Your FEAR OF BEING SEEN is holding you back | Overcome SELF SABOTAGE and CHANGE YOUR LIFE!

I truly believe you know exactly what you need to do to reinvent yourself and change your life BUT the fear of being seen, being judged, being rejected and failing is holding you back. This is what held me back for so long and this year God helped me overcome this. I hope this video helps you overcome your fears too so 2024 and every year after that can be YOUR YEAR! Love youuuu,
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Isaiah 41:13 NIV
13 For I am the Lord your God who takes hold of your right hand
and says to you, Do not fear; I will help you.
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  • @KishUnleashed
    @KishUnleashed6 ай бұрын

    "Procrastination is the arrogant assumption that God owes you another chance ", literally took my breath away. 😟I have been checked. thank you

  • @eniumo210

    @eniumo210

    5 ай бұрын

    Damnn❤

  • @pateksky1890

    @pateksky1890

    5 ай бұрын

    I procrastinate because I believe I don't have another chance, so why try?

  • @eunece88

    @eunece88

    5 ай бұрын

    Shook me to my core but it was right on time

  • @keziahmwamba1771

    @keziahmwamba1771

    5 ай бұрын

    yess and the other part that God owes you another chance of what you had the time to do

  • @ColoradoFalls

    @ColoradoFalls

    5 ай бұрын

    God didnt even help our ancestors!! Blk people believing in God is the dumbest thing

  • @TheeTreyForbes
    @TheeTreyForbes4 ай бұрын

    “The fear of looking stupid. The fear of being SEEN TRYING” grabbed me by my throat in the first 5 seconds. I’m gonna sit down and listen.

  • @Maksim-rv1qb

    @Maksim-rv1qb

    3 ай бұрын

    Girl. This video is MAGICAL! ❤❤❤

  • @tiairrascott7993
    @tiairrascott79935 ай бұрын

    “How is it failure if you’re not done yet?” Oooooh that was good!!!!

  • @ashley_audacious
    @ashley_audacious6 ай бұрын

    fear is not of God. it’s of the enemy 2 timothy 1:7 for God has not given us the spirit of fear , but power, love & a sound mind.

  • @Gina.B

    @Gina.B

    6 ай бұрын

    Exactly!!! No wonder the closer I got to God the less I was afraid 💕

  • @user-dy2sv6wm6u

    @user-dy2sv6wm6u

    4 ай бұрын

    Amen 🙏🏾

  • @Sonia-it4yh
    @Sonia-it4yh5 ай бұрын

    “Every year is my year because I got God!” 🤧💕

  • @deedeesaidso5910

    @deedeesaidso5910

    5 ай бұрын

    that part

  • @jaysouthmusic8230

    @jaysouthmusic8230

    4 ай бұрын

    This is what I needed to hear

  • @georginaasante1671
    @georginaasante16716 ай бұрын

    As soon as i saw the title i knew this was for ME!!! im actually terrified of taking risks! Praying to overcome that in 2024 🙏🏾

  • @Leemo899

    @Leemo899

    6 ай бұрын

    Same sis❤

  • @feruzkesete9728

    @feruzkesete9728

    5 ай бұрын

    Go for it girl, had the same issue, i’m taking it day by day.. I’ve been praying and just allowing myself to get out of my comfort zone and just going for it.. and i’m slowly but surely coming out of my fear !!!

  • @user-fx7og4wh2y

    @user-fx7og4wh2y

    4 ай бұрын

    Do it baby!

  • @tinukeajidele700

    @tinukeajidele700

    4 ай бұрын

    Take baby step, go to spot you've never been before or wear that outfit/hair you've been liking. Just start somewhere please! I'm in my forties now and the risks I wish I had taken in my twenties I regret not taking. However there's still hope for other things as long as I'm living.

  • @georginaasante1671

    @georginaasante1671

    4 ай бұрын

    @@tinukeajidele700 thanks for the advice! That's exactly what I've started doing just stepping out of my comfort zone with different hair styles and clothing

  • @cvrlytops
    @cvrlytops5 ай бұрын

    sometimes perfectionism is just another form of procrastination 🗣️

  • @VickitaTrivedi
    @VickitaTrivedi5 ай бұрын

    "Procrastination is the arrogant assumption that God owes you another chance" got me writing these KZread scripts so fast 😤

  • @akiinefaexperiencinglife

    @akiinefaexperiencinglife

    5 ай бұрын

    Yaaay! I am subscribing

  • @asyatsow1843
    @asyatsow18436 ай бұрын

    As a teenager, I really enjoy your channel and all the advice you give. Keep going it's really inspirational

  • @Gina.B

    @Gina.B

    6 ай бұрын

    My heart 🥹 this means so much to me thank you love 💕🫶🏾

  • @PrincessTye
    @PrincessTye5 ай бұрын

    “There’s so much more to gain than it is to lose“ 🙏🏾

  • @smiilequeen1256
    @smiilequeen12566 ай бұрын

    "procrastination is the arrogant assumption that God owes you another chance" really got me. thabk you Gina, blessings for this year💗 i'm not letting fear amen

  • @samiraaleah
    @samiraaleah4 ай бұрын

    I am already 30 and for real i have not lived. I am trying so hard to move past my fear anxiety and certain challenges related to being neurodivergent.

  • @lisamabombo284
    @lisamabombo2845 ай бұрын

    14:00-14:09 ohhh my gawd guuurl there you said it. As soon as I started to mind my business more and not look at what other people were doing, that is when I started to have less fear because I was now not worrying what other people were thinking about me. I saw and viewed things In a positive way.

  • @ButterCake-xc8ff
    @ButterCake-xc8ff5 ай бұрын

    The results of procrastination eating at your soul is very accurate…

  • @skyllee
    @skyllee3 ай бұрын

    "perfectionism is so just another form of procrastination" this line hits me like a truck

  • @coletteporee
    @coletteporee5 ай бұрын

    i can’t believe this is on youtube for FREE. this is exactly what i’ve been needing to hear for YEARS. thank you so much❤️

  • @eniumo210
    @eniumo2105 ай бұрын

    No way I'm not subscribing after "procrastination is the arrogant assumption that God owes you another chance " ❤😊

  • @theajak
    @theajak6 ай бұрын

    Thank you for these videos. I don’t necessarily want to create content but I do want to be a physical therapist and I’m kind of shy but you inspire me to get out my comfort zone when it comes to seeking opportunities 😭😭

  • @Gina.B

    @Gina.B

    6 ай бұрын

    You got it love! You can touch so many lives as a physical therapist. Promise you won’t hold your self back anymore 🥹

  • @n.nai.i
    @n.nai.i5 ай бұрын

    i know this is a christian channel, so maybe i don’t belong on here but as i muslim, i want to thank you because this whole video spoke to me and i thank you sincerely ❤️ i pray that soon i’ll be able to take the next step i know i need to do and wear hijab, but of course it’s fear that’s stopping me and why i’m procrastinating so thank you again! you put into words what i needed to hear for years

  • @joyeffanga1902

    @joyeffanga1902

    5 ай бұрын

    You belong here sis! Humanity before religion.

  • @yaelbernal797
    @yaelbernal7975 ай бұрын

    I was so overwhelmed with fear and anxiety about a video of me speaking, that has been recently uploaded on my work’s Instagram. Then I see this video on KZread, and I knew it was definitely a sign from God. Thank you for making this video! God bless you❤️

  • @KSTEWARTXO
    @KSTEWARTXO5 ай бұрын

    Whew the “fear of being seeing trying” snatched my wig girl! That’s my issue.

  • @usisiphoqamata
    @usisiphoqamata5 ай бұрын

    So many gems in a single video, a whole million-dollar self-help book in 17 minutes. I wish a lot of people would come across this. Thank you so much!

  • @ChinazaEze-sf4yh
    @ChinazaEze-sf4yh6 ай бұрын

    This video came just right in time❤Thank you Gina for letting God use you to speak to me 🥹🥹

  • @Gina.B

    @Gina.B

    6 ай бұрын

    I been feeling like God was telling me to make this video for a while so I’m so glad it spoke to you 💕

  • @deedeesaidso5910

    @deedeesaidso5910

    5 ай бұрын

    same

  • @Rachel-nb2vn

    @Rachel-nb2vn

    5 ай бұрын

    @@Gina.B Same. This video means more than you know to me.

  • @AmberAlani
    @AmberAlani5 ай бұрын

    the way i burst out laughing when you said that if nobody sees your video that theres nothing to be embarrassed about cuz nobody even watched it LMAO you so real for that

  • @aislinnb5331
    @aislinnb5331Ай бұрын

    THIS ACTUALLY HELPED!!! I was scared to tell my friends about my youtube channel but I went ahead and told them and it was LITERALLY fine. thanksss

  • @TyraMudiwa
    @TyraMudiwa5 ай бұрын

    The reason why I love Gina so much is that she gives advice from a Christian perspective and that makes it so much more valuable ... love you so much girlllll 🌸💗

  • @gum_drops3620
    @gum_drops36205 ай бұрын

    Failure is not falling down, it’s staying down. Wonderful message for a new yearrrr🔥

  • @qadiram7715
    @qadiram77156 ай бұрын

    You are gorgeous❤ this video is so necessary. I started creating content and posted but slowed down so getting back into it. We only get one life.

  • @misozi.

    @misozi.

    6 ай бұрын

    You can do it! I have just posted my first video and currently have zero subscribers but I have started ❤

  • @Gina.B

    @Gina.B

    6 ай бұрын

    Thank you beautiful 💕 You’re so right! We really only get one life, so we can’t let fear rob us of this experience 🫶🏾

  • @Heavenlyssa

    @Heavenlyssa

    6 ай бұрын

    Same! You got this ❤️

  • @user-ne5ue8rd5n
    @user-ne5ue8rd5n5 ай бұрын

    I barely comment but I HAD to let you know this was very needed! The fears you addressed were brought to light, and I'm definitely going to make changes to that!

  • @Raaachelsuuu
    @Raaachelsuuu6 ай бұрын

    I plan on making a concrete plan to change my life in 2024 I need to I have to !!!!!!!!

  • @xiomara_x
    @xiomara_x5 ай бұрын

    Gurl GODS TIMING IS TOO PERFECT cuz I just got done praying to him and feeelng a bit fearful bout certain things And this VID FR DOING GODS WORK🙏🏽🙌🏽❤️

  • @OrianeNana
    @OrianeNana4 күн бұрын

    I just wanna say you're content has helped me a lot I started the delusional mindset where I decided to embody who I wanted to be instead of just trying to be a better version of myself which always felt like I was role playing. Instead of trying to be a better version of myself I already am and live as such and anytime I fall short I just stop reassess ans start over so thankyou for this amazing content you put out as someone struggling with imposter syndrome

  • @ellehcim.k5449
    @ellehcim.k54494 ай бұрын

    I KNEW this video was for me at 7:25. I used to be SO insecure of my teeth, and though it's not as bad anymore, i'mstill self-consciouss of them and that is a big reason for whyIi don't talk to people (my fear). This video showed up at the right time, God really orchestrates everything well!!

  • @Godsf4vorite
    @Godsf4vorite5 ай бұрын

    God led me to your video and I’m so glad he did

  • @BigAfroLucky
    @BigAfroLuckyАй бұрын

    😭😂that was me but God doesn’t want me to hide myself anymore I’m going to start my posting in November

  • @kayliannalopez
    @kayliannalopez5 ай бұрын

    this feels like such a genuinely good teaching moment not in the egotistical influencer sort of way but in a way thats just like a best friend/sister wanting better for u keep doing what u do :)

  • @stephaniewiley3512
    @stephaniewiley35125 ай бұрын

    I saw the title and knew I need to click! So glad I did, because I NEEDED TO HEAR THIS! This video was a God send. I'm so grateful, because i needed this advice, inspiration, motivation and everything else it contains. Thank you for being real and posting what people like me need to hear!!❤

  • @ginaluv7228
    @ginaluv72285 ай бұрын

    This is often me , I’ve given up at kindergarten when I was rejected , bullied and afraid to speak up and now as an adult, very grown adult . I feel like I’m trying to make up for lost time but that time is gone and all I can do is focus on what I did do and what I can do .

  • @carmencatalina9086
    @carmencatalina90866 ай бұрын

    You hit nail on head sometimes it’s self sabotage behavior. I just want success on KZread. And make money and be feeling akward filming. I have dope topics. And remaining positive and taking accountability and not just talk but have actions. I know what to do. You gave good advice. Spirit and ancestors in me and helping me. I’m gone start making weight loss weight lose vlogs. And topics for black women leveling up. 2024 year is my year. Post even if it’s not perfect. Affirm for more viewers and don’t get discouraged. Rome wasn’t built in day. Thanks for tips❤

  • @prettybrown6247
    @prettybrown62476 ай бұрын

    Girl I love you for this!! Im scared asf to put my first dance video on Instagram as a reel but I’m going for it. I booked my dance studio and videographer 😍✨ I hope it does well. I’m ready to take dancing serious

  • @nickiclaire24

    @nickiclaire24

    5 ай бұрын

    You can do this. remember dance is for everyone it has no rules or limitations! This is your sign to do it your future self will thank you xxx

  • @sphoenixthegreat
    @sphoenixthegreat6 ай бұрын

    Thank you for this. “There’s more to gain than lose”

  • @BrittanyU-uj4lx
    @BrittanyU-uj4lx5 ай бұрын

    I definitely needed to hear this because procrastination is so real! Thank you!

  • @ggvlogs7777
    @ggvlogs77773 ай бұрын

    girl your so right! I needed to hear this thank your for posting making creating this video thank you for your time

  • @sailoranimegirl101
    @sailoranimegirl1015 ай бұрын

    This just popped up on my homepage and I really needed this. Thank you ❤

  • @ZandiASMR
    @ZandiASMR6 ай бұрын

    WHY YOU ATE ME UP LIKE THIS!!!

  • @ChristineIdokogi
    @ChristineIdokogi6 ай бұрын

    I’m on my 30s and you are teaching me girl!! Keep going and doing what you are doing! So many gems!

  • @joywilson5494
    @joywilson54945 ай бұрын

    This is exactly what I needed! Thank you

  • @sharlaamysamuel
    @sharlaamysamuel5 ай бұрын

    I’m so glad that these came up in my feed in the beginning of 2024. Thank you for this encouragement. Let’s let go of fear.🙏🏾✨

  • @sincerelysavannahrae
    @sincerelysavannahrae5 ай бұрын

    Next year I'll be turning 20, and I am so excited.... I've been waiting for this day since I was a kid!!! Thank you so much for this video, it really did help

  • @naoblanco
    @naoblanco6 ай бұрын

    This is what i need to listen today! Thank you so much

  • @audreyestelle687
    @audreyestelle6875 ай бұрын

    Oh boy! You speaking straight to me! I took a faith step and I quit my job to be a sahw/m. I was so afraid of what people would think and after that starting my channel which is something that was definitely out of my comfort zone! Thanks for this encouragement! God bless!❤

  • @kiralee1614
    @kiralee16144 ай бұрын

    Came for advice, subscribed when i heard you bring out a bible verse. We LOVE a woman of God

  • @munequa81
    @munequa815 ай бұрын

    This video lovingly and respectfully dragged me. Thank you for this message! I'll return to this when I need to!

  • @zekiayasmin
    @zekiayasmin5 ай бұрын

    you read me. thank you so much for this video! bless!

  • @ritaamichelle
    @ritaamichelle5 ай бұрын

    I just subscribed today, I’m literally loving your content. Feel like you’re speaking directly to me. I’ve been trying to be consistent for years. 2024 I’m doing this! I’m really going to do this. Fear is not of God!

  • @randisamirah1150
    @randisamirah11505 ай бұрын

    How did you know that I needed to hear this! Thank you sis❤

  • @honeyh0e
    @honeyh0e5 ай бұрын

    youtube read my mind and put this in my recommended. thank you girl x

  • @GetElevatedWithMe
    @GetElevatedWithMe5 ай бұрын

    Ms Gina I’m 39 and I need this video. I’ve been afraid to watch and I’m stepping into 2024 turning 40 living my absolute best life! Thank you honey for teaching us all ❤❤❤I appreciate your honesty and the way you explain!

  • @thehealtrix
    @thehealtrix5 ай бұрын

    U truly ate with this one it’s literally EVERYTHING I needed to hear & more! God is defenitly using you in a mighty way! 2024 & beyond is my year to shine… thank you for this reminder✨

  • @rowenafortuin7918
    @rowenafortuin79185 ай бұрын

    Thank you very much for making this video. Your light shines through the screen❤ This is exactly what I needed to hear. God bless you.

  • @catherinelewis9078
    @catherinelewis90785 ай бұрын

    Love this! Thank you Gina❤❤ God was really speaking to me again today through you again. I will not let it happen again!

  • @musicJloves
    @musicJloves5 ай бұрын

    Thank you for this video. I believe God wanted me to see this. 💕

  • @shanicekoita8806
    @shanicekoita88065 ай бұрын

    This video was made for me 😢.thank you for allowing God to speak through you .he knew that there are or who need to hear this and spark something

  • @junehlongwane
    @junehlongwane5 ай бұрын

    I immediately clicked to watch as soon as I saw this on my TL. This is such an important message, thanks for sharing.

  • @dede_darling
    @dede_darling6 ай бұрын

    This was very deep, thank you for this ❤️

  • @makeitjelloo0
    @makeitjelloo05 ай бұрын

    I’m ngl..I have seen this video on my recommended and never pressed it. Now that I have I’m glad I did!!! So much great adive

  • @phebektee
    @phebektee6 ай бұрын

    This video is so so perfect and everything I need. thank you so much💗💗

  • @MinuteWithMaria
    @MinuteWithMaria5 ай бұрын

    You are amazing girl! I have been holding myslef back for 10 years. U have inspired me more than anyone and you hit key points. 😘

  • @relaxwithme__
    @relaxwithme__5 ай бұрын

    Girl you are helping my mindset so much❤

  • @Oh_thats_QUAY
    @Oh_thats_QUAY2 ай бұрын

    Exactly what I needed!!!!

  • @gaby_xo907
    @gaby_xo9075 ай бұрын

    I NEEDED THIS. Will listen every Monday this really got me motivated af and not scared

  • @FreeBright
    @FreeBright5 ай бұрын

    Girl, your voice just makes me feel so good. The energy and vibe it just feels so soothing and warming. Talking about friends, yeah I feel like we are friends. I'll keep coming back here. Thanks for all yr words! Be blessed ❤

  • @onslaugh99
    @onslaugh994 ай бұрын

    Thanks luv. Really needed this.

  • @mitotemodification654
    @mitotemodification6544 ай бұрын

    The logic behind the no views is actually so hilarious and illustrates just how twisted that fear can be. You are so wonderful! So happy to have found ya.

  • @breannebirk4801
    @breannebirk48015 ай бұрын

    Thank you🙏🏼 This video helped me tremendously. I needed to hear this ❤️

  • @Michelles_Creatives
    @Michelles_Creatives6 ай бұрын

    Thanks Gina for this video! I can't keep holding back my God-given potential. I gotta get on my zoom !

  • @InspoOra
    @InspoOra5 ай бұрын

    NEEDED THIS exact video, just started my channel and I’m shaking in my boots 🏃‍♀️💕

  • @J-pz5cp
    @J-pz5cp3 ай бұрын

    I needed to hear this today. God bless you ❤

  • @brishelle1659
    @brishelle16595 ай бұрын

    You are so unique, humble, and spiritually lead. I enjoyed your video and found it refreshing to see someone around my age who sees the world as I do, values God, and is joyful. Keep it up. ♥️

  • @sarinacovarrubias5205
    @sarinacovarrubias52055 ай бұрын

    Gina thank you for being so real for US! You got me thinking!

  • @mariechristinasartcafe
    @mariechristinasartcafe4 ай бұрын

    Thank you! This has helped me post my art more often and somehow it makes me invest more time into improving it ❤ better days are coming!

  • @kaiyndealeyo
    @kaiyndealeyo4 ай бұрын

    Whewwww that procrastination quote got me 😅😅😅 thank you for this!! I really needed this today

  • @ivyyinmi5935
    @ivyyinmi59356 ай бұрын

    God is definitely using Gina ❤❤

  • @legasola5510
    @legasola55105 ай бұрын

    This was such a great video, you're killing it!! Thank you for making this.

  • @nicciwith2cees
    @nicciwith2cees6 ай бұрын

    Wow! Just Wow! This was so IN time for me. I’m an older entrepreneur, afraid to succeed and has no idea how to properly structure a plan, and this BLESSED me! Thank you and may God return, 100 fold, all you have poured into others. Amen!

  • @soggyfroggy9318
    @soggyfroggy93185 ай бұрын

    This vid is so good! ❤ I love how you break each fear down and give us realistic and practical solutions to work on.

  • @verachidinma
    @verachidinma6 ай бұрын

    as a african, i love how you said your own stuggles especially with not talking about your emotions, i love that!! thank you for sharing!

  • @stephaniewiley3512
    @stephaniewiley35125 ай бұрын

    Listening to this video and pulling out my crafts that I need to complete. Thankyou sister!!!❤

  • @intelligent429
    @intelligent4295 ай бұрын

    Thank you 🙏🏾… I’m so glad I came across your video. Officially a new subscriber!!! I needed this confirmation. Thank you

  • @Sophie-mark
    @Sophie-mark6 ай бұрын

    Thank you Ginna ❤ i love you created my first content after watching your video and so far im loving itt.Got massive supports from family and friends ....and i got 31 new subscribers Not much but i love the progress

  • @naomikimbokimi9015
    @naomikimbokimi90153 ай бұрын

    Damn you really read me like a book lmfaooo especially the fear of failure, fear of being judged and fear of opening up 😭😭attachment issues 😭literally everything you’ve said has been so true for me

  • @Arislior
    @Arislior6 ай бұрын

    Your energy, style & mindset is everything! I absolutely LOVE your videos & the way you edit!💜 This video just gave me the inspiration to keep up my momentum…keep goin queen I wish u nothing but the best✨

  • @bella47740
    @bella477405 ай бұрын

    This is one of the best videos I have ever watched!! You are amazing!!

  • @PrincessJas24
    @PrincessJas245 ай бұрын

    Loved this a lot, definitely hit home for me right now! Thanks for sharing! ❤️

  • @HealthHacks92
    @HealthHacks924 ай бұрын

    If I could like this video a million times, I would. Thank you!

  • @KaiLovesBeauty
    @KaiLovesBeauty5 ай бұрын

    Yasss, amen! So glad I clicked on this video! Feeling so much more motivated 💪🏽🙌🏽💕💕

  • @melissalitus8879
    @melissalitus88795 ай бұрын

    Thanks beauty! I receive this message ❤

  • @italiamalia
    @italiamalia6 ай бұрын

    this video really speaks to me.. we love you gina ❤ i loveee the motivational posts!!

  • @nicericah
    @nicericah5 ай бұрын

    Thank you for this. Starting my channel this year, God's willing! Can't wait to grow as a person

  • @billiondollarbella
    @billiondollarbella3 ай бұрын

    Oh my goodness been loving your vids because they align exactly on what I've been all about lately! That fear of looking foolish has held me down for far too long, and to think I've been reaping rewards with that fear. Now that I'm convinced I can do more, excited for 2024!