a few girlfriends and all of them F'd me over in the end. Wish I would of learned to quit dating at a younger age. Sex is extremely over rated. Porn is free and more convenient if you need that release. As for companionship, get a pet or find friends through hobbies. You can even have women friends. I would just suggest never fall for their tricks. Love doesn't exist. It is just a chemical reaction our brains get to support reproduction of the human race. If you really want kids, adopt em. You literally need nothing but yourself in life. Happiness comes from within, money amplifies it, 99% of people drain it. Best of luck man. I hate to sound like a woman hater but modern women are trash if you are a man of morals and respect towards them. I hope the younger women out there start to become decent again and not blindly follow tik tok/social media trends. Here's a new trend for you girls: don't cheat, communicate, be respectful, be honest, be loyal, break up if things aren't working but try to repair/develop the relationship before fully giving up. The grass is green where you water it, not in another random guy. Good luck man, stay positive, be sad, whatever you want to do. Just live your life and let it flow :D
appreciate this dawg 💯
Think you need to build confidence 💪 try jiu jitsu or something like that. Get off the pc pal
Hit gym snd jiu jitsu
I’m a bit of a traditionalist but if things weren’t vibing, you should have went dutch respectfully.
Just too many very entitled stuck up low life loser women that exist today that are really too blame why most of us single guys can't meet a decent normal woman anymore today. And now you have all these gold digging women adding to the problem as well. Back in the old days it was certainly so much easier meeting women just like our family members did, and it wasn't all about looks and wealth either since most women never really cared about that at all.
as i am in introvert too , my advice for you would be , try just chatting first . no face, better with someone who shares your interest , and just keep it rolling , start being friends first, dont think about relationship yet , Just talk and see if the sparks comes .
U are so weak, why are u doing smth u don't want! U don't want to remove the mask - don't! Why is that so complicated
Why is that weak? Like you've never given into pressure before and it's not an unreasonable reason to say "hey what do you look like as I've never seen your face". The person who pulled a face at him is weak! Though I'll admit i've never met a bloke who has had this much bad luck with women. He's not even ugly! I've seen guys (myself) worse and land women.
@@rungeon83 hey , there was no idea in being mean or smt, maybe my English isn't so great, what I meant is that he is not ugly, I am not a model myself, but had sex since 15 , now in my second marriage, I have a son , and I am 40 . My idea I s he lacks confidence and used to be pushed around and follow instead of lead, meaning he is doing things he doesn't feel like doing, and girls sense that from a mile away.
Ugh!! What a d1¢k move 😒 . That sounds so scary 😰 . Glad you and your friend survived and didn't seem to have any lasting injuries. I'm sure it definitely was traumatizing though 😔.
You are not ugly. You have your hair and from the looks of it, your original teeth, so you have more than a lot right there. Part of it is confidence but part of it is setting your expectations. You will find someone but you have to put yourself out there and meet people. You also have to realize you aren't likely to find someone that looks like a model and most of us aren't so there's nothing wrong with that.
If we are going by the terms it means, like if you want sex and cant get sex then you are by the definition an "incel". If you can get sex and cannot be bothered and not interested then you are not an incel. So by these terms this is how it should be defined. That said, the term incel has now expanded to anyone who is shy, nervous, not good with socialization is now an incel, and that is just retarded.
Wow. Love your channel, but. man. I would always have my friends back for something like this. So you watch your friend get his ass handed to him incase they give you a good hiding. Buth then proceed to bluff what items you have in your pocket which could easily have had the same outcome happen to you? You may as well have helped him. i hope he ditched you all lol.
When I make these videos I try to be as honest as possible, often revealing flaws and mistakes that I've made in the past. This is one of those times sadly, I can't change what happened but I can learn from it to make sure it doesn't ever happen again.
@@TinyBitBrit Mate don't worry about this, you always have these alpha men "oh I would have done ... this and that" like fuck! Everyone thinks they can do something until it happens!
Alright HARD MAN calm down lol!
Not once did I say I was alpha I think people who say they're alpha are retards and secondly never once did I lash out or was uncalm. What's wrong with saying I couldn't stand there and watch that? Doesn't make me a "hard man". I didn't even say i'd win the fight. Just because i would act differently doesn't mean you know all about me. Try growing up? Everyone's such a cry baby nowadays over an opinion
STOP WAITING TAKE ACTION BRO YOU HAVE TO TAKE LIFE WITH BOTH HANDS AND SQUEEEEEEEEEZE IF YOU WANT TO DRINK THE MILK OF LIFE AHAHAHAH
CLICK YOU HEELS 4 TIMES AND SWEEZE YOUR TITTIES 3 TIMES AND YOU REACH A HIGHER LEVEL OF THINKING AHAHAHA THATS HOW I GET GIRLS BRO IT WORKS LOL
BRO GET SOME MONEY MATE AND THE HOES COME TO YOU THEN WHEN YOU HAVE PRACTISED ON THEM YOU HIT UP THE MILFS AND COUGERS THEN YOU GO BACK WITH THE GAME YOU HAVE LEARNT YOU FIND THE WOMEN IN YOUR AGE BRACKET IF ALL ELSE FAILS GO TO THAILAND
I feel you, King. You tried a lot and finding a relationship is not something you can build up to, it just happens or doesn't. I've heard others say "work on it!" and things like this. That only has meaning in their own head, in reality you cant work on finding a woman. It is just simply impossible if a set of circumstances outside of your control aren't aligned.
Just for pay for it. 🤷♂️
you just need to find a girl who is just as socially awkward as you
Not entitled to a relationship and not everyone fit to be in a relationship. Focus on yourself.
Hit of reality as someone whos got no issue with getting girls but just cant stand the "emotional responsability" of having todeal with someone else's emotional trauma and neccessities, let me tell ya, you're better alone, I'm back to being single and I'm living the life, go out with my friends, gaming nights, talk to girls now and then but not going to the next levels ever again, life is good
im no expert but it seems very clear to me that you need URGENT DRASTIC CHANGE , get body fat percentage down ASAP ( go to gym) , fuck it do mushrooms they might help you realise something about yourself , you must have some women in your life who you could ask for help or maybe if they know someone ; it doesnt need to result in a relationship but its a stepping stone if all else fails hire a prostitute and just talk to her if you really can NOT talk to women or something . this is pretty shoddy advice but youre 31 years old you NEED change NOW . success is not guaranteed by doing these things but you resign yourself to failure if you dont do anything, JUST TAKE ACTION
My hearts breaking for you man, my advice is to go to church regualrly, find one with a lot of women, being a regular in a community will lower womens higher standards
It seemed like I had a chance back when I was 18, I waited too long and missed it, didn't know how to use it. I saw the writting on the wall right then and there Now I'm 58 and nothing has changed, I never had a girl. Rarely gets to me these days tho.
Why do you think you've never had a gf?
@@jessicavega8322 i don't know it's like I always discusted them
@@Ross72A I'm 21 years old and I've never had a relationship either and I think it's ok, maybe you should try meeting people out there.
@@jessicavega8322 at this point it's too late feller And I have friends, I'm not alone Women hate me
@@Ross72A It's never late to find love, the one who is limiting is you, why do you think women hate you?
This must've been very painful for you and your family. As someone who went through something similar, I'd encourage you to perhaps get in-person therapy (there are a few subsidised therapy services in the UK). Talking to someone may help you work through some of these things and look deeper into what's going on for you here. Airing your pain on the internet may not bring the relief and comfort you want and it definitely not bring you the peace and perspective you need. ❤
Hey, I've watched some of your videos and I feel for you. Many of us went through difficult (sometimes humiliating) things in our teens and twenties; I was called ugly by a guy I liked just because he thought it was funny to see my reaction. And that's just one of the ridiculous things that happened to me in my late teens/early twenties. I am now a few years older than you and I'm married to an amazing man. I think it's important for you (and all of us, really) not to get too hung up on the negative experiences we had as teens and young adults. Focus on the things you value now and look to the future and outward, rather than inward. Building good relationships with people (friendships, family relationships, romantic relationships and friendly relationships with acquaintances) is good for us. You're not ugly. And there's no social skill that cannot be learnt through practice.
He’s a 5’5 froglet, you’re a woman.Your dating prospects are ten thousand times better than his, you have no idea what he’s going through stop patronizing him.
Look buddy, let's get it out of the way. Looks aren't your issue. So ignore a lot of the bitter uglies in the room who think that things like confidence, grooming, and hygiene don't matter. I guarantee, you are working with enough that you could hire a professional photographer and a stylist and you could get some pictures that would get you dates online. But it's clear there are far deeper issues here. You need to see a therapist to help you get over the awkwardness and social anxiety. I also think it wouldn't hurt for you to find some pretty girls to practice on. Put out an ad. There are no shortage of women who'd get coffee with you and give you a chance to practice your flirting and conversation, probably for the cost of a coffee. Women like attention. If all of this isn't enough, think about nootropic supplements to treat anxiety like NAC and theanine. If there's a neurological cause to your woes you will need to address that too. Avoid pharmaceuticals though! Edit: just got to the height part. Yeah there are some girls out there who are biased against shorter guys. But not all of them. Get yourself some LiftKits to put into your shoes. I'm not short, but I'm not 6 feet and the LKs put me over the coveted 6' mark. Even getting yourself to 5'8 puts you into average territory. Find a shorter girl who you still tower over. There are plenty of those. Honestly, the worst height range as far as women with height issues, is like 5'7-5'10, where they're tall enough to be self-conscious about their own height but not tall enough to be forced to accept that most men are shorter than them. I've dated more chicks 5'11-6'2 than I have in the mid-range, because when you're a super tall chick, you just kind of get over it. So find a tiny girl or an amazon.
The girls absolutely loved me in highschool. And then i got more intellectual and they hated me for it. They want muscles, big money, and no brains.
Drugs and alcohol will help you cope.
I don't know if this will be any help but I've found that the best way to meet people and make friends/ partners is via shared hobbies and groups that cater for them. So if someone likes comic books join a club or society online and see if they have meet ups or suggest a meet up event or even organise yourself! And that can be for any interest you have or can imagine yourself liking. There are groups for everything these days. I met most of my girlfriends before my current wife via being a member of a political party and community groups. Honestly it is far easier when you automatically have an interest or ideology in common as it gives you something to talk about out of the gate. Give it a try!
This is so true. I met my wife on POF when I was 19. I had some stupid South Park quote as my title as I wanted to see if anyone would get it. After about month, she messaged me with the next line. Been together 12 years. People love to share their passions with others, it’s a great place to start.
I came here to pretty much write this but you’ve done a great job already :)
Oh no boohoo 😢. "I dont like going out because it makes me uncomfortable" dude you're going to have to put yourself into uncomfortable situations. Oh you're shy? Big deal, get over it you pussy. You're 30! Chop chop! Time is running out. I don't drive, i dont have a lot of money and I'm shy, but i still managed to snag myself a wonderful girlfriend. You're not desperate enough. You aren't doing enough m8
I don’t like uncomfortable situations either and I’m ok with it. I got plenty of drugs and booze to keep me in bliss.
I got my first gf at 14 years old