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  @AlchemyNova3 күн бұрын

  I know this is a masculine channel but i consider myself an unusual female. I am so passionate about this topic 😅 I'll be around. Thanks for showing up as a hero

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  @skull_bonet14 күн бұрын

  I should tell you this, I'm a woman and I hope this content reaches every man on Earth. I would like to suggest you to make or cut out short videos as they have Better reach than longer videos also, young boys mostly tend to scroll.

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  @eddiemartinez133711 күн бұрын

  What’s the point of these?

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  @calin63276 күн бұрын

  Watch the video wtf

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  @ericwolfe66613 күн бұрын

  This is amazing content. You are on the right track.

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  @jaspermbrown13 күн бұрын

  Thanks Eric! Still finding my feet with it.. But plan on doing it for a long time, so It will get better as I become more experienced with the new format. Thanks for your support!

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  @allanblack863514 күн бұрын

  I'm 15 minutes in, and I just can't see this as a masculine focus. Maybe it makes sense later. But 14 minutes in, it's just 3 minutes of cliff notes for therapy and 11 minutes of rhetorical preface. Just therapeutic word salad garble.

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  @ericwolfe66619 күн бұрын

  Amazing content. Thank you.

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  @ericwolfe66621 күн бұрын

  Really grateful to have found this. Really struggling with feeling good enough. Recently someone well-known that I looked up to for years said I was acting beta and it has inspired to re-explore my beliefs around masculinity.

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  @jaspermbrown20 күн бұрын

  Hey man, glad to hear it resonates with you. I'm not a fan of the whole alpha/beta lens personally - I'm curious how you took the feedback from this person you look up to? It's been useful for me to heal my foundations and fill in my developmental gaps. The whole goal is to become integrated and fully functional.

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  @ericwolfe66615 күн бұрын

  @@jaspermbrown It would take me a long time to flesh out my full opinion, but basically coming across his vids 10+ years ago gave me hope as I was struggling with social skills and confidence. But in dealing with someone I pedestalized, calling me beta after all that I've tried to do to unfuck myself, hit somewhere deep. I'm using it as an opportunity to dive into my triggers and consider that maybe I need to course-correct.

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  @sales_coach_ai23 күн бұрын

  I’m currently trying to be aware of and accept my conscious and unconscious trauma- great topic, thank you.

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  @GeminianExplorer24 күн бұрын

  5' 10 ....is ideal tallness in India

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  @ButchersNailsEnjoyer29 күн бұрын

  Dont care, its what they wanted and they got it. They should be in the selective service for all i care

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  @jaspermbrown29 күн бұрын

  You are of course free not to care. Curious what you mean by it’s what they wanted?

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  @Michaelh7629 күн бұрын

  The concepts you're talking about are not difficult. It's the same basic principle of what is pushed culturally: focusing on what we 'should' or 'deserve' to have. Or if we 'talk' about it, magically it becomes better. Anyone with these mindset is going to be enbittered, why wouldn't they? Life isn't fair for everyone. The 'mental health stigma' is a perfect example that can be applied to so many things. We've talked and talked and ironically it's gotten much worse due to everything being relative, fixating on the past and no clear direction. Like of course it's going to be and get worse as it has. We can all hold hands, cry in a circle and pretend to be surprised that life sucks that everyone gets cheated at some point, or we can focus on what we do have which is SO much more than any society in all of human history. And your advice is the generic 'be a better human.' So inspirational. Areligious people really are truly gaslighting Christians with how picture perfect the Western World fits to the Laodicea church.

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  @jaspermbrown29 күн бұрын

  I completely agree that we have so much in comparison to the rest of human history. In fact it’s only from this abundance that we’re actually in a position to care at all about going beyond mere survival. Also true that life isn’t fair, but is it not worth working towards greater fairness and compassion for those not as fortunate as us?

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  @Heyithinkhejust29 күн бұрын

  I don’t see anger I see unending ignorance and a bunch of spoiled brats who have barely ever taken accountability for their actions when it comes to nearly any circumstance. This is comical.

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  @jaspermbrown29 күн бұрын

  I’m sorry to hear this has been your experience so far with the women in your life. I’ve also experienced my fair share of entitlement, arrogance and ignorance in women - which actually offered me a reflection of what I needed to work on within myself.

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  @casepatts932229 күн бұрын

  Oh, women are angry? That's a... too bad.

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  @mickdubya69229 күн бұрын

  Good video Jasper. Love you man.

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  @skull_bonet1Ай бұрын

  Its breath of fresh air to see a healed man speak up about the elephant in the room

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  @jaspermbrownАй бұрын

  Thanks. Not sure i'm 'healed' yet, but certainly working on it. It's a hard issue for most men to look at, especially when their own wounds are still subconscious. I hope to share the path that has helped me develop the empathy and understanding necessary to have these sorts of conversations with women in my life. It has been very healing for both sides.

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  @moffatmoff_tchinyama1164Ай бұрын

  Tried doing the reverse kegels while I was doing sex ..I didn't last long

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  @benh6452Ай бұрын

  "toxic masculinity" this is a controlled descent into chaos my friends

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  @comfysituations3566Ай бұрын

  I'm not going to pretend to be mean spirited for the sake of other people's approval. That's just as bad as pretending to be nice.

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  @jaspermbrownАй бұрын

  That's right. The aim is to be authentic, kind and caring - but not at the expense of your own needs, boundaries and feelings.

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  @jacobmicallef2946Ай бұрын

  It's not about being mean. There is also nothing wrong with being nice. But for many men they have learnt a form of being nice that is unhealthy. They allow themselves to be walked over and what happens is that on the outside they appear nice and happy. On the inside they are miserable because they spend their whole life making sure everyone else is happy at their own expense. It's often easiest to recognize that pattern in others than admit we do it ourselves.

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  @comfysituations3566Ай бұрын

  @@jacobmicallef2946 Some people choose diplomacy and compromise by nature. Going against that is pretending to be mean.

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  @user-jn6jm4bb6fАй бұрын

  "Don't mistake my kindness for weakness. I am kind to everyone, but when someone is unkind to me, weak is not what you are going to remember about me.” ― Al Capone People constantly confuse a nice person with a person who pleases others. The first is a person who is internally strong, and therefore can and allows himself to be nice, pleasant and even sensitive to others, and all this without feeling weak. He sees everyone around him as equal and will never treat others with disrespect, and certainly will not allow anyone to treat him with disrespect. Second one on the other hand, the problem begins with the fact that he feels that he is not worthy or important enough for others to choose his company, and therefore he feels that he must sacrifice everything, including his uniqueness, in order for others to agree that he will remain close to them. He will flatter those who are "above him" (and will accept rude treatment from them) and will be rude to those who are "under him" (and will appreciate flattering treatment on their part). Being nice is not a weakness. The trick is to respect yourself, that is, not to get into situations or involve with people who don't deserve to be in your company in the first place. You must stand behind every word that comes out of your mouth therefore every word that comes out of your mouth must be true and honest. You must make it clear to the man/woman in front of you, where your boundary is, and what will happen if he crosses it, and keep your word.

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  @brendan5419Ай бұрын

  Fantastic video and im only quarter way through. Can identify so well, im a chronic people pleaser, trying to change have started being mindful of this trait.

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  @jaspermbrownАй бұрын

  Thanks for the feedback, glad your finding it valuable! It's a ongoing journey to break free, but awareness is the first step - Then gradually layering skills and stages of development on top of that. Any questions, just let me know 👊

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  @sentiment201Ай бұрын

  @@jaspermbrown What is the evolutionary psychology background of 'nice guy syndrome'?

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  @jaspermbrownАй бұрын

  @@sentiment201 We could see it as a survival strategy adopted in childhood and reinforced over years or decades. It represents a certain stage of development, but it becomes outdated and limits further growth. In order to continue developing ourselves we need to learn how to turn towards conflict, assert our boundaries and become more authentic. This leads towards a sense of self that is more autonomous, more independent and fully formed. Who is able to interact with others in a less transactional way. Does that make sense? Let me know what you think 🙏

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  @dariusthurman8835Ай бұрын

  True Self love comes from positive reinforcement in the critical ages. You need other people to meet your emotional needs of love and friendship.

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  @dariusthurman8835Ай бұрын

  The real problem with Nice Guys is their looks. Women will date horribly abusive men who are good looking.

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  @ciaralee9760Ай бұрын

  I date an ugly abusive man 😂 I don't find abuse attractive I'd much rather be with someone less attractive

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  @jaspermbrownАй бұрын

  Not all 'Nice guys' are good looking. It's about the patterns and coping mechanisms that underpin behavior. There are for example plenty of abusive men who are not attractive by conventional standards right?

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  @Lawfulcitizen76Ай бұрын

  Please…………stop pausing…………so ………..long between……………words

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  @jaspermbrownАй бұрын

  Feel free to play on x1.25 speed ;)

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  @mrdoogle5931Ай бұрын

  I'm a minute in and can't stand the pauses even on 1.5 speed.

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  @entertainer9076Ай бұрын

  @@jaspermbrown don't listen to haters man hahaha. I actually love the pauses, they give me time to reflect on what you're saying and it's giving me space to focus on the emotions and thoughts it arises

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  @jaspermbrownАй бұрын

  @@entertainer9076Hah, thanks! I can’t change it anyway. I’m speaking for an hour and a half so I need to think on the fly and have some intelligent things to say lol - but I’m glad you dig it 🙏

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  @funkymusochickАй бұрын

  I like the pauses. Intelligent people pause when they speak rather than just blurting out a load of useless information.

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  @billking1181Ай бұрын

  Most excellent post Jasper. You've raised some key topics worth exploring more, such as the integration of science and spirituality; remembering that we are all connected- a universal truth; and, in this video, understanding life by seeking to understand death. Bravo!!

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  @jaspermbrownАй бұрын

  Bill, I really appreciate your feedback and i'm glad you found it valuable and insightful. I've got a lot more planned and look forward to building a broad archive of content. Do you have any topics you'd like to see covered?

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  @MDAbuhuraira4Ай бұрын

  Hello sir, Your content is really amazing, but your channel has an SEO problem so, you are not getting more views, likes, comments

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  @GeminianExplorer2 ай бұрын

  Twin flame thing ❌ just wasted my precious time ... I will smack that man who extracted my life force if he dares come in 3D... Just over 3 months of Video & voice calls this happened with me... Ridiculous 😤

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  @Mark-wl3en2 ай бұрын

  One of the best.

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  @MenofHighValue2 ай бұрын

  Fire content, Jasper! 🔥

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  @jaspermbrown2 ай бұрын

  Thanks brother!! Lots more coming!

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  @Therealimmaculate2 ай бұрын

  Great way to introduce yourself, your journey and your gift in a new medium… I know I relate to a lot of your experience in relationship, and it was beautiful to watch you speak through the transformation process of your communication with Natalie. This for me hit home, because it’s the experience I long for with my partner. To be truly seen and to also see her. To feel safe to be my whole self and to also receive her in that way. So thank you for sharing that. I look forward to more episodes brother!

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  @davidcechmtc2 ай бұрын

  Thank you Jasper 🙏

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  @GeminianExplorer2 ай бұрын

  I am gonna recommend. your channel to my future Darling Husband for sure 👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼🤠🤠 I would like to take interview on-- emotional intelligence in men for my YT channel .. If you are interested we can connect through email to schedule date/time along with questionnaire.. 🇮🇳🙏🏼

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  @davidcechmtc3 ай бұрын

  Thank you Jasper 🙏

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  @gmcrealman28903 ай бұрын

  Damn Jasper … those erotic moves just made me ejaculate! Thanks man! Missed seeing you this year.

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  @BrooksMM-cp3px5 ай бұрын

  Yep thanks for this, I tried what I read the other day and it was mind blowing to see her writhing with pleasure and ready for anything. It started when I learned to last at least 30 minutes go’ogling the latest in Greyzar Drinbo's PE Solution and now she just can't have enough

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  @OwenXS5 ай бұрын

  Thanks for the info, I tried what I told you about and it was mind blowing to see her writhing with pleasure and ready for anything. It started when I learned to last at least 30 minutes go’ogling the latest in Greyzar Drinbo's PE Solution and now she just can't have enough

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  @WesleyP-tn3sr6 ай бұрын

  LOL, until recently I hadn't realized that Mario updated his favorite way to tackle ED and it's a relief! Although what he previously suggested was pretty good, it was a real pain to follow... I just go'ogled the latest in Volpstein's Erections at Will, it's so much simpler and potent now!

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  @noouet29867 ай бұрын

  Hi Jasper. Please tell me, in a deep squat, in which ideally we should spend 15-20 minutes, are we just motionless in this position? Or should I swing my hips, as if making circular movements with my pelvis?

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  @KillerESA8 ай бұрын

  Thank you for speaking on the hardships of good normal men trying to navigate a growingly dangerous and sensitive world. Wise words brother

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  @CinemaGuyTy8 ай бұрын

  Tantric Self-Pleasure is a really powerful experience. Tantra is about presence, not about getting to the “destination.” I’m learning more and more to bathe in my own sexual energy, rather than just ejecting it out of me. I love how it feels to be full of my own creative, life giving power.

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  @barrymace31539 ай бұрын

  Hello Jasper, some Questions Does masturbation with out porn play any role at all in your life? Do practice Edging? And woukd you recommend lubricant for masturbation if circumcised when you edge and not ejaculate. Thanks

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  @Markeebee10010 ай бұрын

  Going through this myself. Excellent summary of the necessary changes and subsequent positive outcomes. Thank you for sharing.

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  @stvn.689110 ай бұрын

  Thank you for bringing this to light, I’d love for you to go more in depth with the nature of our feminine vs masculine sides & what roles they play in our journey.

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  @barrymace315310 ай бұрын

  Hi, as a tantric expert, how often do masturbate to orgasm a month? Whst wrks for you? Thanks for the video. Regards B

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  @AZ-ub8xb10 ай бұрын

  1. Become financially independent 2. Stay away from them all, you don't wanna go to jail 3. Hire a surrogate, it's cheaper in the long run.

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  @zinaidanebitno362410 ай бұрын

  Hello Jasper! Firstable I would like to say thank you for all useful informations you shared with us on Instagram and here as well. Will you be able to make podcast or share your experience and tips on how to quit porn addiction?

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  @jaspermbrown10 ай бұрын

  Thanks for your feedback man, I really appreciate it. Yes, i'll create a video in the future about quitting porn as well as a post on my blog about it. I plan on making a podcast in the future, so stay tuned. If there anything else, you'd like to see me make content on?

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  @Grbherbtpusy483 жыл бұрын

  Fun to her is spending money I bet..smh..I would have never let up..

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  @eaglestrikeman1944 жыл бұрын

  hahahaha why is she such a bitch about it? xD put here in a wrc car for rally Finland