FAITH TALKS ✨| You are not alone! Fighting loneliness 🙏🏽

Welcome to Faith Talks! ✨
Let's talk about loneliness. In this broken word we all experience the feeling of being alone at some point in our lives, but I want to remind you of the truth. The truth with is that our Heavenly Father will never leave you nor forsake you. No matter what you feel, you are NEVER alone!!
Joshua 1:9
Have I not commanded you? Be strong and courageous. Do not be afraid; do not be discouraged, for the Lord your God will be with you wherever you go.”
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Chapters
00:00 - Intro
03:00 - Be Alert
09:00 - Don't rely on your feelings
11:45 - Look to Jesus
16:40 - Stop comparing
20:40 - Create new pathways
24:45 - By yourself but not lonely
26:30 - There's another in the fire
28:40 - We're in this together

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  • @lilyyowsah
    @lilyyowsah10 ай бұрын

    This is so freeing😊it’s point 4 for me. Stop comparing!!! 26 year old, living alone, no parental support, no stable partner, no kids, friends in other cities,no house… etc it’s so easy to feel alone. But true! we are all on different journeys. I just ask for strength for my journey. Love it😅 Lord help us to be okay just being with you until you take us into a new season. Happy Sunday everyone ❤ Keep going😊

  • @deborahbx_

    @deborahbx_

    10 ай бұрын

    Amen sis!! You are excited where you need to be right now! God has a plan tailored to you, and he’s right on track with it 🥰 Just find comfort in him, under his wings. He’s got you! We get to go even deeper with him in our single season. Let’s make the most of it 🥹🙌🏽 Happy Sunday to you too !

  • @lucywanjiku7634

    @lucywanjiku7634

    10 ай бұрын

    Bythaa comparing still the true Joy and I think it's a struggle Before you get to accept that God will never you not forsake you and mostly He can't deny you a good life because that one of the reason He came and died for us and av realized whatever you magnify will always control you

  • @lizrenteria5263

    @lizrenteria5263

    10 ай бұрын

    ❤❤❤

  • @UrBigSisKey

    @UrBigSisKey

    10 ай бұрын

    I was in the same boat for so long … I am now in a loving relationship and we are slowly building it up, I am 27. Loneliness is an illusion, happiness is found in the flow of life by connecting to God❤ Enjoy this season for all its beauty

  • @lilyyowsah

    @lilyyowsah

    10 ай бұрын

    @@UrBigSisKey I'm glad you are happy too🤗. I pray you have every more joy in your relationship and grow more in the Lord together as a couple🙏. Thank you 💌

  • @JustSheik
    @JustSheik10 ай бұрын

    Amen! I learned how close Jesus is when I was at my loneliest in life and since then have never felt that lonely again. God is good! He’s always there!❤

  • @deborahbx_

    @deborahbx_

    10 ай бұрын

    Wauw Amen! He will use the dark seasons to strengthen us and reveal himself like in no other season. It’s tough, but our God promises to be with us in the Valley of the shadow of Death. He’s such a good father 🥰🤍

  • @nammyblinknjoroge

    @nammyblinknjoroge

    10 ай бұрын

    ​@@deborahbx_You are right i mostly feel lonely and at that time just wqnt to stay by my self.. While am the same person who mentors the teenagers from church and they expect me to be their mirror and i feel soo bad that i feel this way. I realized that I am my worst enemy 😢and it hurts me alot.. Especially right now when i wanna go to campus i don't know how am going to deal with me

  • @nataliefunk4895
    @nataliefunk489510 ай бұрын

    Thank you for this message. I’m 53, not married, no kids, on disability, serious church hurt, 15 year relationship that is not going to marriage, friends have left me. Please pray as I have no purpose or things to do with my life with the inabilities that I have. I feel like giving up.

  • @deborahbx_

    @deborahbx_

    10 ай бұрын

    Sis!! I will be praying for you. I am so sorry to hear about the struggles that you’re facing right now. It sounds like it’s all piling on at the same time. Please know that you’re not alone and that you do indeed have a purpose!!! You do!! There’s still breath in your lungs which means that our Heavenly Father still needs you here. There’s an assignment on your life! I pray that our God will strengthen you through this season. May he pour his presence out over you and guide you on where to go next. May your circumstances turn around in a way that only God can! May your life be a testimony to many other of Gods goodness. You are loved beyond measure, not forgotten. Look to Jesus, just focus on him! Matthew 6:33!! All else will be provided by your Heavenly Father in his perfect timing 🤍🤍

  • @stellamarislegal

    @stellamarislegal

    10 ай бұрын

    Please don't give up, lean on the Holy Spirit to fill the needy spaces in your life and heart. You will find Him removing all you do not need and providing all that matters. Remain blessed and stay strong!

  • @julietfy2006

    @julietfy2006

    10 ай бұрын

    Jesus loves you. And is always present with you. May the Lord's presence encompass you roundabout that you feel His reality. Remember you can do ALL things through Christ who strengthens you. ❤

  • @graciakinyanjui6937

    @graciakinyanjui6937

    10 ай бұрын

    God had good plans for you dnt be discouraged

  • @amosngalimani1974

    @amosngalimani1974

    10 ай бұрын

    But Paul shouted, “Don’t harm yourself! We are all here!”-(Acts 16:28)

  • @johnnellh.3708
    @johnnellh.370810 ай бұрын

    I dont feel lonely anymore. I prayed about it continuously and God removed that feeling. Im a single parent of three and I have no other fam except my kids. I dont have any friends either. Im 37 and still get bullied by ppl and called ugly because I have a lazy eye. Ppl are so cruel to me and I try my best not to internalize it but thats hard and to always treat ppl better than they treat me. I wish I had friends but Im happy I dont have ppl pretending to be my friend like all my old friends throughout my life. My relationship with God and my deep connection to Him has helped to get me thru a lot in my life and it has helped me to heal from past traumas and past hurts. I was treated badly in past relationships and church so I dont go to church anymore after going every single service in my childhood. I tried to find a church without any success. I thank God and Jesus for being my friends.

  • @deborahbx_

    @deborahbx_

    10 ай бұрын

    oh sis 🤍 Your message has made me teary eyed. I'm so sorry for all the difficulty you've gone through in life. I'm sorry for how you've been treated by people around you, and in church also. We really fail each other incredibly a lot of times... It reminds me of Luke 23:24 when Jesus cried out to God saying: Forgive them Father, for they do not know what they are doing. It's so beautiful to hear how despite everything you're holding onto Jesus, knowing that he's your friend, your husband. You are his precious bride! You are so beautiful, precious and loved. I will be praying for you and your little ones. May God restore further what has been broken, may he pour out his favour and blessings over your life, and may he when the time is right bring some amazing women of God around you. Women who will build you up and be that community that Jesus speaks about numerous times. You're called to great things, and your testimony has already touched me in this moment. May it bless even more people, and may our Heavenly Father be glorified through you. Continue to shine your light sis! You're not alone, sending love and hugs!! 🤍🥰

  • @coolyt9307
    @coolyt930710 ай бұрын

    Hi Deborah, I just want to say that I feel God has truly blessed you with this KZread channel and others, the way it has grown so vast could only be God, thank you for listening to the Holy Spirit to post these videos.

  • @deborahbx_

    @deborahbx_

    10 ай бұрын

    Amen! Thank you so so much for your encouraging words. I couldn’t agree more, this is all Gods work. To God be all the glory, I cannot boast in any of it 🥺🤍 How gracious is our God that we get to be his vessel through which he speaks. Who are we that he considers us!? Thank you for being here with me. What a God we serve 🥰

  • @Bea-xc7wy

    @Bea-xc7wy

    9 ай бұрын

    I thought the same thing the other day. 27 videos and 46 thousand subscribers. That's really a miracle. I've never seen someone's channel grow so fast. It's also encouraging for us who watch.🙏🏼

  • @sylviamaina7862
    @sylviamaina786210 ай бұрын

    "You are not alone in the fire!" That is such a powerful line!

  • @Howze_Homemaking_Lifestyle
    @Howze_Homemaking_Lifestyle10 ай бұрын

    This came at the right time. I have been struggling these last few days with feeling lonely. Haven't been in my Word like i once was, and that's when things feel like they are falling apart. Thank you for this message.

  • @deborahbx_

    @deborahbx_

    10 ай бұрын

    Yeaa sis it’s very often when we take our eyes off Jesus and start to focus on the world that we feel lonely. There’s always a reason! I’ll pray for you, that you may long for the word of God again. That you may know that that’s where you’re found, with God. He’s always with you, through every season 🤗 You’re so precious, walk in it!

  • @YgalSharon
    @YgalSharon9 ай бұрын

    When you talked about your experience last year, I could not help but think of my own rejection ordeal I have experienced from every side ever since 21, 22, and 23. It's painful to go through rejection from every side. But I have found God's presence and voice in this ordeal. And yes, every moment every part of me feels like rejecting God, I hear His voice: I AM WITH YOU ALWAYS. In a very special bid in times of trials, God gently says " Draw closer to me". Remember when Elijah ran away from Jezebel? He was literally tired, exhausted and discouraged even with his ministry. He told God " I am not better than my ancestors". This sums up one of the greatest prophets of God's phase of frustration and desperation. It's amazing to see God calling him to go to the top of the mountain so that He could talk to him. The mountain has a vital meaning in the Bible. Moses, Elijah, and Jesus all went to the mountain to draw closer to God in the critical juncture of their ministries. This is where God calls His children too. If He isolates us, He surely is trying to make us draw closer to Him to use us for what He called us to. Our isolation is our mountain. Our isolation could be a sift that finally help get rid of impurities by staying closer to God. I know this is maybe contradictory to your topic, but my point is when God calls to isolation let us fully surrender, the time will surely come when He sends us in the world. I would also add that God isolates us to teach us to depend on Him alone. It has been arduous for me (I don't even know how my needs have been met on a day-to-daydaily but it has been miraculous) , ⠀and I am alive, healthy, and thriving. What a blessing! The enemy was maybe expecting me to give up on my faith in God, on my prayer habits, and give in to despair, blaming God, and toxic habits but my hope in God is stronger than ever before for I know that "my redeemer lives!" And I will keep praising God for the good and the bad. Humans will see a failure in me, but there is only victory in God.

  • @iamdebbie_love
    @iamdebbie_love10 ай бұрын

    Thank you so much! This is confirmation from God. Feelings are Fickle not Fake. 🙏🏾 God will never leave us nor forsake us “never, ever, ever”! Hebrews 13:5

  • @deborahbx_

    @deborahbx_

    10 ай бұрын

    Amen!! 🙏🏽

  • @AguedaP1zarro
    @AguedaP1zarro10 ай бұрын

    I don’t have a job and I feel so scared and lonely. My car has broken down twice but when I go to the mechanic after checking it out the car HAS NOTHING WRONG AND WORKS OUT GREAT. I know it’s you God, I know you are always with me. But I can’t help feeling alone and lost sometimes. Don’t let me fall Father.

  • @kingdomcitizen4788
    @kingdomcitizen478810 ай бұрын

    God has set me apart a number of times. With God it's not loneliness but feeling alone, you can sometimes feel alone, that's something else!

  • @noems7810
    @noems781010 ай бұрын

    Yes, Amen! 👏I’ve been a single mom all these years. I attempted to commit suicide before due to many broken relationships with men, but Jesus rescued me, and He renewed my mind. Whenever loneliness creeps in, I play worship music, and I start to praise and worship God, and my feelings start to change. I agree with you; we may be on our own, but we will never be alone, for the Lord our God is with us, the Holy Spirit, our perfect best friend. He will keep in perfect peace, whose mind is stayed on Jesus, because He trusts in Him (Isaiah 26:3). I Thank the Lord for using your life for those who battle loneliness and depression, for it’s not an easy journey, and we need a sister like you to encourage. God bless you, and God’s has a wonderful plan for you, lovely and unique. Emmanuel!🌸

  • @deborahbx_

    @deborahbx_

    10 ай бұрын

    Amen sis!! 🤍 I'm so sorry about the difficulties you've had to go through to get here. I cannot imagine how hard that must've been. But I'm so grateful to hear that you've made it through. You are loved and needed here! There is still a calling on your life. May our Heavenly Father strengthen you and guide you to all that he has for you. Jesus is your bridegroom, he is constantly persuing you and loving on you. No man on earth will be able to take his place. That being said, may God send an amazing God fearing man your way when the time is right 🤗

  • @yeliena
    @yeliena10 ай бұрын

    I'm so glad God has directed me to your channel. I can relate to every single struggle you've made a video about. You're literally doing God's work 💖

  • @deborahbx_

    @deborahbx_

    10 ай бұрын

    this is so incredible to hear, honestly you have no idea! It's proof that our suffering is being used for good. It's all a part of something so much bigger then ourselves. If I didn't go through what I went through I would not be here today 🤍 How amazing is our God!!

  • @nouraoceane770
    @nouraoceane77010 ай бұрын

    Honestly, I'm a teenager and i easily trust my feelings more than G.od. A good lesson i have to learn is to not rely on my feelings. I need more faith, and i wish you could pray for me too. I ran to your channel because you always bring peace into my heart. Thank you ❤ and our Lord

  • @deborahbx_

    @deborahbx_

    10 ай бұрын

    Amen! It’s definitely not easy, but learning to not rely on our feelings is what will allow us to trust God fully! To lean on him even when we don’t ‘feel’ it. He’s always there 🥹🤍 You’re so young and loved! There’s still so much ahead of you. Keep God first and he will establish your plans. Provers 16:3. May our Heavenly Father pour his presence, favour and blessings out over your life. No matter what you walk through, you’re never alone 🥰 it’s a blessing to have you here!

  • @missfefeloves
    @missfefeloves10 ай бұрын

    Been seeing too many videos on faith and I’ve been ignoring them but today I make the conscious decision to have faith no matter what and to rebuild my mindset

  • @deborahbx_

    @deborahbx_

    10 ай бұрын

    Amen!!! Sis you won’t regret it 🥳🤍 Nay our Heavenly Father strengthen you through this. He will show himself trust worthy time and time again. Place your trust in him, look to him. No matter what happens, he wants the best of the best for you 🥰

  • @jerseywomeninc.8640
    @jerseywomeninc.864010 ай бұрын

    Good Morning & Happy Sunday Everyone ❤🙏🏾

  • @deborahbx_

    @deborahbx_

    10 ай бұрын

    Morning sis!! 🤗 happy Sunday to you too xx

  • @ki6475
    @ki647510 ай бұрын

    I really love the create a new path section. The grass and dirt path analogy is really useful. Makes me not give up meditating on the truth because eventually it’ll become a easy path. And it’s like conditioning our brain. I am a psych major currently in school and I’ve been feeling lonely in the classrooms. Also I have recently seen and heard many couples all around me and I often say “well I’m lonely, am I ugly?” when I know that’s a lie. And I just compare myself a lot to what others have and what I don’t have. It does get overwhelming sometimes,but I’m gonna learn to create that new pathway in my heart and just choose to walk in truth and not be bothered by not being in a relationship, not gonna be bothered about not having peers to speak to. All that may come around next semester or next year etc. but your messages are always on time, always refreshing and sooooo relatable! I love it here! I’m so glad the Lord led me to you !! My big sister in Christ 🤍🤍

  • @mimik2496
    @mimik249610 ай бұрын

    The coat analogy is 🔥. That was a very important topic to address. The enemy hounds the lonely and he def reminds me consistently that I am alone. Really good faith talk and I enjoyed the longer format 🙌🏽. Thanks!

  • @tolu_matilda7077
    @tolu_matilda707710 ай бұрын

    This is so timely for me, I've been afraid or been lonely so much that I try to distract myself with movies and work but at the end I still have to deal with the feelings of lonely, I'm also in a season where I'm looking for where to stay and I was just dealing with this constant fear of been thrown out of where I'm currently staying. God bless you for these messages ❤️

  • @deborahbx_

    @deborahbx_

    10 ай бұрын

    You’re not alone 🤍 you might be by yourself but you’re not alone. When you meditate on the word of God, being by yourself won’t mean being lonely! There’s nothing better then sitting in silence and talking to your Heavenly Father who is always eager to hear from you!! I pray that you’ll get to experience that in this season of your life, the presence of God ☺️ You’re so loved. I’ll also be praying for your accommodation. Place it in Gods hands, he knows your fear within that and wants to provide a way. So give it to him, he won’t fail!

  • @tolu_matilda7077

    @tolu_matilda7077

    10 ай бұрын

    @@deborahbx_I'm actually just reading this message, and guess what I'm reading it in my new apartment. I actually got a house the next day after I posted this message. My pastor said something in service yesterday, he said sometimes our breakthrough is very close and we don't just know it because we can't see the future and the fact that God is working even when we don't see. Thank you so much Deborah, God bless you ❤️

  • @deandreamoore1883
    @deandreamoore188310 ай бұрын

    The way this blessed and convicted me 🥹 I’m literally experiencing this now. Navigating being a single mom, work and school, I’ve felt so lonely. It’s pushing me into isolation. This was confirmation! I’ve watched this twice already.

  • @deborahbx_

    @deborahbx_

    10 ай бұрын

    wauw, sis!! It's so incredible to hear how God is speaking to you through me! It's an honour to be a vessel! It sounds like you're going through a tough season to say the least. That's a lot to have on your plate. But you don't have to carry the load by yourself. Our Heavenly Father is with you! I'll be praying for you. May God bless you and your little one abundantly!! He sees you, being a single mom is tough, he knows that. May he strengthen you as a loving father does. There is sooo much he has in store for you and fruit that will come forth out of your life. All this suffering will be a key part in your testimony to speak into other peoples lives. It's all to give God glory 🥰 Trust him! His hand is upon you, you're not alone!! Sending lots of hugs and love xx Debs

  • @deandreamoore1883

    @deandreamoore1883

    10 ай бұрын

    @@deborahbx_ wow thank you so much and thanks for your obedience, allowing him to use you. I do believe this is meant for my testimony, so I’m trying to trust him. God bless you 🥹🙏🏼🫶🏼

  • @Cavellification
    @Cavellification10 ай бұрын

    Praise 👏 GOD from whom ALL blessings flow, praise him ALL creatures here below! My little sister ALWAYS come through for me! We serve an AWESOME GOD! You ALWAYS make my day. When I'm at my lowest point, you ALWAYS hit on the right topic 💯 Thank you so much. You are doing an amazing job. May GOD continue to speak through you to his children.❤

  • @deborahbx_

    @deborahbx_

    10 ай бұрын

    Amen!!! May our Heavenly Father continue to speak into your life to let you know that you’re not alone. You are so so so loved and precious 🥹🤍 Priceless!!

  • @karolinasobisz5968
    @karolinasobisz59689 ай бұрын

    So powerful! This is one of the biggest lie that the enemy uses against us. „You are alone”. It’s a great reminder to always fight it with the truth and not try to succumb to it or numb it.

  • @withlovebyads
    @withlovebyads10 ай бұрын

    What a GEM of a Woman! How do you manage to speak my hearts meditation every 👏🏾 time 👏🏾 Thank God for the Holy Spirit. The spirit really is one 🙏🏾

  • @deborahbx_

    @deborahbx_

    10 ай бұрын

    Amen!! The spirit is one!! He knows exactly what you need when you need it sis, and he will speak through whoever to get to you. His pursuit for you is intenseeee 🥰 To him be all the glory!! I'm just a vessel 🤍

  • @AyzlPsalms
    @AyzlPsalms10 ай бұрын

    You're literally Godsent🤍🙌🏾....thank you Lord for Deborah , stay blessed,faithful and in alignment for God's will in your life!!!!!!

  • @prettypinkprophetess
    @prettypinkprophetess10 ай бұрын

    It seems like every time I’m going through a situation, you always come through with the exact topic😮‍💨🤍 I was put in my isolation season three months ago, where it’s just been me n God. Now I feel like He’s trying to push me out of that season🥺 So leaving that bubble of being isolated for so long and enjoying only His presence and entering the world again has been…not in my favor to say at least😂 I just want to run home and read my Bible all day, but the Lord is telling me it’s time to venture out.

  • @deborahbx_

    @deborahbx_

    10 ай бұрын

    Hahah ahh sis! I know the feeling trust me. I also love it in my bubble with God. It’s so safe there 😁 But we have been called to be the light in the darkness. And our Heavenly Father is with us when we step out into the world no matter what we’re faced with!! There are so many spaces and people that need you 🥹. May God strengthen you and keep you. May his favour be upon you wherever you go. He delights in you! 🤍

  • @prettypinkprophetess

    @prettypinkprophetess

    9 ай бұрын

    @@deborahbx_ thank you so much it means a lot🥹🫶🏾 May God continue to work on you and through you as well. You are helping and inspiring many other young women like me to keep going for the Lord🤍

  • @adelevandie
    @adelevandie10 ай бұрын

    This has started healing a lot of wounds inside of me right now! Yeah, 😭 a whole lot! But as God never left and forsaken Moses, so he is with me Joshua 1:5! I ❤️ love you 👑 Lord.

  • @deborahbx_

    @deborahbx_

    10 ай бұрын

    Amen my sis 🥹🤍 Our heavenly is with you every step of the way. Even in the fire, in the struggles, in the valley of the shadow of death he’s right there beside you! May you know that you know that you’re not alone, never! You’re so precious and valuable to God! He would give anything for you. Isaiah 43:4 🤍 Since you are precious and honored in my sight, and because I love you, I will give people in exchange for you, nations in exchange for your life.

  • @adelevandie

    @adelevandie

    10 ай бұрын

    @@deborahbx_ Beautiful! Amen! Thank you, sis, and God bless you. Holding on to this word this week ❤️.

  • @7rh7n7
    @7rh7n722 күн бұрын

    I come back to this video whenever that feeling of loneliness take over to remind myself that i am NOT alone! i have God, i have my Family here to support me! I thank God for always being here with me🩷

  • @chosenkeke
    @chosenkeke10 ай бұрын

    This is crazy because I just ended a relationship that I was in I felt as if God was going to use me to help him receive salvation and I just realize the more that I was in this relationship the more lonely I felt the more distance our communication was and the lack of quality time together and today is our four month anniversary and I broke things off last night and now I’m just trusting God through this process because I was indulging into sin in this relationship and I know that relationship was allowing me to get into things that I had no business even being in.

  • @iamartoriah
    @iamartoriah10 ай бұрын

    Listening to this reminds me... I do forget that God's paid for it, I feel indebted to him and as anyone would want to pay for their debt it's human, it's grace that's reminds me, there's no need to repay just remember to love... Love the Lord your God with all your heart, mind and strength and love your neighbor as yourself. It's important to learn this is true love, which to me, is only found in Corinthians ❤ so feeling lonely is ok but we truthfully are never alone and we should make our Lord's love so important that we never feel lonely

  • @deborahbx_

    @deborahbx_

    10 ай бұрын

    Yess Amen!! Thank you so much for your profound words, you are so right! We all forget what Jesus has done for us sometimes. Having to earn our righteousness is not what God wants for us. That’s why he sent his one and only son. We don’t deserve it. It’s definitely good to remind ourselves of that from time to time. We can’t boast in ourselves, only in Christ. With a humble heart we can walk knowing that we’re free and never ever alone. You are so right in saying that it’s ok to feel lonely sometimes, it’s part of life. But we can’t camp there, our Heavenly Father has soooo much more for us! May we walk in that truth every single day of our lives 🥹🤍

  • @iamartoriah

    @iamartoriah

    10 ай бұрын

    @@deborahbx_ ❤️❤️❤️ it's part of His truth for us, we are loved and wanted by our Heavenly Father. Who else can love us so much that He would give up everything just to say to us, you are my child, worth more to me than all I am, all I have made, you are my most wonderful gift. That's a Father our Abba

  • @SeparatedGirl
    @SeparatedGirl10 ай бұрын

    Lord!!! Deborah I'm inspired by your consistency. May The Lord be your strength and bless your ministry.

  • @amazinglove254
    @amazinglove25410 ай бұрын

    ❤ thanks for being vulnerable. You are a source of encouragement.

  • @deborahbx_

    @deborahbx_

    10 ай бұрын

    🥹🤍 To God be all the glory!! May he continue to encourage you on the path he’s laid out in front of you!

  • @isyark
    @isyark2 ай бұрын

    A few days ago, I felt God speak to me, hinting that my singleness might not only be for my own benefit, but also for the people around me. For example, it could be for my flatmate who often has her boyfriend over. God can use this season of singleness to communicate something to them and inspire those around us who are seeking to embrace singleness. We just have to walk in faith 🤍

  • @elsie9434
    @elsie943410 ай бұрын

    I rest in my lord & savior Jesus Chris! Our feelings is like the weather 😂😂😂

  • @DeAndreD
    @DeAndreD10 ай бұрын

    I wanted to take a second and celebrate you in your constant shepherding of others; I genuinely enjoy how you are glorifying Jesus by leading others to Him through the sharing of your testimony and perspective around challenges we all face in our walks. Keep delivering, keep going, we are all cheering for you and I'm excited to see the people and community that God will put around you in the days to come.

  • @deborahbx_

    @deborahbx_

    10 ай бұрын

    ahh thank you so so much for your encouraging words! It means a lot so thank you! To our Heavenly Father be all the glory, I would truly be in the wrong to take any credit.. He is so so good and has called us to great things as his beloved children. We just have to tune in. It's really a blessing to get to partner with him in what he's doing in our generation 🤗 Thank you again, it's a blessing to have you here.

  • @nikkic2710
    @nikkic271010 ай бұрын

    Timely Word...I myself are going through church hurt and I am praying that I dont allow it to take me in dark places as when I love....I love really hard and thus I tend to get hurt real hard😭whenever I expected others to do the same and they dont....but I know I wont falter/fail....I serve a mighty big God💯💯💯💯I will get through this.....THANK YOU SO MUCH DEBS FOR YOUR OBEDIENCE IN SHARING THIS WORD....I APPRECIATE YOU🧡💯💯🙏🏾

  • @deborahbx_

    @deborahbx_

    10 ай бұрын

    Ahhh I can relate to loving hard and hurting hard because of that! It can be so so painful, but it's also a blessing that you've been given such a beautiful heart. You're special to our heavenly father. Don't let previous hurt make you bitter! I pray that you may continue to be loving towards others, in this day and age that is rare and needed. May God bless you and strengthen you. Don't dim your light! You are precious in God's eyes 🤍

  • @nikkic2710

    @nikkic2710

    10 ай бұрын

    @@deborahbx_ ..Amen 🙏🏾🙌🙌Continue to grow from strength to strength into the Lord my sis..your Labor is not in vain and all things gonna work for your good for our God Never fails💯🙏🏾🙏🏾🙌🙌Love and appreciate you always ❤️

  • @lucywanjiku7634
    @lucywanjiku763410 ай бұрын

    Yees😂 sometimes feelings control us but wen realize that they're not our say we choose to depend on God completely and the sweat thing about God He leads us we just have to let Him 🙏 much love from kenya ❤

  • @deborahbx_

    @deborahbx_

    10 ай бұрын

    Amen sis!!! It’s hard, but it’s a journey, we’re learning as we go 🤗 May we learn to trust our Heavenly Father a bit more every day🤍

  • @lucywanjiku7634

    @lucywanjiku7634

    10 ай бұрын

    @@deborahbx_ you know before I thought that getting born again I'll be transform overnight so when I used to feel lonely or maybe compare I thought that there's no change even wen you get born again But I thank God through His word and using people like you I'm able to understand more about what's Christianity and trusting in God completely

  • @tofubu
    @tofubu10 ай бұрын

    This message has definitely come at the right time :') I really feel God calling me to come back because I've been struggling with loneliness and comparison a lot recently. But I am so glad we have a God who cares and loves us so much that he would never forsake/leave us. Its very important to not rely on our feelings so I'm working on this myself, this season has been so hard but i know God is always with me and will bring me out of it. Thank you so much for this message and God loves you so much always too!

  • @deborahbx_

    @deborahbx_

    10 ай бұрын

    Amen!! Comparison is the killer of joy. It's an attempt of the enemy to keep us out of everything that God has called us to. I'll pray against the spirit of comparison in your life! The devil has no power over you so he has to flee. May God strengthen you and keep you. May he pour his blessings and favour out over your life. He's with you 🤗

  • @tofubu

    @tofubu

    10 ай бұрын

    @@deborahbx_Yes! I agree, it is a very difficult journey, but I have to be reminded that God will work things when its the right time and what is in his will. Thank you so much, I truly appreciate the prayers :) I also pray that God gives you strength and peace during any times of difficulties. He will always fight our battles and win for God is always good ! He is always with you too

  • @ResoundingBeauty
    @ResoundingBeauty10 ай бұрын

    Thanks for sharing. I can relate to number 4. I tend to compare myself to others alot .

  • @deborahbx_

    @deborahbx_

    10 ай бұрын

    I’m definitely guilty of it too 😵‍💫. But it’s a journey, we will learn along the way! Our God is patient with us. He loves us so so much :)

  • @francie.6200
    @francie.620010 ай бұрын

    I LOVE your channel! It’s been such a blessing! So thankful to the Lord I found you on KZread! I’m currently praying for my own place for me and my little my family. (It sucks when you live with others who don’t respect your belongings) Your apartment testimony is such a great reminder of who God is ❤ God bless Deborah!

  • @deborahbx_

    @deborahbx_

    10 ай бұрын

    Ahhh praise be to the lord for bringing you here!! 🤗 It's really a blessing to have you. I'll be praying for a home for you and your family! May what God has done for me be done for you also. He is sooo able and willing. I know the feeling of frustration when sharing with people who don't respect your space or belongings. It really is horrible! Just place your full trust in him, he will make it happen in his perfect timing. Just keep your eyes locked on him, as I always mention: Matthew 6:33🤍 He won't fail you.

  • @francie.6200

    @francie.6200

    10 ай бұрын

    @@deborahbx_ amen 🥹❤️🙏🏽

  • @BetsyLyzette
    @BetsyLyzette10 ай бұрын

    Feeling lonely and comparing has been trying to attack me lately, especially on social media. My birthday was last week and when I made a post on my Instagram while thanking GOD for another year of life, NO ONE bothers to comment happy birthday under that post on IG, but then I compare to one of my friend birthday yesterday, he made a post saying happy birthday to me (to himself) he got a long list of happy birthday love. But it's all good, I know God has celebrated me and still fill me up in HIS LOVE. And that alone is enough ❤ my 289 IG friends don't need to comment to make me feel good. I'm feelings is invalid anyways. I just need to hang on to Jesus and his truth! Thank you for this video ❤

  • @kissofdeathbeckajoybells9187
    @kissofdeathbeckajoybells918710 ай бұрын

    Love you my sister in Christ! Thank you for posting this much needed! God bless you! Keep shining ☕️☀️🌟💋

  • @deborahbx_

    @deborahbx_

    10 ай бұрын

    Love you too sis 🥰🤍 Thank you so much for your encouragement! To God be all the glory. Be blessed and walk in what he’s called you to walk in 🤗

  • @Openreality
    @Openreality10 ай бұрын

    We all have different experiences from each other, yet we are all as believers going through trials and tribulations. That is how we are used to reach different people and witnessing to them. Great video. God is using you in a mighty way. May God continue to bless you.

  • @deborahbx_

    @deborahbx_

    10 ай бұрын

    Yesss Amen!! Everything is being used by him for good. May he be glorified through our sufferings 🤍 Thank you for your comment and for being here :) It's truly a blessing!

  • @jmc1017
    @jmc10173 ай бұрын

    I love and appreciate your wisdom

  • @stanleyegbuson1113
    @stanleyegbuson111310 ай бұрын

    Hello Deborah,thanks for this message very timely,I have dealt with this in the past.May the Lord continue to encourage you as you encourage others.Much love from Nigeria

  • @Graceandfaith15
    @Graceandfaith1510 ай бұрын

    I have been praying for God sent friendships for so long. God gave me fellowship with other believers, they are nice but they cant relate to me and we share nothing in common, not even same level of faith. The more I go to church the more alone I feel but this is the better church out of a lot Ive been to.....everyone is friendly and ive made church friends but afterwards I feel spiritually robbed and depleted its just been so dry for so long and I'm an extrovert. I dont even get lonely but none of these people around me even seem like from God

  • @schap562
    @schap56210 ай бұрын

    Thank you for sharing this word. I’m 61 and I have been feeling this way for a long time and wanted to end my life. But after watching this video I now realize that I’m not alone. 🙏🏽🥰🦋

  • @deborahbx_

    @deborahbx_

    10 ай бұрын

    Amen!! You are absolutely not alone sis! I'm so sorry to hear how the enemy has been taking hold of your thoughts. You're needed here, there is air in your lungs which means that there's still a calling on your life. There are still people who need your wisdom, your smile, your love!! I pray against every spirit of depression and loneliness on your life in the name of Jesus. May our Heavenly Father breathe new life into dreams and desires on your heart that seemed dead. Theres still so much life to live! May his favour be upon you. Be blessed, you're his precious daughter whom he loves so much. He's with you 🥰🤍 It's a blessing to have you here with me!

  • @user-ef8dt5dm5t
    @user-ef8dt5dm5t10 ай бұрын

    ameen! 🥺 John 16:32 - 16:33 "but the time is coming - indeed it's here now - you will be scattered, each one going his own way, leaving me alone. Yet I am not alone because the Father ist with me. I have told you all this so that you may have peace in me. Here on earth you will have many trials and sorrows. But take heart, because I have overcome the world"

  • @igboyaalale6145
    @igboyaalale614510 ай бұрын

    Wow, almost 40 000 subscribers already??? That's what I call a blessing!! Thank HIM and Thank You Deborah for spending your time and energy to bring people closer to G od.

  • @priscillas4722
    @priscillas472210 ай бұрын

    I found your channel not too long ago and it has been such a blessing! 🥰 this message resonates so much with me. I’m also single, living back home, back in college and with little friends. I often feel out of place and not sure where I belong, but God always reminds me that I will always belong with him! 🩷 I truly believe he’s using you to speak and bring comfort to so many! 🥰 may God keep using you and blessing you! 🤍

  • @deborahbx_

    @deborahbx_

    10 ай бұрын

    Amen sis!! 🤗 It's hard sometimes when our walk through life seems so unconventional. But we can find comfort in the fact that we are exactly where we need to be. You are right where God wants you right now. He's with you, he loves you, and since there is air in your lungs there's still a calling on your life :) He's also the master of launching us forward in ways that are beyond us sooo haha. Don't worry, he's got you 🥰 Thank you for your kind words, and thank you for being here with me!

  • @user-ej1gb5fg7v
    @user-ej1gb5fg7v10 ай бұрын

    Girl you are my church...🙏 Amen!

  • @deborahbx_

    @deborahbx_

    10 ай бұрын

    We’re in this together sis!! 🤍

  • @mrsamb-beautyisshe
    @mrsamb-beautyisshe10 ай бұрын

    As you was talking the Holy Spirit tell me to ask on here for prayer for my daughter she’s in a dark place anger regret and hate is overflowing I been called all sorts and I’ve been is a mother to her ,her walls are build so high she’s busy divorcing and she’s in denial the man Dont want her anymore he moved on…what hurt is that I became her target I really tried to be there for her but I can see the hatred in her eyes towards me now she’s keeping my grand daughter from me I’m heartbroken 💔 Lord have mercy there was another in the fire standing next to me ,,,

  • @deborahbx_

    @deborahbx_

    10 ай бұрын

    I will be praying for you momma!! 🤍 our Heavenly Father is with you. He sees you, you’re not standing alone. There IS another in the fire. God sees the relationships between you and your daughter, he sees the hurt it’s causing. May he soften your daughters heart. May he speak to her in a way only he can to lead her back to him. He will leave the 99 to get the 1. May he do that for your beloved daughter also. Keep loving her, be patient and gracious. I can imagine how hard that must be when she’s treating you the way she is, but when we’re called to love when its the hardest. May your posture towards her plants seeds of love within her hardened heart. She’s also not alone! I’ll be praying over her! Thank you for sharing 🤍🤍

  • @kelldees6324
    @kelldees632410 ай бұрын

    God is so good… when we seek him it’s just amazing what he’ll reveal and assure us 🤍🙏🏽

  • @nylapsalms4678
    @nylapsalms467810 ай бұрын

    This a really good talk it speaks on a season many of us is in and I know for me it's hitting home I lost my house less then a year ago and since then I've been staying with family and it hasn't been easy but the enemy had his moments with me but God step in and I know my break threw is on the way. God bless you Big Sis of Christ 😊

  • @TrinityCmone
    @TrinityCmone8 ай бұрын

    Great video as always! ❤️ someone once told me have Grace over fire. So whenever I’m going through something I always remember that.

  • @deborahbx_

    @deborahbx_

    8 ай бұрын

    Yess amen! This is so powerful 🥹🤍 thanks for sharing

  • @syrettexo4554
    @syrettexo455410 ай бұрын

    Good morning from the U.S !! I just wanted to say thank you for sharing psalm 23 by the peoples song. When I listen to it I feel better I feel more encouraged to keep fighting and not give up. God bless you and the work you are doing for the Kingdom Deborah 🤎

  • @stargirl_max
    @stargirl_max10 ай бұрын

    ❤🎉Watching from South Africa. Thank You for devoting your life to God and inspiring us to the same 😊

  • @deborahbx_

    @deborahbx_

    10 ай бұрын

    Ahh it’s such a blessing to have you here from so far away!! 😃 To God be all the glory for connecting us. Thank you for being here :)

  • @centpushups
    @centpushupsАй бұрын

    Church hurt is real hurtful. But it seems the more involved I get the more it happens. Just need to be aware of that.

  • @austinstanley8484
    @austinstanley848410 ай бұрын

    I loved the message Deborah...especially when you pointed to the Lord Jesus as our divine receipt to our sin debt.Loneliness as a subject is what i have been feeling recently like i attimes i feel like i dont want to move on with anything.What a rhema word.Thanks once again to your beautiful self..you are so awesome and i enjoyed every minute too the video wasn't long trust me..haha

  • @walleneabrahams9019
    @walleneabrahams901910 ай бұрын

    God is REALLY speaking to me through 1 Peter 5:8.... I just highlighted it in my Bible last night and now you mention it too. Thank you Deborah, you are such a great gift from God and such an AMAZING sister in Christ💞♥

  • @deborahbx_

    @deborahbx_

    10 ай бұрын

    waaauw that's confirmation right there!! Coincidences don't exist with our heavenly father 🥰

  • @lylia.m5091
    @lylia.m50915 ай бұрын

    I feel very lonely and all by myself lately , but instead of self pity like i used to do , i try to focus on His word , like you said in this video "create new path". it really gave me new kind of attitude this time . Anyway , thank you for this talk sis Deborah , God bless you❤

  • @Giouii
    @Giouii10 ай бұрын

    I actually really need your words today. Thanks!

  • @aglaemascary9362
    @aglaemascary93629 ай бұрын

    SUPERPOWERFUUUULLLL, BLESSING, UPLIFTING MESSAGE, BEAUTIFUUUULLLL QUEEN !!!! 1000 × TIMES/ THANKS YOU !!!! 💜🤎🤎💜🙌🏽👌🏽🫶🏾🤲🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽👊🏽👊🏽💎👑

  • @madeleinem528
    @madeleinem5287 ай бұрын

    I've gone through similiar things as you and I'm trying to recovery from all of this. I'm so grateful for what are you doing on this channel and that God brought me here.

  • @Olwe2_ziqubu
    @Olwe2_ziqubu4 ай бұрын

    Love your transparency❤. You are soo relatable❤❤❤😭😭😭

  • @zechariah4663
    @zechariah466310 ай бұрын

    For such a time as this..... Deborah. Thank you for this. I needed to see and hear this in my season of waiting for my daughter and I to be reconciled. You R AMAZING young woman AND YOU R EXACTLY WHERE YOU ARE SUPPOSED TO BE....FOR THE NATIONS!!! Auntie Tara from the United States

  • @jifunzekiingerezanadorothy
    @jifunzekiingerezanadorothy10 ай бұрын

    Thank you so much Deborah! You are such a blessing ❤

  • @alicemulongo3048
    @alicemulongo304810 ай бұрын

    Thank you so much, Deb❤ Really needed to hear this.. God bless you

  • @laurab5296
    @laurab529610 ай бұрын

    Thank you Deborah 💖

  • @svbrxnesetrodjemino
    @svbrxnesetrodjemino10 ай бұрын

    You Know what’s Funny.. when you were explaining about comparison to other girls In my mind I was saying “But you are so Beautiful and Gorgeous, why would you think that you look so Confident in the Lord” and then it Hit me: 1. That’s how sneakyy the enemy is, 2. how everyone is going through their trials with the enemy in different ways but the enemy uses the same tactic and lies 3. It is soo easy for me to call you beautiful yet I myself find myself in this same lie. Lord, I pray for our minds and not to rely on our feelings rather to keep our eyes on you and guard our hearts by dwelling in your truth and the truth about who God says we are!🤍 *Stay Strong in the Lord Loves because in Jesus we have the Victory! And Thank You Sis, may the Holy Spirit continue to guide you in the work you are doing for the Lord🤎

  • @nammyblinknjoroge
    @nammyblinknjoroge10 ай бұрын

    Thank you for that message it means alot💫🥀

  • @Minky_M
    @Minky_M10 ай бұрын

    Thank you for this, I always look forward to your videos because honestly, you are speaking directly to me, I relate so much. ❤

  • @carolinebobo
    @carolinebobo10 ай бұрын

    Thankyou sis for this.

  • @odomaa1
    @odomaa110 ай бұрын

    Thank you for this message. So timely and authentic ❤

  • @sarahj1708
    @sarahj170810 ай бұрын

    Thanks Sis ❤ your videos are all always a word in season for me. Continue to walk in the calling that God has on your life and may you prosper more and more. You are making a bigger impact than you know. Blessings ❤

  • @kelseyaleah
    @kelseyaleah10 ай бұрын

    You are so beautiful! This message was right on time for me. Thank you❤

  • @AllthingsAandI
    @AllthingsAandI10 ай бұрын

    Thank you Deborah I needed this👏

  • @DimmaJoel
    @DimmaJoel10 ай бұрын

    I really needed this right now😢. Thank you so much.

  • @Mbapeua2
    @Mbapeua210 ай бұрын

    Always looking forward to your Faith talks❤❤❤❤i am so blessed

  • @priscillarodriguez3102
    @priscillarodriguez310210 ай бұрын

    Hi Deborah, thank you so much for this message, I really needed to hear it and understand it. You have a great new week. Smile 😃

  • @deborahbx_

    @deborahbx_

    10 ай бұрын

    To our Heavenly Father be all the glory Priscilla 🥰 He loves you so so much. You’re never alone! God bless you 🤍

  • @G-uu9yf
    @G-uu9yf10 ай бұрын

    Thanks, Deborah!

  • @nanciespencer6506
    @nanciespencer650610 ай бұрын

    So True & Powerful!! ( Affirmation)

  • @naysx12
    @naysx1210 ай бұрын

    Hey Deb I like how you carry yourself.. x Thankyou for doing these videos. Much love

  • @deborahbx_

    @deborahbx_

    10 ай бұрын

    Thank you so much sis 🥹🤍 To our God be all the glory! It’s a blessing to have you here, sending much love back 🥰

  • @naysx12

    @naysx12

    10 ай бұрын

    @@deborahbx_can you please do a video on carrying hurt (depression) however the Holy Spirit leads x

  • @user-hp9qz2oe8b
    @user-hp9qz2oe8b10 ай бұрын

    Thank you for another blessed message

  • @LayerFarm.
    @LayerFarm.10 ай бұрын

    Am Orlando, Watching from Cameroon. May the Holy Spirit keep Strengthening and directing you in Jesus name. A lot of young people today I think really need to hear this from you, someone of their age group who has had almost a similar experience like them and has now encountered Jesus and is a living testimony. Keep spreading the good news of Our Lord and saviour Jesus Christ. This generation needs Jesus like never before. Thank you for making yourself available for the Lord. Continue to grow in God's wisdom, knowledge and leading of the Holy Spirit in Jesus name. We as young people today, especially Christians mustn't give into peer pressure or conform to the patterns of today's society but look upto Jesus Christ alone, the source and core of our being, knowing that everything we need, he's going to provide. He's still the God of Elijah, Apostle Paul and the prophets of old. He's still that same God who divided the read sea and was with Joshua, still in the business of doing miracles and He will never change. His unconditional love for us He will never compromise. Whenever we call he will answer, whenever we're in pain He's there with us and will deliver us and even in sin He still loves us though He hates the sin. Thank you for sharing Deborah, may our good God continue to bless and increase you in Jesus name

  • @user-zx9pd9cw9t
    @user-zx9pd9cw9t10 ай бұрын

    Blessed sunday, God bless you!🙏🏾

  • @deborahbx_

    @deborahbx_

    10 ай бұрын

    Same to you!! May our Heavenly Father bless you and keep you. He goes before you 🥰 Numbers 6:24-26

  • @user-zx9pd9cw9t

    @user-zx9pd9cw9t

    10 ай бұрын

    @@deborahbx_ Amen, thank you sister in Christ ❤️🙏🏾

  • @torizelite4976
    @torizelite49764 ай бұрын

    Thanks so much for sharing this , wow this was so touching ❤❤

  • @Ohthemarvelousmusic
    @Ohthemarvelousmusic9 ай бұрын

    There are so many relatable points you talk about that is the same as my own, my insecurities and current trials and hardships of sorts. Thank you for making these videos. God bless you!

  • @lea.mathilda
    @lea.mathilda10 ай бұрын

    may the lord bless you for how much your videos are helping me!

  • @ahastariyam9345
    @ahastariyam93459 ай бұрын

    Your channel has been a blessing to me, I just discovered it yesterday and I love it, thank you girl, I'm already praying for you ❤

  • @ericawright4064
    @ericawright406410 ай бұрын

    Continue to do what ur doing, this is a blessing we need it❤

  • @kehindechidiebere
    @kehindechidiebere10 ай бұрын

    Thank you so much Deborah. I felt better knowing I am not alone and God is with me. May continue to bless you as you bless us.

  • @naazeavlogs
    @naazeavlogs6 ай бұрын

    Thank you so much for this video. I was literally about to cry today because I felt so alone❤

  • @yvonnedonaldson53
    @yvonnedonaldson5310 ай бұрын

    Your messages are always on point and so helpful. Thank you and may God continue to use you has a vessel to help others. Amen 🙏🏾

  • @mrm8584
    @mrm858410 ай бұрын

    Deborah these videos come with such perfect timing. God is using you in powerful ways

  • @nicolerose0724
    @nicolerose072410 ай бұрын

    Thank you I've been growing in Christ and looking for a community of believers. God Bless you.

  • @deborahbx_

    @deborahbx_

    10 ай бұрын

    Welcome sis 🥰🤍 You’re not alone! I know how tough it is to find a community where you feel welcomed. I’ll pray that you may also find that in your day to day life. May God provide faith centred friendships for you to grow in 🤗

  • @barrygraves5324
    @barrygraves532410 ай бұрын

    Great message, again! What hit home the loudest was stop comparing. Constantly reminding myself to block out the noise, the comparing etc. Stay UP..Keep going!!

  • @LovableMe137
    @LovableMe1379 ай бұрын

    You have such an anointing on your life girl!

  • @bjackk1
    @bjackk110 ай бұрын

    Preach Sister! Teach Sister! :) The Anointing is strong on you.

  • @jaydetemar
    @jaydetemar10 ай бұрын

    I absolutely love your spirit, you’ve spoken to me through every video I’ve watched so far! I’m so happy you made the decision to hear God and create this platform for other believers and those seeking God. You’re truly a vessel for the Lord’s work and that’s so special! I wish you many blessings in alignment with your journey, may God continue to cover you and this channel 💜💜💜💜

  • @guinelcloman6824
    @guinelcloman682410 ай бұрын

    Big Sis thank you so much ‼️ I feel like God is putting you every subject that I need to work out in this path with him . I feel like in this one I need to work it out more beside you clarified to me how to handle it even though is hard . For the last 6 months I been fighting a lot with one of the relative bc of way they do things that I found it unreasonable. It wasn’t nothing horrible is just that I find it unreasonable like MAKE MADE SENSE ‼️ and those action are making me be so far and bring hurt towards the person bc I feel like the person know what it did but never said I told you this bc of a fact or bc of a reason. And I feel like the person is making me pass it like nothing happened . When in reality I feel like it was wrong . is so hard for me .And the only thing I been doing is been away from the person . It hurt bc everything time we are doing or I try to do something together those thoughts and feelings are hunting me . And is like for not do what ppl call disrespect I just walk away . This season is been a season of making my myself to know more about me and my flaws but is been a rough one I’m not going to lie. I feel like every time I bring one foot ahead in reality I feel like I’m bringing both foot backwards. But yeah ‼️ thank you so much . I just need to take that out of me for a moment lol . Have a bless day