"Horror followed by confusing normality" That's a precise description.

@debbieraymer7925

2 жыл бұрын

Yeah that's exactly on target

I found Dr Ramani's channel almost three years ago and it is so helpful . Here in Royal We everything is explained in details and makes it more clear .🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

@shlok699

2 жыл бұрын

Please see sam vaknin video . He gives accurate information.

@maryam-rx2hu

2 жыл бұрын

@@shlok699 Thank you so much

@Jmnicole.Ludtke

2 жыл бұрын

Dr. Ramani has become an amazing source of education, validation and healing for me too.

@rayc9899

Жыл бұрын

They're so miserable that they want to suck the life out of you...pure evil mind. The beauty of it when you have walked that line somehow you can spot them a mile away and from the beginning you just don't give a shit about their BLA BLA...and you don't want to be seem with evil.

@maryam-rx2hu

Жыл бұрын

@@rayc9899 Exactly, there is no way but leaving them.Or at least you should distant your mind and soul from them

But even the kind acts of the wicked are cruel -Proverbs 12:10

@user-of9bx1uk3u

2 жыл бұрын

👏🏽

@JessicaMcGowan-bu4ls

Ай бұрын

too true - there is either a hidden agenda or setting up to fail.

@JessicaMcGowan-bu4ls

Ай бұрын

There is also an old short story The Vampyre by John Polidori, It describes a toxic personality that "helps' those by enabling destructive behavior e.g. giving money to a compulsive gambler; then is cruel and humiliating to those who need help due to a misfortune not under their control (weather disasters).

@JessicaMcGowan-bu4ls

Ай бұрын

The quote above cannot get enough praise - I once had a teacher who stated that early, even ancient writers knew and understood the human mind. That quote is long before we had terms like passive-aggressive and enabling but it surely described both.

I watched this the first night. This short had me sobbing. Hit home hard💔

Dr. Ramani is coming up on her 10th year on KZread and I love her dearly. Dr. Les Carter is my no-nonsense go-to guy, as you are, Kevin.GREAT VIDEO!! Love it!!

@sonias9722

2 жыл бұрын

10 years!? wow

Wow...just wow....I know I'm not the only one who watched this video and saw themselves. God bless y'all. We are not alone ♥️

I didn't feel it was strong enough, alot of people behave like this in day to day relation ships, in my experience its much much worse that this, this is just the tip of the iceberg.

@alba7165

2 жыл бұрын

I had the same thought after watching the film.

@recoveringsoul755

2 жыл бұрын

not healthy people, they don't treat others like this. So sorry that has been your only experience.

@Sarablueunicorn

2 жыл бұрын

This shows how the subtle abuse works and we do not see all the scenes. At the end we realize that even when he was being nice that might not actually be the truth. This woman becomes a total mess, she starts to lose projects, then gets fired from her job and by the end everyone including herself believes that she's crazy and she's already taking psych medication. At this point she already got some mental illness diagnosis (anxiety/depression/borderline/bipolar) and even all her friends who knew her not like that just think she suddenly got mental illness from a sneeze, like covid or sth. She's now trapped without knowing the reality and nobody believes her. The movie already shows him getting into physical abuse by throwing the glass off her hand and causing her an injury...then tells her she did it herself.

@vanessayurrita3724

2 жыл бұрын

I agree!

@JessicaMcGowan-bu4ls

Ай бұрын

I do believe it showed a lot of his undermining behavior and people who are in these relationships suffer quite a bit.

I am her! Exactly my story….I am Alicia. A screenplay based on my actual life. Long heavy sighhhhh…….I’m still in it. He just raged last night, shaming me for my job and my profession. I gotta get me and my teen OUT OF THIS HELL. Thank you as always, Kevin. I watched this film just 4 days ago, and here you are, dissecting it to the T. Again, my life………

@katiezharova2423

2 жыл бұрын

Be careful, can be dangerous but of course necessary to take this step. Good luck to you 🌷

@bricksInMyBp

2 жыл бұрын

Agree with KZ. I understand completely and must urge a safety plan.

@highpeacetess

2 жыл бұрын

Please stay safe you and your teen!!!! I know how hard it is, we are all praying for you and sending you protection. Godspeed. 🙏💕

@yolandahebert2350

2 жыл бұрын

Run like hell and don't look back.

@narcissistlovepolygamy6221

2 жыл бұрын

Narcissist gaslighting women into polygamy marriages

I'm going to watch this movie... in a little while. I know there will be triggers. I feel sadness while watching this video. My grown son heard my husband raging at me once. I must have accidentally hit redial as he was the last person I spoke with earlier that day. I was horrified that he heard, yet relieved that someone heard what was happening to me in private by the man who loved me and had others believing he was a Wonderful person...he seemed to be...to others. As each day passes by that we're no longer together I do realize how bad it was. 🗣🤷‍♀️

@Portia620

Жыл бұрын

Even if you have hard-core proof, sometimes they can gaster lights guess like their way out of the Hartford Court proof that’s what’s really good about some of them!!! It’s mind blowing!

DrDRC!!!! Love that man. Ya'll are amazing souls. Don't forget Lisa Ramano!!!! She's just so real🙏🥰💖

@warriormom5843

2 жыл бұрын

LIsa ❤️ “Shutty shutty”. “Namaste and walk away”

Every time Kevin described “Mark”, I Lost it!🤣 I Love this Short Film, Very Relatable if you’ve been through this type of Abuse.

She also started drinking because gaslighting is like brainwashing and her vulnerability makes her very malleable and he angrily suggested before she had a drinking problem that she did not but she complies with her abusers reality.

@JessicaMcGowan-bu4ls

6 ай бұрын

so sad that at the party she did not just drink a clear liquid (7up) with a lime slice and then see if he accuses her of being drunk.

Somebody I know who was in a toxic marriage was seen as exactly like this; an anxious mess!!!

@Sarablueunicorn

2 жыл бұрын

Remember the cop from gabby petitos case? "My wife suffers from anxiety. She now takes medication. I understand".

Oh I've seen that same look! The "how dare you." My goodness there is no limit to their wickedness. #Monster #NarcApe

Just finished watching Maid on Netflix. Cried through the first few episodes. Well done.

@aNnAkt1qw

Жыл бұрын

A must watch series. Very good very encouraging.

"I married my in-laws" is supposed to be a comedy until it happens to *you*

I watched that gaslighting movie the other day and could totally relate to it,, from decades ago being in a Narc abusive relationship.... I have since healed a great deal from it,, and found a narc video today that said if you watch these narc videos, or join narc groups all you are doing is keeping yourself in a narc relationship with the trauma that you still have within you,, so I unfollowed all of the facebook groups,,, unsubscribed from the youtube ones,, and then I came across The Royal We,,, mmm,,, maybe I might just keep only you...

For me personally, I knew what really happened, but he would manipulate me into thinking that’s not how it happened. He accused me of getting too drunk at his friend’s birthday party and embarrassing him. In reality, I got really sick after two drinks and only had plain soft drink for the rest of the night. He didn’t know this so saw it as an opportunity to claim I had 10+ alcoholic drinks. He started laying into his friend for smoking, said some really cruel comment about the friend’s mother having cancer and how she should know better. She looked ready to kill him so I sternly told him to back off, she’s an adult, and he was out of line. He claimed the next day that I was screaming at him and everyone at all the other tables were staring at me and I was an embarrassing drunk mess. He claimed the friend sent him a text saying she was so sorry she got him in trouble and didn’t realise his girlfriend would react like that and be so crazy. Lying about the message from the friend, he knew that would make me doubt myself. It worked just enough, he saw me hesitate and went for the kill. They’re masters at what they do. I knew the whole time that it wasn’t reality but the tiny sliver of doubt was enough to make me think maybe I wasn’t remembering it correctly. I know now what a bunch of bullsh*t that is but hindsight is 20/20.

Thank you for a great commentary to the film and also for the effort you put into your work that helps so many victims of narcisistic abuse. The narcisists are real wolves in sheep’s clothing. They destroy other people. The greater the public awareness about narcisism the fewer the victims in the world!

I LOVE your introduction how you mention about all the counselors and doctors who speak out on narcissists. I actually follow all of them and YOU as well. I love your channel and how you made it very easy for average people without a degree to understand. Thank you Kevin !

@Portia620

Жыл бұрын

Because I think a lot of them doctors don’t know what they’re talking about. I’ve been in therapy forever. None of them recognized it. I think that’s the real problem.!!! Dr. Darren McGhee who’s over in another country has one of the best podcast as far from a doctor’s perspective and he does a very good job but all the other therapist haven’t seen one that I really care for they get it wrong a lot of times

Had a moment of dawning with this. I grew up around those who I feel fit the bill of a narcissistic and physcally abusive father and two brothers. ...and later a friend who was verbally abusive. I see ways that I've bent over backwards for their approval. Ages ago thru counseling I felt relief over recognising my role as scapegoat. Fortunately their behavior granted me the freedom of having zero sense of obligation and I left familal proximity decades ago .... only to invite in a friend I suppose to fill in those decades. The dawning is that I believe the abuse created in me inhibition and a sort of stutter on one hand and at times rather overly talkative, overly friendly behavior especially when I meet strangers -- falsely bubbly and a bit anxious -- too many punchlines and basically acting a little nutty when in my private world thru practice and lifelong contemplation I'm actually pretty grounded and this sometimes oddball behavior surprises me. It's like I'm proving the narcissists correct.... not worthy of being taken seriously. I don't need to do this pleasing thing anymore. Update: I'm so grateful for this understanding. It's something profound. I no longer have a need or feel compelled to or be afraid of that behavior. There is power in recognition. It's all about self-respect.

I'm so glad you reviewed this short film. It is excellent and your point about how once you "wake up" to the truth it changes how you look at every scene in your relationship. I'm just wondering how you missed the gaslighting in the first date where he says she's late, but he will "forgive her"

@bonniemoerdyk9809

2 жыл бұрын

In fact, he probably lied about what time they were supposed to meet. 8pm was probably the agreed upon time, yet when she comes in at 8, he says "you're late...we agreed on 7:30." He knows he's lying, but he creates the "you're late" scenario to make her feel bad and more anxious...yet "he forgives" to make himself look superior and oh so magnanimous.

@b.k.701

2 жыл бұрын

@@bonniemoerdyk9809 Yes, and to cause her to doubt her own memory.

This one was triggering. But right on point!

Thank you for this and thank you for steering me on to this very talented woman. She knows this trauma and can portray it like no other. 💚💜

Realising and getting out and back to a normalcy are two totally different games...the second step is so much harder... Hope there is a part two to this...

Lived this firsthand, there was zero help. Absolutely no one believed it was/is possible not even Law Enforcement. So many people live in this Hell Everyday and sadly Believe They Are To Blame!

Thanks for reviewing this movie. This sounds like a spot on portrayal of a toxic relationship. I had a 9 year relationship with a narc and still struggle with anxiety.

Your analysis is VERY true. The relationship is just a lie. Thank you very much.

Yes.yes. Drs Carter, Grande and Ramani...soooo helpful. Wish we had a local support group. Just for fun and laughter....kindred folks who understand each other's past without going into detail...

I watched the movie before listening to your comments. You were spot on about everything! Good movie but I wish it was a little longer so that it had time to give more detail and more of a sense of how this kind of brainwashing occurs little by little to pluck at the victim's self-esteem. I didn't feel like it did a good job of that. Although I liked the movie, I thought that it was something that only people fully versed in narc abuse could resonate with. I don't think that it really teaches those who are unaware of the abuse much about it unless they follow your step-by-step explanation.

That movie was a bad trigger but I was so glad to watch it anyway! Thanking God for the truth being put on blast. Hopefully we will see much more.

Breakdown: A narcissist promises you Heaven to only give you Hell! They are foil wrapped Halloween candy with false advertising. The packaging promised solid milk chocolate, but once you bit into it all we got was a hollow skeleton, defective right off the assembly line.

“…not so handsome man…” “…we see the moment her heart explodes…” Kevin you made me laugh!!! So funny and so true. 🤣😂. Excellent breakdown. Thank you for doing this for all of us.

Bravo this film is on point no one ever call them out...this is exactly what I went through and their family members protect not all but most these behavior traits

I saw this film a few days ago and was so schocked to see some comments explaining that she was the one with a huge ego. Obviously someone who had not been with a narc. I have been for just over 47 months but can now see the signs very quickly. I guess I needed the lesson which is now learnt. So good you commented this film and your info on Gabby Pettito's case. People fron the outside do not seem to understand. Thank you for your valuable work, following you from France.

@vertventes3656

2 жыл бұрын

Oups, I meant just over 4 months (not 47 months) lucky me!

@ladennayoung2939

2 жыл бұрын

If you are dealing with a covert narcissist most people won't see it. Because they put on their image that they want the world to see around those that they are trying to impress. But you can't worry about how other people feel or whatever the case maybe. If you have to end the relationship. You simply end the relationship for your own joy, peace, and sanity. Being in a toxic relationship with someone like that can really destroy you mentally, emotionally, and spiritually in the end. It's NOT worth it.

@vertventes3656

2 жыл бұрын

@@ladennayoung2939 thank you Ladenna. He belongs to the grandiose kind of narcissist. It has been difficult as he was my neigbour (living the floor below mine) and came showing off with all his new preys... He finaly moved 3 years later, just a few months ago. Getting strenght back slowly.

You missed his first gaslighting RED FLAG right when she arrives for dinner: Mark:"I told you to be here at 7:30pm" Alicia:" I though you said 8:00pm" Mark: " No. I told you 7:30pm and because i make my wtv food on point now it might not be as good as I planned" Alicia: "I'm sorry! I must have misunderstood. I bet it's delicious". DANG. Once you experienced this kind of abuse to the point you start to act out of character and driven suicidal. In a desperate attempt to understand what was wrong WITH ME i found about narcissism and realized the longest and most damaging narcissists in my life were my parents. For a long time I thought my mother was just evil. After studying my lesson now i can pick up narcs really fast even from text messages, many are dumb and they really just can do sth if the target is vulnerable. Others are extremely smart and i believe to be also high functioning sociopaths.

Congrat on your 100K subscribers. You deserve so much more. I linked many of your videos to my other forums to educate people about narc and to help many heal and understand their traumas. Hopefully we can prevent any more in the future.

Been through that since I was in Middle School and I'm now 33 years old boy is the disrespect so f****** real😢

yea in most situations of bringing up things that happened...therapist have told me to stay in the relationship or ignored what I said and accused me of being the narcissist. Too many times of being targeted due to my kind and easy going nature. 20 years of being in and out of relationships not knowing what I was dealing with only to be out of jobs and seen as a loser by friends and family. The manipulation, triangulation, minimizing things I say and smear campaigns destroy a person...words can hurt and destroy your whole reality of things going on that destroy a persons self worth, confidence and self esteem. This was done by women and men in relationships and jobs. Most therapists aren't qualified to handle C-PTSD or trauma because it changes your physiology. Had one employer literally take their hate out on me on a daily basis. If they are insulting you that is a way of them taking their anger out on you. Dr. Ramani, Lisa Romano and a few others are super helpful in bringing all the red flags to attention. Took me a few times to realize it in the workplace but after a period of time...I plan my escape or I walk out.

This is powerful stuff. May i ask, are there any other Christian channels on youtube that handle narc abuse that anyone know off? Kevin you are really growing in your field. A true leader and a great coach. Be blessed.

@bonniemoerdyk9809

2 жыл бұрын

Dr. Les Carter is a Christian and has informative videos here on YT.

@cathybutcher4826

2 жыл бұрын

There is RC Blakes. He has several videos on narcissism and just toxic relationships in general. I love him!!

@cathybutcher4826

2 жыл бұрын

@@bonniemoerdyk9809 Love Dr. Carter. Too bad the world didn't have many more of him! What a good soul.

@shawnmarie1912

2 жыл бұрын

Sheneen Medji Transition coach is very biblical, i love her channel!

Thanks for everything, Kevin! You are doing an amazing job.

I saw this last weekend! Indeed it was a great and helpful short film!

Very helpful video! I can completely relate to everything you're talking about in this video. Thanks a lot for such clarity👍

You do such a great job . Thank you

I just watched that the other night. Nice timing.

I just watched the video. Thanks for the breakdown. I have been through this for years and still dealing with the trauma of it. My parents and my intimate relationships all had to be cut off. A lot of pain for may years. God bless you and KZread!

Thankyou for explaining this its makes so much sense

I watched this tonight. Thanks for this share. Once this short film hit my KZread, others also showed up. I’ve now watched two other very accurate short films. I’m here for all of it.

I am so glad and happy for your view of others looking into letting know about narcissist abuse. Thank you, thank you very much.

I tell my therapist that I’ll never know what was him and what was me. I’m talking with lawyers and domestic shelter to leave. He’s being nice now, my brain forgets how scary he is. It only takes two nice days to forget the toxicity.

I'd like to add some pointers/subtle cues that weren't mentioned in the video: 1. Invalidating her telling him that she had already informed him about her hanging out with her friend a week before and he seemed to have been okay with that back then and him acting like a victim and then continuing to deny her offer but then finally accepting it as if that was not his plan all along (emotional manipulation/blackmail at its finest-to get you to obey without being the bad guy- this happens way too much in relationship/frienships/family dynamics) 2.Being unempathetic about the fact that she had lost her project and calling it a shame(words are imp) and topping it up his great success and how happening his job situation is being invited to a celebrity party and expects her to just get over it and join him in his celebration without even taking a moment to listen or encourage her with kind words: 'Hey it's okay, you're capable, I'm sure you'd do better' is the least a healthy individual say to his/her companion. Instead telling her that she need not worry about her job anymore, as he's doing great, subtling demeaning and discouraging her. 3. Her not finding her phone and before an important meeting and her being anxious didn't not affect Mark at all. Instead of helping her or asking her to relax/ lower her anxiety(that's again a basic support a human being would give to a partner), he was completely ignoring her laying there acting like that's not my problem and him later explaning Oh see I knew you'd find it(that's why I didn't bother) 4. Him ignoring her and not picking up her calls when she clearly seemed not okay for past few days/weeks. 5. The truth is even if the last scene was still red-flaggish, had it been the reality, the scene still shows how he's again blaming her for consuming alcohol even. And it doesn't affect him when she says she got fired. Takeaway from the above: A person need not wait to diagnose that they're in a narcissistically abusive relationship in order to get out. It's important to understand that small toxic/abusive behaviours overtime can also cause serious emotional and psychological damage and cognitive dissonance. Everyone deserves to be in healthy loving dynamic that doesn't take away from you if not add. It's all about learning how to communicate and enforce healthy boundaries, setting consequence and acting on it if they're violated. Doesn't matter if you've been stepped over a couple times, the moment you see the truth, get out before it gets worse- yes that takes strength but when your entire self-worth, self esteem and mental health is at stake, you've got to try and be strong enough while being kind to yourself Also, It's not that simple to exercise in reality if you're anxious/people pleaser/codependent or simply vulnerable/sensitive and highly empathetic, but the more you do it, the easier it becomes. Understand your worth and accept nothing less than you deserve.❤️

@bleakburd4965

2 жыл бұрын

How come this comment didn't get a heart? You clearly deserve it!

@selenatorsquad3255

2 жыл бұрын

@@bleakburd4965 ❤️😊

Loving your Channel! Brilliant step by step break down that I really appreciate & needed. Although I lived it and relate, it wouldn't have necessarily "gotten it" but with your clarity it was super telling & teaching. Thank you Very Much!

I watched this movie the other day. It was so accurate, it was scary. I can't wait for the full-length film.

All we need is the Royal we to heal

Excellent breakdown.

There's a movie called mother that shows huge narcissistic life. It is extreme, but shows how it affects victims!!

@mariaecarvajal2804

2 жыл бұрын

Who is the film by?

That was a good, but triggering, watch. Thanks for the recommendation!

This is a good commentary of the movie - Thank you.

@TheRoyalWe

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you

The beginning… where he notes that jerks are everywhere even sometimes baristas at Starbucks… one of the most cruel cold callus narcs I dated was that lol a barista at Starbucks. Well that hit home fast!

I only just realised none of my relationship was real after a few months even though I went into a women’s refuge I still thought somehow he must have loved me but no even the nice things he did were not rooted in good just in manipulation. It’s the most painful thing I’ve been through in my whole life and I’m still surprised at how much it has affected me

Such a well made film. 👏 I could relate to some of the scenes which makes me thankful -I survived 🙏

@emmaharper860

2 жыл бұрын

Yes!!!

EXCELLENT THANK YOU

I LOVE LOVE LOVE you, Michelle Nieves, Meredith Miller, Lisa A. Romano, Dr. Les Carter and Sam Vaknin. You are all responsible for opening my eyes! I wish I could give you guys the hugest hug ever!

👍Accurate. 💜

I JUST watched this.

Congratulations on achieving 100K subscribers.

wow the end was very triggering for me.... very painful. though absolutely truthful.

Spot on.

It is always the same pattern with them. I see things so so clear now.

Flash back!

I saw the film and I think it’s brilliant

Yup so true 💯

How about a switch where the mother saids," there is no good guys out there, they all cheat and no good." I would honestly like to see how that plays out.

It’s all so awful….💔

Kevin you are my go to person. Although Dr. Les and Dr. Ramani are good too but they only point out narcissistic behaviors and bring them to our awareness, which helps alot in terms what not to do but you give us true feedback in terms of how to deal with it. Your videos have therefore been most helpful

Good Review

You said a not so good looking guy. Lol. I know it's serious, but the way that you describe some of the scenes made me laugh.

I watched this short film about 2 weeks ago...it really hit home for me. Reminded me of myself aside the drinking...lol..he was the raging drinker. I woke up 7 years later and dumped his butt realizing i was better off alone instead of with this manipulative abusing control freak gaslighting loser. 10 years later and he has done the same thing to all the unfortunate chicks after me..about 5 or 6 of them. This film really hit it on the nose.

I am a survivor 🙏

Good done

Holy shit.I already new all of this and lived threw it.Byt hearing it out loud was upsetting.

Omg I am crying again. 😭😭😭😭

Loved it

Saw the short film. Is it coincidence that my ex narc’s name is Mark and his new supply is named Alisha? Wow.

awesome thanks.. gonna watch it right now... I am thinking of starting a pod cast sort of like how little shaman does her thing.. but I have a different angle that I plan to take. its how narcissists outside of our intimate relationships can impact our lives on a day to day basis and how to handle those situations and differentiate this once we leave our family or spouse that was abusing and scapegoating us. anyways its just a thought at the moment .. thanks for ur channel .

I don't know why you said that guy was "not so good looking". I think he's very good looking and I think that is why he was picked for the part.

That movie was so good......was actually triggering.

Dr Grande’s early videos were actually much more on the topic of narcissism, psychopathy, and personality disorders. His channel turned more into analyzing stuff.

@jaklumen

2 жыл бұрын

I followed him for a while, but when he started letting his political views trickle in.. nope, I unsubscribed.

@ryangrundy4290

2 жыл бұрын

@@jaklumen yes very understandable

@jaklumen

2 жыл бұрын

@@ryangrundy4290 I know it happens- people got really upset when Meredith Miller at Inner Integration did a politically tinged video (I think it was concerning 'rona and further loss of privacy). One of the channels I moderate for has done political topics, but that said, she's gotten so much blowback that now she won't bring up such anymore.

@recoveringsoul755

2 жыл бұрын

@@jaklumen yeah he's a jerk. Talking about smart people who are vaccine hesitant for legitimate reasons as having low IQ's. There isn't enough study done, and with new evidence all the time that it was created in a lab. Shameful

@cathybutcher4826

2 жыл бұрын

@@jaklumen I love all of the others that he mentioned but Grande actually disturbs me.

That was so hard to watch..... reality hurts

Great stuff calmness is strength not hell.they like unsettling others being jealous upsetting people who are happy bunnies.woof.woof

Gonna watch it

I watched this video the other day and saw so much of myself there.

Do not forget Dr Rosenthal. His video on how to leave a covert narcissist; I believe; saved my life.

You have a real knack for analyzing this movie in a concise, insightful and useful way. You're a natural movie analyst. Great work 🇺🇸🏋️🥅💪

I think Mark is a Good Looking Guy! 😂 Geez Kevin! Mark is not a “Not so Good-Lookin’ Guy”! That’s not very nice..

@quantumpotential7639

2 жыл бұрын

I think he was saying the opposite actually.

@recoveringsoul755

2 жыл бұрын

hes just average, nothing special

@nancywutzke5392

2 жыл бұрын

Why so defensive?

@heatherlynn3438

2 жыл бұрын

@@nancywutzke5392 It’s more like being Sensitive to that Actors feelings. What if he watches this? . He’s not a real Narcissist! I was addressing Kevin who can handle my remark. Why are you being defensive? I’m not hurting Kevin. I love Kevin! I also care about that guy who might watch this and get his feelings hurt.

@ladennayoung2939

2 жыл бұрын

I laughed at that comment. I think it just caught me off guard. I wasn't expecting him to say that. Lol.

If people could See Read Photograph & Hear AURA COLORS easier it would be an absolute nightmare for the simply rather crooked!

@ 8:58 although the person I know was not an alcohol drinker; they were made to wait for their Toxic spouse to come home on many occasions throughout the marriage. On some occasions they would actually call the police because they thought the spouse had "gone missing".

Good A Picture Tells A Thousand Words. Especially Since Narc Victims Are Confused. Simple Realistic Pictures. Wish Every ObjectAppliance To Awaken. ME TOO.

„Like waking up“. Oh yes i certainly feel woken up. While i was deciding whether to separate from my husband or not. It took me two years… We were together for 5 years. Now I feel like how did this happen? There’s lots I’ve worked through thankfully already.

That is so true about were brain washed to believe we must have a romantic relationship To be honest we need to be taught more about being happy single bc.too many people are getting abused in "romantic" relationships It is so sad bc there are so many people that just want to live off of other people and steal everything they worked so hard for