I started crying in first 50 seconds becasuse im in this situation right now and this helped me a little bit, thanks

@dennisbergkamp640

3 жыл бұрын

Crying?

@cookieicecream1086

3 жыл бұрын

Same.

@Gerardo-dt8xf

3 жыл бұрын

@@dennisbergkamp640 What's wrong with that?

@husnain5074

2 жыл бұрын

I didn't cried but now i hate my friend

@Whydidyoudothattome

Жыл бұрын

Same here.

0:48 “you are you!” Yeah...that’s the problem

@nothingtoseeherefolks6911

4 жыл бұрын

Exactlyyyyyyyyyyy

@Skkskk702

3 жыл бұрын

Yeah

@Rascalzzz

3 жыл бұрын

After 2 years...how are you doing

@claire6597

3 жыл бұрын

@@Rascalzzz forgot that I commented this lmao. I’m doing better now so thanks :)

@Rascalzzz

3 жыл бұрын

Claire glad for you ;) keep going and being your cool self 🔥

I love how you're almost angry when you're giving life advice :)

@TheloyalArcanine

9 жыл бұрын

Binge Watchers It's.... ZE PASSIONS!

I'm actually in the exact same situation and this helped a lot. Thanks Matt. And to the Lieberfriend who submitted this good luck with everything.

@katejohns726

7 жыл бұрын

ANerdWithWifi I am to everything I wanted she's getting

@GreasyXEditz

8 ай бұрын

8 years ago, bro the real OG

My best friend is better than me at everything! School, music, getting boyfriends, and even taking selfies. She even has better social skills. And she’s so much prettier. She has long thick brown hair, brown eyes, tan skin, an hour glass shape, and the face of a model. I can’t go anywhere with her without a guy asking for her number. She even got a call from a modeling agency. Then there’s me. I have short thin brown hair, pail skin, about a million freckles from head to toe, and I’m fat. No one has ever shed for my phone number in my life. And I have never been called by a modeling agency. I thought that I would never be as good as her. Then I watched this and realized that I was all along. Thank you so much for opening up my eyes to see what is right in front of me as we speak. Thank you!

@anvutrong6870

4 жыл бұрын

can I have your phone number? :)

@BtsArmy-fx8bb

3 жыл бұрын

Can I have your phone number 💜

@biruruth5956

3 жыл бұрын

Just know you're awesome darling and we love ❤️ you soo much

@sophietekliuk9864

3 жыл бұрын

omg it's the same here. such a pain

@sostdm617

Жыл бұрын

God bless you

Literally all my friends either have boyfriends or are talking to boys and I’m the one that sits in the corner too scared to talk to anybody because I am so socially anxious and have never actually been diagnosed... I’m the ugly one of my friend group and the insecure one and the not cool one... my best friend is starting to get other cooler friends that try to exclude me actively but I can’t get away because there is nowhere else to go. I am crap compared to all of them and I am not cool or trendy or even socially adept enough to carry a conversation without doing or saying some weird thing that scares them off. I feel like crap and have for years because I’m not normal. I hat myself.

@sophietekliuk9864

3 жыл бұрын

you are awesome, I'd love to make friends with u there are same weird ppl out there and they need YOU, not your friend

@Nowhere9

3 жыл бұрын

Darling, don’t hate yourself because of others, you deserve love no matter what! Being different doesn’t mean that you’re less. Try to find something else that you’re good at. There are many other things in life besides what you mentioned, and then when you find that thing you will be able to prove to yourself that you’re a wonderful person.

This is what landed for me: "I hope your friend has the same level of respect for you as you do for him." (paraphrasing) Yep, that's a huge point in any friendship and I hope it is true in the case of our Lieberfriend today.

@richos07

3 жыл бұрын

Not for me. They see themselves as better than me and use every opportunity to put me down and outclass me. They’ll seek everyone opportunity to prove they’re better than me and I’m a piece of shit.

and what if my "best" friend stole my whole life?...

this made me feel a lot better

It still shocks me that people have not realized that comparison is the theif of joy. When you compare yourself to others, you only focus on how they are better than you and you try to catch up and surpass them when you should really be focusing on getting better for yourself. If you learn to be yourself and love who YOU are as an individual, life becomes so much simplier, which in turn makes you happier.

Someone once said this to me and I feel like this Lieberfriend could use it. "Please remember that you are a person with infinite worth. The first and last “you” there will ever be. You are capable! Be brave."

Ugh I just STOPPED crying! My friend and I are close but she just doesnt realize how much it hurts when she excels in everything and brags

Thanks... I really needed that...

When its an award ceremony and ALL YOUR FRIENDS got an award..... besides you

Man, no friend of mine told me so much about friendship than you. If I ever get a best friend you are the reason. If I ever feel that I am better then the friend who Ithought was better then me its you. I started crying in first 50 seconds too. But you have made me feel better. I appreciate it man

My problem is that, I am better in literally every co curricular activities then my friends. I know it and so does other people but on the basis of looks, they are far more better then me

I randomly searched something up and found this, at first I didn't expect much but I actually started crying because I needed someone to tell me this. Thank you so much Matt, this really made me feel better.

I love how I went from viewing Cracked skits into suddenly seeing one of the people telling me life advice. Damn bro thanks.

This helped me so much. My friend is always the one who is congratulated and that people fancy and that people go to to talk to. I'm the one in the background . Please do another video on this because it helps me. Thank you

@corgicompton1383

4 жыл бұрын

I feel the exect same way like the world is explosin or something I just want to find out who I am I dont know who I am

That’s why I quit Facebook 2 years ago and haven’t looked back.

Man I needed to hear this, thankyou brother🙏

thank you. needed this.

Thank you. Needed this today

I needed this so much. Thank you.

thanks for the reminder, this is one of the reasons I enjoy your videos

Thanks Matt. Stay amazing!!

thank you, I needed this. now eventually crying

Wow those were some powerful words thanks :)

This helped me out a lot. Thanks Matt!

Thank you…I really appreciate the people in my life, I don’t want to be envious of them and this video helped me a lot.

I appreciate this video! It helped me think through some personal issues I've been having with myself lately.

Thx man i needed this

You have no idea how much I needed this... You see I have this friend that is like a better version than me in many aspects. I've never felt like this with other friends but now that I feel it..its not that great..Im constantly comparing myself with her..

I'm from India and its 3 am here. I was really tensed and was on the same page as lieberfriend was before hearing you. Thank you Matt.. Thanks a lot

I’ve actually been called the B tech version of my friend. It’s hard to differ your interests when they start to copy yours and are instantly better tho :(

Loved this video Matt! Keep up the amazing work:)

I’ve been crying for weeks even months because I’ve been thinking about how my two best friends are better at me in looks, personality, talent and popularity.

Thanks ❤

Wise Words. :D

❤️❤️❤️❤️I just need to hear this today

Thanks man

More people need to hear this. anyone who sees this, you are special and beautiful 💛

thank you so much you really helped me.

Thank you for making a wonderful video like this it helped a lot

there are same weird ppl out there and they need YOU, not your friend

Damn this helped me … I love this

Just wanted to say that this video actually helped me get my life together. I used to have depression and low self worth and self esteem. I used to think my friends are better than me at everything. But thanks to this vid i found out im not actually bad at anything. I just used to be lazy or depressed. That way i could not get better at the stuff i love. Now two years later after i have seen this video i feel so much better. Ive gotten better at what i love and i stopped being overly competitive. That way i feel joy in what i do. But also i feel that im worth something and doing what i love everyday is a reason for me to wake up excited. Thank you. And to any1 that needed to see this video or even this comment. You can do anything that you set your mind to. Just be careful and not fall into the false perception of doing something for other people to see. Or doing something for some person. Find something you love and invest on it. Then you will need no ones approval or even kind words. Cause lets be honest at the end the only person that you truly have is you.

Thank you

I feel this way about my twin, who is also my best friend. I can tell you that doing a couple different things than them REALLY helps.

Thank u for this video 😩

Iiiii actually needed this

Thanks a lot

This video really goes with my thoughts lately

My best friend recomended me to watch this and i thank her for it

i need this,thanks you.

They all think they are

Wow, just wow this changed my point of view of everything

Thank you very much - This really, really helped🥺♥️. Also for any Indian friends out there, I have a quote from Bhagwad Gita- "एको अहं, द्वितीयो नास्ति, न भूतो न भविष्यति" 😊

The way the friend dude feels is my life

OMFG ! thanks matt this made everything way better I needed someone to say that to release that nobody was saying that and I saw this video and I clicked it and was like thaks man im 13 and my cussen is 15 and I always thought that she was better cooler then me and I saw this video and I was like im going to come back to this video when or if I ever feel like this again and everyone remember no one is better than you and you're not better then anyone else but you you are you and thanks matt once again ! :)

this is exactly my situation man like actually exactly the same she gets all the better grades than me and is better at art than me everything

I just suffered from this situation... I think everyone is better than me in everything... So I searched this .. I am still crying .. I don't know why?? But I will think from now onwards that I am best

Tysm 😊😊😊

I’m in the same situation. I felt like she’s everyone’s favorite, not me. Most of the adults pick her to do the job more than me. They always tell her to do something for them instead of me. And she won the games more. She hangs out more with others, and I always feel alone, empty, and not special. My mind always told me: *I wish you were like your friend* But I got some other friends that doesn’t do the same my best friend does. This video helped me. Thank you.

I’m a fellow libra and I can relate to that situation

Queen.

this actually helped me i felt like i was being schooled by you haha

I starting crying on the middle of the vidio

If you wanna be better than someone at something. You must grind bro

At least you have things in common with that friend and they also want to hang out with you. They probably don't see all the flaws you see in yourself :)

Doesn’t help when my friend is the one saying shes better than me lol

My god so helpful

Just a rant :] The only thing im good at is drawing and math. I see a lot of people better than me on the internet and in real life. Better at drawing, looks more Beautiful, smarter than me, and able to go to university early.. Im only good at math.. And im not even that good but better than most people my grade, i now realize that my best friend also wants to be me because of my good grades. My grades used to be always A+ now i only have A's and B's. I feel bad for my friend cause once i just got stressed and accidentally said something hurtfull towards her cause she kept on asking for my answers on a practice question even tho i didnt finish yet and other people kept on asking me to help them and im not good at socializing, and will feel uncomfortable if someone is too close too me. (I apologized to her and we are still friends) Thanks for The video it made me feel better :) I appreciate it I will remember your words. Sorry if my grammar is wrong english is not my first language hehe :)

Omg your eyes are so cool!

best 3 min of my life thanks for helping bruv owe u my life

People wouldnt be better than me if my practice actually paid off, i hate people who are better than me

I use to feel like this when I was a teenager at 15 years old and because of it me and my friend drift away from each other when I was 18 years old which it a hard one managing theses feelings which we can all say focus on you, stop comparing yourself or don’t think about it but it doesn’t take away those upsetting feelings

watching this in 2023 damn

Man just guessed my life in the first 10 seconds

This is exactly me

I have this friend. She acts a little immature compare to me and she dyed her hair the same color as me ( red) one week after i dyed it, even though she was blonde. And wherever we go boys love her and even though she has a boyfriend she flirts with every guy i tell her i find cute. One day i went on a date with a man i met the other day, and i saw him on the street coincidentally and he let me on the side and flirt with her. And she got so happy. And i stopped being friends with her because she started talking to me very badly like i was ugly etc but recently a mutual friend we have brings her all the time even though i told her that i don't want to go out with her as well. Like....i haven't seen her for a year and i ended up being the one who was going to take her home cause she was drunk and alone and the boy i had my eyes all night, in the end flirted with her. Even though she was vomiting and acting like a child, everyone was flirting with her. I was very friendly, i am in general but i do not scream or get drunk cause i don't like it. And im like....i feel like im nothing compared to her. NOTHING.

I live ya Lieberman. No homo

I'll just say one thing Thank you

i love my best friend to death, she is the most amazing person on this earth, so kind to everyone, so generous, and gosh she's so pretty, she is the prettiest girl i have ever seen in my entire life. and this is the reason i’m so insecure about myself and i HATE that i feel this way. i’m always scared to present her to the guys i’m talking with because i know they would prefer dating her than me. when we go out she always got the attention of everyone, she is so extrovert and i’m just the shy girl in her shadow even tho she try to involve me in everything. and i hate myself for hating the fact that she is so perfect.

my friend is better than me at everything but i still through all of the pain manage to applaud her from my heart one time I had found a good game that I was good at and my bff joined me after I had played on it for like three or four days and then the next day she was already three ranks above me and that was the day after I told her to please leave the game and then she played it all night. I can’t even begin to express how broken and useless she constantly makes me feel.

I have a situation that is almost exactly the same. Me and my friend think alike, want the same things out of life, and overall share the same attitude. But I have to know, my friend is a year younger than me, and she can already do all the things I used to pride myself on. She has done literally EVERYTHING I have... but on top of that gets better than me at everything in a shorter amount of time. I'll be a Junior, and so far I have not done a single AP class, yet my sophmore friend is taking two. So what I want to know is how can I deal with an over achiever on top of everything mentioned in this video?

all my interests were mine first which is the toughest

I don't even know if someone is going to read this and i don't know where to start but here i go...I have very nice friends, they love me and i love them and we usually have a good time together when we are a group. But when i am alone with someone i just feel like they would have a much better time if they were with someone else. I feel like i'm not enjoyable or interesting to hang out with. I probably give them an awkward energy. And sometimes i feel like they also think that, and they don't really want to talk with me and i just ask myself why would they want to? I feel like i deserve all of this because they are better and i have a weak mind. Deep down i know these thoughts are dumb. But knowing that they are dumb doesn't always help. I love doing math. My friends also love doing math. They can talk about some math problems , I just can't do it and I hate that. I hate that i can't talk the same way they do with each other, I hate that i make it seem like i have no personality, i hate that i am just not interesting and can't be like them. And i hate that i seriously think these things and i wanna stop but god it is so hard. I will still try and practice things everyday because i don't wanna give up but i also can't get rid off of these thoughts.

@darukingdom2592

Жыл бұрын

sending hugs 🫂 it will get better as you address your insecurities :))

What bothers me is when I have to work harder to get to the same thing.

I really wanted someone to tell all this and i found ur Vedio OMG i feel better now

I am Vietnamese and just like a normal Asian person that I always be compared with my cousin (also my bestfriend) by the relatives. Im often fear of the future, when both of us graduated high school and live our own life. What if she is successful than I or earns more money than i do ? but thats what i had thought before i watched your video, understand your words. Youre right, we re different.

I know that I am worthy of love, the guys just don’t know.

Yo I'm crying

Wtf literally the first 45 seconds im literally in that situation...

Dang that guy is literally me

I'm in the exact same situation. Shes just...perfect. shes funny, shes kind, she knows how to give advice and when to give it, shes smart. God, I spent a whole day studying for this history test and she opened her textbook just once. She still got an A. And I got a B-, almost C. Math as well. The English classes. Art. I remember how i told her about my passion in art and she said "oh can I try too? Seems fun". It was before she got better than me in that too. She reads more. I was the one that loved spoiling her the books (never gave her major spoilers tho), but now shes "returning the favor". Shes on so many lessons and classes yet she manages to always be with homework and get good grades. I hate how perfect she is. I feel so useless next to her. She improved her social skills while mine got worse during the quarantine. People like her better so why should I even bother existing?

@yoshii8693

3 жыл бұрын

it do be getting worse lolol

@dumplinggloom5878

2 жыл бұрын

hey, how are u now my friend

I hate when friends do that...

What about my coworkers? Or anyone in their 20s, actually. I'm 27, still live at home, having _never_ moved out. I have never had a girlfriend or a date, and I don't even have a driver's license. I have both a learning disability and ASD, and sometimes I say unfiltered things or act weird in social moments. I assume my ASD makes me "less normal." I don't have too many friends now that I've graduated from college and most of my friends have left town. My coworkers all seem to fit in; I usually stand out. I often feel like a misfit at work. They don't seem to want to include me in on the fun. I guess I can be weird and annoying socially. I wonder if they're better off without me. What's funny is they say you should always be yourself, but that's a fallacy, isn't it? I graduated high school at TWENTY, having been kept back in preschool (speech delay) and homeschooled. I even graduated at a small charter school instead of the superior public high school my younger sister is at. I'm jealous of her; she's stronger than I would've been...and about to be a senior when I was a sophomore her age. I seem slow and helpless and do better with a guide than by myself (my boss basically said that to my face).A disabled man who doesn't match standards, yes, but a loser too?

Tucker I'm sorry I'm better, you're beautiful.

I mean my friend is better than me at everything. He is stronger than me, smarter, and more skilled than me. If he wasnt an asshole about it and talking down to me and calling me useless i wouldnt mind. I think if we didnt all have the same friends i would mostly avoid him but i just go with it because he was their friend 1st and people take up for those they know longer. Hell even in my dreams, like last night he was in it and that dream just reminded me of how useless i am compared to him.