Julie Hasselberger

Julie Hasselberger

Welcome to my Adapted Life.

My name is Julie Hasselberger. I am Daniel's Mom, my disabled and medically fragile son. Let's share hope, encouragement, and community. I have passion for learning and building resiliency in a life that has been so significantly altered from how I thought it would be. And that is ok.

Adapting. Changing. Growing. Facing the unknown every day. This is my story, I hope you find encouragement and connection here. I'm developing a life where I can do what my heart feels is my true passion and purpose.

We start each day with new resolve to bring love and light.

Come with me as I push the wheelchair around the twists and turns of life. Welcome to my adapted life.

Thank you for joining me!


WE DID A SAD THING

WE DID A SAD THING

LOVE FROM MY FUR BABIES

LOVE FROM MY FUR BABIES

THE WAR IN MY BRAIN

THE WAR IN MY BRAIN

A  BEAR VISITED ME

A BEAR VISITED ME

UGH, GRIEF IS LONELY

UGH, GRIEF IS LONELY

IT'S HARD TO CARRY

IT'S HARD TO CARRY

A PARENT WHO LOST A SON

A PARENT WHO LOST A SON

TINY RAINBOWS

TINY RAINBOWS

LOOKING BACK IS TOO HARD

LOOKING BACK IS TOO HARD

The After

The After

January 19, 2024

January 19, 2024

TREASURES OF THE MOMENT

TREASURES OF THE MOMENT

A TIME OF CLEARING OUT

A TIME OF CLEARING OUT

A WALK WITH MY HONEY

A WALK WITH MY HONEY

A BABY SHOWER AND A DATE

A BABY SHOWER AND A DATE

WE MADE IT, TOGETHER!

WE MADE IT, TOGETHER!

Living in Alignment

Living in Alignment

THE GENDER REVEAL

THE GENDER REVEAL

BEACH BALL

BEACH BALL

EMERGENCY ROOM VISIT

EMERGENCY ROOM VISIT

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  • @briannamorales6722
    @briannamorales67226 күн бұрын

    Love to you

  • @jhasselberger
    @jhasselbergerСағат бұрын

    Hi Brianna, love to you as well. Happy Sunday morning

  • @briannamorales6722
    @briannamorales672241 минут бұрын

    @@jhasselberger hi Julie and happy Sunday 💌💌💌🫶🏼

  • @briannamorales6722
    @briannamorales67226 күн бұрын

    Love you guys xoxo hugs

  • @briannamorales6722
    @briannamorales67226 күн бұрын

    XOXO 😘

  • @sharondasykes2101
    @sharondasykes21018 күн бұрын

    Hi sorry for your loss

  • @at5756
    @at57569 күн бұрын

    so sorry for your loss of daniel in january 2024. where was daniel memorial service and where was daniel resting place?.

  • @fever_spike
    @fever_spike9 күн бұрын

    ABSOLUTELY LOVE Daniel’s beautiful smile watching Barney-I was smiling right along with him! ♥️♥️♥️

  • @AlyssaHunter-bj1ht
    @AlyssaHunter-bj1ht9 күн бұрын

    I am so sorry Julie. That you felt sad and upset. I’ll make you feel better, you’re happy and smiling, laughing, sweetest, prettiest ever. It’s okay Julie. I’m always here for you. And I will always help you when you’re feeling sad and grief.

  • @morrismcnair9827
    @morrismcnair98279 күн бұрын

    Hi julie

  • @annettepurtle3757
    @annettepurtle37579 күн бұрын

    Someone’s getting little tipsy 😊😅😂 love you guys ❤️ Y

  • @annettepurtle3757
    @annettepurtle37579 күн бұрын

    Love your garden flowers Julie. Those white flowers by your steps are amazing,are they real or fake? They look like stars ⭐️ 😊😍🤗 best of luck on your diet journey, Thinking of you always hunny. Happy birthday Henery 😊🎉🎉🎉

  • @GraceDowWrites
    @GraceDowWrites9 күн бұрын

    There’s no manual that tells you how to grieve. If all you do is get through the day, that’s enough. Your flowers are beautiful. I think of all of you daily.

  • @CarlieMaria28
    @CarlieMaria2810 күн бұрын

    why didn't theo move to california with Sarah? Wasn't he meant to be her cat.

  • @jhasselberger
    @jhasselberger10 күн бұрын

    We decided to keep him here, where he has been his whole life. It was too hard for Sarah being in law school. I’m glad he’s still here

  • @GraceDowWrites
    @GraceDowWrites10 күн бұрын

    I’m thinking of you! I can’t imagine how hard it was to sell Daniel’s wheelchair van. I remember how excited Daniel was when you bought it. May it bring you comfort that the new owners will find joy in their new van. I continue to think of all of you every day.

  • @jhasselberger
    @jhasselberger10 күн бұрын

    Thank you so much. I met the young lady who they needed the van for. She is 14 years year old, has cerebral palsy, and the sweetest special girl. I was glad to know how excited she was for her new van. But still very hard. 😢

  • @GraceDowWrites
    @GraceDowWrites10 күн бұрын

    @@jhasselbergerA bittersweet moment I am sure. I’m thinking of you.

  • @nicholas4078
    @nicholas407811 күн бұрын

    My dad was born on Feb 4 1963, that's pretty cool, y'all should play the pick 4 everyday, 2437

  • @tiarasarjeant5649
    @tiarasarjeant564911 күн бұрын

    I really wish Daniel was still here with us... the reason why I started watching your videos because I have special needs too plus I do have friends in wheelchairs so I can relate. I wish I can hug you even though I live in Massachusetts I'm actually 30 minutes from Boston depends on traffic. Daniel is forever in our hearts ❤❤❤

  • @annettepurtle3757
    @annettepurtle375711 күн бұрын

    Oh my babies use to do that as well! 😊😻I think Henery need a haircut,especially around his face.😊it’s great to see you and John doing things together! 😊 going out to eat and shopping . That’s what my husband and I do. Love and hugs 🥰🤗😍🌷🌻🌹🌼🌸

  • @jhasselberger
    @jhasselberger11 күн бұрын

    Awe. thanks... Henry and Holly go to the groomer every 6 weeks, this time of year their hair grows so FAST.... my little cuties

  • @annettepurtle3757
    @annettepurtle375711 күн бұрын

    Oh my babies use to do that as well! 😊😻

  • @fever_spike
    @fever_spike11 күн бұрын

    Daniel’s laugh is EVERYTHING. ♥️♥️♥️😊

  • @cmmconstrictors5971
    @cmmconstrictors597111 күн бұрын

    Sorry for your loss 😢 🙏🏻

  • @adriennesielaff8047
    @adriennesielaff804713 күн бұрын

    Rest in Peace Daniel

  • @mirandasmith8842
    @mirandasmith884215 күн бұрын

    Julie, your story, which is Daniel's too, is such a powerful one. It is a journey of strength, resilence and perseverance. My mantra when I was grieving was: "don't get lost in the loss"

  • @fever_spike
    @fever_spike16 күн бұрын

    LOVE Daniel’s smiles and pure joy watching The Lion King! ♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️

  • @EmilysLifeOnWheels
    @EmilysLifeOnWheels17 күн бұрын

    That Dog party was so cute ❤ thanks for sharing

  • @EmilysLifeOnWheels
    @EmilysLifeOnWheels17 күн бұрын

    We’ve had so much rain lately

  • @abbyrundle5574
    @abbyrundle557418 күн бұрын

    I just want my friends to be happy 😊 I wish we could have more people like you who are happy 😊 we can all be friends with other peoples best friend and friends too so it’s not a hard decision and ❤❤❤it’s just the right decision and I hope 🤞 your life goes

  • @abbyrundle5574
    @abbyrundle557418 күн бұрын

    !!!)??❤😂😂😂😂

  • @abbyrundle5574
    @abbyrundle557418 күн бұрын

    The ii was just a joke 😂

  • @abbyrundle5574
    @abbyrundle557418 күн бұрын

    This one’s for you and the irresponsible ones who think 💭 this way and the other will not be punished 😊its just not a bad look

  • @abbyrundle5574
    @abbyrundle557418 күн бұрын

    The new otter was the first animal I ever had that would

  • @abbyrundle5574
    @abbyrundle557418 күн бұрын

    This June and I have had we in our wedding 😊

  • @abbyrundle5574
    @abbyrundle557418 күн бұрын

    The incident was reported in an area of northwest ❤❤itself where a man 👨 who tried to flee his family fled 😂it’s not the worst case situation for that but you can tell that this happened because you have the ability not a good reason not have any other person to get shot at and it’s all about you know that is a good reason and you have been doing the wrong

  • @abbyrundle5574
    @abbyrundle557418 күн бұрын

    This is a weird question but I think 🧐 you can find a good 😌 and you don’t want it being the other person who has it too so don’t feel pressured lol 😜 it’s the only one that has the ability so you just need some more knowledge about it lol 😝 🎉it’ll make you a lot of sense and you’ll be happy 😆 but you don’t need a degree in life just like that you need some more time lol 😜 lol 😝 and thanks 🤩 I hope you ❤❤❤😂I’m not crazy but it’s funny 🤣 so you have good 😊

  • @abbyrundle5574
    @abbyrundle557418 күн бұрын

    ❤😢

  • @Catfluff521
    @Catfluff52118 күн бұрын

    How old is Theo? He’s still going strong.

  • @xboxonepro5199
    @xboxonepro519918 күн бұрын

    It’s OK to cry and feel down Daniels with you all the time and the feeling it’s heavy feeling sad that’s when your son is there than most Just remember your sons out of pain and he’s in a better place. He’s not suffering anymore look at the positive just keep up the good work before you know it time will be flying by. Keep up the positive outlook and keep being happy. I know it’s hard but it’s gonna get easier.

  • @annettepurtle3757
    @annettepurtle375718 күн бұрын

    Can I tell you Julie you look so pretty today.i love your makeup you have on. Just get out more and have fun, maybe take art classes, visit Sarah a little more. Let your grand baby be around you,do things with them. Go to the Cape with John good memories 😊🥰🤗🌸🌼🌹🌻🌷

  • @Catfluff521
    @Catfluff52118 күн бұрын

    She signed up for art class, journals, works on house, exercises, goes to therapy, date night with John, lunch date with friends, pampering, planned trip to CA, vlogs, cares for animals, keeps up with Dr. appointments. She’s literally doing everything she can to navigare grief; so proud of her. And inspired!!!!

  • @annettepurtle3757
    @annettepurtle375718 күн бұрын

    Hi Julie, I love all your fur babies but I’m more partial to Theo hes beautiful 🤩 my fur babies passed on this summer,they were 23. I pray things get better for you hunny. Love and hugs 🥰🤗🤗🤗🤗😻

  • @diannaswenson7553
    @diannaswenson755319 күн бұрын

    As I listen to you, I hurt and also hope. Thank you for continuing the journey with your vlogs

  • @annettepurtle3757
    @annettepurtle375719 күн бұрын

    I’m sure Sarah’s wedding will be beautiful 🤩. I hope and pray one day hunny that you can wake up with a smile.😊 I think it’s a wonderful idea for you and John take a little vacation , god bless you both ,😀❤️🤗🤗🤗🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼

  • @EmilysLifeOnWheels
    @EmilysLifeOnWheels19 күн бұрын

    Sarah will make a beautiful Bride 🤍🤍🤍

  • @EmilysLifeOnWheels
    @EmilysLifeOnWheels19 күн бұрын

    Julie . You have shared such beautiful writings about grief . Just life in general!! I would love for you to write a book some day !! ❤

  • @GraceDowWrites
    @GraceDowWrites19 күн бұрын

    I’m thinking of you! Daniel is always with you, and won’t be forgotten. He touched so many lives. There’s no right way to grieve loss. Take it a minute at a time if need be, and allow yourself to feel any emotion as it comes. I wish you, John, Sarah, and Thomas continued peace and comfort.

  • @abbyrundle5574
    @abbyrundle557419 күн бұрын

    This or this will happen and the next day will be the best of both worlds

  • @abbyrundle5574
    @abbyrundle557420 күн бұрын

    This one ☝️ I

  • @abbyrundle5574
    @abbyrundle557420 күн бұрын

    This other guy has no erecting a fence 😢

  • @abbyrundle5574
    @abbyrundle557420 күн бұрын

    The incident occurred when the Police ❤

  • @abbyrundle5574
    @abbyrundle557420 күн бұрын

    This its a good 🎊 birthday 🎉❤🎉

  • @carriebowlen3785
    @carriebowlen378521 күн бұрын

    𝕊𝕠 𝕤𝕠𝕣𝕣𝕪 𝕤𝕥𝕚𝕝𝕝 𝕁𝕦𝕝𝕚𝕖! 𝕊𝕠 𝕚 𝕒𝕞 𝕝𝕒𝕥𝕖! ❤

  • @carriebowlen3785
    @carriebowlen378521 күн бұрын

    𝕊𝕠𝕣𝕣𝕪 𝕚 𝕒𝕞 𝕤𝕠 𝕝𝕒𝕥𝕖!