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  @spokenme08Сағат бұрын

  When I was dignosed at 11 we were told "ADHD is a learning disability that goes away in adulthood so just wait it out." The general consensus was that we needed to practice these skills so when we became adults we could do them. My Asperger's was considered a social learning disabilty that could be mostly overcome.

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  @rociocabrera83072 сағат бұрын

  Thank you so much for helping me understand what it must be like from this perspective, and its associated challenges and possible related emotional effects.

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  @donnagoodlet83092 сағат бұрын

  Than You - beautifully said

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  @SethPerlerКүн бұрын

  Are you excited 🎉 for TEFOS '24? Share below if you've been and why people should join us!! 👇

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  @jeannedjaballah6319Күн бұрын

  This is so helpful for us to understand what is going on, my personal feeling so unable to go on...but the accent on the strengths just really gives hope for communication and to face the struggles at school. Pedagogically, you have done a wonderful job. Thank you so much! Jeanne

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  @heatheranne93052 күн бұрын

  My 8 year old kicks holes in walls all the time. We've tried all these things, with the result that my kiddo got thrown out of therapy for trying to kick the walls there. I don't think talk therapy works for kids whose memory is so bad (ADHD) that they can't remember coping skills or consequences, regardless of how much practice is done.

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  @gaingaran814 күн бұрын

  Thank you so much for this video. I am not a student but this was supper helpful.

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  @SethPerler2 күн бұрын

  I'm so glad!

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  @kimberlycruz91934 күн бұрын

  I find for myself and my students, to help with being overwhelmed.. break it down into steps, so it doesn't feel so overwhelming. Focus on smaller pieces, and not the whole project at once.

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  @dknuts70806 күн бұрын

  I am a university student am an adult or a kid?

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  @KimGreene-vk1yz6 күн бұрын

  My kid REALLY STRUGGLES to let anything go.

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  @johnroekoek123458 күн бұрын

  This was a 'You only live once' speech. He is right

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  @executivefunction10 күн бұрын

  I like to explain Executive Function as POSITIVE skills which stands for: Planning, Organization, Self-awareness, Initiation, Time-management, Inhibition, Visualizing outcomes, and Evaluating priorities.

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  @CherylAmbrosePhD14 күн бұрын

  This is EXACTLY what I want to do this summer! 😊

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  @SethPerler11 күн бұрын

  You should!

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  @SethPerler14 күн бұрын

  What ideas do YOU have for helping kids build Executive Function over the summer? Add your comment below 👇

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  @Keely227917 күн бұрын

  I hear that from people when there's literally no one else around. A bus driver once said it to me when I asked if I could stay on the bus while he turned around to complete his route. He was like "if I do it for you I'd have to do it for everyone." There was no one else there 😅😅😅

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  @kingmiro395418 күн бұрын

  Nice video 👍

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  @SethPerler11 күн бұрын

  Thanks 👍

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  @redtree73219 күн бұрын

  This straight talk is really appreciated. Amazing how unbelievably whiny and immature these “adults” are in the comments (no better than children!). Do you want to fix your damn problems or not? Thanks for the no BS video, Seth.

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  @norainibtreduankpm-guru773127 күн бұрын

  Thank you

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  @terrancecloverfield679128 күн бұрын

  Great video. I believe you spoke true and honest.i also liked that you don't have that uptalk tone that you see from other videos. It makes me want to listen.

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  @jeannedjaballah6319Ай бұрын

  Thank you so much, you are helping with making connection...an increasing problem with a 15 year old ( I don't need your help any more-I CAN HANDLE IT MYSELF.) The approach you give is key. Much appreciated. Jeanne

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  @SethPerlerАй бұрын

  Glad to help

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  @SethPerlerАй бұрын

  What ideas do YOU have that might help us? Comment below please...

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  @alyssabrantley5073Ай бұрын

  We watched this in class today and everyone found d it helpful. Thank you!!

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  @SethPerler26 күн бұрын

  That's great!

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  @PaulaB1010Ай бұрын

  Thank you so much for your help. I needed this.

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  @SethPerlerАй бұрын

  You are so welcome!

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  @tkgosselinАй бұрын

  I am a 55 yr old female I was diagnosed at 54, by the urging of my husband who has raging adhd. I have no idea how to work with this. I am not whining, I was grieving and then I was angry, very angry. On top of this I was sexually assaulted at the age of 8 to 10 by my step father. I get now why I did things the way I did. But I can't live in the chaos and I have absolutely no trust in people. Anxiety disorder, panic disorder. Verbal abuse as a child, and my father left the day I was born. How did I survive until my.moyher passed away and then my live went to shit. Knowing has inly.made.it worse. I don't know how to trust, how do you trust a therapist. How do you know they have your best interest at heart. I an in a constant state of chaos, fear and frozen to the point I want to no longer exist. I don't mean suicide I mean just putting myself in a catatonic state where nothing matters and no emotions are felt.

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  @KellyDianeOfficialАй бұрын

  I’m crying watching this gosh it’s so hard..

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  @kalaiarasiapponnosamykpm-g3281Ай бұрын

  Thank you

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  @maraoneill9067Ай бұрын

  Another onpoint video, Seth! What I heard you say is relationships are and most important relationship is with ourselves. A healthy relationship with ourselves models for our children how to be healthy themselves.

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  @rosetesta7193Ай бұрын

  Thank You for a concise and clear overview. I am in complete shutdown mode. This gives me hope.

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  @mindfulleducationАй бұрын

  Love the context that you build up here! There is crazy pressure from schools and it causes so much strain on mental health and relationships when all that energy could instead go toward enrichment and quality family time. The stuff that matters way more to future success than academics.

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  @fionnualasmith6086Ай бұрын

  Thank you for making this video

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  @SethPerlerАй бұрын

  My pleasure!

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  @caterinab6303Ай бұрын

  Thank you for this. Love your content. You’re an excellent teacher and communicator.

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  @SethPerlerАй бұрын

  I appreciate that!

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  @anonacc682Ай бұрын

  Priceless. Thank you very much!

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  @zart8478Ай бұрын

  Thank you. It helped that you were there with me every step of the way.

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  @inescornejo4413Ай бұрын

  Looking forward to it ❤

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  @joannebies3879Ай бұрын

  This is presented from a very negative point of view. I’m looking for information for adult ADHD. I hearing more about kids. Also want what I CAN do. Not what I “DoNT Do”. Go to minute 5:17 if you want the start of the 12 TIPS. I don’t have the patience to listen to this today. Maybe some other day.

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  @leahtaylor2312Ай бұрын

  As an OT often explaining EF, I especially love your "best intro ever!" I agree, this is the BEST intro ever! Thank you.

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  @SethPerlerАй бұрын

  Glad you like it!

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  @LoveLife-gv8jgАй бұрын

  Hi. Does EF coaching help with language comorbidities? My son has adhd and DLD.

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  @patrikbatemanxАй бұрын

  based

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  @bunglejoy36452 ай бұрын

  I hated school struggled with school from nursery vome high school I really didn't want to go to school used to try and ake myself sick when went back to school after break down gorvlast 18 month of school lifeci wascin special u it where at most there were only four of us in a class and I had my named teacher gor all least s and it was bet5er but I only started to enjoy learning at college back in late 1980s autism wasent known about or GAD which I've only recently been diagnosed 3ith and I suspect I had cysprexics a co ordination and maths learning difficulty that encompasses executive function

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  @bethanya49742 ай бұрын

  Thank you thank you thank you for this video. Through your summit and others I’ve watched to support my kid, I realized that I, too, have ADHD (just got late diagnosed about 3 weeks ago). I’m realizing that I have to be patient, especially when my EF strengths/ weaknesses might be a different flavor than my kid. Self compassion has really been helping me show more patience. I’m definitely saving this video to reference later

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  @KimGreene-vk1yz2 ай бұрын

  Adhd late diagnosed parent of adhd child. Our entire household STRUGGLES badly to declutter. We work. We are perfectionist. Procrastinators. It's so hard but I'm still learning how to knock those problems down. I feel so bad for how cluttered our house is though.

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  @jquinn77432 ай бұрын

  Thank you! Helpful tips and yes, important to empower our kids how to be true to themselves and strategize in a way that literally plays to their strengths. I would also suggest to remember the goal is progress not perfection when making strategies- I have had to learn how to accept the compromise of a “good enough” strategy to keep the strategy real (as in, a strategy is there to serve me, not my life conformed to serve the “perfect” ideal life strategy)

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  @SethPerler2 ай бұрын

  You are so welcome!

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  @chickenfooker742 ай бұрын

  Loved that. I should be able to stick to this if I do it just before eating.

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  @JuliaN-hy1uy2 ай бұрын

  I am deeply grateful for your weekly videos. Your advice makes me a better person and parent and person in the world. Thank you!

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  @SethPerler2 ай бұрын

  Wow, thank you

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  @user-ru1md8dx2h2 ай бұрын

  Hi Seth, one of your best videos for me personally, so thank you. I have strategies, I have 'made it', I am rasing kids kids in a good home, I have so much to be grateful for - that coupled with your tools, tips reminders make me positive about the future and a beter parent.

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  @SethPerler2 ай бұрын

  Fantastic!

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  @user-cn8rz5pm2k2 ай бұрын

  Me too. My child is grown now.

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  @916familyfun22 ай бұрын

  ⭐💯⭐ So helpful Thank you 💙🙏💙

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  @LuisTorres-mk2hz2 ай бұрын

  I have always viewed your channel not because of my son, rather information for me and how I can manage EF.

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  @SethPerler2 ай бұрын

  What do YOU think? Comment below, it just might help someone else! 👇

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  @bunglejoy36452 ай бұрын

  My favourite executive function app would be toddy its a housework app without my sheltered housing flat woukd be a bomb site when uou diwnliad it ftom google play dtore it gives you a pre set form of all the tooms in your home and a list of chores to that room ie if its bathroom it will say toiket sink clean shower fittings mop gloir disinfect floor clean walls change towels kitchen it will ssy workyops sink gloir fridge freezer drawers empty bin and so on if you say fill form in to hoover every fortnight it will sugfest domething more appropuate like twice a week setting it upmis the longest job but worth theres a character called dusty and he does the jobs on time and its uour job to do them on time if your so nany days late job goes amber colour next to the task if very kate it goes red agsinst task and tells you how nany days late once youve cleared tasks colour goes clear and you know youve completed ive never bet dusty yet and he comes out with funny vomments like if uouve fone loads if jobs at once in bsthroom it will say hey the toilets my sanctuary ir dont uou think you dhould take it easy i put it on at startvof covid and its never come off my tablet a first for me