wheretheromi

wheretheromi

Hi! My name's Romi. I'm a writer and creator from Australia.
27, queer, she/they/he
🕺🏼🌈

the 52

the 52

2023

2023

Creating Magic Everyday

Creating Magic Everyday

Return + Arcane

Return + Arcane

Things I loved in 2020

Things I loved in 2020

a year. and a year.

a year. and a year.

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  • @theholycanofbeans5191
    @theholycanofbeans51912 күн бұрын

    I dont dislike her because she's trans, i dislike her because i find her annoying

  • @wheretheromi
    @wheretheromi2 күн бұрын

    I guess it depends on what you do with those feelings. People I don't want to engage with, I don't go to their videos and talk about how I don't like them. The more you engage with content about creators you don't like, the more you're going to get that content promoted to you.

  • @itxchi_edits
    @itxchi_edits6 күн бұрын

    They don’t hate Dylan because SHE (don’t misgender please) is transgender. They hate the song, not Dylan. The song is respectfully horrible and extremely sexist for cis-women and all women in general. The lyrics don’t make sense “cash or credit I say yes”, and many other randomly put together phrases. People like to assume that if you dislike a song then you’re honpphobic, racist or transphobic, but that’s not the case😭 the song sucks in my opinion but society today is extremely sensitive and I think y’all need an internet break. That being said. For people who actually are homophobic and transphobic Get better. Everyone is made to be who they are and who are you to stop them.

  • @wheretheromi
    @wheretheromi6 күн бұрын

    But sometimes it IS that simple, sometimes people ARE just transphobic, and it's important to call that out because our trans community deserves so much better. I've seen maybe 2 people who dislike the song respond appropriately; the other 99% attack Dylan as a person, hate on the song because they say it's "sexist and speaks for all women" while, in the same breath, those very same people are inciting sexism and claiming to speak for all women! Sure, you can dislike the song, I really don't care. But if you're only calling for better when it comes to this particular song, and you aren't speaking out against other songs you think are sexist, then it IS just transphobia.

  • @itxchi_edits
    @itxchi_edits5 күн бұрын

    @@wheretheromi you think EVERYTHINGS TRANSPHOBIC LADY. People hate a song because the song is just straight dookie. 99% of people in this Woke society could literally not care less.

  • @itxchi_edits
    @itxchi_edits5 күн бұрын

    @@wheretheromi read my other comments crazy lady

  • @wheretheromi
    @wheretheromi5 күн бұрын

    I love that your immediate response to someone not agreeing with you is to call them crazy. What a power move. You really sold your argument there.

  • @itxchi_edits
    @itxchi_edits19 сағат бұрын

    @@wheretheromi wow, you’re so cool. Just stop being so sensitive over a song that literally sucks and read my comments, when you have an argument, respond but until you do stop commenting

  • @Owenvaughncoldcocoa
    @Owenvaughncoldcocoa7 күн бұрын

    I’m not transphobic, i completely support someone transitioning. But if a cis person wrote this song i would be just as disappointed and disgusted. She isn’t saying it’s HER experience she’s saying it’s the experience. It is diminishing women because it is further perpetuating the stereotypes that feminists have worked so hard to get rid of. Girlhood is NOT being a financially irresponsible slut who can’t handle her emotions. I hate songs that do the same thing no matter WHO it’s written by. This one just had a TON. Uh i’m not saying Dylan’s a slut i’m saying that’s what she was saying. And also the trans experience and the cis experience is very different because some grew up with the constant sexism and the others…didn’t. So it’s impossible to understand right when you’ve transitioned and that’s ok. Just have to keep that in mind. And the patriarchy isn’t over. Far from it.

  • @wheretheromi
    @wheretheromi6 күн бұрын

    Even though you backtracked and said "I'm not calling her a slut!" you... absolutely did call Dylan a slut: "girlhood is not being a financially irresponsible slut" <--- You said that. Girlhood is anything any woman wants it to be. It's not up to you - or anyone else - to decide whether that fits with what you want the universal experience to be, because there ISN'T a universal experience, that isn't something that exists- other than the universal experience of women's self expression being dumped on by anyone who thinks they know better.

  • @Owenvaughncoldcocoa
    @Owenvaughncoldcocoa6 күн бұрын

    ⁠@@wheretheromiNo i was saying that’s what she’s describing. I have no idea if that’s how she actually acts. Obviously there is no universal experience but maybe she should make it more clear that it’s hers and not just what she thinks being a women is. Of course she wouldn’t know better than makes sense. But when did acting irrationally become the basics of being a girl.

  • @wheretheromi
    @wheretheromi6 күн бұрын

    It's literally called "Days of Girlhood" - the title of her series about being a girl, the thing she grew her fame from. It doesn't get any more obvious than that. Saying "of course she wouldn't know better" is such a harmful thing to say about a trans woman, the implications there just aren't ok. Don't like the song, like the song: I don't care. But if you're dishing out your opinion on this specific song I really hope you're doing the same on every song exactly like this by cis women, otherwise it is - as I said - just transphobia.

  • @Owenvaughncoldcocoa
    @Owenvaughncoldcocoa5 күн бұрын

    @@wheretheromi Of course i would have the same response to a cis women im not transphobic. But she wouldn’t know things about being a girl other than what she sees and what she’s taught. So she wouldn’t know better 💀

  • @wheretheromi
    @wheretheromi5 күн бұрын

    Implying a trans woman wouldn't know things about "being a girl" is transphobic. If that's the basis of your argument... I don't know what to tell you.

  • @336699ty
    @336699ty10 күн бұрын

    This is beautiful! The makeup, the gems, the flowers ! Gorgeous!

  • @wheretheromi
    @wheretheromi10 күн бұрын

    Oh, what a lovely thing to say. Thank you 💚

  • @rubyedwards8356
    @rubyedwards835612 күн бұрын

    firsttt

  • @banditthegreat1787
    @banditthegreat178722 күн бұрын

    It doesn’t matter if you are on the left or right axis of politics, nobody should parody or desecrate a national symbol. To do this makes you not better than the people who put a cross on the American canton, who advocate for your removal. Instead of parodying this country, actually pledge loyalty, and show that you are more patriotic than they are, so that they can’t wrap themselves in the American flag.

  • @wheretheromi
    @wheretheromi20 күн бұрын

    The assumption that I'm American is strong

  • @banditthegreat1787
    @banditthegreat178719 күн бұрын

    @@wheretheromimb Aussie. Aye? Goodaye mate? Honestly mb tho, just going through for the Americans disrespecting America.

  • @wheretheromi
    @wheretheromi19 күн бұрын

    It's pronounced "g'day"

  • @banditthegreat1787
    @banditthegreat178719 күн бұрын

    @@wheretheromi mb G’day mate

  • @boatingbrookcosplay7447
    @boatingbrookcosplay744724 күн бұрын

    Seems like a perfectly normal home for a relaxing light hearted vacation to me

  • @wheretheromi
    @wheretheromi24 күн бұрын

    Right? It's where I'd want to vacation

  • @R1ver7th
    @R1ver7th26 күн бұрын

    OMG royal and the serpent! shes the best i love her. ALSO your look absolutely slays. so gender

  • @wheretheromi
    @wheretheromi26 күн бұрын

    Thank you, that's such a sweet compliment!

  • @R1ver7th
    @R1ver7th26 күн бұрын

    @@wheretheromi ur welcome!

  • @FairFeline
    @FairFeline28 күн бұрын

    Serving.

  • @wheretheromi
    @wheretheromi26 күн бұрын

    Oh YOU 😘

  • @NOT_GANNA_BE_ME
    @NOT_GANNA_BE_ME28 күн бұрын

    you just made my day

  • @wheretheromi
    @wheretheromi26 күн бұрын

    Ahh, that;s so sweet!

  • @PL4ST1C-M4R1
    @PL4ST1C-M4R1Ай бұрын

    I don’t like it, saying this as a pansexual person because personally it ruined something I grew up with… it’s just kinda sad for me. I respect all opinions. But this does not- like- it doesn’t support me, If you understand that. It just hurts. I don’t wanna cause a fight either, I hate fights. I’m just standing my opinion, as a 14 year old trans male whom is also pansexual.

  • @wheretheromi
    @wheretheromiАй бұрын

    That's fine 🤷🏼 I never said anyone other than me had to like it

  • @PL4ST1C-M4R1
    @PL4ST1C-M4R1Ай бұрын

    @@wheretheromi alrighty<3 I just saw a lotta people in the comments- being kinda rude. Honestly people need’a respect opinions instead of sending death threats-

  • @wheretheromi
    @wheretheromiАй бұрын

    It certainly got a lot of people very angry! Happy Pride 🌈

  • @PL4ST1C-M4R1
    @PL4ST1C-M4R1Ай бұрын

    @@wheretheromi you too! I hope your pride is great<33

  • @CocoDraco
    @CocoDracoАй бұрын

    Pretty colors :>

  • @wheretheromi
    @wheretheromiАй бұрын

    Thank you! I had a lot of fun!

  • @Silly_earthling
    @Silly_earthlingАй бұрын

    ♥️♥️♥️♥️

  • @wheretheromi
    @wheretheromiАй бұрын

    Happy Pride 🌈

  • @cOdFanMaskedMen
    @cOdFanMaskedMenАй бұрын

    Uhm - don't do that .......I don't care that y'all apart of the LGBTQ+ whatever and stuff just don't mess with the flag of the United States .......

  • @wheretheromi
    @wheretheromiАй бұрын

    it's a song, i didn't make it, and it doesn't "mess with" the US flag?

  • @wheretheromi
    @wheretheromiАй бұрын

    Thank you, you're so sweet!

  • @cOdFanMaskedMen
    @cOdFanMaskedMenАй бұрын

    @@wheretheromi the pledge to the United flag u basically took that and added LGBTQ and gay to it ;-; so yes it is basically gays pushing it too far as they normally do

  • @wheretheromi
    @wheretheromiАй бұрын

    I didn't take it and add "gay to it", i sang along to a song I liked and did a sick transition to boot 🤷🏼 Also love you said "I don't care that y'all apart of the LGBTQ+" and then went "so yes it is basically gays pushing it too far as they normally do" Sure sounds like you're accepting and don't care 🙄

  • @mmaadzgocrazy
    @mmaadzgocrazyАй бұрын

    @@wheretheromiits rude bro so many people have died for this country and you are just making a mockery of our national anthem make ur own damn song but you cant parody an anthem its just disrespectful bru

  • @angry_bradley
    @angry_bradleyАй бұрын

    New ledgb lore

  • @wheretheromi
    @wheretheromiАй бұрын

    ...lgbt?

  • @toefur___
    @toefur___Ай бұрын

    Love this 😌

  • @wheretheromi
    @wheretheromiАй бұрын

    Thank you 💚

  • @lightdarkery
    @lightdarkeryАй бұрын

    AMEN XP

  • @Grim_Shady413
    @Grim_Shady413Ай бұрын

    Ive seen them in concert (i saw them when they opened for FOB)

  • @wheretheromi
    @wheretheromiАй бұрын

    Oh how dreamy!

  • @Chauncey_P_Simm
    @Chauncey_P_SimmАй бұрын

    What tour was it?

  • @Grim_Shady413
    @Grim_Shady41329 күн бұрын

    @@Chauncey_P_Simm So Much For Stardust (2023)

  • @R1ver7th
    @R1ver7th26 күн бұрын

    ohh I nearly went to her concert in Toronto but got hit with covid and couldn't go!

  • @Grim_Shady413
    @Grim_Shady41326 күн бұрын

    @ninja3r35 tbh I didn't like her much but it was ok, I was more so there for FOB😅

  • @Neothemothermotherfan
    @NeothemothermotherfanАй бұрын

    Ur vids deserve more attention and more likes u put so much work into this stuff!!

  • @wheretheromi
    @wheretheromiАй бұрын

    You're so sweet ☺️

  • @Neothemothermotherfan
    @NeothemothermotherfanАй бұрын

    Ur vids deserve more attention and more likes u put so much work into this stuff!!

  • @wheretheromi
    @wheretheromiАй бұрын

    Thank you! I have a lovely audience on tt, but am working hard to grow it here!

  • @CocoDraco
    @CocoDracoАй бұрын

    You are so cool looking! /pos

  • @wheretheromi
    @wheretheromiАй бұрын

    Thank you!

  • @Angel._.dust._.hazbin-17
    @Angel._.dust._.hazbin-17Ай бұрын

    Your hair is so pretty!!!

  • @wheretheromi
    @wheretheromiАй бұрын

    Thank you! It's very different now (I filmed this almost a year ago and never posted it 😹) but the rainbow will always be a favourite!

  • @Theduckgirl_ducksarewhatmatter
    @Theduckgirl_ducksarewhatmatterАй бұрын

    I feel like I've seen you before but the pfp slaying

  • @Olivine29
    @Olivine29Ай бұрын

    Oh my gosh I was just listening to Royal & the Serpent a few minutes ago I love her so much!

  • @wheretheromi
    @wheretheromiАй бұрын

    Oh my gosh YEEEEES! I've gotta listen to more!

  • @Olivine29
    @Olivine29Ай бұрын

    @@wheretheromi I highly recommend her song astroturf, freak flag, and weddings and funerals

  • @R1ver7th
    @R1ver7th26 күн бұрын

    ​@@wheretheromiFUCKBOI REJECTS is my favorite, but it isn't specifically queer. girls is also very good

  • @R0tt1ng-away
    @R0tt1ng-awayАй бұрын

    I personally dont like the song, nor voice. Like i am not transphobic, I am in the lgbtq community, i have a trans friend, and lots of friends who are lgbtq

  • @wheretheromi
    @wheretheromiАй бұрын

    Having trans friends doesn't mean you're not transphobic. I'm not saying you are, but trying to prove a point by saying "I'm friends with x" doesn't actually prove anything.

  • @koko48365
    @koko48365Ай бұрын

    UR GOING TO HELL❤

  • @wheretheromi
    @wheretheromiАй бұрын

    You're a bully.

  • @koko48365
    @koko48365Ай бұрын

    ​@@wheretheromi then don't be gay and go to heaven 😂

  • @wheretheromi
    @wheretheromiАй бұрын

    Your being a kind person relies on me following your religious beliefs? Ew.

  • @koko48365
    @koko48365Ай бұрын

    ​@@wheretheromi ur a child of Satan lgbt is an abomination to God THAT is what I stand for so spreading God's word will make ppl go to heaven so this is why we have gensis 6:6

  • @wheretheromi
    @wheretheromiАй бұрын

    Again: you being a kind, good person relies entirely on me following your religious beliefs? That's wild. Bullies can justify anything these days! I don't believe in your god, nor do I believe in satan, so your threats/promises/whatever that was meant to be mean nothing to be. Treat people better and get off my page!

  • @Heymickeyyousofine
    @HeymickeyyousofineАй бұрын

    It’s not a good song

  • @wheretheromi
    @wheretheromiАй бұрын

    Music, like many things, is subjective! I quite like it personally.

  • @Heymickeyyousofine
    @HeymickeyyousofineАй бұрын

    @@wheretheromi nothing against it, I just think it’s a bit cheesy lol

  • @emoemuemi
    @emoemuemiАй бұрын

    ​@@Heymickeyyousofineand? You didn't have to comment.

  • @Heymickeyyousofine
    @HeymickeyyousofineАй бұрын

    @@emoemuemi and? I don’t need permission

  • @timothyjuarez5306
    @timothyjuarez5306Ай бұрын

    You are, what I am imagining, what Delirium from "Sandman" would look like.

  • @ShenJones
    @ShenJonesАй бұрын

    You’re so right!!

  • @wheretheromi
    @wheretheromiАй бұрын

    Ooooh, I love that! Thank you!

  • @timothyjuarez5306
    @timothyjuarez5306Ай бұрын

    @@wheretheromi no probs.

  • @wheretheromi
    @wheretheromiАй бұрын

    PSA: This is a song (your homophobia is showing)

  • @JPTumbaga
    @JPTumbaga20 күн бұрын

    Womp womp. (Your abomination is showing)

  • @Monkey5230
    @Monkey5230Ай бұрын

    Well, thanks for fucking ruining our Pledge of Allegiance dumbass

  • @wheretheromi
    @wheretheromiАй бұрын

    Blimey... I mean, just rememeber the internet is forever! Internet bullying isn't cool kiddo

  • @Monkey5230
    @Monkey5230Ай бұрын

    @@wheretheromi the fuck

  • @Monkey5230
    @Monkey5230Ай бұрын

    @@wheretheromi I’m not bullying dumbass this hasn’t happend over and over from me

  • @Monkey5230
    @Monkey5230Ай бұрын

    @@wheretheromi it’s just the fact that you changed the pledge of allegiance to make a goddamn gay version that’s really messed up I have lost all hope in humanity you guys are just little self absorbed idiots all you guys think is Oml they don’t support me but no I support yall it’s just the constant changing of everthing

  • @Abcdefg-ek6ip
    @Abcdefg-ek6ipАй бұрын

    Aww does this bruise your masculinity

  • @mcwhoremick
    @mcwhoremickАй бұрын

    THIS IS SO COOOOLL OMGGG :OOOOO U LOOK SO GOOD!!!

  • @wheretheromi
    @wheretheromiАй бұрын

    Oh thank you honey! That's so lovely of you 💚

  • @maysoncharliezanrrobinson9687
    @maysoncharliezanrrobinson9687Ай бұрын

    Got daymmnnnnn

  • @wheretheromi
    @wheretheromiАй бұрын

    Can't go wrong with a Pedro audio

  • @Echo_pawzz
    @Echo_pawzzАй бұрын

    I never really liked Harry Potter, I started to read one book but stopped and never read or watched any again. Also that's sickening that she would even put that much time, money, and energy to do that kind of stuff. Trans people deserve their rights and just as much respect as anyone else.

  • @kirishima069
    @kirishima069Ай бұрын

    You look so good!

  • @wheretheromi
    @wheretheromiАй бұрын

    Thank you 😘

  • @alyssashort224
    @alyssashort224Ай бұрын

    Love the jacket and pjsss

  • @wheretheromi
    @wheretheromiАй бұрын

    I was going to do a sick transition and then went "nope, I'm too comfy right now" 😹

  • @kurocalcifer
    @kurocalciferАй бұрын

    Always love for the magnus archives 💚

  • @wheretheromi
    @wheretheromiАй бұрын

    Y E S! Forever legendary

  • @karinhart4109
    @karinhart4109Ай бұрын

    You should go right over to Gaza and help them!

  • @wheretheromi
    @wheretheromiАй бұрын

    Wow, original comment! 0/10

  • @DJKingPanda
    @DJKingPandaАй бұрын

    This is the greatest in pain.

  • @wheretheromi
    @wheretheromiАй бұрын

    A comment which makes zero sense

  • @Peppermint_Puff
    @Peppermint_PuffАй бұрын

    Honestly, as a woman, I support Dylan. I love trans people. I don’t think the song is stereotyping women at all. This song isn’t my favorite, but I’m not going to use that as an excuse to be transphobic because transphobia is just wrong. And the fact that I don’t like the song isn’t because I think it’s stereotyping women or because the creator is trans, it’s just not my style of music that I like. Thanks for addressing this, though. 🩷

  • @wheretheromi
    @wheretheromiАй бұрын

    T H I S. It seems like most people don't comprehend the difference between disliking a song and disrespecting a person.

  • @djoctobeat5204
    @djoctobeat5204Ай бұрын

    lovely cosplay!!!!

  • @wheretheromi
    @wheretheromiАй бұрын

    Thank you ☺️

  • @Clouded_cat
    @Clouded_catАй бұрын

    OMGGG LOVVEEE

  • @wheretheromi
    @wheretheromiАй бұрын

    Thank youuuu! I had so much fun ~clowning around~

  • @Lillian_Does_Stuff
    @Lillian_Does_StuffАй бұрын

    the song just sounds bad im not transphobic

  • @wheretheromi
    @wheretheromiАй бұрын

    You missed the point

  • @itxchi_edits
    @itxchi_edits6 күн бұрын

    @@wheretheromino they didn’t. The song just sucks it’s not because the creator identifies with a certain community. If someone dislikes a song because it’s straight trash not because of what the creator identifies with.

  • @wheretheromi
    @wheretheromi6 күн бұрын

    @itxchi_edits Yes, they did! And so did you if this is your response. Listen to what I'm saying: the hate for this song is inherently rooted in transphobia. It's fine to say "you can just hate a song and it doesn't go deeper than that" but that isn't true when you see the vitriol a trans woman gets compared to the hundreds of cis women who have sung songs just like this - those creators aren't personally attacked, those creators aren't misgendered intentionally, those creators aren't made fun of. Their songs become the song of the summer, tiktok trends, and not a single person debates their ability to experience womanhood. When every one of those points is true for the dislike of this song, then you can leave comments like this and I'll believe you.

  • @itxchi_edits
    @itxchi_edits5 күн бұрын

    @@wheretheromi Look, im not saying that this is the only song that misgenders women, honestly I couldn’t care less about that because it does not apply to me and frankly it’s stupid to argue about. I think the song is straight dookie and I don’t care who made it. I tried to tell you lady but just because someone dislikes a song does not mean they hate it. Wanna know something really cool and funny. I interviewed people who hate the song at 87 percent of them didn’t know who the creator even was. They just disliked the song. Not everything today is transphobic and racist and y’all need to learn that opinions don’t always mean someone is wrong. I didn’t know Dylan was transgender and frankly couldn’t care less. Good on HER to find out who she is, the song though, is trash IN MY OPINION! Seems like we can’t have those these days. By the way, you can’t attack an entire group of people for an opinion. And ps opinion good, judging bad 🥰

  • @itxchi_edits
    @itxchi_edits5 күн бұрын

    @@wheretheromi oh wait I forgot!!!! You said they not he/her/ them. EVERYONE SHES TRANSPOHOBIC AND MISGENDERS PEOPLE!!!!

  • @Unknown-g6v
    @Unknown-g6vАй бұрын

    ❤❤❤

  • @wheretheromi
    @wheretheromiАй бұрын

    Thank you! 💚

  • @toastyy_cat
    @toastyy_catАй бұрын

    You're so cool omg

  • @wheretheromi
    @wheretheromiАй бұрын

    Showing humanity IS cool 😘

  • @Tobithepurpleducc
    @TobithepurpleduccАй бұрын

    It’s so refreshing to see more adults/older people in general supporting us.

  • @wheretheromi
    @wheretheromiАй бұрын

    *hugs* I wish this was what you felt every day, because you deserve unconditional love and support always 💚

  • @66clover
    @66cloverАй бұрын

    💀

  • @wheretheromi
    @wheretheromiАй бұрын

    Well, he is, so... accurate?

  • @Gtag_ontop
    @Gtag_ontopАй бұрын

    Cring ngl but keep your head up

  • @wheretheromi
    @wheretheromiАй бұрын

    The sentiment of telling someone "this is embarrassing but don't listen to people who tell you this is embarassing" is actually hilarious 😹

  • @Brownies12356
    @Brownies12356Ай бұрын

    Um what?

  • @wheretheromi
    @wheretheromiАй бұрын

    if you haven't seen BBC ghosts, you're missing out

  • @COOKIECAT277
    @COOKIECAT2772 ай бұрын

    Thank you so much finally someone using this song that’s a female and NOT spreading hate to dylan thank you!!!!!

  • @wheretheromi
    @wheretheromi2 ай бұрын

    I'm non-binary 👍🏻

  • @fpe_doodlesdaily
    @fpe_doodlesdaily2 ай бұрын

    I've never read a harry potter book by anyone ever