Danny Vera

Danny Vera

All things self-improvement: fitness, fashion, mindset, dating, money etc.

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  • @cdorman11
    @cdorman112 сағат бұрын

    4:30 A fun party game is to say in a loud voice, "The trouble with women is they take everything personally," and see how many say, "Well, _I_ don't." I'm batting 1.000 so far.

  • @CodyWright-pq3eq
    @CodyWright-pq3eq5 сағат бұрын

    If a woman flakes she's failed my test. And continuing to court her unflustered after she's flaked you aren't passing a test. You're sending a message that your time isn't valuable and you're willing to be a sucker. She'll do it more often.

  • @Mohdzn
    @Mohdzn6 сағат бұрын

    4:00 a girl actually said the exact same thing to me Danny 😂 in the past would you make a video about what kind of responses to have in that situation? personally i ignored her as if she didn't even say that to me. I looked unbothered. would appreciate your response. just found your channel today, subscribing. GEM

  • @Mohdzn
    @Mohdzn6 сағат бұрын

    hey, whats the background track that you use?

  • @neeraj2878
    @neeraj28787 сағат бұрын

    Great advice bro !! I really like your content.

  • @allen5323
    @allen53238 сағат бұрын

    Why is it always men are the ones lacking communication. Women need to be held accountable as well. We as men are not here trying to sell ourselves to win over a girls heart.

  • @huntsman1771
    @huntsman17718 сағат бұрын

    We men in the know call this shit testing. When we see them testing us we will deliberately fail the test just to get a reaction out of the woman testing us . Try it guys it's hilarious to watch them blow a fuse over nothing.

  • @travryger635
    @travryger6358 сағат бұрын

    9:00 “women only respect strength” standard terrorist behavior 😅

  • @KevinNYC1021
    @KevinNYC10219 сағат бұрын

    Excellent advice! Especially the part were "stop dressing like a child, flip flops, logo's etc"...

  • @BrotherJonathan444
    @BrotherJonathan44411 сағат бұрын

    Just came across this page. Great content, and it's awesome to see someone implementing their gifts to help others.

  • @Met9171
    @Met917112 сағат бұрын

    What?

  • @gabrielroux9269
    @gabrielroux926912 сағат бұрын

    Needed this shit… thanks.

  • @francius3103
    @francius310313 сағат бұрын

    1. Girls have a leaderboard with the guys they have dated. You will always be compared to the first one. 2. You need to not care about her past and bodycount. 3. Do not believe everything she says about her type or about what she has o hasnt done or what she would or not do in hypothetical situations. 4. When women say something it is usually true for them in the moment but it can change as fast as her feelings do. A girl that wants to go put with you in monday may not want to go out with you in friday. 5. If a girl doesnt respond fast or says she needs time for herself, she is just not interested in you. But they are not confrontational so they wont say it straight up.

  • @superman3421565
    @superman342156514 сағат бұрын

    Incredible video. I learned a lot. Thank you.

  • @maigematthews5620
    @maigematthews562014 сағат бұрын

    How do we book a consultation with you? And do you have services whereas you would do a talk in New York City?

  • @jonb8633
    @jonb863316 сағат бұрын

    Don't hunt for women till you are happy, comfortable by yourself alone. This is very important. The exception is if the woman you are dealing with is not your dime. Is good to practice with low tier ones till you are ready for the big game

  • @allen5323
    @allen532320 сағат бұрын

    What I hate the most is when a girl would completely change their demeanor when taking to me compared to someone else.

  • @ZukeDavis
    @ZukeDavis21 сағат бұрын

    How are you this smart, I thought I was the weird one with these concepts and ideals that nobody would even comprehend

  • @ZukeDavis
    @ZukeDavis22 сағат бұрын

    Dude I literally tell guys all the time, the attempt is the win, and you following through no matter what the next step is, is the win. Guys think the win is only sex, not the fact you had courage to speak, set up a date, show up on the date, go through with it, escalate, make a move, and lead it to the bedroom, that “one win” just became 50 wins with a simple perspective change

  • @ZukeDavis
    @ZukeDavis22 сағат бұрын

    I like this guy

  • @nerychristian
    @nerychristian22 сағат бұрын

    This is why, throughout most of human history, marriages were arranged by parents. People knew even back then, that young women are stupid and can't be trusted to make important decisions about their lives. All these games are ridiculous. It's just not worth it anymore. Women have too much power now. There are dozens of men competing for the attention of an average woman. A woman who isn't even a virgin, or who isn't feminine or wants children.

  • @anonrubio
    @anonrubio23 сағат бұрын

    Hilarious timing. There’s two bars by my house. One is classy and the other is rougher. The classy bar has attractive well to do people and I get little resistance from women there. But the rougher bar I get absolutely no where with women. The cute women at the rougher bar date drunk brokeys (it’s life) and won’t give me the time of day. This was driving me kinda nuts bc people want what they can’t have but now I know their defense saved me a lot of headaches.

  • @j-metalbesonator804
    @j-metalbesonator804Күн бұрын

    I'm the sort of guy who could make 50 good moves with a woman then after one mistake, she will distance herself from me and never look back.

  • @basilal-qaneh5998
    @basilal-qaneh5998Күн бұрын

    Literally my experience. Great insight

  • @marklanders6833
    @marklanders6833Күн бұрын

    The story of my life. Women would either go psycho on me, or if I rejected them they would explode in madness or other guys would talk shit behind my back, invent stories or even come on to me gay guys would harass me or develop fixations on me the girls I was interested in would be totally ignoring me or even putting me down I would be misjudged before people even spoke to me I would be objectified in certain scenarios girls with boyfriends would use me and/or come on to me to make their partner jealous (thus creating conflicts I did not cause at all) I would be hated by some and weirdly idolized by others women would want to be seen in public with me people would too often totally misread me as they would be under the impression that I was into them when I would just be talking to them folks would be suddenly be flashing me and/or grope me strangers would offer to pay me to have sex with them and their wives some would become unhealthily possessive of me and I could go on and on and on........ My best buddy is a chubby, unattractive, non-competitive amazing guy who's got my back. No issues, no jealousy at all. At the gym some guys above average can give out some hateful energy while others seem so intimidated to the point of having some weird sort of admiration from a safe distance. Weird. Just always been weird.

  • @jonnyson3524
    @jonnyson3524Күн бұрын

    anyone who has experienced this lets be friends

  • @jonnyson3524
    @jonnyson3524Күн бұрын

    life is fucking fun after I watched this video

  • @Linknelson
    @LinknelsonКүн бұрын

    Especially when you don’t socialize, it can be looked bad too. Spot on with the loan wolf / logical mind set. Esp at work lol, it’s like HS all over again, I’m not there to socialize. For me, I am there to do my job and get to the rest of my day, which can be frowned upon if you’re not apart of the work click.

  • @SmartyPantsDumbShit
    @SmartyPantsDumbShitКүн бұрын

    “WHY DO GUYS PLAY GAMES!” *Most guys just wanting someone cute to watch movies with.* Meanwhile, women:

  • @zaidendubbel7521
    @zaidendubbel7521Күн бұрын

    Danny "this kind of reminds me of Jujutsu" Vera

  • @brianhaab8109
    @brianhaab8109Күн бұрын

    I was in a coma so I have trouble speaking so I’m very soft spoken and monotone nothing i can do

  • @zaidendubbel7521
    @zaidendubbel7521Күн бұрын

    Amazing videos/content just not much of it, perosnally I came for the dating content but all of it is extremely valuable and high quality, thank you!

  • @calvinfatman7918
    @calvinfatman7918Күн бұрын

    4:43 "....gives your skin a nice soft renewed look to it" Upward inflection at end.

  • @rayallen9195
    @rayallen9195Күн бұрын

    chicks hate V necks, thanks for the horrible advice!

  • @sandramaracle-harder2891
    @sandramaracle-harder2891Күн бұрын

    The no contact is hard. I used to call my neighbors granddaughter my grandneighbor. 8 years I watched and helped her grow. Now poof a disagreement over another grandneighbor and I have no contact, but she lives nextdoor. Very hard to get over. Any advice will help!

  • @kkibbsy4330
    @kkibbsy4330Күн бұрын

    11:22 fax and you can tell you just can’t nun cause you can’t prove it😂😂😂

  • @stephenpichurski5985
    @stephenpichurski5985Күн бұрын

    Gentlemen, never forget that this goes both ways.

  • @Meeeeeeeee377
    @Meeeeeeeee377Күн бұрын

    my ex got married during 10 months of no contact

  • @mikegoodwin5951
    @mikegoodwin5951Күн бұрын

    As a handsome guy I find this video strange. I benefit from my looks constantly. Men want to befriend me , women want to date me. I honestly don’t get this video. I was also the most popular person in my year in high school. Are good looking guys really complaining about being good looking ? Wtf

  • @ModelJames13
    @ModelJames1348 минут бұрын

    It's of great benefit in your teens/20's. But once you get into your 30's women will mistreat you badly and you won't be making any new friends either. 😎

  • @kewitangold
    @kewitangoldКүн бұрын

    You missed one, my guy: Self-proclaimed lesbians flip the script for you.

  • @Geolas88
    @Geolas88Күн бұрын

    Honestly there's a lot of influencers out there who pretend like they can offer you this one stop shop tip to make it all make sense but I think this guy is probably one of the realest ones for not doing that. You're straight to the point, you're honest and you also realise that it's a process, that sometimes it may even be wise to look into therapy to actually get comfortable in your own skin. You offer solid advice and you're solid all around. Keep up the good work man, you really giving some good perspective.

  • @petrfilinger9205
    @petrfilinger9205Күн бұрын

    Regression therapy is great. All that pain of from that little boy not getting enough love and attention from his mum and afraid he will lose her and die. That can be healed and then breakups are more factual and little unpleasant instead of crushing. Heal those parts in you

  • @westa1762
    @westa1762Күн бұрын

    No

  • @produb_sa
    @produb_saКүн бұрын

    People look at you from top to bottom

  • @produb_sa
    @produb_saКүн бұрын

    Notice other men trying to get competitive with you.

  • @scotthunt3860
    @scotthunt3860Күн бұрын

    Just 5 ?! Normally it’s 500 ! I could give you 20 reasons to stay away from them too !

  • @produb_sa
    @produb_saКүн бұрын

    I went to a grocery store day, and asked one of the cashier if should would be interested to go out on an eat out with me, she replied by saying she isn't on my class, I should date up.

  • @luisguerra6815
    @luisguerra68152 күн бұрын

    This is a very interesting topic of which I had no idea was an issue. I don’t dare call myself handsome because for most of my life, 12-25, I struggled with self confidence. I grew up with really bad cystic acne that ruined my confidence during middle and high school. Then, my early college days I had no rizz whatsoever. I would approach a girl that I found interesting and they would chuckle and roll their eyes at my pathetic attempt to introduce myself. That shattered what little confidence I had and so I stopped trying to date or befriend girls altogether. A few years went by where I just didn’t meet single women because I work in an environment with mostly men and my hobbies are mostly introverted activities. Then one day I decided to travel solo for the first time and that was the first time I realized something was off. I took a trip to Miami without even the intention to meet girls. I was just there to explore and check out the Everglades. Well, everyday that I was there I got hit on by extremely gorgeous women who were also there on vacation. I had no idea how to handle that kind of attention and I still don’t today. The attention was flattering but tbh, I hate it. I hate that all it took for me to feel seen was for my looks to change- the most shallow thing possible. I’m still the same person nothing else has changed other than maybe more self confidence. The worst is when girls started treating me like some asshole because I don’t really try talking to them or flirt as is expected of a stereotypical handsome guy. Funny thing is I’m the same shy awkward guy that I’ve always been but nobody gave a shit then because I was unattractive but now I’m seen as a conceded asshol. I now see why my male cousins always throw little hurtful comments toward me whenever they bring their girls to family events. It makes sense now. Thanks for bringing this topic to my attention. I needed this.

  • @MrGirthzilla
    @MrGirthzilla2 күн бұрын

    So what you're saying here really is it's not worth the time or effort in people who play silly games. I think I'm just rather going to play video games and enjoy myself rather than having to deal with people who constantly test. All this testing and putting on acts shows insecurities in people.