YOUR BIG SIS IN CHRIST 💗| missing people we shouldn’t, making a mess, the music industry!?

Hi Fam 🤍
Let's talk about some real stuff we sometimes struggle with! Feeling like we can't ask God to help us clean a mess we've made ourselves, or missing toxic people. Real struggles, but we also serve a real God who wants to help us in times of need. We're in this together :) xx
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chapters
00:00 - into
01:11 - Missing someone you shouldn't
05:23 - Can God clean up our mess?
08:45 - You are not alone
12:15 - Laying our desires down
13:30 - pursuing creative careers

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  • @angelawhite3514
    @angelawhite351411 ай бұрын

    Thank you sis... No turning back to toxic relationships. Lord give us strength in Jesus'name. Amen

  • @deborahbx_

    @deborahbx_

    11 ай бұрын

    Amen!!

  • @lizrenteria5263

    @lizrenteria5263

    10 ай бұрын

    Amen 🙏

  • @misslulu8110
    @misslulu811011 ай бұрын

    Your Music sounds incredible sister . God knew I needed you this season in my life , Your video’s are like therapy sessions ❤ God bless you in Jesus name ❤

  • @deborahbx_

    @deborahbx_

    11 ай бұрын

    Ahh sis it’s so amazing to hear this 🥹 To our God be all the glory! I can’t take any credit, but I’m beyond grateful to have you here and to hear how God is using me as a vessel. He loves you so much and will do whatever he needs to to get to you 🤍🤍

  • @misslulu8110

    @misslulu8110

    11 ай бұрын

    @@deborahbx_ Thank you 🥺 you just don’t know how much your video’s help us ❤️ Praise God 🙌

  • @rambothomas2209

    @rambothomas2209

    6 ай бұрын

    @@deborahbx_. 🙏🏿psalm 56:/3 blessed ✝️🌴

  • @wordsofcheer8442
    @wordsofcheer844211 ай бұрын

    Yes! Missing toxic people for the good times is hard, especially when kids are involved. Count your blessings you don't have to deal with that component 😂 However, thinking about what separated you in the first place makes you get those thoughts out real quick and say... I'll pass! Ha. Anyway, thanks for the chat ❤

  • @deborahbx_

    @deborahbx_

    11 ай бұрын

    Yea that’s very true ofcourse! I can imagine that must make it so so much harder 😔 But our Heavenly Father is with all of us. May he strengthen us and restore what’s been broken with his perfect love and presence. We’re not alone 🥰

  • @jaquessialawson8853

    @jaquessialawson8853

    11 ай бұрын

    Hey Mama I’m a single mommy of two! I know the feeling! I’ll be praying for you that God helps you through this journey! I’m still on my journey and let me tell you some days are better than others but I thank God!

  • @wordsofcheer8442

    @wordsofcheer8442

    11 ай бұрын

    @jaquessialawson8853 yes, it's a journey but with God we got this! 💜

  • @keniavallejos2867
    @keniavallejos286711 ай бұрын

    I missed my ex this weekend. We separated after living together for 5 years, I wasn’t a Christian back then. So it was like a divorce to me. He treated me badly but God reminds me why he delivered me from him. I am so thankful 🥲 for the Lord ❤

  • @JustSheik

    @JustSheik

    11 ай бұрын

  • @analea6531
    @analea653111 ай бұрын

    I moved on a friendship by the grace of God and I’ve been seeking the Lord ever since. She wasn’t toxic but the person I was with her wasn’t my best self. We would gossip, complain about everything and dive into new age so our association was definitely toxic. I can’t say she was a bad person or a bad friend and I love to think that God also removed me from her life so that she also can grow, find him and be some her best self too. I miss her sometimes and forget about all the toxicity we had but if she’s meant to be in my life God alone will bring her back. I still pray for her and wish her the best. I wanted to start creating content but the way most of the creators I was consuming are dealing with mental health issues is just scaring me so so much even though I know we are not all the same. I’m going back to the Lord again with that idea and letting him decide. I know with a doubt that everything God does is for our best and for his glory. Thank you so much for this message ❤

  • @deborahbx_

    @deborahbx_

    11 ай бұрын

    Amen sis!! I’m so sorry to hear about this friendship you’ve had to let go. But it sounds like did what had to be done to be able to walk a holy life with Christ. I’m so proud of you for that! Continue to pray for her. May she also recognise that those ways of life won’t lead to anything. It’s a dead end. She’s so loved by our Heavenly Father, may you be the seed that will be planted in her life. That she may see what God is doing in your life! I pray for new godly friendships in your life. Amazing women of God with whom you can speak about Jesus. We’ve got each other too! You’re not alone 🥰

  • @user-xf3qy1pd3e
    @user-xf3qy1pd3e11 ай бұрын

    I laugh then cry when I hear this word I have a ex I was with for 5 years who cheated on me he recently call two days ago to come back it's been a year we broke up and I love him but I see he still not ready so I keep my distance and pray for him thank u

  • @deborahbx_

    @deborahbx_

    11 ай бұрын

    Wow I’m so sorry you went through that sis 😔. It must bring back all the emotions now that he’s reached out again! I am praying for strength. May the Lord strengthen you in this and remind you of who you are! That you deserve nothing but the best, and a man who treats you like the daughter of a king. Our Heavenly Father is with you through this 🤍🤍

  • @user-xf3qy1pd3e

    @user-xf3qy1pd3e

    11 ай бұрын

    @deborahbx_ I love him alot and in some sense I want to say he love me it was just bad timing for us he was not line up and fully convicted I pray day and night for him and the relationship and at the end he was caught after I pray God show me what he was doing and I left its has not been easy I refuse to see him it's just been calls and texting I know now I deserve better and no less I'm praying for a new husband who love and respect me

  • @LoverofJesus26

    @LoverofJesus26

    10 ай бұрын

    I shall pray. Definitely block him.

  • @chessiewashere2817
    @chessiewashere281711 ай бұрын

    Wow! This message is speaking so clearly to me, especially towards the latter end when you discuss career goals. I’ve recently acknowledged the importance of seeking Christ in everything you do, rather than your own personal gain; it hugely impacts the depth and growth of your desires and God truly does provide for you regarding your interests when you redirect your mindset to serve Him rather than yourself. Thank you for this! God bless🩵✨

  • @deborahbx_

    @deborahbx_

    11 ай бұрын

    Yesss Amen sis! When we truly put God first in all we do his favour will surely be upon us. His name will be glorified through us, it’s all to advance his kingdom 🥹🤍

  • @iamartoriah
    @iamartoriah11 ай бұрын

    I had learned this lesson this week but the toxicity I held was a different type of relationship. When I realized "Is there anyone here to condemn you"... "Neither do I" ❤ the way these words from Lord Jesus set me free, I feel a burden lifted

  • @deborahbx_

    @deborahbx_

    11 ай бұрын

    Amen!! His grace for you is sufficient so we can walk in the freedom to which he has called us! 🥳

  • @aaliyahsymoneee

    @aaliyahsymoneee

    11 ай бұрын

    Thank you for reminding me of his words, it’s exactly what I needed to hear as well❤️ take care

  • @iamartoriah

    @iamartoriah

    11 ай бұрын

    @@aaliyahsymoneee these words are always the perfect seed to plant and don't forget them

  • @sarahuzodinma4870
    @sarahuzodinma487011 ай бұрын

    Hey I want you to know that you have lots of love over here in my Christian community in Nigeria ♥️♥️

  • @deborahbx_

    @deborahbx_

    11 ай бұрын

    Ohh this is so incredible to hear 😭🤍🙌🏽 To our God be all the glory! I’m so grateful for how he is blessing you, and I pray he will continue to do so. We’re all in this together. Sending much love and hugs 🤗

  • @livewithashley

    @livewithashley

    11 ай бұрын

    yesss❤

  • @creativeoyin

    @creativeoyin

    11 ай бұрын

    gurl im in nigeria too🤭 end yesss we ❤ deb

  • @rebajaison
    @rebajaison11 ай бұрын

    Wow yes! It is so amazing to see how God turns messy situations we created for our good 😭🙏. He is the only person who deeply understands us more than we understand ourselves. Your journey with the Lord is so beautiful . Thank you for using your platform to share your journey so honestly. I feel like you are a big sister to me who God gave me at a very important season in my life ❤

  • @deborahbx_

    @deborahbx_

    11 ай бұрын

    Right !? 😭🤍 God is so good, everything is being used for our good. He has our best interest at heart, always! I’m grateful that our Heavenly Father has led you here :). It continues to remind me that I’m just a vessel. It’s God reaching out to you, he’s in constant pursuit of you sis! We are absolutely sisters now 🥹🥰 you’re not alone, we’re in this together :)

  • @rebajaison

    @rebajaison

    11 ай бұрын

    @@deborahbx_ Yes and amen !!

  • @thatblackgirlthere
    @thatblackgirlthere11 ай бұрын

    I smiled so hard when you said, “we’re a messy bunch of kids”-we are and He’s still so in love with us😂❤

  • @Ricka_
    @Ricka_11 ай бұрын

    All your videos are so profound and encouraging. They really instill hope and Godly love. Thank you 🌸

  • @lucywanjiku7634
    @lucywanjiku763411 ай бұрын

    I love you honesty really because sometimes people think wen you render your life to Christ we're transformed overnight but it's a journey as you said we just have to trust God completely but not our strength..❤ thanks 😊🙏

  • @deborahbx_

    @deborahbx_

    11 ай бұрын

    Yess amen sis!! It’s 100% a journey, but God promises he will be with us every step of the way 🥰

  • @chiamakadaniel9162
    @chiamakadaniel916211 ай бұрын

    Today’s video was such a breath of fresh air, fresh vibe! You’re so beautiful Deborah…and your voiceee? 🤌 chefs kiss❤ as well I loveee the boldness on your short music industry talk…so much is happeninggg….God bless you 🫶

  • @_westhern
    @_westhern10 ай бұрын

    The expressed delivery is my favorite saying of this video🌹 God bless you!!

  • @alangiles776
    @alangiles77611 ай бұрын

    Hi Deborah 🙂 None of us have led a perfect life, with perfect decisions all the time. All we can do is listen to our elders, read our Bible and consider everything. Sin is everywhere; daytime television, advertising, celebrity culture, magazines, it's everywhere. At least we know that you speak the Truth. I hope your week is progressing well. 🙏

  • @mahdereassefa
    @mahdereassefa10 ай бұрын

    Thank you so much sis I just wanted to say I've only been watching you for less than a day but I've been going through some anxiety and doubts and struggling with my faith a bit and you make me feel close to God and I feel connected to you, keep it up! This channel is so amazing and beautiful! :)

  • @noahnesambi9845
    @noahnesambi984511 ай бұрын

    I found your channel yesterday and have been binge watching all the videos I’m literally obsessed, forever grateful for these videos

  • @deborahbx_

    @deborahbx_

    11 ай бұрын

    Ahhh welcome!! 🤗🤍 It’s such a blessing to have you here! To God be all the glory. May he continue to speak into your life not just through me, but through his creation. He loves you so so so much 🥰

  • @treasureenyinna2763
    @treasureenyinna276311 ай бұрын

    Heyyy, I’ve been going through some stuff recently and it seems like i forgot who i was but while watching your video i felt God saying to me “remember who you are”. We are similar in quite a lot of things. You said you grew up without a father…girl same here and you said you make music….that’s a passion of mine. I’m still quite young for that but i feel like i cant leave this earth without making music. Thank you so much for allowing yourself to be used by the Holy Spirit

  • @deborahbx_

    @deborahbx_

    11 ай бұрын

    Ahh Amen sis! The enemy will do everything he can do make us forget our true identity! Who we are in Christ, beloved daughters of the king of the universe. We are so loved by God. Lay everything down before him, invite him into your music pursuit. His favour will then surely be upon you. I never truly included God is my music pursuit which is why I know for a fact that I wasn’t elevated in it. I would’ve lost myself in that industry within a second. May our Heavenly Father be with you sis. You’re so loved and absolutely not alone 🥰🤍

  • @treasureenyinna2763

    @treasureenyinna2763

    11 ай бұрын

    @@deborahbx_ Thank you so much😭❤️

  • @chosenkeke
    @chosenkeke11 ай бұрын

    I loved when talked about the toxic person I've been dealing with the enemy tormenting my mind bout a dude who took my virginity when I was 14 and constantly kept unblocking me and blocking me for years playing mind games with me and i'm 19 now and just kinda don't wanna be reminded of it anymore but it's so hard and also with cutting all secular music out as well.

  • @deborahbx_

    @deborahbx_

    11 ай бұрын

    Hi sis 🤍 I’m so sorry that situation has been tormenting you and that it keep replaying in your mind. You’ve been called to be free! Free of the past! In Jesus mighty name I pray that those chains and soul ties are broken! The enemy has no authority and no hold over you, you are free by the blood of Jesus. Be free sis and walk in everything that God called you to be. You have been called for great things 🥹🙏🏽 You’re not alone!!

  • @karennofficial1531
    @karennofficial153110 ай бұрын

    So true , sometimes our minds revert to toxic previous relationships. Distracting ourselves from past wrong relationships is quite helpful though

  • @lilyyowsah
    @lilyyowsah11 ай бұрын

    Hi Debbie❤ You should sing your songs on your channel. I mean like the full full version😊 You are talented. Love your songs at the end of the video ❤ I’m sure God will use your music to bless so many lives

  • @deborahbx_

    @deborahbx_

    11 ай бұрын

    Thank you so much sis 🥹🤍 I really appreciate that! I’m continually praying about it, maybe in the near future I’ll involve my music more :)

  • @guinelcloman6824
    @guinelcloman682411 ай бұрын

    OMG!!! You are the Best , I swear I’ll call you big Sis forever!! Always remind yourself that you are a blessing. ! PERIOD ‼️

  • @deborahbx_

    @deborahbx_

    11 ай бұрын

    Hahah period sis 😂🤍. We definitely sisters sooo. I’m very grateful to have you here! May our heavenly father continue to let you know how much he loves you 🥰

  • @Ashnicoleee
    @Ashnicoleee11 ай бұрын

    I love listening to you while I workout! It’s my time for me and God and you have motivated me so much within my journey! I have a long way to go but I am so glad I am able to learn through you & I know I will get to where God wants me to be! ❤

  • @Ashnicoleee

    @Ashnicoleee

    11 ай бұрын

    Also what is the song called in the ending thank you!

  • @vanessarosas7608
    @vanessarosas760811 ай бұрын

    I’m currently going through this right now 😭 & the worst part is that I let him back in but I’ve been feeling so anxious since talking to him. This video came at the right time!

  • @haileya.2134
    @haileya.213410 ай бұрын

    I needed this so much! i’ve recently been struggling w appreciating this new era God has blessed me w bc i’m reminiscing on my past w ppl even though ik God isolated and broke off that contact for a reason. i criticized myself so much for feeling this way and just hearing that it’s something that u also struggle w means so much to me. thank you for being vulnerable and using this platform to share these messages❤

  • @yvonnedonaldson53
    @yvonnedonaldson5311 ай бұрын

    Great message! You are always on point discussing situations that a lot of us are dealing with. May God continue to bless you and keep you safe.

  • @deborahbx_

    @deborahbx_

    11 ай бұрын

    Ahh I’m so grateful to hear this! Our God is working within us as his daughters 🥹🙌🏽 May he continue to do so more and more in this season!

  • @mandyn0429
    @mandyn042911 ай бұрын

    Thank you🙏🏽. I’ve been going through a lot lately, especially the whole night (it’s currently 6am in South Africa). I couldn’t sleep just bothered by my thoughts and all the things going on. I watched a different video of yours about expecting from God then I saw this and I just couldn’t stop crying. I cried, I laughed, girl it was a rollercoaster but I’m glad I watched the video. Truly feel like you’re my big sis❤️. Thank you, Deborah❤️. PS: the part that made me laugh the most was the example of kids making a mess😭😭😂😂😂. That is INDEED us🙆🏽‍♀️.

  • @Shellybombshell.
    @Shellybombshell.11 ай бұрын

    So bless to be apart of your journey 🎉❤

  • @kathykluger5395
    @kathykluger539511 ай бұрын

    I love the childhood analogy because I tell God all the time that I don’t know how he puts up with me because I feel like sometimes I have to be knocked on the head before I understand what he is trying to say and oh how I get the feeling of wanting to revisit the toxic person thing! I have been there several times and it is hard to just cut those ties but thank goodness that the Lord helps us through it.

  • @tabithanjeri8225
    @tabithanjeri822511 ай бұрын

    Debx ...I want you to know that you're the sister I never had ♥️🤗.Thank you for letting God use you .

  • @deborahbx_

    @deborahbx_

    11 ай бұрын

    Ahh yes sis! We are sisters an family. We’re in this together 🥰 sending much love! Xx

  • @luizadossantos1064
    @luizadossantos106411 ай бұрын

    Came right on time, God bless you!!

  • @derartudebo5591
    @derartudebo559110 ай бұрын

    Thank you for your vulnerability and honestly. Got it. This video was speaking to me through your God bless🙏🏾🙏🏾

  • @emeraldtechie9216
    @emeraldtechie921611 ай бұрын

    The timing of this is perfect. Thank you ❤❤❤

  • @livewithashley
    @livewithashley11 ай бұрын

    thank you so much for this❤❤God bless you I absolutely love this channel

  • @Jennibonta
    @Jennibonta11 ай бұрын

    Love your videos so much girl keep doing your thing, God bless you❤️❤️

  • @puruttam
    @puruttam11 ай бұрын

    You’re incredible ❤ please keep going! Your messages have been resonating so well and I discovered you at the perfect time in my life 🙏

  • @ArmaniRae
    @ArmaniRae11 ай бұрын

    Your music is great and I love your channel sis ❤❤ God bless you always

  • @Amina-cw1em
    @Amina-cw1em11 ай бұрын

    Yes! Ooh, I got chills with the singing in the end! Such a beauty with a beautiful voice! I loved your point about being utilized as a vessel of God, working for/with God in mind, and seeing results in your individual dreams that way (i.e., us hearing your music through these videos). I love that

  • @deborahbx_

    @deborahbx_

    11 ай бұрын

    Thank you so much sis 🥹🤍 To God be all the glory! He truly works everything together for good and nothing will be wasted :)

  • @Alejandra_2911
    @Alejandra_291111 ай бұрын

    Deborah, - I came across your YT Channel in the middle of a faith fight for an apartment God promised me. There was delay, doubt and quite frankly I felt so 'lost' in the mist of that situation. I thank God for you, your boldness, your testimony of faith that encouraged me in that season. You are all together lovely! Hope to meet you in person some day, PS. A sister in Christ from New York :) xoxo --

  • @deborahbx_

    @deborahbx_

    11 ай бұрын

    Hi sis 🥰 Ahh wauw, this is so incredible to hear!! Thank you so much for your kind and encouraging words. Honestly, to God be all the glory 🥹 It’s so amazing how we get to share parts of our testimonies! I felt all the emotions you mentioned regarding my faith apartment too! It definitely wasn’t always easy, but God proved faithful as always! Have you moved yet or are you still in the process? I’ve always wanted to go to New York so when I come it would be lovely to meet up for sure ☺️🤍 sending much love hugs!

  • @tiffanyamberjoy
    @tiffanyamberjoy11 ай бұрын

    Needed to hear this!! the what ifs, the should I, the can I, I let go and let GOD. as you say, so much depends on doing what you've been thinking to do, that glorifies Him!

  • @deborahbx_

    @deborahbx_

    11 ай бұрын

    Yess Amen!! It’s hard to realise sometimes when what God has placed inside of us seems so much bigger then ourselves, but that’s exactly what it needs to be otherwise we wouldn’t need God 🥹🤍. It’s his strength not ours! He has called us for such a time as this! Esther 4:14

  • @tiffanyamberjoy

    @tiffanyamberjoy

    11 ай бұрын

    @@deborahbx_ preach! God's strength is INFINITE! ❤️🙏✨ We are so blessed!

  • @elisaaaaa7502
    @elisaaaaa750211 ай бұрын

    This video was incredibly helpful! I've been struggling with this, and you talking about it cleared things up for me. Thanks a lot!

  • @deborahbx_

    @deborahbx_

    11 ай бұрын

    As hard as it is, we can find comfort in the fact that we’re in this together!! 💪🏽🥰 We’re being strengthened even within this. To God be all the glory!

  • @katseye199
    @katseye19911 ай бұрын

    Thank you sis for your light and your words! I’m so thankful I found your channel! 💕💕💕

  • @deborahbx_

    @deborahbx_

    11 ай бұрын

    It’s such a blessing and honour to have you here sis! 🥹🤍

  • @PRETTYGIRLSLOVEJESUS1
    @PRETTYGIRLSLOVEJESUS111 ай бұрын

    THANK YOU SIS!!!🤩

  • @ChristlikeLifestyle
    @ChristlikeLifestyle8 ай бұрын

    i love you girl, recently started to watch you but the holy spirit in you is real

  • @deborahbx_

    @deborahbx_

    8 ай бұрын

    Love you too sis 🥹🤍 welcome to the fam!!

  • @dianajohnson9278
    @dianajohnson927811 ай бұрын

    You are definitely a vessel of the Lord. I am going through this right now. You are speaking directly to me..Thank you. God bless🙏🏾

  • @deborahbx_

    @deborahbx_

    11 ай бұрын

    You’re not alone sis 🤍 As hard as it may be, we’re in this together and for that I’m so grateful. May our Heavenly Father continue to remind you of how much he loves you. Let’s strive forward to what’s to come, and leave the past where it is 🥺🤍

  • @dianajohnson9278

    @dianajohnson9278

    11 ай бұрын

    ❤❤❤

  • @bogusia___
    @bogusia___7 ай бұрын

    I totally agree with music part (the rest too haha but I wanted to acknowledge that specific part) - I don’t get how people can listen to music filled with so much evil like Doja Cat that you mentioned. I’m so glad you mentioned it because I see that so many people,even Christians don’t care about what music their listen to at all. And you also motivated me to search for some new Christian tunes 😇 Thank you for your videos 🤍

  • @alexandrajoseph9430
    @alexandrajoseph943011 ай бұрын

    Great Inspiration Sis Deborah . God Bless !!

  • @adorekristiana
    @adorekristiana11 ай бұрын

    I’m so grateful you’ve come into my life. Your light is so bright! Thank you for all of your insight ❤

  • @allthingsglo1510
    @allthingsglo151010 ай бұрын

    I need to hear your outro song in FULL, it's so beautiful! Love your videos!

  • @BB-pv6cf
    @BB-pv6cf11 ай бұрын

    So lovely dear Deborah. Thank you so much for sharing big sis!

  • @faithm7492
    @faithm7492Ай бұрын

    Thank God for rescuing us from places where we don't belong, lets pray for those people that don't know the Lord or His goodness the way we do that they come to find Him and His everlasting love. Deborah, your hair is beautiful, the loose hairs make it even more beautiful and natural. Catching up on your videos, glad I found your content. God bless! 🙏🏽💜🙏🏽

  • @barrygraves5324
    @barrygraves532411 ай бұрын

    Heyyy Little Big Baby Sis! Spot on great conversation, agree hard to keep the heart and the mind in sync when relationships fail. This guy's been down that road, sadly. Still learning. Love the talk! ✨

  • @alejandra_olivo_
    @alejandra_olivo_10 ай бұрын

    I'm so happy to hear that you'll eventually go back to making music! I searched so hard for your outro song after watching the being single for 26 years video (which I loved btw), until I found it and I'm so happy to have found it, I could relate so deeply to your songs and they truly are helping me go through some stuff and feelings I would otherwise try to ignore, thank you for helping me heal and come to terms with things through your videos and songs, I was so positively surprised when I realized you were the one singing them! God bless you and your talents 🥰🥰

  • @aphiwemkhize3626
    @aphiwemkhize362611 ай бұрын

    You're a God sent big sister 🥺❤️ I pray God blesses you always. I was literally talking to God about this yesterday, and I prayed about it.

  • @deborahbx_

    @deborahbx_

    11 ай бұрын

    Our God knows exactly what you need when you need it 🥰🤍 May he continue to speak and confirm his truths to you. You’re not alone!!

  • @Havilland_Sameera
    @Havilland_Sameera11 ай бұрын

    Thank you for your transparency in this video, it's helped me a ton! We need more girl chats for sure

  • @deborahbx_

    @deborahbx_

    11 ай бұрын

    So so grateful to hear this sis!! I’ll make sure to have more coming up 🥰

  • @adelevandie
    @adelevandie11 ай бұрын

    Your song is amazing, Love ❤️ it!

  • @Jenya20
    @Jenya2011 ай бұрын

    I wanna thank God for letting me see this and I wanna thank you for giving us advice for letting us know that we need to rely on the Lord I’m new to watching your channel and I thank God for what He has been doing in your life I’m thankful that I came across this video and girl I was crying when you started talking that’s the Holy Spirit in you and I’m gonna be watching more of your videos but what you said in this video was so true and especially on messing others and thinking about others God has removed out of your life you gave me something that I need to pray about ❤️🙏🏽

  • @micheleowona1374
    @micheleowona137411 ай бұрын

    Thank you so much, this video came right on time. It's the answer to a question I haven't even had the courage to ask God. Rain of blessings on your life, may love, peace and joy abound in it.

  • @anamikanandgaonkar
    @anamikanandgaonkar11 ай бұрын

    This is so timely! I needed to hear this right now. Our God is so good😢. Thankyou Jesus! Thankyou Deborah, God bless you! 🤍

  • @marianaryte
    @marianaryte11 ай бұрын

    I’ve heard your music and you are an amazing artist. I pray for you to find a path where you can do what you love without all this bad stuff in the music industry.

  • @deborahbx_

    @deborahbx_

    11 ай бұрын

    Ahh Amen!! Thank you so so much sis 🥰🤍 Let’s see what God has in store when it comes to the music :)

  • @CRJR94
    @CRJR9411 ай бұрын

    Very grateful for you and your channel, it’s helping me stay focused! Your voice in BEAUTIFUL

  • @deborahbx_

    @deborahbx_

    11 ай бұрын

    Thank you so much sis 🥹🤍 It’s such a blessing to hear that! To God be all the glory and praise! I’m super grateful to have you here 🥰

  • @michelegonzz
    @michelegonzz11 ай бұрын

    Oh my gosh where has this message been for me in the last five years dealing with this and thank you for being obedient and posting for us to relate to

  • @rachealmungai7413
    @rachealmungai741311 ай бұрын

    You're truly a blessing Deb. Blessings ❤ Much love from Kenya.......

  • @eve3103
    @eve31038 ай бұрын

    Hi, Deborah. I really struggle with this issue at the moment. Your words speak to my heart. Thank you.

  • @unapologeticallyhuman
    @unapologeticallyhuman11 ай бұрын

    Today during my bible study I got Nehemiah 9: 26-31. To add on your first message, the commentary on these verses sometimes we turn away from God but he has never ending compassion is quick to hear our cries in the mess that we are in whether disciplinary from Him or our own. And just like His chosen people, we repeatedly turn from Him and EVERYTIME He hears our cries and rescues us. And I love that He doesn't wait for us to correct ourselves before He pulls us close. All we have to do is see that we don't belong in a pig sty and He is just there to welcome. We don't have to fix ourselves, join a church, and serve Yada Yada Yada He loves us even as messy as we are

  • @ashleykeyma
    @ashleykeyma11 ай бұрын

    Let me tell you something. THIS came right on time. Thank you sister

  • @deborahbx_

    @deborahbx_

    10 ай бұрын

    To God be all the glory!! He knows except what you need when you need it sis 🥹🤍

  • @Kenesha_
    @Kenesha_11 ай бұрын

    Deborah, this entire video from beginning to end. I have been battling with thoughts about my ex it has gotten a lot less and less. But I continue to redirect my thoughts. Thanks for being vulnerable and sharing. Sis, this natural hair in this heat smh, I feel you!!!! I also have stopped listening to secular music as well because the lyrics are scary and it's not anything to take lightly. I have a love for Jazz music and I have been praying for that because it doesn't have words and It really eases my anxiety and makes me happy. Thanks again for another great video!!

  • @faithfullyirie
    @faithfullyirie11 ай бұрын

    Another video that so deeply resonates❤ Also thank you for confirming that that is actually your song at the end of the video, I sing along each time lol

  • @Yima_
    @Yima_10 ай бұрын

    Thanks for this one💓 This was super refreshing, and the outro was sooo good❤ God bless you as he has used to bless us, sister❤

  • @alexiadiego4858
    @alexiadiego485810 ай бұрын

    You popped up on my KZread! God gave me this channel plus your name is my confirmation name 😢. Love this channel

  • @deborahbx_

    @deborahbx_

    10 ай бұрын

    To God be all the glory!! 😭🤍 It’s such a blessing to have you here!

  • @joellegodschild7253
    @joellegodschild725311 ай бұрын

    Hello Deborah! 😊 Helpful word! 🙏

  • @sharonbenitah9983
    @sharonbenitah998311 ай бұрын

    I pray I always be around you. Thank you sis, I have been through alot and now am most times alone with no one to talk to expect the holy spirit or when am serving God but literally I have no one I see around me, someone you expect could call or talk to you or listen so some times I end up missing people I shouldn't miss and yes sometimes it's truly truly really hard. So thanks for sharing

  • @kelsialia
    @kelsialia11 ай бұрын

    Wow your music is amazing!! Love your videos 🙌🏽

  • @kimberlyperkins8981
    @kimberlyperkins898111 ай бұрын

    While I was watching this video someone I knew from the past texted me and immediately you began talking about remembering memories from the past. GOD is using you Deborah keep on doing what you are doing. ❤

  • @renee1167
    @renee116711 ай бұрын

    Dear Deborah, your videos are really healing to me and so timely! God definitely knows what I need to hear and I’m so thankful he speaks through you. Have a blessed week! Side note, your music is fireeee

  • @Elijah17_
    @Elijah17_11 ай бұрын

    Amen. We all go through our struggles but we just have to have faith and trust in the lord and know that he's always with us by our side to help us🙏🏾

  • @kirklinn9339
    @kirklinn933911 ай бұрын

    Miss Deborah through God for the win! This was a real gut punch for me, as I have been abandoned by most of my birth family for years. And like you, it was partially due to my choices. It it excruciating when it's your almost 80 year old mother, I struggle with God not wanting me to have a relationship with her. That's tough. But I know I am blessed by many others in my life. I am a work in progress but I am coming along, thanks be to God. I am thankful to be part of the family here. I pray all blessings to you, I do not have a blood sister but I have sisters in Christ. Take care.

  • @QweenH891
    @QweenH89111 ай бұрын

    Loved this video, definitely hit home. Also funny you mentioned music because I realized some songs I used to listen to were like triggering me and reminding me of situations I need to heal from. Had to stop listening to those songs to start moving forward 🙏

  • @3inaRogirl
    @3inaRogirl11 ай бұрын

    Thank you sis!

  • @melissamoraa9089
    @melissamoraa908911 ай бұрын

    I am absolutely grateful that I came across your yt channel,you have really helped me build my relationship with God,you are indeed the big sister in Christ that I was praying for,may God keep using you to bring people closer to him,all love Deborah💗

  • @deborahbx_

    @deborahbx_

    11 ай бұрын

    Ahh Melissa this is such a blessing to hear. Thank you so much for saying this. To God be all the glory honestly it would be wrong for me to take credit. I’m just a vessel through whom God is reaching out to you ☺️ You’re so loved by him! He will speak through whoever he has to to get to you. I’m very grateful to have you here as my sis in Christ 🥰 We’re in this together!

  • @olgacruz4175
    @olgacruz417511 ай бұрын

    I am in awe at how someone so young as yourself is so wise🥰 I accidentally (but with God there no such thing as an accident 🤗😉) I came onto your channel... I was in a state that day, listened to your wisdom and fell into tears of emotion and humbling praise. I thank God you exist may His grace and favor be always upon you. God bless you .. hugs

  • @penathia
    @penathia11 ай бұрын

    Sis may God continue to use you greatly. Love from your sis all the way in South Africa ♥

  • @thatprettydamsel
    @thatprettydamsel11 ай бұрын

    this word is proof that i am really not alone wow

  • @jmckn21
    @jmckn2111 ай бұрын

    Thank you 🙏🏾 definitely can relate

  • @Dr.CorneliaKratzer
    @Dr.CorneliaKratzer11 ай бұрын

    Thank you! Yes I feel I created a mess and I feel God is not walking me out of the mess and free fall I created.

  • @Kizzyfran
    @Kizzyfran11 ай бұрын

    Hey Deborah just sending you some love and light today May god continue to bless you❤️

  • @deborahbx_

    @deborahbx_

    11 ай бұрын

    Hi sis 🥰 Thank you so much! Sending it right back. We’re so loved as Gods precious daughters :)

  • @Pearls.journal
    @Pearls.journal11 ай бұрын

    Your videos always bless me❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @ShaniBee87
    @ShaniBee8711 ай бұрын

    I needed to see this! Currently going through a small heartbreak.

  • @rebirthed1274
    @rebirthed127411 ай бұрын

    Hearing your music at the end of the video is very refreshing,beautiful ❤

  • @tiffmoore8831
    @tiffmoore883111 ай бұрын

    I love the "frizz" ..it gives those island braids with the loose pieces; however I fully understand the same plight that is natural hair

  • @emmabroadley6152
    @emmabroadley615211 ай бұрын

    Thanks for reminding me how loving and kind God is....I'm going to order the book you mentioned Deborah ❤

  • @deborahbx_

    @deborahbx_

    11 ай бұрын

    You truly are Emma! God loves you beyond what you can realise. Our humans minds are just not capable of fully grasping the extend to which God loves us 🥹🤍. The book really is worth reading! I pray that it will bless you like it’s blessed me :)

  • @abigaillandolf2925
    @abigaillandolf292511 ай бұрын

    Giirlll... this is so funny, but i really think we're in the same season going through the same things!! But as always, God is gracious en leidt ons elke keer weer❤

  • @theprayingwarrior537
    @theprayingwarrior53711 ай бұрын

    Please im so glad you listened to God and made this channel! Im one of your sisters whom God has blessed through you 😊❤ Also your voice!!!! A gift from God 💯%!!!!

  • @lushomohamatuli6493
    @lushomohamatuli649311 ай бұрын

    Hey sis🥺 I’ve been feeling God calling me to get on a platform to share the revelations He gives me as well as the Gospel. It’s been a heavy burden on my heart to see lost souls saved and at the end when you said you actually contemplated starting a channel, I resonated heavily with that. I’ve been questioning whether now’s the right time. I’ve also been so worried about the views and what not. But I don’t want to start until I have the right motives. Of course I primarily want to see more souls saved but the fact that I’m worried about numbers is what’s bothering me. I love you as always Debs. I wish I could see you😭❤️. Love from Zambia🇿🇲

  • @nush_vaz
    @nush_vaz11 ай бұрын

    This entire video for meeee❤️❤️❤️ thank you Jesus

  • @yanadesiree1728
    @yanadesiree172811 ай бұрын

    thank you deborah, please 🙏🏻 help me with my health anxiety. i want to focus on my prayer instead of worrying about my health.

  • @shxronnn
    @shxronnn11 ай бұрын

    You are such a talented singer 😍💕

  • @Cavellification
    @Cavellification11 ай бұрын

    Thanks, my baby sister ❤❤❤❤

  • @amosngalimani1974
    @amosngalimani197411 ай бұрын

    Thank you, sis Deborah. Addictive dependency to the toxic past is a reality that reveals much impact of soul ties. I keep asking myself, "Do we continue with these memories in the hope that we will use our kingdom spouses when they come to finally accept the deliverance from Christ, and thus use them(future partners) as social blankets maybe? How fair would I be to the potential person if I keep my memories of the former toxic? Do I understand that God in His love demands faithfulness beyond forgiveness? Thank you for this continued awesome work. The Lord will continue to bring us to recognize the readily available help. Keep advancing, sister Deborah.

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