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you literally have 0 right to talk about something you know NOTHING about..
I’ve been with the one guy ten years. Not really happy for a long time. I settled Now … I met this guy on fb and after a month he’s he’s completely in love with me and wants to give me the world. Is it possible to fall in love in a month? And he is so in love with me… willing to give me everything…. Buts it’s only been a month…. What do I do???
..for all purposes in life, bitterness is a poison pill to avoid at all costs. My opinion. I had plenty of reasons to feel bitter in life, luckily I dodged that bullet mostly... not by accident. Early experiences with anger taught me the toxic danger in Anger. Bitterness is the same kind of monster. .. The problem isn't in the facts, that caused it, it's the monster you have to defeat, no matter what...
It's partly an illusion that women believe... partly it's men that have to compete.. The upside is men CAN COMPETE.. in multiple ways... women in West THINK they can, but is it really true? To get pumped and dumped? Yes... Then get a real partner? Not so much. That is, women COULD easily also " up their game, but many who have a beauty advantage won't... Fact is character counts and many people, women included dont see that...
I have cancer and It has been extremely hard to find anyone because of how isolated I am and all of the limitations I have due to my illness. I want to be loved and in a relationship, but at this point I know that will never be possible so I am trying to find a way to accept that and get rid of this need to be in a relationship or be loved.
"one bad thing doesnt make u a bad person" is such a comforting line since i truly have always tried to be perfect for my ex but no one can be perfect fr
I discovered now that am ugly by "wheat waffle", i can better myself a little bit but i wont make date a priority because am fcked mostly ahaha
What a bunch of BS 🙄 There's just one type of person who defends porn and that's the (ab)user, not realising they're also being (ab)used. When they wake up with 10 issues one day and realise 9 is caused by porn, they may rethink that. If they can still think with porn brain that is 🤷🏼♀️
im ugly as shit, conmstant rejection from good looking, mostly i get on women with looks i certainingly hat, im going with passport bros ans if that doesnt work ill go with plastic surgery and if that doesnt work ill choose to die with a bitter heart and to embrace my horrid flaws.
Interesting 🤔, the reason why I don't personally share my projects/ideas publicly is because I believe Envy has such a strong energy that it affects us, and people tent to envy your progress and bringing you negative outcomes afterwards
Really struggling with this right now. Thank you for the advice.
Dude, I don't know what you're on about. First off, you're not unattractive, so you are talking about how you think life is for unattractive men. Second, improving is useful for unattractive men because they'll feel better, not because it will attract women. Third, most unattractive guys can actually get a partner, however they cannot get one they're actually attracted to, and if they do, she'll either use them for money, cheat on them with attractive guys, make their lives a living hell by being moody all the time, or a combination between the above mentioned. Most guys simply don't want to know what "their" women do when they're not around. Unless there is some external force (social norms, religion, extreme poverty, war), women as a whole will not stay with the great majority of guys, love them, be faithful to them or generally want anything to do with them except for extracting attention (number 1) and resources (usually money, number 2). In the tribal structure women procreate with the most attractive men, the rest are just there to serve the tribe and ensure the offspring of the attractive ones get to adulthood. Their benefit is just survival, as it's easier to survive in the tribe than outside it. The tribal structure only works if there is no poverty, no social norms or religion to shackle the female instinct. However, the tribal structure does not work for large numbers of people, such as nations, countries or empires. As soon as the shackles on the female instincts come of, that structure collapses back into tribes. Currently unattractive men are contributing to the collapse of the various countries and empires by not participating in the dating game and the attached economics around it. I expect generation Alpha will be extremely small in numbers and they'll have to deal with lots of crazy single people from generation Z and Millenials. Gen X won't care, Boomers will be long gone. Basically the game just restarts... Maybe that's why it's called generation Alpha.
So Chad’s advice to sub 5 male of how to date as an unattractive male: Just improve. Just get game. Just play the numbers 😂😂😂😂 Excellent, I’m positive they hadn’t thought of that!
Yuh no u don’t deserve any of this at all .. remember wat it was and how it use to be .. remember the times yall laughed together , remember the moments you all shared , now think if u could go back would u make the same decision u did
Found this so helpful. Thank you
Thank you it was really helpful
neither of the guys should choose you if you are not loyal and in this situation....
Cheaters are LIARS first- remember that. If a person cheats ONCE, there is a 350 per cent chance they’ll do it again. RUN!!
What the hell are you talking about? All I hear is word salad and not getting to the point. Cheers!
Don't cheat....problem solved
Are u perfect
Ex wife cheated 15 years ago. I still feel bad about it. But I guess from this video she shouldn't. Interesting. I won't forgive so easily. She chose to do the literal worst thing she could do to her husband. Absolutely nothing more disrespectful. She did this with forethought. She did it in on purpose. She literally gave me PTSD. So yeah. Just forgive yourself and " move on". Meanwhile I have a life sentence mentally so that seems fair.
I'm still harbouring lots of guilt and shame from ending a relationship 😔 and it still affects me to this day, and it's been over a year since.
As a betrayed partner I actually found your video to be very conscientious and helpful. It gave me a little bit of insight into what my partner's frame of mind might have been I think it's important for people on my end to understand what you guys are going through just like the other way. I have to admit I gained a few insights from this video.
What are hidden traits? 😅
The root cause of the thing that you’re complimenting and personality traits, you have to dig a bit deeper than just the outside
Women, some) , and I mostly referring to women in their 50s that have never been married and never have children lack nurturing skills because they were emotionally neglected not abused. They are emotionally immature because they were taught that showing emotions shows weakness, and all the sudden now they feel like they're so strong and independent, and they ruin relationships because they think that their male partner doesn't measure up to them they're grandiosity thinks that they need to find somebody who's their equal. They'll never find it The beautiful thing about interdependence which is what a relationship actually is, is that each person brings different traits and characteristics , some more developed in some areas then their partner and vice versa. This is how they can compliment each other. I feel sorry for these women that feel they have to feel like they have to not need a man in their life. They want a man in their life and they'll say they don't need a man in their life. Another words, they could easily just walk away. Is the defense mechanism in its all fear-based and where there's fear there's no love. And if there's no love, there's no point. I told my dismissive avoidant. Ex-girlfriend that you can't receive or keep anything that someone gives you unless you're willing to give that back. If you can't reciprocate what your needs are then you really need an Awakening. Stop looking for external validation, the only way you'll be able to find validation is from looking within and it takes work in order to do that. But first you have to meditate and clear those false beliefs in your subconscious mind that is just destroying your life. You're going to create this false sense of self in the older you get, the more difficult it is in the more shallow friends you're going to attract by seeking external validation so you can go ahead and feed each other The superficial food for your false sense of self. And while you're at it make sure you save your money because when you get old, you're going to have to pay somebody pretty big money to change your diapers and to help you around. Good luck
You did the action? You feel the bite. You literally made a choice to cheat. In the year of 2024, I think we has fully working adults know that there is a chance that drinking can lead to cheating so that’s not even an excuse anymore. Call that a one sided view point if you want, the fact of it is, you made that choice.
The first thing that came out of your mouth was immediately a fallacy. Just because they are in a relationship with you does not mean that they are automatically attracted to you.
Some cheaters don't feel guilty. Mine didn't. He blamed me like he always did. It was a TNT and I internally said, fuck you abd goodbye. Blocked, dumped and left him. May he enjoy dating scene, it's very difficult out there😂 Once you cheat you're out of the fucking window. If someone wants open relationship then state it but crossing boundaries is not an option. Equality or he can eat grass which he is now😂
He's still running from himself lovorka and he will run with the next one but each time it'll scar him more torment him more he might feel backed against the walls and the survival instincts come through there is no peace in that it's sad all around
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I wish this video was an hour long. Either way, I've listened to it 10 times already. Thank you.
It used to be so painful for me because I underestimated exactly how ugly I was. I thought I was as attractive as other average guys but little did I know how wrong I was. It was nothing short of a lesson in humility finding out that I wasn’t even close to being average. I thought I was a 5 but in reality I was a 3. Once I learned this the hard way I have given on dating because it’s simply not worth the pain of rejection which only makes my self esteem go down to the point where I began to contemplate suicide and it’s something that I just simply want to avoid. That is why now, I avoid eye contact with attractive women , and I avoid conversation and simply try to ignore them because I know in my heart I’m not good enough and being rejected is simply not worth the possibility of death. Because in all honesty if I get rejected one more time I know I will end my life there is no question about it.
I dont fully agree with the ending. I love my wife and I will be there while we figure this out.
Keep lying to yourself and others
Hi. How to cure it??😔
My spouse says I need a boyfriend when I verbalize what I need. It’s frustrating
Thank you for making this video, I fully agree with it. Online relationships sound great in theory, until you realize how important intimacy is. My love language is physical touch rather than words of affirmation and things like that, so once the initial spark for that person is gone, it all feels so fake and meaningless. I'm a teenager, 18, and a woman, and apart from my most recent relationship, they were all fully online. I can never go back to LDRs. I need to experience life with you side by side, and feel confident you won't get antsy because I haven't responded to your text and am living in the REAL WORLD.
Husband not being able to do what you spoke of ruins the marriage true intimacy and uniting cannot happen ever.
When Chad tries to explain the datingworld to ugly men, its always comedy. Just avoid women if you are in the bottom 85%.
well I do not care to lose all I have, my car my house I do not like to be beat up or hit on, I do not like sex day and night. men do not grow up as a woman has to grow up at a young age. I had to anyway, so men pls go your own way, xp
i hurt him and ruined his prescription of love, I'm mental and he always pushed me away ignoring me and breaking up with me constantly and sometimes I just needed another person to talk to I shouldn't have talked to another man behind his back, i hate myself now and i dont feel ill ever get over it im non stop crying i want him back but i ruined it
If it hurts the other person it is cheating
Not always
@@aconsciousrethink 🤣 sir you are a menace to society lying to people like this If it hurts someone it is an emotional affair and it is wrong and cruel You should do some therapy and come back to this before you talk vulnerable people into going down the path of self sabotage
You’re a cutie stop it
Said no woman to him ever
Great advice but the music is way too distracting. Can barely understand her point bc of it.
This was great. My partner and I are having some problem. She seeks more intimicy and Im very not intimate. I show affection in many other ways. Im afraid we are at a crossroad, because even though i try to be more intimate she sees it as homework for me. Im lost and dont know what to do. This woman is suppose to become The mother of our children and now she says The spark is fading. I will try to be more insightful😥
amazing ❤
This is one of the hardest things I’ve ever had to deal with in my life , my stability has vanished and been replaced with guilt , shame hurt and loneliness, I cheated on my partner and we had a 3 year old boy , I’ve owned and been honest what I’ve done , but she left and got straight into another relationship, I lost my partner and son , tis is the consequences and I’m in a dark place , so much regret!!
How to date if your ugly is like telling us how to.walk on land of your a fish 🐟
"If they told you they don't like him they probably don't like him" 😂 but seriously thanks for the video.
This was a great informative video! My husband puts his mom and my step daughter before me and he has been doing this for years, sometimes I wonder is he even contious about it anymore.🤦🏽♀️
Thanks for this, its a really taboo topic but i definitely think it needs to be talked about more.