It's so refreshing to see a couple that waited till they got married. It tends to be so discouraging coming across believers who don't abstain and make you feel like your decision to abstain is useless/worthless. So S/O to y'all man. 💛

@noxolomhlongo9346

3 жыл бұрын

I love how she was honest about how difficult it is to abstain, she is transparent about the challenges but also the overall benefits are far greater than the challenges

@zaneleradebe8954

3 жыл бұрын

I agree. As a 20 something whose been waiting all her life it can be discouraging to meet or hear christian be so nonchalant about purity. To me it means so much, except just waiting for marriage (which always has the possibility of not happening), it also means I am willing to sacrifice parts of my flesh I know would be enjoyable outside the container of marriage but wouldn't be for my edification. I love love, but there is something so moving for me personally when I see a couple do love God's way or date within the parameters that I consider as godly. It is a great and gentle reminder to hold on still on days I might forget or be discouraged.

@kzeetha

3 жыл бұрын

Please do not listen to them, be very intentional and keep pursuing purity as if ur life depends on it because it does❤

@conradmashazhike6670

2 жыл бұрын

I love it also after watching a few episodes I kept looking for one that has a couple that represents Christ and this is it!!

“I would rather not be with you for now than fall into temptation and risk losing you forever”🥺♥️

@DEFINING

3 жыл бұрын

A word😭😭

I'm so excited for everyone to see the special we did with Netflix and the Sowetan! What a huge blessing😭🙌🏿

@khwezilomsontanga3980

3 жыл бұрын

Big moves 🔥🎉🎉! Congratulations, it’s only going up from here 😍!

@ongezwagwala6842

3 жыл бұрын

Yaay!!! Congratulations team!!! Super stoked for y'all, well deserving 🥳

@ayandan3826

3 жыл бұрын

Congratulations you deserve it!!🥺

@BoitumeloMichelle_

3 жыл бұрын

Omg congratulations!!! Cannot wait to see it! 🥳🎉💃🏽

@awonkentabeni

3 жыл бұрын

Congratulations😍😍❤

Any from Tuks watching?

@adivhahomathivha1881

3 жыл бұрын

Right here 📍

@nomalangasinyoka4303

3 жыл бұрын

🙋🏽‍♀️

@bongiwelanga1706

3 жыл бұрын

🙋🏾‍♀️

@JessicaRapelego

3 жыл бұрын

📍

@bontle_poopedi

3 жыл бұрын

📍

I love how they show us that Purity is not virginity but a state of deciding to focus on complete obedience to God with your mind, body and soul. Thank you for depicting a love that immediately reminds me of God. This couple is just amazing

Would love to see Babalwa and Zola here😭😩🥺🥺

@noxolozulu6056

3 жыл бұрын

Same hey ❤

@austinsoks9068

3 жыл бұрын

same

@nelisaashtonmagenu293

3 жыл бұрын

Dude!! 😭🕯🕯

@thudiemo

3 жыл бұрын

Bruh♥️😭

We hope you enjoy this episode with Didi & Zam! Let's get this video to 5000 likes ❤️!

"Making the decision was the easy part, maintaining it was the difficult part" and that's a life in general quote.

@DEFINING

3 жыл бұрын

Eish🔥🔥

These two are so wholesome. I won't lie I low key get a pain in my heart when I watch defining love. I'm happy for the couples but like that love has never happened to me to this day. I have never received a calm and romantic type of love like this. I hope to God he blesses me with a special person and a healthy type of love.

@kwetsephetla3597

3 жыл бұрын

It will happen ❤️

@lunamommy8226

3 жыл бұрын

This used to be me… this is how I actually fell in love with this channel… As I type this, I am happily in love and in a relationship with my best friend of over 7 years 🥰😍 (yeeerrrr… I love that man!?) It comes… when you least expect it

Beautiful story. May I encourage whoever reading this that purity or celibacy should always be an obedience to God and not a "prize" for your future spouse. May God strengthen us on our purity of heart journey❤️

@DEFINING

3 жыл бұрын

Thank you for the reminder🥺🤗

One thing about DEFINING, it will make you believe in love ❤️

@DEFINING

3 жыл бұрын

You know the vibes🥺❤

I can’t wait to see Dennis fall in love 🕯😍😍

@missm518

3 жыл бұрын

And has his own Defining love episode 🕯️🕯️🕯️🕯️🕯️

@ThatyMahloko

3 жыл бұрын

🕯 🕯

@DEFINING

3 жыл бұрын

Same😭😭

That “grow together” type of love 😭❤️ Marriage will never not be attractive! Love is truly a beautiful thing! 🥺🥺

@DEFINING

3 жыл бұрын

❤❤❤

I think it is safe to say please, have DrMusa Mthombeni & Liesl Laurie

A.J’s Parents 😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍❤️❤️❤️

@DEFINING

3 жыл бұрын

Das right🕺🏾

🥺😭❤️ Dennis and his team are doing the Lord’s work here

@asandezuma3768

3 жыл бұрын

Facts🥺

@DEFINING

3 жыл бұрын

Danko🥺💕

Didi is really pretty, like in a cute way😍

@karabodidi

3 жыл бұрын

Thank you ♥️

@zamilekhumalo4928

3 жыл бұрын

In every way 😍

So grateful for social media and KZread. The world has become smaller and we are exposed to so much beauty and beautiful people, this is exactly how I feel about today's episode- simply and refreshingly beautiful ♥️

@DEFINING

3 жыл бұрын

❤❤

Such a beautiful couple. I often feel like marriage has such a bad reputation and it’s beautiful seeing young black love ✨❤️.

This girl speaks like me please 😭❤ I'd often say and try to explain that God really does speak to EVERYONE you just have to listen ❤❤ if you seek him though music or however He will !!! speak PATIENCE is the hardest even in abstaining 👏🏽👏🏽

I should also listen attentively to the Holy Spirit maybe He is busy telling me who my future husband is.😂😂 I enjoyed this episode.✨❤

@anofefemtontsi1393

3 жыл бұрын

🤣🤣🤣

@awonkentabeni

3 жыл бұрын

Girl!!!😂😂😂😂

@zaneleradebe8954

3 жыл бұрын

😂😂😂😂 Don't forget you still have free will though even if God could direct your path and show you the beauty of a person or their heart or his intent for your life using that person

@kwetsephetla3597

3 жыл бұрын

Maybe you’ve been ignoring 😭😂😂

I love how the both spoke of Corinthians 13 in their love letters😭😍❤️ what a beautiful couple

@DEFINING

3 жыл бұрын

❤❤

The moment she calls him by his clan names that humbles me in a different way🙏. DIdi you're so pulchritude and very smart. I miss Tuks now.

I love just how easy going they are; like they genuinely just like each other it’s so beautiful nje the smiles on their faces.🥺😍 May God continue to bless this union.

@karabodidi

3 жыл бұрын

Thank you 🙏🏾

@DEFINING

3 жыл бұрын

❤❤❤

"You’re able to overcome,when there’s alignment “ 🙌🏾heard that loud and clear

@DEFINING

3 жыл бұрын

Right!!

Didi is so beautiful 🥺❤️❤️

@karabodidi

3 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much ♥️

@zamilekhumalo4928

3 жыл бұрын

She really is

“The man that creates room for me to be the best version of myself “🥰😍😍

@DEFINING

3 жыл бұрын

❤❤❤

Can you guys please bring umieydreamz and her mans hle 🥺🥺

@Toks361

3 жыл бұрын

YES!!!

@kutlwanomasote26

3 жыл бұрын

I beg. 👏🏾

@kgothatso_N

3 жыл бұрын

Please!!!!

@morebudicollin21

3 жыл бұрын

Million beggings hle...ka kopo

@koketsomalesolo7728

3 жыл бұрын

Yes please I agree with you

Didi is so smitten 😍 I love to see it 😍

@karabodidi

3 жыл бұрын

I really am 😅☺️♥️

@DEFINING

3 жыл бұрын

We love to see it❤❤

@zamilekhumalo4928

3 жыл бұрын

You and I both sis 😍

It is always amazing to see black love. So beautiful

@DEFINING

3 жыл бұрын

❤❤❤

Yhoo aa, I'm tired of crying everytime I watch DEFINING Love/ Friendship ❣️

@mwansachisanga7243

2 жыл бұрын

I thought I was the only one 😭😩

The letters always get me cutting onions 😭😭😭😍😭😭😭 love is a beautiful thing.

@DEFINING

3 жыл бұрын

🥺❤

Beautiful! When young folks speak of God in this manner.

@DEFINING

3 жыл бұрын

Right🔥

"Watching you grow from a first year to a matured woman that you are" I felt it!!!

@DEFINING

3 жыл бұрын

Feelltt❤

We can't wait for you to see the special announcement in this video 🤩🥳

@HelangMedia

3 жыл бұрын

Excited for this chile

@khunindlovu3310

3 жыл бұрын

Boooona😆😆😆when yall hit the loadsheding i was dying😆😆but S/O on yall and Netflix

@TiisetsoPhalatse

3 жыл бұрын

Congratulations on your new series with Netflix 🎉

@HelangMedia

3 жыл бұрын

CONGRATULATIONS 🔥

@esihleaphelele8409

2 жыл бұрын

Can we have Babalwa Ndlwana and Zola Mcaciso or Nozibele and Skhumbuzo Mayaba

When he said it’s easy to overcome when you’re aligned. I felt that 🙏🏾 it’s so inspiring seeing that they decided to start abstaining in the course of their relationship.

@DEFINING

3 жыл бұрын

So true! They were so honest about their experience and how they conquered it together!

This was special . Thanks Defining Team! Side note: Honoring God takes discipline. To tune in to Godly whispers requires obedience and spiritual maturity! We sometimes ( I) get confirmation from above but ignore it. We plan but God decides, controls and governs EVERYTHING! Here is to honoring God , not only with our bodies but being zealous and hungry for the Lord! May we be blessed with husbands and wives God approves off. Ones who are aligned to our purpose , our impact and our calling. Be patient sis 🤣, stay in that season of singleness and be whole in it. May he or she find you doing the Lords work here on earth Love , light and a couple of forevers . ♥️♥️♥️

For the holy spirit to do for me what it did for Karabo 😭🕯🕯🕯 so I can stop wasting my time pls abeg

@DEFINING

3 жыл бұрын

😂😂🤗❤

Defining and bringing love stories to life😍😍😍😍😍😍 I love how she put it that it was pre destined and waited for things to unfold and not rush 🥺🥺🥺ahgg

@karabodidi

3 жыл бұрын

♥️

wow this is the first time hearing someone say they found love at Tuks

@karabodidi

3 жыл бұрын

😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤣

@ntokozoskosana5982

3 жыл бұрын

🤣🤣🤣🤣

@ruvimboprecious

3 жыл бұрын

😭😭😭

@bongiwelanga1706

3 жыл бұрын

🤣🤣🤣

@naledilekokotla

3 жыл бұрын

Ayibo🤣🤣😂

I need to listen to the Holy Spirit 😂😂😭😭🕯🕯🕯🕯🕯🕯🕯

@kwenamatlakala6744

3 жыл бұрын

😭🤣

@gloriaacan9005

3 жыл бұрын

same 😭🕯️

What a MATURE, WHOLESOME, BEAUTIFUL yet so young couple!!! I love you guys!!!

Wow what a beautiful episode, I just want to melt 😭🧎🏽‍♀️🥺❤️. This is a testament to the beauty that comes with putting God first 🙏🏾❤️. Thank you for being an inspiration to our generation, we often think God’s will is impossible to fulfill but you guys have proven that with patience and a vision it is possible ✨. Thank you to the defining team for yet another amazing episode ☺️🥰!

@karabodidi

3 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much ♥️

@Bee_Vibes

3 жыл бұрын

You have such a beautiful name

@khwezilomsontanga3980

3 жыл бұрын

@@Bee_Vibes Thank You 😊❤️

@ClosertoGod612

3 жыл бұрын

So true 🙌🙌🌻. And you have such a beautiful name. ' Khwezilomso' Such a beautiful name.

@khwezilomsontanga3980

3 жыл бұрын

@@ClosertoGod612 thank you so much 😊❤️

Betunaaaaaaa uthando? Very beautiful man. I love how genuine and easy they both are, I love how warm and comfortable they truly are and Didi trusting God this much and listening to that voice?Beautiful man. 🥺🤲♥️

@DEFINING

3 жыл бұрын

Right🥺❤

LoL, this episode reminded me of university days at TUKS coz I graduated a year after they started dating ❤️. So cute

@DEFINING

3 жыл бұрын

🥺❤

@zamilekhumalo4928

3 жыл бұрын

Haha Reg!!

The Khumalos are so adorable I cannuh! 🥺❤️

What a beautiful union - God really made you guys to be together 🥺🤍

@DEFINING

3 жыл бұрын

Thank you Thobeka💕

they are both so cooool. the foundation of friendship is so evident from them both. love it ❤️✨

@DEFINING

3 жыл бұрын

Friendship is so important🥺😭

@zamilekhumalo4928

3 жыл бұрын

❤️

Didi's looooong love letter is AMAZING 😍😍😍😍

@karabodidi

3 жыл бұрын

Thank you 😅 ♥️

@DEFINING

3 жыл бұрын

😂😂❤

This was so heartwarming and beautiful to watch. This was refreshing, unforced, candid and so much more. I loved the honesty on abstaining - definitely not easy, but with God everything is possible. I loved the consciousness to seek to honour God even amidst temptation. May we always strive to cover each other in love. God bless you both.

"I'd rather break up with you for now than fall into temptation and risk losing you forever" 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾

@DEFINING

3 жыл бұрын

It's so powerful 🥺🔥🔥

The love letters always get to me 🥺❤️

@DEFINING

3 жыл бұрын

🥺❤

This was a gentle reminder for me hold on to what God said to me about my relationship. It's been a good 4 months and I was starting to believe that it won't come to pass or maybe that was just my own voice. Thank you.

Lenna I want to get married aowa🥺🕯️💕

@leerahmojalefa5565

3 жыл бұрын

Lenna🥺🥺🥺

@thandod5697

3 жыл бұрын

Lol it's a hill I'm willing to die on

@DEFINING

3 жыл бұрын

❤❤❤

Beautiful love story. I wish it for everyone reading this. If you already have it, may continue to be everything and more. ❤️❤️

@DEFINING

3 жыл бұрын

Amen!

Isikhona igenge eSingle izobawela🥺😍

OMG the advert, l watched it twice. I'll probably watch it again. How fulfilling. Truly a special one

@DEFINING

3 жыл бұрын

The full episode drops today🥺❤

You guys are such a beautiful couple.

Hey guys is it possible for us to have: Babalwa and Zola The Ngwenya's House The Mlangeni's Aannndd Bongani from the Defining team and the new wife 😍

@kuhlemndabe

3 жыл бұрын

Youre seconded❤️

God bless u 2 for abstaining, may your obedience to th Lord inspire others to do th same❤

You guys!!!! 😭😭😭😭😭😭 Love you Didi, Zam is the lucky one to have you

@DEFINING

3 жыл бұрын

❤❤❤

I love how didi listened to the holy spirit no questions asked🥺❤❤

@DEFINING

3 жыл бұрын

Same😭

Didi is so well spoken🥺❤🙌

@DEFINING

3 жыл бұрын

Very🥺

what a great pleasure to watch you guys! May God bless your marriage ❤❤

One thing about me, i will watch Defining Love! 😭😍. Thank you for all the content you give us Defining, honestly amazing!

@DEFINING

3 жыл бұрын

You're welcome Mosa🥺❤

The special announcement 🥂🥂🥂🥂guys ahgg u guys are killing it

@DEFINING

3 жыл бұрын

Full Episode drops today🥺💕

Y'all!!!!! They are so cute!

First time watching a episode premier💃💃

@DEFINING

3 жыл бұрын

Thank you for joining family ❤️

This was beautiful to watch, waiting on God is hard but it’s worth it…God bless your marriage ♥️🥲

They don't make them like this at Tuks anymore 😭😭🤣

@DEFINING

3 жыл бұрын

😂😂😂

@sparkle257

2 жыл бұрын

All F boys and skrrr skrrr. Few nice man but are taken

@ingridmaubane1567

Жыл бұрын

True sis 😂😂

I’ve watched this episode so many times, this is just so precious man.🥺❤️

Awwwww they have a handshake and everything this genuinely made me smile

@DEFINING

2 жыл бұрын

🥺❤️

All I ever got at klooster was chips 😭😭😭

@karabodidi

3 жыл бұрын

😂😂🤣

@ethelmakwena3764

3 жыл бұрын

😂😂😂🤣

@bongiwelanga1706

3 жыл бұрын

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

@samkelisiwengobese9470

3 жыл бұрын

🤣😂😂😂 same

@DEFINING

3 жыл бұрын

And they banged😭😭

They're love is so sincere am so inspired as a Christian am definitely waiting till married 👌👌👌

I can't wait🥰🥰

@DEFINING

3 жыл бұрын

💕💕

I'm not crying, you are. This was amazing

@DEFINING

3 жыл бұрын

🥺🥺🥺

🥺❤️They're so adorable.. Didi is gorgeous 😍🔥

@karabodidi

3 жыл бұрын

Thank you ♥️♥️♥️

This is beautiful 😭😭❤

Bathong Didi. I love her so much. Such a great episode, Thank you Defining!

@karabodidi

3 жыл бұрын

♥️♥️♥️

@DEFINING

3 жыл бұрын

Thank you🥺❤

😭😭😭 I love them 😍😍😍😍 ❤❤

I thoroughly enjoyed it🥺🥰. My faves❤️

@DEFINING

3 жыл бұрын

Thank you💕

i love them. OMW !🥲

So beautiful ❤️❤️

I love how genuine this is. ❤️

@DEFINING

3 жыл бұрын

Same❤

I love this episode. ❤

Beautiful episode ❤️❤️❤️. You can’t help but love it!

@DEFINING

3 жыл бұрын

🥺❤

"With God on our side, we're unstoppable💃

@DEFINING

3 жыл бұрын

🔥🔥🔥

Nchoow kodwa uThando guys🤗♥️😩. The handshake at the end👌🥺.

@karabodidi

3 жыл бұрын

♥️

@DEFINING

3 жыл бұрын

10/10

So adorbs! 😍😍😍🥺🥺🥺

@DEFINING

3 жыл бұрын

❤❤❤

This is really beautiful.😍

@DEFINING

3 жыл бұрын

💕💕

This was beautiful. Y'all bring us the most amazing couples ever, even more exciting that it's not the usual faces we always see on our screens. It's beautiful. Now may we kindly have Nozibele and Skhumbuzo Mayaba😁😁 oh man people are going to love them. Please please please please please🥰🥰🥰🥰 Many thanks in advance

@DEFINING

3 жыл бұрын

Hey Palesa❤️, we're waiting for them to give us feedback tbh

“The rib I was I was made from” 🥺❤️

@DEFINING

3 жыл бұрын

👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿

Yoh I love love man🥺🥰 When two people just ALIGN!😍

@DEFINING

3 жыл бұрын

🔥🔥🔥

Loved them. Beautiful couple. 👌🏽❣️

@DEFINING

3 жыл бұрын

Thank you x

😘😘😘 😍😍😍 im in love. I love them

@DEFINING

3 жыл бұрын

❤❤❤

I just love you guys, can't get enough of this🔥🔥❤️❤️❤️

@DEFINING

3 жыл бұрын

🥺❤

Beautiful! ❤️❤️❤️❤️

@DEFINING

3 жыл бұрын

Thank you❤

Ahh man! Love is such a beautiful thing.

@DEFINING

3 жыл бұрын

Thank you Zandy💕

Defining leveling up as always ❤❤

@DEFINING

3 жыл бұрын

We try🥺❤

I can relate so much❤❤❤