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@davidc3529

2 ай бұрын

How can I become a Christian life coach for men?? … do I need certification??

@Gabriel.1985.

2 ай бұрын

I wish I had your wisdom when I was younger it would have saved me so much pain.

@Gabriel.1985.

2 ай бұрын

@@davidc3529 you just need a gift from God for that my friend and could operate in your local church, start there see where God leads you. That's a very necessary thing, so many men are looking for a father figure in their lives as well.

@Gabriel.1985.

2 ай бұрын

@@coolhawk2003 don't muzzle an ox when they tread out the grain, let it have some in other words and benefit from it's toils. There's nothing wrong with asking for money and it's not a lot, much more reasonable than going through a secular one. Also she stated she's using it to fund her growing family. We all need to make money man, don't strain out a gnat and swallow a camel. Edit for misspelling.

@RhinoAg

2 ай бұрын

@@davidc3529 yes become a priest

I plead the blood of Jesus over anyone who sees this comment. The bondage, stronghold, generational curse, and addiction to pornography and masturbation is broken right now in the name of Jesus Christ. I struggled for 20 years with this. I will be 30 in a week. I want everyone to know that these chains can and will be broken. I saw the Hand of God breakthrough and tear down this vile addiction. I have no desire for it anymore. There are still temptations, but the Holy Spirit provides freedom. God wants His people free!!

@maximusdecimusmeridius1345

2 ай бұрын

Thank you

@mahoganypear

2 ай бұрын

Thank you

@jackieVanTine_

2 ай бұрын

WOW ! God is so good! Praise the Lord :)

@thetruthfulness4240

2 ай бұрын

I felt that

@TheFinalKing

2 ай бұрын

@thetruthfulness4240 I pray that it helps you. Too many people have believed the lie of the enemy that we can never be free from this. I was one. But Jesus is the name above all other names. I'll be praying for you my friend and that the Holy Spirit heals you and guides you through whatever you go through.

I despise this addiction. It consumes me, causing feelings of shame and a multitude of other emotions, and it is profoundly disrespectful to women. Not only that, but I know my cousin is in heaven who can see everything I've done. I'm sure she's upset by my actions, and rightfully so. Therefore, I need to eliminate this disgusting addiction once and for all. PS - I made some more progress with deleting my files off my hard drive. After deleting all these files, I'm giving my whole being to Jesus Christ and try really hard to sin no more.

@lidiasposito

2 ай бұрын

May the Lord bless you for taking these steps! I will be praying for you! Seek in Scriptures about your identity in Christ - at the end of the day all addictions are rooted in dissatisfaction with your life, your appearance, your personality...if we know our value, our purpose, our power in the spiritual realm, how close we can be to the most important person in the history of this world....we won't need to go after fulfillment in earthly things.

@carsfrankly

2 ай бұрын

God bless you bro im praying for you man your cousin is smiling down on you 🩵

@kurtskrt

2 ай бұрын

"Therefore, if anyone is in Christ, he is a new creation; old things have passed away; behold, all things have become new. Now all things are of God, who has reconciled us to Himself through Jesus Christ, and has given us the ministry of reconciliation, that is, that God was in Christ reconciling the world to Himself, not imputing their trespasses to them, and has committed to us the word of reconciliation." (2 Corinthians 5:17). If you truly want to conquer this sin in your life, you need to fully put your identity in Jesus Christ and not in your sin. You are a new creation in Christ and He has already reconciled you to God. Your Heavenly Father does not see you as a sinner, but as His beloved child. This sin you're dealing with is only a test of your faith and a means to bring you closer to God. Remind yourself of God's promises and glory every day to strengthen your faith and remind you of His unfailing love for you. Read a Psalm every day and study the life of Christ. Imitate your Father in all you do and pray to Him constantly about everything. As Jesus said in scripture, "Watch and pray, lest you enter into temptation. The spirit indeed is willing, but the flesh is weak.” (Matthew 26:41). I will pray for you, but I want you to fully trust in God to give you victory over this sin. Be strong in faith, hope, and love. Put your faith in God's faithfulness, put your hope in His goodness, and abide in His love. He will never leave you, not forsake you. Remember what Jesus said to the woman caught in adultery: "When Jesus had raised Himself up and saw no one but the woman, He said to her, “Woman, where are those accusers of yours? Has no one condemned you?" She said, “No one, Lord.” And Jesus said to her, “Neither do I condemn you; go and sin no more.” Then Jesus spoke to them again, saying, “I am the light of the world. He who follows Me shall not walk in darkness, but have the light of life.” (John 8:10-12).

@MonoKyrios

2 ай бұрын

You don't need to try harder! Because the truth is, you can never do it on your own! You need to depend on the holy spirit and understand God can make us righteous though him!

@Chosen308

2 ай бұрын

We are slaves to what we obey if we do not not want to become slaves of sin then we should not obey the sin

Needed to hear this. Since I've met my future partner, and told her we were going to have a talk regarding this, this Saturday, this was a much needed message. I cant do it but through his grace and mercy all things are possible.Every other addiction has been cleared out(smoking, vaping), only the behemoths known as p*** and social media scrolling remains, no remained!! I'm going to be reborn. Pray for me. In Jesus name. Amen

@sandracabrita

2 ай бұрын

I pray you are going to be reborn, in Jesus name 🙏 Amen

@HHh-hs1oi

2 ай бұрын

Amen brother

This is the message we need to hear Jackie 😊🙏🏽✨ I dealt with some of the bad spirits and I been doing so much self work on myself so that my future wife won't have to deal with so much emotional burdens. It's not easy but I'm trying my best and I'm thankful for God support. Keep up the great work. You and Lance videos have been a blessing for me.

I used to be addicted to masturbation and watching pornography. It was Jesus' love for me that changed that. Thank You Jesus for saving me. Hallelujah! 🙌

You are so wise Jackie! Thank you for this. This is a truth we need to be reminded of constantly

Wow, this was really GOD sent, I’ve been suffering with a porn addiction for years, I’m 21 now and I’ve been trying to stop this addiction and praying over it. but this, this right here touched me I will stop this addiction for my future wife she deserves better and I will become better and ask God for guidance

Jackie, im a christian man whos only offering a compliment...i always thought you were pretty but i never saw the freckles on your nose. Adorable!!! He's a lucky man

I am not really PORN addicted neither I want to be, I had an issue with alcohol addiction that caused me not be really into naked scenes or other stuff, now I am fighting with alcohol addiction and so far it is quite hard but possible to overcome it! Thank you Lord for your mercy and your strength, I need you more than ever.

Thank you for the deliverance on your livestream the other night. I have felt so much lighter these last two days.

Thank you for doing this upload and message spot on

Thank you for delivering this truth. That explains a lot.

all respect Jackie 🙌 God bless you ❤

So important. So happy that we have church. Even this short video is a part of church. It's so heartwarming to know that God gave us not only Himself but each other also. Thank you Jackie and thank you all my beloved brothers and sisters. May God have mercy on us

Amen, only God can help us! Blessings, Jackie!

Jackie and Lance, thank you thank you thank you. God bless you abundantly, ever since the livestream 2 nights ago, I’ve been equipped with the tools of overcoming my own addiction! Anytime a thought comes into my head, just like you advised I take it into captivity in the name of Jesus!! In an instant, the thought is gone! I don’t know why I was looking for a solution to this problem elsewhere smh. All I ever needed was Jesus! Thank you for helping me realise that! God bless you!!! ❤🎉

I love how you said that God loves this person too much to bring this person into your world if you still struggle with these things. What an amazing way of looking at things ❤ and of course, we want to picture ourselves in their shoes and present ourselves accordingly as well. I would like to add and emphasize that it can often be deeper than just spirits of lust or whatever, because I did a couple of your deliverances a few weeks ago and it was life changing but there was still a mild lingering temptation in the background, I assumed it's just my flesh and I need to just exert self control in general, but I listened to a 10 minute intercession prayer right before bed last night about healing soul wounds and stuff and nothing to do with porn or lust and I woke up today and I apparently couldn't watch anything I shouldn't if I tried to 😂😂 so it can be a thorough process but I thank you so much for all of your videos, especially with constant debates about deliverance and all that, you really helped catalyze my own process to overcome these issues ❤️ love you beloved sister 🤗❤️ and can't wait for more of you and your husband!!!!!!!!! 😸😸😸🥳🥳🥳🥳

@jackieVanTine_

2 ай бұрын

Yes absolutely!! That is also a GREAT POINT to add. It is the renewal of the mind through Gods Word & healing from traumas and pains that happened in childhood etc. Thank you for taking the time to share your journey and how the Lord has helped you, I appreciate this insight!!!

Good Word Jackie 👏

You have no idea how good the timing of this video was. Thank you for all you do.

Wow just wow needed hear this sister God bless you Jesus is you using you wisely AMEN to that I Differently started to cry Lil when I was done watching this God bless you all Jesus love you I need pray as well 🙏 God bless you all my brothers and sisters in Chris Jesus

Good message. I got addicted when I was little kid. Tried to break free for many years before I gave up.

Wo! That’s such a powerful truth

Great helpful video ❤ I’m focusing on breaking these habits too.

Pray for me I’m in the worse trouble of my life because of this addiction

Absolutely right , i thought about this yesterday and prayed for my future wife also, if i'll have one . Men , we have to build ourselves into the fathers we'd love to have ( or into your father if he's a good man of God ) and into powerful men of God for our potential future families . We can take notes from the best father , who we all share , God almighty.

Now to find a woman who actually wants a Christian marriage with me but I am learning to accept my singleness even though it’s unwanted at 28 only having one intimate relationship 10 years ago and that’s it.

What a testimony!

Thank you for sharing this! I give my life to The Creator to have him use me for his glory. To repent of all my sins that I have done and be something that represents him! 😄

Amen sister, we must pray for God to help us get ready for our future spouse!

Amen thank you. Confirmation.

Thank you Jackie! God bless you and all your loved ones! In Jesus's Mighty and Powerful name, we pray, Amen!

thank you

Good message!

I needed to hear this

Well said!

Thank you

Amen sister 💯✨💓💕💓💕💖🙏

You are amazing !

Amen. But, This Means, that a soul Must be At least Half-Reborn in God's Spirit 2 get the Deliverance from God's Spirit, plus the Serious Decission 2 Not sin Ever Again Must be made. Peace with you.

I appreciate prayers as being a widower for three years can make a significant toll on a person. I do not wish that on anyone. Pray for me as I need deliverance from the junk, I have seen. I need strength to continue in life of consecration and stepping ahead in my faith with Christ. My late wife was a very strong believer. She didn’t believe in that junk but confronted me in many ways my heart showed. I am very close with the Lord but I can even grow closer to Him. I can feel her presence with me which is reassurance that she is in Heaven with Him.

Omgosh ur little freckles ❤

Amen!!! Praise the Lord Jesus Christ!!! The lord Jesus Christ breaks all strongholds! ✝️🔥🙌🏻❤️👊🏻💪🏻🩷🔥✝️

Word❤️‍🔥🔥💯

Thank you, this is now the second video of yours I have watched today. Both, hitting issues I am dealing with as I hope to find favor with the Lord so he may one day allow me to feel I have his Grace to be remarried. I wish I knew what the Lord has been revealing to me at 37 but I love that there are people like you out there sharing the Word he has given you. Imma search for it but you referenced making a video about is there a "The One" and I would like to hear your point of view on that. Also your thoughts and feelings toward divorce and the possibility of being able to find someone and marry again. Thank you again:)

Thanks! Wise talk from a 20 something Female.

@jackieVanTine_

2 ай бұрын

Thank you & the Lord bless you Steven! The Lord has certainly brought me through many trials and correction and it’s through all of that (and of course asking for wisdom) that I have any wisdom at all. He is the best teacher :)

Amen! Truer words could never be spoken! (*except words from Christ himself*)

Your on fire amen

@jackieVanTine_

2 ай бұрын

It’s because of His presence!!!

I believe that future spouses need on thing, faithfulness, everything else can be worked on in relationships.

Very true. You can be available to love your spouse in every way aand meet their every need and if they are not free from those addictions, they will run from you and go do those things. Satan has his grip they havent cut off.

God bless you ❤

Jackie, you are right, porn addiction doesn't simply vanish with marriage. It is something that absolutely gets carried around until it is dealt with. Dealing with it, however, is not a simple process. It does not come from spirit of adultery but from deep emotional wounds from childhood, from an inability to feel loved and to love another, from insecurity, from negative self beliefs. Any addiction at its core is only a SYMPTOM of a greater EMOTIONAL challenge. The addict uses their drug of choice (porn, alcohol, drugs, etc.) to numb the pain, to escape, and to try and fill that hole inside them. What you must understand as well is that for most people, once an addict, always an addict. An addict usually doesn't "recover" so much as they achieve and maintain sobriety, taking things one day at a time. Spirituality and deliverance are definitely part of the recovery journey but it must be accompanied by emotional healing. Without that it is merely a ticking time-bomb waiting to explode. I wish you and your husband all the best in your journey.

@jackieVanTine_

2 ай бұрын

Agree with that!!!!

@StoomsClassics

2 ай бұрын

Was looking for this comment! You're the only other person who seems to get this...one does not simply STOP porn addiction altogether and then is just free of temptation forever...that's just not how it works for most people...I've heard of some just stopping cold-turkey and they've had no problems. But I just don't get that...my brain ain't wired that way. No matter how much I've conquered the addiction, or how good my state of spiritual confidence is, or how long I've gone without doing it, I feel like it'll always be there, lingering, tempting, aggravating me...what you're saying about the emotional challenge is absolutely spot on

@MichaelEGordon

2 ай бұрын

@StoomsClassics there was a period of time when i was in my early 20s where I was able to maintain sobriety for 3 years. A big part of it was down to the fact that I was living in a monestary abroad where there was little to no tempation and I didn't have any adult responsibilities such as earning a living or paying bills. At the time I thought I was cured! It is a daily struggle. I don't believe we are released from that struggle until death. Part of being human is having struggles and figuring out how to deal with them.

@MichaelEGordon

2 ай бұрын

@Stoomsclassics In Judaism, one of our main pillars of faith is the continual opertunity to repent and set a course on the right path. The Jewish scholars throughout the centuries have taught that it is essentially a 3 step process: regretting having done some wrongdoing, confessing to God and asking for forgiveness and deliverance, and never doing it again. On paper it looks easy enough, but in practice, it is quite difficult. One may easily perform the first two steps but struggle for years with the third. That's OK. God knows we're not angels. It doesn't release us from trying, though.

@theoperaticone5663

2 ай бұрын

I agree so much with this comment. Because a large reason I'm trying to overcome my own temptations is because I DON'T want to be an adulterer or think of sexual things outside of my man. But I also know that I've been struggling with these things long before I met him and it was a domino effect; stress to depression, depression to masturbation, masturbation to porn, porn to premartial sex. Im not trying to be perfect. But i am trying to get better because it's already hurting me, but i dont want it to hurt him too

Thanks.

You have been delivered nailed to the cross

Binding prayer (from Fr. Ripperger): "By the power of the precious blood, by the holy name of Jesus, by the intercession of the blessed Virgin Mary, and Saint Michael the Archangel, I command the demon of (name the problem, in this case "Lust") to stop afflicting me, go to the foot of the cross to receive your sentence."

So true.

Yall can overcome. I used to be addicted for years. God delivered me several months ago. Yes i have slipped a couple times since then but it doesnt mean anything since we are alive in Christ. Number one thing to do is start to love God above everyone and everything. Second is self control. Third is removing bad influences like most social media, friends, TV, movies (not all are bad but many of them are). Fourth STAY BUSY!!! The enemy likes to prey on those who are lazy. Stay strong yall :)

She’s so beautiful ❤

I need prayer and deliverance from my porn addiction I cannot do this on my own anymore.

Good stuff

So accurate. If you go into a relationship with the masturbation and pornography addiction or alcohol addiction you are still going to have that and it is going to manifest its way into the relationship and they need to be delivered in the name of Jesus

AMEN‼️

I had to get rid of the internet at my house and use the safe search feature on my apple I phone and lose the password to get rid of this addiction. I’m an engineer btw and only use the internet when I go into the office. I feel a lot better now.

COME ON!!!!!!!!!!!! So good

It is anthropological. It is physiological.😂

Hey Jackie Sister in Christ , What i think is about deliverance from lust and on what you said here 0:20 is that we need to know that our bodies are temples of Holy Spirit ✨ and We are Also The Members of The Body Of Christ ✝️. The way I overcomed it was knowing that my body is Temple of Holy Spirit ✨ and I just can't pollute it with cheap things. Lord Strengthens us and gives us hope. But you can get out from all that praying to the Lord and reading his Word consistently is what pulled me out of all these lustfull things.

I met the most perfect girl a month ago been dating since. God have mercy on me a sinner. Please pray for me, as I relapsed today. Maybe I’m unworthy of her. This addiction is the worst worse than drugs. I have faith that like other addictions the path is not linear.

Praise the Lord mam I'm from odisha India I learn lots of things from your video ✝️😇🙏

Amen Halleujah 🙏🙏✝️❤️✝️😭

Facts ✝️❤👫🛐

if it’s not one addiction, it’s another, and if it’s no addiction, it’s chasing adrenaline highs, which itself is an addiction such is the life of many people who suffer, including myself

How/where do I get delivered from this?

How do I achieve deliverance? I have been trying to fight lust and porn addiction for years, but I always fall short when the temptation gets tough. Any feedback would be greatly appreciated. It’s hard, but I’m trying✝️

@user-ww1he2ly8p

2 ай бұрын

I don't know if you will find this useful, but the moment you find yourself tempted, immediately pray and repeat biblical truths to yourself. For example sin starts within and comes out of you, so you must discipline even your thoughts. Try asking God for spiritual discipline. Build good habits.

@adamspark9259

2 ай бұрын

Prayer and repentance worked for me. It wasn't easy. It wasn't like removing a band aid. I did it in spite of my new way of thinking and my realization of the sin several times. I asked for forgiveness each time. I found myself turning away from it more and more. I was distracted by the fact that it was a sin. The angst I had for the sin of porn addiction overcame the enjoyment. God changed my mind and heart. Embrace your relationship with Jesus. Talk to him frequently. Talk to him when that temptation gets tough. Reach for your bible when you are about to reach for the porn. I pray for your deliverance.

@algriffin1743

2 ай бұрын

@@user-ww1he2ly8p thank you I do that often. I still appreciate the encouraging words.

@algriffin1743

2 ай бұрын

@@adamspark9259 thank you very much. I will keep fighting. Thank you and God bless you.✝️

@adamspark9259

2 ай бұрын

@@algriffin1743 God bless you!

Amen 🙏.

Jackie in this video you seem to be wearing less makeup. That is a good direction to go towards to enhance modesty and grow as you are into a strong woman of God. None of the women in my church wear make up whether 29 or 63. Your other godly virtues as manifested in your countenance and your encouraging words also make you beautiful. It does appear you're are going in that direction from your testimony as well.. Peace in Christ smile😊

Please pray for senior P …with hid gambling and pray that his soul be saved very very soon and serving God in Jesus Holy name in a nearby church if so led thank you

Im tired of doing this. Why did my addiction become so much stronger after trying to give my life to Christ? It feels like I can’t control myself and at the end im always left in shame and in pain. Please I beg of you all to pray for me 🙏🏻

I'm praising God because He delivered me from this sickness - FINALLY. Over the past 10 years, there were so many attempts to quit and thought I was successful! Only to return to that vomit. Then last year towards the end, I really had it out with God, I mean I went off on Him. I blamed Him for not protecting me as a child and allowing me to see things I wasn't supposed to. I think from there, after that emotional blowout with the Lord, He delivered me and now over 120 days clean with no intention or desire. I mean I get nauseous thinking about the bondage I was in all these years. Not gonna lie, lustful thoughts creep up here and there, but not as bad as before. I feel myself changing and becoming the man God wants me to be... tapping into my TRUE potential. Praise Jesus Christ Almighty! God is good!

Queen of Anglic Light - spread the truth

God said “FOR YOU”

How can you find someone to deliver you?

to the only God our Savior be glory, majesty, power and authority, through Jesus Christ our Lord, before all ages, now and forevermore! Amen. Jude 25

Amen ❤🎉

I lost interest in pornography when I was repeatedly intimate with my partner. People don't necessarily choose pornography over people. Pornography is often just a substitute until you can find the real thing.

Mmmm, I see. You're right!

cant agree more

Please pray for me every woman i get ina relashonship with turns out to be a lier and cheater and distracts me away from Jesus

If im 27 now, and been addicted since 14, is that problem?

True

I can do all things through Christ which strengtheneth me. Philippians 4:13.

sweet lady

Whoa!

Perfect

I have been waiting my wife for years ❤❤

That is actually the most common problem. People wanting relationsships because they think that their partner can finally fix something or make them endlessly happy. And when this doesn't happen, they say they don't love this person anymore and move on, wanting the next fix.

@jackieVanTine_

2 ай бұрын

For real…. It’s a lie from hell…

I don't have any of these addictions. But only one problem that leads me to despair is my godless parents who won't allow me to read Bible, who won't allow me to go to church. This is the real imprisonment I've been facing. But behold, judge is with me. He encourages me to face these battles against my parents ❤🙏🏼

GOD BLESS YOU SO MUCH FOR BEING BOLD ENOUGH TO ADDRESS THIS. I was hooked on porn by 9 years old. Smut was openly in every home that had a part in raising me and the women never said a word about it. I thought it was my job to be a womanizer. Seriously. 33yrs later after 4 yrs of wrestling in the flesh in constant temptation, he answered me about why he hadnt moved yet. I loved my sin more than i loved his son. I bawled and wept and sobbed.. he was right. Something that never took one stripe for me, was higher than He who paid off all my debts. I had esteemed him not. When i repented of not placing him highest, he set me free from it. I control it now. Not it controlling me. Dont put it off guys. Race to your knees for freedom from this cruel master.

I used to think or I may still think that it would be easier to kick this if I had a wife but Mabie your right. It is a little different for guys than with girls. What I mean by that, porn is more toward guy audiences than girl audiences. But all being said, your right. Thank you for talking about something that no one wants to talk about. You have no idea how many people you're going to help on this subject. Me included.

amen

Thats good that you mention it. The things you bring, they are the holdover of previous life. And obviously it will take a different form, in marriage. For example if you are addicted to pumpkin spice latte. You would still be chugging that bad boy, until the rooster cries. But, do I want the Lord to deliver me from that? Thats the question, and until that happens, the first thing you will seek on the bedroom floor is the latte, and latte are known for keeping one up, and over the night. And the wife will get suspicious, and then.. you will seek the Lord.. Here's a prayer. Lord, the latte rules my day, the hold of its caffeinated eyes is too courageous. Deliver me from the supermarket, and stuff, so the wife I encounter is there to be loved and just. In Jesus Name.. Amen..