I agree with Rhett. Coffee shop isn’t really a date. It’s a let see if we ACTUALLY want to go on a date. I’d even accept let’s hit a McDonald’s and chat for an hour. Park bench. I’m fine. 1st IRL meet up its preferred. Low stakes

Idk I love coffee dates, they are so cozy

Always low commitment for the first meetup. If it's awkward or it's awful, you don't want to be there for two hours with someone. Coffee can be 30 minutes and just have one, or more if it's going well! Go for a walk somewhere after, etc. I'm with Rhett.

Coffee dates are awesome

i love coffee dates

Most job interviews aren't in coffee shops. I've had one over the years, and the rest were in an office. First dates are kind of a job interview anyway.

Coffee date is the crazy thermometer. It's a relaxed harmless date where crazy will emerge because the shield is down.

When I dated before I got married, I would always take girls to the arcade because I knew I would always have a good time even if they didn’t

@VYMQGSOH

28 күн бұрын

It's always better to put your true self on the table in the beginning of the relationship. It helps the woman decide sooner if she would want to be the man.

@danielavieiramacedo

9 күн бұрын

What kind of witchcraft did you use to make someone marry you?

I had a first date that was a coffee date that turned into a coffee, dinner and movie date… which has turned into 14 years together, 10 years married. Coffee dates can be good. 😊

I am shooketh ❤

I totally understand it feeling like a job interview 😂😂 it doesn’t feel like you’re actually on a date, it’s more of a trial run!

@frolfenuugen4lyfe

27 күн бұрын

That's what a first date is.

If she's initiating that's perfect. The usual way is vice verse with the same attitude

@eolsunder

27 күн бұрын

well she's adorable, if she decides the guys aren't going to get mad that she rejects their idea. Guys tend to give way to pretty girls.

After hearing much of Emily’s prior dating experience I’m totally on board. Queen.

As someone in my early 30s, I feel a lunch date is best. You don't have to be dressed up, but you should look decent. And it's not to expensive for meal to cover. Some people feel like they deserve to be treated like royalty on the first date. I don't know you and I'm not risking having an expensive meal be just a free meal for you. 30 dollars I feel fine paying for a first date. I might do 100 for a third date where I might start trying to lock it down.

I've yet to meet a woman in real life that knows what she wants to do at any point.

A coffee date makes sense, but I get the other perspective. At first it seemed a bit egoistical, but at a second thought it made sense, in the end you want to hang with someone who does those things with you together anyway, it feels somewhat more honest, but also wayward and inconsiderate 😅😂

Translation: I’m single af

@starlinguk

27 күн бұрын

Why? If the guy enjoys the stuff she enjoys doing that's a great start. If the guy doesn't, that probably indicates they're not compatible. Don't see the problem.

@hsayril

27 күн бұрын

​@starlinguk It could be taken as selfish enough to not take time from what she specifically wants to do to spend a few hours with someone doing something they both want to do. "I'm going to do what I want to do, period, and if you don't want to do what I want to for our first time meeting you can get lost".

incels in the comments alert

I don't like coffee but if i did, if my husband and i went there it would be a great date! ❤

If I can never go to a coffee shop on a date then I guess I ain't dating

Double standard always the women

@RemixedVoice

28 күн бұрын

Huh?

@Miss_Kisa94

28 күн бұрын

What?

@starlinguk

27 күн бұрын

​@@RemixedVoiceMisogynist ahoy!

Lol, everyone loves someone who's like "Nah I don't want to do your thing, let's do mine instead". I like coffee though, can't see what's bad about drinking some coffee and chatting, isn't that the purpose of a couple? to find someone you like spending time together and talking? If you're just bringing someone else along to something you wanted to do that's not really a date in my eyes.

@saintseraph

22 күн бұрын

She just doesn't want to do that. No one said there's anything wrong just cause you like that

“Not what I do” she wants more free stuff, might be why she still single

@saintseraph

22 күн бұрын

You reek of incel vibes