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He is not a bad person but just stupid who doesn't know how to talk with women. He didn't get the actual meaning of the question😂
It's her own fault. You NEVER ask a question like that unless you're getting ready to break up. She sabotaged the relationship. What did she expect from him after asking that question?!? Dumb girl!!!
I get it because someone can be prettier by looks but doesn’t mean that the other is less pretty they’re just pretty in different ways but on the other hand your job is supposed to be her man why are you tearing down your girl for another woman bestie or not if I was her I’d be gone so fast because frankly that’s super toxic and ik that he’d never have my back fully because he’d be worrying about the other females feelings more then mine
"adult entertainment workers" is the most reddit way of saying "whores" 💀🤣
Nah sorry I can’t side with either. First of all if I love someone I see only them as attractive. I mean I don’t deny good features on a persons looks but I personally don’t look at the appearance as much and more on who they are and how they make me feel ect. On the other hand I do understand some people have different ways they decide to live and see things, and that people can love someone and find others more attractive ig.. But ultimately I just don’t agree with either of them because how is he going to say “I did have a crush on her before” “She was always there for me at my worst” “She and I agreed to be just friends” (meaning SHE rejected his feelings and said to just be friends and he just went along) And the fact that he said she was more active just ADDS to that I honestly appreciate the friend tho for being mad at her friend for bringing that up as if he wasn’t at all in the wrong, not that he was wrong but dude needs to be sensitive and understand. Maybe try “I mean she does have nice features but I love you, You’re the person for me and your personality and spirit just makes me feel at home” something to reassure her that you do love her or something if you did Fr just not really thinking of the fact he fr does love his GBF
Ik most people would disagree with what I think and that’s fine but in the end those are cold hard facts and honestly maybe he’s been making her feel like she has to ask that, maybe he stares at his friend Too much or maybe he texts her too much when they’re supposed to be having their own time, or maybe he just constantly talks about her and shows signs he might be cheating (emotionally or physically) or that He likes her and isn’t really hiding it well. He isn’t giving enough details about her POV or beforehand what happened and it kinda doesn’t seem like the whole story 0:22 0:29 0:33 1:03 (gave these facts) The Best friend fr seems to be a good person but doesn’t give any possible reason as to why she asked other than telling us her appearance.
Also sorry that’s a lot, I got a bit carried away and most likely repeated myself a few times. Really tired haha
She literally asked for it. What the fuck is the problem 😂
It was sad indeed 😢
Sounds like a made up story tbh
UPDATE: I was able to talk to her. She apparently told other people about the situation, and everyone (including her own mother) sides with me. She shouldn't have been asking me questions like that when the answer was obvious. She apologized for even asking that question in the first place. To everyone saying I should have broken up with her, we're good. I'm feeling very betrayed by my best friend instead because it's clear whose side she took (she's the only one who took my gf's side). Most of the people we know are also upset at her. These are people who actually know us and the relationship. Yall see how he feels “betrayed”
she shouldnt have been so paranoid and asked, but, in this situation, ESH: the gf shouldnt have let her paranoia give her intrusive thoughts and the op shouldve worded his response better. as he said in the post, he claims he loves his gf, not his bff or other girls, HER. he shouldve said, yes, his bff may have a better figure, BUT he doesnt love his bff, he loves his gf and give her a list as to why he loves and chose her over every other girl he came across. just stating outright that, yea, his girl best friend is obviously prettier than her and potentially not saying much else is going to eff up her no doubt already low self-esteem. the gf's family and friends are pretty sh*t too. the only sane, good one in this story is the bff who gave op a rightful slap for being so stupid
if your self conscience you wouldnt like your partner to tell you that you look less as good as someone
@addison.m7 ofc not, but the fact of the matter is hes w/ HER. the op is definitely an idiotic AH for just stating point-blank "Uh, yea, obviously my bff is prettier than you", but shes also the idiotic AH for letting her insecurities control her like that. if shes that worried, clearly she doesnt feel secure and loved in this relationship, so she should just leave instead of questioning her bf every time "Do you love me still??? I'm pretty right??? You'll always stay w/ me right???" i myself have insecurities sometimes, but i'd either talk it out w/ my bf in a healthy manner or just ignore those nasty thoughts entirely. i once had an ex like this too and it gets annoying real fast. no matter how much i reassured him i love him for who he was, and promised i wouldnt leave him nor cheat on him (yes, hed go so far as to question my integrity and loyalty), it was never enough. i never said or did anything for him to believe i was lying. i was always kind and loving, texting him whenever we were apart, dropped everything to comfort him if something came up, met up w/ him for dates, would go to his house and relax w/ his family, and always willing for intimacy. i loved HIM and, hell, he was my first, but it was never enough. hes a great, smart guy, but his constant insecurities and questionings gradually pushed me away. i broke up w/ him, telling the half-truth i wanted to focus on college because my grades were slipping because i was afraid of how hed react if i told him the whole truth. despite us discussing this once before, if i did decide to leave over education, he said 100% support my decision and help me in any way he could, he suddenly 180'd and started hard accusing me of lying and using him from the start, saying i never actually cared or loved him. i was willing to remain friends, maybe even pick our relationship back up one day, but after that? no. we both cut each other off and blocked each other. maybe he was just lashing out from the heartbreak and didnt mean what he said, idk and idc. bottom line is, just as w/ me, the gf needs to just trust and accept that her bf loves her as is or she'll end up losing him because, depending on how he is as a person, he might start getting frustrated and breaking it off like i did. and if he, unlike me, TELLS her the reason why theyre breaking up is because of her insecurities then she'd REALLY start spiraling and just getting more insecure, unless by some miracle she takes it to heart and begins working on herself to fix her insecurity and finds a way to love herself more
@@Mariewolf_94 but she didnt do anything bad she just asked and they werent even arguing if your boyfriend told you his friend was prettier you would be hurt to bc thats not something you would like to hear also in the video he stated that he and her did like each other at once but said it was best to stay friends
@@Mariewolf_94 but i am also a very jealous person and she could also be but we are different people just bc you wouldn't be hurt by it she was and i would be to that's why i said if my boyfriend said that to me i would break up with him you don't have to come after me bc of it that's how i feel i never said you would break up with your boyfriend i said i would so don't start saying stuff bc you disagree with me i said my opinion not yours so you don't have to be so mad about what i say if it dose not affect you you could have read the comment and then went on with your life but you were so affected by a strangers opinion that you had to reply it dose not matter what i think about it i am a stranger i said how i would deal with it i didn't ask how you would deal with it i said how i would deal with it so don't get mad at me for just saying my opinion get mad at yourself for being upset by it bc i am a stranger so don't get mad at me for saying how i feel if you don't know me
@addison.m7 i'm not mad at you, nor the gf in the Reddit post, for having some self-esteem issues and/or jealousy problems, there could be many reasons for both reactions to a relationship...so i'm sorry if thats how it came off. it's just, from my pov, i'm just saying after awhile it can get annoying, so clearly something's gotta give eventually. either they need to split, or she has to just embrace the op loves her and only her. op has said multiple times he loves her and praised and coddled her, and shes still having low self-esteem. this clearly means shes either a) not ready for a relationship, and/or b) op is not a good fit for her. i also said op was an ass for what he said too, he should have not said what he said ofc
It’s not even about who’s more attractive. It’s evident that OP still has feelings for his “girl best friend.” He’s a f*cking idiot & the gf needs to leave him cause tf. However, the gf’s just as dumb for staying with him.
bro if my boyfriend told me his girl bestie was prettier i would break up with him like if she looks so much better be with her
Looks aren't everything though, you'd do well to remember that. If you ended up getting burnt one day would you expect him to break up with you because you no longer looked as pretty? By your train of thought he probably should.
@@kieranboulton3953it’s not even just about looks. He literally admitted he had feelings for his “girl best friend,” & it’s pretty evident he still does.
So you better get sweet lies people like you are the reason land whales think they are plus size models 😂😂😂
@@kieranboulton3953 i would never look at my guy bestfriend in that way no matter what even if he was i wouldnt think about it bc im not looking at other guys like he is much more fit or what ever bc i dont think you should look at other people with thoughs type of thoughts if you are taken but that is just me
@@kieranboulton3953 and also if your self conscience you wouldnt like your partner to tell you that you look less as good as someone
Sounds like an autist.
What an idiot, omg. Who's more attractive TO YOU. If you love someone wouldn't it make them ultimately more attractive than anyone else in your eyes? That's literally the person you supposedly love, hello.
Girl bye 😭 Breakup
"You're too stupid to exist!!"
Aaaaaaaaand fake
If good looks could kill, you'd overpopulate the earth. Call em ugly and stupid at the same time
PLEASE make a list of these in the comments. i need these.
Don’t raise kids in situations like this…
Fabricated and curvy.
Yeah
You are living proof that the human gene pool has a shallow end.
Here's mine "Tens of thousands of years of evolution, and we end up with you. "
Please don't be real
I hope your next pizza is smashed and cold.
*Nta If it's not His child It's not His Responsibility!*
I really don't understand why women are so strongly against paternity tests. We live in a world where everyone sleeps with freaking everyone anymore! There is nothing wrong with a man knowing for certain that the child is his. We will never know that anxiety and stress! That is one of the few things that can truly break a man when he finds out the child is not His. Women are being flat out insensitive to that fact.
Paternity tests should be standard procedure after birth. So much fraud out there
If youre gonna have an open relationship youve gotta be ready for what comes with it. This is what comes with it.
How are is he gonna raise a kid without spending money on it like....? Does he realize raising means like, feeding and clothing and investing in hobbies and interests and school supplies and college funds???
Well yeah, but their marriage is a sham, and when it breaks he shouldn't be stuck paying child support for another man's bastard spawn.
I think he mean being obligated to pay child support if they split. Father or not he is legally has to if his name is on the birth certificate
I also think he is looking to whoever made the child with her so he can pay child support.
What he should do is to go out and try to find a real relationship with a good woman who could actually be his wife. Because this "DNM"-crap or whatever ain't it. What he especially shouldn't do is to raise this lady's bastard spawn that she had from sleeping around while calling herself his wife. Gross.
Yta not because it was a bad joke, but because it wasn't a joke. "Four years is a long time" ?? Yes it is, It's a long time to waste on someone who will only stay if you change
He's not crappy, he's not the a-hole. They both have an agreement and as such there is a high probability that the child isn't his. He said that he will help raise the baby but isn't going to provide child support. That is a privilege going to the idiot who didn't use a condom, regardless of what the girl wants. Either glove up or pay the consequences, as simple as that 😊
they both sound fucking crazy and irresponsible and if it was true a kid being born into that is a travesty
Honestly i think hes crappy. He wants to be promiscuous and is fine with her doing the same, then gets bent out of shape about a baby? Whats the point of being even moderately exclusive at that point? Why not just be promiscuous if it bothers you? I know theres a bird species that mates for life, yet both partners mate with other pairs. No matter what, the mated pair raises whatever they hatch. The perks are genetic diversity, and a 2 parent system for the chicks. It just seems like he hasnt thought through or cared to turn on his brain about the reality of his lifestyle. They never talked about this? Both of you are everywhere anyways, why does it MATTER? WHY are you with a partner at all? Isnt the point to have relationship security with physical "freedom", and now he wants it both ways? Hes the AH
Personally I feel that a paternity test, if it is needed or not, should have been discussed before the relationship turned into as an open relationship. I think as long as both partners agree to raise any children no matter where they come from, that's one thing but if it was never discussed they should sit down like reasonable people and talk about it. I feel he has the right to know regardless, and she needs to be able to know who it is as well. If it is someone else, they might like to know that they have a progeny. Though I think both of them are assholes. This should have been talked about much earlier.
He said that he was going to raise the child either way, no matter if the child was his or not, he just said that if he wasn't the father then he wouldn't pay child support, but he would still raise the child.
@@katlaschonhult1612 I know he said that, but... Feggen _gross_ though, right? Raising another man's child that that woman conceived while calling herself his wife. I don't even know what "DNM" stands for, and I don't want to know. If they're both sleeping around, then it's just a sham marriage, no matter what you call it.
Honestly i think hes crappy. He wants to be promiscuous and is fine with her doing the same, then gets bent out of shape about a baby? Whats the point of being even moderately exclusive at that point? Why not just be promiscuous if it bothers you? I know theres a bird species that mates for life, yet both partners mate with other pairs. No matter what, the mated pair raises whatever they hatch. The perks are genetic diversity, and a 2 parent system for the chicks. It just seems like he hasnt thought through or cared to turn on his brain about the reality of his lifestyle. They never talked about this? Both of you are everywhere anyways, why does it MATTER? WHY are you with a partner at all? Isnt the point to have relationship security with physical "freedom", and now he wants it both ways? Hes the AH
That's a good point, surely before embarking on this lifestyle they should have discussed this possibility?
I mean what did either of them expect. Either be in a proper relationship to havea baby and raise it or have the eggs removed or have Visectomy and be as promiscuous as possible. Seriously how many of you would like for your mother or father to have a body count in 100s?? Or your daughter or Son to have body count in 100s or 1000s??
It matters because he doesn't want to be LEGALLY responsible for the child if it's not his. How is that so hard to wrap your brain around?!
If you are the father, then a paternity test shouldn't be an issue. Yes, asking implies you don't trust her, but that is something that can be talked through
If they are sleeping with other people which they are then the paternity test is just a logical step before signing anything.
Trusting that he's the father would be fine in a monogamous relationship, but they are actively sleeping with other people. It's plain common sense to check who the father is, since the birth control could have failed at any time. The fact that she doesn't want to seems shady.
But he shouldn't trust her. She sleeps with other men, and he with other women. She's not a wife, he's not a husband, their marriage is a sham, and he should get out and try to find a real relationship before he gets saddled with some other man's bastard spawn.
Oof tough situation but tbh both NTA and YTA, YTA for joking about something as serious as divorce but also NTA for considering the divorce over her son, shes enabling him and is actively messing up his future, OP has a point that if something happens to them and thier wife the kid is screwed, OP provides 80% of everything to support peter living off them forever isn't good in anylight and OP is justified in saying that divorce would probably happen if peter hasn't gotton a job by 30
YTA Divorce is not a subject to even halfway joke about. You just made it 100% serious, not 50/50 like you thought.
Of course (also first)
this HAS to be bait
Its your fucking fault buddy
dawg what the fuck
around 1/10 marriages are between cousins, you'll be fine.
How many lives does conservative Christianity have to take in this country before the moderates wake up?
I've seen just as many people suffer and die under the progressive ideology and mantras as I have with fundamentalist Conservatives.
@@BlackCrossCrusader In this century? Do tell.
ban christianity lol why does it tell women to shut up and be quiet to men
>Conservative Christianity Yes, because Islam, Judaism and several sects of Hinduism aren't the exact same. In other words, virtually all of the worlds belief systems. Does that make it right? No. Not at all, it's awful. But try to make your personal hate boner for Christianity a little less obvious my 8th grade friend and maybe take a look at the stance of world religions across the board and realize it's not a Christian thing, it's a theocratic thing. I don't back the Christian stance either btw, I just find Westerners funny who target Christianity for doing what virtually the entire religious world does, because you'd likely be way too scared to say such a thing to a follower of Islam.
The moderates already accept gay people. If you're asking moderated to storm into people's houses and families, it might be an impossible task by definition.
thats why you never drink alcohol or get drunk it has no benefit whatsoever
What the hell
idk what's worse, the fact that someone willingly put this on the internet or the fact that it's probably a lie and is just some weird fetish shit some guy put on the internet
Definitly made up. The TLDR is "I got SA by my cousin and she got pregnant" Definitly some neck beard fantasy.
redditor try not to lie challenge: impossible