Homeschool Teaching Simplified with Natalie Burns
Homeschool Teaching Simplified with Natalie Burns
Welcome! As a certified teacher turned homeschooling mom myself, I’m on a mission to empower homeschooling moms to help their children develop initiative by teaching them critical thinking skills.
I love to talk about why thinking is the MOST important thing you can teach in your homeschool, and how you can draw out higher levels of thinking in your child without sacrificing time away from core subject areas.
You’ll see me infuse intuitive approaches so you can connect more deeply with your child through a done-for-you experience, embracing the freedom to reflect who you are as a family without the restraint of constantly meeting someone’s expectations (even if they’re your own!).
Пікірлер
Anyone who is afraid if their child "out thinking them" should not be teaching the child. This is why people are trained for years to become educators. Teaching your child "critical thinking skills" should not be optional!!!
That first sentence is quite a bold statement! Sometimes fears pop up where you least expect. Let's encourage and empower one another to overcome those fears rather than dismiss potential for growth.
@@homeschoolteachingsimplified You're right, that IS overly aggressive. I'm Sorry. I am just someone who is very skeptical of home-schooling. I think someone being afraid of being out-smarted in the moment is totally fine and normal. But the goal in life for our children should be for them to become smarter and better than the generation before. So Parents should ultimately WANT their children to out think them. It seams that many parents who home-school want to control their children's education so that they will behave the way the parents want instead of Giving the children all of the knowledge and letting them figure the world out for themselves. The way it was phrased in the end "If you want to teach your kids critical thinking skills," That shouldn't be an option. You NEED to teach that to them if you insist on removing them form the giant racecourses of people who have trained for years to become effective educators for growing children. Giving birth doesnt make you qualified to educate a child. I dont know your story and you personally may be very well trained and have gotten schooling on this matter, but the majority of Home-school parents dont, and they are the crowd I'm referring too above
Thanks for the content! I Also write what we did that day after we did it or as we are doing it. I’m interested in your 3 day thing but can’t sign up for it today. I seen you had one for tomorrow but in actually not sure if I’d make that time as we will be with friends part of the day. I’m not sure what time we will return.
That's awesome! Thankfully the 3 day challenge is an on-demand recording so check back at your favourite time for the next listing 😊
We have play dates with our friends and go to the library and other places where other kids exist, but we will go weeks without any socializing with friends sometimes. But in that time every single day my kids (9 & 4) and playing with eachother and learning how to communicate and problem solve when they butt heads, etc. And my kids socialize with my husband and I, and other adults because they are living in the real world, going where we go. My oldest is naturally a shy guy and my youngest is very outgoing. They’ve been like that since they were babies. That’s just how they are. I’m working on stranger safety with my youngest LOL and how to respectfully act towards people even when you’re socially anxious and shy with my oldest. And I have first hand experience with social anxiety since I have it myself.
Those sound like great opportunities for them to express themselves while interacting with a variety of others! I love how you recognize the natural inward characteristics of your children and are maturing them into the best version of themselves, rather than the natural tendency to "socialize" as a way to condition children for how we want them to act. Social anxiety can have a lot to do with what expectations we're picking up on!
I have a 9 year old going into “4th grade” that’s still on level 2 language arts and math curriculum. So thank you for this ❤ Also, I have guilt over doing a year of basically unschooling because I was dealing with chronic post covid with chronic fatigue and the onset of my POTS and MCAS. I was so sick and literally couldn’t do anything. Now my energy is back and I’m managing my symptoms and I’m excited to get back to more structured learning. But like I said, we are on level 2 work instead of 4. But whatever. I don’t want to skip over anything because then he would have REAL learning gaps.
I think we are “behind” in some areas because of a lot of traumatic events. My dad was killed in a wreck in May of 2018. So then I had to take care of my mom, and all that had to do with his death. Plus she was getting feeble (I’m an older mom with two adopted grandkids) and I needed to run her to Dr appts all the time or she was getting put in the hospital. So we began trying to find a house nearby so I could hav where closer to me or to find somewhere she could live with us. (Think mother-in-law quarters). So we were out running around all the time. Then Mama passed away November 2020 after having some surgery and losing her ability to walk. Of course, then I had to deal with my wicked step sister and all the stress she caused me and trying to grieve at the same time. I lost a lot of my focus that should have been on my kids. I’ve just now begun to feel like “me” again. So we are sort of playing catch up on some things and trying to find curriculum that works for us. I’m going to try Time4Learning and see if that takes a little of the load off of me. I know where my kids have “gaps” and plan to focus on those areas. Hoping to start school back in a couple of weeks. But even with all of the extra stuff going on, I still think it’s easier than planning my life around a public school calendar.
@@ritadyer9295 I’m so sorry to hear about all that you and your family went through. Life throws curveballs and all we can do is our best. We are doing catch up as well now but I’m trying to keep in mind that how fast we move through curriculum matters less than my son retaining the information being taught to him.
@autumnrose_noseinabook thanks. And I totally agree about retention. I’m going to try Time4Learning this year. At least we will try in the beginning. That way I can set the scores for what I consider acceptable for passing and they can’t move on without passing that. They will be answering to someone besides me. (At least in a way) I am hoping they will try harder in the subjects they don’t like. My 11 year old daughter is using an app on her Troomi phone (I think it’s just the calculator) to practice multiplication. So that’s good.
If a child has not mastered certain concepts in a sequence of studies then they have learning gaps and it can make it very difficult as they progress. For instance if they dont understand particular concepts in math then they are going to struggle more and more because they have gaps. It is important to successfully complete each level even if it takes longer so there won't be gaps. What level a student is on shouldn't matter, everyone learns at a different pace.
Exactly! I'm glad you were able to take away from this video that the focus is on completing those foundational aspects rather than progressing forward anyway so that there aren't any gaps.
Dude peer pressure is normal and healthy it's been around as long as humans have walked the earth being a parent is not about making your kid be a certain way by controlling who they spend there time with its about giving them a foundational understanding of how to stand up for themselves have a sense of identity and choose good friends which if you isolate a kid they will be so lonely and desperate for companionship that they will make poor choices and feel the need to please others even more.
Rather than thinking about this from a a controlling viewpoint, it is possible to help children find a healthy template for how they view themselves so they do not need to be negatively affected by unhealthy interactions with others. It sounds like you agree with the video about that. Thankfully, many experience homeschooling without also experiencing any sort of isolation.
I was homeschooled and it was 100% indoctrination. While I'm aware it can be done well I've always been and will always be a big advocate of making it illegal. Kids need to see other kids and be exposed to kids they like and don't like every day, not a few times a month. It's a big part of maturing and growing. We're pack animals and need to grow up around others and be exposed to other kids every single day. The only exception I'd make are cases of extreme bullying or some medical conditions.
I'm so sorry to hear that this was your experience, thank you for sharing your story. I suppose I see the solution differently - rather than making it illegal, I'm here to equip a new generation to homeschool with openness and confidence in how to teach children differing perspectives. All the best to you.
@@homeschoolteachingsimplified Everyone I know that was ever homeschooled was homeschooled to religiously indoctrinated, about 50 of them.
So helpful, thanks🙏
Im so thankful for your channel
You are so helpful, Im on the same journey with my 2 boys. Thank you for making this video 🙏
So great to connect here! I'm glad this was helpful for you 😊
Help your child unlock self-awareness, responsibility, and initiative in their learning _and for their _*_life_* … in 5 simple steps. homeschoolteachingsimplified.com/ultimate-guide
I just found your channel and it’s so fresh and empowering! Thank you for all the practical tips!
Fantastic! I'm so glad to connect and that you've found value here 😄
Love the 3 methods but it is so hard watching my child fail at something without wanting to step in and help them. I know I learned this way but I want them to always do better than I did. It's extremely difficult watching them struggle. This is where I need to have a small talk with myself and say "they can learn by their own mistakes".
Yes, that's the mama heart! You can hold onto that tenderness while gradually releasing them, nice and slowly. You can step in before they reach the point of failure if you know that will be discouraging. Your quote is very true!
Some sequences do matter…. We are struggling with math right now because my kids had some big gaps from public school… for example I have a kid who does not understand place value, she mixes it up, forgets it exists, etc. but she knows the sequence to do certain types of problems… so she was in 4th grade math and could do it (but struggled) and I had to pull her all the way back to 2nd grade math to reteach some basic math foundations that were missing. Hopefully when she’s all caught up she will actually understand math and not just be copying an arbitrary set of rules. I do agree that level doesn’t have to be correlated with age… every subject can be learned at different times and I am not worried about ‘catching up’ in math just about her actually understanding it 🎉
Yes, it's not about feeling the need to "catch up" because of gaps, but rather, recognizing what areas need to be addressed and working on those to lay a foundation for the next steps. Isn't it wild how what actually caused those missed items was rushing through the levels? Slowing down and re-enforcing old material is going to be exactly what your daughter needs. I'm glad she has you advocating for her learning!
I have an 11 year old struggling with multiplication. Math isn’t her “thing.” She will get it. Eventually. I’m not moving her on until she learns it. We will keep repeating it until she gets it. She will. Eventually.
Get started with the FREE Ultimate Guide To Teaching Your Homeschooler Critical Thinking --> homeschoolteachingsimplified.com/ultimate-guide
I just stumbled upon your videos haha! I was like wait…I know this person. We homeschool too! Keep up the good work :)
So great to connect here! I emailed you 😄
I just found you not too long ago, you’re amazing!! ❤
Thank you! 🤗
Learn more about higher levels of thinking inside of the Teaching Inspired membership!: homeschoolteachingsimplified.com/teachinginspired
😊
Is your child missing the point of the lesson? Watch this video next ➡ kzread.info/dash/bejne/hamszpWfdJauk84.html
Register for FREE for Communication Connection Upgrade - the 3-day homeschool challenge for better communication with just one question: homeschoolteachingsimplified.com/challenge
I finally found you! I used a very eclectic style of learning that was different for each of my homeschooled daughters! Now they are well balanced successful young adults. My daughter who decided to go to college graduated suma cum laude on a full scholarship. My other daughter has enjoyed several promotions at her full-time job. 8:15 "If you focus on instilling a love and a joy for learning and exploration and wonder then that's going to make the process a lot easier and faster in the long run". I agree 100%
That's amazing to hear, Tanya! Thank you for sharing this picture of success with your daughters. You must feel so proud to see all of your time and energy showing such abundant fruit! ❤
Join us inside of the Teaching Inspired membership for monthly themed workshops & challenges, plus weekly live coaching ➡ www.homeschoolteachingsimplified.com/teachinginspired
Join us inside of the Teaching Inspired membership for monthly themed workshops & challenges, plus weekly live coaching ➡ www.homeschoolteachingsimplified.com/teachinginspired
❤❤
Register for FREE for Communication Connection Upgrade - the 3-day homeschool challenge for better communication with just one question: homeschoolteachingsimplified.com/challenge
So freeing! I love the idea of planning as we go based on where our children are.
Yes, the freedom is tangible. Such a stark contrast to the group mentality of "hurry up, we're moving on to the next thing!"
I know this is super random, but as a certified teacher, what is your opinion on doing spelling? How do u do that in your homeschool? My kids are going into 6th grade next school year and I am still trying to figure out if we will do spelling the traditional way. I’m leaning more towards learning it the natural way, by reading and writing.
Such a great question - I have added this to my list to do a full video or podcast about! The quick reply answer is that you do NOT have to teach spelling in a certain way. If you go with reading/writing, then you will want to highlight and point out spelling so that they notice it because assuming they'll just pick it up does not always naturally happen. Something simple could be to choose their top 3 favourite new words from what they read in that chapter and to practice writing those out like a spelling list, or creating a spelling dance (think YMCA), or even to write a paragraph or story with those new words in a different context.
@@homeschoolteachingsimplified that’s awesome! Thank u for ur reply :)
Need guidance on your family's homeschool journey so you can embrace your unique pace? Check out homeschoolteachingsimplified.com/teachinginspired
The thing I most worry about is the order or sequence they learn a subject. I suppose unschoolers dont have a specific sequence they teach so I should probably let that one go
Thank you for sharing that. It can be helpful for certain subjects to learn in sequence and for others, it doesn't matter. :)
Need guidance on your family's homeschool journey so you can embrace your unique pace? Check out homeschoolteachingsimplified.com/teachinginspired
Register for FREE for Communication Connection Upgrade - the 3-day homeschool challenge for better communication with just one question: homeschoolteachingsimplified.com/challenge
Thanks for the information about registering! I'd love to see a more detailed "How To" about registering.
Are you thinking along the lines of the legal process and to-do check boxes to get registered, or more like the mapping out of your own student learning plan?
@@homeschoolteachingsimplified I meant the first, but now that you mention it, both would be helpful ☺
I used to think unschooling was irresponsible... until I learned more about it! Now I do it almost exclusively! We are currently studying about music: how musical instruments are made, how they make sound, composers, key signatures, and basic theory. We focus on one of these areas every day, but only one. Usually they want to do more than one area, but sticking with just one makes them really excited for the next day. My kids love music so it was an easy choice for us to learn more about it.
Love hearing this, Kassy! That's a great strategy for keeping the excitement high and teaching longer term commitment to the idea.
Lmao this is hilarious. Did the indoctrinating woke school system hire her to do this bc of the recent uptick with parents fighting back and home schooling their children? Dear parents, it's not called indoctrinating your children 😂 the state is doing that 😂 it's just called raising your children as you see fit which is your right as their parent
Were you able to watch the video before commenting? I know it's an edgy headline... this whole channel is about supporting homeschool moms with how they teach their children.
Isn’t the school system indoctrinating kids by default? Seems like anything else, even at the risk of indoctrination, is an upgrade 😂
Indoctrination never needs to be a default and this is no shade on the school system. No matter where a child is educated, we want them to learn how to think rather than what to think. This channel is about supporting homeschool moms to feel assured they know how to do that.
Register FREE for Communication Connection Upgrade - the 3-day homeschool challenge for better communication with just one question: homeschoolteachingsimplified.com/challenge
Have you ever found yourself believing these lies?? Share your story!
Haha...I have a hard time doing that. This video was very helpful. I have pulled back on my expectations and am slowly trying to find my way in finding those relevant connections, and taking those opportunities to teach the children. ❤
Love that, Nancy!! The more we look for connections to tie in relevance, the more we'll find them. 🤗
I'd love to hear your thoughts and comments! How do you help your child tap into motivation?
Unschoolers! Share your top tips for intuitive homeschooling below 👇
Ready to REVAMP your homeschool approach? ➡ homeschoolteachingsimplified.com/challenge
I'm from BC and i feel it only applies to BC. I heard that we're the only province that has those Online Schools where you "enroll" with and get a support teacher.
I'm glad this was valuable to you locally! Thankfully for others in different areas there are also opportunities like this. Across Canada they're now called Distance Learning Schools and in the US they're called Charter Schools. For those that do not have the option of this kind of resource, I've created personalized programs and support! :)
Which of these ways would your child learn critical thinking best from?
Experienced homeschool moms - What changes or additions would make YOUR top 5 getting started list?? Share below! 👇
Register for the free challenge: homeschoolteachingsimplified.com/challenge
Great video, Natalie! This was very helpful!
I'm so glad Kassy!
Snag your seat at the 3 day challenge 🌟 homeschoolteachingsimplified.com/challenge
Gréât vidéo. I like you’re approach. Thanks for sharing. Just subscribed. I also have a channel mainly about homeschooling and happy to be able to connect here!
Thanks! It's so great to connect on here!
@@homeschoolteachingsimplified yes!!