Real Mom Real Solutions

Real Mom Real Solutions

Hey Moms! Join me on my journey of raising 17 kids - where we solve some of the biggest family management challenges.

1. The "Young Family" Journey: Stay tuned for life stories of victories and losses and the wisdom we gained along the way.

2. Family Management Solutions: We share the life lessons we learned along the way in hopes of making all Parents to be more successful!

3. Budget Friendly Solutions that work: We help you cut through the noise to share products we use and like that truly add value and make life better.

4. Family Recreation: Life is supposed to be fun! Managing a family can be stressful. We will show you ways we have kept it fun along the way.

Meet My 17th Baby

Meet My 17th Baby

Pregnant with 17th Baby!

Pregnant with 17th Baby!

Fit After 15 Kids

Fit After 15 Kids

Laundry Room Makeover

Laundry Room Makeover

No More Ironing!

No More Ironing!

Organizing My Pantry

Organizing My Pantry

Cutting My Kids Hair

Cutting My Kids Hair

Supporting 15 Kids

Supporting 15 Kids

Welcome our new baby #15

Welcome our new baby #15

House Tour for Family of 17

House Tour for Family of 17

15 Minute Hair and Makeup

15 Minute Hair and Makeup

Recovery After a Baby

Recovery After a Baby

Family Update Baby #15

Family Update Baby #15

Easiest Way to Hang Pictures

Easiest Way to Hang Pictures

How to Recover Fabric Bins

How to Recover Fabric Bins

3 Halloween Decorating Hacks

3 Halloween Decorating Hacks

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  • @barbieknight6761
    @barbieknight67612 сағат бұрын

    There’s an abundance of wisdom in this video. If you’re in a time pinch, speed up the playback a little, but I would encourage every single parent to watch it all the way through.

  • @nadiaherwig
    @nadiaherwig10 сағат бұрын

    Wow

  • @tinaepstein8763
    @tinaepstein876311 сағат бұрын

    Hi Nancy. Is there a video on hours the Pom Pom system works yet?

  • @maquisbg
    @maquisbg11 сағат бұрын

    Oh pornDios estas familias gigantes que terminan haciendo family youtube, son un peligro. Siempre terminan mal. Deberían estar prohibidos.

  • @widowswatch6610
    @widowswatch661011 сағат бұрын

    I feel like this is too much. Any suggestions on something to write down on paper if you are not really into computer stuff. This seems only for people that work well with computers. How about the little kids???? I do agree with positive reinforcement and praise when they do well. And of course follow through is very important. Kids need a routine and rules to follow that’s for sure. I think too many parents are using the computer for their babysitters. This is lazy and it is harming their children.

  • @xxchucknorrissxx
    @xxchucknorrissxx13 сағат бұрын

    This is great for school schedules. But what about for summer? What does your summer schedule look like? When the kids can do their jobs in a couple hours, and not risking letting them stay on the screens for the rest of the day

  • @user-gh2fo9pw2b
    @user-gh2fo9pw2b14 сағат бұрын

    So nice to see you, Nancy!❤ Keeping shining your bright light, sharing your pretty smile and helpful tips 👍 You are an amazing person and Mom❤

  • @BBBB-nd8pl
    @BBBB-nd8pl15 сағат бұрын

    Dont take advice from Mormons

  • @sanjarojas9713
    @sanjarojas971315 сағат бұрын

    You look amazing!

  • @maedanmadejanon3014
    @maedanmadejanon301416 сағат бұрын

    Can't imagine myself having more than three kids ..but salute you ma'am for making it ❤

  • @zlataneboudjenouia8128
    @zlataneboudjenouia812817 сағат бұрын

    You are just amazing i m from Africa

  • @wearesaintly
    @wearesaintlyКүн бұрын

    You mentioned having a video pertaining to the video games. Where is that?

  • @lmrharper3586
    @lmrharper3586Күн бұрын

    Training videos says it all , you treat your kids like animals and slaves. The amount you expect them to do is ridiculous. You are irresponsible in having so many children. Too many kids with too much responsibility. A child should never ever be responsible for another of the child in the family. You made it sound like the kids were just responsible for themselves , you lied . Why do they have to do your work? You decide to have the babies so you are responsible for your children ,its not your childs choice to have so many kids. Do your own darn housework lady , you chose to have all those little mess makers clean up after them. Do your childrens laundry ,you are lazy ,you are just as bad as the Duggar family. You give them no free time, childhood is a time of freedom and to play and you are robbing them. Shame on you woman, I suppose you are going to have an 18th slave. You think you are being kind but you are not.

  • @rmalus10297
    @rmalus10297Күн бұрын

    That is insane. Responsibility is one thing, but looking at that chart, they might as well run their own home. Yikes

  • @janellemarina
    @janellemarinaКүн бұрын

    This is a great system, how do you use it during the summer when theyre home for a longer period of time? ❤

  • @nana2many938
    @nana2many938Күн бұрын

    Can the skylight be used for homeschool lesson planning?

  • @Snookscat
    @SnookscatКүн бұрын

    17 kids is a lot of helping hands. What if you only have one who makes the mess of 5?

  • @Lauren-fj9cf
    @Lauren-fj9cfКүн бұрын

    Stumbled upon this video, Beautiful home and family, your kids are very fortunate to grow up in such a lovely space, the word obedience really made me shutter as well as people pleasing, positive reinforcement isn’t a new idea and is the standard now in behavior management, but u can teach ur kids to be respectful, listen, and responsible without being an obedient people-pleaser, because obedience is a negative term and u can be kind and friendly without being a people-pleaser which is also negative… not a fan of how the older kids have to assist the younger ones, reminds me of Duggars buddy system - u decided to continue to be blessed with babies so up to a certain age, u should be responsible for them - older kids can babysit and help out but should never be in charge of oversight of little ones daily… In theory ur method is nice and necessary I would imagine to some extent, but most large families, most families in general don’t have the benefit of a huge home with baby changing stations and 2 dishwashers, etc. - please don’t use ur family on the internet to make money, it never comes out ok…

  • @sucinurani779
    @sucinurani779Күн бұрын

    Sungguh Luar Biasa. Di jaman ini, ketika banyak pasangan memilih untuk tidak memiliki anak, tapi kalian diberkahi dengan 17 anak dan mengurus mereka semua dengan baik. Salut

  • @jessicagow-lee4065
    @jessicagow-lee4065Күн бұрын

    What a wonderful system you have. I send you heartfelt congratulations for raising a big, beautiful, and responsible crop of children, who will go on to live productive lives as adults. We need more people like this in our country and in our churches. Thank you SO MUCH for showing the way for so many families who so desperately need to learn how to raise children. I am so sad that many people nowadays don’t want to have children, and I think one of the reasons is that they don’t know how to raise them properly, so that they will be a joy to be with-not only for their parents (who tend to be able to tolerate more than others) but also bring joy to others-teachers, friends, etc. that they interact with. May God BLESS you abundantly as you raise these precious children!

  • @margareth1504
    @margareth1504Күн бұрын

    I think you are amazing

  • @CJCody2006
    @CJCody2006Күн бұрын

    Nowadays, families of 6 or more people account for only 4% of family households in the United States.

  • @CJCody2006
    @CJCody2006Күн бұрын

    Ever since the 2008 housing market crash, large homes like this have been so aggressively stigmatized because some people 'think' they're excessive and wasteful, and it's only gotten worse as the affordable housing crisis has dragged on. Of course the shortsight to this is the simple fact that larger homes do have valid functions and large families greatly benefit from having more space.

  • @sarahkey413
    @sarahkey4132 күн бұрын

    Im honestly impressed. I have 4 kids (we homeschool, so eat every meal at home) but your week cost is just over double what we spend. Person to dollar ratio, youre blowing me out of the water!

  • @larryhumphrey361
    @larryhumphrey3612 күн бұрын

    My wife was going to have twins she lost one and kept the other one full term when she was a teenager wife before when she was a teen she told me since that one died should never try again to have a baby she was in her fifties I was 47 no more kids for me you're lucky to have a good figure you don't look old enough to have that many children

  • @JkBee
    @JkBee2 күн бұрын

    WOW!! Thank you for this…also my kids are 4,3 and 1….if you have any specific recommendations for the toddler years when you don’t have as much help from the older kids. Thanks so much!

  • @xiiiiii6747
    @xiiiiii67472 күн бұрын

    this not Family this is a army

  • @alyssalehmann7419
    @alyssalehmann74192 күн бұрын

    We have 11 children and have to constantly remind them to do what is expected… every day! Even though they know what is expected, I’m always having to repeat it. The Skylight looks amazing!! I am excited to implement some of your tips and I will be looking for your next videos explaining more about your system! I would totally use your training videos if you make more of them! Thank you for sharing all of this!! ❤

  • @BazyliPL
    @BazyliPL2 күн бұрын

    Great approach! Many parents these days treat children like they're destined to play & have fun and don't give them any tasks to do. Unfortunately, such a thoughtfullness will cause a harm to their children, as they won't be able to deal with life. Btw. Do you homekeep on your own or do you share home chores (excluding those which are assigned to children) with your husband? I am asking as today is tendency to expecting that a husband will cook, clean house, do a laundry, babysitting and other traditionally feminine chores in a same or similiar amount of time as a wife. I saw that yours family is christian, so this suggests that you, and your husband are fulfilling traditional, biblical gender roles, but as I know from observing, there are many marriages, even these christian, who are opposite to the biblical order in the marriage. Best regards!

  • @NicholasYoungDT
    @NicholasYoungDT2 күн бұрын

    The majority of my parenting role as the husband is mentoring the kids and teaching successful life principles like standards of morality, education/career planning, budgeting, home repair, auto repair/maintenance, etc…. More recently I have been teaching product development and entrepreneurial skills to my oldest kids. I also try to do fun activities with each age group on a regular basis. Nancy manages the household.

  • @rdjg5162
    @rdjg51622 күн бұрын

    Tough examples to compare since the Sound of Freedom is based upon an alleged unethical,if not criminal, behavior of the leader and falsehoods in reporting.

  • @annavanderbom1583
    @annavanderbom15832 күн бұрын

    What skylight do you have?

  • @megapint8962
    @megapint89622 күн бұрын

    MORMON

  • @CheapsKate77
    @CheapsKate773 күн бұрын

    How did you choose your children’s names?

  • @CheapsKate77
    @CheapsKate773 күн бұрын

    Great job! It seems like most parents these days don’t give their children chores and then they expect everyone to do everything for them.

  • @rmalus10297
    @rmalus10297Күн бұрын

    That's beyond chores. This is: I have more kids than I can raise, so everyone gets to do their part taking care of responsibilities I should be taking care of. Look how well that turned out for the duggars. Their kids are turning on them and resenting them.

  • @voykumarinka
    @voykumarinka10 сағат бұрын

    ​@@rmalus10297even if you have a child or 2 you still have to teach them the exact same responsibilities no matter what or else they they will turn out to be baby adults that nobody likes.

  • @CheapsKate77
    @CheapsKate773 күн бұрын

    “Responsibilities” is misspelled on your board 😐

  • @leannepayne4081
    @leannepayne40813 күн бұрын

    Yes, but from what I heard, being a military wife is not easy. They are often worried about their husbands. Also they have to move a lot. And, it's worse if they have kids because they have nobody at home to help them when their husbands are gone for a good while. I have it hard enough with my kids and my husband is hardly ever gone more than a standard workday. As much as I might try to act like the more supportive wife I can totally understand the attitude of the unsupportive wife. What support is she getting being without him for so long?

  • @AmericanGiGi55
    @AmericanGiGi553 күн бұрын

    Is this like how the Duggar kids were raised? With the older kids basically taking care of the younger kids? Some good ideas but I dont agree with the older kids having to do laundry for the younger ones . Thats mom and dads job to help and teach them, imo.

  • @christinan7183
    @christinan71833 күн бұрын

    Smart❤❤❤

  • @ugsvciwa
    @ugsvciwa3 күн бұрын

    I’ve been waiting to implement something like this until I have older kids. My oldest just turned 6 so I feel like I need to get some sort of chore list and formal structure going. Thank you! I can’t afford prizes and feel differently about money and rewards, but I still appreciate your methods and styles on this aspect!

  • @heidigarrett6945
    @heidigarrett69453 күн бұрын

    Always love your videos! Would love one on how you handle the video games! We also only do the weekends

  • @shellakers10
    @shellakers103 күн бұрын

    Thank you for sharing your training videos! I'm just blown away at your level of organization! You've certainly mastered being a mom and house wife! I almost need a nap now. 😅 Good job Mama! I'm sharing this video with my daughter whose on baby 2. It seems like a great idea to get this in your mind when babies are still under 2. 😊

  • @krystlerees5144
    @krystlerees51443 күн бұрын

    Here's the questions I have haha. And content ideas in general. I'm a LDS mom of 5 and love seeing how larger families function. 1 - Why do you have that many kids? Religion? Don't believe in birth control? Life calling or enjoy the challenge etc. 2 - What do you do to be able to afford that many kids? 3 - What has worked for you to maintain your sanity? 4 - How have you and your husband been able to maintain a strong marriage with the heavy life load? 5 - What systems have you developed for your family(like this video)? 6 - Meals

  • @christinan7183
    @christinan71833 күн бұрын

    Blessed ❤❤❤

  • @ChineseQueen
    @ChineseQueen3 күн бұрын

    are all 19 kids yours? o.O

  • @cindland
    @cindland3 күн бұрын

    I love your approach. You’re humble, you say what worked for YOU, and you’re not trying to take credit for special or revolutionary ideas, or gimmicks and trendy methods.

  • @katie7748
    @katie77483 күн бұрын

    YES!

  • @juliabrown5948
    @juliabrown59483 күн бұрын

    Yes, and not charging money for us to hear it!!

  • @jackieo8693
    @jackieo86933 күн бұрын

    You are very blessed. My husband is the messy one and I was never taught how to stand up to him!

  • @tessilyclaire5894
    @tessilyclaire58943 күн бұрын

    You don’t look old enough to have 17 kids lol. God has blessed you with children and beautiful skin lol.

  • @Sunshinerainstormrainbow
    @Sunshinerainstormrainbow3 күн бұрын

    What car brand is that?

  • @elizabethbrink476
    @elizabethbrink4764 күн бұрын

    Wonder how something like this could work in a low/no tech home.

  • @JoBenLee
    @JoBenLee4 күн бұрын

    This is just awesome!! Thank you for sharing what works for your family. I am going to try some of these ideas.