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  @SewManyThingsСағат бұрын

  I so appreciate your no nonsense practical approach to life! Here’s to growing a “pair of balls”!😂

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  @pamelamckenzie268516 сағат бұрын

  I got two lovely books one is called The Joy of Actually Giving an F How Kindness Cures Stress and makes You Happy by David R Hamilton which is on KZread and the second book is The DNA WAY unlock The Secrets of Your Genes To Reverse Disease Slow aging and Achieve optimal wellness. We all need positive people around and stand in our own power i make my life happy every day walks reading making things and meeting up with happy people Great video love and light to you and I do meditation and listen to spiritual music shaman and angel music buddha music

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  @joyofthings22 сағат бұрын

  You are a guiding light.Thanks mother this was needed to be told, very wise words.xxx🐝🐝🐝

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  @scarlett91822 сағат бұрын

  I understand how you say you are, because i have been like this all my life. I prefer to be a strong independent woman, struggling along sometimes in life, but enjoying the lows and highs and never asking for help. There is always a solution. I don't like all that byeeeee stuff, i cant do small talk, but at the same time i am a sociable person, yet on my own terms.I don't follow the crowd, prefer to do things on my own.I think sometimes we are just born like this, for as a child i was the same. That was a great video! Best wishes to you.

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  @meanqueensuperscrimper890820 сағат бұрын

  Thank you.

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  @Andrea-md9pe23 сағат бұрын

  Totally agree with you, really like your hair that length and a lighter colour 👍💖💜

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  @anoodono1841Күн бұрын

  I watched a much older video of yours yesterday and enjoyed it. It was monetised so u must still b getting some income from youtube. Good for you. No need for info on same just commenting Ilona

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  @meanqueensuperscrimper8908Күн бұрын

  Just because some of my videos have adverts, does not mean I am getting any money from them. I do not want adverts, I haven't monetised the channel, and they have no means to send me any money. They don't have my bank details, I don't do internet banking, I don't have a paypal account. Don't bother to click the like button, don't click follow. I am not interested in numbers.

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  @jacqui917611 сағат бұрын

  How rude are you!

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  @keepingitreal61810 сағат бұрын

  @@jacqui9176I think you mean honest

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  @voyageinthepast8752Күн бұрын

  Hello Ilona and all your followers ! I think the most important message , which we are not taught, is that each of us has their own solution to be happy. Only your know how to make youself happy, not somebody else. So look after yourself first. Then you ll have plenty of happiness to share as you like it 😊

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  @pamelacourtney8998Күн бұрын

  Totally agree with you Ilona. Blessings to all ❤

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  @juneingram1130Күн бұрын

  Very well said. I love your no nonsense approach

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  @barbarawesterman6807Күн бұрын

  Here here. I totally agree. I have lived my life that way. I was a carer for an elderly relative for awhile and as you say it is challenging but you have to as I say. "Put your big girl knickers on and get on with it" 😊

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  @meanqueensuperscrimper8908Күн бұрын

  Facing up to challenges is all part of life. They don't last forever. I do so admire people who take on the responsibility for those who are less physically or mentally able to look after themselves. Compassion is something our Government is short on, as they railroad everything in their way to appease the rich cabal.

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  @barbarawesterman6807Күн бұрын

  Thank you for your reply. Cheers from Australia 🇦🇺 😊

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  @thissideupthatsidedownКүн бұрын

  Those are wonderful. They have a lot of 'personality". I great when a day goes really well. Thanks for the video.

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  @thissideupthatsidedownКүн бұрын

  Thanks for the video. That was fun.

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  @sherimillman53Күн бұрын

  Thank you ❤

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  @thissideupthatsidedownКүн бұрын

  Agree. I've always left a place or situation that was less than. Find information, make a plan, take action and never settle. Life's hardships make you resilient. No matter what is going to happen being adaptable to the situation and aware of what will come next help to survive and thrive. The more you have been through in life the less that surprises you and the easier it is to just live life. Thanks for the video.

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  @meanqueensuperscrimper8908Күн бұрын

  A good common sense comment. Thank you.

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  @karenchance6098Күн бұрын

  I needed to hear this Ilona. Thank you.

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  @meanqueensuperscrimper8908Күн бұрын

  I tell it like I see it. Move forward with your life and make the changes that will take you to a better place. lots of love. xxx ilona

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  @brianWHITE-zi5qsКүн бұрын

  thanking you and similar people out there for their sanity amongst all of the nonesense that is consuming us

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  @meanqueensuperscrimper8908Күн бұрын

  Thank you. Sanity is in short supply at the moment, but fear not, it is out there somewhere. Have you found Sanity for Sweden? Check out his videos. Stefan makes me laugh.

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  @lizb4156Күн бұрын

  Good on you.😊

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  @varinafulcher5898Күн бұрын

  Agree ❤

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  @judimantos904Күн бұрын

  Great “pep talk”! Just what I needed to hear at this time in my life. Trying to cope with a significant other that has Parkinson’s and other medical problems.

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  @meanqueensuperscrimper8908Күн бұрын

  I have a friend who has been through something similar. Her dear husband has passed away a year ago, but with the support of her friends and family around here, she has been able to make a new life for herself. She has relatives in Australia and travelled there by herself for an extended holiday. She is now considering moving there. When one chapter closes another opens. Seek help from the professionals if you need it. Don't struggle alone. Much love. xxx ilona

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  @maxinemcivor49742 күн бұрын

  Ilona, what timing me watching this. I've learnt to say no as ive got older. In fact someone has just asked me to do something which i normally do to keep the peace TODAY just before i watched your vlog , for the first time I said NO because for me its the right thing to do. Im not sure what the fallouts going to be though!! I feel sick 😫

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  @meanqueensuperscrimper8908Күн бұрын

  Good for you. Go for it. You will emerge glorious from it. Rise in the knowledge that you are taking responsibility for your life from now on. If it doesn't feel right, then it isn't right.

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  @cherrypie87962 күн бұрын

  But today you can't walk out from one job to another.

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  @meanqueensuperscrimper8908Күн бұрын

  Not easily. That is an excuse to do nothing. Stay where you are and become more miserable by the day. If you make the decision that what you are doing isn't right for you, work towards finding something better. Start studying, take a course, ask friends if they know of any opportunities, search the jobs pages in the newspapers. It's up to you. Your fairy Godmother is not going to wave her magic wand and hold your hand.

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  @rickiwinter15872 күн бұрын

  There's nearly always a way through if you look for it . If life knocks you down ,as it will from time to time, get back up, dust yourself down , then get on with it

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  @meanqueensuperscrimper8908Күн бұрын

  Correct. As my good friend keeps telling me when we have these sorts of conversations, 'You are the author of your own destiny'.

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  @julienolan50222 күн бұрын

  Great advise llona fear is conjured up by the enemy because people who are full of fear cannot get on with their lives and they are also easy to control , the one who died on the cross for me told me not to fear .

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  @meanqueensuperscrimper8908Күн бұрын

  Thank you Julie.

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  @brendaalexander19232 күн бұрын

  Hi llona love you video keep them coming take care 😊

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  @julienolan50222 күн бұрын

  Yes llona I've never gone along with the masses & i don't like crowds and i always like to question things it pulls us apart from the norm which i like .

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  @christinehowells58452 күн бұрын

  Well said lliona you take alot of sense take good care

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  @innertuition73632 күн бұрын

  awesome lil vid, first time ive seen you... i think we are all on different levels of conscious awareness ... i used to stress about waking people up.. but i realized some folk will never wake up and question nothing, because they are either too indoctrinated or too ignorant and cowardly.. The mind is a powerful tool.. either take control of it or let the ego mind run your life, keep you in fear, hatred and at low level consciousness.. i will say, stop watching and listening to mainstream media, which is designed to work on our fears.. i want yall to know we are all powerful co creators..

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  @meanqueensuperscrimper8908Күн бұрын

  Thank you for sharing your thoughts. I totally agree with you. Those who chant build back better, and the great reset, are on a mission to destroy what we have. We have to say no.

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  @FaithJRB2 күн бұрын

  I agree with you 100% One has to be resilient. Unfortunately most people like to be told what to do. People dont't use their critical thinking most of the time. Check out the interview with Prof Matais Desmet and Tucker Carlson or any interviews with Prof Desmet. Mass Media signed up to the Trusted News Initiative which controls the narrative and people sit at screens and accept all they are told.

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  @meanqueensuperscrimper89082 күн бұрын

  Thank you. I love Mr Desmet. Everything he says makes sense.

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  @janegallagher61622 күн бұрын

  I'd prefer to have every confidence in God's ability.

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  @keithcitizen48552 күн бұрын

  amazing how life evolved for me , falling on feet between jobs , all behind now a consolation for getting old , some luck but not the whole lot ,had some awful moments of despair , sickness ETC

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  @meanqueensuperscrimper89082 күн бұрын

  It's not easy, but there is always a way to get through it. Every new day is a new beginning. Whatever happened yesterday is gone, you can't go back.

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  @vandieman262 күн бұрын

  Thanks for another great video. This is Marlane from California a follower of your blog for a few years and now see you here. I am in your age group and agree that quality of life is up to us. I have a husband and it is all very interesting and that is my challenge to live the best that I can in my later years now.

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  @meanqueensuperscrimper89082 күн бұрын

  Hello. We have the advantage of age on our side. We have learnt a lot of lessons. Now we need to pass our experiences on to the next generation. We don't have all the answers, and not everyone will listen, but it's better than doing nothing.

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  @S.Lee132 күн бұрын

  Good talk Ilona!! Can’t picture myself as a woman with a pair of balls so must be a better term for that for us women😆😄. The old saying pull yourself up by your boot straps comes to mind or we are much stronger than we think we are.

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  @kasandrabrown86112 күн бұрын

  You are a great motivational speaker! 🎉

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  @meanqueensuperscrimper89082 күн бұрын

  I think I went into a bit of a rant there. I am very passionate about people taking responsibility for themselves. If it doesn't feel right then it isn't right.

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  @christophercrow2332 күн бұрын

  Wonderful video! Love from the USA!!!

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  @patsparks35002 күн бұрын

  Thank you, Iona for sharing your thoughts, very sensible they are too!

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  @alleyjobes48702 күн бұрын

  Grow a pair of balls....made me giggle, but you are very right. I'm 60, and find myself looking to find me. I have always done for others and lost myself somewhere between being a mum, in full time work, to being someone's partner.... I decided to grow a pair and look at my own needs first. This is all very new to me but I'm taking no prisoners for this part of my life. Thank you x

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  @meanqueensuperscrimper89082 күн бұрын

  Exactly right. Life is a book, we go through many chapters. We can only give so much of ourselves, then we have to retreat and move on. I had bigger balls than some of the men I worked with. 🤪

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  @janepearson5802Күн бұрын

  My advice, for what it's worth. Don't watch or listen to msm . They are fear mongers.if you believe in God ,pray .

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  @teresacrowley40762 күн бұрын

  Love the older buses 💚☘️. I enjoyed the video tks ☘️

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  @carriestreb2 күн бұрын

  Thank you for telling us about your job switch Ilona. If you don't agree with something being done in a workplace, and they are digging their heels in and won't change, it is better to leave than to have it ruin your mental health/physical health by caving in. My Grandmother had a very similar mindset to what you have, and I enjoy hearing your wisdom from living life.

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  @meanqueensuperscrimper89082 күн бұрын

  Thank you. Luckily when I was working there was always a choice of jobs. Not so much now. BUT, never give up, always look for new opportunities. Seek and you will find.

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  @carriestrebКүн бұрын

  That is true!

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  @martinsamuels28972 күн бұрын

  Wow this video has really hit home for me thank you llona 😊❤

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  @dmaria-gf6pn2 күн бұрын

  Fear is a thought that we have been taught to be scared of, it is not real. Meditation helps, we all have the answer to find the truth, of course we are amazing, we need to realise that. Love and light to everyone :)) Thanks Illona

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  @lynns.18552 күн бұрын

  You are right. I’ve always took care of myself. When my son was young I could have gotten government assistance. But I didn’t want government in my business. Now as an older woman I’m glad I stayed independent. Hard times don’t scare me. I’m definitely not a sheep. Great video.

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  @meanqueensuperscrimper89082 күн бұрын

  That's a good attitude to have.

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  @leighwiseman83892 күн бұрын

  Hi Ilona, life can get extremely overwhelming but like you I have always forged ahead because what else can you do. I'm on the same page as you Ilona, I love these videos where you tell it how it is. Take care Ilona xxx

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  @shadowsatmidnight2 күн бұрын

  You are so brilliant ♡ xx

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  @teresacrowley40762 күн бұрын

  Thanks Ilona for your common sense 💚☘️

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  @mssdn89762 күн бұрын

  You do talk a lot of sense

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  @meanqueensuperscrimper89082 күн бұрын

  Just my thoughts. Thank you.

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  @lindacleveland12892 күн бұрын

  There are no problems only solutions 💪

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  @meanqueensuperscrimper89082 күн бұрын

  There are always answers. We just need to navigate our way through the ups and downs. Thank you Linda.

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  @MsLimapapa2 күн бұрын

  Well said Ilona. Also love your top - colour really suits you. ❤

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  @tinyshamrocks21722 күн бұрын

  Question everything … become ungovernable

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  @UnStrungHero2 күн бұрын

  Right ON!!!! Ilona

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  @anneosullivan41072 күн бұрын

  Oh Ilona, that gave me a good laugh. 😂 'grow a pair'.... The colour of your top suits you so well. I agree entirely, no one can live your life for you and indeed, be careful who you dedicate your precious life to. You are very wise. 👍